Hands Off My Teen Daughter | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil

[@drphil]

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[@mamikerstien8984]

As a mother you should never ever let your children bfs move in to your home ever do better

[@mamikerstien8984]

Stop being your kids friend and be there parents

[@mamikerstien8984]

Stop being your kids best friend and be there parent!!!

[@lolamaude3449]

Mom allows him to live with her daughter in her house. First bad decision.

[@gemee1]

EXACTLY!

[@josephchirco4922]

Totally 100% correct mother shouldn’t have ever allowed the guy to move in!

[@sedakuday610]

For monitoring I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@reflectiveimageryarts6425]

@@josephchirco4922

[@thelmadickinson6811]

Dude is a loser if he’s got to be supported by GF’s mom

[@carolsorheim7456]

Shouldn't allow him to live with your daughter in your house.

[@lisawentworth6831]

Absolutely! Parents that allow the boyfriend to live in your house are condoning it. Don't control your child, but don't advocate it. Why is he living in the house of what appears to be a very young teenager?

[@lynnes5561]

@carolsorheim7456 A TEEN at that, she might be your darling but you are wrong to accommodate the son of a gun IN YOUR HOUSE to sleep with your naive daughter, let her get on with him until....

[@GinaSpring-u4b]

These mothers don't teach their children good morals.

[@melissadarienzo1276]

Right. I don't get it, especially when she doesn't like him and isn't in favor of the relationship.

[@sharonmartin1223]

Why are they allowing a grown man to live in your house

[@katesear7631]

Definitely no gang vibe but he 100% has a gay vibe. He's not being honest to himself which is a shame. She's 19 but acts 9.

[@Cdsens]

My gaydar went off too.

[@GummyBearWA]

Are you gay? WTF is a "gay vibe?"

[@Classyslimes]

ALL the way GAY!!! LMFAO 😂😂😂

[@kellypolfleit3942]

When Phil asked him if he was gay and the kid immediately looked down

[@danchicoine40]

If he is BI that ' fine just don't lie about it

[@marycreagh9786]

The more she’s told not to be with him the more she will want to be with him!!!

[@Thehangmancometh]

Exactly....quit making a big production out of it Mom! As soon as dude can "have" her, then he will just as quickly lose interest. This will be a hard lesson for the girl, but maybe she'll learn from it.

[@aliciacarstensen7904]

Yep my mom did same to me. I ran to my ex to escape her and married him. 25 ys! Yuck. What was bizarre is my mom ended up helping my ex control me and make my life difficult. Decades later I'm still not close to my mom. Honestly I replaced her with a better serogate mom

[@Don6954]

@@Thehangmancometh You can't ignore it even if she doesn't listen to you.

[@caliblue2]

Yep. The ol Romeo and Juliet effect.

[@jodiwhitten7454]

That's what I was about to say the more her mother doesn't approve of him the more she'll want to be with him , sometimes your kids have to learn the hard way , when he breaks her heart hopefully then she learns to pick better guys in the future but Mommy has to let her grow up

[@salder70]

That little girl is so naive. He will break her heart. Mom is 100 percent correct.

[@florpayan8788]

Mom also needs to learn to let her daughter learn this painful lesson..

[@lisawentworth6831]

@@florpayan8788 that's what I was going to say...the more the mom controls, the more the [very naive] daughter will rebel. This too shall pass...

[@justylex]

@@florpayan8788exactly. She is an adult. Let her make mistakes.

[@carmenmclaughlin4950]

@@florpayan8788😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

[@carmenmclaughlin4950]

@@florpayan8788 is the day 😢😢😊was😊we 😊😊😊😊😊r😊😊😊

[@denisemanfre9542]

She’s 19 and extremely naive, she’s got her whole life ahead of her Red flags flying high

[@maryperrysmith5815]

Why would a mother let her daughter’s boyfriend move in ⁉️⁉️. Not good move MOM‼️‼️

[@ellimae1548]

Ja that kinda struck me too. I guess she let him move in so she can keep an eye on her daughter. But she is 19years old. She needs to live and learn.

[@kurtk8926]

Very sinful.

[@maryperrysmith5815]

@@kurtk8926 kids even at 19. Taking on adult responsibilities when they are NOT READY.

[@MicheleSchick]

Totally irresponsible

[@ingridakerblom7577]

Bcs if she didn't the daughter would leave & the BF would isolate her from mom. So sge knows that if she goes down to hard she will lose her daughter. Abusive Men know how to manipulate & have no care about if he hurts or harms someone in the process..

[@carolinehoward180]

This guy is a walking, talking RED FLAG. The mother’s instinct and intuition is 100% RIGHT. The daughter is chronically codependent and this is destined for disaster 😭

[@lynnes5561]

@carolinehoward180 The best way to teach her a lesson is to say "I love you but until you make better choices go with him and don't contact me" and wait....she'll come running back one day battle scarred

[@sr2291]

The daughter has to figure that out.

