Say THIS To Get Him To Prioritize You (Raise Your Value In His Eyes And Stop Being For Granted!)

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[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If you want to learn the secrets to inspiring a man's love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/

[@elopez198725]

Thank you for this! I love the examples! Rory Raye definitely has superstar coaches =)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Emma! 💝

[@kristinleigh2274]

Thank you for this advice. It has brought me peace to speak my truth and what I'm looking for and not settle for less.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Kristin, I’m happy to hear that! 💗

[@nancydrollette2899]

The timing of this is perfect... I need to talk with my guy about something and have been driving myself crazy trying to find a way to say it. Thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Nancy, I’m glad this came at the right time for you! 💚

[@Nicole-is-global]

This works SO WELL. Saw an extreme change in a guy who was trying to date me. Totally different person. Communication is key.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Nicole! Yes, it really does work wonders!

[@jill5188]

Thank you Helena for planting these seeds of wisdom. I get stronger each time I listen to you. You look beautiful as always. ☺️🌺

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Jill! 💕

[@designedlife2984]

Wonderful descriptive examples and honoring language with boundary setting. Proper wording can be difficult to find when circumstances are less than desired, or otherwise personally disappointing. Thank you so much for this topic and video Helena.👍 You are truly a wonderful GEM! 😊💖

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, I'm glad this was helpful!

[@anonymousreview9006]

I loved this video! I had been emailing Angela about a few questions I had. This video was great! I am kind of realizing that what a lot of us are missing are healthy communication skills... some of us ignore, get angry, and some of us lecture LOL. Either way I think it just goes back to having no idea of how to communicate our needs. For me personally more videos about communicating in feminine ways would be amazing because it is just so helpful. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love all of your videos Helena! You are so beautiful and all of this just helps so much ⭐️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, I'm glad you enjoyed this! These videos should also be helpful if you haven't seen them yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5a4f2OulpaEo5I and kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5a4f2OulpaEo5I.

[@stacibee224]

Thank you, Helena, for this! I’ve been seeing a guy for 2 months (exclusive 1 month). He made plans with family on Valentine’s as opposed to seeing me which was disappointing but I didn’t want to make a big deal since it’s still in early stages. My bday is next week and he hasn’t brought it up either so I’m on the fence with how to move forward. I feel I need to uphold my standards but unsure how to convey that without sounding accusatory. Thank you ❤️

[@stacibee224]

City - Thanks for the kind words! Yeah, I’m going to see how my birthday plays out and let that tell me a lot. He has mentioned he’s low on money recently so I want to be considerate of that but I also still think if you care enough you’ll make time. To be continued lol.

[@StrawberryAppleCream]

@@stacibee224 see what he does on your birthday and if he does something that feels good to you express it and if he does something that feels bad to you (or lack thereof) express it too🤗💗

[@jill5188]

Hi Staci. I would say to trust your instincts first. Valentines Day and your birthday may be early indications of the underlying truth that you are not a priority. If you believe you are a priority and he has been consistently showing up for you, then I believe those other things like forgetting an anniversary or birthday might be excused and something to work through with him without jeopardizing the relationship. 🌻😊

[@arkmcdan]

It's still early in knowing each other. Just go ahead and make plans with others and enjoy yourself for YOUR birthday. He may try to do something with you or not. But still enjoy your day.

[@celissewillis9399]

Staci Sisco it’s ultimately an integrity thing. Not just with him, but where you stand with yourSelf. If he’s not going to make time or include you in holidays or important days, then get off the fence & walk away. He’s already showing you where he places value on the connection.

[@elizabethardenski5490]

Helena you are a true role model for women!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thank you so much, Elizabeth!

[@LisaGemini]

I've learned a lot of the guys who don't meet you are scammers. I've had a couple of them ask to borrow money or for my bank account information. They might even be married. Actions speak louder than words.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I agree that you want to watch a man's ACTIONS and make sure they're lining up with what he says.

[@reina619]

Great advice! It's actually applicable to other situations too, not just dating/romantic relationships.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! Yes, this could apply to other situations as well.

[@angelastewart7327]

The sound wasn't too great on this....but great information, thanks. I like the way to phrase the questions or requests.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, Angela!

[@fbmbassist]

That pink color shirt looks so good on you! Very refreshed looking. 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💖

[@robbibrower7152]

Thank you so much Helena , Hope you are feeling better, honey...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, Eileen! Yes, I am.

