David Brooks Interview: How To Live A Meaningful Life

David Brooks opens up about the importance of vulnerability, attempting to lose ego, commitment, and reliability as a writer. He explores how American culture has changed over the past 60 years and why trust's been lost in our institutions and each other.
David Brooks is a journalist, author, and cultural and political commentator. He began his media career as a police reporter for the City News Bureau in Chicago before he joined The Washington Times in 1984. In 1986 he joined The Wall Street Journal, initially editing the paper’s book reviews and briefly serving as a film critic. He then worked from the paper’s Brussels office as an editor and foreign correspondent. By the end of his tenure at the Journal in 1994, he had become an editor of the paper’s opinion page. He became a senior editor at The Weekly Standard magazine at its inception in 1995. He was also a contributing editor of Newsweek magazine. In 2003 Brooks began writing an op-ed column for The New York Times. The following year he became a commentator on The NewsHour with Jim Lehrer.
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David Brooks, Columnist, The New York Times
Interviewed By: Teddy Kunhardt
Interview Date: October 17, 2019
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
00:17 American social fabric
04:09 Cultural changes
10:27 Looking inward
13:44 Losing ego
16:59 Family
18:44 Being a writer
23:20 Childhood
27:40 Summer camp
30:38 Grandfather
34:35 The American dream
35:54 College
41:47 Bill Buckley
45:15 Starting a career in journalism
50:49 The Weekly Standard
52:32 The New York Times
55:36 Jim Lehrer
59:45 Life as a political pundit
01:02:04 Meritocracy
01:05:48 Straight talk express
01:10:16 Prison of individualism
01:13:54 Leaving the conservative party
01:21:30 Happiness vs. joy
01:24:46 Finding happiness
01:32:40 Marriage
01:36:06 Living life as a gift
01:41:49 Transformational moments
01:44:21 Gaining wisdom
01:46:29 The Road to Character
01:52:30 Soul
01:57:22 The first mountain
01:59:49 The valley
02:07:24 The second mountain
02:11:01 Becoming radicalized
02:12:58 Overcoming weakness
02:15:38 Mind and reason vs. heart and soul
02:18:26 Deep love
02:20:08 Joyful people
02:22:23 The Social Fabric Project
02:34:19 Finding purpose
02:36:31 Kindness
02:39:36 Vocation vs. career
02:45:06 Forgiveness
02:46:42 Sarah Adkins
02:52:40 Radical mutuality
02:54:31 The second mountain
02:57:18 E.O. Wilson
02:59:31 Bruce Springsteen
03:03:28 Building community
03:07:09 Rippers
03:08:40 Unconditional love
03:12:21 Personal conversations
03:15:49 Forming a flock
03:17:39 Moving self to service
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[@denise2169]

This talk is about what it means to be truly human. I am lucky to have reached age 72, and now I want to be a better person because of what I have learned from this talk. Thank you, Mr Brooks, for giving my life new meaning!

[@thomashawkinson373]

This has changed my life. I have spent many hours digesting all it contains. I was a burnt out nurse who spent a life of service to these values being spanked for it..I thought I would be a nurse my whole life but I couldn’t take the spanking for what was right anymore. I am now back in the game. My goals are bigger. I may be 70 but I feel like my life is just beginning.

[@tangiecleans312]

YES! Age doesn't matter, many people are alive and not "living." I'm 41 years old and have changed my career path several times.

[@kp6880]

Wow that is awesome! Me, too, I want to change. I'm doing it and it makes me feel like I am 30 years younger.

[@SM-jw5si]

This is beautiful. I used to work as a nursing assistant in a hospital. I will never forget the nurses who modeled deep care and compassion. I noticed that even the smallest actions in their care were rooted in a deep concern for the patient's well-being. Shadowing the ones that worked in this way inspired me to do better in my own patient care. It also gave my work meaning and a greater purpose that sort of built me up in a job that can otherwise very easily wear a person down. Anyhow, I just wanted to acknowledge that your renewed passion will undoubtedly inspire the nurses you work with long after you retire. It's been 20 years since I worked in a hospital, but the lessons in human compassion have been with me lifelong. Being so young and shy, I never told them how much their work impacted me, but the effects of their practice in compassion and care have no doubt rippled out through many lives, over many years.

[@audreyh3357]

I feel the same way. God bless you!🙏❤️🙏

[@M-T-123]

What if you were a Cuban Refugee, figuring out your place in the world? I don’t even know how to explain how I made it into an American Society who had very little support system? I made it , through the grace of God and my parents. I will never fit in but it gives me an edge on understanding everyone else is an outsider

[@LuccaWeber1]

Great video, a number of the most eminent market experts have been expressing their views on the severity of the impending economic downturn and the extent to which equities might plummet. This is because the economy is heading towards a recession and inflation is persistently above the Federal Reserve's 2% target. As I'm aiming to create a portfolio worth no less than $850,000 before I turn 60, I would appreciate any advice on potential investments.

