Deep Look Into Anna Duggars Life and "Love Story" With Josh Duggar

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2 жыл бұрын

#JoshDuggar #AnnaDuggar have had quite the "Love Story". Their Matrimony has been tested time and time again yet the couple would stick it out through thick and thin, for better or worse and 'til death do they part. Let's take a deeper look into Anna Duggar; the devoted wife of Josh Duggar. We will also take a deep look into the courtship and how Josh and Anna's "Love Story" came about.
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@SLOANHOOKS
@SLOANHOOKS 2 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@betheecommentator
@betheecommentator 2 жыл бұрын
Omg! Thank you so much 😊 you’re such a great content creator keep up the great work!
@PanicattheDiscourse
@PanicattheDiscourse 2 жыл бұрын
"children that are too big to need a buddy become a buddy" / "Jim-bob's buddy is Michelle". The patriarch of the house is the largest baby, got it
@breanamiles8108
@breanamiles8108 2 жыл бұрын
Deaddddd Jim Bob in a big diaper LOL
@thebalderthor4884
@thebalderthor4884 2 жыл бұрын
You people are so hateful. Any reason to hate this family. Bullies only feel good tearing other people down. How do you know so much about this family? Why are you so obsessed with this family? It’s sick.
@nikkibess5982
@nikkibess5982 2 жыл бұрын
@@thebalderthor4884 they literally had a tv show they told everything on lmao and wrote books and did other reality shows. Tf you mean “how” do we know so much.
@mariaquiet6211
@mariaquiet6211 2 жыл бұрын
@@thebalderthor4884 walked violently into that answer
@lozzaroo7453
@lozzaroo7453 2 жыл бұрын
@@thebalderthor4884 i think people are allowed to hate people who enable and cover for abusers.
@MissLilRedRooster
@MissLilRedRooster 2 жыл бұрын
It always blew my mind that the documentary presented their "buddy system" as efficient and cute, when in reality, parentification is a form of abuse, and is toxic.
@AVB512
@AVB512 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I remember being horrified by it from the jump. Like if that's necessary it's too many children!
@thebalderthor4884
@thebalderthor4884 2 жыл бұрын
What bothers me is how judgmental and authoritarian you people come off. No family is perfect. Bullies make themselves feel better by tearing into other people. They still raised more than a dozen well adjusted children.
@kg-ry2oz
@kg-ry2oz 2 жыл бұрын
@@thebalderthor4884 how do you know they’re well adjusted? I doubt that if you had to raise your siblings, put away your childhood, act like a parent and only get 15 min with your parents (when maybe your siblings seem more like your parents than mom and dad), that you’d be well adjusted at all.
@mariaquiet6211
@mariaquiet6211 2 жыл бұрын
@@thebalderthor4884 What well adjusted person thinks god is telling them to carry and birth several minivans of kids and then sell them as a side show attraction to the wicked wicked outside world?
@ladidaohoh3168
@ladidaohoh3168 2 жыл бұрын
I disagree for many years of human existence that was a way of life, the narcissistic self absorbed way people live now and raise their children isn’t ideal either based on the drug addiction, and rampant mental health problems within society at large. I don’t think expecting children to help with their siblings is toxic behaviour in itself, although I will agree the way the Duggar’s did it was toxic, protecting a pedo and sacrificing their daughters,teaching backwards misinformation about women’s place in society and putting their children in public when they were too young to consent, are all horrific things the Duggar’s did, I think expecting older children to help with the younger ones was likely the least damaging thing they did in terms of bad parenting.
@larissabrglum3856
@larissabrglum3856 Жыл бұрын
The more I learn about Anna, the more I feel sorry for her. The saddest part for me was hearing that she used to be an outspoken and assertive child. Her fundamentalist upbringing broke her spirit.
@Shan-ShanH
@Shan-ShanH Жыл бұрын
She chose to marry into this train wreck. She knew Josh did those things when she first met him. She has to be accountable for that choice.
@victoriaalveno363
@victoriaalveno363 Жыл бұрын
Oh believe me, those kinds of religion really breaks your spirit, I was raised in a community like that, I was so depressed and anxious, I'm 28 and starting to know the worl and myself, it was so hard to get out of that system but I feel so happy and free now, I would never go back to any religion
@Shan-ShanH
@Shan-ShanH Жыл бұрын
@@victoriaalveno363 Well, you shouldn’t go back to a religion. Jesus himself had a bad experience with religions and religious people too. In fact, they killed him! Religions will let you down, fail, and can’t save you. Only Jesus can.
@LisaKoffler
@LisaKoffler Жыл бұрын
Anna was born into and raised in the IBLP cult, and she's been "brainwashed and stifled" - especially after marrying Josh!
@LisaKoffler
@LisaKoffler Жыл бұрын
Victoria Alveno and Shannon H. the IBLP cult is FAKE Christianity! Jinger didn't become an atheist, and her husband, Jeremy is a Calvinist! I looked up Calvinism, and I didn't understand whether or not anything was "cultish" about it, but Jinger IS allowed to be a normal person, just like us, and I'm EXTREMELY proud of her for writing her book!
@big_and_bookish
@big_and_bookish 2 жыл бұрын
I really hate how the Duggars agreed to the courtship because Anna’s family believed that criminals could be redeemed, and they knew their own son was a criminal. They made sure to choose a wife and family that would look past what he did and believe he could be redeemed, despite the fact that he never received any help or punishment for what he did. It’s so sad to see.
@nicoleackerman205
@nicoleackerman205 2 жыл бұрын
They picked Anna on purpose because they knew how her father felt about them. It is making more sense now.
@chibicreepypasta
@chibicreepypasta 2 жыл бұрын
That and it shows how religious people like that think that in their belief system, they literally believe that their God would forgive someone for anything and it's disgusting
@khalilahthompson7065
@khalilahthompson7065 2 жыл бұрын
Not exactly. I’ve been around such Christians and they are always forgiving and don’t see people as criminals. They’re super innocent but their son was a wolf in sheep clothing .
@LizRealGirlBeauty
@LizRealGirlBeauty 2 жыл бұрын
Plus they believed that his behavior would be curbed if he got married and had a sexual outlet. Anna's father served her up on a platter to Josh.
@lalalola4479
@lalalola4479 2 жыл бұрын
They also blame Jill for what Josh did it's always the girl fault no matter how young she was and her sisters , I don't know all that happen imo Josh did more than molest Jill that's why they disowned her . Just my opinion
@courtneygonzales7731
@courtneygonzales7731 2 жыл бұрын
It's honestly heartbreaking that the catalyst for her relationship with Jesus is one based not on love, but on fear. I feel like this is so telling & speaks volumes to how & why she entered her marriage to Josh & especially why she won't leave, it's all centered on fear. Living a life dictated by fear is incredibly detrimental to one's growth & happiness in the human experience. It robs you from living in the present & impedes any kind of personal evolution. Living this way might feel safe, but it's stagnant, never fully realized & just plain sad.
@samanthasapato123
@samanthasapato123 2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@tintinismybelgian
@tintinismybelgian 2 жыл бұрын
There's a really good body language analysis video on YT. If you haven't seen it, I would recommend it.
@No1superjuicey
@No1superjuicey 2 жыл бұрын
What's it called
@tintinismybelgian
@tintinismybelgian 2 жыл бұрын
@@No1superjuicey "Josh Duggar's Body Language Hints at Something Sinister | Establishing Baseline and Social Dynamic"
@jasmineleopard7593
@jasmineleopard7593 2 жыл бұрын
Sadly, the bible says you should fear god.
@Shy-xm4kn
@Shy-xm4kn 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine being an infertile woman born into a quiverful family. As someone who can’t have children I’ve dealt with a lot of pain because of it including comments from family and past romantic partners. I can’t imagine being in a family where your “value” is completely encompassed around childbearing.
