5 Things Every Woman NEEDS to Know About a Man // Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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[@tipically_me]

1) He is not a woman 2) He is under a lot of pressure. More than you will know. 3) He doesn’t want to “deal”with the woman when he gets home. He needs to decompress. 4) He doesn’t need another mother. He needs a helper. 5) He needs to be honored and respected. Acknowledged. 💎💎💎💎💎

[@feliciabailey5120]

Amen I don't want to be contentious with my husband because he has to go out in the world and navigate especially a black man to provide for me so it's important that we do just this

[@yemi6184]

What happens if it’s the woman who has to go out “conquer the world” to provide for her family? Too many disturbing presumptions in this message

[@feliciabailey5120]

@yemi6184 if that woman agreed with the man before she married or even after his leader which is God will show him how to lighten her role that keeps her covered and supported in every way some men stay home and take care of the children because her skills set makes the most money but that man is not to be devalued in that setup he is still the head

[@JAnd-andJ]

😂I think you put up the 5 bullet point summary on the women's side of this. Thanks. I move quickly and before I had time to sit and dive deeper, this helps. **edit, no it was someone else, but thanks still applies.**

[@mrsbrownsugarsweetz]

Some gems were dropped. My advice is to Ask God to make u a better wife and He will. If ur husband is getting on ur nerves, ask God to work on u. Not him. Through all my years of marriage one revelations I’ve gotten is if I do right in my marriage, God will honor me. Even if u have a husband who is not doing right. U continue to be the wife God called u to be and watch Him bless u.

[@busietshangela1399]

I’m divorced for 7 years this year… I feel like I owe my ex an apology after listening to this wisdom😮, thank you guys. I love you two❤

[@lucyr1822]

I apologized after 6 years of being divorced to my ex . It was a relief and lifted a burden. The marriage did not end because of one person. Pride and ego and not forgiving can burden us … ❤

[@ngreat4390]

That would be very wise. Please do! May God heal your hearts and restore your home

[@ngreat4390]

​@@lucyr1822glad you did. It takes courage and humility to do that and I pray God heals your hearts and home

[@user-or9tw1ct6l]

Yes, I'm in the same position. My ex hunsband and I both realised how much we did not understand each other. I have learned so much, I'm now in Christ, I know now my role as a women for his kingdom. In jesus name. Amen ❤

[@feliciabailey5120]

Amen I'm with you once I learned from a damaged man that nothing I did he couldn't trust me so I prayed to God and seeing you say this I agree I damaged my ex-husband

[@ashley_riley]

She is definitely a traditional wife…. Working on myself to become like this

[@supermodeljaz6829]

Awareness is so good, I’m happy for you Beautiful Ashley🌹, you’re well on your way!

[@opalbeach9626]

A wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one tears it down. Women will not submit to her husband if he does not work and provides for her family. Thanks for sharing.

[@vuyiswanonkonyana7550]

This was so refreshing. I felt the Holy Spirit tell me you are closer to marriage because now I have a revelation on how to be a good wife

[@senorabroomesrabroome1314]

Pre-marital counselling is so important.

[@sg5720]

21 years married - hubby and I have had NO pre counselling cause our foundation is the same. God is the head of our marriage- and because of that I e going strong. It ain’t perfect but I can’t imagine being with anyone else and he always let me know how much he loves and appreciate me. Counselling is a good thing, but not everyone needs it 😊

[@Godschosen118]

I love how Tabatha looks at her husband...you can tell how much she adores him. I hope she gets the same, she looks like a sweet soul🌼🌼🌼

[@EIGHTMINUTESWITHAIRVING]

I agree I noticed that too I pray and hope soon woman needs so much love and affection God committed it is in the word of God pray that it’s genuine, and we supplicate🙏🏼🥰

[@johannees622]

I noticed that too 😊

[@myriamspears8208]

This was so good. I realize I was helping the enemy break down my husband. We're not going out like that!! Thank you!