[@emmaarmando]

There are many other interesting stocks in many industries that you might follow. You don't have to act on every forecast, so I'll suggest that you work with a financial advisor who can help you choose the best times to purchase and sell the shares or ETFs you want to acquire.

[@spacecadet6]

You're correct! With the help of an investment coach, I was able to diversify my 450K portfolio across markets and produce slightly more than $830K in net profit from high dividend yield equities, ETFs, and bonds.

[@noah-greene]

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[@spacecadet6]

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[@elease.eichersli]

I just looked up her name and her website popped up immediately, interesting stuff so far, about to schedule a session with her.

[@randyprice5392]

David Brooks pretty much sums up my feelings. Sounds like a good bye to the country I thought I knew, but maybe never existed at all. The USA isn’t a place, it’s people and ideals, and when that fails, so goes the country. A year after this interview, it’s even more true.

[@willowtreephoto]

I am a weaver. I am called to midwifery and I have gathered and woven community of parents. Having a new baby is sadly isolating in America. Thank you for this interview.

[@jackienzaner]

Love you!

[@valeriesmith6557]

I hear you Willow. Reach out if you need to. Drink water, call a friend. What you are doing, nurturing a child is the most important thing in the world. It is also the hardest. More people love you than you know.

[@melindamurillo4680]

You have my utmost respect and admiration. Thank you for all that you do. My kids are a little bit older now but I still look back at those early days very often, and the first thing I remember was how difficult, isolating and painful they were. Maybe it’s not too late to do something about it so that others don’t have to go through what I went through. People like you give me a lot of hope in humanity.

[@paulpierce3807]

As a liberal, my political views are certainly different than those of David Brooks. But as a human being, I find that my views about relationships, community, love and what’s important in life are very much in line with his. A master storyteller, Brooks brings a lifetime of knowledge, experience, curiosity, successes, failures and humility to every answer he gives in this interview. It is a dense 3+ hours of wisdom grounded in the past, alive in the present, and concerned for the future, that is worth every moment of your time.

[@soniatriana9091]

@ Paul Pierce. Wow! I like everything you said & how you said it! It’s perfect!!

[@shangobunni5]

@Paul Pierce I love what you wrote.

[@gsethkramer]

So well said! Exactly how I feel.

[@lindabulloch4672]

As a result of having lived through the long and impossible tangle of humiliations mixed with plastic pleasures, I am more likely to burst into laughter at the pitiful efforts I made to grow up. Most of the wisest travelers here observe that the real growth is down into the dark soil of my own body in its various ways. David Brooks has grown down into the roots of his own life, which requires a clear view of his bond with others together with the unspeakable reality of silence. Telling stories is his bridge. I am in his debt.

[@bullcrap9409]

The problem is that no matter how they talk, right-wingers all share both a moral failing and a blindness to facts and evidence.

[@reneebarclay8816]

My husband was a weaver. He brought together so many groups of people each year for Norwich Peace Camp to bring people together for the cause of Peace. This was a vocation for him. When he passed away so many people cane to pay their respects, even the Mayor of Norwich. His life was devoted to serving others.

[@davisholman8149]

Not devoted to MONEY…. Only people & relationship really matters. We don’t have connection to each other anymore.🥲

[@kjnoah]

I personally don't care who likes or loves me until they do. Once others find me useful, I appreciate the opportunity to fill their needs. Once I am found useless by others, I am happy to leave. I have a sense of value for myself that exceeds what others say or even think. My value exceeds what others desire for themselves.

[@tyronevincent1368]

Great post! São Jorge, Açores 🇵🇹

[@TheEstebandido83]

I am a die hard liberal and I love this man, love to listen to him always fair.

[@honuman39]

Did you know he's a right wing enabler and helped usher in the toxic GOP we have now? Follow his politics

[@deborahrose4076]

You should watch this entire interview.

[@shamskitz]

@@deborahrose4076 i already have twice

[@lisakinoshita3402]

Apparently no matter how much one abases oneself and aspires to live a richer life toward others, there will be plenty of people to criticize.

[@favianrodriguez8014]

me too

[@BriWilsAnd]

David Brooks is a national treasure, his writings will be taught 100 years from now.

[@user-un8tv1pp8m]

He´s already a rather irrelevant writer who made it his job to be pro-status-quo and pro powers-that-be. No surprises happening in that there writing. I doubt in 50 years anybody but specialized lit majors will even know the name.

[@BriWilsAnd]

@@user-un8tv1pp8m opinions are like assholes, everybody has one.

[@ClaytonHardee]

I awoke to this video playing on my KZbin feed. I started it back from the beginning. Awesome life story!

[@Eurekaholler]

I also woke to this playing. Thank you David THANK YOU. my “soul” if you will has been searching for meaning at a late stage in life. And as another collector of people’s stories, I know as long as I am able there will be more stories to hear.

