HIV+ and Pregnant. I didn’t know it was a crime.

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Bianca

Bianca

7 ай бұрын

In honor of World AIDS Day (12/1), I want to share a very special and intimate story of my life.
Motherhood is something I thought was not meant for me due to the traumas I’ve experienced in my life. Yet, Universe, God, Love, had other plans.
I am so thankful to be an HIV+ mama!
Anything is possible if I decide it is. 🫶🏽
RIP to the beautiful souls that were loss to this virus due to the stigma of HIV/AIDS or the lack of resources and community.
I am especially thankful to the humans that donated their bodies to help find a cure. I am here because of YOU and I will continue to use my voice to honor those that came before me by spreading love and factual information about what is possible for people living with HIV or AIDS.
THANK YOU.
#hiv #positive #status #dating #healingjourney #hivpositive #manifestation #youtube #youtuber #youtubeshorts #hivpregnancy #motherhood #pregnancy #pregnant #undetectable #undetected #birthcontrol #depo #birth

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@octaviaeddings3765
@octaviaeddings3765 3 ай бұрын
HOPWA case manager here! It is refreshing to see someone willing to tell their story about HIV. There’s so much stigma around this and information/education help break the stigma. Keep telling your story. It okay that there is ppl who don’t and refuse to understand you because there are so much more ppl who need to hear this.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
@joemalone1908
@joemalone1908 2 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_you hiv + too?
@myasunshine8131
@myasunshine8131 3 ай бұрын
Bianca I’m so so happy for you, God is working everything out for you and your baby God is in control 🎉🎉
@bluevelvet3769
@bluevelvet3769 3 ай бұрын
YES THIS WOMAN IS A HUMAN BEING.DO NOT STICK A LABEL ON HER BECAUSE OF A HEALTH ISSUE.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
🫂🩷
@starfire810
@starfire810 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for allowing us to go along with you on this journey. Amazing strength and beauty ❤️
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 7 ай бұрын
So thankful you are here 🩷🩷 hopefully this inspires those who need it 🩷🩷🩷
@starfire810
@starfire810 7 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ absolutely!!
@candaceevans2212
@candaceevans2212 3 ай бұрын
The doctors were only trying to protect the baby. I mean, why would you want to put the baby you say you love in harms way by giving her your breast milk? Very selfish way of thinking. And then you say your gonna do it to the second baby. Smh, ridiculous!
@zafirahhannibal8934
@zafirahhannibal8934 3 ай бұрын
Before you speak you need to do your research. HIV positive mom in Africa have been . breast feed for over 15 year their baby's are healthy and growing . Also the cdc has also Said its better to feed baby your breast milk. So hush and mind your business.
@anniemae9519
@anniemae9519 3 ай бұрын
Man they sick u hush
@EJ-xq6nd
@EJ-xq6nd 3 ай бұрын
I’m sure she’s in medication and it’s not detectable which is why she can sex without condums and breast feed the baby because her viral load is too low to pas through her fluids
@mauveletteburchell606
@mauveletteburchell606 3 ай бұрын
​@@zafirahhannibal8934you need to do your legit research. That's why so many of those kids are orphans now and statistically can be proven.
@PandaHead602
@PandaHead602 3 ай бұрын
@@zafirahhannibal8934Africa and America have completely different options. If we can protect bsby we can buy formula here …. African ppl might not have options to buy formula… we have all types stuff here and lots more
@damselola7719
@damselola7719 3 ай бұрын
So inspired by your stories. I pray you grow more and more in grace. God bless you and your family❤
@deziebethel
@deziebethel 3 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you and sad with the treatment you got at the hospital. In my side of the word HIV+ mothers who are undetected are allowed to breastfeed since the risk of the baby dealing with malnutrition and consequent weakened immune system far outweighs the risk of contracting the virus with proper retroviral management. So far, I haven’t personally seen any cases of transmission through breastfeeding. But I understand that laws and guidelines differ from place to place. Hopefully you get more support and care next time
@vavavic2965
@vavavic2965 4 ай бұрын
Im so happy for you ! Congrats ❤
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 4 ай бұрын
Thank you my love!!!!🩷🩷🩷🩷
@xo.bunnystyles
@xo.bunnystyles Ай бұрын
When she said she’s a Sagittarius… everything made sense ! They really are upbeat star seeds! Happy for you ! Love story is amazing ! It just sucks that most irresponsible people will sleep with anyone and it’s an upsetting perspective of how the world turns & burns others ! Congrats on birthing a healthy baby !
