FINALLY FOUND LOVE AFTER BEING ABUSED AND ABANDONED AS A CHILD (PART 2)

[@ekezielucaschiamaka4911]

Guys why is nobody appreciating this pastor “Kayode” when pastor do bad everybody in the world will talk now we have seen this good pastor that was in this lady life and didn’t take advantage of her, pastor Kayode where ever you are me and other Nigerians for been a blessing and a father figure in this woman’s life may God bless you pastor Kayode may God increase the oil in your life ❤ we celebrate you 🎉pastor Kayode shalom

[@gloriaibrahim2794]

Love how Apostle let's her speak without interrupting, just listening. More grace sir

[@believastv]

Because she's good speaker, well articulated in thoughts and speech... she wasn't oversharing or saying details that were not unnecessary. She understands where to stop, so there was no need for Apostle to cut her with diversion questions, like he does sometimes. ❤

[@blesspurple2258]

It's part of the process of healing. He wants her to speak out so she can be free

[@omololaololade4379]

God bless Pastor Kayode for being a great support. This is what christianity is all about; showing love and embracing others. Our characters matter a lot, she kept on praising papa all through even when he clearly doesn't know the best way to care for her. Adaobi you're indeed beautiful, I love your outfit and glasses. For anyone in Adaobi's shoes, may God send your support system in life, carry you through the storms of life and come through for you all your days.

[@TheRefinersVesselsNetwork]

God bless Pastor Kayode. It's rare to see a Pastor who would love you so much like this, without judging. Knowing your vulnerabilities, yet fighting for your destiny. God, please, bless Pastor Kayode.

[@babajidemercy]

The way i hear this woman talk about her Pastor makes me respect my uncle, beyond been my pastor, He is also my uncle. i am grateful for the gift of the church. i found family, love, and acceptance in my church. i have found Fathers, Mothers, Elder brothers, Elder Sisters and even amazing younger ones in the Church. Church has been an avenue for caring for broken children.

[@prophetaruwajoyeadeboyejohn]

Pastor Kayo daddy more of God's grace sir. I don't know you sir but you deserve to be appreciated sir

[@gbemmieajayi9718]

I don’t know pastor Kayode, but my heart is praying for him!!!! What????? he saved a soul, Infact I am sure there are many more he pulled up like this. God bless you pastor Kayode, God enrich your heart, your pocket and your life. Your children will forever find helpers, even before they call 10,000 will answer! Amen!!!!

[@naijainspires9012]

Amen

[@sman4012]

Amen 🙏

[@praisemagnate5321]

This is my story. Thanks for sharing yours for my healing.

[@thefamilyhubbyinasim]

Sending you lots of love and hugs.🤗 ❤❤

[@oluwafemiajisafe1520]

It's a huge blessing having Pastor Kayode Elebiyo as my father, God bless you daddy. We love you!

[@dakorucharles-granville1742]

My dear, God brought.Pastor Kayode to take the place of your biological father but you didn't realize it. God had loved you even when you didn't know. Thank God for your Life.

[@GloriaUgwumba]

I never know I have a great family until I watch this. God bless my parents for been intentional about me. They were there for me all day, time,❤❤.

[@halftimepromiseswithneibert]

Pastor Kayode is God sending a father's love. Blessings to our sister!

[@MissLia.]

“The person’s absence is an act of mercy from God”. Chai this statement can only be revealed by the spirit. Some parent / child relationships are better absent or non existent than present. May God give us the grace to heal and correct the trauma to end the cycle.

[@juliusobasade2534]

This Lady is amazing. She is sharp, brilliant, speaks beautifully well and above all, she is gorgeous. Apostle Lazarus too is a good listener and well versed in psychotherapy. He is really at what he does

[@jesutofunmiolutayo2686]

Pastor Kayode is my pastor , truly blessed to have him 🙏🏼 I love this ❤

[@tofunmiayoola5455]

Pls what's pastor Kayode's handle on ig or Facebook?

