Colleen Ballinger Published Her Song & Claimed Us (Allegedly) - Off The Rails #78

[@kjah4201]

AB : “There will be other challenges for you to win.” Lena : “I like this one.”

[@emilyl1406]

😂

[@Lucas51397]

Lena is a goddamn BEAST.

[@JadedFendi]

Olivia and Love begging Ethan to get them boba like they're the two youngest kids in the family

[@vesper7750]

So cute 😂❤

[@patrickblakethesaint]

They are, objectively, adorable 🖤💜🖤💜

[@meowcat64]

Yeah Love is obviously the oldest kid in the Klein family, with his younger siblings michael and bruce.

[@shannonnnn8]

LOL

[@DoubleDTVx2]

Which tracks, 'cause aren't they actually the youngest crew members?

[@baddreambaby-]

Kudos to Dan for opening up about his experience with emotional abuse. So valuable to have men speak openly about their experiences with this as well because that vulnerability is rare and a lot of guys have probably never considered that this is what abuse can look like. W Dan as always ❤

[@thephilguy1]

W Dan, Wan

[@sugarsore]

I'm a guy, and I've been physically abused by every girlfriend I've had. Some just would slap me when angry. Others did much more.

[@NoProHarrie]

Dan is a fucking king for this.

[@squirrelbugg99]

@@sugarsorethat’s so fucked up. No one should ever put their hands on you, ESPECIALLY not in the context of a relationship. Keep your head up, king 👑

[@gflsos5838]

My girlfriend was the same took over all my social medias and made me delete projects and give up opportunities for her insecurities, made the escape plan and almost died for it

[@kickingitwithjim8066]

i’m enjoying love’s input on the show so much he seems so level headed yet so hilarious!

[@kaylaodell2284]

Agreed!! Having love here in person is great to really hear him and his opinions!

[@dieauferstehung]

he seems like pure soy

[@simonjohnston9488]

I don't know, he just seems very young and inexperienced when it comes to humans and relationships. It's all very well to have black and white stances on everything, but as we grow older we realize that most things just aren't that simple. Like the fan accusing Ethan of loving Jonah - it's being sure you're so right, there's no space in your brain for any other perspective.

[@duckwoquack]

Yeah, i feel like he feels much more comfortable talking in person with everyone

[@kj5960]

In regards to Ethan’s opinion on Jonah Hill: I think Ethan is giving Jonah too much credit with his interpretation that he was saying “hey I’m crazy, these are my boundaries take it or leave it.” I don’t think Jonah is aware how crazy his demands are, and I don’t think he’s being genuine when he says if she doesn’t like it she can leave; he’s trying to guilt her into complying with his demands. If you’re the girlfriend and you’re in love and don’t want to lose your boyfriend, it becomes much more complicated than “just leave me if you don’t accept my boundaries”, there’s incentive for the girlfriend to give into what he wants in order not to lose him.

[@kj5960]

Also she’s not ruining his life by releasing these texts, he ruined his own life by behaving that way

[@Youokhun]

@@kj5960as Olivia said, ok human

[@BronzeBellaBria]

Ethan is also coming from the standpoint of "Why is he even trying to save this relationship with her (by spouting off his crazy standards," totally not understanding that the point is that Jonah wants to control her, not maintain a healthy, happy, mutually beneficial relationship w her

[@littleekellyy]

in ethan's defense, his opinion seemed to change after he saw the rest of the texts and proof. he also never said it was healthy that he was setting those "boundaries" he disavowed that behavior since the start and said he's clearly mentally ill (which i agree with).

[@laurenhatter6824]

@@littleekellyyI mean to further his defense he never did say “I fully believe this shouldn’t have gone public” or “I believe in this moment that it wasn’t that bad” he was recounting how he felt when he first saw it before digging deeper and through the whole segment he never said something should or shouldn’t have happened just that he didn’t know the correct answer or protocol

[@lizmarquez7374]

“he’s not just a loser tho, he’s an abuser” wise words from Love!!!

[@BronzeBellaBria]

KING LOVE ❤❤❤

[@journalwithker]

the way lena gave a more sincere apology to love for being competitive compared to colleen for literally grooming kids 😭

[@lifeofamakeupaddict777]

👏🏼 👏🏼

[@teatime9810]

Righttt that was soo sweet of her 😭😭

[@dieauferstehung]

Play stupid games win stupid prices

[@170AndBeyond]

My favorite part of the show was AB referring to Lena as Lenny. I love when people have cool nicknames.

[@brittnay279]

My HS best friend was a girl named Alex and I always called her Al. I thought it was cute, she kinda hated it tho.

[@PoisonCreosote]

Yeah I love peoples nicknames for someone they’re super close to ❤

[@kittydollkori]

My puppy’s name is Leyna and we call her Leenie all the time. It was so cute to hear Ethan call her that the last episode.

[@sonia-nf3eh]

@@brittnay279 my friend alice goes by al. its so cute to give girls like old men nicknames LOL

[@Rainbowbright_]

Love in the studio really changes the dynamic, I love when he politely checked Ethan about Jonah 👏🏻 iconic legend

[@eda5936]

Loved that wording. Politely checked

[@Jcqlnddrr]

He’s really cool

[@lifemiller6276]

He just getting brownie points with the 70% women audience by making man bad and women need protecting

[@kailebsok8038]

​@@lifemiller6276Definitely.

[@zsargent]

​@@lifemiller6276based.

[@ajayy270]

Ethan wiping away Love’s tears while softly singing toxic gossip train SENT ME 😂😂😂😂

[@AST-erisked]

The Jonah Hill part is a perfect example of why i love the podcast. Ethan had an opinion, the crew didnt agree with him at all like "yes men" but they didnt shame him either, they explained their ratinale and with more evidence and explanation he started to get the issue more. Emotional abuse is still abuse and a lot of us, like ethan, probably dont have enough experiences or conversations to know more about it. Great Job Crew and a big hug to the family sharing their stories and opinions.

[@KayPeeOpee]

The crew handled themselves fine, the live chat as usual was so obnoxious about it

[@noellethomas2589]

Agree that people shouldn't be shamed for ignorance. The issue is that sometimes the things people are ignorant on are very sensitive and/or personal subjects and people with experience with those subjects can be triggered. It's important that other people who don't have those triggers also learn about issues so they can advocate and explain when others can't. We should all try to help each other whenever we can

[@carmandirda]

It also gets easier to see as you peel back the layers. The chat was pretty annoying during that. 😂 I get that Ethan wasn't quite seeing what we were seeing, but to make such giant leaps about his character is a little goblin mode of chat. Being ignorant or asking questions isn't the same as being evil.

[@aoky9179]

Agree! While I don’t agree with Ethan, berating him for his initial feelings is so counterproductive. It won’t change his mind, it will mean he won’t ask for opinions and education or thoughts and will lead to less conversations which is the opposite of what we what to happen. Additionally, there will be other people who have the same thoughts and Opinions, or worse (like saying she’s a clout chaser or something) so having the conversation is the best way to educate and share experiences so people can be more informed, without feeling attacked, stupid or shamed for asking, especially when they (like Ethan) have be shown to WANT to learn and grow.