@getbusydrizzy5296
@getbusydrizzy5296 7 ай бұрын
Its nice how you come on the channel with your appearance looking BEAUTIFUL and always MANNARABLE. Thank you for that
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 7 ай бұрын
Thank you ✨💞💞
@getbusydrizzy5296
@getbusydrizzy5296 7 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ Good to see a WOMAN 👩
@silentnight3235
@silentnight3235 3 ай бұрын
This woman is irresponsible as hell!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
Actually quite the opposite these days (:
@adrianwillis66
@adrianwillis66 3 ай бұрын
I have no comment. This all sad to me I wish her and her family the best.
@silentnight3235
@silentnight3235 3 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ I beg to differ.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
@@silentnight3235 I do not care 🙃
@silentnight3235
@silentnight3235 3 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ Prove it!
@soyicasweet99
@soyicasweet99 4 ай бұрын
Loved this video! You are so beautiful Bianca
@Miracle-333
@Miracle-333 3 ай бұрын
I don’t understand you spoke so much about sin and how you believe God allowed you to have HIV because of it. But you willingly continued to have sex “sin” before marriage (not just once as a “mistake”) again? Like that experience with HIV didn’t scare you enough to do things differently??
@rustypoodle6339
@rustypoodle6339 3 ай бұрын
yes, this isnt adding up. Not cool at all
@shoogasweet5847
@shoogasweet5847 3 ай бұрын
She needs deliverance 🙏
@anniemae9519
@anniemae9519 3 ай бұрын
I knew this was coming 😊
@mauveletteburchell606
@mauveletteburchell606 3 ай бұрын
Exactly. She's using God's name in vain and thinking it's a good thing she's doing. KZbin need to take her down. She's sending a bad message to spreading this disease. She better fear God because God doesn't like sinful act.
@user-bc8np8wl9r
@user-bc8np8wl9r 3 ай бұрын
Why are y'all so quick to pass judgement it's not your story to tell and we live in an imperfect world no sin is greater than the next as we are all sinners each and every day...so quick to pass judgement and beat a person down like stfu and move on...how many fucking sins have you committed???...the nerve of you people and last time i checked none of you are God so what you have to say is irrelevant!
@charitycobb4854
@charitycobb4854 3 ай бұрын
I don’t understand even having unprotected sex again 😮
@user-bc8np8wl9r
@user-bc8np8wl9r 3 ай бұрын
She was engaged and I'm pretty sure she didn't put a gun to nobody's head and make them sleep with at least she has the courage that most people shut up sometimes and listen you might learn something
@tatum635
@tatum635 2 ай бұрын
with todays medicine as long as you take your medicine you get UNDECETBEBLE. which means you cant transmit it sexually the virus is suppressed in the body. the baby wont get it and she will live a normal lifespan. magic johnson has multiple children and hes damn near 70
@ceebee8899
@ceebee8899 Ай бұрын
Still...with no condom...men are not that smart. Here a woman telling you she has a fatal disease that is transmitted sexually and you STILL go in without a condom AND make a baby 😂😂😂😂😂
@lanibee333
@lanibee333 7 ай бұрын
You are beautiful and I love that God is providing many blessings for you!.. Continue being the beautiful person that you are in this world..