[@greatshinaolatv]

God bless pastor Kayode. He was really instrumental.

[@olowokeredamilola5339]

Thank God for the type of Pastor Kayode,may him not miss his reward now and in the after here. I keep saying that the impact of church in our society can never be quantified. I'm not disputing some abusing this sacred privilege.

[@tayoadeoye756]

Pastor Kayode Elebiyo thank God for you and for what you did.. I am happy you are free Ma. I hope to have such a spiritual father figure close enough to also deliver me..

[@onifadebolajesutito4519]

Pastor Kayode, you are blessed massively for being intentional and purposeful. You made impacts in this woman's life. You never miss your rewards in Jesus name Amen ✨️ Church kept the void in my lives even when I met with disappointment. The love of God kept me.

[@reginaurenchris-ogbodo14]

God gave you a Father in Pastor Kayode. May he remain blessed in Jesus name

[@MrsGiant]

Shout out to Pastor Kayode, much love to your mother. big love to PFL too. Thanks for being attentive and for your timely and holy ghost inspired teachings. I am still healing ❤

[@azeeztaiwo34]

God bless Pst. Kayode, God bless Pst. Nathaniel Bassey 🎉

[@chayilsmoments1384]

Pastor Kayode is a father and he I always there for us spiritually, very selfless and a father

[@oluwaseunaleriwa7486]

This is deep! Thank God for a platform like this where real life stories can be shared. And may God bless (Daddy) Pastor J.K. Elebiyo. Anyone who knows him can truly attest to the love, care, and support he provides, spiritually, physically, financially… He is a selfless Man of God!

[@franciscaevuen6396]

I miss going to church since I left nija😢. Staying in the presence of God is everything 😊 😊

[@MaryMee-gv5nw]

She's really a strong women, her story is what two different people experience in one person. I'm glad despite all, you're on this side with God. I'm waiting to see your youtube channel, inspiring youths and traveling all over the world; from churches to organizations to schools, sharing the love and saving power of God. May God continue with you as you journey, keep you and your family. Not forgetting those God used through your journey, may God bless them and their generations. There's so much in you sis, books, movies and a whole lot. May God bring you helper. Amen!

[@bankoleifedolapom.1381]

God bless you Pastor Kayode, and Thank you Apostle Femi for anchoring this program..... I hope and Pray I heal fast and also move on from past trauma.

[@thefamilyhubbyinasim]

This story is a lesson on how not to judge people. Some people are going through a lot. That is why we must love everyone unconditionally.❤❤

[@olafenwaolubunmi125]

God bless your mum for understanding and trying to correct the past and be there for you and your brother.

[@christy3518]

Talking about this should be the beginning of healing for you. No one can love you like God, not even your husband so pls let go and let God pour His love upon you. Please and please....God bless you Pastor Femi Lazarus and Gid bless Pastor Kayode

[@joydamkor4815]

God bless Pastor Kayode

[@eniolanimi676]

I love the report of two people First her Mom, kudos to her, I love this report so much and I desire one😘❤️ Second is the pastor, Pastor Kayode. I celebrate Grace in him.

[@oluwatoyinajie6859]

Pastor Kayode God bless you sir! Pastor Femi, I’m not sure if I can seat with you this way but my story loooooonnnnngggggggggg! God! It is well

[@pamelao8765]

This woman broke me, so many things in my past so similar to her. I did not even know these issues were there until she spoke about them. I literally started searching for a Christian centered therapist while listening to you.

[@olayemio121]

Hi Pamela, may God heal us all through and through. You can try Amani health inc for christian therapy

[@Unwashadow]

May God comfort you in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏🏾

[@Nja4real]

Thank you, Pastor Kayode - for being there for her. This is what Good Shepherd are called to do. ❤

[@Jesusbabyhub]

Thank God for pastor Kayode, I've an experience with a pastor i called my spiritual father, but the end thereof was not pleasant. He molested me too. Whenever i see him preach, i ask God why would this man still be preaching. But I'm learning to forgive him and be better. God bless pastor kayode😊

[@ogechiochulo8940]

Sure pastor was surely there for all of us.especially you.

