EP 2 - Can Guys & Girls Be Best Friends? | ChillNSpill Podcast

In Episode 2, we talk about friendships! How Tanesh & Kirtan became friends, friends growing apart over time, friendships in school vs now as an adult, and if guys & girls can be best friends or not! We also have a fun IG question of the week where we react to the BEST & WORST things a "friend" has ever done to you, submitted by you guys! Tune in!
Chapters
0:00 - Intro
0:51 - Addressing Episode 1
1:55 - Episode 2: Friendship
2:13 - How did Kirtan and Tanesh meet?
11:57 - Are you still close to School & College/Uni friends?
15:07 - Losing Friends and Making New Ones
19:15 - The reality of School Friends
25:15 - Kirtan's Word Of Wisdom
27:08 - Friendships Don’t Last Forever
30:50 - Tanesh was Beaten Up?
35:56 - Can single guys and single girls be just best friends?
39:01 - Getting into relationship with your best friend?
46:14 - IG Question: Best Thing A Friend Has Done For You
53:32 - IG Question: Worst Thing A Friend Has Done To You
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Hosted by: TANESH VIJAYAGOMARAN
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Produced by Taneshh Productions - 2023

[@chillnspillpodcast]

We got CHAPTERS for yall! Enjoy!

[@divyashreedhanarajan6065]

This was so funnnn especially the ig questions!

[@sairaam19]

Semme podcast guys,thanks kirtan n tanesh u guys rock,wait fr the next podcast

[@kalaimalar1754]

Please don't keep the episode short😂 we love listening to you bothhh😭

[@Clipssome]

we? u dont speak for me woman 😂😂

[@CemruthaGobalan]

Its so nice you guys took the comments positively and working on it. Episode 2 is great 🎉

[@sangeethar8607]

Just had the time to watch this episode guys. And yes, answering to your question. OfCOZZ. My best friend and i befriended thru MRIC chat (lol😂😂😂) when i was 18 and he was 19. We are from diffrent states. We met 1st time after knowing each other for 10yrs. Our second meet was 9th year from the 1st visit. And our 3rd meet was 3rd year from our 2nd meet. So overall we only met 3x in our 23 yrs of friendship!. In a year probably we speak few times only. But the few times will be few hours per call. We know everything abt each other, our family knows too. We help and be there emotionally for each other when needed. Our unconditional friendship love is beyond anything. We are BFF's forever.😊😊😊 I am 41 yrs old and he is 42 yrs old. We are both single😂😂😂

[@divyashreedhanarajan6065]

Loved this episode!!!

[@duarina]

I love ep 2 more, because the dynamic of this conversation iss MUCH MUCH more better (tanesh is talking less, definitely giving more space to Kirtan to express more) 😂 Keep up the good work guys, looking forward to more special topics as such. As I kept watching the episode(s), I can clearly see why God set these two up in a bro way because no romantic relationship can fulfill the bond like they share together. Support together Kirtan and Taneshh. Kirtan is definitely wise in words, respect

[@michellelim2122]

nice of you guys to take the feedback from ep1 into consideration! Really enjoyed the podcast !!!

[@kavinavina4727]

beenn lovingg thisss so muchhh...looking forward for ep 3 :)

[@vsh06]

LOVEEE THIS EP!! so much better than the first one. also gained a lot of respect for kirtan because of how wise he is. my opinion on this is anyone can be best friends regardless of gender but when the term "boy bestie" or "girl bestie" comes is when it sounds like the relationship is not genuine and also cringe la dont be throwing the word around

[@KurubharanChandrasekaran-qq4ok]

Bro love ur vids

[@Clipssome]

. cant wait to see where the pod will go. lets get it guys

[@HanifView05]

Amazing Podcast about friendship and waiting for episode 3 my man

[@shuuban6288]

38:00 - Kirtan telling he’s straight and and being not straight instantly after tht 😂😂

[@Kevin-uc3ij]

Dope ass episode today.. loved it 🔥🔥🔥

[@shimi_talks]

The way y'all podcasts give me such comfort & joy! Keep at it man! Y'all are doing a great job❤

[@moheshrajhareeraja4791]

Love this podcast , keep on the good work this podcast was really interesting and fun to hear and watch.