@trinitylawrence3045
@trinitylawrence3045 2 жыл бұрын
this!!! i hope michael bates keilen isn’t getting shunned by her family for not being able to have a child. i don’t support their belief system, but i feel bad for her, i know she wants a child badly.
@SueP-D
@SueP-D 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your struggles. Best wishes to you 🌺
@elizabethjohnston5247
@elizabethjohnston5247 2 жыл бұрын
The Bayes family's oldest daughter "Michael "had been married 6or seven years&is the only one that has not had a child.There struggles to conceived are rarely mentioned.on the show.There belief is not to find out wats causing the infertility&that God will give her one wen the time is right.This is sad as it could be a very minor thing that could be treated. AND YES HER NAME IS MICHAEL (BOY)YEARS LAYER WHEN THE FAMILY WAS INFORMED THAT SHE HAS A BOYS NAME.The family began calling HER MICHAELA.was it unclear at birth as to the bhild gender.There have been over the years that Michael/Michael's birth was difficult to determine,those same trolls believe that she has both male&female genitalia.Wich would if true require surgery/hormone.Fround upin by the Iblp.
@ashlieleavelle
@ashlieleavelle 2 жыл бұрын
I had fertility issues for 20 years. Myself and extended family are all Christians. I am so thankful that our worth isn't based on having a baby. My family just thought, " A baby will come if it is God's will and plan". My Husband's family, they aren't quiverfull, but they passed so much judgment on us not having kids. Like we were less than they were. Very hurtful. While I didn't go to a quiverfull church, many Christians are very judgmental if you don't have kids. They assume you are being selfish and not wanting children. We tried for years and years. We were surprised with a baby last year. I will never treat someone with infertility as my Husband's family treated us.....it is really disgusting. Not only were they nasty to us, but if someone had more than 2 or 3 kids, they talked nasty about them. Some " Christians " are just mean.
@annchovey2089
@annchovey2089 2 жыл бұрын
There’s always adoption. I don’t have children and it has helped to make me more available to others. No regrets.
@teacake321
@teacake321 2 жыл бұрын
This is the type of unbiased reporting the world needs. Can’t wait to see the content you create this year.
@betheecommentator
@betheecommentator 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I really appreciate it
@sea_jennifer
@sea_jennifer 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. So rare these days.
@godsgirl7201
@godsgirl7201 2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@Imdone2020
@Imdone2020 Жыл бұрын
A journalist who tells the truth, and gives you the facts! Every news agency in America should take a tip from her. Bravo to you!
@CARATMom
@CARATMom 2 жыл бұрын
She speaks exactly like her mother in law. She even widens her eyes like her in that innocent childlike way. Thank you for taking the time to treat Anna with respect and care. It feels like she is fully indoctrinated.
@camilleesposito4206
@camilleesposito4206 2 жыл бұрын
So many women in high demand religions do this. They infantilize themselves. It’s so unsettling and sad
@meganmcfeeter8478
@meganmcfeeter8478 2 жыл бұрын
But she didn't in the past when Josh proposes. She has learned that over the years. It's so disturbing.
@kimberlywright3854
@kimberlywright3854 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing and came to the comments to see if anyone thought that too.
@irunamuk
@irunamuk 2 жыл бұрын
Omg she does talk the same as Michelle. That’s brainwashing, sad.
@Sicilianbitch-rn1pw
@Sicilianbitch-rn1pw 2 жыл бұрын
No one can blame Anna for standing by Josh. This is what she be taught since in diapers.
@gem9535
@gem9535 2 жыл бұрын
I like how this isn't really shaming Anna, but pointing out that she's just another victim of a cult. When you're told something since you were born, and that if you don't follow it you're going to suffer an awful faith both in life and death, you're going to do it. Anna is also a victim here.
@alwaysflushinpublic
@alwaysflushinpublic 2 жыл бұрын
I just noticed how female overeating is a mortal sin while molesting / P3N3tR....ing your sisters is forgivable. Amazing.
@theeccentric7263
@theeccentric7263 2 жыл бұрын
I agree but at the same time she's enabling a child abuser so as a victim of CSA I dont give a shit about the hurt shes experienced, what she's done is unacceptable. Understanding her story is important, of course, but I dont think it's appropriate for her to be painted as this innocent victim when she has had a role in perpetrating CSA. Not the same as shaming, just nuance.
@LizRealGirlBeauty
@LizRealGirlBeauty 2 жыл бұрын
@@theeccentric7263 how did she perpetuate CSA?
@gem9535
@gem9535 2 жыл бұрын
@@theeccentric7263 She isn't innocent but she is a victim. There's definitely some grey in this situation because while she is an adult, she's also been abused and brainwashed since birth, so her brain must be beyond muddled. As someone who was in a cult-like situation like hers (men can do no wrong, women must be beaten to remember their place), my childhood and young teen years are a grey blur, bits and pieces. And mine wasn't even half as bad as hers, because at least my mother got me tf outta there as soon as the extent of the abuse was revealed. She doesn't have the support of almost anyone.
@myabushnes9216
@myabushnes9216 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao Anna needs to be JAIL right with her husband. You people are delusional to call her a victim
@Username26425
@Username26425 2 жыл бұрын
"it's not tea, it's information." You are COMPLETELY CORRECT.
@werm3169
@werm3169 2 жыл бұрын
"It's not tea, it's information" I wish more commentary channels had this attitude lol
@theriveroftruth
@theriveroftruth 2 жыл бұрын
makes me think of Swoop Valentine and her saying “it’s not drama, it’s dangerous” 👏🏼👏🏼
@CherryPi314
@CherryPi314 2 жыл бұрын
Seeing what a bubbly outgoing young woman she was, to the meek, quiet wallflower she’s become is so sad to see. You can see the progression from the start to their relationship to now. Also, so young & 7 children? Josh will NEVER be rehabilitated...I hope he’s sentenced to the fullest extent, so she can finally have her body back (not that having a big family is a bad thing, I hope ya’ll know where I’m coming from), get the help she so desperately needs & hopefully raise her children out of the public eye. Also- THAT LIST? Are there any rules for men, fathers, husbands? As you were listing the ‘rules’, I was just shaking my head in discust!
@63Malda
@63Malda 2 жыл бұрын
I wondered about that too, are there rules for husbands?
@marajade6
@marajade6 2 жыл бұрын
Her eyes look so sad now too. It breaks my heart.
@gailjohnston9253
@gailjohnston9253 2 жыл бұрын
@@marajade6 She should have bolted when the Ashley Madison thing went down. She would only have 4 kids now.
@nibblefangs
@nibblefangs 2 жыл бұрын
After listening to the list my only thought was that the rules are made to make sure women know how to stoke a man’s ego
@irunamuk
@irunamuk 2 жыл бұрын
@@gailjohnston9253 She’s not allowed in that religion.
@jessahmad817
@jessahmad817 2 жыл бұрын
Girl this is network news level research. This is the most in depth I've seen anyone talk about the relationship & dynamics of these two and their hot mess dumpster fire of a marriage. Subscribed so fast, can't wait to to see part two!
@05jessiejay
@05jessiejay 2 жыл бұрын
I 😆 when I read dumptserfire 😭
@zoiefinnian3540
@zoiefinnian3540 2 жыл бұрын
Could not agree more. This content is outstanding
@RealGlowup
@RealGlowup 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. There’s so many people out here just copying each other’s perspectives, but this is an utterly unique piece. Needed to be explored. Very unbiased and great examples - thank you for all the hard work!
@lisae6725
@lisae6725 Жыл бұрын
I just found her content and I think she's going to do very well.