[@nnadibrightchinonso6456]

God bless pastor Kayode

[@babajidemercy]

i understand every beat of emotions this woman talks about, i can relate with that cry and that feeling of loneliness, it is so real.

[@AMOE_30]

You are loved. ❤

[@ibitundeolufunso6804]

I've been at this point, I'm still at this point. But I've healed and I'm constantly healing... It can be so painful!

[@deborahauossonabi5938]

This hit me hard. Have similar experiences and wish you speak to someone and have someone to speak too. I cry everyday. Mine is dead too and I wish I could heal and move on. 27yrs I'm still not even seeing the need of having a man in my life. God bless pastor kayode.

[@mrnatha]

God loves you and he will heal you❤

[@bridgetimande9678]

May God heal you sis.

[@mcmoremak6190]

Believers are going through things. The church needs to do more of these therapy sessions.

[@ellascrib5115]

Rejection is a spirit 😢😢😢 the devil is a good whisperer to remind you 😢😢

[@estheruchechukwu9538]

Jesus!! This lady is strong. She has been through a lot

[@VictorObisike]

Thank you so much ma for coming out of your shore its a whole lot❤ Thank you to Pastor Kayode for being an important figure and proving that he you are a pastor indeed ❤ Thank you Daddy, Apostle Femi Lazarus for coming up with this show it helps a lot in the aspect of seeing life and having the knowledge that people go through a lot ❤ The church in general is a home as long as you are comfortable in where you are worshipping

[@akinniyimodupe4864]

God bless Pastor Kayode. It pays to serve Jesus

[@lambilove1287]

It actually pays to serve Jesus ooh

[@Dude-dx5ns]

I sympathise with this lady as someone from a broken family dynamic as well. But I believe and I KNOW you can be healed from the spirit of rejection and childhood trauma. I'm a living witness to this. I know that God can fully heal her and fill the void of that fatherly love she has. He did for me.

[@victoryokoligan8527]

This beautiful lady is talking about my life..

[@temitopeobanife7607]

May God heal her completely.

[@praizdev]

That feeling of rejection, low self-esteem. I can relate. May God heal me.😢

[@adesinaadebayo6154]

Lol 😂.. “You said my destiny is great oh, but Sapa want finish me ” 😂 This too shall pass Thank God for healing and strength…

[@clarissewehgee7796]

More grace Sir. God's continuous healing hands on our Sister

[@olaoluwapopoola4222]

I can relate..But God's love is healing❤

[@Lightblessforever]

Thanks!

[@munickiss]

The Pastor Kayode is blessed. How I wish I had a pastor Kayode kind in my life.

[@tobilobaelizabeth4846]

Thank God for good committed pastors and the spiritual family.

[@joanoak-kj8rh]

Thank God for this pastor. God bless him, so many pastors are not really interested in their flocks. From exeoerience. It is well

[@DocKateTV]

My sister that part for boarding school visiting ehh hmmmmmm I feel you E be DEH hot shaaaaa You will see parents rubbing their child's head, Feeding them, asking them how they r in school, chiaaaaa, n you will just be looking at it as rocket science. Sometimes I even cried honestly my sister take heart Me too I started forming strong things After weeping for so long I just become the mother n father I needed for myself even with so much pain. You may think it will get better by the day but no! Pain is unavoidable. Never you tell anyone you know how he/she feels when you are not them.

[@TheRefinersVesselsNetwork]

Your last paragraph capped it all. Thank you for this comment, Ma.

[@ichechi_Ruth]

Thank you Ma. Had to chest it. Visiting day nobody came for me. The only time my mom came I was in JS2 I think my mom kept lamenting on how she needs to go to go to church.. I just told her you shouldn’t have come. I had to enjoy the love my friends their family extended. It made me hardddddddddddddddddd and meannnnnnnnn. I understand love but I just rejected it for years. Thank God for realization and wanting to change things intentionally.