[@CrystalDorsey-xk8xf]

Absolutely

[@jennifertiitinen9006]

The daughter is controlling as well and it’s just a mess at so young

[@ChrisAndCats]

I don't know - she thinks he's beautiful!

[@Burmeseti]

I don't judge people by appearance, and from all he said, it's clear he's a liar at the very least. The fact that he was happy about being paid to go to San Diego for a scam photoshoot tells you he doesn't have much money. He's probably using her for a place to stay and food.

[@MaryVanDyke-Watkins]

First mom won’t give it up…

[@caliblue2]

That ridiculous. Kids these days are doing way worse than being taken advantage of by an underwear photographer. A liar how? He admitted to his past drug use. Sure he’s slept with other people in his lifetime but now he wants to be with just her. Y’all need to remember what it’s like to be young.

[@moniquek6400]

He's acting evasive, yes, but that doesn't make him a liar. I bet you also believed he was lying about not having used drugs, trying to avoid being tested .. and yet it turns out he was clean. We know nothing about this young man, why he was doing drugs at such a young age, and why he can't live with his parents instead of the girlfriend's mother, but here you are, ready to judge and condemn.

[@lisawentworth6831]

@@caliblue2 you obviously are not a mother of a teen daughter! He is a walking red flag...

[@leg4495]

@@lisawentworth6831I’m not but I’ve been a teen daughter!!! The mom needs to back off-her daughter is only 19, it’s her first “serious” boyfriend and she thinks she’s in love. Ya gotta let her feel her feelings & let it run its course & when it’s over she might even tell her mom she was right. Mom needs to remember herself at that age & realize she’ll prob date a few more losers before she figures out what she really wants.

[@moondancer6488]

He is definitely bisexual if not all out gay. My gaydar is never wrong. 😄

[@s.k.m.8756]

Mine isn't either. I agree with you.

[@tylerk3616]

Bi is gay.

[@lunar_boobs_94x]

Preach

[@sterlingdemons6875]

Agreed💯

[@prettyboi_darius8990]

He is bisexual,when he needs a place to live

[@TheDrew4288]

This guy has so many red flags, deflects on everything. The mom is right and the daughter must be incredibly desperate

[@rustynails8756]

I think you're right though the daughter may have anger issues with Mom or lack of self confidence. Speaking as a Mom sometimes we can alert our children but sadly after a certain age we have to allow them to learn from mistakes and be there and love while they pick themselves

[@Carnivore1959]

Daughter needs to be able to make her own choices. Mom might be right intuitively right, but needs to let her daughter make her own mistakes.

[@denisemanfre9542]

Something fishy with him tbh

[@sunshinehowells9845]

Regardless, mom needs to step back and stay out of her daughters relationship. Daughrer is an adult. The more she hates and pushes the deeper the daughter with cling

[@brandyb2931]

He's a chinese parade of red flags. Daughter is young and in love and the more you tell them to stop seeing them, the more they want them.

[@Eric1935]

that girl laughing when the mom cries leads me to believe she’s the problem, not the guy..

[@nikkid4890]

Yes!!!!

[@stephanieyoung2261]

total lack of respect for her mom, both her and bf

[@lilys7431]

Yes she is a brat it’s clear she is going to learn through experience, was the route I took. Think it was longer and a bit more painful but, I survived it and am now my mother’s advocate as we navigate dementia.

[@sheznotfunny]

100%. Everyone in this situation has some sense of reason and honesty....except her

[@rachelcampbell9733]

Daughter and BF are the problem. The daughter is under age wth is mom doing allowing him to say in her home???

[@lauramooney5181]

This guy has shifty eyes and looks so dishonest. The Mom should not let them live together in her house. She's giving him a home, food and her daughter. Back off mom, let them figure this out and he will be gone sooner rather than later.

[@carolyndavison6095]

Thi Mom is totally out of her mind letting this guy live in her house!! She shouldn’t complain as she gave this situation a green light.

[@rebeccawright9599]

Good advice!

[@denisemanfre9542]

The daughter said she has her own place

[@Karen-dm5lb]

The Daughter has her own place which she shares with the bf

[@camellia8625]

The fact he was so reluctant to undertake a drug test indicates to me that he likely had been taking drugs.

[@Jkaye13]

Absolutely!! He knew he wouldn't pass!

[@lanalou77]

This girl is so naive any guy could play her!

[@0001-r3o]

Mom moved him in 😵

[@elcheapo9444]

Actually she's quite intelligent.

[@aliciacarstensen7904]

Yeah a real book worm😂😂😂😂

[@Teragram68]

Most 19 year olds are naive, we generally lose our naivety as we experience life, but the worrying thing is her self esteem is low she allows behaviour she’s not comfortable with. Crying to her Mum etc if he goes off and she is left behind. She’s clearly very enamoured and in lust with this guy, those emotions are often mistaken for love. The only way to protect our children is to encourage a well rounded self esteem. The second girl is a major worry, very obsessed with someone who is not interested. 😢

[@lisawentworth6831]

@@0001-r3o that was a dumb move...never move in the BF!