@andreamunoz6088
@andreamunoz6088 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad that her first instinct in a near death experience was fear about dying and going to hell and not gratitude that she’s alive and gets to continue her life
@DominicNJ73
@DominicNJ73 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed, Andrea. It reminded me of an old neighbor of mine who kept pressuring me to say the "salvation prayer," going so far as to warn me before a long road trip that I had better say the prayer before my voyage because if I'm in a wreck and die I'll go to hell. For her the only path to "salvation" was to say this magical prayer. I reassured her that I would be fine if I died since my "salvation prayer" happened in the form of my Confirmation in the Catholic Church.
@isabellavalencia8026
@isabellavalencia8026 Жыл бұрын
They're cold is big on fear very fear driven
@ajkeff
@ajkeff Жыл бұрын
Exactly! I had a friend who is a devout Christian and she told me she was "saved". I started asking her, were you promiscuous at one point? She said no. I said were you an addict? She said, no. I said, well why do you think you needed saved? (She was always a good, solid person, had challenges like anyone else but I was so confused by her) She just kept saying she was ""saved"". This was 15 years ago and I scratch my head over this all the time.
@beachgirl2.193
@beachgirl2.193 Жыл бұрын
@@ajkeff I grew up in a really religious home, not as extreme as them but still pretty religious. My mom had and still has some kind of undiagnosed mental disorder. She has used religion as her identity, personality, etc. was really hard growing up and I hated going to church every Sunday. Even as young as 9 I would cuss out the people there in my head 😂. Well when I was 11, the preacher as he was talking, started walking up near the pew I was sitting in. He looked at me and said “would you come up here real quick”. Strangely I already had a feeling this was going to happen, before he ever said or insinuated anything. I didn’t want to go up there, especially not in front of anyone, it was embarrassing and I didn’t like church in the first place. But I walked up there, he said would you like to ask Jesus in your heart today? I said yeah. He had me repeat after him a short prayer, and as I was doing it I started feeling an overwhelming sense of lightness, like any negative emotion or feeling in me was replaced with pure joy. And as the prayer ended, he blew his breath towards me (felt like his breath was the Holy Spirit/God honestly) and in that moment the joy and peace became even more overwhelming and I lost my balance and fell back. Not completely but I took like two steps back before I caught myself. The next two days I remember feeling the joy and peace still lingering, the happiest I’ve ever felt. It slowly faded after a while but it’s something I’ll never forget. I’ve never felt any peace, happiness, lightness, Or joy like that again in my life. I’m 28 now with three kids, and while I believe in god, we don’t go to church and I don’t teach them about the Bible or god really. But mainly because of the crappy upbringing I had where everything with my parents involved religion. My relationship with god is small as I’m still trying to separate god from the religious stance my parents put in my head. Just thought I’d share what being saved could mean for someone.
@ajkeff
@ajkeff Жыл бұрын
@@beachgirl2.193 very interesting perspective! Thank you!
@katscratchfever3506
@katscratchfever3506 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so refreshing to hear more of Anna as her own person instead of as an extension of her husband. Great job! Something I was not aware of until your video is that Anna’s father being all for criminal reform just shows that the pressure to stick by Josh is from both sides of the family, not just Josh’s.
@betheecommentator
@betheecommentator 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for much for watching, I’m glad you enjoyed the video and found it informative
@wickedwonka9155
@wickedwonka9155 Жыл бұрын
Girl, you’ve got a real gift for this. You should be making documentaries for TV.
@JJLD94
@JJLD94 2 жыл бұрын
I’m like 5 minutes in but why is YT sleeping on this channel? So well spoken, concise, and informative. Thanks for your work!
@JJLD94
@JJLD94 2 жыл бұрын
@@betheecommentator can’t wait to listen to more videos while i work! 💕💕
@pamiam9017
@pamiam9017 2 жыл бұрын
The way these teen girls talk with wide eyes and an almost child like affect, Anna describing why she got baptised after the accident was like watching an 8 yr old tell a story. It seems to me that aside from parentifying these kids at a young age, they are still kept niave and immature.
@Susyshortcake
@Susyshortcake 2 жыл бұрын
@@betheecommentator I grew up as a Jehovah’s Witness. The similarities are triggering. They’re in a cult
@heidi3963
@heidi3963 2 жыл бұрын
That is an intentional affect that the women/girls are taught to employ. It isn't only found in this particular cult, it can be seen in other communities as well.
@mrlsdutch
@mrlsdutch 2 жыл бұрын
Idk she looks kinda manic there.... :( When she talked about the accident and all
@laurenmooers1723
@laurenmooers1723 2 жыл бұрын
@@mrlsdutch I think she was just nervous. But I agree it made it hard to watch
@noemigonzalez449
@noemigonzalez449 2 жыл бұрын
1000%
@kathrynmarie412
@kathrynmarie412 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like I have watched almost everything Duggar-related over the past decades but THIS IS GOLD. Thank you for such an unbiased, deep dive into Anna and her upbringing even before we first saw her on TLC. I can not wait to learn more from you.
@RealGlowup
@RealGlowup 2 жыл бұрын
YES 🙌 AGREED!
@daniellesalaices3933
@daniellesalaices3933 2 жыл бұрын
Same 💯
@kathrynmarie412
@kathrynmarie412 Жыл бұрын
@@betheecommentator Girl, how can I get in touch with you?
@JustMe-px9qy
@JustMe-px9qy 11 ай бұрын
I agree. This is a great channel
@xKelliBean
@xKelliBean 2 жыл бұрын
Watching her tell her testimony is so surreal to me. She was struggling with the same thoughts and questions as I was right before I left the church. I remember feeling like I had to pretend to be a Christian and feeling so confused by other people's immediate and easy connection to God. I was so jealous of the people that were able to have such blind faith. It's sad watching it from the other side after getting out and realizing that I was heading down the same path she ended up on. She was literally groomed and brainwashed for this life, and I wish she could wake up and see the other side.
@AliciaM5555
@AliciaM5555 2 жыл бұрын
@Keli my story as well! I met my bio dad at 16 and got in deep in evangelical Christianity and it was heart breaking to constantly be told that our faith, or our prayers or our relationship with God wasn't good because I wasn't manifesting my prayers. Another thing that was drilled into me was how discouraged we were in the act of having self love (loving myself!) which was utterly damaging to me as I self harmed through addiction and other behaviors. I am now free of all that I still love God but i now realize how much religion is actually a cult. It is used to control people especially their pocket books and it does this through fear. So sad!
@AliciaM5555
@AliciaM5555 2 жыл бұрын
*****I had meant to include that it was my bio Dad who became my pastor at his own church. He was a fan of Copeland so that should say it all 😕😕
@melons7747
@melons7747 2 жыл бұрын
@@AliciaM5555 to
@JohnsonKayla12
@JohnsonKayla12 2 жыл бұрын
Yep me too. I would terry for so long and feel so defeated when I never spoke in tongues and thought it was a sin to question the beliefs of the church. Now that I’m agnostic life is so much easier for me. Nothing wrong with being a Christian either but have to be really careful to still allow freedom of thought which she sadly did not have
@Mimi-hn6iv
@Mimi-hn6iv 2 жыл бұрын
@@AliciaM5555 there is such a difference between Faith and Religion and a lot of people just don't understand that. I grew up in church and didn't get closer to God, until I stopped going at 18. I've had friends heavy into Pentecostal church be SO MISERABLE, because their husbands don't care about them (they're just there to meet their s*x needs), they're expected to work and do all the house chores and take care of the kids themselves, and they get bad headaches because their hair is so long and they aren't allowed to cut it. Its just sad.
@GreenPixie6543
@GreenPixie6543 2 жыл бұрын
Seeing that old footage of Josh talking about what he was looking for in a partner was really disturbing. Knowing that all of that was filmed after his actions really irked me. And then the scene with the siblings lined up and seeing his sisters and knowing the girls were m*****ed by him already was so sad. They look so young and it’s heartbreaking knowing that their big brother hurt them and the parents didn’t really protect them…. They deserved so much better than that. I even feel bad for Anna. If she really didn’t know the extent of his previous behavior and her religion and upbringing prevents her leaving him; that must be a living hell.
