This has gotta be one of the best conversations you've had with any streamers
@doomertube70504 ай бұрын
Just arrived with low expectations 😅, I hope you’re right!
@Bellamy_Koby4 ай бұрын
@@doomertube7050 why low? Destiny consistently has great convos
@specialknees67984 ай бұрын
His convos with Destiny are almost always great. The last one about adhd meds was a little slow bc it was super specific, but in general that riff off one another super well. They’re both smart, and I think Dr. K is about as good as conversations/communication as Destiny is at Debates. Which is to say, one of the best online.
@doomertube70504 ай бұрын
@@Bellamy_Koby I was a fan of Destiny for a time & find him to be too argumentative (as opposed to collaborative) and needlessly aggressive in debate at his worst. I only say that because I do think he’s very bright, just sometimes falls victim to the identity politics & clickbait era we live in
@doomertube70504 ай бұрын
@@specialknees6798 I agree that Dr K is an expert communicator and will have no problem keeping things on rails (: Destiny is a great debater but I hate seeing him “lose his cool” in some of those said debates
@CR33SIVE4 ай бұрын
I like how a channel about positivity and mental health health has a bunch really toxic comments towards the guest. Destiny isn't on here to debate anyone, he's having a human-to-human conversation about his personal issues. Regardless of your opinions towards him, you should be able to sypathize with a person who is trying to sort out long-standing issues in the way they see others. If anything, Destiny would come out of this talk being a more compassionate person. You guys should want this.
@oliviae18614 ай бұрын
real and true idk how this channel has so much toxicity
@CR33SIVE4 ай бұрын
@@alexandermacneil4430 I don't think that's true.
@reggymcmonkey57374 ай бұрын
@@alexandermacneil4430 Perhaps you should check your biases... or maybe your perception? Since when has he ever claimed that or treated them as such?
@spirit_theyarehere4 ай бұрын
He said Israel should "just finish" its genocid3 on Gaza. How compassionate.
@reggymcmonkey57374 ай бұрын
@@spirit_theyarehere Where does he say that?
@breeban33884 ай бұрын
Destiny mentioned in this that he tries to be aware of biases against people he doesn't like. I'm glad I checked my bias against him, and went ahead and watched. I felt a lot of myself I'm destiny here and learned a whole lot from this.
@spartanparty38944 ай бұрын
yeah he suffers a lot from his total refusal to put his best foot forward hahaha
@Maelthorn13374 ай бұрын
Y'know, I always thought SINISTAR and Destiny might have some things in common.
@AXharoth4 ай бұрын
this is BIG
@AXharoth4 ай бұрын
@@spartanparty3894 so funny hahahaha not
@fungdark82704 ай бұрын
He’s super off putting if you don’t agree with him, but if you give him a chance he doesn’t go into decisions based on aesthetic or emotion
@EvdsChannel4 ай бұрын
I am a 55 year old woman with ADHD and Steven reminds me so much of myself. I believe the problem to ask for or accept help have a lot to do with the fear of being a disappointment to others.
@EvdsChannel4 ай бұрын
Example- what if you get the help and you still don’t get it right.
@rasputin38004 ай бұрын
@@EvdsChannelthere is a chance, yes. I'm avoiding help too, but it kinda damaged my relationships, when people can do nothing to help you, they feel disconnected and not close
@AXharoth4 ай бұрын
i would imagine its not related to adhd
@EusebiusAT4 ай бұрын
@@AXharoth No, it absolutely is. Can attest. A lot of people with ADHD have huge difficulties with relationships because we struggle with commitments and scheduling time for others, we can be difficult to communicate with because we can have trouble listening to others, we might cut you off or hijack a conversation, without any ill intent, and gennerally speaking we also just tend to have huge insecurity and anxiety issues. Another way of looking at this is the correlation between anxiety, depression, autism and ADHD. Destiny is lucky that he seems to have developed really good strategies for productivity, so he's probably an example of a more secure ADHD'er, but when you look at the stats of how likely people with ADHD are to have had issues with work, colleagues, managers, getting laid-off, etc, and the tendency for us to drop out of school, or not complete education at a level that would otherwise be appropriate for our intelligence, it becomes really understandable that a lot of us feel like we're failing ourselves and the people we know. When you feel like a failure, but you recognize that given your intelligence and capabilities you should be performing better, it becomes really easy to feel like a burden and develope shame and embarrassment around asking for help or having to depend on others.
@alenaadamkova53224 ай бұрын
Maybe as the cpontent on internet become more engaging or healthy and organic way, people will actually be more inspired to follow mostly organic content anda lso replace it with meeting face to face in real ebvents outside in healthy groups. I mean for example yoga people or sport people, or music people etc There should be some "screen detox" therapy or topic or better say "click detox" because people make maybe 11 000 clicks per day without even realizing it consciously.
@tempest-tom91804 ай бұрын
What a blast this conversation was. Very relatable. Thanks doc.
@thekraken8himАй бұрын
One thing that was bushed over in this topic was when Destiny mentioned that his family was very religious. Anecdotally I have noticed many people (especially men) who grow up religious turn to hyper-intellectualism when they leave their faith. They tend to obsess over debate, philosophy, and requiring empirical proof of every little thing. It almost seems like they are afraid to just take anything on faith or feeling because of the trauma that comes feeling fooled by religion growing up. There's nothing inherently wrong with these topics, but it's often used very defensively and to justify being mean to their critics. I'd love an exploration of this topic, as I see it play out in so many people.