[@carineanwi7830]

It's just hit me that God intended for me to come across your channel. When you said you pray and ask God to let the right persons watch your videos, I see this as a sign to an answered prayer. I'm watching and learning what I need to work on in my life. Thank you Pastors 🙏

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

We love to hear it!

[@derekdobbs4954]

Watching you both pour into me such good advice is so nice,and I thank God for pushing those buttons in my life. Keep up the good work.

[@derekdobbs4954]

I have just announced that we are starting Gloria night is back at our home Thanks for the idea!

[@feliciabailey5120]

Yes the world says the algorithm I see God's divine intervention

[@Moryah.mollel]

Wow this was an amazing conversation, I really didn’t want it to end. As a 23 yr old engaged woman this gave me a lot to think about in terms of how to ensure that my man feels valued, respected , and honored and being able to set the tone of the atmosphere of the home. Thank you for this wisdom🙌🏾✨

[@leviescott4819]

Purposely passing gas and not picking up after ourselves in front of anyone is inappropriate regardless of our gender. It’s more about living more like CHRIST by being more considerate of each other as CHRIST is considerate of us even though He created us.

[@altheazane3173]

Before now, Iv'e never been into podcasts, BUT, I've been addicted to you guys since Wednesday 10/12/23 of this week. Thank you lovely people. I'm a Single woman using my single season to prepare for my Boaz.

[@kathymcclain7410]

I wish I had this wisdom earlier in my marriage. I have been with my husband for almost 40 years but am seeing so many mistakes that I have made. Keep bringing these messages and pray for me that I will make the changes that I need to see my marriage flourish. In the name of Jesus. Amen ❤🙏🏽

[@SaharaKnows]

A man doesn’t need another mother. Some men need to hear that because that’s what he is expecting from his wife. Would love to hear this from the dynamic of today where most woman are working and some cases the bread winner

[@tequilap4224]

This next level communication. I’ve been married for 8 years and I can honestly say ive have a long way to go with understanding. Thank y’all for the vulnerability and transparency 🙏.

[@salimaellis3980]

I want value back in my marriage

[@brigettelanghorn7485]

What a blessing to hear this, we have been married 37 years. But, you have spoken life into our lives. Thank you

[@charmainebrimm8715]

I am learning so much. The Lord is really preparing me for marriage. This was so good 🎉🎉🎉

[@LifewithBawseNancy]

Swear 😌 I called my engagement off the other day and I’m here realizing I just didn’t understand my man.

[@naneybomba9887]

❤ God is LITTERLY speaking to me. He always been there.. He loves me soo much. God sees my heart, God knows my prayers, God opens my eyes! God is indescribable AMAZING!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@TheNaynay91]

You need to tell on sin before sin tells on you woooo! That’s a word!!

[@pattyhernandez6604]

Yes, telling me he was attracted to another woman has happened. I created a safe space for him to speak. We discussed things about her and we were able to find the root, we were able to pray about it and break a soul tie. He felt free to talk to me about a lot of things until drugs got involved. When drug use began there was no saving the marriage after all the deceit, shame, dangers that came with the drug use. We are no longer married, but before drugs, the marriage was a safe place for us to communicate. We did discuss the beginning of drug use as well but he succumbed fully to it. I chose to let him go for my own safety.

[@victoriam3838]

I learned something today. There’s a difference between how boys versus men communicate to their women. I also learned how femininity plays a role in how we treat our men.

[@shadeadewumi4299]

I percieve rhat the Holy spirit is preparing me now for marriage...i had fear and anxiety about marriage before i came across this channel and was praying to get a marriage coach and here i found one.. Thank you Lord. .

[@bulelwakowa3920]

Girl I had to stop this video to respond on your comment I am in the same season as you and I must say it is not what I had imagined being an way what I am struggling with now is that I feel like I am not ready and I feel like I am still to broken to have someone close to me like that and also I don't want to break any one else around me I did take those fear or these struggles to the the lord just letting him know how I really feel so I get you sis honestly I do 🇿🇦

[@nyamushagibridget9853]

I love them....just started listening to them yesterday.....thank you....now until my husband finds me❤

[@mckaylac.grimes4211]

I am no longer with my sons dad but I will always respect and love him for being an incredible father. Our son is so blessed

[@MNIU_]

Your channel is underrated I’m on my fourth consecutive video and I’m so happy for it! Such a blessing to the body!!!