[@muhammadizwan1076]

once you're broken into pieces, you become wiser

[@sashivharmansivaperumal]

i love this epi ...everything was totally true.

[@Tarasunshine1412]

Yes 1:02:20 A guy and girl can be best friends. This platonic bond is unbreakable and most purest. The girl makes the guy aware of the challenges she faces as a girl, makes her sensitive toward women's issues, shows life from her perspective, she brings out the best in him cz guys never sees the good in them. They need a girl to tell them they are also deserved to be loved and respected. The guy makes the girl live life from a man's perspective, backs her up when she in trouble and teach her on life skills/ responsibilities. Best part, he can tell you all the guy way of thinking and approach to us. My boyfriend has a girl bestie, so do I. Never once we had an issue cz of this.

[@_nottyboi_]

Damn bro this shit is amazing, keep up the work. Hits right in the feels with these also love the part Kirtan roasting every chance he gets

[@lavineshsegaran5574]

i love this guys

[@Vijaythalapathy28]

Yes chill and spill Wednesday

[@theevankumar996]

My current favourite podcast 🎉

[@kauselyaraju9263]

A really great topic this week! I never really had a long lasting close friendships throughout my life and I honestly don't know why and always took the courage to just move on with it but yeah... really do wish I find a friend who'd be there through thick and thin.

[@eelayadarsini2351]

Man, I want a friend like Kirtan. Man said I won't leave you 🥺🥺

[@diviyaelango6816]

Yes!

[@yunishaaloga794]

Loved today's ep! To answer the question, I think guys and girls can 100% be best friends. I'm a girl, and all my close friends who I consider family are all guys (I do have girl friends, but no one that I have a really close bond with). My guy friends and I have been friends for years, we see each other all the time, we hang out alone, we've had each other's backs through everything, and never once has anything happened between us ever

[@ULTRONNOCOMM]

Love the podcast

[@bayernjames9546]

People who said they sounded like teenagers haven't watched the full video last week. They actually raised very good points and said some pretty good stuff.

[@dhasyieshjoshi1264]

19:50 was deep af for me

[@rayzelrenitha2705]

yes, boys and girls can definitely be best friends. if the boy's and girl's intentions is true and genuine as friends, why not right. and ofc everyone has a girl or a boy bestie and it's a beautiful friendship bond to cherish as well 😊

[@Kaarishma]

Hey guys! Super excited to listen to this podcast. Any way of dropping the podcast slightly earlier than 7pm? Those outside of malaysia would really appreciate it 😅

[@SNair-mx3ou]

agreed sista

[@vishaaliniee3331]

56:43 - 56:58 should be a clip so i can share that with my friends😂

[@angelenejoseph5425]

Seasonal friendship😁

[@sivanaeshwarrymugilan1201]

Hey, you guys are awesome! and yes a girl & a boy can be a good best friends, because i do. my friend and i were friends since 2011 which is almost 12 years. and share almost everything to him and he also do the same. he have a girl friend too. we are fine and hopefully will long last forever.

[@zacklee22]

How are you today and I am Zack from Malaysia and I really like the video today and pls keep up the good work with the videos week after week and pls have a wonderful Mother's Day with your mum this coming Sunday

[@mangalagowriramanathan859]

Since it's mother's day in the corner,why not talk about your mum's..will be sweet yah ...

[@itsmehere3770]

Tanesh, good that you took the comments on the previous video sportively. Even tho you did talk slightly lesser in this vid, u still noisy la. But its okay, at least a good start. Try to tone down a bit more in the next episodes. Kirtan's thought process is truly interesting. 👍👏

[@kanimolyragushilan7823]

Yeah, they can be best friends .... I've been friends with my male best friend for 13 years(my longest friendship still now)...Lots of people have been asking are you guys a couple or if you guys are in a relationship...but we didn't care about the stuff...the reason is we know who we are and another important thing is we respect our friendship...and it will be sure our friendship will be longer✌️

[@k.mathumiitha]