[@rebeccaomeben9680]

I can relate to this lady's story because I experienced rejection from both parents. But one of the ways to heal is to speak about it, cry about it, and laugh about it. The more you bottle things up, the harder it is to heal.

[@helenephanus3539]

This is so beautiful.

[@afolarinoluwabukola9724]

I can’t watch this , I can’t bring myself to watch this . I’m broken 😢😢😢

[@maanso4210]

It's okay. Breathe. When you feel ready, you can come watch it. You may just find that this will contribute to your healing. Hugs and blessings.

[@patiencechidi3465]

This is so touching, it looks more like my life right now, it got to a point where I didn't care to know if he was still breathing or not, the only reason why I don't wish him physically dead now is simply because there is no money to bury him. Emotionally, psychologically, in all areas of my life, he is not alive to me, after accepting Christ, I had to cry alone, cry aloud, weep bitterly and forgive my dad for his absence in my life as a Father, I have forgiven him but had no need for him ever, maybe just for the collection of my bride price and that's it. It is well, I am strong and have developed tough skin to go on through the toughness of life. All thanks to God and my mum. Apostle, thank you so so much for bringing her on board. Thank you for all the similar stories, it's really helping and changing lives. God bless you sir.

[@veraogbebortv9745]

True!!! 😢 Childhood trauma never leaves you!!! It never does. 😢

[@Zalidebrobrenly]

U are right oh.i have some childhood traumas no matter how hard I try to let go.it comes back once on a while

[@AMOE_30]

There is deliverance, Brother/Sister. Remember, Jesus bore our griefs and sorrows and healed all who were oppressed. You may not immediately feel free of childhood trauma, whatever shape or form it is. But therapy, counseling and deliverance can break its power over you. I know this from personal experience 🤎.

[@gifteekitchenwares9223]

I'm so blessed by this story..

[@zwiwi111]

Chai, this is so painful. For someone that knew the love of a father I don’t even understand how I feel her pain. May God heal you completely ma xx

[@Fruitfulvine2023]

After listening to this interview,I feel she should even be grateful to God for the few people she even had in her life while growing up. Some people even with absent fathers did not meet people like Pastor Kayode. Thank you for your story. It brought understanding and healing to me.

[@basilogbolu4086]

Thank God for the church,🙏

[@vessel_Tv]

God bless Pastor Kayode. These kind are the real mvp

[@bolavictory8171]

Wow, Amazing GRACE Thank🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏 You Dear Heavenly Father For Your GRACE Upon Her Life Thank you very much Pastor Sir 👏

[@priscillaokwan9386]

I pray God helps me to heal from what I've been through and still going through🙏😪

[@ahadzierickosi]

I thank God for this man. Apostle Femi Lazarus, thank you for this, this you for opening my eyes. The stories make me remember mine. When I listen to the stories it’s like my own life story.

[@Starrr111]

Gradual process indeed we thank God for your healing dear..God is great❤🙏🏽

[@wendyiphieokora4]

May God bless PASTOR KAYODE so much

[@onyinyechiihe8965]

Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you Pastor Kayode. Thank you AFL. GOD bless you all 🙏🏾.

[@gracejaweya5777]

I do have the same story like ur sis. It is not easy for me too even till date, I feel that emptiness

[@grace2excell]

God loves ❤. Really believe it

[@AMOE_30]

There is deliverance, Brother/Sister. Remember, Jesus bore our griefs and sorrows and healed all who were oppressed. You may not immediately feel free of childhood trauma, whatever shape or form it is. But therapy, counseling and deliverance can break its power over you. I know this from personal experience ❤.