[@Gabbydabby29]

Amazing! I loveeeeee the example of honor this wife gives her husband. Us young daughters need more of her counsel. Teach us woman of God!

[@taniyahcriswell]

I had the opportunity to meet Pastor Tabatha this past weekend. She’s such a sweet soul! Prayerfully, marriage isn’t that far down the road for me, and this episode helped me so much! Thank you Pastor Ken & Pastor Tabatha!🤍

[@tammyspeakliferadioministr2332]

@ 10:56 I took a pause to get myself together. I did not know what is was like to have a dad growing up, mine was in prison. We were introduced at the age of 13. My dad was released when I was 18. It was the best day and year of my life!!! Then, what happened broke my heart into a million pieces….the cops killed my daddy. They shattered my dreams. I am 56 , 10:59 10:59 and I miss him so much. I am grateful that God is my Heavenly Father. Thank you for giving me the language of how to express what I was missing. ❤❤😢❤❤

[@CharCharJars]

WoW ❤ My first time here, praying GOD prepares me like this as I also prepare for the godly man HE has for me. This was very transparent, transformative & beautiful

[@candicestory5806]

I just love you both so much! I’m a single mom of 2 girls and trying to become the wife God has called me to be to the husband I know he has created me for. Tabitha, talk about a Proverbs 31 woman! You remind me so much of my mom and how submissive and supportive she is to my dad. I pray I carry that same anointing and that God will use me as a strategic helpmate for my future husband and for His kingdom. God bless your beautiful marriage and family. Love y’all 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@CourtneeG]

Single mommy of 1 girl here! I am praying for us! I’ve followed this couple recently in hopes of learning to do better! Candice God is going to lead us to our kingdom marriages on His perfect timing

[@shameillamoses1530]

I really enjoyed this!!!! Many of us didn’t grow up with healthy relationship examples or guidance. You don’t have to replicate everything this couple is doing but it’s great insight on how to cover, honor and nurture your man. Good men deserve to be treated well

[@aliciasandy2042]

Having a well-rounded present father is important not just a father. I grew up with my dad from the age of 10. He was a single parent. At the age of 32, I had to unlearn certain behaviors and thought patterns I learned from him. I was told I can be harsh and lack emotion. I didn't know how to connect emotionally to people or even receive physical affection. I didn't know how to express my emotions. I didn't receive those from him. I am still learning.

[@jademalanchefservices]

This was sooo good !!! Motivating, happy, made me smile and I learned a lot.

[@joestevanvm]

Thank you so much for this! My soul need to hear this !♥️♥️🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@teresafreemanparker6967]

Oh my goodness you’ve given me so new ideas and couple goals! Thank you for sharing❤️ Blessings to you both🙏🏽

[@aprilrobinson3023]

So glad I found your channel!✨Wow! Love it! Love the delivery and transparency! God bless you both! Keep sharing!✨♥️

[@coritaburks758]

My Apostle has literally said these nuggets multiple times! Thank you both for sharing with such transparency, practicality and wisdom!

[@zoegrei]

Wow! I’m honored to be here. Thank you for this segment. ❤

[@euleniabell4361]

LOVE THIS!! AND you TWO!! First time watching

[@sheilaverdell1370]

So very refreshing to see a Godly couple that can give inspiration of insight in a Godly covenant relationship/marriage(s). Blessings 💕💖💖💖💖💖 So much relevance spoken.

[@franchat]

This convo was so great thank you!

[@crystalblive]

I appreciate the balanced perspective you all have shared. Thank you, very grateful for this!

[@ashleycahoe5626]

This is great. Thank you for being so transparent!