[@aoky9179]

@@noellethomas2589agree! Especially when it’s not ignorance’s for ignorance sake, but ignorance because of lack of experience or understanding. Especially when they are open to learning and being wrong

[@SecondKira17]

Hearing love do the “dumbass” in person is fantastic.

[@AllTheArtsy]

Love it ahh Love is my fave 💜💜

[@Xzocker96]

Dan giving his personal anecdote about the abusive partner and how that feels during and after it was so on point. Weirdly comforting to know that I'm not alone with this experience. Yes, obviously it's rather common, unfortunately. That's why it's so beneficial to talk to people and share your thoughts.

[@emilyl1406]

Yes the same thing happened to me. The post break up clarity is mind blowing. You truly realize how much control they were trying to have over your life. Glad he said something.

[@lucian5397]

It’s crazy how you/nearly everyone you know can go trough shit like that and yet it all feels so isolating, sharing experiences matters so much

[@Waynekurr]

Jonah Hill made those “expectations” known while they were already dating. He also called them “boundaries,” something he learned in therapy and is using as a mechanism of control, which is manipulative. Also, “boundaries” can be placed and enforced on yourself, not others. If she denied those “boundaries,” Jonah would have accused her of not loving him or he would have found another way to package these terms to continue to have control over her.

[@Musashi944]

that's what I thought! It's harder to see abusive behaviour when you're already in the relationship AND he uses "therapy words" such as "boundaries"

[@risenjoker923]

It was at the beginning of the relationship. You can assert your boundaries in the first month. It doesn't have to be on the first date.

[@Musashi944]

@@risenjoker923 what he did was not "boundaries"

[@Waynekurr]

@@risenjoker923 Again, these aren’t “boundaries.” Boundaries are things you place in yourself, you cannot place boundaries on others because they have autonomy (duh). These are demands and restrictions. Also, it doesn’t matter. You don’t make somebody invested in you and then begin restricting who they can speak with and what they can wear. I mean, you shouldn’t do that in any capacity unless you’re an abusive, insecure fuckhead.

[@allisonhogarth2983]

agree with everything you said but boundaries can absolutely be set for others as well, and should at times to maintain a healthy relationship! just the other day i set a boundary with my boyfriend that it was okay with me for him to go to strip clubs for a bachelor party, but i wasn’t okay with him getting a lap dance. you could have a boundary with your family to not talk about politics or religion. there’s many ways to implement boundaries in a relationship and not just on yourself.

[@preslidavidson2280]

Love picking the boba party over the Taco Bell party as a way to make Olivia happy was the sweetest gesture I’ve ever seen 💗🫶🥹

[@MooMoo-jp2rd]

And Leena doing the same ❤

[@theceech]

youve EVER seen?

[@bethanyg3288]

Shout out to Love and Olivia for not backing down with their takes on the Jonah situation. I 100% agree with you both!!

[@bethanyg3288]

And Dan!!

[@dieauferstehung]

yes thats why u single and wont get a man EVER

[@XhumpersX]

They were dumb takes tbh. He was looking for a partner who is okay with a domestic role and that's perfectly valid the same way she is valid for not wanting that. It just means they're incompatible.

[@PetroDragonicApocalypse]

Why wouldn't we believe KavKav's statement? Aside from allegedly lying under oath and falsifying a document, being accused of running a Ponzi scheme by his partner, getting sued for unpaid wages, lying about donating money to charity, getting arrested for drunk driving, and having multiple DIUs, he seems like a trustworthy guy.

[@EleanoRa99]

When you put it like that, it’s insane to think he’s anything but an oracle of truth lmao

[@sammieq6728]

Don’t you mean wet and reckless 🤨

[@thezoexperience1]

PETRO. DRAGONIC. A-PO-CA-LYPSE.

[@empac8631]

Don’t forget trying to fire his nanny after not paying her too

[@Emily-ob7cq]

@@thezoexperience1I was abt to comment on that lol

[@lydiaorf6050]

lena is so competitive this shit is so crazy to watch. shes literally falling apart and shes like "ok but i can still beat the record right???" 😭😭❤️ wena

[@angelheartshp]

Competitive yet didn’t follow the rules. I hope she was okay, but it really was not necessary and not good for her health either :/

[@jennyp123]

i love lena but that was def a weird, more competitive side we haven’t seen lol

[@user-bz6gh5ng2m]

@@angelheartshp No need to get like..mad, you know? Right? Like youre not mad Lena did this right? And you're not mad she didnt follow the rules? I'm just wondering because your comment has me thinking you are. And that would be very silly. Because none of it matters. You know?

[@nernguan1210]

​@user-bz6gh5ng2m You seem to be a little bit confused. Let me help you out. In no way does does the person seem upset. They're just stating that she didn't follow the rules if she had a competitive mindset for this challenge, which is true. They are also worried for her health and wishing her the best.

[@Youokhun]

Part of me wishes it could have remained as Loves section for his initiation, like Olivia said it’s all about you today Love 👏

[@TempleofNater]

It must’ve been so hard for Sarah Brady to deal with the fact that Jonah was universally loved and viewed as this perfect figure, it must’ve felt really invalidating for her.

[@quinoaquina]

I so agree. I was thinking this when on her text she called him the "GOAT". He is def not the greatest of all time 🙄

[@Johan-di6md]

Meh I don't believe this was necessary to be brought public like this. Edit: No specific reason, I just feel like this wasn't bad enough to warrant public execution.

[@alevanderBatman]

People viewed him like that??? Lol what..

[@pinguufuuuu]

And here people are telling her she should "handle this privately". I thought we were all for exposing abuse here. Or does emotional abuse not count?

[@BeserkerEarl]

@@pinguufuuuu it’s the H3 hypocritical bs. They want what works for them but causes pain for others

[@paigenicole915]

Underrated comedic timing when Ethan makes a joke and nobody laughs and he just says “thank you, guys”

[@Kaileyrae1]

Do you know the time stamp Lmfao

[@sofiac5119]

either that or hits the button😂😂

[@prodminicam]

@@Kaileyrae1 every other couple of minutes lmao

[@Kaileyrae1]

@@prodminicam lmfaooo literally.. didn’t take long after I posted that comment for it to happen

[@trippinbawls88]

So good to see Love in studio, feels like hes more comfortable contributing to the convo :)

[@audreywhelan1065]

Probably helps that he doesn’t have to deal with the streaming delay anymore!

[@SpoilerAlert__]

@@audreywhelan1065bro was a day ahead and a minute behind at the same time

[@para-yw9dn]

fr i love it everybody seems so much more engaged

[@adammay6663]

@@joshn1678The new generation of crew is finding their footing and we live for it

[@nopeee420]

This episode was all over the place but Dan saying “yeah put this tampon in your mouth and come in kid” is probably one of the craziest things I’ve heard on this show 😂😂😭

[@Cryptum404]

Time stamps?