@nicoleackerman205
@nicoleackerman205 2 жыл бұрын
The ex friend who make a KZbin video with his wife said. He wasn't even upset about the punishment he got because he believed he did nothing wrong.
@marajade6
@marajade6 2 жыл бұрын
@@nicoleackerman205 what video is that? I would like to see it.
@nicoleackerman205
@nicoleackerman205 2 жыл бұрын
@@marajade6 The channel is a I pray you put this journal away and their are five videos about how he was raised and met the Drugars, there stuff about Josh and the reason he left the ilpb. It is in either the first video or the second video.
@Antkristyna73
@Antkristyna73 2 жыл бұрын
I married someone that is narcissistic and verbally abusive, all I thought was was I CAN CHANGE HIM, nope only they can.. I enjoyed this video, awesome job.. there is so much more then we all know..
@aaaggg2667
@aaaggg2667 2 жыл бұрын
Happened to me, the "bad" guy that changes for you.... the think is that just happen in books :(.
@mircat28
@mircat28 2 жыл бұрын
ALL females up to mid 20s think they can change guys. They are wrong.
@stephanieramadhar9585
@stephanieramadhar9585 2 жыл бұрын
@@mircat28 I also noticed in my experience that the guys also try to convince us that we can change them. They tell us we're "the best thing" that ever happened to them and all that bs lol
@annabeinglazy5580
@annabeinglazy5580 2 жыл бұрын
@@stephanieramadhar9585 in my experience it tends to be your or their entire circle of friends. I was in a relationship that wasnt per se abusive, but it wore me down. It Just didnt Work. I spent new years with my friend bawling my eyes Out and telling her how the Situation Tore me down. Her reaction: but you so SWEET together. The poor man needs someone to Stick Up for him. You were Always such a cute couple" .... I ended up trying months longer than i should have to fix a relationship that Just couldnt work because other people kept pushing the narrative If i Just tried hard enough, If i Just waited Long enough, eventually my ex would change for me. ... And conveniently forgot that He didnt want to
@Kelly_92
@Kelly_92 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who grew up in a similar cult, you’ve explained this and researched this very well. Thank you also for making the statements in the beginning about different behaviors and avoiding generalizations. This allows for those considering leaving the cult become less defensive and open to listening to what you have to say. That being said, having grown up in this and having family in that exact cult, women have NO rights. I have a 29 year old female cousin who is not allowed to move out until her dad has chosen her husband and allowed her to leave. If she does move out on her own, her parents told her she can never return. The amount of child abuse is at least 3 out of 5, speaking from first hand experience. Victims are blamed and shamed. The more awareness we can bring to this, the better chances people will start getting out.
@MrSatyre1
@MrSatyre1 2 жыл бұрын
Call the police and walk out the door.
@annaconigliaro2907
@annaconigliaro2907 Жыл бұрын
I swear religions like this are legalized child abuse
@kaycee5008
@kaycee5008 Жыл бұрын
@@MrSatyre1 it isn't that simple. Shut up.
@kaycee5008
@kaycee5008 Жыл бұрын
I'm really glad you got out, Kelly. How did you break free?
@lkrause74
@lkrause74 Жыл бұрын
Have you noticed that some of the girls have rebelled in a way? Jill and One of her sisters wear pants now and Jill has a nose piercing. Glad to see they're not like their mom. Hope they know when enough kids are enough.
@carolinerheaa1504
@carolinerheaa1504 2 жыл бұрын
Good backstory for all members of the IBLP cult. Anna and Josh's story is pretty much the same for all young people who court and marry in that cult. The only reason Josh married Anna is that the Holt girl broke off their engagement after finding out what he had done. Jimbob wanted Josh to marry the Holt girl because their families were close and the Holts were wealthy had political connections as well. Anna Duggar was the second choice for Josh Duggar. She was the perfect substitute because her family was poor living in a trailer. And Josh knew Anna was a super fan and would put up with whatever he did. Anna and her family stalked the Duggars because of their fame and their power within the IBLP organization. She prayed for Josh to marry her. I guess you have to be careful what you pray for you might just get it. Josh never respected Anna because she came from the wrong side of the tracks. If he could have married a wealthy girl in their cult he would have.
@LeslieKnope4Pres
@LeslieKnope4Pres 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like it was literally everyone deciding that Anna is perfect FOR Josh as if she’s an object, without Anna’s input in the matter at all. It’s sickening and heartbreaking to watch.
@beatrice135
@beatrice135 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched several documentaries on the Duggars. She was a fan of his family long before meeting them/him in person. She prayed that he would marry her even while he was courting the Holt’s daughter (she ran when she heard about the mol3s!ion). Imho that means she was coveting what someone else had. I do think her family’s belief in redemption played a huge part in them marrying. I also belief she overlooked red flags in hopes of fame.
@schewitt1977
@schewitt1977 Жыл бұрын
It appears that she really liked Josh however it does appear that the parents had some control over who they date.
@nirajjoshi682
@nirajjoshi682 2 жыл бұрын
What makes me sick is there are people in the IBLP that will wonder what Anna did to make him an ungodly man when the reality is Josh is escaping scrutiny of his motivations and actions. He is sentenced based on his actions and inactions only.
@sayhello5377
@sayhello5377 2 жыл бұрын
Very true! There is a book called “The Great Sex Rescue” (pub 2020). The author references all of these very popular Christian books about marriage and sex, specifically, and quotes the MANY times these authors blame men’s infidelity on women. Like, your husband cheats because you got fat after having a baby. Or your husband wouldn’t cheat if you’d be a more satisfying wife. 🤢 It seems Anna believes Josh is innocent, but even if she opens her eyes to his guilt, she will blame herself, like she caused it by being a bad wife.
@emerald2888
@emerald2888 2 жыл бұрын
Forgive my ignorance. Can I ask: what is IBLP?
@grandmalorna9884
@grandmalorna9884 2 жыл бұрын
Institute of Basic Life Principles
@emerald2888
@emerald2888 2 жыл бұрын
@@grandmalorna9884 Thank you. I hope Anna wakes up.
@LizRealGirlBeauty
@LizRealGirlBeauty 2 жыл бұрын
@@sayhello5377 that's exactly why she believes he's innocent. If he'd guilty of doing horrible things, the horrible things she's done to "drive" him to it become real too. I can't imagine that kind of mental burden. I think it's something that has been overlooked by other creators who attack her. The cognitive dissonance that would happen if she allowed herself to understand his guilt is tremendous. I can see her now talking with him and he comes up with another person to blame, and Anna eats it up, "oh my gosh you're so right, he is the one who did this!"
@loquaciouslyloud6444
@loquaciouslyloud6444 2 жыл бұрын
Omg her story about discovering faith is so sad and heartbreaking. The story of pretending to fit in, being shamed in church for not being baptized as a child, and finally turning to god out of terror of external damnation. It’s all so familiar to me.
@TheOtherBoobJustDropped
@TheOtherBoobJustDropped 20 күн бұрын
Yeah it made me so sad and uncomfortable. She tells it as this fun and beautiful story of redemption and realization, when from the outside it’s so obviously a story about an independent little girl being shamed and terrorized into conforming so hard that she completely lost herself. Seeing how sad and empty she looks nowadays with all she’s been through, I can only hope that little girl is still in there and finds a way to come out
@carolinerichardson5315
@carolinerichardson5315 2 жыл бұрын
Your analysis is so nuanced, it’s basically impeccable. I’ve never seen a video about the Duggars that is so in depth and also remains unbiased. Great job! Can’t wait for part 2.
@jademcl4727
@jademcl4727 2 жыл бұрын
The way Anna speaks, telling her story, she really sounds like a child.