@jessicapermadi63404 ай бұрын
@06:38 Dr K enters and talks about previous interactions with Destiny @09:03 Destiny enters @10:45 What Dr. K has been up to @13:40 Are people even talking about tech addiction? @18:56 Discussion on honing our perception @22:15 Retrospective analysis to improve work @28:12 What Destiny's been up to and how he's grown objective and subjectively @36:10 Ridding oneself of all bias @40:12 Logic can be hijacked by emotions @43:50 Discussion about intentional binding @47:00 Making decisions and their rewards @50:15 Dr K's 3 different conversation threads @52:29 Discussion on biological determinism @57:36 Plateaus and breaking through them @58:20 Destiny's dismissive avoidant attachment (where it gets interesting imo) @01:02:43 An issue of state not trait @01:05:26 Destiny being a people pleaser, but also not wanting people to care about him @01:13:17 Pros of being an independent child @01:16:25 To change or not to change things @01:19:20 Understanding Destiny's mind and feeling responsible for other people's feelings @01:22:47 Destiny's self-judgement and struggle with compliments ----- insecurity? @01:27:40 Being responsible for other people's feelings again (and protecting Dr K's feels) @01:33:00 A time when Destiny made people unhappy and was punished for it @01:36:30 Being relied on and Destiny's relationships @01:42:11 Is Destiny a sociopath? @01:44:37 What's wrong with letting people down? @01:46:34 Destiny's vasana and compassion @01:49:30 How Destiny perceives and gives compliments and Dr K's advice @02:02:10 Dr K talking about compassion and admitting we've been hurt @02:07:10 The technicalities of compliments @02:11:45 Omega form @02:16:27 The boundary between you and another person @02:19:10 Being an asshole @02:21:34 Realtime example of Destiny learning(!!!) @02:22:25 Dr K's journey with Eastern medicine and it's place in the West and a rehash of the Dr Mike episode @02:36:02 How Dr K practices Eastern medicine in the West @02:38:50 Removing the East from Eastern medicine - sandwich analogy @02:45:15 Dr K's reflection on Ayurvedic research @02:47:40 Heuristics and their functional utilities @02:50:08 Cultural appropriation of Eastern medicine @02:51:45 Dr K gives us concepts to think about
@thekitten97774 ай бұрын
Ty fam 🙏🏻
@hunter75074 ай бұрын
I hope you find a $100 bill on the ground today
@dacg9507294 ай бұрын
It's people like you that keep the world turning
@MrNuclearPsychopath4 ай бұрын
Bless ye
@bruh-rt7sr4 ай бұрын
goat
@Zlei.4 ай бұрын
6:34
@11yoyomama4 ай бұрын
Literally doing the lords work
@whatwhatdbzwhat44754 ай бұрын
Mvp
@askerton084 ай бұрын
I’m glad to be number 69
@chrisdawson93124 ай бұрын
Thank you, sir!
@hunter75074 ай бұрын
I hope your pillow is extra cold tonight (if that's your thing)
@egoncholakianfan4 ай бұрын
watched it live, one of the best conversations you've ever had with any of the streamers.
@GiulianoVenturo4 ай бұрын
2:21:34 there's so many things that kinda resonated with me and this exact moment where I would probably said the same about "ok we should cut the call because you mentioned" (and in my mind would be something like ok he probably wanted to cut because we could got too many hours or he's busy or just don't wanna talk more so I should "flow" with the first sentence and say yeah we should cut), but then Destiny apply what Dr. K was talking and damn... it really felt like an eye opening, like those who wear glasses and then you just clean it and never realized how dirty they were until you actually clean it. Also the respond of Dr. K sound geniue like "ok we can talk but I have just 20min if that ok with you". I feel like I learn a lot, thank you so much for talking!
@AXharoth4 ай бұрын
the lesson is some people learned too well to not be selfish , but it goes too far sometime and you actually need to learn to be more "selfish" , but i guess a better word is self loving , but also its important to not assume automatically that youre bothering that they are busy , that they dont have time bla bla bla , ask rather than automatically assuming all that negative stuff
@GiulianoVenturo4 ай бұрын
@@AXharoth yup sound so simple but at the same time so complex when I want to do it. I hope I remember this for the next time that happens
@Impulse_Intent4 ай бұрын
AOE healing baby
@taylan.b4 ай бұрын
@@Impulse_Intent YEAH BABYYYYYY
@joshuahadden81784 ай бұрын
Wooh let go baby
@oliviae18614 ай бұрын
destiny actually getting therapized dr k made him introspect about things hes never considered this was a very interesting watch
@robbiesarris90724 ай бұрын
Not therapy btw
@viziontrex4 ай бұрын
Not a cult dggL
@WolfHeathen4 ай бұрын
@@robbiesarris9072 For technically legal reasons it's not. For common sense reasons it is.
@Kirito_20164 ай бұрын
@@robbiesarris9072it’s probably somewhat therapy, but I wouldn’t call it it psychiatry.
@nidhishshivashankar48854 ай бұрын
@@WolfHeathenthere was no diagnostic process ergo no therapy
@loganlawrence14764 ай бұрын
Your conversations with Destiny are so great. I always walk away having more insight and direction into my own life
@TipsyFGC4 ай бұрын
Man the chat was so wildly toxic for this one. never expected that from Dr. K's community
@justin11294 ай бұрын
its the Destiny haters. not dr.ks community
@Versace_sheets4 ай бұрын
People hate this guy. You literally can't blame them for the shit he says.
@Bertinator-nm9ld4 ай бұрын
@@JoeMama-gi1soAre you trolling, or do you actually believe that?
@deeky12394 ай бұрын
That's the result of Twitch's mod team banning anyone who isn't a downright communist on their platform. It's an echo chamber.
@naukumaija70564 ай бұрын
@@Versace_sheets Look, it's someone who's never watched Destiny but instead only watches people who sh*t on him (let me guess, Hasan?"
@NotWithoutIt-kq7hv4 ай бұрын
jesus christ how do you make a 3 hour talk feel like it was cut short LOL ???
@youngbaggerz69444 ай бұрын
Repent to God
@QueequegCS4 ай бұрын
@@youngbaggerz6944 hypocritical preaching
@TheFootballstar55884 ай бұрын
@@youngbaggerz6944 “Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.”
@minimalhostage4 ай бұрын
destiny is a girls name.
@theyonlycomeoutwhenitsquiet4 ай бұрын
Ah, but is that by convention or necessity? Because if it’s the former, then it need not stay true.
@mark92944 ай бұрын
Sorry, but that’s stupid.
@MrBuns-yi2hk4 ай бұрын
Best comment.
@primodiscepolopingu3734 ай бұрын
Lmao i can tell 100% you got banned from his KZbin comments
@pepsikthelegend83674 ай бұрын
😭😭😭the reference
@kylercredit4 ай бұрын
More conversations with destiny!! This was so captivating thank you both!
@nate7964 ай бұрын
Not sure who doesn’t like Steven from this community, but one thing is true. Dr.K and Steven have arguably the most authentic personalities styles in this community. Cheers to many more interviews going forward between you two.
@gumbotime95644 ай бұрын
Based lovepost. Love these convos between them too. I think most of the people who dislike destiny get it from other peoples characterization of him not actually consuming his content.
@terminaldeity4 ай бұрын
Pfffft, Destiny is an insincere grifter.