[@nopeee420]

@@Cryptum40414:21

[@Hillary92126]

It’s historical fact

[@sc00byp00h]

that and "well you haven't killed your dad.... yet"

[@arriagalis]

Lol crazier that it comes from something she actually did, put this tampon in your mouth 😵

[@RazorianBuck]

I am a musician that sells music through cdbaby. It takes days to get music approved then it gets sent to iTunes. It could take weeks till iTunes puts it up for sale. On her channel, it says the video came out 2 weeks ago. The song was on Itunes on July 1st. This means the song had to be uploaded to CDbaby around June 15th. 2 weeks before the song was available to the public. Also, as a member of Cdbaby, I know that you set your own prices.

[@zee_bee_23]

Now THIS is interesting

[@_BangDroid_]

I did a little digging. The ISRC for the song is QZNMU2336854 from this we can see the country code QZ is USA. The registrant code is NMU, I can't verify this is CD Baby but it probably is. 23 is the year of publishing and 36854 is the designation code, which can't be repeated in the same year, which probably means it's the 36,854th code registered in 2023 by that registrant. But also, Spotify says the content is unavailable and many ISRC code lookup sites do not return results for that ISRC nor the title. Which is suspicious, and may indicate some form of fraudulent activity. But then there's the remaining claim on only the H3 podcast... which if the song was in the takedown process, should be lifted like everyone else's.

[@kategofate]

😮😮😮

[@KatMo126]

HOT tea

[@Mama_Pills]

Bruhhhh

[@thetulips9714]

I can understand where Ethan is coming from but unfortunately, the only way to get rich, powerful people to take accountability is to put their reputation at risk because they can't buy it back so easily. Also, I bet that couples therapist was bribed by Hill to say those things because I am in utter disbelief that a trained professional could fuck up so badly

[@amirahazhar4192]

Agreed. You have to fight back in a language they understand, and they only understand power play.

[@boneymacaroni13]

Ethan, im not sure if youve ever been in an abusive relationship, but I think the reason people were responding that way is because if youve ever been in one, the signals of it are blaringly obvious once youre out, and those "little" things you think may not have warrented being shared demonstrate how behaviors escalate. Shes showing how things can build up and dont just start off full blown abusive.

[@NoProHarrie]

Said better then I could ❤

[@supernatural5354]

I get what you guys are saying, he was a manipulative jerk to this woman but I don't think it was right of her to show their private messages. They broke up, and that's obviously for the best. I feel like people are really undermining this invasion of privacy.

[@micaelemagalhaes9274]

@@supernatural5354 He's an abuser, fuck his privacy.

[@pinguufuuuu]

@@supernatural5354So you would rather her stay silent than share her experiences, potentially helping other women who might be in a relationship with Jonah and feel the same way, but don't know how to escape? Or feel like they're the only ones experiencing abuse like that? This is ridiculous. This is right on par with family members trying to hush a victim when their creepy uncle John or family friend comes around.

[@supernatural5354]

@pinguufuuuu But she wasn't silent, you just didn't know about it. This is parasocial behavior thinking you are a part of this relationship just because Jonah is famous. He is in a relationship right now and just had a baby. If she was scared for his new girlfriend do you think her releasing old text messages is something that would help her? Does she even need help? This is not the hush hush family secret stuff, you don't know him or her.

[@alxdowney]

There’s no gray area. He is shaming her, and trying to diminish her for things he probably praised her for in the beginning. There are receipts for him loving her surfing/bikini pics before. Loving her outgoing and independent lifestyle. Now that they are in a relationship he is setting these unrealistic boundaries based on the person he is. It is classic abuse. Policing of her body, isolating her from her colleagues and shaming her for who is she at her core. It’s sick and twisted. One thing about emotional abuse is how isolating it can be, so props to her for sharing. No gray area, this is red flags all over

[@BronzeBellaBria]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Ely1406]

Ethan wiping Love's tears away is such a sweet dad move 😭

[@caseygarcia336]

This was so sweet 😭

[@annabellem2845]

“i learned this from trisha i think” too 😭😭

[@dinihoudini5896]

@@caseygarcia336😊

[@adrian_hook]

daddyMMM

[@cupknee]

so much better since love referred to teddy as his brother and ethan/hila as his new parents lmao

[@emilyward4388]

Love don’t feel bad about your journey being “easy” immigrating to America. You’ve worked hard for H3 and have made real friends to help you with that transition to America. Everyone’s journey looks different and I’m sure you appreciate the ride just as much as everyone else would.

[@noellethomas2589]

And he'll have plenty of hard times to go around while he's in the US anyway lmfao. RIP to his free healthcare

[@usedsock]

can we get an episode where everyone down the hot chip all at once and the challenge is just to continue the show as normal, if you drink you’re out and the last one standing is the champion

[@graceschoeniger354]

Such a good idea!!!

[@Lundeeeezy]

This!!

[@alyssaperrine2437]

this is amazing

[@shannonnnn8]

This would be great lmao

[@jtmurr]

ethan would lose after 10 minutes and nobody else likes being on camera long enough to host the entire show i don't think

[@mich2364]

Seems like Ethan just related more with being a public figure with texts leaked than a person being abused in a relationship. I’m happy to hear his take but wish he had been more receptive to the crews point too (shout out to Dan for being open but then also cut off twice). Wish Hila was here to give her take!!

[@HollowMinaj]

hila and ethan share the same brain, she agrees with anything he says and vice versa so she wouldn’t b any help

[@sirduckykins]

The face Oh’O’Liviah made when Ethan said he couldn’t tell the difference from Colleen KILLED ME HAHAHAA 😂

[@helenf.7221]

I keep thinking it’s her too. It really sounds like her

[@haleyjadelovethatname]

i’ll say it-it does sound like her

[@cosmicnic]

am i right O-Liv

[@kyliehunter2759]

The crew telling Love to speak into the mic while he's dying killed me 😅

[@Anr1231]

HAHAHA I’m excited for this part

[@fangsfangs]

Love: my pain tolerance is high Ethan: okay..I can use that 👹

[@squirrelbugg99]

I’m so tired of the “respecting privacy” argument when it comes to abusers…. It’s so common in families to keep hush hush about the creepy uncle or the terrible grandparent… it just opens the door for more abuse to take place! We need to expose these people, not only for our own validation, but to keep possible future victims safe. Abusers do not deserve privacy 😠

[@samysnes]

Yes I think Ethan was giving him too much credit. I think a big part of it is that he is more sensitive to privacy as a relatively well known person. It's coming from someone whose breach of privacy has led to some doxxing, swatting, serious death threats, a lot of very unsafe situation for him and his family so I'm willing to understand why he would be more sensitive to this stuff. I think he was wrong but he has a point when he says, there has to be a limit where it becomes not okay to breach someone's privacy and he tried to see where that limit is. In this situation, yes, Jonah Hill was over the limit and Ethan found out. But you have to admit that there could be scenarios where it would not be warranted.

[@YungGuava]

Preach!!!

[@supernatural5354]

You're not using the "respecting privacy" correctly. I know what you're referring to, the families that cover for the person that beats their wife or the person that SA's somebody. In no way is that the situation happening with jonah hill and his ex. Please do not conflate the two. Jonah hill was obviously a manipulative jerk But in no way was their situation some hush hush family secret thing. She was talking to her friends about it. She was talking to a therapist about it. She was talking to all the right people about this and they broke up. And in no way, do we have any right to know about their situation. She's still thinking about their relationship 2 years after their break up. It's something that deeply bothers her and I hope that she speaks to somebody about this but that someone is the entire world.

