Frank Yang QA - How to not care about what other think

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[@flipit333]

"Dont be afraid to fail, anything I have ever attempted I was always willing to fail" -Schwarzenegger It's simple but it's the mind set that gets me through things.

[@BluEN1111]

the thing is not to don't care about what other think (of course you need to care) the real key is not to RELY on other's oppinion (feeling good when they give you a good reaction,feeling beta when not,defining your personality based on their judgements)

[@Mastouril]

+Nicolae Spataru I was looking for this comment. I absolutely agree. "Not caring" is such a teenage way to say it, right? People who actually don't care are criminals and psychopaths lol. Not RELYING is the right way. Of course it's good to care!

[@jeremiahmediina7409]

making all kinds of gains.... all kindsssss

[@peppymia]

We all still feel good when we get a good reaction of course, the thing is to continue being ourselves and not change just because we want to be more "liked" but at the expense of our true self and values.

[@Meeminator]

Yeah I think that’s what Frank means, he’s just saying it in a childish way

[@F19991]

YEAAAAAA LETS GET REJECTED! Currently done about 300 approaches, I'm really stopping to care now!

[@TriCosta]

starting to do that too now!

[@CapitalASMR47]

im not even gonna lie, a lot of body builders aren't the most educated but you're very intelligent... thanks for telling some truth

[@saadhasib9653]

If you want an intelligent bodybuilder, check out Elliot Hulse's channel. This guy is my hero.

[@atvxgas]

Saad Hasib too bad he quit making KZbin videos.

[@maxii95]

Joshua Ferrand He hasn't quit, he's just taking a break

[@saadhasib9653]

Joshua Ferrand He's not quit maybe taking a break. But he still posts on his strength camp channel.

[@Juggernautfitnes]

That is some bullshit only because they lift doesn't make them any less intelligent. Look up kai greene or elliot hulse im sure you will change your mind.

[@RasputiaInYourMom]

i wish this guy was my friend! best advice giver ever lol

[@1991Q]

You say to change how you want others to perceive you. However, everybody has a different perception, someone may think you are funny while others may think you are annoying.

[@BFG8000]

What worked for me, is becoming my own mentor and best friend. You always look after your best friend and as a mentor you let your pupil practice and you guide him through it. You need knowledge, but not more than yourself, if you know what I mean. You observe and adjust.

[@JeromeWeinberg]

Guys, I'm the dude who asked the question. To clear some things up, this video wasn't about picking up girls or singing in public. The purpose of my message was to find out how to truly transcend inhibitions and filters. To feel capable of expressing how I feel and doing what I want when I want. I'm sure I'm not the only one who admires Frank's ability to walk around in a tight, half pink shirt that says "I

[@DaeWunie]

I love the way you think, i never thought i would find someone who can think alike me. Subbed.

[@BrocHenderson]

love your videos. both the art side and the funny side. keep doing these, and expressing your mind

[@Kloutkulture]

Your brain is not afraid of the reaction (rejection). Your brain is afraid of the negative feelings caused by the reaction.

[@Handsdown09]

You make videos on the best topics Frank.

[@brandonzzz7]

more of these vlogs. they are really entertaining and enlightening

[@shabbirhassan7057]

Fronk high as fuck, making a decent and sober video :D,

[@happycapy47]

Loving these Q&As bro

[@gazingazin]

Great approach! U r like a prophet for me~ improving my mind and body

[@johnle69]

The way you mind works is fascinating. It's genius.

[@danielpichardo1255]

I don’t like it when my mind feels imprisioned by other peoples opinion . I also feel trapped in a paradox . Where I know there is a higher self of being but I don’t want to feel mentally inprisioned by it. Sometimes I’ll take a criticism constructively but feel really hurt when it challenges my ego. And for a while I’ll be really confused and have my ego fragmented. I know a friend of mine whos really weird and fucked up and he causes the strongest mind fucks in me . He will do things to confuse me and belittle my ideas. Sometimes I allow him because I like it when ppl challenge my mind and cause me to think outside myself. but yeah I think we all struggle to not care what people think while also striving to find identity and purpose inside of ourself and our life. And to stand out and be different . Thank you frank for this talk it was really enlightening !

[@Doombz]

Frank, I just had an Existential Crisis. All this Life stuff tripped me out but this video brought me back and now I realize this shit. Im ready for this. Thanks bud.

[@Simon-sr3cn]

I think of the zyzz quote: "If you give a fuck what people think you'll never get anywhere, fuck it, i'm (soon to be) shredded!"

[@TheSuperChump]

Much respect Mr.Yang

[@brent6991]

Frank is that a scar on your left arm? I love your videos, always looking forward to you postings. I'm excited to see how your cut works out.