[@Littlebirdie886]

He’s 100% gay. I dated a guy in HS who was going through the same thing. Same pattern, especially with the best friend. My mother warned me but I ignored all the signs. We are best friends now but looking back I ignored a lot. I’m just glad he’s out now and happy, he’s married to his now husband and I like him way more bc he’s is his true self ❤️

[@s.k.m.8756]

he kicks out a vibe that he is gay. Talk about heartache! She is hetero and she is in love with a gay man. :(

[@ElsHappyPlace]

Especially these days ppl can be out comfortably Bette than back then. I remember someone my mother knew back then who couldn’t enjoy life properly because he was gay. It broke my heart he died not knowing what love is because he couldn’t be himself 😢 I appreciate ppl like you random person on the internet

[@Littlebirdie886]

@@ElsHappyPlace thank you so much! Love is love and the world would be a better place if we all just showed that! 💜 you made my day 🙂

[@shelleynielsen6411]

He’s not in love with her . He needs help .

[@Ninnjette-]

​@ElsHappyPlace He died not knowing what love was? lol Did he not know that other gay people existed?

[@donwayne4542]

Young lady No one is going to love you as much as your mom❤ Wake up

[@robf2952]

It’s time her mother let her grow up and live her own life even if she makes mistakes. The more she pushes the more likely she will lose her daughter

[@TroyCanDance]

Not true. My mother hated me. Never failed to remind me I was not wanted.

[@Karen-dm5lb]

​@@TroyCanDanceThat's so sad

[@alinedupuis6717]

There's some very abusive moms out there ,so no

[@mickieerickson7267]

Dr. Phil's soft male voice while discussing the second girls boyfriend non relationship is just what she needed, and she took his advice. Dads are so important, and here's an example of why.

[@dcarley1339]

She loves her daughter. And she is her life. Protective and rightfully so

[@lopez2011ism]

True but you can't be meddling in every relationship for the rest of her life ....shes an adult...she'll be the mom where no one is good enough for her daughter no matter who they are n that more than anything will drive her daughter away more than anything

[@user-cy4vw1qj9m]

Why did the mother allow him live in her house.

[@dingo1666]

She didn't, the daughter has her own flat. They keep saying this.

[@lindaruzicka579]

No they didn't have their own place for 6 months. The Mother said they lved in her house for 6 months. Why? My sister did the same stupid thig.

[@EvolutionaryYak]

she said she moved him in so she could keep an eye on him, no boyfriend will ever be good enough for this mom, she needs to find her own reason for breathing,...not control everything in her daughters life.

[@RoselandeBazelais-hn5rh]

​@@dingo1666She didn't ask them to move m

[@LovesLakes]

@@EvolutionaryYakOh, grow up. This is a loving, caring mother, who has raised her daughter alone. The girl is 19 and living with this fellow, who is fairly suspicious. Look at his background: arrested for fraud and using drugs.

[@susymartins9531]

This guy did it at home with somebody else’s urine. Please give me a break. Mom is right. This guy gives me the creeps.

[@dingo1666]

Absolutely, I bet that the girl gave hers somehow. Peed in a cup, hid it in the toilets, he picked it up and used it.

[@laurad324]

Absolutely

[@dayinthelifeofmycat]

Agree, he used somebody else's pee.

[@jackiegarica3543]

Some drugs are out of your system after a few days. I don't trust him at all.

[@Oconnorjm]

Or synthetic urine. You can buy it VERY cheap at ANY smoke shop. People used them ALL the time for jobs before marijuana became legal. I'm sure they still use them for other purposes!

[@lyndamuller2025]

The second girl reminds me of a relationship I had when I was young . The boy would break up with me before birthdays or Christmas to avoid having to give me a gift. He went off for several weeks and I knew that he would break up with me so that he could see other girls so I finally came to my senses and made plans with a friend to go out that night even though we had a date during which he wanted to "talk". When he arrived, I was able to say. "Let's just get this over with, I've got plans tonight. " I never got back with him even though he expected that I would.

[@973BrickCity]

So, what was the hesitation on not taking the drug test on Dr. Phil but ok privately with the mom & and daughter?!?! I've been there and done that. That girl gave him her urine. That's the only reason it came out negative. Period

[@bec8595]

I'm thinking that's probably not possible. But I do think he was worried the drugs were not out of his system!

[@973BrickCity]

@bec8595 That's definitely not the case. Drug attics know how long it takes for whatever drug to leave your system. They live plotting around these things. He just didn't expect for Dr. Phil to be prepared with a professional drug screening evaluation at his show. So, he didn't have time to prepare for a negative result. Either way, that girl should run as far away as she can from him. Most girls that turn into drug addicts were influenced by their boyfriend & used with them for their first time.