[@sunshineshakti7825]

You are amazing Helena. Thanks so much

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Alexandra! ❤️

[@neringaCD]

very helpful! I cant wait to try these tips :D I'm curious about his actions

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful! 💕

[@youtubingonly9465]

In terms of casual dating, how long should you wait for a man to “step up” once you’ve communicated this boundary to him? At one point do you need to walk away?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I actually don't recommend "waiting" for a man or thinking about it in those terms, this video should help clarify: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p6iafZajiM9-atk

[@avril.227]

Yes. Awesome boundary making 💓

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you!

[@peepingjo]

Such a helpful video Helena. Thank you so much! x

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕

[@monnaleenparian535]

Thank you ms. Helena ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome!

[@nataliecamacho6235]

These are great examples! Thank you Helena ❤️ love your channel

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Natalie, I’m glad they were helpful! 💚

[@anjusmith843]

Thanks Helena....this has been truly helpful

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, I'm glad this was helpful!

[@marrydruli]

That last one was perfect for me!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that one resonated with you! 💞

[@klaudialacayo2333]

Thanks for the template, love ya Helena!!💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Klaudia! ❤️

[@klaudialacayo2333]

@@HelenaHartCoaching also this is random lol but why is it that we find someone even more attractive when we find out they don't actually like us back? Is there a topic about this somewhere?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This is actually very common, I talk about it in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4a7eouMprSnY6c

[@pixieazul19]

Wow these are great and I'll be using them!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Celeste! I’m happy to hear that. ❤️

[@julianaschmidt8415]

Always good advices from your channel. Thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, Juliana!

[@alisapearce5634]

Thank you for the last bit of advice. I have been dealing with my best guy friend whom I am also interested in with him being hot one moment and cold the next. It drives me crazy!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Alisa! 💜

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Walk away from him

[@alisapearce5634]

@@mstwelvedeadlycyns may I ask why? Ive never felt this way about any one though!

[@breakergirl47]

Alisa Pearce He is your true Soul mate but not in the way that you hoped for. He is here to help you heal your wounds so you can find love. Pay attention and always be present in the moment. His job is seasonal. 😊🌺

[@celissewillis9399]

If his work schedule is “so crazy” that HES not available “until last minute”, that’s not even something I would give much effort to. I did that once before & it ended up being a waste of time & shows where he actually places value on the connection, which is not much. Like you’re only good for a last minute sort of thing. Especially when you make yourSelf available last minute, then he’s learning how to treat you in the future. I don’t even mean just for sex, but in general. Example... This guy worked literally 5 minutes up the street from where I live. We’d known eachother for over 3 years & he messaged me mid afternoon one day if I wanted to meet for coffee- the coffee shop is literally right across the street from where I live btw. Well we met up, had a great one hour convo, he told me he had to keep it short, because he had to get his kids. Then when I suggested we should meet up again it was like “well I’m not always able to take time off my work schedule like this...” ... there were always some sort of strategically placed excuses. He has shared custody, so it was like one week he had them, the next his ex wife would. As a parent myself, I’m not judging, but I also know from social media he regularly made time to go out & do things, meet people so I know he was using his kids as an excuse. If you feed in too much to what’s always good for them (supposedly) then you’re hanging off of THEIR timetable, without giving respect to YOUR OWN time & energy. Then it creates frustrations, resentment, all sorts of things. We ended up having a not so good ending, but that’s because where he wanted to take the connection, caused me to realize how I was breaking integrity with mySelf & his behavior after we got together was really out of place. Found out later why specifically, & I don’t need someone like that in my life. It was a good thing though, because I was in the process of understanding & creating my own boundaries over several months at that time & id never given attention to the integrity aspect, but this experience just triggered me into being more aware of it in a way I never had. Some experiences with the opposite sex are purely lesson based. If you gained awareness of your own boundaries & integrity, & they don’t like that or want to play games with it, then clearly they don’t have any themselves, once you draw the line. Especially if they’re being sneaky or making excuses to you, it means they’re used to stringing women along & you’re probably the first who drew the line in a way that they’re not used to, so it wasn’t comfortable to have a woman stand up to them in that way. There’s also a difference between a woman who creates constant drama as a result of not liking how she’s being treated by a man, but tolerates certain treatment anyway because she’s insecure & codependent vs a woman who stands firm in what she’s about & not & is ultimately willing to walk away as soon as those boundaries are being disrespected. I’ve been on both sides, so I can understand the contrast there...