@alyote49054 ай бұрын
i think probably a lot of people in this community resonably hate him due to his opinions on current events
@samurai154014 ай бұрын
@@terminaldeity since you're so sure he is a grifter could you source out actual evidence bro ?
@Jimbo59004 ай бұрын
@@terminaldeity what makes you say that?
@kevinross62354 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed this conversation. I hope Dr.K goes on to Destiny's podcast
@noahgibson-baker32004 ай бұрын
u/notsoerudite
@MitraKesava4 ай бұрын
Yeah that’s a good idea, maybe he can teach Dr. K how to say the n word.
@BradenIrwin4 ай бұрын
Dr. K sets the scene 6:34 Destiny joins 9:02
@hunter75074 ай бұрын
I hope you find a $20 bill on the ground today
@Toto-yj8hc4 ай бұрын
Me too
@woutsia4 ай бұрын
I hope your pillow is of adequate temperature on both sides
@johnd10474 ай бұрын
You’re a sweetie🫶
@ohwell90934 ай бұрын
Wow, didn't think I'd be learning stuff that's relevant to me. Thankyou Destiny for being brave and vulnerable!
@AphidCell4 ай бұрын
@@yagnapatel3912 do you often watch streams or just videos? a lot of what I've seen already brushed over these topics in ways that showcased what he struggled with before, in quite a lot of arcs. I would say the only difference was that this was a much better deep dive and deconstruction on what to actually do to change those issues, thanks to Dr. K
@naukumaija70564 ай бұрын
I relate to so much shit that Destiny says, but I think I'm far FAR less capable than him in the confidence (or "condifence") department, but also (thus?) more able to see when things like not wanting help are related to my insecurities, and boy it's so fun and rewarding to watch Dr K kinda coax this stuff out of him. That said, I feel like A LOT of people would be more easily coaxed. The fact that Stephen said he has NO idea why he has a hard time accepting compliments and Dr K smiled, I was like ooofffft this stuff is buried DEEP. DEEP!!!! with this guy. I love it when you guys talk together. Thanks!
@SukacitaYeremia4 ай бұрын
I imagine, having someone else worry about you after not having that happen all your life probably feels unfair. Like a betrayal of the way you've lived so far. You've been denied the cake of someone being there for you, but that comes with the benefit of not having to worry about other people's perception of you. But all of a sudden someone just decided that you can't eat that cake either, and steals the freedom of being lonely from you too. Like, thinking you've bought a singleplayer game, but turns out you were mistaken and had gotten a multiplayer game instead.
@killtheo88944 ай бұрын
Awesome to see you guys chat, hope you can discuss more about Eastern and Western Medicine in the future. Perhaps on bridges?
@mordant94954 ай бұрын
Did you see his video with Dr. Mike on his channel? I think they talk about it there!
@Erik-mf5zo4 ай бұрын
@mordant9495 That is precisely why it is being asked, Dr.Mike is very smart and knowledgeable but did not necessarily have the skillset to navigate the conversation the way he clearly wanted and destiny as well as his fan base both felt this way, even though they leaned more towards DrK as a person
@KkernelSanders4 ай бұрын
@@Erik-mf5zoYeah, a lot of that conversation needed some knowledge or at least some experience in thinking about the Philosophy of Science, the conversation was a bit circular at times.
@JjJj-kv7wu4 ай бұрын
@@mordant9495 i feel like K wasent prepared to have a debate, and aside from that Mike had already made his mind on Eastern medicine so it was a bit chaotic and unclear convo which is why Destiny said that he came with a different impression to many people who saw it as dr K being exposed
@jehdsbs4 ай бұрын
really really enjoying this one. helps me a lot to see sth close to a therapy session with someone who intellectualizes the shit out of everything, could relate to a lot of it
@WolfHeathen4 ай бұрын
He tries to intellectualize. He's so clearly not an intellectual.
@idkman91644 ай бұрын
Gatekeeping intelligence based on fuckall lets go!
@9999ping4 ай бұрын
@@WolfHeathen rather than casting judgment on others on a channel about self improvement and mental health. We should strive towards making an environment where people can be vulnerable and not immediately on edge by calling into question whether they’re an “intellectual”.
@maxcleghorn4 ай бұрын
@@9999ping it's insane how everything that Dr. K tries to express is thrown out the window as soon as he talks with people that chat doesn't like. Like what are they even gaining from these conversations if they turn this hostile?
@weatheredseeker4 ай бұрын
@@maxcleghorn it's not inherently hostile to correct a false title people give someone
@crazymonk274 ай бұрын
I think a lot of the people who do not like destiny need to hear this conversation more than most.
@lwo77364 ай бұрын
Yes. We need to hear from the genocide apologist. Thank you for the advice.
@oConshien4 ай бұрын
You're welcome. Hope you have a nice day, anything fun planned for the weekend?
@crazymonk274 ай бұрын
No I would not classify him in that way. Yet the point was listening to in meaningful ways to find helpful or important information from speakers you do not agree with or like as a person for one reason or another. This is a key topic discussed in the video and I believe that you could learn a great deal from not closing yourself off and making assumptions of other people.