[@hairdressertothestars9877]

​@bec8595 it could definitely happen, I was a drug counselor, people would take someone else's urine, put it in a waterbottle, keep a hotpack on, put it in between their legs so it would mimic body temperature. So it's a common method used to trick addiction specialists and addiction Dr's. There are other ways as well, I'm sure he knew it was a possibility and came prepared.

[@GypsyGirl317]

That never occurred to me, but it's very possible. He was extremely reluctant and evasive around the issue, when if he was genuinely clean, he would have been completely confident of a clear result passing the test.

[@sandrathomas3413]

​@@973BrickCityaddict not the upstairs attic

[@KateSanders-uz6ki]

Listen to your mother sweetie. When you’re older you will understand

[@caliblue2]

🙄 did you do what your mommy said? Doubt it!

[@dingo1666]

@@caliblue2 Did you grow up and now understand? Because I do. So OP is right.

[@kezzokav5905]

She's 19, she can make her own decisions.

[@animallover6645]

I did what my mother told me too, never was really rebellious.

[@juliebowes3977]

You have to let your kids flourish,and make mistakes,so they can learn...The mother is pushing her towards him...

[@JamesMount-c6h]

Why was he allowed to move in!!!!?????

[@jeffdo9195]

Because the mother is sleeping with him

[@starrlashesxo8307]

He’s a walking red flag & that girl is delusional. The end

[@AnastasiaRomanov-w9x]

She’s 19 and mom can’t stop her. She will ruin her life.

[@pinecone1811]

Mum or daughter or both..?

[@AnastasiaRomanov-w9x]

@@pinecone1811 the daughter is an adult. It’s up to her what she does with her life. I had been out of the house for a year at her age, and never looked back.

[@susiekathryn8570]

I thought she was 17

[@thecongenital3035]

Mums right . Leave the daughter to find out he's gay 😂😂😂😂

[@AnastasiaRomanov-w9x]

@@thecongenital3035 the more you forbid two young people from being together the more they will double down. That’s the unfortunate truth.

[@alanaadams7440]

How about they get a job and move out

[@joywebster2678]

Students

[@GypsyGirl317]

In college.

[@queenbee3647]

​@@joywebster2678and GypsyGirl317 dropouts. Go back and listen.

[@BIANCA-o8g]

Yes and then the mom won’t be all up in their business. Move out stop relying on mom cuz then you can tell her to eff off.she can’t when she lives under her roof.. I love how they don’t wanna be “controlled” but live off her mom you don’t want control then support yourself and then nobody can tell you what to do. Simple

[@Karen-dm5lb]

Daughter has her own place. She said it a million & one times

[@amyann13]

She's 19, an adult, let her learn the hard way.

[@UncondtionalLove72]

True but she needs some guidance still🌻

[@Thelightning782]

but what if it ends up killing her the mother shoudl e taught her duaghter this before she even was a adult

[@amyann13]

@@Thelightning782 you can only do so much as a parent. She could've taught her all about this, raised her in all the right ways, in all the right things, that doesn't guarantee she'll listen. She might rebel, she might end up with different beliefs & views. You can show your child the path & walk with them some of the way but somewhere down it they'll need to continue on their own & all you can do at that point is hope they take your advice. There are some parents who did all the right things & were the "perfect" parent yet their children become awful people or make horrible mistakes. Some of it comes down to parenting but not all.

[@Thelightning782]

@@amyann13 you do have a point

[@catherineblinsky674]

​@@amyann13 You are so right! 👍

[@1927su]

Hopefully she doesn’t have to wait until she’s in her 40’s to realize Mother was right. 😮

[@NutsItsBerserkinTime]

She’s around 32 now, I’m sure she learned some lesson from this situation.

[@pp-hw4bl]

Facts

[@gardenplots283]

I can't figure out if this guy is evasive or dim or both.

[@annmariemazzotta2495]

Evasive that’s for sure

[@knightowlish3]

He's a liar. Shady.

[@thecongenital3035]

All the above and gay

[@kellypolfleit3942]

@@thecongenital3035😂😂😂

[@thecongenital3035]

@@kellypolfleit3942 🤣🤣🤣

[@gregwilliams5637]

2011, I'll take a wild guess that they're not together anymore

[@hirainawhaanga6253]

I am curious to know if they are still together as well.

[@SuperGringo71]

So sad that Dr. Phil Show isn't on anymore.

[@GillianLatham-jp7vb]

😂 welp I thought 🙃 I'd have found out on replys 😮 I'd say not just my gut feeling he probably a different person now and that's not a dig at him cus I have gay friends

[@powderriver3554]

She doesn’t magically become an adult at 18. She needs coaching and guidance for years to come as a part of maturity.

[@Carnivore1959]

Coaching and guiding is different than nagging and anger.