[@adafihkeith868]

Stumbled across you..enjoying it so far..teamwork make the dream work

[@lyllyie6214]

Yes this is helpful. Thank you for all you do!

[@Georgeghumblewhite]

This is so good I just came across y'all channel and will share it with my future wifey 💜

[@chervelleweatherley9421]

Thank you for having this conversation. Very impactful, transparent and real.

[@carolynesyokau1444]

Thank you Ken and Tabatha for always sharing greats nuggets of wisdom. Don't stop at it. You're mending marriages out here. ❤❤

[@wendyhendricks1984]

Thank you for being my internet parents. God bless you all the way from SA

[@sonyacrosby4797]

This is so good! I literally had to repent and break some inner vows (even made in jest). So helpful!

[@mamasbaby0399]

Loved. Loved. LOVED the discourse. I really didn't want it to end. Praying for continued grace & anointing in every area of your lives.

[@empressnairobi3027]

This was great! Thank you so much family 🙏🏾

[@AndreaDenise]

This is so so good!!! Love y’all’s content!

[@exclusivegemsforbusymother2314]

You guys are providing so much wonderful gems for the community. I appreciate you. Keep up the awesome work for your family and the Kingdom of God.

[@reina6542]

So many takeaways! Thank and may the Lord continue to bless you! 🙏🏾❤️

[@Brandy07]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I see some areas I can grow in.

[@beautifullyblessedpatricia9498]

This is my first time listening to you guys, but can I tell you I enjoyed your wisdom. As a divorced woman of many years I desire to marry again and be the best wife I can the second time around!! Thank you so much for sharing and doing it in such a beautiful way❤️🙌🏾🙏🏽.... Many more Blessings to you both!!!

[@siphokazimngxali7558]

Wisdom here. I am really learning to better me waiting. This is going to be God way

[@feliciabailey5120]

I just found them yesterday and I love the tone they have with each other

[@reneeorsak1144]

I want this for my daughter 😔. Her dad and I need so much healing.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

praying for healing in your relationship!

[@thebreakthrough9782]

Some boat😢

[@moriok6353]

You guys are doing a great job and you are speaking to my heart. I enjoy your videos and the topics very much. Very inspiring ❤

[@JulienneHinge-gb4bv]

Amen helpful conversation not only that real life what we going through every day you both sharing what women should do

[@angelaaaron9253]

You guys are blessing so many people!❤

[@shanaeingram541]

Ahh man I love you guys!🔥🔥 I’m a new fan! Very soothing and wise

[@jlove2smile]

This is so good and put everything into perspective. I regret my last relationship ended.

[@samanthaburton2870]

I just recently found you guys but I am so glad I did! Being able to hear what a healthy relationship looks and sounds like is making me hopeful to be in love and to work with a man to build our family! Thank you for being open and sharing your life with us ❤️

[@fredijackson3656]

My 2nd Episode. Again, thanks to both of you for the Wisdom nuggets.

[@Kenesha_]

Love these topics! Thank you so much. Single for now 🙏🏾

[@khethiwengubo8035]

Thank you so much really discovered this podcast when i really needed it... am so grateful for your prayers so we can discover you

[@jaabronwells6454]

You guys are a blessing to me

[@jennyblessing6403]

And the Holy spirit led my search aright 😢 I love how real and sincere you both have kept your talks, there was no sugar-coating. Just subscribed, can't wait for more. God bless you ❤❤❤❤

[@TheLouisking]

You both are awesome. Ken thanks for coming to Haven Worship Center last Sunday.

[@abiolaO2541]

This was so refreshing to watch

[@deborahlewis930]

Appreciating Tabatha ❤

[@francinegray9346]

Thank you for your transparency I was raised in a two parent home until I was 16. My parents were pastors and divorced. Listening to you both I realized I didn’t have this talk with her about this topic because she was dealing with her own hurt this is a topic I needed to hear

[@charlenesparks1405]

This is an amazing! I am loving this Marriage Podcast! Michael & Charlene ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@vosteen25]

This was so helpful! Thank you 🤍

[@doreenteye-adjei4969]

I hardly comment on anything on youtube, but you both are full of godly wisdom, very real and there's so much to learn from both of you, so i'll definitely keep watching. God bless you both for such insight.