[@Redcellphotography]

I just woke too and it's playing

[@bhagmeister]

Should be required viewing for every American - Even those who have lost their way in Congress. period.

[@tamravarda4161]

It should be played in every juniors high school classroom

[@rosemariamakowski4623]

i am so amazed to have found this treasure of an interview with him.

[@tomarmstrong1281]

What we do not realise is that there is more joy in giving and sharing, than in taking and keeping.

[@tiffsaver]

Dear David, Listening to your interview had a strong emotional impact on me, kind of like a healing balm for my soul. So thank you. Your stories really moved me, especially at 23.47 seconds in when you mentioned how your grandfather told you how much he loved you, and your lifelong regret at not returning the favor. I would like to share with you and your viewers something that happened to me that perhaps might help you heal, as well. My father divorced my mother when we were very young. In fact, the only time we would ever see him is once a year when he would invite us all to his apartment to enjoy a home cooked meal with him. He was a very good cook. But like you, he was not a very demonstrative or loving person and never told us that he loved us, which I truly missed. But on one Christmas night, as I went into his small kitchen to see what he was doing, when he brushed by me, for some reason I had the most powerful desire reach out and hug him, which I did. He seemed surprised by the unexpected sign of affection, but for the briefest moment we both realized how much we cared for each other, without even uttering a single word. His only response was to gently touch my hand. So I just wanted you to know that when your granddad told you how much he loved you, even though you said nothing I know without a question or doubt that he heard you, and understood. Love is something that can be felt without a single word, but be remembered in the heart for all eternity.

[@denise2169]

How beautiful!

[@wendyfrith3407]

@tiffsaver Similarly, in my family love was something that permeated the household but was never ever spoken of or demonstrated in a physical way. I sense it would have been considered déclassé, especially by my father. Then, when I was in my 30s, my then boyfriend asked me if I’d ever told my father I loved him. I was horrified! He coaxed me to do so, telling me a story along the lines of David with his grandfather (only in my boyfriend’s case it was his father). At the time, I was living overseas, so sent my father a card for Father’s Day. I really struggled over the message…it was long and wordy - much beating around the bush - but finally, in the last sentence, I wrote those dreaded three words, then rushed to the nearest mailbox before I could change my mind. Many months passed before I visited my parents again. Nothing was said (as always), but that card was a great, solid elephant in the room.. I was glad there were so many family members around, it being Christmas. Then, one day, it was only he and I, ever so briefly, in the room together. We had just finished tea and all the others had left. I was only a minute behind them, as I was loading up the tray to take to the kitchen. My father was still in his chair, and as I approached the door, I heard his voice say my name very gently. Yes? I said, inching away, my back to him. You sent a card. Yes. (still not turning around.) I want you to know I appreciated it, and the sentiments therein. OK, good, thanks,…was all I could manage as I fled down the hallway almost dropping the tray. I know it sounds pathetic, but to me it was a great victory. I had done it! And it was over! But I never thought then nor do now 40 years later that it had been necessary. We had loved each other wordlessly in a way that was familiar to us for more than thirty years, unquestioningly loyal, respectful and, except then -when I had broken our code - deeply comfortable with each other. I always remember the house as being full of light…maybe soul! Does something so amorphous have to speak? No wonder Jane Austen has always been my favorite author.

[@SorrySonny]

This is a brilliant interview!! Just when I thought I knew myself going through the works of Allan Watts, Jiddu Krishnamurti, Sam Harris, Joe Dispenza, now David Brooks. I am forever grateful by how kind and compassionate they are when sharing their knowledge, experience and wisdom. I walk this life and it’s been one of the most craziest journey so far of self transformation. I am glad to have found David Brooks, he speaks the Voice of the People! I am going to watch this over and over many times until I have learned. and I will share this to everyone I know. Peace and love from Australia ❤️🙏

[@teemadarif8243]

🔸️This brother is in his full state of humanity 🔸️

[@ravenrozeb3790]

This is by far the most substantive interview Ive ever seen. The first I have ever heard of David Brooks. He is absolutely brilliant. Why isn't he a US Senator or Higher? I suppose he enjoys life on a more interactive level. What a treasure!!

[@francoisbouvier7861]

He still lies to us and deceives himself. Have another scotch and burger.

[@leonardpereira7031]

Man David Brooks, I love his thoughts so much. He's so genuine and open. Good-natured soul with a genuine interest in improving humanity. Thank you for this interview.