[@rustynails8756]

Unfortunately our society has moved far from our tribal traditions. In those times young would live with an Older Aunt, or uncle if male, or even generations would live together. who would respect and help care for the elder In return the elder could have more patience in listening, plus guide the young person. Not a perfect system but it usually worked well

[@kezzokav5905]

Wow, if you're lucky.

[@sr2291]

Legally she is an adult.

[@powderriver3554]

@@sr2291 we all need guidance into adulthood and beyond. Coaching and mentoring never ends. I’ve received invaluable advice over the years by those I don’t even consider family but who I grew to trust and respect. I’m 66 now and expect to keep learning, listening, and growing.

[@randywolff580]

This is Randy's wife commenting. I used to have a lot of gay friends, fun people, but they were always looking at straight men to "persuade them" to seduce them. Even married men. If he has many gay friends and constantly socializes with gay men, I absolutely believe he is "active" in the gay community. Why is this Mom letting him live free in her house making it easy for the relationship to flourish. If he has to work and pay bills and rent, it will be a true test of their commitment to each other. The Mom wants them under her roof to monitor everything , but needs to let go and let her daughter make her own mistakes.

[@Karen-dm5lb]

Daughter has her own place with the bf. She said it a million & one times

[@Namu_munene]

Hello Randy's wife....I saw your episode...hope you now very okey with your family....

[@Gothiclovesick]

Mom doesn’t like him but moved him in. She needs to get him out of her house, then allow their relationship to unfold. It will sort itself out in due time.

[@TDeezyDoesIt]

Yeah. Mom doesn't want to let go of her baby. So moving him in she can still have control over her. I moved put on my own a month before my 19th birthday. My mom didn't give 2 shits about who I was dating because she knew she couldn't do anything about it!

[@teamcougars]

Once in a while moms are right believe it or not 😮

[@tiger1976]

The older you get the more you realise "mom was right..."

[@catherinedonoghue3508]

The kid will learn the hard way.

[@vasilijawilson2463]

Yes I agree with you completely What a Mess this Mather is in Big Big Mess God’s blessings to you as a Mather Amen

[@aliciacarstensen7904]

​@@vasilijawilson2463you talk like a scammer😂😂😂😂

[@barbriescalisi8142]

I have a daughter never never would We let a guy move in I mean never

[@danastone130]

I'd love an update in this one cuz this dude is on the DL. At least he was then. He might be out and proud now🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sherryhudson6879]

Hahaahaaaaaaa

[@ebbyf294]

Yaaassss!! I'm watching this saying the same thing

[@devonbrianspencerlewis]

@@ebbyf294yes same!

[@AlexisS998]

Oooh lucky for you I spent 45 mins looking it up! His name is Jason Michael Jones: He was on the Lee County most wanted list. Wanted in Lee County for multiple warrants for the possession of a controlled substance and driving while his license was revoked. His latest warrant comes on the heels of him being pulled over for a traffic stop where officers found meth and fentanyl. His license was suspended or revoked in both Florida and South Carolina. He is also a repeat offender and has been arrested a dozen other times locally for aggravated battery, theft, grand theft and drugs, and has been sent to prison once for theft, meth and heroin related charges. He’s also got photos on cam sites.

[@crybabychrononaut]

​@@AlexisS998Alexis with the TEA.

[@anjab6266]

Busted!!!! He "can't take the drug test" all of a sudden😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hannahrachelxo2281]

I want to know what happened after this and where they are now?!

[@AlexisS998]

Oooh lucky for you I spent 45 mins looking it up! His name is Jason Michael Jones: He was on the Lee County most wanted list. Wanted in Lee County for multiple warrants for the possession of a controlled substance and driving while his license was revoked. His latest warrant comes on the heels of him being pulled over for a traffic stop where officers found meth and fentanyl. His license was suspended or revoked in both Florida and South Carolina. He is also a repeat offender and has been arrested a dozen other times locally for aggravated battery, theft, grand theft and drugs, and has been sent to prison once for theft, meth and heroin related charges. There’s also pictures of him on cam sites

[@daffeneydaniel9937]

19 she’s a baby. Everyone screaming “adult “ like we don’t know the age of 18 is because of war. She can’t even go into a bar, she’s still developing and needs guidance .

[@bethanykarlsson3074]

Absolutely!

[@jennifergannuscio6086]

She needs growing SPACE! All her mom is doing is hindering her growth and putting a wedge between her and her daughter !

[@hazelhadley-britt6396]

Yet if she were male she would be expected to protect women and children in times of war or work to ensure that she be housed, etc.

[@joifire]

She looks to him and smiles when her mom cries in fear!

[@melriquajackson8480]

That sht was mad weird

[@sashaparker3065]

Yeah that very cold of her !,,

[@caliblue2]

Her mom needs to grow up. Her baby ain’t no baby and it’s natural to pair up. You got to let your kids learn their own lessons in love otherwise you’re just a creeper mom.

