Going To Asia With My "Secret Lover"

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[@Lydt95]

You werent crying because you were leaving paridise.. you were crying because you know what life youre going back to. Leave, i know its hard but i could feel the heaviness lifted off you in this video.. life is for living not feeling trapped x

[@FemmiGirlz]

I saw the same thing in her. She’s crying because she doesn’t want to go back to the tension filled home with Eileen and knows she has hard decisions to make. So sad.

[@user-hx9gp8wx2v]

I agree with this comment.

[@babettequeen1868]

I’ve been watching you for almost six years, and I can honestly say this is the happiest you have looked in years. You’re glowing, and I think that’s because you’ve found someone who actually wants to travel with you, and who seems to be there for you emotionally. I have my strong opinions on Eileen, but all I’ll say is that I hope this is the beginning of a new life for you, and that you don’t let her continue to dull your sparkle.

[@michaelas.1837]

and financially 😅

[@dharmabumpoetess]

She’s travelling and in asia of course she’d be happy. She’s also in the honeymoon phase with this secret lover, honeymoon phase is always happy

[@sophierescigno5064]

Turns out all she needed was a man to make her truly happy ❤

[@Calbizzle]

@@sophierescigno5064😂

[@jadesapphire]

​@sophierescigno5064 ya.. no. She needs someone anyone who will make her happy. But i bet all youve had was men gl with that. She needs a young successful woman just like herself. She clearly says shes not attracted to men.

[@CatherineDoII]

Just leave your wife if you're not happy with her. The things you told about her behavior in your last video were despicable.😢

[@samanthaosborne4134]

I tell her that too

[@DOMI99522]

I agree, there's no point in staying with someone who treats you like that, I mean letting her pay everything sitting around doing nothing having secrets like that she had a warrant out for her, and then expecting Julia to bail her out and doing everything for her im sorry but that's not love. She used her to have a comfortable life, cause I'm sure she wouldn't have lived the way she did without Julia. And she wasn't even there for her emotionally when that was the only thing that she could've done at least. That's no love, that's narcissistic. Julia deserves way better than that, she's so sweet and loving, I hope she leaves Eileen, because a relationship like that can't be saved. It's sad but that's how it is sometimes, someone who truly cares for you wouldn't let you get to a point where you just don't wanna live where you're so drained and tired of everything. Also I think if you truly truly love someone you wouldn't want to share them with nobody, so that alone tells me that there's nothing there anymore on both sides, I mean of course there are people who live that way and enjoy it on both sides and still love each other but in my opinion, if that's the last thing you can think of to potentially save a marriage, you just have to admit that it's over at this point. And that's OK. You shouldn't waste your energy fighting for something that's only making you feel bad. I hope she realizes that better sooner than later so she'll not waste her time but she has to figure that out by herself. She won't listen to nobody unless she realizes for her self. But what I can see is that with this guy she seems so much more at ease and just happier overall. I wish her all the best..

[@CherryDreamer96]

Fir all we know, they are already separated. It's not our business. It seems they live seperate lives

[@DOMI99522]

@@CherryDreamer96 you're right it's not our business, it's her life, but as someone who watches Julia since the very beginning and since she's pretty open about her life and what is going on, You tent to form an opinion and thoughts about it. She's such an kindhearted person, and yes people will give their honest opinion if they feel like she's mistreated. Anyways It's not like she doesn't want to hear peoples thoughts otherwise she just would've kept everything private.

[@magicalindigoadult3838]

She needs a place to live her x has a place she don’t want to have roommates again

[@tatyana5692]

Julia, I’ve been a viewer for over 5 years now. It’s been such a long time since you’ve appeared genuinely happy & glowing. I loved this video, your commentary, and how appreciative you are of being able to experience new things!! ❤❤❤

[@user-fx1oj5yx5x]

Im just gonna be blunt you're always happiest when away from eileen the only videos you seem genuinly joyful and not like your hiding pain behind it all are the ones where you two arent together and youre with people who are healthier for you like your mom, friends, and new partner. Thats a tell tale sign that eileen never has been and never will be good for you. Even in the videos with you and her where yall are seemingly having a good time theres always pain in your eyes. Why do you stay when its clear as day trying isnt working ?