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so so much! 💞💞
@Shaladash
@Shaladash 4 ай бұрын
As someone who believes in Jesus I would caution you to look into horoscopes. This may be hard to hear but they are actually demonic and the Lord tells us to stay away from them. I do believe they have power but that power doesn’t come from God. The power comes from Satan and his legion on demons. The spiritual realm is a real thing and we as believers have to be caution because we die for our lack of knowledge.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 4 ай бұрын
All things were created by God for God. 🩷
@Shaladash
@Shaladash 4 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ Get drunk all the time because we have alcohol, have sex with everyone because God created sex, be a glutton because God created food? No. God created things but Satan perverts what God creates. Satan cannot make anything. He can only manipulate what’s already there. You’re not aware but you are attaching demons to you. I would just suggest doing a study on it and the truth will be revealed. Just read The Word and study. Believing in horoscopes is just like believing in Greek gods, or the Egyptian idols.
@nai-lahkristasimone5161
@nai-lahkristasimone5161 4 ай бұрын
@@Shaladashrealize who you are talking to hence the response you got. Some persons the most you can do is inform them walk away and continue praying for them because not everyone is as they seem. I hope you're picking up on what I'm saying
@Shaladash
@Shaladash 4 ай бұрын
@@nai-lahkristasimone5161 I do! I informed and now all I can do is pray and move forward. Is it the Holy Spirit the convicts the heart and uses the body to help bring people into the reality of what they are doing. Unfortunately, we are a stubborn people and carry pride like the Israelites in the Old Testament
@nai-lahkristasimone5161
@nai-lahkristasimone5161 4 ай бұрын
@@Shaladash 🙏 Amen
@sramos821
@sramos821 5 ай бұрын
Congratulations! So happy for you!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 5 ай бұрын
Thank youuu bb🩷🩷🩷 i feel extremely blessed
@sramos821
@sramos821 5 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ you are welcome! Amen! 💝
@veronicacampbell6929
@veronicacampbell6929 2 ай бұрын
God will see you through this.
@iippesante4102
@iippesante4102 7 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you..👑❤️ Thank you for sharing your journey.. 🙌❤️
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Thank you for holding space for me 🩷🥹
@Michtopretty
@Michtopretty 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations to you and your partner on your baby ❤ 🎉
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 4 ай бұрын
Thank you my love!!!
@Ntuthu28_M
@Ntuthu28_M 3 ай бұрын
I love you Bianca keep shining❤God bless you❤
@shawndreyajohnson8973
@shawndreyajohnson8973 2 ай бұрын
I learned so much from this video so thank you for educating me and others who may have been ignorant on the subject. The fact that you can have unprotected sex regularly with a partner and not put him at risk- I didn’t know. And your child not having it was normal. Thank you and you’re beautiful
@amoramor5930
@amoramor5930 3 ай бұрын
Dr can really be cruel sometimes, when i was about 3months pregnant. I was in alot of pain to the point where i couldnt move and was crying. Me and my mother went to the er. At 3 months i wasnt showing so the dr questioned if i was even pregnant & they wanted to see my mychart ( which i didnt have at the moment) the dr then proceeded to tell me if i was having a miscarriage there was nothing they could do. And i was so outraged because how F-ing dare you. I reported them & went to a different hospital ( my baby is alive and well.. she was just growing & thats the pain i experienced) . Your A great mommy for advocating for your daughter. You knew what u didnt want for her and im glad you pressed the issue. God bless you & your family 🩷
@lscummings
@lscummings 3 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your beautiful bundle of joy, your truly blessed
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
Praise God 🩷 He is so merciful and kind 🩷
@alexandraking6963
@alexandraking6963 3 ай бұрын
I just saw the video about the gym … there are so much to know about this topic. Ty for share
@mswright6538
@mswright6538 3 ай бұрын
Im late but Congratulations on your baby Beautiful ❤️
@manestage5403
@manestage5403 3 ай бұрын
Sanaa, is that you?!❤
@msjustifyed864
@msjustifyed864 3 ай бұрын
I didnt like the first interview i saw with her because she was like all over the place, and she was like laughing at things that werent funny to do with her diagnosis. and the night she met King....so i was like is this a joke but then i realise she was probably laughing at the decisions she made, like when u look back and say i was so stupid i cant believe i did that. So i went on to see the beginning of her story and this interview here I love. This more showed the person she is. i love how she did her research how she didnt let her diagnosis determine her future and how she still strived for greatness and normalcy. I also love her persistent personality and how she just dooesnt go for what professionals say she has her own thoughts. Im so glad she touched on that topic of that formula they give ur child in ICU or whatever. firstly they give it without permission and they didnt even offer me to pump of my milk cause that first breast feeding bond is irreplaceable. the benefits of breast feeding and the effects of those manmade formulas . All my child was having done is test i couldve breast fed. I would really love her to private msg me with the formula she wouldve approved for her child. So i continue to follow her now and wish her even more success
@Cometalktome
@Cometalktome 3 ай бұрын
Your energy is everything, wish you and your family the best that life has to offer. Your page randomly shows up in my feed. ❤
@SherikaFay
@SherikaFay 3 ай бұрын
That’s your sign to get tested 😂
@Cometalktome
@Cometalktome 3 ай бұрын
@@SherikaFay I do get tested ❤️ . Her page showed up do to my studies and lectures I follow.