@Yolanda8419
@Yolanda8419 2 жыл бұрын
My seven year old talks like that. Goes to show how these kind of extreme practices really stunts someone’s development. I feel sorry on how her life turned out especially since she never had a say in it. Having never watched any episodes of the Duggars, this whole thing looks insane.
@mircat28
@mircat28 2 жыл бұрын
All the women are sheltered and sound immature. No newspaper, no magazines, no radio, no TV. Education at home via religion based information such as the planet only being 10,000 years old. No outside real world friends.
@niamhnidhalaigh5861
@niamhnidhalaigh5861 2 жыл бұрын
You should hear her sister
@Lauren-ds3vw
@Lauren-ds3vw 2 жыл бұрын
I was looking for a comment like this, Michelle speaks in an almost identical manner.
@ex-wife83
@ex-wife83 2 жыл бұрын
That's how men want the women in their cult to behave.
@genevieverollo3848
@genevieverollo3848 2 жыл бұрын
This is an EXCELLENT deep dive into Anna! You included a ton of really great (and less discussed) information, without making it feel gossipy or salacious. I'm excited for part 2!
@nat4695
@nat4695 Жыл бұрын
that was the most awkward proposal i’ve ever witnessed
@MaraJadeSkky
@MaraJadeSkky 2 жыл бұрын
The concept of being afraid of dying purely because you fear hell is completely foreign to me and makes me truly sad that Anna and so many others are plagued with a thought process like that. Btw super well done video! The surge of views is well deserved. And I love your comment about how annnnnybody is capable of annnnnnnything, no matter what their belief system may be. 🖤
@codiegesumaria55
@codiegesumaria55 2 жыл бұрын
I got several pieces of information from this video, but the craziest one to me is that Anna “officially” became Christian (“in her heart”) after she got in a car accident and determined that if she died in the accident, she would’ve gone to hell. Not “oh Jesus talked to me” or experienced some side of “sign” from God. She was literally scared to go to hell. What the actual fuck
@lauraschoenborn3544
@lauraschoenborn3544 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm catholic, and I can tell you. They take the words fear of God far to literally. To be godfearing means to be in awe of him. Not being afraid of going to hell for not being baptized. Like, I would be more moved by her conversion if the miracle was what converted her, as opposed to being scared into it by the car crash. But honestly there is so much wrong with this courtship. I'm sorry, but don't do anything just pray about it if you are attracted to someone, but in the mean time the parents are arranging the courtship is wrong on so many levels. Like, it makes it seem like prayer is what you do to make things happen. When biblically prayer is only part of it but it also requires action. NOT ON YOUR PARENTS!! BUT ON YOU. Also, biblically man sees his wife as his equal. Not someone who is inferior to him. That is what a marriage is. I was honestly always turned off by the Dugger's because I find it sick thar they used their family to become famous. I'm from a big family too, but my parents never broadcasted it for the whole world.
@allbymyshelf4125
@allbymyshelf4125 2 жыл бұрын
@@lauraschoenborn3544 I have always seen the Duggars and their tv shows as a way to spread the word about their christian beliefs (more specifically the IBLP) and their lifestyle. Less as a way to get famous and more as almost I don't know, a ministry thing? Also I'm sure the added money from a hit TLC show didn't hurt when they have 20 kids on just Jim Bob's income. Maybe they did do it partially to get famous, but that's never really been the vibe I picked up.
@southernbelladonna78
@southernbelladonna78 Жыл бұрын
Can you imagine traveling all the way to meet a family because of how many similarities you think you have morally only to end up with a C.M. for a husband?!?! What an evil trap. Another great video by the way! I feel like the Duggar used this innocent young lady's faith to pawn their broken son onto to save face and be able to say case closed and move forward. Awful.
@whitedragoness23
@whitedragoness23 Жыл бұрын
They figured married life would “fix” him and take care of his needs. Or once he got into a adult routine then everything would be ok.
@cheeseebun
@cheeseebun Жыл бұрын
as a Christian (not of these denominations at all, im non denominational) i appreciate the unbiased tone you presented this. it is sad when people twist the word to fit their sin, but everything comes to light and those that commit wrongs will be punished eventually. the beginning of the video was nicely said & i loved the "this isnt tea it's information!" you are very mature, i've seen so far about 5 of your videos today and i applaud your good work! keep it up. you are very well spoken.
@lindsayrae1492
@lindsayrae1492 2 жыл бұрын
Blown away by how informational & well made this was!!! Didn’t feel like you were talking in circles which was amazing since I have that problem with documentaries! so amazing and you’re very talented. subscribed and can’t wait for part 2
@lolizkay75
@lolizkay75 2 жыл бұрын
No mention of his girlfriend who dumped him when she found out about his history of SA? I don't believe for a second that he ever loved Anna but only saw her as a willing mask.
@nuckinfuts7610
@nuckinfuts7610 Жыл бұрын
I have never felt so awkward or such massive levels of second hand embarrassment like I did while watching that proposal.
@sadiedeville6884
@sadiedeville6884 Жыл бұрын
Poor Anna, married to the most dangerous kind of predator, and living in denial about the situation. So sad for her children.
@Nomarcaper
@Nomarcaper 2 жыл бұрын
This was so good! I appreciate how you spoke about the religion respectfully while acknowledging that it’s not the way it should be. It’s so sad that they ended up being the face of Baptists (and Westboro 🤢) because it really caused a greater force of legalism in the Baptist denomination. I’m happy to see Josh being prosecuted because I’m seeing it open the eyes of many people I grew up with. They don’t realize that the person they are sitting next to could have this entire second life hidden away.
@michelle3445
@michelle3445 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think they are anything like Westboro Baptist. I’m not very religious now, but I’ve always been Baptist when I was. Westboro is not anything like true baptist.
@princesssprinklesthecat4192
@princesssprinklesthecat4192 2 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't ever speak about mormons or xtians respectfully. You're all cult members. Nothing more
@Nomarcaper
@Nomarcaper 2 жыл бұрын
@@michelle3445 I definitely wasn’t trying to say they are the same, but that the two forefront representation of Baptists are completely wrong. It’s unfortunate because at college I mention I’m Baptist in conversation and I immediately see them cringe. I know exactly what they are thinking.
@nicolleknight6829
@nicolleknight6829 2 жыл бұрын
“Five girls were good girls they were virgins” oh goodness. I think that’s really telling. Thanks FABULOUS VIDEO!
@Godilove17
@Godilove17 2 жыл бұрын
You’re video came up on my recommendation, and I’m so glad I found you! Hearing Anna talk about how she came to have her beliefs is really heartbreaking. “I wasn’t in the club…I felt left out”. I’ve watched other commentaries on the Duggers and IBIP, and with every video, I’m more and more convinced that these women and children are trapped in a cult.
@katiev9494
@katiev9494 2 жыл бұрын
I’m incredibly blown away at your talent. Your commentary and level of research is phenomenal. You deserve many more views!
@Theloversconjure
@Theloversconjure 2 жыл бұрын
I love your take on this! I don’t believe the public realized just how brainwashed Anna is. She’s been taught from birth that she is to worship her husband or burn in hell for eternity. Her entire reality is created by Jimbo. It’s absolutely disgusting because she will likely never recover or “snap out of it”. Possibly because of the fame someone can reach her but again, she is on strict lockdown- no speaking to anyone per Jimbo. He probably cut off her social media access so she isn’t “influenced by the demons”, but then again, she is so brainwashed he probably didn’t have to. It’s so very sad and my heart aches for Anna. I truly believe she knows not what she does. Somebody has to protect those kids though. She’s choosing Josh and it’s devastating, but she thinks she will go to hell if she doesn’t.
@mircat28
@mircat28 2 жыл бұрын
Most of us who read totally understood Anna's life and brainwashing. If you're a naive teen you might not.