[@heavenleighdollanger]

Julia I’ve been watching you for a decade at least…. I’ve never seen you this happy!!!! Genuine happiness is radiating off you

[@eeeeoo8934]

Thank you for taking us with you Julia! It’s so beautiful - and seeing you light up and smile is awesome. You deserve it girl! :)

[@emmo2850]

No matter who or what the secret lover is, that’s nice for you, just though it’s best to end one relationship before spiraling into another. Rooting for you for self preservation. When one’s vulnerable, others are not always acting in your interest. Much love and light

[@angelwings1446]

Totally agree , be careful my love x

[@BoundInHumanBones]

I think Julia mentioned before they opened up their marriage. So falling into the non monagonous spectrum. Meaning they are ok with exploring other relationships outside the marriage.

[@emmo2850]

@@BoundInHumanBones yes she did mention their marriage was open. That actually is not of concern, that’s a choice and process, my text doesn’t describe well enough, I’m referring to her complicating her emotional side at a very vulnerable time. I don’t care about open, I cre for her well-being. I know all have said she looks oh so happy, one even commented about her financial situation?. Weird as to how any of us could know that, but from experience, my observation in this video of Julia, is she has a deep seated sadness and unhappiness. One can go on cruises and autopilot one’s life, the proof is in the pudding. Her mental stability is what matters, not open marriage, numerous partners, etc, that all bluster for some or even when one needs an easy explanation to a very real and difficult situation of life. Much light Julia. 🌸

[@ladystrigoi9624]

Girl, you are G L O W I N G. I'm so happy to see you and I hope the rest of this year treats you well. This is the happiest we've seen you in a video since forever! Enjoy yourself and take care💖

[@CrypticJasmine]

It’s so good to see you happy and having fun! You deserve that girl! Life is too finite to not enjoy it💖💖💖

[@alessandrajackson3768]

Babes just leave your wife. Allow each other to be happy! If you didn’t have her sign a prenup since you make all the money and do all the housework…..I suggest meeting with a lawyer

[@Clover_008]

@@nonsensetalk8953If you watched previous videos you can see that Julia isn't selfish and it would benefit her to be away from her wife and work on herself and her own happiness.

[@BasedSockHead007]

​@@nonsensetalk8953 your username fits you to a T

[@Jess-Rabbit]

@@nonsensetalk8953 how is she selfish?

[@alessandrajackson3768]

@@nonsensetalk8953 Eileen opened up credit cards in Julia’s name, she put her in debt to get her out of jail, and doesn’t contribute to the marriage. At this point Julia makes far more money that her.

[@kirstyhughes6884]

You’re glowing! You look so happy and beautiful. It’s so nice to see after everything you’ve been through. ❤️ Love you lots and lots!

[@AlynnQuinn]

You’re so young and beautiful. There is someone special for you out there and I’m so sorry it’s not Eileen but Julia, you know this! Get the life you deserve, it’s never too late ❤❤

[@C0ntrabanda]

It's such a joy to see Julia full of joy! This entire vlog is full of happiness 😊✨

[@Sera79]

Julia - I see a glow on you that I have never noticed before! U look spectacular, happy, light and at peace. Whatever u r doing keep doing for yourself ☺️🩵

[@stephaniebaird6937]

omg Julia crying about the staff video is EVERYTHING lmao. you have such a big heart

[@LuckyOwl360]

You deserved this time off to relax!! So glad you’re traveling and enjoying yourself again ❤❤

[@kayleighjweb]

i’ve missed your vlogs!!!! love seeing you so happy💖

[@taywilburn1447]

Thank you for taking us along, Julia! I'm actually very scared of cruises. Oh and btw, your dancing skills are pretty good.