@brogramy4 ай бұрын
So that means I have to watch this one😅
@meislouis13814 ай бұрын
@@lwo7736you don't know what genocide means
@anxav4 ай бұрын
*Intro & Disclaimer:* - Welcoming Destiny & Disclaimer: 6:34 - History of Interactions & Addressing Concerns: 07:02 - Platforming & Dialogue: 07:50 - Technical Setup & Gratitude: 08:14 *Conversation with Destiny:* 9:02 - Recent Activities & Content Creation: 10:37 - Technology Addiction & Societal Impact of the Internet: 12:43 - Misdiagnosis of Social Ills & The Role of Cellphones: 13:40 - Honing Perception & "Glishta": 18:49 - Therapy, Replay Analysis, & Introspection: 21:37 - Destiny's Success & Personal Growth: 28:10 - ADHD Medication & Replay Analysis in StarCraft II: 30:30 - Destiny's Subjective Experience of Growth: 32:04 - Emotional Independence & Intellectual Humility: 32:31 - Balancing Internal Foundations & External Criticism: 34:08 - Biases & Intentional Awareness: 36:28 - Logic, Ego, & Addictive Brain: 40:46 - Intentional Binding & Repeating Actions: 43:48 - Divorcing Results from Decision-Making: 46:49 - Intentional Binding in Gaming: 48:56 *Dismissive Avoidant Attachment & its Impact:* - Difficulty with Confrontation & Setting Expectations: 58:57 - State vs. Trait & Fluctuations in the Mind: 1:02:27 - People-Pleasing & Internal Objectives: 1:07:03 - Learning Social Interaction & High School Experience: 1:08:53 - Independence & Discomfort with Care: 1:10:57 - Genuine Interest & Selective Dependency: 1:13:20 - Discomfort with Compliments & Filtering Through Perception: 1:23:57 - The "Burden" of Kindness & Transactional Relationships: 1:52:19 - Authentic Compliments & Changing Perception: 1:54:36 - The Power of Observation & Disentangling Self from Others: 2:07:06 - Compassion vs. Empathy & The License for Assholery: 2:19:15 *Eastern vs Western Medicine:* - The Role of Eastern Medicine in Contemporary Mental Health: 2:21:40 - Dr. Mike Conversation & Ayurveda: 2:23:13 - Subjective vs. Objective Approaches & Sample Size of One: 2:26:03 - External Validity & Individualized Treatment: 2:26:49 - The Limitations of RCTs & Naturalistic Studies: 2:30:09 - The Importance of Informed Consent & Evidence-Based CAM: 2:36:15 - Integrating Ayurvedic Principles & Ethical Considerations: 2:37:27 - Scientific Verification & The "Sandwich Analogy": 2:40:09 - The Value of Epistemic Frameworks & The Materialist Problem: 2:46:26 *Outro & Announcements:* 2:51:35
@gojira28924 ай бұрын
You two always have some of my favorite conversations 💯
@goldythefish364 ай бұрын
Recommend not reading chat at all during this for both perceivable reasons.
@tmchannel84834 ай бұрын
Ye the live chat is completely unhinged when these guys talk.
@shaan7022 ай бұрын
It is truly wild how many times Destiny said how “stupid” or “dumb” something he just said was. I’ve never seen that side of his inner dialogue before.
@9xqspx62 ай бұрын
These talks are so very much informative, I often find out stuff about myself through them. Like deep-deep stuff. Big thanks also to the "guests" willing to open up in front of us - what they are doing is a HUGE service to a lot of people. Thank you! What I've figured out today (seems so obvious now) is that the way I almost never miss people is likely coming from my father being absent for a big part of my childhood (because of work and work related travels; and often when he was finally home, he was still not available as he was tired). I have noticed a long time ago, living abroad, that I don't ever feel home sick and I don't really miss people (not even family and close friends), but never gave a deep thought to why that is. (I'm not sure if the lack of home sickness is related, but it feels that way.) On the other hand, when I really care for someone (romantically) it feels like all the not felt people-missing is all coming out at once and I really suffer. So now that I have figured this much out, I have no idea what to do about it. 😅
@teacherlion3 ай бұрын
Destiny saying he didn't want his father to be supportive of him in that one instance kinda hit me because when I was a kid I was in a tournament and both my parents had to work and I told them it was OK that they didn't need to be there for me but the truth was that I really needed them there. When I won the tournament I felt like nobody cared for me. So even though as a kid we say we don't want our parents to support us and we try to be independent, it actually does matter that they take interest in us and cheer for us. It can be embarassing if they are there but at the end of the day it matters a great deal.
@jonigreenwell17784 ай бұрын
65 year old boomer here: It seems like our generation said "I think" as the default expression... For example; "I think it's too cold to go out." "I think people are spending more time on the internet"... while the younger genertions use "I feel" as the default... "I feel like it too cold to go out." "I feel like people are spending more time on the internet." Good, bad or otherwise, I think younger people are more in touch with their feelings and give them more credence than us older folks. Destiny reminded me because he seems to "feel" his ideas and opinions as he expresses them.
@joejohnson38144 ай бұрын
I wouldn’t read that much into it boomer.
@TheMemeRepository4 ай бұрын
It's certainly something interesting to think about. For me, I use "I feel..." when I know my opinion is more rooted in intuition than anything I can concretely probe within that moment. And to that same effect, I use "I think..." when I can recall the opinion I'm stating being backed up by facts, but I can't quite recall those facts with accuracy within that moment. It's a subtle, but fascinating distinction.
@jehdsbs4 ай бұрын
I think/feel like (lol) that's a quite accurate observation! Although I'd say it's still only limited to bubbles where mental health is prioritized
@Photik4 ай бұрын
I feel like you read too much into how he words things. But then again, that's not what I think.
@tulpapainting17184 ай бұрын
That is an incredible insight. Thank you for this, Joni. I'm nearly 40 years old, and I'm trying to understand the difference, and you just highlighted the issue. At my age, I suspect that people use the two interchangeably, which might be the transition.
@sweetlolitaChii4 ай бұрын
Dr. K, I googled Biological determinism, and the top result is pretty much what Destiny is saying, so I'd use a different word for what you're talking about to avoid misunderstanding
@Beau1364 ай бұрын
Biological determinism is more broad than just race though. In recent years the neuroscientific and philosophical discussion has been more directly related to whether or not free will exists, which is what Dr. K was referring to. Definitely could've been clearer and just used the word free will tho
@r9xh4 ай бұрын
Google is only going to feed you the most ideologically-driven search results. Do not mistake that with reality, but rather the guise of it.
@mitchlymer4 ай бұрын
Perhaps use combine context and use more than the first result on google.
@SnailHatan2 ай бұрын
Ahh, the top result says it, so it must be true! Meanwhile Dr K’s use of the word is completely correct
@Werksonek4 ай бұрын
Oh, and as I finished watching the whole thing, I resonate with a lot of the things you've said. I'm a young woman with recently diagnosed severe ADHD and I weirdly embody a hyper sensitive empath combined with what you were talking about. I don't feel certain things as other people, sometimes I question those traditions, often also logically, which results in people getting offended. Brutal honesty kind of thing. It made me hide certain aspects of myself, since I was getting hints of me being a bad person. BS. I've also had thoughts about sociopathy, even though it's ridiculous looking at how much I care at times. It's just selective and I don't think I was born that way. About the Grandma thing, my first thought was that it's also about guilt. Idk how much of it you've actually felt, but for me it was always an underlying byproduct of taking responsibility for everyone's feelings. No one wants to feel that way and I get it so much since such things irritate me too and people like to use "I'm staying up all night because of you" to guilt trip which means pure manipulation. I experienced it "million" times and it's not only caring in my opinion, often they expect you to accomodate according to their internal state. On one hand I get it that someone would worry, I'm like that too, and I'm guilty of such behaviours myself. But staying up at night would be just too much. It's putting way too much responsibility on someone indeed. It depends, is it just caring or is it suffocating and controlling, because one can perceive it as both and it also depends on the way in which those things are delivered. The fact that it bothers you, shows that you were made responsible for the feelings of others as a kid and that's why you take it that way (I get it). It's a vulnerability and that shield of "not caring" and being hyper rational protects that hyper attunement to others, which is reasonable. Finding the balance would include being receptive and attuned which would not lead to that amount of hurt if you'd implement boundaries and that separation Dr K mentioned. It's not an easy road, so have fun, from another people pleaser, and those are indeed hallmarks of DA attachment style in your case. Especially with some amount of alexythymia.