[@CardinalsGirl4]

@@supernatural5354 she has the right to talk about her abuse. Abusers do not have a right to keep their abuse privateb

[@squirrelbugg99]

@@supernatural5354 honestly I think any type of abuse shouldn’t be hidden or kept secret if the victim is willing to share!! I think any and all abuse is bad, no matter the super special severity scale people seem to give to different cases of abuse. She shared because she felt compelled to, and that is none of our concern. If Jonah Hill didn’t want his privacy “invaded” he shouldn’t have been a piece of shit :))

[@morgankneip4890]

You can’t just say “I’m fucked up, so let me abuse you or leave.” It may be an explanation for his actions, but it’s never an excuse. He’s obviously aware he’s messed up but refuses to actually change.

[@Victoria-zs4fq]

Yeah it’s interesting how he justifies that’s excuse for him but not Trisha

[@amirahazhar4192]

​@@Victoria-zs4fqglad someone else is picking up on that

[@chocokorey]

@@Victoria-zs4fqthat Trisha experience may have taught him about that so now he sees these conversations and exposing them differently than he did in the past.

[@jamesmendoza456]

​@@Victoria-zs4fqdid trisha say "in fucked up, if you cant deal with it then leave" upfront, straight up, in a text?? NOPE

[@Victoria-zs4fq]

@@jamesmendoza456 she doesn’t need to, her sharing her mental struggles, trauma, drug abuse, and hospitalizations was her way of saying “I have issues I struggle with, this is who I am”. Not everything has to be said, Ethan knew what he was signing up for, he’s not 100% innocent

[@ravencinas]

I wish there was a way people could understand emotional abuse is not only incredibly hard to prove, people consider emotional abuse to be different. Physical is usually more transparent; there’s scars, bruises, etc. I am a survivor and I didn’t think to record any emotional and verbal abuse I experienced. Also, Jonah’s ex just posted a video with a great point, if you’re someone who is okay with survivors showing photos of physical abuse, this is how people prove emotional abuse. Abuse shouldn’t be private. So we shouldn’t worry about protecting privacy he didn’t deserve in my opinion

[@ravencinas]

@@DecentMilk I am insane but also it is abuse sorry bud :-///

[@AliciaOnlineGameplay]

Yeah, what I don't get is why both hasan and Ethan felt like Jonah hills career being stable and his privacy and trust being honored, is more important than letting the victim speak, or just letting her educate other women on red flags. Like why is his money and fame so much more valuable to them? I'm glad Ethan changed his mind, but I still think he needs to unpack why Jonahs career and image is more important than warning others of abuse further

[@aggretsuko7278]

Agreed! It’s never the victim’s responsibility to keep their abuser’s secrets. I’m glad Dan said that it took a couple of years after a bad relationship to understand how toxic it really was. I think that happens a lot

[@kindlegonzalez3879]

@@DecentMilkhave you been in a relationship like,,, ever 💀

[@SylphieLeaf]

@@DecentMilk It's funny you say this because my abuser literally gaslit me and downplayed his abuse by saying things just like this when I confronted him about his actions lmao.

[@viktorijazmejevskyte]

the segment where Lena ate the two chips was even more Joker brained than the first time. deep breathing, milk drinking, talking herself into the second chip with the ice crown? iconic

[@kat_emu]

I’m laughing so much at this part. The dynamic between Lena and Ethan when he’s looking at her like gurl… you good

[@pnknplays]

lena occasionally asking “can I drink?” as if she isn’t making the rules up on her own 😂❤️👑

[@Lundeeeezy]

I don’t think it’s fair that love drank absolutely nothing and yet Lena drank the entire time

[@angelheartshp]

Wasn’t fair at all imo, I’m sorry she had to struggle through the second chip and the aftermath but she was just trying to prove a point while not sticking to the rules. You can tell Love was annoyed too becuase he kept saying they needed to establish true rules, but he was too polite too push. Love is the GOAT!

[@Lundeeeezy]

@@angelheartshp completely agree!! She drank immediately on the first chip before even eating the second. I’m pretty sure she drank the first time around too, but I could be wrong. I’m almost certain Love is the only one who lasted without any liquid

[@unluckypants6459]

Yo but this was just an exhibition for Wena. She already did the official time! Put some respecc

[@Kerttis]

@@Lundeeeezy yeah Love killed that shit, hes the one chip god for me, lena can have the two chip title though for sure

[@marissaramirez9337]

As someone that has been in an emotionally abusive relationship, I applaud her for speaking out about it. I wish I had the strength to publicly talk about my ex so other women wouldn’t have to go through what I had gone through. I always hear stories about the girls he’s dated after me and it breaks my heart.

[@marissaramirez9337]

The only good thing that came out of it was that he showed me the pod🫣

[@XP9724]

​@@marissaramirez9337Mayo for ex?

[@RaniniPastel]

can we PLEASE get an ethan/oliver episode where they dress up as the other person and try and pretend to be each other??? I wanna see oliver interview ethan as he does a horrible impression of ethan!! I AM BEGGING 🙇‍♀️

[@lifeofamakeupaddict777]

Oh, yes! I love this idea! You know they would fake fight the entire episode! 😂

[@socalmads]

This would be hilarious! Great idea!!!

[@socalmads]

Bump this comment ❤❤

[@Bigboii6969]

This sounds like hell if its any longer than 15 minutes

[@crazy_haze]

yesssss I need more Oliver. I'll never forget the Oliver "frenemies" episode where they were wrestling with each other. Amazing lol

[@soybean4028]

Just as I thought her reputation couldn’t have gotten more destroyed she proves us all wrong

[@pardeepdhaliwal9744]

​@ville__How is she innocent when we have video proof?

[@kiaram8688]

She knows her career is over so she’s trying to rake in as much cash as possible

[@Feral.angel777]

@ville__ lmao

[@leslieeunice1]

@ville__ please tell me you’re joking!!!

[@Mexicanopride246]

@ville__I bet you are Colleen 😂

[@kb0224]

I dont really watch this show, but a twist for me is that Ethan lowkey seems like such a sweetie 🥲

[@meowJACK]

He is!

[@noellethomas2589]

he's a little goblin man but he can be very sweet. he's been in a good place for a while now

[@hey_gorgeous-j7x]

True cancer energy

[@CalamityJenJones]

He’s a great guy. I’m genuinely thankful there are men like him for boys to look up to in this day & age.

[@Iminsideyourwall_]

He is the true alpha male

[@k8te309]

To me the one thing that especially bugs me about the Jonah hill thing is it’s one thing to misuse therapy speak and to have these rules in place, but it’s a whole other thing to actively seek out a girl you knew wouldn’t fit into those rules into the first place and then try to change them

[@htownali]

Or possibly he grew as the relationship went on. He started to change and wanted to establish some rules. Not saying he was in the right, but it is something to consider

[@drcloudy]

@htownali I wouldn't call becoming a controlling, abusive boyfriend "growth." Not trying to argue, I get you're trying to see the good in people.