@nicoleackerman205
@nicoleackerman205 2 жыл бұрын
It is just strange to me because I know someone who is very religious who would say if your husband cheats on you hits you is doing what Josh did you divorce him because he broke the marriage over you said before God same if it was the other way around with a wife doing that.
@gem9535
@gem9535 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. Anyone who says that Anna ISN'T a victim doesn't know what they're talking about. She's an "adult," but she's also been brainwashed since forever and is just doing what she's been told. You can't blame her for following what she's been told and threatened to believe since birth.
@loislois3526
@loislois3526 Жыл бұрын
It’s not just Josh she’s choosing - it’s her life and ability to care for kids, her connection to anyone in her community as I guarantee she’d be shunned if she spoke out etc. she’s also probably financially dependent on the duggars through Josh for Jim bob and Michele directly. We’re saying the same thing but I’m being wordy
@xgenisejigglygirlx
@xgenisejigglygirlx 2 жыл бұрын
You are going to blow up and be a HUGE channel, I know it! You're so talented and this deep dive was fantastic.
@katiejane6761
@katiejane6761 2 жыл бұрын
Her voice is so soothing. Hard to come by
@loislois3526
@loislois3526 Жыл бұрын
If she doesn’t blow up it’s because the internet isn’t good at understanding or valuing nuance 😅. This channel is for nerds who love to try to understand the how’s and why’s of things - I hope there’s a fruitful viewership of them lolol
@kaylacrouse7094
@kaylacrouse7094 2 жыл бұрын
This is so well done and it’s nice to hear and see things that aren’t recycled! Thank you for the hard work on this, it really sheds a lot of light on who Anna is and why. And I looove your voice!
@sunshinefine1886
@sunshinefine1886 2 жыл бұрын
The part with her sitting in a random RV fangirling over Jesus was too painful to sit through I had to fast forward.
@lizliza3555
@lizliza3555 2 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@OldMrsMec
@OldMrsMec 2 жыл бұрын
This was damn good! You are extremely talented. Medical issues have forced me to be home & sitting /laying down for a few months. I have gotten extremely bored & watched an unnecessary large number of KZbin videos from different creators. You stand out among them. I am looking forward to your next video . Please keep going. For what it's worth I think your subscriber count will skyrocket soon. You deserve it. Love the content.
@helenfong3339
@helenfong3339 2 жыл бұрын
Christina, I'm in the same boat. Yes, these videos are the best! I hope you get well soon!
@zazasworld8377
@zazasworld8377 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly how I feel. You are not full of nonsense and false reporting. Your fabulous at what you do . Like a professional reporter . No one on you tube can compare to you and your talent.
@christined2495
@christined2495 2 жыл бұрын
Christina I am also in the same boat, I hope you get well soon, I am suffering with herniated discs and sciatic Thank Goodness for utube
@christined2495
@christined2495 2 жыл бұрын
@@helenfong3339 feel better, I am in the same boat too
@helenfong3339
@helenfong3339 2 жыл бұрын
KZbin keeps me up when I should be sleeping! Lol
@ninascott-stoddart9031
@ninascott-stoddart9031 2 жыл бұрын
Subscribed. I appreciate that you shine a light on Anna's background so clearly, making the connection between her family's ministry to prisoners and her compassion (and perhaps the Duggar's calculation) that she would help "save" a struggling sinner. I've never seen this analyzed this way, and it makes so much sense. I also appreciate that you separate out Anna's perspective from your own thoughts and analysis.
@werm3169
@werm3169 2 жыл бұрын
...imagine only having 15 minutes of alone time with your parents every week. That's only 780 out of the 8760 hours we have in a year. That's 8.9 percent of a year that you get to spend with your parents. These poor children.
@nousernamesarevalid
@nousernamesarevalid 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how kind you are to present the story without judgment. Its such a sad story to hear how Anna was raised and how she is continuing to raise her children even with the knowledge she has today.
@ruminationstation4200
@ruminationstation4200 2 жыл бұрын
The story of Anna being indoctrinated and gaslighting herself into becoming religious out of a fear of going to hell....it's tragic. This woman stuck in living hell because she has been convinced that if she doesn't stand by her man, then she'll go to literal hell.
@tavern2468
@tavern2468 2 жыл бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with worrying about your salvation but from what some people have said now she does have the grounds to leave because of the things that Josh did she just doesn’t want to so even by the standards of her community/religion she wouldn’t go to hell if she would leave him she just doesn’t want to she is really delusional or is being financially Abused/manipulated by the Duggers supposedly
@ga6589
@ga6589 2 жыл бұрын
@@tavern2468 There can be a lot wrong with worrying about salvation when you take it upon yourself to convince others to worry about it. I take issue with evangelicals who work very hard to "save souls" and convince them they'll burn in hell if their religion isn't straight. If we all could be indifferent to the religious beliefs of others, or lack of them, the world would be a much more peaceful place for us all.
@katiejane6761
@katiejane6761 2 жыл бұрын
My heart is breaking for her ugh. And her children
@ladymopar2024
@ladymopar2024 2 жыл бұрын
That broke my heart, my sister is in a cult I can't stand any of them they're horrid and caused so much damage to so many people
@danimariebernadettedangelo2034
@danimariebernadettedangelo2034 2 жыл бұрын
While watching and listening to Anna I see so much of Michelle.
@carolinewalker1893
@carolinewalker1893 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! The inflection and painted on smile is exactly the same.
@kimzeyc.6096
@kimzeyc.6096 2 жыл бұрын
Anna seems like such a kind person. As you look at the pics and vids, it's so sad to see her eyes become dull and lifeless. The light leaving is heartbreaking. I was hoping she would get out, but she is staying on the Duggar compound. I feel she will never be able to leave with her kids and they don't deserve that. It's scary how far brainwashing will go with someone.
@jennafairbanx
@jennafairbanx 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for covering this story without throwing Christianity in general under the bus or making hateful comments. My husband was the middle child of 10, raised IBLP and there’s things about it that were horrible and damaging and there’s things that were more positive. His parents were new Christians and easy prey for “cultish” offshoots like Gothard’s. We are still devoted Christians (though NOT legalistic) still want a big family, still homeschool. The bad stuff would be getting spanked in sets of 20, corporal punishment, stringent dress codes, actual misogyny, and the emotional neglect of women and children. But it seems like people are so hasty to demonize the people who are involved in IBLP, when not all of them are bad and in fact many of them are victims themselves.
@mrs.carrasco7898
@mrs.carrasco7898 2 жыл бұрын
One 15 minute meeting a week to have a deep meaningful talk to your kids one on one...Here I am wasting my whole day shaping a little human... I need to manage my time better. 😂
@tristazerbe8119
@tristazerbe8119 2 жыл бұрын
Omg right?! 🤣 But I guess when you have a million kids 15 minutes is all you can manage. 🙄
@Sunny-sy2xl
@Sunny-sy2xl 2 жыл бұрын
Quite sure they talked to their kids one on one more than that. They likely had that appointment just to make sure the kids were guaranteed at least that much time if it were an especially busy week.
@annabella4969
@annabella4969 Жыл бұрын
Imagine needing to talk to your parents and them telling you is not your turn wait till Wednesday when we have our one on one 😂. 15 minutes was all they can afford because the rest of the time they spent making babies.
@90christina1
@90christina1 2 жыл бұрын
Very well told and without the snark and falsehoods that other contributors regarding the Duggars have done. Very refreshing. I can't wait for part two.
@miriamkelly8034
@miriamkelly8034 Жыл бұрын
Greetings from Ireland!This is absolutely brilliant! The level of research involved would put many journalists to shame. Really hope you get the credit(financial and otherwise) you deserve for this
@Bittywhite
@Bittywhite 2 жыл бұрын
As a female that was raised like this.... The belief system is beaten into you.
@eileenbauer4601
@eileenbauer4601 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this thorough, honest and compassionate documentary.