[@PEACEFOFANAH-s7t]

Thank you JESUS ❤❤❤

[@AdaTonyOguzie]

God bless the pastor 😊

[@janendibe3476]

More of these typa podcasts pls❤️

[@FUNMIAFOLARIN]

Please share details of Pastor Kayode. Full name and ministry if possible. God bless him and his family

[@blessingchristopher8981]

Thank God for church and thank God for pastors who are father figures.....

[@StephanieAhipue]

I am in the library at University and trying so hard not to cry. There are somethings that has happened to me that I have never and will never tell my family because I am scared that they'll make things worse.

[@mrnatha]

God heal you dear❤

[@kingmartinsfrancis3197]

On God knows our pains

[@onyinyechiihe8965]

Sorry dear. May GOD comfort you.

[@GiftedEboigbe]

If there is one thing I am scared of is not treating my children in the manner I was treated that I didn't like

[@Samson_Tobi]

There’s a movie coming out!!?? Wow can’t wait

[@florencejohnfwah2312]

I hear and see me in her. I wish I can talk about it someday but I need healing.

[@mrnatha]

You are healed in Jesus name. Jesus loves you.

[@theglen85]

So true to say an absent parent sometimes should just remain that, because you'll find their presence causes more harm

[@MaryMee-gv5nw]

This is really a blessing to me, thank you, pastor. Pls when is the remaining part coming out?

[@ClaudiaTwumwaa]

God bless you so much for sharing

[@houseofgracetvchannel3269]

May God keep blessing pastor kayode❤❤

[@obaduyitemitayo7804]

Thank you Pastor Kayode

[@DocKateTV]

Rejection Longing for love You just have to live with it The pain of abandonment those who haven't experience it will never know how it feels

[@grace2excell]

😢

[@deborahagyekum]

😭😭😭😭😭 Jesus show me mercy

[@tolaniariyike2029]

😢😢😢😢😢 sorry, ma. It is well

[@catalyst0016]

God of Apostle Femi Lazarus will fill the space. Our Lord is experts in his Job

[@sardashmakeup5002]

I like her reaction 😂😂😂

[@adeolubamiduro6157]

It's just as if I'm watching myself, I feel what she is feeling, honestly I could really relate. Spirit of rejection, disappointment!!!, longing for attention. I can see myself in her. Anybody that hasn't experience it will not know how it feels, it's really tough and bad.

[@ajanic-belle2145]

Ada, you have to allow the Holy Ghost do his complete work in you. If you don't build a strong spiritual relationship with the Holy Spirit, you may make the same mistake that your dad made. The Holy Spirit oooo. He is all we need to heal. He is so real

[@markassparklady]

Right now I'm fighting spiritual battles I don't even know, I ask myself why me. I just keep praying and committing everything in the hand of the Lord. My mum told me when I was a baby I was very sick to the point where she thought I will die, she went to my MIL. she was the one who took me from one witch doctor house to another n couple with the fact that my grand father from my father side was a very strong witch doctor. Mmmm may God have mercy on us n me. I pray to be finally free from this spirit battle and funny enough my husband doesn't know it, I don't even know how to inform him about it. Since he is not around.

[@ibitundeolufunso6804]

@@markassparklady Kindly find messages on our redemption in Christ. Satan has no right to afflict you because Christ has paid for you. Insist on the covenant and you'll be set free!

[@markassparklady]

@ibitundeolufunso6804 Thank you very much. I will do that. Remember me in your prayers.

[@mrnatha]

Firstly Jesus loves you,He died for You and You are free in Christ. Carry your divine consciousness.

[@markassparklady]

@@mrnatha thank you.

[@favourndakara]

What a story and testimony!

[@Lolonyo5687]

I never had a visiting day . 😂😂😂😂😂. The day he came was to switch my course of study from art to science's 😂😂😂😂. It is well "

[@kemii00]

How i wish I have a person like pastor Kayode

[@miriambarwa6168]

Thank you Apostle for this godly content.I have subscribed oh

[@afekhuaifaith]

I see myself here I receive my healing in Jesus name 🙏

[@Ebenezer-TV]

Her love language is quality time