[@hizoku12]

loving these more 'srs' video of yours

[@satio8888]

i like how this video is not edited one bit. Keep it up bratha.

[@zoolanderhansel]

you are wise beyond your years bro

[@93natho]

everyone needs to see this.

[@heggedaponk1]

You got really intresting thoughts frank. Thanks!

[@brandonharrington3672]

I FUCKING LOVE YOU FRONK COME BACK TO THE TUBE

[@newtonheath8367]

you are really looking/behaving good in this vid....

[@tesfayetastic]

If he would express his messages or thoughts like this more straight foreword I think I would benefit a lot more and understand him more. It's not that I don't like his other metaphorical crazy videos with different stuff to inflict thought in the name of art and all that it's just that I can't always see the message or thing he trying to express to show to the viewer. Maybe he does it so that he can see us debate over something that didn't mean anything at all for his satisfaction, something that maybe society disapproves of or taboo's. It's not that I don't like to think about stuff like this either I love listen to conscious rap that has metaphors and try to find it's real meaning, mm.. Food album by mf doom for example but idk. I only watched for the first time today and maybe I'm just a noob to his stuff and it will take time to adjust. Ultimately, I do think frank is very wise and looks at stuff at completely different angle.

[@Jon-Jon-Jon-Jon]

I like these Videos too, and I understand those more too, BUT I really like the feeling of getting mind-fucked, and not knowing what the hell is going on and how any of that makes sense. I think what you need to do while watching those is to stop making sense of anything and just going along with the "nonsense" I sometimes NEED this feeling of wtf and feeling lost, to actually understand things better, so that how I feel about those videos.

[@HammerHeadFootball]

i’m on LSD as i read this comment, wow.

[@ledsmash]

good video fronk. insightful as usual.

[@Malik_Hoff]

I always had this philosophy and was afraid to put in action because I was too pussy to experiment with it and wanted to learn from someone else that dealt with it.. thanks Franklin.

[@WalkingCasino]

Frank, you need to work harder if you want me to view you as a wild and crazy man. I'm viewing you as an artist, a fine teacher and someone worth listening to. Each video you create forces me to ask questions, about what you have created yet and how I perceive the world around me. Trolling or not, I take something from each video you create, I am quite thankful for them. Keep up the good work.

[@alex11z8a4]

Amazing video

[@reallyletsdoit]

its all about to the degree with which you care...for the most part I think people care way to much. What other people think of you shouldn't stop you from doing what you love and what your passionate about. It shouldn't stop you from expressing yourself in the way you want.

[@Davanillaguerrilla]

Frank is my hero

[@tsnr2]

Your my hero Frank.

[@UnIosingRanger]

Love you Frank

[@helloMRdj1]

I think the best way to not give a fuck is to accept yourself as you are. Why would anything bother you if youre 100% comfortable with yourself? That and the practice Frank talked about, will make you pretty confident.

[@KisukeMuramasa]

This guy is a genius!!

[@stevetu3873]

love this video!

[@MeZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZ]

i needed this..

[@eddXmoakaesp]

I see frank as a aesthetic philosopher. And that's what i like about Frank.

[@goldenshowers2089]

You need to be in a epic meal time episode your perfect for it

[@YoutubeUser-mg1tz]

Wow papa frank you so cool

[@Will403536]

GENIUS

[@frankyang]

not really. these substances changed me phenomenologically, but I had these same ideas before I took anything and my art was more or less the same.

[@10sirSMOKEalot01]

Amazing dude thankyou

[@xjhong]

Very smart.

[@Fitzy711]

Frank you should have been the lead role in inception, my man X

[@RagingBullAirsoft]

When i saw this title and saw Frank Yang, i knew this was about to change my fucking life.

[@alexjackson8836]

amazing

[@cintobettoncelli5714]

good advice

[@kubi7814]

I like this dude

[@vladimirmingazov2269]

i couldnt help myself in noticing the kid shaped shadow on the wall

[@blackpearl1t]

Great vid yo

[@MZtestvideos]

very true.

[@KopMATT96]

How is your relationship with your parents frank? Do they have unconditional love for you?

[@deadpixels3843]

What a strange question.

[@jhonw8682]

@@deadpixels3843 Not really. Childhood is a big deal. I'm guessing they were abscent for him.

[@Adhjie]

damn that always hit home, in my case it was a room

[@Iisrupac]

@@jhonw8682 asian parents gonna asian

[@ninjayeahvideos]

once again...good insights man, I got here from hodgetwins btw in the related videos :O

[@rsnooblets123]

"Your brain will produce certain chemicals that... youre the man!" lmfao

[@jesusmyman]

I recommend looking into exposure therapy for people that want to learn how to "care" less. It's helped me tremendously

[@coolottolooc]

I feel stupid now, thanks for this video frank, it's very usefull for me.