[@htownali]

@@drcloudy Well, from the texts i saw he had a problem with her surfing. Yes, initially that's what attracted him but i'm sure he felt awkward as the relationship grew and realized that he's not comftorable with it. Abuse? Idk. To me it looked he persisted on this topic because he was uncomfortable. I respect he gave her a ultimatum. If she didn't respect that then she could've dipped. To put it public is WILD, knwing that his career is public. I'd like for you to tell me what texts showed abuse. Also appreciate the respectful answer.

[@Andjelka99]

@@htownali why didn't he immediately set those rules? What it never came to mind at the beginning with her job and setting that other people will find her attractive and look? Even tho she dressed waaayy more modest compared to majority of Instagram people. And once he realised it the lengths witch he went to change it are defo red flags. From his talk in texts it really didn't look like he really loved her and was trying that hard. Just shifted blame and gaslight her. If the situation is slightly different I would agree it's like Ethan said gray area, but stuff outside those texts must be also bad for her to go publicity like this

[@YoYoItsHaylee]

@@htownaliif he had those issues and grew into those feelings, these texts shouldn’t even have happened in the first place. He always knew who she was and the facts that he tried to control her into change rather than just ending the relationship is where the malice is clear. He is emotionally abusing her. Full stop, period.

[@souffle5748]

I wish literally any of my exes had straight up told me how insane they are with bullet points like Jonah did. It would have saved me a lot of time and energy.

[@littleekellyy]

would've saved me some money. therapy is super expensive

[@SorryItsThisWay1]

Unfortunately there are also a lot of toxic exes that fabricate things to new partners. So it’s often difficult to know who to believe in the early days! It’s definitely a minefield 🤯🤯

[@pastelhearts9730]

Same instead mine gradually and sneakily , over time became more and more controlling. Until i was a shell of the person i was

[@dieauferstehung]

She stayed because she a solid 3 and would never get someone this caliber EVER again, Jonah is famous. and women crave men with status.

[@lyndoncope9620]

@@dieauferstehung seems there is always someone who steps in to insult women who are victims of abuse 🤦‍♂

[@SecondToe1]

Sex education for children is already a touchy subject, and as a gay man with two heterosexual parents there was none! Kevin making these videos is actually really helpful to all generations of gay men who don't know how to do this and could really hurt themselves 😮 I totally see how it's funny though 😂😂 but I think it's important and I respect him for doing it with no shame and making it feel normal 😊

[@SilentSprinterCJ]

I'm a 30yo man and when Lena ate that second chip my hands were covering my face like i was watching a horror movie. Lena is a warrior

[@calestaiezu214]

💯 my stomach would have been destroyed at half of one chip, let alone 2. That woman is amazing. I really hope she’s ok.

[@SpoilerAlert__]

In this day and age anyone can identify as a 30yo man

[@slemire]

​@@SpoilerAlert__hey bro literally wtf are you talking about

[@Lol-qy2zj]

@@slemirethe delusions have consumed him

[@GenesisTheKitty]

​@@slemireevidently he is accusing someone of pretending to be a 30 year old man with no discernable reason

[@heatherfrank7433]

I saw where Ethan was coming from even if I didn’t agree. He was still saying Jonah was fucked up and insecure. He was also open to what the crew was saying and changing his mind with more context. A lot of people stick to their initial opinions and just double down when criticized, I don’t think Ethan did that. I think it’s good to have and to hear constructive discussions with differing opinions. People who may have felt the same way as Ethan did in the beginning can hear how more context changed his mind.

[@aoky9179]

Agree! I think it might be quite hard for Ethan to empathise with people who aren’t famous and aren’t in the public eye, because he is famous, so the idea of releasing private conversations would feel like a much bigger invasion of privacy to us laymen. I don’t agree with his opinions at all, it’s clearly emotional abuse and a great example of common emotional abuse that could happen to anyone. It’s not extreme. So it’s harder for some people to accept It as abuse, when this type is far more common, much more stigmatised and much hard for the victim to even identify. And that’s why it’s important to educate, so people can see the signs before it’s too late, before it escalates

[@Kloves818]

Yeah its super unhelpful for people to just agree with the majority for the sake of it. If someone has questions and is willing to learn instead of argue, I don't see why people would jump to say they're stupid or an abuser. If you WANT someone on your side, wouldn't you want them to understand and vocalize why its so wrong?

[@aggretsuko7278]

Agreed! Because Ethan is in a healthy relationship, it’s probably hard for him to relate to what she experienced and why she felt the need to open up about it so publicly. It was interesting seeing him gradually change his mind.

[@KarisaRomanelli]

It kind of show cases the humanity he has. I am very much like Ethan in changing my mind with discussion and context, it should be a habbit that’s encouraged more instead of criticised (e.g. from not having the correct opinion at the start).

[@gabbygabs5107]

Same!!! I think there’s a lot of good conversations happening now because she shared it but I still wasn’t mad at his opinion.

[@paige.]

“Is that worth ruining his reputation?” HE said it! why is she the one in the wrong for showing what HE said?

[@Anr1231]

Yeah that was weird for him to say

[@elenazsmith8157]

because it was a private conversation

[@paige.]

@@elenazsmith8157 you are never wrong for bringing to light abuse that was done in the dark❤️

[@elenazsmith8157]

@@paige. People are very quick nowadays to use the Word 'abuse'. He is definately manipulative, and controlling and an idiot, but It turns out people have the right to be idiots. I dont think she has the right to share private conversations, I'm pretty sure Jonah Hill could sue.

[@Emma-ei2zk]

​@@elenazsmith8157"he's not abusive guys! He's just super manipulating, controlling and generally awful to his partner, he didn't abuse her guys, he just did a bunch of abusive shit" That's what you sound like

[@aveighht1007]

how can i say this without being rude but i think zachs sound bites play a huge role in this podcast. id even go as far to say it makes up 15%-20% of my overall enjoyment from this show. Hes up there with likes of Dan and Ian to me at least. He is such a god of the craft, have you ever watched a ep without him in control of the soundbites

[@grimdeth2197]

Offensive? That's the truth brother. Zack is hilarious in his own right.

[@BronzeBellaBria]

Thats not rude, thats why they use them

[@stephanie.6616]

I'd say 50%

[@anxietyvoyage2230]

Ethan has the privilege of not having the experience of abuse.. but unfortunately a huge percentage of people don’t have that luxury. Her “exposing” him is a way to show how hidden it can be and how you never really know someone until you know someone! Abuse is abuse and sometimes the most harmful is not physical. It also doesn’t matter why someone is abusive (insecure) in the same way it doesn’t matter what someone’s intention is when their actions are harmful.

[@mothingham]

couldn't have said it better

[@liv-bv3pl]

Guilt tripping ur partner into isolating themselves is so evil

[@monolyza_]

Its a form of abuse...and its dangerous cause its you messing up

[@r.i.pmydog7723]

“It’s a vailiation of privacy” idk you kinda loose privacy if your being toxic

[@by_the_garden5482]

Just got out of a 3 year relationship where I went through this, it’s taking a lot of work to realize I am not crazy or unreasonable and that him isolating me from friends and therapists and family was abusive.