[@ttephi3667]

Terrible.

[@homohits1]

Her mom is a drama queen who weaponises her crying, that's why.

[@tinajoerossignol]

He might consider himself as not gay,but he will have seg with gay men for money. He knows he has a beautiful body and he uses it anyway he can for the attention, money and drugs.

[@hazzaplayz808]

Kinda sad but true

[@valcooper4327]

As the mom of 7 grown children I can tell any mom....back off let you kids live and learn especially when it comes to relationships. It is a passage into adulthood, and although it hurts to see them hurt, it's a valuable experience. Trust you did your job as a mom and taught your daughters to be strong and if they are not, they will learn from it.

[@GypsyGirl317]

Exactly. 👍🏽😅🙆🏻‍♀️ I'm now a great Nana and I completely agree with you. ❤️

[@missgramirez4446]

I disagree. Every situation is different. This relationship could go wrong right away. She could get raped get on drugs etc. as parents we can certainly guide our young adults.

[@ebbyf294]

Not true. If you're in my house you're not grown. So I'm in your business. Fudge outta here

[@MidnightPasta0]

I agree with you. The more you tell them no, the more they will do it. My daughter had two horrible relationships… lucky for circumstances she’s in the military so these boys didn’t have access to her 24/7. I used reverse psychology… the first schmuck even called me mom. I steered from the sidelines with gentleness and only in the end did I tell her, and only once, that she had to let him go. The second relationship was worse but at that point I trusted her to see the red flags and have self respect. She did. It’s hard, but it’s their life. The more you try to control, the less control you actually have.

[@Jkaye13]

My kids weren't even allowed to date until they were 18 😂 and they wouldn't dare ask for their boyfriends to live at my house! boys weren't ever allowed in our house if we weren't home, and were never allowed in bedrooms or behind closed doors.. Parents that don't have control never took control.. it starts as a baby

[@Shell593]

He’s interested in men and that’s totally fine. Just be honest with the girlfriend.

[@s.k.m.8756]

He won't tell her because this will be a deal-breaker for her and he will ruin the good thing he has going on in regards to the meal ticket and gravy train her Mom is providing!

[@nikkid4890]

Am I the only one who hears it in his speech?

[@GypsyGirl317]

No, many of us do. 🙆🏻‍♀️ It's not going to end well for this girl, unless she wakes up. ❤️

[@jennifergannuscio6086]

It’s called an impediment!!!

[@nikkid4890]

@@jennifergannuscio6086 Woah, speaking like a gay man is an impediment? 😂

[@nikkid4890]

@@jennifergannuscio6086It’s definitely not a speech impediment. That’s something very different to what I was mentioning.

[@reynaolvera7526]

It’s both a gay accent and a lisp or tongue thrust habit. Wonder how him and his boyfriend are today

[@AlexisS998]

I spent 45 mins looking it up so you don’t have to. His name is Jason Michael Jones: He was on the Lee County most wanted list. Wanted in Lee County for multiple warrants for the possession of a controlled substance and driving while his license was revoked. His latest warrant comes on the heels of him being pulled over for a traffic stop where officers found meth and fentanyl. His license was suspended or revoked in both Florida and South Carolina. He is also a repeat offender and has been arrested a dozen other times locally for aggravated battery, theft, grand theft and drugs, and has been sent to prison once for theft, meth and heroin related charges. He’s also got photos on cam sites.

[@bethneel6749]

😮😮

[@christinegreenwood4093]

Oh wow. 😮

[@BIANCA-o8g]

Thanks for doing the work and finding out updates cuz I really wanted to know what happened with him. It’s not shocking to know he’s on heavy drugs now and probably sells His body to support his habit. Gay for pay and probably gay or bisexual

[@LovesLakes]

Proof? Websites? Screenshots?

[@mareemiller1335]

I do not believe him.....his eyes are darting everywhere

[@tiger1976]

When you sleep with the dog... 🙄 they (the daughter and the boyfriend) are not afraid to tell a lie. The moms instinct is right, he is no good and will ruine her life but she won't listen. She will have to learn the hard way.

[@annmariemazzotta2495]

Where are his parents?

[@GypsyGirl317]

I'm glad I'm not the only one who picked up on that. He sounded sad when he was talking about their relationship and said "I never had that". 😔

[@sr2291]

Some people don't have parents.

[@libbypaige6160]

He's definitely having dirty little trips away and coming home living a sudo straight life with her. He probably only does drugs while on these weekends away being gay. This is a very common pattern with "brothers on the down-low" it's sad for her, and also for him. It's likely he hasn't accepted himself as gay.

[@tonyautonga]

Did they not say that this girl is 19yr old? Why are you ask a mother Allowing this boy to living in your house with your teenage girl.

[@TheFaithAlexander]

This guy is bad news. 😢 This sweet girl needs to run. Her mom has intuition. You can tell he’s lying and obviously, he ‘can’t’ take the drug test! I wouldn’t trust him as far as you can throw him. He’s using them for a place to live as well.