[@Camilla.x]

My heart filles up, when I see you this happy Julia🌸💖 Such a beautiful cruise. Wow!! Looking forward to your haul💖💖

[@Amandapanda888]

I absolutely loved this vlog Julia!! Thank you for explaining and telling us the history you learned. Hello to your special someone and I hope you both enjoyed your trip together ❤

[@stacykeener5808]

I’m watching your new vlog now! It’s great to see you again and get caught up on your life. You are ok girl. It’s ok to struggle in life. Julia you are such a bright star 🌟 just focus in on what makes you happy and how to feed your strength. You are a very strong person. Your life really is an inspiration. You are a self made woman living your most authentic self and just trying to figure out who you are along the way. In the mean time you inspire people like me to keep going and keep searching for the best in our lives as well. I hope you now do a Livestream again soon!

[@jeremycoleman2736]

A fabulous Asian vacation on a cruise Julia. So majestic and magical and your dress on the cruise is remarkable.

[@amazonionavalon8252]

I loved her dress too, the shade matched the colour of the ocean almost perfectly ❤

[@Groovycrisis]

I was REALLY looking forward to another one of your videos!❤ stay happy and healthy, my love

[@marijakuzmanovic95]

I love this vlog! It makes me so happy seeing you happy and glowing. I really enjoyed the vlog and for a moment you made me feel like I'm literally there as well. Thank you for that, Asia is beautiful. I love you so much and always supporting you in whatever you do as long as you're happy that's all that matters ❤️

[@user-jv3py3ee4d]

Take your wedding ring off your not with Eileen. Put it away til you figure out if your gonna stay married or not.

[@miss_michelle]

Couldn't agree more

[@user-zq5xp5bu1v]

Agreed. She’s something else

[@LanternSkyy]

It's so wonderful seeing you smile and having fun. Been watching you since the pastel goth years :'D Seeing you just living life is lovely.

[@Jess.Anderson]

Wow, this blog is so, so beautiful! I see you teasing the audience with not revealing your new partner! 👀 Glad you are happier, you don't have to hide anything! ❤

[@GeorgiaNash-ul7qh]

She’s posts him on her instagram

[@yuukonen]

Ty sm Julia lately I have no funds to travel seeing you surrounded by those vivid colors makes me feel like that’s my very own experience 😂

[@1whatdoinamemychannel]

Please make more vlogs like this I loved it take care Julia!! 💖

[@ammacrellin2537]

you looked so good and happy and healthy the entire video omg!!!! being away from her is so good for you!!!

[@theklav2914]

Julia!! You look like there’s a softness in your eyes and your heart like you don’t need to try too hard. Whoever is with you must be very special. Good for you!!❤

[@joanmearns1447]

End 1 relationship before you begin another you’re being selfish towards Eileen

[@GeorgiaNash-ul7qh]

If you watch her videos properly you will understand her situation. Eileen has been distant and not supporting her emotionally not travelling with her on trips unless its all 5* treatment and expecting Juila to pay for it all. Then there’s all the lies. I think juilia has a big heart and still wants to support her and Eileen most likely wants her life to be paid for.She told julia she refuses to work to help pay of all her own debts and expects her to take care of her now she wouldnt even consider helping so its all this debt and stress in on juilia alone.

[@SmilingMathEquation-ww2we]

Look ik vacations make anyone happier than usual but this is the happiest weve seen you in years and i think we can all agree this new relationship seems a lot healthier for you than eileen ever has been or will be.

[@Crazy_Witchy]

I don't think there was a secret lover 😂she called her Glaceion Pokemon toy her "secret lover" when she was in bed on the cruise, I think the title is clickbait and it looks like she went alone. Either way I'm glad she is happy

[@pumpkin_fox]

@@Crazy_Witchy someone was with her all the time and filmed her in all the locations. The toy was just a distraction and a funny answer to the mystery of who it is.

[@sophierescigno5064]

​@@Crazy_WitchyShe wants to keep it secret cuz she's still ashamed to show the man she's with, but no worries, she'll eventually get comfortable around him enough to do a big reveal in the future lol

[@amazonionavalon8252]

I just felt i absolutely had to mention,as a subscriber of yours who also struggles with the 'black dog on my back ' (Depression) that when you visited the Temple of the 10, 000 Buddhas, your sense of being content and at peace was palpable.