[@bribri8042]

@@by_the_garden5482I’m 7 years out of a 3yr long relationship that was verbally and emotionally abusive. I want you to know I’m so proud of you! And hope you always remember you are worthy, and capable! Stay strong, and be kind to yourself. If anything like my recovery, and moving on from a relationship like that, there’s going to be peaks and valleys. But always remember, you’ve already been through the worse 🤗

[@NoProHarrie]

My wife's ex made her world so small she's still dealing with it half a decade on.

[@jamesf744]

I can’t stop laughing at the part where Love is trying to think of the word cusp and Olivia said “crust”😂

[@amandag877]

Time stamp?

[@khodascope]

@@amandag8772:29:43

[@felipefasanella7764]

Yeah. They make fun of Ethan a lot. Yet the gang has some crazy goofs in that regard. For me the worst in recent memory was the alcohol percentage one, when Olivia and Zach kept arguing that Tana's wine was SOOO strong because it had the same % as an entire bottle. Lol.

[@angeldream1]

He did kind of say crust and he did a little hand sprinkling thing

[@allisonhogarth2983]

@@felipefasanella7764ohh no i don’t remember this. tfw when you don’t understand percentages 😩

[@Ultimemecia]

Ethan covering his eyes with his hat and peeping while the Nair dude was spreading his butt cheeks was so funny

[@blackcatbitch]

@ville__ Dude, we have eyes and brains... I was a big fan of Colleen, she's not innocent. I'm sorry if you can't see that but mass posting this comment isn't going to delude everyone who has seen her for who she really is unfortunately, you're wasting your time and effort defending someone who does not deserve it

[@sadietaylorsversion13]

@ville__lmao nerd

[@Sjood-qs8ol]

@ville__ ok

[@Jlo3899]

@ville__ Do you have nothing better to do than comment - "Collen is innocent" on EVERY SINGLE Collen video on KZbin? This has to be the 10th comment of yours I've seen... Get a life dude, it's pathetic.

[@ashleylafonte3075]

@ville__no one was on your side with your trash video get out of here 💀

[@Mingeeming10]

1:32:07 Fun fact: there’s no “tastebud” for spice, anything spicy that you taste is just pain receptors going off. So your ability to handle spice is essentially a pain threshold type of thing :)

[@hannah-rg9uj]

As someone who’s been emotionally abused for years I think it’s hard for people to grasp that abuse is abuse. What Jonah did was not just texting something embarrassing or fucking up- it’s controlling someone else. That’s how emotional abuse works- it’s about manipulation and power and often is hard to understand until you’ve been abused. If you would be okay with someone being exposed for physical abuse, than why wouldn’t you expose them for emotional abuse? Abuse is abuse.

[@angeldream1]

The way Olivia closed her eyes when Ethan said about the all aboard I can’t tell if that’s Colleen or Olivia 😹😅

[@mizmanda.]

like he’s her dad and just said something embarrassing in front of her friends

[@sirduckykins]

I SAID THE SAME THING HAHAHA GOT ME SO GOOD! 😂

[@gabescoffield]

SLIM ETHAN!!!!! I’m so proud of how well you have done!!!!!!!!

[@gabescoffield]

Slim!!!!! Damn I hate spell correction

[@naihashareef7965]

E-thin

[@toothakace]

Skinny legend

[@jgon321]

Skinny king 👑 🤴🏻

[@J03ski3s]

Wethan ❤

[@SkulloMad]

Imagine sending a DMCA over a song where you apologize for being weird with kids

[@GenesisTheKitty]

No no no, pointedly DON'T apologize

[@maryannfrederick7212]

That’s the thing tho. There was no apology 🫤

[@markhaus]

“Apology” is doing a lot of work here

[@ljb5163]

It was a double down, not an apology lol

[@bribri8042]

I mean, she was just being a weird aunt… 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@marblepeaches]

I’m so glad Love is here. He speaks up & pushes back when Ethan’s logic gets lazy

[@BronzeBellaBria]

👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

[@pinguufuuuu]

Except ethan isn't able to handle criticism or any type of push back and everyone ends up doubling down to appease him.

[@Marina-cq2yt]

Honestly so brave considering he's young and foreign and new on the crew ❤ but that sort of speaks volumes about Ethan, the work environment must feel safe!

[@dieauferstehung]

soyest human in the show fr

[@thebeast5215]

​@pinguufuuuu what do you mean? Love and Olivia kept their opinions strong and kept reinforcing them. They doubled down. Did we watch the same video?

[@SadieRayy88]

As someone who was in a very abusive relationship, it doesn’t matter if the abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, mental or financial. Abuse is abuse. If you were to walk into any woman’s shelter and they asked what type of abuse you’ve been going through they will accept you for all the above that I listed. Even if the abuse isn’t physical it is still very traumatic and messes with your brain and how you think. I can’t stand it when someone says “well at least it wasn’t physical “. Even if your partner has never hit you before, if they are treating you in an abusive way, it’s abuse. Talk like this makes women think that if it isn’t physical than it doesn’t count. Help is out there, even if you don’t have a safe place to land you can go to a Women’s shelter. They will provide room and board, meals, clothes, even help you find a job and therapy. People are willing to help. ❤

[@SadieRayy88]

@@sashagordon1196 so true!

[@bribri8042]

Tysm for your comment. Couldn’t have said it any better. I went through a 3yr relationship that was primarily mental and emotionally abusive, the last two months of our relationship, it became physically abusive as well. 7yrs later, I’m still unpacking all of it. Another thing I want to point out, how one handles trauma will not always be identical to the next victim, even if the abuse was similar or exactly the same. Blessings to everyone. Please know, each of us are worthy! ❤️

[@AliciaOnlineGameplay]

My question is why does jona hill deserve to have his trust honored? And why does he deserve to abuse people in privacy? Why does the state of his career matter more than another human? That's what I dont get with both Ethan's and Hasans take on this.

[@SS-di8ss]

100%

[@aggretsuko7278]

I can understand Ethan’s first instinct, but I’m glad he changed his mind. Any public figure is going to worry about having their privacy violated. But it’s never the victim’s responsibility to keep their abuser’s secrets.

[@KarisaRomanelli]

I think they’re coming from the POV of a famous person which is an interesting perspective to listen to. I also think that there is a bit of a blur between what abuse is and “some bad things that you regret doing in a past relationship” and I think having more discussions and trying to distinguish the differences more will be necessary in the future 🤔

[@megannrodriguez1034]

@@RobertChapmanMusic Not necessarily... but I feel this is a disingenuous question. Like do the texts show the cheating? If not, then no. But also, if there is more abuse there, then yes, expose the cheater's texts. Jonah didn't cheat here. He emotionally abused her, and these texts are ways she's proving it. There's also probably so much more that's been left undocumented.

[@dc4prison729]

Hassan so adamantly refusing to call it abuse on his stream was making me loose hope. I feel like they are both pretty out of touch when it comes to this issue. They need more people who have been through it to speak on it. (Like Dan)

[@mjmsn]

Love had me dying laughing during the chip challenge 😂 "I'm at peace."