[@eliser9776]

It's always it's a red flag when people say someone else is "so controlling." The last person that said I was "so controlling" was a man who was doing dangerous, careless things over and over and I was asking him to stop. I am talking about ordinary things that anyone knows is dangerous and reckless.

[@thelmadickinson6811]

When someone calls you controlling it’s because you are an obstacle to them and they don’t have complete control

[@laurafessenden38]

Obviously with Mom. Smarky teen daughter thinking she knows everything. Glad I don't have kids.

[@gw6975]

Something weird about Michael.

[@SarahSherman-di7ku]

She'll figure it out when she walks in on him with another guy someday..

[@rachelporter280]

The daughter isn’t as wise as she thinks she is. She said that if he was cheating on her, she would know it because she’s the one that is around him and is sleeping with him. Sorry babes, but you’re going to be the LAST one to know. Keep your mom close to you because she’s the one that will be there for you when you feel your life has imploded. Good luck to you both, and I hope I’m wrong!

[@dennislalla8623]

Why is he in your house

[@marcianicotra]

He is getting high and she is a little dummy!

[@arlenedorego1277]

Mom is beautiful

[@GypsyGirl317]

Which mum? The second one I thought was beautiful. 😊 The first one is less so because of the negative facial expression. 😔

[@kellydavis6821]

I'm confused. If he wasn't using drugs, why the hesitation to take the test for so long??

[@GypsyGirl317]

Exactly. I wonder if she secretly offered her pee for the test. Someone else suggested that, and it makes sense to me.

[@taylolz]

He needed a clean doner.

[@Jkaye13]

Yep.. he knows he won't pass a drug test and the only way to get out of it is to do one at home where he can use someone else's urine..

[@eliser9776]

What makes me sad is generation after generation, women fall for the attractive loser. I have learned the following: Once bad with money, always bad with money. Once a cheat, always a cheat. Once a liar, always a liar. Young women believe the meaning of life is having attention from a man. It isn't. Don't over-value attention from men. Make them earn your attention by proving they are a good man. Women think that believing in someone's potential is love. Fall in love with who there are here and now and not who you hope they will be or who they say they plan to be some day soon after all the excuses are cleared away. I hate this for us girls so much.

[@terricunningham6810]

I don't believe in the always mentality that you are talking about. People can change if they really want to. Hard work can get it done. If you hate your behavior you can change that.

[@Thelightning782]

And dudes fall in love with manipulative coniving gold digger judgemental petty women it goes both ways

[@ADetailedHouse]

Elise - SO well said!! You are spot on!!

[@trenawawrzyniak4397]

What? you allowed the boyfriend to move into your house with your 19 yr.old daughter. Nuts.

[@StefaniClowdis]

Just a question….where are the fathers of these girls

[@walkwithrach22]

He's got something going w his male friend imo. She needs a spine. He's shady and she's very vanilla, he's using her for something other than a relationship.

[@Heidi_137]

Maybe the 'modelling job' was a 'trick', many male models are straight but will do guys for money. When I was a pro model, I knew males that worked for my agency who also had extra gigs (hookups) after a photoshoot and bragged about how much they made.

[@pollycebula605]

This Mom let him move in with her daughter.

[@alanaadams7440]

Big mistake

[@LG-rescues]

Mom is off her rocker!!!!

[@amyann13]

She didn't LET anything, she can't stop it 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@maryperrysmith5815]

Why would a mom allow that???

[@marcianicotra]

Bad move!

[@kjl6039]

Shut the phones down! What is wrong with parents that think that their child’s tantrums over the phone determine what they do with the phone!

[@s.k.m.8756]

totally agree! 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@dennislalla8623]

The daughter is controlling the mother why would she allow her daughter to move in with her boyfriend.

[@whosaidthat9265]

She’s 19. Not up to mom at that point

[@hayleymanchios8908]

​@@whosaidthat9265it's up to the mom to let him live in her house

[@Shortcake5]

Ummm up to mom who lives in her house.

[@Thelightning782]

​@@whosaidthat9265yes it is because its her house whatever the mom says goes

[@smarie3874]

Young people saying “I’m an adult and you can’t tell me what to do” while living at home are frustrating to me. If you want to treated as an adult, move out and support yourself. Independence is a 2 way street. Mom wouldn’t be nearly as involved in the relationship if they didn’t all live together.

[@Jkaye13]

That was always my rule.. my house, my rules! If you live here, you go by the rules!

[@Kittyququmber]

This girl is SOOOOO naive and WILL SUFFER. Did drugs 2 months ago??? He DOES drugs.

[@freethoughts2898]

Lucky this episode is from 2001 lol

[@ziaddeselva1075]

He's 100% Gay!