[@faysushi9969]

julia you never have a bad hairday!! you look so happy and radiant here. Im glad you found someone who deserves you!! all the love

[@drnot442]

Wow, what a stunning intro! Happy to see you happy🪷✨!

[@daleroberts3848]

It's so nice to see you so happy and truly enjoying yourself. You looked so beautiful ! And your dresses, especially the blue/green one with the short train, were just stunning !!! Hopefully your secret lover helped pay for that. Wishing you much happiness. Eileen is still such a hog !!!

[@maconfort]

Você parece tão feliz e leve!! Você merece o mundo, Julia. Seja feliz! ❤

[@EllyC84]

I really enjoyed this vlog, Julia, it was really interesting, thanks for posting. And im so pleased you had such a fantastic time!

[@Heyyy1234_]

Julia, Eileen is manipulative and she’s been using you it seems. She’s at least been HIGHLY dishonest. You deserve much better. We would love to see you move on from that relationship and do what makes YOU truly happy.

[@magicalindigoadult3838]

She’s using her back for a place

[@LittleNyxFlower]

Thats so cool! I didnt know you were a practicing Buddhist! That must have been so special ❤

[@Lady_McSassy]

I’m glad you seem happy. I hope you’re both figuring things out. We only see such a small portion of your life on here, but this video was beautiful. Best wishes to you both that everything works out the way it’s supposed to. Much love!

[@user-jv3py3ee4d]

I love it when your happy and your out doing your own thang. ❤ Keep up the amazing trips

[@meganburcham7976]

Girl! Its so good to see you relaxed and smiling! You needed that! Love you!

[@KaylaTotts]

I've never been on a cruise! This looks so fun. You got to see so many gorgeous places! I want to book one now. And you look like you're glowing. You seem a lot happier, at least while on this trip. I'm glad you are taking time for yourself and focusing on your happiness. 💕

[@irrittt]

Julia genuinely looks so happy, as she should. Life is short, and Julia, you’re Hot! 🔥 you’re such a nice person, you deserves the world 🌍 Love you Julia 💖

[@bluehoneyx9678]

I love everything about this!!! 😍😍

[@BR-lo1pi]

I’m unable to do heavy traveling due to health, so this video was amazing at giving a beautiful glimpse into places I’ll never go - what a treat!

[@miiriiaaam]

You look soo happy 🫶🥹 i can’t, i am so proud and happy for you

[@pamelapendleton4009]

Julia, this was beautiful. Thank you for sharing this fascinating part of the world with us. Cheers! 😊

[@HelennaRose]

This makes me want to live there too, the warm weather sounds so healing ❤

[@ashb1212]

this is the happiest I have seen you in years. leave your marriage. Allow you both to live your best life.

[@awesomeadamfrom2099]

Awesome travel vlog Julia

[@maiteazurmendi8285]

Wow new intro new era ❤

[@NZ73200]

I’m confused r u still moving to USA?? Have u and ur wife broken up?? What’s ur plan for 2024?? Who was holding the camera?? xx

[@marijakuzmanovic95]

It's probably the old man in the video at 22:18 who was dancing with the male dancer

[@Emmanuelle6991]

@@marijakuzmanovic95No it's not him, he's the one filming Julia

[@MyAllysun]

Look love, I married a man that transitioned and I thought I could make it work and I couldn't. It's ok to focus on yourself no matter what. All the love in the world to you and your journey I love you❤❤❤❤❤

[@ItsBellum]

You are glowing gurl

[@user-vw3lb6di8o]

Anyone else feel Eileen was married to Julia for financial convenience? I’m 3 years younger the Julia and I have so much more growing to do and I have the privilege of no one holding me back from doing that.

[@debrastewart6714]

Hello Julia , Thankyou for a beautiful video! You are amazing,take care 💕😊🌟

[@hejanbozkurt5131]

Just get a divorce already. I understand Eileen did some controversial things but I don’t think she deserves this. No one does.