THE PART WHEN KIRTAN WAS LIKE “I’m not gonna leave you bij” 🥹❤️

[@puwaneswaryperumal5597]

Tanesh always my favorite. And now Kirtan ❤

[@Joshini06]

Yes can I do have a male best friend for the past five years it’s just depends on how they see each other like there are pure friendship out there just some don’t value it and ruin things and some goes good mine we have never thought of being in a relationship or something else we just didnt see each and other like that but we love each other always ❤❤️❤️

[@pavitrenramesh5126]

32 min mark...friend zone to the depths of hell🤣

[@maxmadagascar5091]

Kirtan the gentleman 😂❤😂

[@nithyaaaaaa4979]

Yes, a girl and a guy can be best friends!!! THAT'S THE BEST AND MOST PUREST BOND EVER

[@nilv8680]

The best part is all those memories that was for 5 years will just no longer mean something . Sometimes I feel as guys we treasure the memories due to our logic and we will want to save the relationship. For girls is just the moment they feel something is not right they are willing to loose whatever is on the line thinking they can get better.

[@kevinanand1584]

i lost my friends from high school cause i actually couldn't afford to be with them. call to lepak and chill they will be onz la u know but then they will always wanna go to some bar and then some wanna go to some cafe and i couldnt afford to do that but go to the mamak. damn la thats just life. the ones that carried on life with me to the mamak tho, were still tight!

[@Vijaythalapathy28]

Epic Wednesday

[@shamnemoorthy9085]

Its very true.. i and my guy bestie kinda of like each other but coz religion purpose we didn’t gt into relationship coz we can’t gt married

[@user-sz9ys8hn6r]

well as a gen z in high school, it is pretty hard to have best friends of the opposite sex, but it is totally okay to have friends of the opposite sex, but it's very hard to get one

[@vishakiller2976]

i guess yes because i have one for past 17 years n still counting

[@kirttigamurugiah1212]

I think yes!!! Boys and girls can be just best friends because I do have a male friend since primary till now...almost more than 10years...we dont hve any lust feelings or find each other attractive. At the same time some doesnt end with just friends.. Like you guys said bestfriends who find each other attractive will somehow ended in fwb or relationship...because you cannot get into a relationship with a total stranger just like that...the first step is to getting know each other, being in friendzone, thats how relationship begins and develops..correct me if im wrong..

[@prenagurung4401]

👍

[@angelenejoseph5425]

I have very good girl and guy friends too.

[@kalaiarsi6431]

Yes im best friends with a guy but i kinda like him too i just nvr acted on it but whatever we do is purely just frens

[@teevasriranaram5153]

Yes, Obviously. But both the parties need to understand friendship first. Anyone can be friends but to be a loyal and valuable by not crossing the boundaries. I have a lot of good male friend and best friends as well. As long as both of the parties match the vibe together it is fine. For girls to be bestie firstly you need to be a BRO. All my guy friends they think as im a BRO and not a girl. So yeah be clear if you like as in future relationship thingy just say it out. If you really wanna be good friends that can vibe together. Then proceed with friendship .

[@meheshkumar8152]

I would simply barter my homie for 1 cigarette😂

[@k.mathumiitha]

I was like aaa when did Pri2 got married ? 😂😂😂😂

[@Clipssome]

RIP JUICE

[@manisamurali6284]

Yea for sure man. I have a guy best friend for the past 17 years and still counting and he’s just a friend to me. There is no gender in friendship y’know what I mean…

[@Clipssome]

26:47 kirtan called tanesh a hoe?😂😂

[@angelenejoseph5425]

I married my friend and now I feel like I am sleeping with my enemy😂 no seriously I miss his as a friend.