[@micheleinacharles-hazellem1968]

This is brilliant

[@keithwalker6892]

Similar life. I was a crank aeronautical engineer n love with all the aeronautical people I met during my up too now life 93.retired in my bed office in contact with aero people

[@honuman39]

He's complicit in the toxicity of our current politics. He cheerlead right wing Republicans and their wrong headed politics for 30 years and now that he's at the end of the line of his "work" he's pivoting to pretending to be a wise sage or some nonsense. He's been wrong for so long it's amazing he's had such a career

[@Wspr4US]

wspr4us🏴‍☠️

[@rickeydonald4756]

David is a great human being of insight and wisdom. He knows that fulfillment and joy in life comes from serving others. He knows that many of the adults have left the room to wallow in the sewage put out there. They are being fed hate, self pity, anger, and ignorance. They are following false prophets. Their awakenings and reckonings are going to be tough for them to swallow. Peace.

[@danmorse2002]

I fell asleep on the couch listening to probably something stupid and not even worth my time…. Woke up and this was playing. Was immediately pulled in by this interview. Now I’ll be up all night listening to the rest lol.

[@janetives5470]

Same thing happened to me. Scary, huh?

[@chantilleli2796]

Same with me.

[@redleader]

ha! Ditto ..

[@pickyourswitchoriginal]

I feel this as he speaks. Very few people have this level of storytelling and self-reflective skill. As I age I find myself attempting multiple ways of connecting with others to squeeze moments in between my alternating work and exhaustion, and keep returning to this truth: nothing replaces in person real life contact. Nothing. Would that we all just did this one simple thing...it could just save us.

[@b.e.2023]

Beautifully said. Thank you.

[@Logiconfire]

Much ado about nothing.

[@louiscanter7529]

This interview is about wisdom and hope given in a non threatening way.Thanks for sharing this gift

[@Princetheone.]

I am not American and obviously don’t know most intelligent and insightful people. I am glad this video showed up in my feed ‼️Fantastic, educational and eye opening ‼️I wonder why people like this gentleman don’t run country like America ⁉️

[@amucheagu6890]

David Brooks is a beacon of light.

[@julienelson8162]

David Brooks is changing my life. Who knew?

[@stephenfrancisco6162]

Hey @Julie

[@29mirstudio]

David Brooks is a national treasure. I appreciate his objectivity and brilliant insights. He creates thoughtful ripples not drowning waves. Love your soft style.

[@ashleelarsen5002]

Holy shit, I would like to talk to dude's wife- she must roll her eyes a lot

[@cathyzosel9134]

Yes.

[@Logiconfire]

Much ado about nothing.

[@ashleelarsen5002]

@@Logiconfire wait!

[@sieglindesmith9092]

And he knows that. What we reach toward is important. Reminders of what we reach for are important.@@ashleelarsen5002

[@orffrocks5667]

How moving and revealing of David’s personality development and who he’s become as an adult. Most adults don’t arrive at this level of self-actualization.

[@carskum5217]

couldn't agree more. Great way to describe him

[@herminepursch2470]

Hopefully more people grow up and become better people

[@bernie4268]

I really like this man. He has wisdom and kindness.

[@gooddaysahead1]

David Brooks has deep and personal understanding of the human experience. Yes, he's very educated, he's a white, middle-aged, man. But that doesn't exclude him from having insight into what has gone wrong and what is right for Everyman. He is not dogmatic, preachy, or polemical. He is definitely worth listening to.

[@WynnWynn-gl3fk]

He is older than middle aged

[@gooddaysahead1]

@WynnWynn-gl3fk In the case of a couple who are both aged 65, the husband has a 40 % chance of living until 90, while his wife has a 50 % chance of doing the same. The chances that at least one of them will live until 90 is higher again, at 70 % The percentages skew higher if you are of Japanese descent. David Brooks is 62 years old. This puts him about one standard deviation from the mean for men. He's at the upper end of middle age.

[@timothymcglynn1935]

Hi 👋😊👋

[@WynnWynn-gl3fk]

@@gooddaysahead1 62 is literally a senior citizen, not middle aged!

[@gooddaysahead1]

@WynnWynn-gl3fk Who gives a s**t?

[@victorfarfanplenge4647]

David Brooks is such an enlightening individual. As an immigrant from South America, I have come to value his always accurate assessment of American society - an intelectual delight.

[@melissaalleborn6431]

Dearest David. I'm sure Mark Shields is listening to you with pride. Thank you for your genuine integrity. You give me hope.

[@cissyt4714]

The world does love you, David Brooks! Eloquence, brilliant mind and beautiful soul. Kindness, goodness and fairness.

[@kategallion4910]

I have no idea how I stumbled upon this, but I am truly eternally grateful. This was the coldest water on the hottest day.

[@ashleelarsen5002]

16:30 dude you must have been sleeping dude is so annoying

[@snc8537]

… felt the same until I heard ‘ republican’; kept listening … had to bring out the filters … not comfortable with people to the right…

[@snc8537]

He started to have doubts @ tea party. Trump broke the camels 🐪 back… now political homeless… taking some of the filters off… He is insightful…

[@codingwithellie]

Get out of your little shell lol. @@snc8537

[@cbudde]

Thanks for posting this wonderful interview, and giving Mr. Brooks the space to fully express himself. Mr. Brooks, if you read these comments, thanks for what you are doing. I wanna be your friend! 😊

[@RobinMerlo-jl5bd]

David Brooks is a US Treasure: honesty with deep observations of humanity. Shares it soo beautifully in written word and vocal expression.