[@Poseidonblue123]

Julia goes on great adventures with a secret lover, but it’s not her wife…

[@magicalindigoadult3838]

Yea she don’t but Julia don’t want to go back to having roommates at least her x is paying the rent so Julia is just there till she can afford to get a place it’s like using each other

[@watchthisheadspace]

I wouldnt call financial abuse and likely emotional abuse 'some controversial things'. Crime more like

[@miss_michelle]

I agree this isn't ok honestly the whole situation is wrong

[@watchthisheadspace]

@@magicalindigoadult3838 I'm not sure she's paying rent..

[@LePapillionBleu]

I’m glad you’re happy you have a beautiful smile but you’re still married if you’re starting a relationship with someone new that’s considered cheating. Just a suggestion you should probably get a divorce before embarking on any new relationship

[@natalianehme3096]

they have an open relationship

[@Jess-Rabbit]

Eileen is obviously well aware of what is going on

[@amazonionavalon8252]

​@Jess-Rabbit Eileen probably has a cuddle buddy by now, there will be no end of 'applicants' for the role ! Wishing them both love and luck in 2024 ❤

[@natalianehme3096]

@@aves8560 if it came down to that she probably has proof of a agreed open marriage. it’s not illegal to have an open marriage

[@lanijay8782]

@@aves8560 legal reasons? You can have an open marriage there no law about it 😂

[@noak.5024]

You and your "secret lover" look so cute together!

[@pinpantrukutruku]

​@@nonsensetalk8953 ahh what do u know about this? Pls tell

[@Rebecca_Bailey]

I’ve been watching you for a few years now ever since I saw you on Snapchat and I think this is probably the most happiest I’ve ever seen you in a long time, and I’m not just saying that because of other people, I know it’s hard to leave a relationship when you’ve spent so much time in it and trying to make it work but somethings are not meant to last and by the sounds of it Eileen is not your person, I’m really not saying this out of disrespect, as a fan it would be nice to see you happy like genuinely, as you are here

[@FlowerReincarnations]

GIRL GO GET THAT DIVORCE AND LIVE YOUR LIFE!! You’re GLOWING 💖

[@lovewins4617]

Is it the guy??????

[@miss_michelle]

Yes

[@tasmiatawazrishta]

I was having a really bad day. Actually I’ve been having bad days for years I guess! 😅 And sometimes I become so hopeless and think what’ll I do with my life and i’ll never find THE ONE for me. But seeing you finally stepping out of a toxic relationship and becoming so happy gave me hopes. I hope someday I’ll be this happy and glowing in love and harmony. Best wishes for you my girl, Julia! You deserve the world dear.❤

[@heatherb1443]

How freaking cool! I cant wait to see everything you got!!!!

[@heatheralice89]

I loved every outfit you wore on this holiday 💖🎀So beautiful😊

[@technodaisy18]

Great vlog thank you for sharing Julia!

[@lauracarley8669]

You can just tell in this vlog you’re with someone who makes you feel sexy and content. Finally! Good for you girl

[@Crazy_Witchy]

I don't think there was a secret lover 😂she called her Glaceion Pokemon toy her "secret lover" when she was in bed on the cruise, I think the title is clickbait and it looks like she went alone. Either way I'm glad she is happy

[@lauracarley8669]

@@Crazy_Witchyshe was definitely joking with the caption, but I definitely think she is away with someone as she said someone special invited her to go away, doesn’t say their name and someone is filming her throughout. I’m happy she’s happy too! It’s nice to see!