[@marah3298]

Celisse Willis well said!! Every woman needs to read and understand this!

[@LisaGemini]

Great points. I’m glad you learned a lesson from this. Don’t put up with a man’s BS!

[@maidieuhanh]

Thank you, I needed this video so much.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗 My latest episode might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p53WeGecl8-krbc

[@deborahg427]

Awesome information! Thank you so much

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Deborah! 💗

[@2daldridge]

Thanks for this. I had the texting conversation. He kept texting, I stopped responding and he disappeared. So I learned quickly he's not a great listener or very invested in getting to know me.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Yes, it’s amazing how quickly you can discover something like that. I’m glad you did before getting too invested. 🧡

[@marah3298]

Great video, as always! 🌺

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Mara!

[@sabaqureshi541]

It's really helpful Helena 💖💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m so glad this was helpful! 💜

[@SK-no2pp]

I’m in my 30s, I want children. Not immediately but eventually. How can I bring this up to a man /boyfriend without pressuring or scaring him? Letting him know that is my goal eventually

[@reneeevans8864]

You just let him know down the road with the right person you want a family children but you dont want your husband to be one of them lol

[@margaretmiller4718]

Guys are less scared than you think, just tell him straight up.

[@emilyespencer]

Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, Emily!

[@Great-Bharat-1]

Plz more videos on not asking out .

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Kritika, do you mean a man is not asking you out and you’d like him to?

[@prestigeavery1636]

Hello Helena, my boyfriend and I are currently in college and he’s really busy pretty much most of the week. There have been a few weeks recently where we hung out once a week and he would come over around 8pm and then leave the next morning at around 1. I really feel like we are not spending enough time together but I understand that he’s busy. I sometimes feel like he could be making more time for us to hang out and in the day time but a lot of times it’s last minute and I usually accept it. I want him to actually prioritize spending more time with me and making me feel special not just a last minute hangout at night and then leave when he wakes up. I feel like I can’t really say this to him because then I sound selfish that I’m demanding his time when he has sports practice and schoolwork and races to do. What should I do?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos should be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y4KunZmYhc2IsM0, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rHbNg2aeZ9N1gLs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/kF6ag4x3g7WsbZI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5a4f2OulpaEo5I, kzbin.info/www/bejne/movKn3aYbN2NZ8k and kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYqoY4eDeZiEZ6s.

[@ashleykrutzig6370]

Love this

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Ashley!

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[@crystallam7335]

So helpful 😘🥰

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Crystal! I’m glad this helped. ❤️

[@dnibcn93]

Can you please do more on this

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These episodes should be helpful if you haven’t seen them yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p53WeGecl8-krbc, kzbin.infok8eb_r5tjtE?feature=share and kzbin.infosqRGLYflfdc?feature=share.

[@deborahg427]

Helena what do you do when the man temporarily honors what you’re asking for but then repeatedly slacks off? At what point should you take further action? We are long distance and I’ve asked for more communication and used your tools and they work beautifully but then after a couple of weeks he reverts back to the old behavior. I remind him again and then the same cycle repeats. We are engaged.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Deborah, how much longer will the two of you be long distance?

[@deborahg427]

Helena Hart about 3 more months

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[@marah3298]

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[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Alanna, is there something specific you need help with?

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[@ilsewenzel9046]

Helena, the man I have corresponded with for 18 months is at a distance, we have not met in person. We had a honeymoon period where we frequently texted and phoned. Now he texts me once a week. He says he loves and misses me and I love him. I have mentioned repeatedly that I need more consistency and he said he would make it right but it hasn't happened. Shall I just totally stop responding when he does text (I feel like an afterthought at this point). Please tell me what to say or do at this point? Thanks

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I actually have a video on this that I'll be posting soon. I always say it's not "real" until you've actually met in person, so I wouldn't give this any weight at all until that happens.

[@reneeevans8864]

If a man is to passive ultimately you should snoop & look to see if he may have a serious porn habit esspecially if he has ED

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Lol Most men really love porn. ED is another thing. Lol😂🤣😅

[@reneeevans8864]

Porn causes ED look it up it does

[@darya4828]

What's ED?

[@SK-no2pp]

I’m in my 30s, I want children. Not immediately but eventually. How can I bring this up to a man /boyfriend without pressuring or scaring him? Letting him know that is my goal eventually

[@marah3298]

S K yes and I have the same question