[@MarthaDeTa358]

Managing money is different from accumulating wealth, and the lack of investment education in schools may explain why people struggle to maintain their financial gains. I personally benefited from the market crisis as I embrace challenging times while others tend to avoid them. Well, at least my advisor does too, jokingly…

[@thes3363]

I agree with you and I believe that Professionals are currently dominating the market since they have access to both the necessary strategy for making money in this industry and exclusive insider market information.

[@Florencecoxx]

I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more.

[@MarthaDeTa358]

Personally, I would always advise getting a professional help so they can steer you through the choppy market.

[@Florencecoxx]

I’m Glad i stumbled on this. Please, if its not too much of a hassle for you, can you drop the details of the expertise that assisted you and how to get in touch with him.?

[@MarthaDeTa358]

@@Florencecoxx I get guidance from *Mr Gary Mason Brooks* . Most likely, the internet should have his basic info..

[@QuaaludeCharlie]

David is a great Story Bringer , He can bring the Story along as He tells it . I think the world needs more of that .

[@nancycriderhamilton1429]

One of the best interviews I’ve ever listened to. Long but so packed with important quotes and wonderful stories. He admits to being a work in progress. He writes so many books as a project to educate himself. Many write him off as a Conservative but most have no idea what that really means. It’s actually the polar opposite of how we see today’s repub party behaving.

[@lifestoriesinterviews]

Thanks Nancy! Please visit us at www.kunhardtfilmfoundation.org to hear more interviews like this. We’re so pleased you enjoyed hearing this conversation with David Brooks.

[@shangobunni5]

This interview...I'm almost speechless. It's packed with feeling and wisdom. It's profoundly sad and beautiful at the same time. I believe every human can benefit greatly by listening and reflecting on David's insights. Thank you, Mr. Brooks.

[@denise2169]

What an amazing inspiration! Thank you, Mr Brooks!

[@monikarathbone3478]

What a wonderful story - seeing you so differently through your story - thank you David from a moderate Democrat who at 74 has watched you many years - well, I like you a lot.

[@AndrewEllestad]

This was the most insightful and intelligent interview I have ever listened to. I wish he ran our county. Brilliant man yet very humble

[@MBVXONIDE]

it is really beautiful im very happyto hear such light filled words

[@MBVXONIDE]

or ideas -- maybe thats a closer way to say it

[@Duncanistics]

So true!!

[@honuman39]

You on David Brooks' marketing payroll?

[@eleanorwittering3126]

Extraordinarily captivating. I agree! Great interviewer, as well.

[@constancewalsh3646]

This is the most wonderful self-revelation by a writer I have ever read or heard.

[@davidbehnke4417]

I watch him every Friday night on PBS for a few short minutes. Brilliant.

[@loriomyoreo8224]

A very moving interview of a very wonderful man who has lived an extraordinary life.

[@user-fq4yz5ek3r]

It's all over now baby blue

[@occlawson]

i found this interview and his thoughts and words to be intelligent and thoughtful and very needed. as he said, America is “hungry” to have these kinds of conversations and i am grateful to have come upon it.

[@joannecafiero6287]

I think Monday would work. I have a lot of medical appointments to schedule and I'm hoping I'll start checking those off sooner rather than later

[@lkjeasen1643]

Start a conversation with experts on proven medical science regarding the facts of human biological sex & gender. Republicans, such as Marsha Blackburn, Trump, & the entire GOP, don't know the difference & have refused to define the word "woman" because they can't; sadly, they don't have the facts.

[@lkjeasen1643]

Start a conversation with unbiased experts in the U.S. Constitution. The First Amendment was created to protect ALL minor religions from persecution by the religion of the majority (Christianity), which today's Christian-fascist GOP blatantly refuses to accept.

[@gailremp8389]

Listening ion April 1st. 2024. I am rarely at a loss for words … but I am. When he speaks of pain in the valley and spoke of reading Nouwen and I made another cup of coffee as I continued listening. And my list of.people I love who will absorb every second….. deep truths . Thank you,sir. Gail in Central Florida.

[@organizer14]

Yes, we are very interested in your moral inspirational stories! Thank you very much!

[@edmondbeatty9309]

Once again we hear a writer who has looked into life as he had to make a change in his life style and dig deep to enter into life with humility and passion. A real. conversion and an astonishing story teller and inaugurated community groups that needed to grow and spread the good news to survive the horrors of a collapsing America.