[@blackishlovah123]

Wisesir

[@BispingKILL]

Jesus Christ that was such an accurate assessment

[@oolala53]

Well, he has a few things going for him. Great violinist. Good-looking. Terrific physique. Not that people like that can be jerks and get rejected, but it does open some doors.

[@AssyrianMuscle]

is this video a re upload? or is this major de ja vu?

[@zetsuXitachi]

who is the real frank yang? This calm, smart guy or the spastic bbc lingerie wearing guy? damn it so many questions

[@Burning.Phoenix]

Frank Yang is the essence of the BBC.

[@vyers31]

Hey frank, im interested, was there a turning point or something that happened in your life that helped your transition from being shy to the person you are today?

[@flume420]

frank, i love it when you post troll vids, but i also love your serious vids. seeing this side of you is great. respect man

[@673Subliminal]

The end was particularly interesting for me. Overall, I have always been a loser. Everything I have is from other people. And thus I attempted suicide by poisoning, but survived. Afterwards, I approached life from a nihilistic point of view, and when something didn't go my way I would get upset. It then occurred to me how silly it was to expect everything I do to go my way. So now, I don't worry about asking girls out, because I know I am ugly, and weird. In fact, I am more uneasy when things DO go right for me. because it is new. But I am not confident because I do not care what people think of me. I do not get upset when I don't get a job or the house I wanted. I do not get upset when someone crashes into me. Not because I do not care, because i'm still going to get the problems sorted. But because I can take another loss in my life, and I can handle it, and I am going to get through it regardless of what happens. A lot of times people settle for becoming passive. Which does no-one any favours. Those who wrong should be put back in their place, and those wronged should learn to be the one that puts them back in their place. On the subject of "Not caring about what people think". Think more along the lines of "So what if it doesn't go right. I still ain't dead.". I might be wrong. But I don't see how that's going to effect me if I am.

[@saraishinisayoutubetroll3720]

me too, but remember life is only once

[@0113Naruto]

673Subliminal exactly man. The statement 'so what" is necessary contentment in life and it makes it easier for you to choose the best way to move forward

[@673Subliminal]

@tDrauqRaM.- Aye. Still at it man. ;)

[@the_real_P0t4t0]

cool advice

[@JackAlderton]

Good video brah

[@Kai-iq2ps]

Nice.

[@spotserafin]

How old is this guy, so mature even at 2012

[@thagodfather007]

He is 43

[@spotserafin]

damn he young, i am 3.7 billion years old.

[@thagodfather007]

Sebastián Jácome lol Franks around 28/29 so in this vid he must be around 26/27

[@CrazyIvan1988]

44 years old, last i checked.

[@Jesus-rq1rh]

Bowl of Tofu how do you know it ?

[@corey01]

does frank have a video on having kids or his views on having children

[@FunkyJake15]

love this :)

[@Viktir123]

If you want.

[@thrilla2k10]

good video broseph

[@oxxstyle]

One time when i was feeling trippy i had the realization that most people arent as judgmental as i think. Meaning, many of us are on our own missions all the time, so a particular person doesnt register to our memory. Make sense? We are flying through space on a lava rock man! Dont get too discouraged!

[@zer-td7il]

This shit is so true its crazy

[@Joefest99]

Is this Frank letting his guard down and being real?!

[@9faris3]

one shouldn't simply misunderstood someone inspirational as GOD!

[@Pennys1]

Yang the man yang in on a yang thread

[@thedarklobo88]

Getting Comfortable in the Uncomfortable.

[@tommunist10]

Wonder if he'd agree with any of this now

[@syedrizvi8797]

did anyone notice the pictures in the background.

[@ejtwice]

and I thought Frank was just a crazy guy....I see a video like this.

[@Enteroar]

He sped the video up.

[@g7-farrer]

This guy's wise as fuck

[@SheetsGashu]

Good video man! This inspired me xD

[@chrisshaw1854]

whats that mark on your arm?

[@TiaanHugovanderMerwe]

Hi Frank.

[@mitchsandridge]

frank i have a problem of not being able to talk loud when in clubs.. girls cant even hear me like wtf. when in a normal environment i can talk normal and loud?

[@basketbotmandem3676]

mdma is the only way to ever be your true self

[@wilangeldrifter]

FRONK tell me a book more about the psychology

[@vaalenciago]

"i wanted to get rejected." YES.

[@Damnationization]

Type in "Frank Yang BBC" under your KZbin search. Sick, yet funny.

[@BradleyCole66]

New to frank yang. What is BBC?

[@CleverDjembe]

can i ask you a q?