[@williamjacob5719]

Of course guys and girls can be best friends. It is all about intention. If your intention just to be her friend just to know her better and eventually marry, then for sure you cannot be just a friend. But I married my bestfriend 😅

[@gayathrisurjitsingh9333]

Of course can…

[@angelenejoseph5425]

My friend used to cover up my dating.😜🤪😛😝

[@MusicalJourney__]

It hurts bruhhh, I am a virgo and i can accept that hahahahaha

[@Clipssome]

kirtan.. you gatta chill on the "mhmm mhhm mhhmm". while tanesh is talking. its bad radio. 😂 u say tanesh talk too long. u moan too much. 35:56 😂😂😂😂 bro. all love but this is jokes

[@shan9ist]

Bring Joshua in men 🤣 for next podcast

[@mangalagowriramanathan859]

That would be interesting...😅

[@Vs_j]

Next topic : controlling boyfriend

[@mangalagowriramanathan859]

Can a boy & girl be JUST FRIENDS….?🤔 That is a tough question…🙄 There has to be some sort of “chemistry” in order for two people to be friends. If two people don't get along or if their personalities aren't compatible, they wouldn't even be friends at the first place whether they are male or female. Friendship is based on mutual trust and respect & not sexual attraction. But….at times it often does develop into something larger. That is when the question comes in place if you want something more than JUST FRIENDSHIP💞 For me personally I would not want to muddy the waters and complicate the relationship. It a hard call to make…..

[@Ruben-un1mr]

"Promosm"

[@hariprahlad5551]

Pls, do more intellectual type of podcast rather than being on girls' kinds of stuff. For example like, why did both of you divert from engineering as a career, when there are a lot ppl still doing engineering and are more stable and advancing in their career path. Try to explain what is that this hard route that yall took, is it beneficial at last and compare it with how your friends who are still in engineering and how their lives are with yours? Pls, this a topic that I would love to hear from both of you to discuss. Really will inspire a lot of ppl and the younger generation. Pls, @Kirtan and @Tanesh.

[@user-wf2rc2hf6y]

You guys sound & behave damn Gay with each other. Legit.

[@priyangkahsrivengidasalam5733]

Yeap, a guy and a girl can be best friends as long as they’re not attracted to each other. 😂

[@Clipssome]

58:06 "surprise attack" is basically rape yall. lesbian or not haha.

[@ninananthini4228]

in all honesty, 'friendship' for ep 2 is not making me hit the subscribe button just yet! It's not the length for me. I don't judge expression or language but the content is not there yet...I think, after y'all cooling off period, creating ep 1 was a great hook but ep 2 felt like a ghost-story headline in a tabloid. Idk guys, feeling like this episode could have been either abt global warming or marriage, lol, u feel. Personally, it just needed to sway to the Greek end way more instead of staying really safe n eastern. Takda oomph, ngam dia kurang sikit..

[@a-veetv3452]

If she’s ugly then yes bro but if she’s pretty I don’t think so your mind will tell you to be friends with her. Let’s be real here guys. If you just meet the person at this age I don’t think so bro. Guys and girls can be friends if they go back long a way but other than that don’t think so 😊

[@isaacandrew3426]

Nope. Every opposite sex friendship, is a failed relationship attempt from either one side. Either the guy or girl did have feelings, but it was never revealed

[@angelenejoseph5425]

Did u mum teach u in school?

[@Vijaythalapathy28]

Please in episode 3 talk about sx

[@theevankumar996]

You can be best friends with a girl but as long as you know the boundaries you don't cross then should be pretty much the best friendship you can have.

[@nityasriarasu8236]

Definitely guys and girls can be best friends and I’m grateful for that🥹✨♥️.. I had a male friend for 8 years. He’s 4years elder than me and 3years back he got married 😍 the most best part is his partner understood the friendship and never tried to separate us but at the same time we both know our limit and how cherish his partners understanding. It is so rare ❤ Back then we both had so much of rumours about the friendship but we didn’t give a shit about it 😅 and when he’s about to get married we both scared of thinking how’s his partner gonna take it but surprisingly I gained new best friend ❤ I just wish them a very happy life ahead ❤ and guys everything has a solution if you are confident about what you want and what you don’t want in life 😊

[@rayzelrenitha2705]

Thanks for sharing this good stuffs guys 🤌 Friendship is the bond that I always prioritize , and I'm blessed to have the circle of friends I have in my life rn ❤️ the older you grow, you will realize that you don't need many friends in life you just need few real ones to rely on. Always grateful for the ones I have now.