[@adriennebrailsford6291]

10 minutes in, this man has captured my listening ear, my compassionate heart, and my quieter mind. He is ringing the bells, resonating truly with the feel of us all. He is taking the simple thoughts that we make so complex easily digestible

[@sandymcintire]

I have always found that what David Brooks has to say contains new insights and wisdom. This interview certainly confirms that conviction. Watching the 3+ plus hours is one of the very best things you can do with your time. I will probably go back and watch it again, because it is so filled with interesting information and insights about dilemmas that I have pondered most of my 78 years of life.

[@teresah2964]

This 3 hrs interview is like a good book we can read again and again. I watched this video about 2 months ago for the first time and I’m watching it again now and I can really tell it’s helping changing my life for good. Thank you Mr. Brooks for sharing all you’ve learned with all of us. God bless!!

[@christaporche]

I just met you, David Brooks, and I love you. Thank you.

[@parkerholden7140]

David Brooks at his very best. We should all be thankful for his insight,

[@schrecksekunde2118]

Brooks has in the last decade always been a friendly and calming voice that offered valuable reports also to us Europeans and understands what is important to people around here. as a euro-communist i wasn't aware of his dark conservative past so I'll have to make a note about that 😁 a diligent and peaceful person can't have a toxic ideology

[@tanagrigg7366]

What a gift this man is to all of us. I have listened to this interview over and over. It moves me every time.

[@soniatriana9091]

There’s such depth, meaning, & honesty in his speaking. I’ve always been drawn to his presentations & his sincerity! What a privilege it would be to meet him in person! He has a level of honesty, sadness, & truth that touches your mind & heart! Thank you for sharing this incredible interview! I will definitely be relistening to it several more times!

[@janeadsheadgrant1]

An insightful listening to a great story teller. I appreciate David's wisdom and sharing his knowledge in accessible ways to learn and think through more deeply on the fabric of society (USA) although threads run across much of society. A wonderful invitation to think about developing our moral virtues not simply our CV virtues. Thank you

[@bettinadelsesto9088]

Wonderful man…. So real.I need a hundred years to become human close to this.

[@theafricanphilosopherqueen3032]

David Brooks has revived my hope about so many things,I didn't realize the video was so long,but I watched till the end,he even mentioned my country Kenya which really touched my heart.His profound view on life and the important of relationships is admirable,his sharp memory about events and people's names shows a true caring spirit,one who has achieved self- actualization.Thank you for this interview,the weavers concept is certainly one to emulate in order to transform societies for tbetter growth.❤🙏

[@s.annehancock730]

What a wonderful human. Keep writing David Brooks.

[@Mamah11]

I used to be neutrally respectful of David Brooks. I now have a totally new, and almost reverential, opinion of him. Thank you for this brilliant interview.

[@heatherscott3008]

This was so beautiful to listen to. Lovely how David Brooks weaves together such a diverse range of ideas and makes them a whole. Thank you.

[@karenwernert1744]

You and I, we were opposite 15 years ago, are now center from the extremes that have taken each party

[@mercuriapenelope]

Such an insightful interview. The social states he describes are now not only the experience of the USA but across the world. It gives hope that people like David exist and are sharing deep wisdom and compassion in this way.

[@PhotoDesigner1]

... It is disconcerting how "politics" becomes a part of the discourse when the subject is "the basics of humanity" ... I applaud David Brooks, I always appreciate his insights.

[@georgemurray752]

What an exceptional interview! All his talk of community, selflessness and empathy would lead you to believe he's a progressive.

[@snc8537]

…’growth’… Says still struggling with the ‘inner core’…

[@vinista256]

He was actually a socialist in early adulthood, but when he came up against the failings of programs that, with the best of intentions, had been designed to help poor people, his pendulum swung toward conservatism. And, no doubt, it was a heady experience for a young man who had recently come to conservatism to be taken under the wing of William F. Buckley, Jr. For years, he enjoyed the satisfaction of making a good living and believing that the politics he espoused made people’s lives better. Then came the valley …

[@uchihadayne6506]

That is an absolute fallacy. And the fact that so many people posting here automatically relate the two tells me why it’s so easy to manipulate the masses

[@oliviabwalker4845]

I have such respect for David Brooks, a real conservative and an excellent human being that I’m fortunate to have been introduced to in the NYTimes and PBS. Thanks David. Please continue to set the standard for ethics in journalism.

[@fugamante1539]

What a great interview! David Brooks is one heck of a philosopher, or at least a good connoisseur on many matters of the soul. Practical and precise.

[@quil10it]

How the heck did you get so smart Mr. Brooks? ❤️ Thank you so much for sharing this with us.

[@patriciamasterson4721]

I really get MR Brooks. I’m 82 and grew up in 40’s & ‘50’’s neighborhood people truly cared. Recovering from world wars in Buffalo and smaller parts of city. Friends and neighbors were like family. Shared food, clothing & shelter. Cared for the sick. More love for Humanity.

[@fordwayne3833]

It's simple, read a alot, interact with people a lot, and think a lot, that's how a person improves. Most people don't do all 3.