[@Crazy_Witchy]

@@lauracarley8669 I hope so, she deserves someone better than Eileen, thank you for the response😊

[@sophierescigno5064]

Nature never lies, it takes a man to finally make a woman feel loved and wanted ❤

[@sophie-963]

Excellent holiday vlog Julia ! The ship was magnificent and the places you visited were amazing and interesting. What a wonderful holiday cruise. So happy for you. Thank you for entertaining us ! 🥰💖🌺

[@Notmyr3alname]

What an informative and fun vlog to watch!! Looks like an amazing trip. Also, how in the world do you never look bloated, if I ate and drank all that stuff I would not have such a flat tummy! ❤

[@Mysticsmaiz]

That was a lovely vlog 💕

[@anazanoni2291]

Amiga eu vejo seus vídeos há anos, tô tão feliz de ver vc se divertindo e realizando o sonho de viajar! É isso q vc devia ter todo dia, espero q vc consiga ter essa felicidade sempre 💕

[@nuniibabyx3]

Julia you look so happy! This was a really awesome Vlog! I LOVE that shiny rainbow suit!!! So you ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@missmosvegankitchen8238]

Aww, Mama Bear commenting. I have been watching you for so long and I have not seen you this genuinely happy in a very long time. You seek so carefree; like you can breathe.. I think you know why you were crying. I don't think it was omly because of the fact that you were leaving but the fact that you are going back to a house that's not a home anymore. You deserve happiness Julia

[@jacliveshere]

I have loved watching your Insta stories. These dresses and scenery are beautiful. You also look so pretty and happy. 💕🍹💄

[@PetiteCoquito]

Looks amazing 😍

[@shannonandmellieha2308]

‘When did people become such prudes?’ 🤣🤣🤣

[@Nimbus_Blue_Cheshire73]

I couldn't be happier for you ❤️ congratulations 👏

[@JuliaZelg]

Thank you so much!!

[@Nimbus_Blue_Cheshire73]

@@JuliaZelg you deserve it np

[@__elise333]

Wow this is beautiful! I've always wanted to go to Asia! The Buddhist temples were so cool!! I'm jealous!!

[@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE]

You look happier

[@carolinelee157]

Hi Julia! I was on an Asian cruise vaca last November too and it was super fun! Did you guys book on NORWEGIAN JEWEL cruise? That ship looks like the cruise we booked!

[@beccapike2330]

Looks so fun!! Wish I could do that!! Happy for you Julia 😄

[@shancietaena2577]

I’m glad you had fun ❤ you deserve this beautiful trip, many wishes for you 😊

[@Light-fk7vl]

you looked so happy, it was wonderful to see

[@MegaOneZer1]

A lot of us were here before Eileen we will continue the support the channel after. You are clearly both miserable- it’s time to separate

[@jerrytrainor5939]

Finally someone who treats you like you deserve!! You’re young and beautiful and deserve to see the world, Julia ❤️ i wish you could see it. 2024 is your year babe

[@magicalindigoadult3838]

So she needs to leave the apartment

[@louisgreen4883]

Julia, you look so happy! Follow your heart. I hope you have an amazing 2024! ❤

[@itslisa_h]

the trip looked so fun!!

[@beauR-u9m]

That pink dress at the cruise dinner is stunning on you! Love that dress. Glad you had a good time, you deserve it.🩷

[@JadeLaVerne]

Esse vídeo me deixou TÃO FELIZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ, eu amo te ver bem. Não tenho palavras pra descrever o quanto eu gosto de você e o alívio que eu sinto em ver você se divertindo, sendo você mesma e VIVENDO. Você é tão única e especial, eu amo te acompanhar e estarei sempre te desejando felicidade de longe. 💞💓💗💖💝💘💕

[@daloroEmire]

Omg you are GLOWING here! ✨

[@nirriti2768]

I adore this Julia

[@ladyzerima3442]

I hope this trip opens your eyes of how amazing life can be when others are not holding you down. you only live once so dont waste your life on someone that doesn't appreciate you. Time to move on and live your best life.

[@lifeiswonderfulbao9143]

So happy, I am a French born Indian and Asia is my home. I am so happy that you went to South Est Asia 🤩🤩 hope you will carry on with traveling. Traveling more simple, backpacking and volunteering in others countries will give you inner peace 🤩

[@karleensage5613]

Julia, Happy you’re exploring, having a great time. Think, you’re drinking too much alcohol. It’s your life, do what’s best for you. Take care of yourself l.

[@CherryPeach89]

Wow amazing video ❤

[@spicybeefsalad]

This cruise looks amazing! anyone have information about the cruise? would love to do the same