[@joellebarkho4793]

Love feels like a missing piece that completes the crew

[@supercutlorde]

The Jonah hill thing is such good precedent. Good men should fear a ‘breach of privacy’ they should fear them being exposed as utter scum. It has always always being an expectation for women to yield and have their life taken away by their male partner

[@Anr1231]

!!!!!!

[@rezkat03]

Ethan kind of flip flops on what DMs can be shared and what isnt.....that's kind of wild. Maybe it's his interpretation on what content is being shared? He was fine with the Ballingers dm's w the kids being shared but it's a terrible breach with Jonah? I'm pretty sure they're both abusers 😅

[@gab1888]

Yes and as somebody said crowder thing was also ok, which is pretty similar situation, the only thing different was that he doesn’t like crowder

[@moonamigi]

Jonah's "boundaries" were really demands. He refused to compromise and wanted to control everything. He wanted to take her away from surfing which is literally her job and love

[@idontknowmuch3441]

But he was letting her know…. She could Have walked away at that point

[@yrbzl]

@@idontknowmuch3441yeah let her know after dating for years and she was already in love with him. he wasn’t upfront about, he introduced all these demands over time.

[@chantell209]

He wasn’t manipulating her to stay. That is where the difference lies

[@moonamigi]

@chantell209 he was manipulating her to feel bad without any compromise and said she was problem instead of having an open conversation. Sure she could have left, but she wanted to make the relationship work and thought she was the only problem because of him.

[@aoky9179]

@@chantell209 I believe he was manipulative, I’d like to know why you believe he wasn’t being manipulative (not a troll, genuine question to learn and have the conversation) ❤

[@AlwaysRobert]

I find it so funny that the guy who: -showed Howie Mandel a live prolapse -shows damn near every guest on the show an extremely graphic prolapse video -showed all of us a picture of his green pesto shit is getting grossed out by a guy nairing his asshole

[@RRebooted]

ikr! 🤦🏾‍♀

[@SamuIise]

Haha, I watched the Nair video though, and was taken aback when his asshole started breathing 😂

[@mmth2310]

​@@SamuIisethe breathing asshole got me good too. 😂

[@r.i.pmydog7723]

I guess Ethan is really grossed out by gay guys / joke

[@gwennie16]

Shout-out love this whole episode: being a beast with the chip challenge, defending Sarah Brady's decision to go public. We love love ♥️

[@DaangMel]

So weird for someone to accuse Ethan of treating Hila like Jonah treated his gf. Ethan is constantly hyping up Hila with anything she wears or posts.

[@cassie4965]

it's not a stretch for people to think him not recognizing emotional abuse could have to do with being a perpetrator (or knowing perpetrators). many abusers don't publicly abuse their victims and may treat them nicely to the public. If he doesn't want speculation he shouldn't defend abusers

[@Sillygoose420.]

@@cassie4965yeaaaaaaa

[@laurenhatter6824]

@@cassie4965I think you only heard half of what Ethan was saying man like he never defended Jonah. The only thing that came close was him saying “at least he was up front about how he acts” but in regards to the rest of the segment he kept calling him an abuser. Ethan consistently made it clear that what was being shown on screen was not ok. You’re getting it mixed with him not being able to take a solid stance on whether or not the screenshots should have been released. You can make a point on how important they actually are to be in the public, fine, but don’t lie and say Ethan sat there for 30 minutes and took a solid stance with Jonah Hill and his actions.

[@DaangMel]

@@cassie4965 I get that, but he clearly said what Jonah said was horrible and digusting, and actually changed his mind at the end and said that she should’ve posted all this.

[@langevincamacho7517]

Love did such an amazing job this episode and really showcased how much he adds to the podcast in person! such a kind soul we love love 🙌🏾🙌🏾🤎

[@mothingham]

oh my god i'm loving seeing all the love for Love in this episode. he's genuinely so smart and nice 😭💕

[@immensa]

Loveeee seeing Love interact more. I cackled when he called Jonah Hill poor 😂

[@sarahstup7319]

This was one of my favorite moments too

[@madisonjolie1224]

Ethan calling Lena “Hila” was weirdly heartwarming

[@nic0979]

Omg time stamp please?😊

[@aperturetestsubject169]

1:37:20 -1:37:29

[@sadhimalayansaltlamp]

i was thinking freudian slip lol

[@doraveronika]

He said he sometimes mixes their names up because "it's a one letter difference between them", which is also not true lmaoo so funny when it happens

[@nic0979]

@@aperturetestsubject169 thankss 🧡

[@Mkayyyyyyy__]

I love Love being there in person. He’s so sweet, cute, hilarious, and just a great addition to the H3 podcast 🙂❤️

[@BronzeBellaBria]

He spoke up and said amazing stuff this episode, v proud of him

[@slemire]

2:21:26 this is such a common tactic, my mom was emotionally manipulative to me as a child and she used to say that she hated that my therapist "always made her out to be the bad guy" when she was, of course, "the best mom ever"

[@felipx13]

Love’s opinion on the Jonah situation was *chef kiss* flawless! Feminist king 👑

[@carlyjulie9461]

I agree with Love about how difficult it would be for Sarah to watch Jonah be so successful and loved, call himself a feminist, put out a documentary about how therapy changed him, etc. If sharing the messages that showed how emotionally abusive he was provides her any comfort or healing, I 100% support her sharing them. She should not have to hold that secret just so he won’t be “ruined.” Abusers don’t deserve to have their reputations protected. Major props to Olivia, Love, and Dan for really pushing back against Ethan’s take on this. All three had really good points.

[@snoozyq9576]

People do deserve to not have their business broadcasted, abuser or not. I left my abuser. I don't feel the right or need to broadcast it tho

[@MeiiMiicB]

@@snoozyq9576opinions like these stop victims from coming forward about their abuse especially if it’s someone famous like in this situation. Had you come forward with ur story about ur abuser looking for support , you would not have wanted someone to tell you that you’re violating their privacy after they’ve caused you so much trauma.

[@ImMalloryBrooke]

You said THE FACTS, and we heard directly from THE VICTIMS. I one hundred percent believe it’s her. She felt legally threatened by your podcast.

[@A2Z83]

posts the video immediately after they go on their break. places the copyright immediately after they do the episode when they return from break. she thought they were just going to let it slip by.

[@jessjess23brooks89]

Considering I got a news blurb today about the cancelation of her tour, she knew exactly what was going to happen after H3 dropped their review and she wants to capitalize on that toxic monetization train as it's crashing and burning.

[@wesauthier9967]

Lena with the ice pack tryna eat another chip is literally the funniest thing I’ve ever seen

[@natalielucille6800]

Just imagine being Jonah’s ex gf and having this horrible experience with him and see him move on with his life and be universally loved and successful I think she has every right to let the world know how he is

[@LordCantinflas]

Lol sounds incredibly petty and insecure. That is not an individual you should be dying on a hill for.

[@breadpresident1385]

Its so nice hearing Love's perspective more clearly, he's got some insightful takes and now can actually talk with the others about them properly like with the jonah hill stuff🔥🔥🔥 Love Love👌

[@DiamondDogs92]

Having Love in studio and hearing his giggles clear as day when Ethan says some crazy shit just sends pure joy into my heart 😂❤

[@Putonblast420]

Olivia's sighs were an additional crew member during the Jonah Hill segment 😅 love her.