[@jamesbek9682]

Thank you, David. It is all making so much sense. We can do this.

[@noradavid3199]

We need more David Brooks amongst us, to bring facts, advice and directions to many who needs and help improve our life’s and our communities. I love his thoughts, sincere advice and real feeling for others. Michael

[@Kkevra]

This is terribly moving and sensible. Listening at a moment in my life when I badly need this. Thank you.

[@BridgeCityLawPersonallnjuryLaw]

I am so inspired by this Life Story. For five years i wrote blogs for attorney to live a better life for others, as well as themselves. I stopped four years ago and have not thought about blogging - at all. Until, listened to this interview. Truly inspirational. Thank you David Brooks for being you and talking about your personal evolution.

[@ocean1233]

I sincerely enjoyed this interview. You express yourself, your history, world history...your neighborhood wonderfully discriptive.

[@paulettelee3495]

I really enjoy this man. What a wonderful human being.I always learn so much from his sharing of himself.Any subject he speaks of is such an education. His humility is very refreshing. I could listen to him about his love of our country through the eyes of an immigrant. I hope he will resonate with many people way into the future.

[@John3v8]

I sure this interview is of more value than most philosophy or ethics courses. Kudos to you, Teddy Kunhardt for conducting one of the best interviews I've ever seen, heard, or even conducted myself. Superbly done!

[@Dougie_eth]

This interview is one of the most insightful examples of counting the process of seeking endless knowledge to feed our mindfulness and putting it into practice.

[@breadiemercury7676]

so agree

[@nancyraboin647]

It dawned on me instead of a feel good moment pinned on at the end of a new cast. The weaver experience really need to be intertwine throughout a newscast. These spoken experiences you speak about gives us all hope.

[@deborahrose4076]

That’s an insightful idea!

[@deborahrose4076]

Yes.

[@Baloneyious_Monk]

This is absolutely amazing. The first words I ever spoke to my parents were "Excuse me, how long before you get rid of me?" My newly adopted father jokingly responded "ohh about 10 years" It was 6. I was 10 at the time. I had to flee because the people who adopted me and saved me from being trafficked in the foster system were using me as a labor and revenue source and trying to demand impossible feats of expectation for a person just barely learning/surviving the world.

[@kathleenlandolt5936]

@ Baloneyious Monk You appear to have developed good writing skills in spite of the exploitation you experienced. Did you receive a good education? What life lessons have you learned from your childhood? Has it motivated you to help other children who may also have been used selfishly?

[@Baloneyious_Monk]

@@kathleenlandolt5936 I spent much of my childhood locked in a cage in an attic. In that time I copied the dictionary 3 times. Once I was 'rescued' I spent much of my time hidden away reading or writing so a lot of my communication skills are attributed to that time. After I was adopted I did go to school but my adopted parents forced me to get a job bussing tables at 12 years old. They felt that I was not as intelligent as they wanted (since I had no education formally up to the age of 10). Instead they forced me to get a fulltime job and then they at 12 years old started charging me rent and stealing my checks (as I received tip money). I ran away at 16 years old and then joined a program called post secondary which gave me access to go to college for high school credits. I joined the army at 18 with about 30 credit hours and a B average and over 260 days missed from actual high school attendance. Suffice it to say I burnt out early in life with a severely stressed health factors and mental health factors. I work with children as I can through groups like Together We Rise (NFP that focuses on ensuring all children have a bag or suitcase instead of a garbage bag) or Trafficking Hope but I also just struggle to get outside most days. Best I can say is I do and will keep trying :)

[@kathleenlandolt5936]

@@Baloneyious_Monk If what you speak of is even half true, your survival is a credit to your strength and perseverance! If you aren't doing so already, I encourage you to write a journal - or even a book - as a form of therapy in your continued struggle towards recovery. I hope you now have a support group to help you along the way. I wish you all the best.🙏❤

[@snc8537]

My heart breaks… sorry for how you were treated… you did not break👏👏👏💕 🙏 for sharing 💕

[@marycasanova8516]

A master once spoke to me in the middle of the night and said "you are not ready to enter the other worlds." And I asked, why. He then answered, " you still have too many emotional problems." Voices continued to speak through dreams and wakefulness. Then several years passed and voices and dreams stopped. I began reading books by Tolle, Cambell...they are my living guides. It is not easy to stay on the positive, humble compassionate path. But the longer i remained positive, the eaier it became to experience joy even through the darkest days.

[@BethanySpilde]

What a fascinating conversation it would be to have David Brooks interview Donald Trump -- to behold someone while suspending one's own perceptions. What a fantastic example/model this would be for the whole country to witness. :)

[@tomkim1017]

He’s full of wisdom and good advice that I wish my father had imparted to me

[@luguy8347]

Not the person I thought he was. Poignant and deeply rich of the spirit.

[@DickVanWrinkle]

Always the most clear thinking republican I’ve ever listened to. Always a pleasure, even if I disagree.