@Guinea_Mom
@Guinea_Mom 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is a really informative video! You did a great job of finding the facts and history from Anna’s side. I’ve watched the show for years, before Anna and Josh courted. Your conclusion about her family being in prison ministry therefore being more forgiving of a rocky past is spot on!
@polynarcs
@polynarcs 7 ай бұрын
Her voice is so soothing 😭❤. Whenever I’m anxious or having a bad day and pop in to KZbin and she comes up on suggestions, I hear her voice and it automatically makes me feel so relaxed.
@polynarcs
@polynarcs 7 ай бұрын
Thank you your hard work BE!
@PrincessPowerranger
@PrincessPowerranger Жыл бұрын
I'm loving how indepth this is, not tea information ❤
@lindabishop7824
@lindabishop7824 2 жыл бұрын
I have been watching the Duggars since their first special. This is excellent and you did a great job. I can't wait for part 2.
@AnnSmajstrla
@AnnSmajstrla 2 жыл бұрын
This was very well done. I’m looking forward to part 2.
@maryannb9203
@maryannb9203 2 жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed your recent postings. I found them very informative, thorough & a very accurate explanation of the IBLP. Even though I knew most of the info, I still found your post extremely interesting & full of factual information, rather than just gossip or innuendos like many other commentators. I really hope you will continue to make more videos on this topic. Best wishes from Australia. 🇦🇺
@amysantana291
@amysantana291 2 жыл бұрын
You did an amazing job with this video! It was so informative and respectful. Not to mention your dedication to the comment section! I love how attentive you are to commenters and their additions to the conversation. I look forward to watching more videos of yours!
@drhfq
@drhfq 2 жыл бұрын
Watching young Anna Duggar with her sister talking about wanting to volunteer in prison ministry and having no idea that in the future she’ll be essentially REQUIRED to be the most disgusting type of prisoner’s personal support system
@ThatGirlJD
@ThatGirlJD 2 жыл бұрын
Her talking about she'd be in hell if she died as a child and a responsibility of her parents was crazy. So much of what they believe is not Biblically based.
@carliwithani1815
@carliwithani1815 2 жыл бұрын
Hence why she was chosen for Josh……
@tinywarrior2020
@tinywarrior2020 2 жыл бұрын
I am former IBLP. You did a great job on this.
@cleftheart1969
@cleftheart1969 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you you got away from that cult 👏🏾
@brittanycaraway2699
@brittanycaraway2699 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you
@Psykitty96
@Psykitty96 2 жыл бұрын
How did you escape?
@Jess-zf3ve
@Jess-zf3ve 2 жыл бұрын
I follow channels like Fundie Fridays and Kyeluh but have never seen this detailed of a biography on Anna; really like the style and aspects of your videos and looking forward to more 😍
@hollyinhell
@hollyinhell 2 жыл бұрын
You are one of very few that brings new information, new insight and actually adds to the conversation. I've watched it two because it's that good.
@girlofthex
@girlofthex 2 жыл бұрын
She and her PARENTS knew Josh had a problem before they even started courting. Who would willing let their child pursue a relationship with a predator. I’m sure they low-key blame her for Josh’s behavior.
@whitedragoness23
@whitedragoness23 Жыл бұрын
Josh has money, they sold their daughter out.
@sarahuber8567
@sarahuber8567 2 ай бұрын
Except Josh was 14, he was very repentant and remorseful and it didn’t happen again. Most parents wouldn’t see their young teen as a predator. Obviously they were wrong. But I get how they thought he had gotten beyond it.
@yugare-chan4742
@yugare-chan4742 2 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate the way you cover this. I've seen so many people trash Anna for not leaving Josh, but not understanding the extent of how difficult that is to do with how the group functions. If by chance, Anna wanted to leave, she would be completely cut off from the only community and support she has. Effectively, shunned, and although there exists programs out there to help facilitating the leave, the number of kids she would have to provide for with her limited job opportunities would be near impossible. They really make it so that if you have a change of heart, it's not easy to leave. The homeschooling, large families, dynamics; it all leads up to being caught in deep.
@katrinab494
@katrinab494 Жыл бұрын
Great video. I never even thought about the connection with Anna's parents working in prison ministry but that makes sense
@jennbradley3966
@jennbradley3966 10 ай бұрын
You brought up a great point around 22:58 that Anna was likely selected due to her family's prison ministry and forgiving spirit towards those convicted of crimes. That is an interesting point I hadn't heard before.
@tiffanyhowell8444
@tiffanyhowell8444 2 жыл бұрын
this was a great video. i love how you were able to present all of this so objectively, your channel is gonna blow up!
@marlo9380
@marlo9380 2 жыл бұрын
Wow!! What an indepth video! You have such a calming voice for story telling! I really enjoyed listening. Very interesting. Can't wait for part two.
@Lauren-pf4yl
@Lauren-pf4yl 2 жыл бұрын
Such a well done video. So glad I came across your channel, you’re a great commentator! All of the info flowed well and was easily followed to see the whole picture. Thanks for taking the time to research and make this!
@oliviamarlene2519
@oliviamarlene2519 2 жыл бұрын
This video is so enlightening to the reasons why so many of the daughters married and are now living VERY different lives, while the sons are continuing on in the family’s traditions
@AmandaPaige71
@AmandaPaige71 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you when it comes to JB picking Anna for Josh bc of her family's "prison ministry." Sooo sick and twisted. Edit to add that I remember that Michelle blamed Anna for Josh's adultery when the Ashley Madison scandal broke. Can you imagine?
@ruthcokerburks
@ruthcokerburks 2 жыл бұрын
I hope Mr. Keller has a copy of those books for Josh,
@Sunnydreamer1470
@Sunnydreamer1470 2 жыл бұрын
Michelle did not blame Anna! Ugh
@sharonh2991
@sharonh2991 2 жыл бұрын
@@ruthcokerburks - Ha! Yep. Pretty ironic isn’t it?
@hollyw7410
@hollyw7410 2 жыл бұрын
How was this randomly recommended to me. But, I watched it and your voice is so calming. I am now addicted to your channel! Awesome job.
@DMThisIsPam
@DMThisIsPam 2 жыл бұрын
This is my first video of yours. It came up in my recommended. I like the way you formatted this to be informational and not focus on rumors or "tea" like you said. Great job!
@wvdrummerchick
@wvdrummerchick 2 жыл бұрын
Same! I thought this was extremely well done.
@cooperhilinsky6361
@cooperhilinsky6361 2 жыл бұрын
This was fantastic! Please post this on the r/DuggarsSnark subreddit! I just have to mention, the fact that Anna had seven kids with this slob and looks 1000 x’s better makes me laugh. Wives are expected to remain attractive yet the husband can turn into a blob and it’s godly makes me sick.
@cc-terfay
@cc-terfay 2 жыл бұрын
It’s sad because you can see the beautiful heart Anna truly has. It’s been taken advantage of…it’s left her vulnerable to the brainwashing. A beautiful soul stolen away to be used by the duggars
@mircat28
@mircat28 2 жыл бұрын
She was raised from birth to follow the cult. She wasn't brainwashed later.
@cc-terfay
@cc-terfay 2 жыл бұрын
@@mircat28 yes I know that. You didn’t comprehend my comment properly. I was saying she was more vulnerable than most to be easily controlled by brainwashing. Anyone who is raised this way will be brainwashed but many can get out of the cult and unlearn the brainwashing. She wasn’t that lucky because she has a soft, beautiful heart and that left her more vulnerable and easily manipulated by the cults
@Asigedge
@Asigedge 2 жыл бұрын
This is the best breakdown of this couple ive seen. Thank you for this!!!!
@ericahoelscher3733
@ericahoelscher3733 2 жыл бұрын
Your presentation was so well researched, edited, and clear. Your hard work and thorough consideration of the issues are impressive. Sub!