@colton3304 ай бұрын
I think you just gave me my 100th foot for irrigation. Thank you. Truly.
@Brohan-SS4 ай бұрын
this got real, really appreciate the honesty here, i think alot of us can relate.
@XanttheInversi4 ай бұрын
1:10:14 I’ve never identified with someone so heavily. I hate it when people did things like that because it felt like they were using their emotional disregulation to hold me emotionally hostage or emotionally blackmail me and then hide behind social convention/cohesion.
@Bertinator-nm9ld4 ай бұрын
Have you changed your understanding of what they're doing? Because while some people do behave in the way you mention, they're actually pretty rare. There's likely a perception issue, like Dr K discussed with Destiny
@SpiderDash4 ай бұрын
Dr K should chat with Gerbert Johnson, he's like a black pill youtuber but he's really young and really smart, a conversation between them would be really interesting.
@CrilpFlorp4 ай бұрын
Ah yes you follow this man? I shall pray for you brother
@blodhgarm78544 ай бұрын
He do maje funny videos, so why not?@@CrilpFlorp
@ElS3rna4 ай бұрын
Would be amazing, I need Dr. K to give me hope with some of the stuff gerby talks about
@ThySheepie4 ай бұрын
Why?? I think that’s really stupid. Destiny will win the debate as “DrK” has nothing on her
@abdelilhmanflores4 ай бұрын
@@ElS3rnathere is no hope in black pill. All of that content is meant to make you feel bad
@Bolstered4 ай бұрын
Fantastic conversation! Destiny for sure gained respect from me after this, him being willing to work on himself is a great great thing. Also I learned about myself as well (which is why I’m here) so for that I’m very thankful!
@shanemau5164 ай бұрын
dr k: be authentic destiny: posts beef on twitter the next day dr k: noooot like that dude.
@nicksomeonesson4 ай бұрын
I loved the conversation! It’s always a pleasure to hear you both speak. I felt like you both really connected and I took away a few really meaningful insights I am going to try to apply to my own life. ❤
@Roxas16394 ай бұрын
Only about halfway through so far but it's scary how much I relate to this. Actually had tears at one point. Thank you both for this.
@Vicktorvhan14 ай бұрын
Always love ur interactions happy y'all were able to share this experience.
@michelegappmayer44234 ай бұрын
This was such an incredible discussion to watch! Thank you, Dr. K and Destiny!
@BernardoPatino4 ай бұрын
can i just say and i don't mean this as a dig or anything but as an audhd (autism+adhd) guy i relate to this dude quite a lot and i mean it in the most positive way possible like i feel seen in some ways
@AerisNotAerith4 ай бұрын
Destiny has ADHD and has suspected himself of having autism (though Im not 100% sure how confident he was about the latter)
@pievancl54574 ай бұрын
As someone who as a 30 something has JUST been diagnosed with high-functioning autism, it also quite resonated with me. So many parts of this, but mostly learning how to be quite adept in social situations by observing and copying what others did, viewing the world almost like a giant stage and seeing everyone else performing and stealing the best performances to shape my own social understanding. Also, the annoyance of having someone like a parent or grandparent care so much for you that they'd constantly stay up for you and always ask questions about your day- like Destiny, i always would find this irritating behavior from my mom because it felt like it crossed boundaries, but i could never pinpoint why until i got into therapy myself a year or two ago. Destiny def is on the spectrum- it's obvious if you've ever watched him before, but this conversation and these stories just solidified it for me.
@Wildminecraftwolf4 ай бұрын
How do i find a therapist this competent, i feel like i have the exact same issues but it feels like a normal therapist wodunt be able to deal with them, but then again im yet to go to one, but its like, how do i select a good one.
@MusiicRoolz4 ай бұрын
you have to just go and try. there are different types of therapists ie talk therapists, ones who specialise in things like CBT or DBT, and lots of them will have pictures and videos a
@MiasmaTazma4 ай бұрын
2:29:32 I take Olanzapine, it cured my insomnia, I also gained 20lbs. I was fairly skinny before so it worked out, but I gained that 20 and have stopped gaining or losing any weight since. Which honestly is freeing as I don't have to worry about my weight in either direction anymore.
@shadowdomokos54624 ай бұрын
I feel that Dr. K is one of the most important people in all of the west right now for what he is shining light upon. Thank you so much!
@TheTeeProd4 ай бұрын
this is the purest example of not all heroes wear capes. this man's crossover between east and west practices while just being a great human is what is making him the goat
@henryhua20734 ай бұрын
This was the first time I got a chance to catch a live stream from Dr. K. There were a lot of relatable moments for me when listening to destiny talk about these thought processes and how he feels about certain situations. The information and advice of Dr.K was/is very helpful to me. Thank you Dr.K and Destiny for allowing this conversation to be watched by us.
@seag14924 ай бұрын
This is the most vurnerable I have seen Destiny and I weirdly appreciate him giving into the experince on camera. People shouldn't trash him for it.
@DudokX4 ай бұрын
He had to compensate for it on twitter the next day by being a "little bit" unhinged
@jaykay22184 ай бұрын
@@DudokXyou must be coming from a Hasan stream 😂😂. You guys are such haters. He’s the only good faith political content creator who actually believes what he says. I’ve been watching destiny for the past 3 years and he’s never let me down a single time, I’ve disagreed with him, but I never got the sense he was trying to mislead his audience.
@Jaida124 ай бұрын
@@jaykay2218I 100% agree, if I ever quote or fact check destiny he's always right. And that's what I love about him.
@Trecesolotienesdos4 ай бұрын
it's weird to see Dest this vulnerbale. for allof the quick thinking, quick talking and combative debating style, it shows we're all complex and with issues and vulnerabilities.