[@briansmith975]

Omg can’t you leave politics alone ever

[@DickVanWrinkle]

@@briansmith975 Say what?

[@lauracarstiou3505]

I find that Buddhism has helped me a lot with right sized ego. Being older makes me more compassionate and less self centered. I had PTSD but in recovery for many years. Having children really does change you. You really know what unconditional love means.

[@MyFavoriteColorIsBLUE]

I love this guy 👦 David, you are the best 👌

[@pambarlow2913]

What a different America we’d live in if Brooks was on the ballot. I know it’s not in his nature to run for office but talk about possessing the ability to provoke people to think on their own. To lead from a place of love…he’s got my vote.

[@ronkrate609]

I agree with Paul, above. I'd add, that in an age when income and wealth inequality, after nukes and climate change are the most to worry about, David falls short over 25 + years re inequality. Inequality, like the other two, threaten civilizations, existentially.

[@AndiGalpern]

Well said.

[@yatesbilly27]

AMEN!!!!!!!

[@honuman39]

Uh no. Talk about being provoked to think on their own... Have you considered that David Brooks has been enabling the toxic GOP and has been wrong on just about every major issue for thirty years? Don't believe me? Look at his record. He's got the gift of appearing reasonable and intelligent but if you actually take in his opinions you'll see he's not that much different than any other Republican pundit all of whom have ideas that are now bankrupt and easily dismissed. Now Brooks deals in common sociological and cultural platitudes that self help gurus have been selling.

[@sandraleiva1633]

He's a racist.

[@GenRN]

It’s almost 7 am and I never meant to listen to this all night.

[@EricMHowardII-yh1rn]

Mister David Brooks made many true connections in life, His grandfather made a positive difference which is priceless. For Mr Brooks there is no room for indifference. His heart is filled with caring wisdom along with compassion. Active listening is a skill . Making connections is active work that needs to be done well . Thank You for listening.

[@SmilusMusic]

OMG This is amazingly educational and entertaining at the same time. Brilliant! Thanks David and the entire team that put this together. Bravo

[@diaphanouswaffle]

While I disagree with many of his political views, this was nonetheless excellent-a very generous & deeply thoughtful version of him, which I enjoyed. Can't recall the last time I watched/listened to something over 3 hours long, this was totally worth it.

[@chuckjines67]

People take such pride in their humility.

[@evelynramos445]

David Brook at his best!

[@michaelSlick50]

Thank you for putting this together. I love listening to David Brooks' opinions.

[@lisajean228]

It’s the first column I read in the Sunday paper, every week it’s in there

[@yatesbilly27]

DITTO!!!

[@patrarus6097]

Absolutely terrific interview! Thanks for posting!

[@stephenfrancisco6162]

hey

[@skullyfunz3311]

@@stephenfrancisco6162 yo

[@yournamehere9024]

I've never watched a KZbin video this long before. It was fascinating. Many trolls in this thread made vacuous, disrespectful, contemptible comments. I would disagree with some of Brooks' assertions, just as I would with any author that I just listened to for over three hours. None of the insults in rhis thread came from people that listened at all, let alone the whole thing , NONE of them. I listened to this interview of a person with whom I differ because it was thoughtful, meaningful, eloquent, and uplifting. We have to open up and love and listen or else we will all perish.

[@billschmitzer9159]

Very meaningful interview. I was pleasantly surprised how much I could identify with what David spoke about. I felt I was practically alone in my thinking and feelings, I now know there’s others who experience what David talked about. Thank you for this interview.

[@joegallimore3216]

Same here

[@trevawhitmoyer682]

Yay, David! What a wonderful, yearning soul.

[@EricWardDesign]

Mr. Brooks... you astound with your insights, and more so, keeping the history of your past career in political commentary as a context accentuating your growth. Your journey is so very humbling and heartening; to have witnessed your growth over the years; the interview is a brilliant testimmony. 'Who knew?!' Through your op-ed column, yet more so, your moments on the PBS News Hour, I had sensed your POV was evolving and now it is confirmed here. Thank you for a riveting and very meaningful interlude. By the way, it came incidentally; I meandered into it, as it popped up somewhere along my dozing off from watching today's PBS News Hour reports after a long day of the 'vocation' I try to practice with my creativity, as service. You spoke to the 'soul' here...what a 'happy little accident!' Thank you!

[@richardsimms251]

David Brooks is an important person in America. RS. Canada

[@B.Alance1st]

How wonderful to hear him talk about the real , honest truth and basically how simple and so much better the world could be. Vulnerability, levels of suffering suffering and painful life events..being real humans with other humans...and how far we have lost the basic truth . With the horrible, current consequences of self centredness, ego, taking instead of giving. Distrust. Hate....what a relief to hear this. You say it so clearly, very real and self experience. Cannot have greater respect. Thank you.

[@user-zd2if3ox3o]

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