[@jessealava7747]

It’s the lisp for me

[@Onxy1976]

​@jessealava7747 yep...he comes across as feminine and the lisp is a clear giveaway!

[@saugusguy]

He's not gay..he's THE gay..what a queen..gay for pay at the very least

[@marygorrell779]

Mom should kick the guy out of her home. If the daughter wants to be with him she is free to go…

[@TakeLoveX3]

Omg the first time he opened his mouth and sounded totally gay i laughed so hard 😂😂😂

[@MsDekz]

Thats yuck how the daughter laughed when her mum cried.... wow

[@joifire]

I hate him for her !! So much of my life is wasted on relationships!

[@caliblue2]

And you wouldn’t have it any other way because how else would you have learned?

[@gardendormouse6479]

I feel much the same way. I wish I had kept my nose to the grindstone when I was young, studied, and NOT wasted so much time on romantic relationships.

[@mariedetlefs8505]

What kind of mother allows/invites her daughter’s boyfriend to move into her home?! 😮

[@s.k.m.8756]

She can keep an eye on her daughter this way.

[@carolinelewis9615]

This young girl is totally infactuated by this guy, which is dangerous for her emotions, he does not appear to be into her as she is with him, him choosing his friend over her says it all. The mother is also at fault to allow a guy that she herself does not trust, to live in the house with them. The boundaries and mixed messages from the mother is a real problem. I understand she is scared that she may lose her daughter completely but firm, hard decisions need to be made if the daughter is to learn red flags in guys, living with her boyfriend in her home does not allow her the space she needs to reflect.

[@marycampbell1576]

*infatuated

[@dylantaljaard6886]

A shy bladder is an automatic positive test, so he couldn't get away with that excuse.

[@christinefrances5598]

Why, why is this dude living in your home????????

[@1927su]

That daughter is soooo naive …

[@definity-zx6iv]

Agreed however each person grows emotionally at different stages.

[@michellerene3622]

He is not a straight man. He's lying because of what she's providing to him 😢

[@ziggywalsh5562]

Between these two young women, there is zero self worth, zero confidence. I think the second girl wants to listen and learn. The first girl is a bit too arrogant and dumb, she doesn't really want to listen.

[@WillowB-dn6if]

He’s been clean now for months 😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@arikafetner]

Im glad Dr P told the mom/ daughter she was right, that poor girls self esteem is getting destroyed

[@ChrisAndCats]

12:57 "that little girl" is an *adult* , lady. You can't make her do anything, and all you'll succeed in doing is to likely push them together, not apart.

[@marilynmanord1790]

I am dealing with the same issue with my 23 year old daughter. I can’t make my child understand how this guy is not good for her.

[@Kelly-d9l4t]

The more you tell them no the more they push to stay they have to learn on their own sadly I have 4 girls can’t stand my oldest daughter boyfriend I keep pushing her told her he is bad news 2 weeks ago she came over to tell me she is pregnant 😡she is 26 My second oldest was also with a terrible guy for 6 years I prayed that guy away 😂she is now in a new relationship guy seems nice but I think he is a wolf in sheep clothing so moral of the story the more we push they will show us

[@sashaparker3065]

Why let him live with mom.? Staying there to live with her boyfriend they need to find a place to live..

[@GypsyGirl317]

They're students.

[@chrispage1294]

Why didn't the crew just give him lots of water

[@GypsyGirl317]

That's what I was thinking, and even a cup of coffee if he drinks it. When I was nursing we gave people water to drink if we needed a pee sample. I was beginning to wonder for a while! 😅

[@ninikshoemaker8628]

Why does the mother allow the boyfriend to live with her.?

[@peggylingard622]

Ummm, mom he is this really bad guy.....help me to understand why you allowed him to live with your daughter under your roof?

[@s.k.m.8756]

yep! I agree 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@Jkaye13]

Because mum never had control of her daughter and has given in to whatever her 'Angel' wants..

[@marcelpatel9017]

Allowing him to move in was the first mistake.

[@Google.Is.Skynet]

Big difference between someone who’s smoked weed vs Meth

[@UncondtionalLove72]

His head down, holds her hand, shaking his leg I knew right away the red flags! Domestic Narcissist and abuser!! This young lady can’t even look at him WHEN the her Mom talks about their conversations about him, that’s a CLEAR indication of abuse!! She doesn’t want to leave THEN her Mom would be right..I hope she gets help🌻

[@whitleygreinke]

Heartbreaking to watch your kid when you see right thru it IMO Hard lessons ahead

[@crystalgoode8411]

I don't believe he even used his own pee..I believe it was hers!

[@Jkaye13]

It definitely wasn't his!!

[@susanhallam4491]

How many kids did she have before he came out? Did she graduate college? Did he? Where are they now? Still at mammas house?

[@thelmadickinson6811]

He claims mom doesn’t want to let daughter grow up yet he’s not a grown up and has to bum live off of the mom. HE needs to grow up and get his stuff together