@AmazingGamingsh4 ай бұрын
Phenomenal conversation.
@Shape49954 ай бұрын
Love to these two talking. I think a lot of people have a bad impression of destiny based on the things they’ve heard but seeing him actually speak shows he’s a pretty smart and interesting dude.
@AXharoth4 ай бұрын
yes if people paid attention they would see that he has good intentions , hes tryign to be good and do good
@weatheredseeker4 ай бұрын
I have listened to him closely in long form conversations. I think he thinks he has good intentions but his behavior runs counter to his supposed intention@@AXharoth
@bigzed79084 ай бұрын
@@weatheredseeker What did he do that makes you think that?
@weatheredseeker4 ай бұрын
@@bigzed7908 from what I've seen and could be wrong, he either doesn't believe in greater truth or isn't committed to it. He seems to prioritize argument itself over what should be the end goal which is more complete understanding. This is normal for people online though
@muhammadzulkarnaen42294 ай бұрын
@@weatheredseeker I'm pretty regarded but can you provide an example or more specific things because I still don't get it. Destiny does love to debate, but I don't know if he's trying to debate for the sake of debate. Even when he's the most edgy like when he debates over topics like insect, it is done because he believes he can articulate and has confidence in his stance even when it is tried against the strongest argument on the other side without simply saying "No it's bad.". He's a pretty argumentative person and likes to make people on the other side look stupid but I think that also can be a good thing? If someone is correct and really confident with their position to sell it out to other people then they should be giddy to test it out and hear counterarguments from people like Destiny?
@EnchantingTree4 ай бұрын
This video helped me out so much . I started to feel like I was the only one on earth with these thoughts
@success92714 ай бұрын
1:32:04 - i never expected to relate to steven so much. relationships are so burdensome for him-not because he's a bad person but because he gets so little out of them in return for how much effort they take. there's so much sadness and loneliness in having to live like this, but at least it's "safe" and predictable, and peaceful, and quiet. i imagine there's very little "noise" in steven's personal life. no one he has to "keep happy", so he's free to focus on his work, which for him as a content creator is basically 24/7. good thing that, as it keeps him distracted from how dissatisfied and bored he is. life has no spark when you're all alone on a little island. p.s. i'm not trying to dissect steven, moreso i'm mapping out the nature of his pain through my personal experience of it. it's a safe pain. but it's a slow burn. and boy does it burn.
@TwintailsVtuber4 ай бұрын
lmao that's why i like my npcs
@HawtLS4 ай бұрын
One aspect that I was able to relate to was when they were discussing “not wanting to disappoint people”. The example destiny gave was meeting up with fans at a festival of some sort. For me, and I suspect for destiny as well, the biggest issue I run into is I’m never sure if I’ll want to go when the time comes. So if someone asks me “hey do you want to go to this party next week”, in my mind I genuinely have no clue if I’ll want to go or not. Some days I’ll wake up and be down for anything, other days I don’t want to leave my bed. It’s hard for me to say yes or no, so often times I’ll give a middle of the road answer, or simply say yes and then later make an excuse/ghost or whatever if I don’t want to do it after all. It sounds to me like that’s what’s going on with destiny, but I could just be projecting
@ThomasGiles4 ай бұрын
A big problem with social media is that it is *in theory* connecting you to all human beings in the world, but *in reality* connecting you to a very comparatively small subset of human beings. So the perception is, I don’t have a friend group/bubble, I am one with humanity, I can control who I speak to when, it if everyone in existence. While in fact you *do* have a friend group/community/bubble… With almost zero control over who is in and out of that circle. Our circle is under control of algorithms. And our circle has a lot of influence over how we develop, how we see ourselves, how we see the world. Which means with social media, we have little control over those things… while also believing we are free from any control/influence from any system or group. The cognitive dissonance of that is this huge gulf, an overwhelming chasm… That is completely invisible to us. And when we trip over that chasm, that’s a real head-trip. Or we deny that the gulf exists for our own self-preservation.
@lolpaladins4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment, I was going to skip this video despite being a fan of Dr. K and his conversations with other streamers, because of how much of a dislike I had for destiny after watching him on @whatever. Every other person is commenting how much they relate to him, when, at least having not watched the video yet, I can’t think of a single person that I would probably relate to less.
@Manyeyebrows4 ай бұрын
Got dank! That hit real hard Dr. K! I relate a lot with Destiny, but I never internalized any reason why. A lot of what you talked about is very relevant to myself. I will have to listen to this again. Love the book even though I don't have kids. I did buy a hard cover and gifted it just cause I think it's super important information! Much love Dr. K! ❤️
@Eduardado4 ай бұрын
I love Destinity and I love Dr. K and I love how you guys maintain a connection and understanding through time. Is something that give me hope on humanity. No joke
@justawasteofspase4 ай бұрын
At first i wasn't really feeling this conversation, but god this turned into such a good talk that resonated with me so much. Thanks Dr. K, I think this conversation is more helpful to people that even you might realize. I'm always super excited when you get to talk this personally with Destiny
@weegieboard84324 ай бұрын
ah fuck. usually go on about hating destiny, hate his argumentation style etc but just realised i am alot like him. So either ii am too, or i was badly judging and condemning someone who is deeply wounded. And that applies to myself too i guess. Was not expecting this
@yojou36954 ай бұрын
never seen a convo with destiny like this. Dr. K is so good at what he does. And great on destiny for opening up, i empathize with him
@alexandermacneil44304 ай бұрын
Too bad he doesn't emphasize with innocent Palestinians being murdered, starved, and displaced :(
@yojou36954 ай бұрын
@@alexandermacneil4430 well, he seems to try, regardless of his opinions of the conflict. Not that you'd care, you are just on a weird twitter ego trip Not really relevant to this conversation anyway is it?
@morphkogan86274 ай бұрын
@@alexandermacneil4430Clearly untrue, on top of being irrelevant
@fyoutube22944 ай бұрын
@@morphkogan8627 innocents on both sides have died from each others' hands. I side with neither of them. They should both cease this pointless violence
@morphkogan86274 ай бұрын
@@fyoutube2294 okay...? How is that relevant lol. Nobody cares about your opinion on the topic bro
@therealtom4 ай бұрын
As a Destiny fan, Dr. K puts joy in my soul
@elajaog71952 ай бұрын
Pleeeease have the conversation where you expand on the last part. I am so excited for this! I was looking for exactly this kind of dialogue between "eastern" and "western" epistomology and learned so much just from this short introduction. Thank you
@noterrormanagement4 ай бұрын
This was absolutely great
@taiefmiah4 ай бұрын
A little fact correction, the martini clinic in germany is focused on prostate cancer and adjacent conditions. But the work they have done is amazing, they are also one of the few places globally which record outcome measures. Including patient reported outcome measures
@EcomCarl4 ай бұрын
It's great to see platforms fostering constructive dialogue, especially in a time where understanding different perspectives is crucial. 🌟 By engaging in respectful conversations like this, we can bridge divides and cultivate a more empathetic and informed society.