[@desireereed1211]

It would be amazing to hear about engagement from the male and female perspective since I feel as if people focus on singleness or marriage primarily. Love the content as always and looking forward to the 5 things a man should know about a woman!🙏🏽

[@PYTMiracle]

I’m only 25 and came across your podcast and you both are doings Gods work!!! I’m so happy to have found you even though I’m in a single season these gems are amazing and will be useful for my future King 🥰

[@robinp9047]

Ken’s nights are back 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽It’s so good to hear happy people take care of each other 😊

[@amandamodisakeng2995]

Oh wow so informed i feel like i am ready for my king❤

[@deniseslaughter1965]

I love the content in your videos. One thing that I'd like to add is that "It takes 2 to make a thing go right." Either partner can give their ALL in making a relationship/marriage successful, HOWEVER, if only one is doing the work, it's doomed to fail. That's reality. Or, you stay... just because, and there's no peace, joy, or success in that. KEEP IT COMING....WE'RE LEARNING AND GROWING ❤

[@lindaechem2789]

You are in my mind. It takes two to tango. It becomes a burden when you are giving without receiving.

[@aminamaple-bey1693]

You two are really teaching, if someone had told me this things a long time ago....things may have been different...better in my life.

[@iamabundant777]

I'm so glad I attracted this message into my life. Beautifully honest conversation. God bless y'all.🙏🏾❤️

[@WeightLosswithPCOS]

Such a great episode! Definitely making more of an effort to provide a safe space for a man to open up. Build that trust.

[@brihtbrat192]

amazing to watch since i just recently got married ! dropped some gems for me to take notes !

[@deannashcherbina6675]

Thank you for sharing your perspective and your journey. What a blessing it is to listen to your content, you two are inspiring!

[@DrVanessaBrooks]

So glad I found this channel. I first watched 10 ways to prepare yourself for marriage. Thank you for this channel in general🙏🏾 and letting God use you two

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Glad to have you here!

[@kristinarobinson3241]

This channel is a God send!! I’m officially subscribed after watching a second video!! I needed this. I’m not married yet but my future husband and I know God has called us together, He’s just working on getting us together individually until we finally seal the deal!! I am so glad to have come across this information because it is vital to having a successful Godly relationship and to be perfectly honest I just wasn’t taught about this! Unless a woman is seeking this information for herself or she’s blessed enough to have someone share this kind of information with her, it just doesn’t come across your radar. What is coming across every woman and girls radar is self empowerment (the kind that says your better than a man), how to get yours, you don’t need a man, men are this and that, etc. etc. I can’t wait to use this to love up on my husband! Thank you so much! God bless!!

[@kerronewen3162]

This is so awesome, I love the way you both converse with each other. It’s a Blessing ❤

[@genaalder2057]

Hi Ken and Tabatha! You guys are a great couple! Listening to you gives me hope that one day I can have a healthy marriage. I learn a lot from you. Thank you for sharing 🙂!

[@latrinkabarnes9866]

I thoroughly enjoyed this video .. I shared it to everyone I could think of. Im divorced but am doing the work to be be better prepared for my next husband

[@realtor_faithmbolu]

I just came across this podcast and I am loving it🙏

[@lornamcbean2154]

I’m new to your KZbin videos (watched two so far); and I have to say they are great!! Keep up the good work!😊

[@ladydivacustomdesigns6431]

This was such an amazing conversation. I'm working on being the best version of a help meet possible for my man.

[@graceolagunju7174]

This podcast was soo good! I really enjoyed it.

[@sherondalekay]

Amazing episode! Thank you

[@alicesagastizado7238]

This was a great topic to cover. I'm so happy the both of you were vulnerable to share your thoughts on various topics. Thank you and blessings.

[@franfrench682]

I'm so glad I found your channel. Thank you, Lord Jesus, for this ministry.