@doreenayi3751
@doreenayi3751 2 жыл бұрын
I must admit I’ve struggled with Anna over the past few years flip-flopped into having compassion for her one minute and complete anger and frustration for her the next. But I still can’t completely write her off. My ultimate thoughts are that she didn’t stand a chance groomed from puberty to be the perfect wife mother and help me to her husband and follow the teachings of the IBLP to the latter. She has not done anything wrong she’s lived her pure godly life she married the man her father helped her choose, Bor him seven children without complaint. Realistically what more could this godly woman have done. This lifestyle marrying Josh has basically ruined her life and I blame her parents for seeing the opportunity to marry their daughter into A family who at the time were IB LP royalty. And sacrificing their daughters happiness for fame and financial gain.
@camilaizquierdo509
@camilaizquierdo509 2 жыл бұрын
god i hold so much disgust for her. she is constantly calling him in jail, despite being aware of everything he has done. seen holding hands with him going into court. it's just disgusting. i don't feel bad.
@lalalola4479
@lalalola4479 2 жыл бұрын
Trust me she being blame for not meeting his needs she is so broken his family and her are shaming her
@goldieryun-or1zv
@goldieryun-or1zv Жыл бұрын
Anna is a grown woman with 7 kids . She knows what right or wrong . She should be worrying about what Josh will do to them when he gets out of prison.
@Emphoise
@Emphoise 2 жыл бұрын
This is my first time on your channel and I'm so glad I stumbled across it. "It's not tea, it's information" was lovely to hear and the video did actually live up to it. Thank you for making videos - I'm looking forward to checking out more!
@mariyaa111
@mariyaa111 2 жыл бұрын
You did a great job sis !! I usually don’t like to watch videos where the narrator isn’t on camera and the background is just pictures, but you have a gift for storytelling!!!
@tristanjustice269
@tristanjustice269 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up in the Independent Fundamental Baptist community in NW Arkansas. I think it’s generally a positive thing that most young kids at my church had the skills to look out for their siblings, clean up after themselves & others, handle responsibility, etc. I don’t think think this lifestyle equates to abusive parentification when kids are still able to depend on consistent adult presence, guidance, and support. (Though the Duggar’s method is much more questionable because this family chose to have so MANY children in nuclear family structure (house was only 2 parents + kids) where it seems there weren’t enough adults to balance the sheer number of young children). But what’s more concerning to me in these families is how much more responsibility, labor, and behavioral standards are imposed on the GIRLS, and at a much younger age than their brothers. I noticed that young girls were often given tasks at times when boys were still allowed to play. Even church activities for teenage girls were frequently based around domestic tasks (running nursery or kitchen) while teen boys activities are more often just games and sports lol. Not only that, but boys can dress in such a way that they fit in with kids their own age beyond the church community, but girls in these communities have to wear antiquated clothing so that it is obvious they are part of an IFB church, and so they have more difficulty socializing with kids & teens outside the IFB community. This is all SO intentional, in order to keep girls disciplined in their social trajectory of getting married and having babies ASAP after high school. It’s all conditioning them to be unpaid labor for their husbands, and to be trapped in financial dependence on said husbands.
@goldieryun-or1zv
@goldieryun-or1zv Жыл бұрын
Don't sound like theirs any guidance there. If their was something would have been done to stop Josh from abusing his sisters and the other girl . They just sent him to those people in little rock in hopes other people wouldn't know what was going on.
@sarahuber8567
@sarahuber8567 2 ай бұрын
Great post. Totally agree!
@diem.fidelis9697
@diem.fidelis9697 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a Christian, and have been my whole life. I grew up in an environment where I could ask questions about my faith, and there was never this sense of doom and damnation if I didn't follow (such as evident here). This may be a hot take, but this variation of Christianity is hella toxic and damaging. How many others have church hurt, and/or have walked away from God entirely, due to growing up in environments like this? I think that is so much worse than not dressing conservative, or not speaking softly. My heart just breaks for those hurt. Also. I think it is Christian environments like this that are breeding grounds for what we are seeing unfolding, with covering up abuse, an imbalance of authority, and even seeing that the parents have been placed on a higher pedestal than God.
@amemelia
@amemelia 2 жыл бұрын
absolutely, it's religious abuse to instill fear in people and force them to change beliefs out of fear and manipulation. so many stories of people escaping (usually certain branches of christianity) and still having that fear they won't be a good enough person because what they were taught about hell and sins of just existing as a human
@bunchofbrunners8473
@bunchofbrunners8473 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think it’s a hot take, I think the majority of Christian’s don’t live the life these families have lived and joined into these weird cults. It’s like they take one thing and literally turn it into something it wasn’t meant to be. “Be fruitful and multiply” was said to the first people to ever exist, because… no one else existed. the duggars took that out of the context, and in a full planet, in todays world, have 20 kids. (20? 19? You get it.) That’s how many of us Christian’s feel watching this family and the things they do.
@LaquetaHodge
@LaquetaHodge 2 жыл бұрын
It's not like you're wrong. As someone who also grew up in a Christian household & still follows Christ today, I've actually experienced a church that was eerily similar to what these families practice. However, my mom realized something was terribly wrong & removed us from that environment. It's extremely toxic & you begin to see that these sects of "Christians" start adding to the Bible & basically make up rules as they go, desperately leaning on people's ignorance & need for guidance. I was always disturbed by the Duggars' entire system even when tv was trying to romanticize it, it wasn't healthy & them parading around on tv is why everything basically crumbled for them.
@eM_eM77x
@eM_eM77x Жыл бұрын
@@bunchofbrunners8473 Totally. I always want to point out that God makes things a certain way for a reason, like the order of things--first things are always more important. When the Bible talks about men loving their wives, it comes FIRST before the woman's submission, and sects like this have it completely backward. If the emphasis is completely on the woman submitting to everything and anything, it can be extremely destructive and not God's plan for marriage. The husband has to treat the wife with loving sacrifice and she responds to that out of feeling safe and loved. Also women are only fertile a small amount of time each month. If He wanted us to constantly be pregnant, then we would constantly be fertile. But He's given us an opportunity to enjoy sex without babies too. Does anyone get it?
@tracyanglin7563
@tracyanglin7563 2 жыл бұрын
Just stumbled on your channel. Your really a talented storyteller. I’ll be watching more!
@nasd1995
@nasd1995 2 жыл бұрын
A well done video. Thank you for your hard work. We really appreciate you 💕
@lostinspace466
@lostinspace466 2 жыл бұрын
This is such a well-produced video. It’s very informative and professional. I really enjoyed this and am looking forward to future content.
@rabbid123
@rabbid123 Жыл бұрын
Glad I stumbled upon your documentary! Very informative and VERY well done! THANK YOU!
@petitehippie7064
@petitehippie7064 2 жыл бұрын
You did a fantastic job! Great research. I thought I already knew, nearly everything there was to know about these fundie families, over the years of reading up on them. I was wrong. So much I didn't know. Well done!
@justrosie
@justrosie 2 жыл бұрын
You have done a wonderful job narrating this story. I cannot wait for part 2!!
@betheecommentator
@betheecommentator 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I genuinely appreciate your feedback
@SaraSmilesandCreates
@SaraSmilesandCreates 2 жыл бұрын
Her dad being in prison ministry and her dad’s life before becoming a Christian really puts a lot of things in perspective.
@LisaKoffler
@LisaKoffler 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Anna's father is part of Bill Gothard's IBLP cult ministry, and it's absolutely disgusting!
@nmikloiche
@nmikloiche 2 жыл бұрын
Really excellent work here. I’ve been following the IBLP/ATI and it’s super families since the mid 2000s and I can’t find anything off base with this video. It also says a whole lot in a little bit of time. I’m going to see if part2 is up and see what else you have produced, as this is above and beyond what other creators have tried to produce. Well done.
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