@raymeester78834 ай бұрын
Dr K out here bridging the divide.
@T3FAT4 ай бұрын
I had stomach issue the longest time. I went to the doctors and I got prescribed a medicine. I tried it for 6 months and it seemed not to work. The Doctors told me to take the medicine for longer (2 years). I tried this and it still did not work. I went to a new Doctor which prescribed me 3 different medicines that I was supposed to take for 3 weeks. Everything was solved and I was happy. Until 5 years later because of unhealthy life choices. I informed the doctor that they should prescribe me what I took last time because it fixed the problem. Their answer was "No" and that I should take the old medicine that did not work for me. I tried fighting them but they did not give in. I tried it another year, then I went to a new Doctor again. So I do really hear what Dr K is saying here. You should consider the data, but you also see the individual.
@MrFerrancala4 ай бұрын
Awsome video, love these kinds over videos
@MyXrayz4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this conversation (and conversations like this generally). I loved every second of it. Destiny and Dr K truly make a great conversation duo.
@tatamigalaxy-i5r4 ай бұрын
Glad to see Jewlumni representation on this channel!
@seyadeodin4 ай бұрын
wtf
@gumbotime95644 ай бұрын
@@seyadeodin it’s a stream reference because destiny gets accused of being paid by zionists. Not a real thing
@TheBlackDeath34 ай бұрын
Lots of Destiny in-jokes being missed in these comments.
@greenbananas123784 ай бұрын
@@TheBlackDeath3because not everyone likes watching apartheid state defenders
@kenich26114 ай бұрын
@@greenbananas12378 that'd be a specific group of people not everyone.
@philipvesterlund12534 ай бұрын
A thing that has helped me with my neurotic behaviors, like creating scenarios based on past experiences, is to think about what could be if the fear that underlies these scenarios is not true and also how likley are the premises that is required for that fear to be true. For example, dealing with abandonment can lead to a lot of intrusive thoughts based on fear related to the people you love, I try to move the focus from the negative 'what if' to the positive 'what if' so that I don't get carried away by overanalyzing things.
@philipvesterlund12534 ай бұрын
Basically when i value the positive i can get out of things, insted of the negative, it helps me with doing things in a strive for something instead of a fear of something else
@jessicapoulin88084 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your conversation. You guys are better than Netflix.
@pixiedusts4 ай бұрын
thanks so much, destiny, for sharing this part of you!! i already loved all convos btwn dr. k & destiny, but this one was so special and relatable.
@AnthonyCheeseborough4 ай бұрын
Damn I didn't realize Dr.K's chat was so toxic. This is like the only example I've seen of a community being the polar opposite of the creator. That actually blew my mind. Tf
@johnnypreer52764 ай бұрын
I was in chat trying to get the mods to do something, I got muted. The mods totally allowed and fostered that.
@GiodyneSTG4 ай бұрын
Tons of different communities dislike destiny so it's not a surprise. I wouldn't say it's "his community" making those comments
@travisjacobson6824 ай бұрын
@@GiodyneSTG Really? I'm curious to learn why.
@mwalter984 ай бұрын
its understandable and moral to be critical of someone that supports an ongoing ethnic cleansing campaign
@AnthonyCheeseborough4 ай бұрын
@@mwalter98 For one, saying he supports ethnically cleansing Palestinians is a disgustingly gross misrepresentation of his position. If you wanna be critical, fine, but don't do it based on a strawman. Also, most of these people weren't even bringing up his stance on Israel. They were just being unhinged for no reason.
@lonergraphics40874 ай бұрын
Bro got that ayurvedic medicine music intro. Lol
@aaronp88744 ай бұрын
You can tell Steven is really internalizing the dialogue at 2:05:00. He slows down his speaking a bit. I really feel like he's taking it all in now.
@morphkogan86274 ай бұрын
Yeah I agree
@RIN-nj5po4 ай бұрын
I love conversations with destiny because of the way you two communicate in this particular space. Observation based - trying to listen to the music. I learned lots. Especially about how we should be more honest with ourselves when interacting with others. Now, it's how can we communicate our honest selves in a respectful way and not in an asshole way.
@Sp0okt4rd4 ай бұрын
the livechat is so cringe lmao. u would think Dr. K viewers would actually listen to his advice and not mald uncontrollably.
@SenatorDodo094 ай бұрын
mostly destiny haters than dr k viewers id guess
@HAHAd24 ай бұрын
@@SenatorDodo09you say that like dr k viewers can’t be destiny haters at the same time
@SenatorDodo094 ай бұрын
@@HAHAd2 sure but probably more people who know of dr k/watched a couple vids but really hate destiny than people who watch him regularly
@compulsiveconsumption4 ай бұрын
@@HAHAd2 are u slow?
@HAHAd24 ай бұрын
@@compulsiveconsumption seemingly faster than you
@TheArmin4 ай бұрын
Destiny's insecurity got DESTROYED in this debate
@CrungySpungus4 ай бұрын
FEELINGS DONT CARE ABOUT YOUR FACTS
@blakefarmer17574 ай бұрын
Honestly I created a negative narrative around destiny in my mind. He is incredibly related. I know I have the same struggles. Love the content Dr K & appreciate you sharing your life Destiny
@blakefarmer17574 ай бұрын
Relatable*
@eleonarcrimson8584 ай бұрын
Just because a person is relatable doesnt mean they are in any way morally justifiable. Because at the end of the day, you are both humans. You will find relatability from all walks of life, from all kinds of people. They could be absolute assholes or just angels. It doesn't matter. We are all skins and bones.
@eleonarcrimson8584 ай бұрын
@@N1ghtb1ood well then I doubt your moral integrity. But a debate about each other's values is kinda useless on the net.