[@Sjood-qs8ol]

@@MsLilyPickles agreed. Olivia supremacy 4life

[@coleyb212]

There is never a time that I don’t agree with Dan’s takes. What he said about his own experience with an emotionally abusive ex and then Jonah’s documentary possibly being a trigger for Sarah releasing the messages made so much sense. W Dan.

[@katelynrvra]

Lena cheating and Love allowing it because he’s so nice 😂

[@by_the_garden5482]

Just leaving a relationship similar to this, and to respond to Ethan’s “he’s saying he’s crazy” and being clear with it. When you like someone and they say something like “don’t talk to people who make me uncomfortable” you think ok, that’s reasonable, why would I, and then it slowly becomes controlling and you don’t realize that the expectations have become abusive and isolating because it started off as an understandable request.

[@ac6053]

I’m glad Ethan was able to explain his opinion. These conversations are important so you don’t get stuck in echo chambers

[@cocogoat1111]

Yeah but it's weird for him to take that position when he's all over DM's, private conversations, and gossip when it's involving people he doesn't like. In every "drama" story there is someone who is exposing private conversations. If you feel that strongly about it then what makes Steven Crowders video at home getting leaked any different? Both Crowder and Jonah are public figures. Both Crowder and Jonah were abusive towards their partner and did not agree to private conversations being seen by the public. It can't only be okay because you don't like the person it's happening to. Either you are all aboard for this expose "drama" content or you don't touch it at all. H3 podcast covers a lot of stories diving into personal details, if he truly felt bad for seeing private conversations then don't cover any drama at all.

[@henriraja8982]

@cocogoat1111 I believe Crowder's wife requested that the entire divorce would not be discussed on Crowder's show and Crowder started it, so it is kinda not the same but I do see your point.

[@ac6053]

@@asuka-ryo exactly

[@slam-xq9sk]

​@@asuka-ryoIt just comes off kind of absurd considering the extreme language he's willing to use in cases with less compelling evidence. He called James Charles a child predator with zero equivocation from day one and delights in and shares the text leaks from that situation often, but wrings his hands over the sharing of what he admits are abusive text messages to the victim? What's the difference if not that he likes the guy?

[@JoannaT2]

He barely was able to get his point across. The second he deviated from the popular opinion he was lambasted in the live chat.

[@empac8631]

Lena is the ultimate. I love how she’s so incredibly sweet but has that badass energy without a care in the world

[@jennarichardson8268]

I love Love being in person and so involved in the podcast. He’s wonderful!

[@aubrey___]

Dan: Does the double chip automatically put you in a different tier? Lena: Yes. Of course it does.

[@lynaevaughn]

Olivia rejected loves boba request because Lena was sick, but he won that fair in square y’all should have ordered😢

[@gabescoffield]

Cannot get over HOW SLIM Ethan is!!! Great willpower and consistency my KING!!!!

[@seykadagmar]

I can't believe I didn't think of that before, of course, she did her apology in song form on purpose so she could claim any video made about her.

[@TenaciousTheSketcher]

​@Plutonium.2 it's not smart, it's narcissistic and intentional. I'm sure she was really expecting a positive response and made sure she was going to make money from it.

[@empac8631]

@@Plutonium.2you gotta be pretty smart to get as famous as she did and stay semi relevant throughout all the years….even while doing some awful and stupid things. She’s a theatre kid and actually made her character based on some girls she went to school with who thought they were talented and made the account to troll them. Singing an apology ensured that it would basically break the internet, everyone would talk about it, parodies were out in minutes, and every commentator on the site would react and discuss it. Not only could she try and copy right it for the money, but she could do it to channel with less chance of disputing it who may just take down the video or have to cut the clips of her completely. It was an absolute insane choice to do the TGT as an “apology” but she’s gotten one last boost of attention that has people talking more than the actual allegations, and she can try to profit or silence based on it.

[@FourLuckyLeafs]

Or she watched CinnamonToastKen's reaction and got the idea there. Who knows.

[@Jordi23trillon]

Ethan: we’ve never seen someone create a viral moment and copyright it before Also Ethan: I’m gonna sue Selena Gomez for using my viral sound

[@shirleysilva7580]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Bajablasted0]

😂😂😂😂

[@nataliethieke3687]

😂😂

[@makiya_hughes]

The stuff with Jonah Hill is how it starts. Its not "that bad" because he's laying the ground work. Thats why hes "making it work" because hes put effort into grooming her into being the obediant girlfriend he wants. Also anyone whos been in this situation knows that you dont get it unless youve been there. Ethan hasnt been there. He still supports victims, and is recognizing the fucked up behaviour. He just doesnt get the nuance

[@marly6546]

1:44:45 when Zack threw in the puking sound bite and Dan says “don’t play that Zack please!” I DIED

[@doc_arsenic8595]

I'm a relatively new viewer, but Ethan and the crew genuinely provide such a positive and welcoming experience that I've been binging old episodes recently. I'm non-binary, and I really appreciate how positively Ethan talks about trans people. It makes me feel much more welcome and valid. Keep it up, yall 💜

[@tarag2705]

You feel valid because you are valid 💜

[@caitlinalb]

He did often say the wrong thing- but I think he’s genuinely trying to match his intentions with better knowledge and care now. He has seemed to educate himself. Allyship efforts are there, so it does make me sad when people demonise him - there are many outwardly transphobic bigots that actually deserve to be fought against.

[@asher1182]

W non-binary gang 🫶🏻

[@michaelabeth]

welcome to the family

[@bronweiner]

hey @doc_arsenic8595 since you’re binging old episodes, go back to the prince family content court episode and check out the “positive and welcoming”comment you left telling a woman who had a stillbirth she was lucky that she didn’t have to deal with a screaming child….

[@commonvaultboy6054]

Not gonna lie, I’m loving these 4 hour episodes… ❤

[@tarag2705]

So is Love here for good now? I know he’s been part of the crew for a minute but having him in studio makes the team feel complete!

[@ally983]

@@Plutonium.2he’s on an O-1 which is three years :)

[@tarag2705]

@@ally983 oh really?! That’s awesome!

[@ally983]

@@Nerdz2 He does! The O-1 is great because it can be extended in increments of three years while he is working on his green card…so as long as Ethan keeps “sponsoring” him as his employer, he is good to go!

[@captain_legend7551]

Why is the H3 Crew so wholesome!? I need a friend group like that in my life!

[@saracoelho2696]

He, as an abuser, doesn’t get to have privacy. She has the right to share her story. Him using therapy speak to manipulate her made my blood boil.

[@lifemiller6276]

You don't know what an abuser is, women get beaten everyday DONT DIMINISH THEM

[@saracoelho2696]

@@lifemiller6276 I’m not diminishing anything, you are. There’s many different types of abuse, it’s not all physical. And just because someone “has it worse”(air quotes cause there’s no need to compare abuse,it’s not a d measuring contest ), it doesn’t take away from her experience as a victim.