@MusiicRoolz4 ай бұрын
@eleonarcrimson858 just because someone acts immoral in one instance in your eyes doesn't necessarily make them an immoral person in every faction of their life, or make them immoral overall. not to mention morals being completely subjective and made up. you can question someone's morals but understand that they may feel exactly the same about you, and neither of you, or both are "correct"
@eleonarcrimson8584 ай бұрын
@@MusiicRoolz first of all, it is hardly the first time. Second, in real life people do not care that you are in philosophical debate about what is moral or not, if you bring up someone's family into petty feud people will shun you and rightly so. Whenever the thought "morality is subjective" comes to your mind, just ask yourself would I be a pleasant human to be around with.
@Werksonek4 ай бұрын
Cool ENTP x INTP convo 😁 I recommend the video from Cognitive Personality Theory on the ENTP empath. Sounds similar to the struggles that were mentioned. I think that you could feel understood, even the sociopath stereotype was mentioned!
@TheSinsOfAvarice974 ай бұрын
1:13:00 I got goosebumps because of how close this has hit home for me with what Destiny is talking about its actually hard for me to not tear up a bit dude that independent growth from childhood provides benefits but fuck me there is some weird shit that happens to our sense of like love and comfort from people in general because of it. I gotta get back into therapy ima get on that after work
@bluesyjazzcat314 ай бұрын
I was dying to see these two together and I’m a huge fan of them both. I already watched this on Destiny’s channel and now I’m here to give Dr K some appreciation.
@taterxtot77764 ай бұрын
Interviews with destiny will always be my favorite. The level of nuance always peaks in these.
@rishikabir59594 ай бұрын
This was very interesting. Thank you for sharing this. It takes a lot of courage to open up about personal issues.
@matjazmuhic5504 ай бұрын
He's hands down the most polite, accommodating and welcoming interviewer ever.
@sirkneegames729827 күн бұрын
Thank you both. I can heavily relate, minus my tremendous lack of personal success.
@Josh000444 ай бұрын
I totally understand the compliments thing, I don’t know how to take them either and don’t know why I struggle.
@yagnapatel39124 ай бұрын
Can you elaborate? I feel like most compliments I get are fake, but I don’t really care. At the end of the day the thing being communicated is a positive impression the other person has a of you.
@TwintailsVtuber4 ай бұрын
@@yagnapatel3912 true, a lot of compliments are fake and are just there to keep up an appearance for me at least, what helped was knowing that these ppl are gonna leave and betray me the minute it's appropriate and just keep my cards to myself obviously, that doesn't mean you can't be nice. nah, bro, smile, say thanks, even feel free to give them a friendly nudge, but when push comes to shove, you at least know that you can't trust them and can act appropriately
@TheDankKnight69Ай бұрын
@Destiny Thanks for doing this. I was a hater, but then realized we share alot of the same issues. Sorry for the hate. Thanks Dr. K - The world needs this
@mildtotemperateАй бұрын
You must have had reasons for being a hater, yes? I'm curious what they are/were.
@JericKo4 ай бұрын
What's an NFT?
@iskanderaga-ali33534 ай бұрын
Enough tea
@sixsideddeath55294 ай бұрын
Well first it starts with the command line
@WangTang4 ай бұрын
balls at the bottom
@alexandramaclachlan75974 ай бұрын
No clue who this fella is, but after watching this vid I'm stoked to see a catch-up in future. Cheering for your growth homie! :D
@sebastianrodriguez86924 ай бұрын
I disagree in many aspects with Destiny but I am happy too see him talk with someone that will simply not try to argue with him.
@milhouse81664 ай бұрын
In any debate I've ever seen destiny in he's the one who usually gets worked up the most. It's really hard to have an intelligent conversation with someone like him.
@sebastianrodriguez86924 ай бұрын
@@milhouse8166 Regardless of, I like the dude and it is nice to see him in these sort of conversations. Though I can tell that he struggles to be in any context that isn't arguing with someone else about anything.
@HexagonSun9904 ай бұрын
@@milhouse8166 Getting worked up does not mean he is wrong. He is most often right regardless of feeling states.
@milhouse81664 ай бұрын
@@HexagonSun990 I'm sure he brings up certain points about things which are correct but you can tell he's only using that to show that he's smart or knowledgeable even if it means maniuplating and obscuring the context of the debate. He's very ego driven and not capable of facing certain truths.
@Thorvald96664 ай бұрын
@@milhouse8166 Tbf he’s so used to arguing with the most combative, toxic people on the internet that he’s got only one mode when a disagreement arises.
@brendon64254 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed listening to how destiny describes himself. I learned a lot about him and myself. Thanks destiny for your courage 😊
@alexandermacneil44304 ай бұрын
The courage to say the N word. Nebraska Steve is so brave!
@thisisntallowed95604 ай бұрын
1:48:43 He circumnavigated sociopathy and ended up in compassion, never heard it put that way before
@ytdiury4 ай бұрын
Probably because it doesn't really make sense lmao
@gollum654 ай бұрын
Jonathan Haidt talks about the impact of cell phones and internet on teenagers - has a new book and is all over talk shows (and KZbin). He also has a campaign to get cell phones out of teens’ hands and out of schools.
@animagamer24 ай бұрын
The funny thing with Doctor K's audience hating Steven is that if he continues to grow by making more appearances on major platforms you'll mysteriously see even his most ardent disavowers suddenly start changing their tune. That might be for a variety of reasons, maybe it's the mere exposure effect, maybe he's actually just making better arguments and conducting himself in a manner that's more tolerable to a wider variety of people, or maybe it was simply cool to hate him before because your favorite "socialist" streamer said so and now since that guy is quickly fading from relevance you don't feel inclined to carry his flag anymore. Whatever the reason may be, it's just funny to watch it happen. People are slaves to their social groups.
@v9b23j4 ай бұрын
I appreciate the way Dr. K. explains how to maintain interdependence while setting boundaries with people. Being compassionate while being centered and a stable ground for people who are struggling and suffering is a healthy relationship. It's different from being overly empathic, enmeshed, and merging and fusing with them as the latter drowns both in a codependent dynamic.
@randomyoutubecommenterr4 ай бұрын
I think the funniest thing is the brigaders in the comments saying "How dare you have this man on. Stop platforming him", when you know for a fact Dr. K doesn't give a sh*t about comments from people on the internet.
@johnnypreer52764 ай бұрын
No one is saying “how dare you” more like “interesting that you would give someone like destiny a platform, not a good look.” You seem offended?
@gavinmorton76824 ай бұрын
"It's rough isn't it? Tell me about that." This is such an amazing conversation