@lemaa4820
@lemaa4820 2 ай бұрын
What was the conversation like when you told your fiance that you were hiv+?
@myasunshine8131
@myasunshine8131 3 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎊🎉
@datkiddjophat4290
@datkiddjophat4290 3 ай бұрын
Congratulations best wishes to you & your baby
@chantelleallen6146
@chantelleallen6146 20 күн бұрын
Don’t breastfeed don’t put the baby at risk
@GabrielleKayley
@GabrielleKayley 7 ай бұрын
Wow the fact that they told you they would call the police if you breast fed just hurts my heart. Totally inappropriate. Wow. I’m sorry you were made to feel like that. I beleive the laws are changing around this. I gave birth in San Diego and they were the opposite. I’m still grieving in my own way for other parts of that traumatic yet beautiful day so it def wasn’t perfect at all. Anyways, you’re such an inspiration! Sending love to you and your beautiful family!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 7 ай бұрын
they honestly made me feel like a criminal for having HIV. No one deserves that ): I hope we all heal ❤️‍🩹 I appreciate you being here. Congratulations to you on motherhood 🩷🩷
@BeeDawn7
@BeeDawn7 4 ай бұрын
You’re hiv positive? What is that like as far as meditation ect?
@PandaHead602
@PandaHead602 3 ай бұрын
Why would you want to harm a baby …. should be a crime and you stand there laughing…. Like a joke
@traciemarsh1611
@traciemarsh1611 4 ай бұрын
she is a beautiful little girl x
@roxanehgh
@roxanehgh 5 ай бұрын
I don’t understand why you would even think of having children if there is the smallest chance to transmit that to your child and having to pump her with drugs. And even thinking of breastfeeding? All I heard in this video is a very selfish person that was so set on her wants in being a mother and me me me.. wow. Truly I’m shocked.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 5 ай бұрын
People hear what they want to hear 🤷🏽‍♀️
@amirahabdi
@amirahabdi 4 ай бұрын
Omg I feel for those kids I just hope they can be helped medically so they don’t catch this nasty ilness
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 4 ай бұрын
@@amirahabdi 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
@ericalyons7564
@ericalyons7564 4 ай бұрын
Agree! This don’t make no damn sense! Geesh you already to get have the baby with what you got but now you are being difficult and trying to do things that could damage your child. Research or not! You never know for sure!!!!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 4 ай бұрын
@@ericalyons7564 this made 0 sense
@AmLetoure
@AmLetoure 2 ай бұрын
😒🥴 Y'all see a whole loving and accepting man in her video yet still ask pointless questions and make ignorant statements. Damn! She can't express joy or experience love because she's HIV+? So if you contract it, do you plan to just shrivel up and die? And for those who think she's lying or say her story doesn't make sense, comprehension and critical thinking skills go a long way in life.
@Alexandria.Washington
@Alexandria.Washington Ай бұрын
Let’s see her laughing 20 years from now. HIV/Aids is no laughing matter!!!!
@Alexandria.Washington
@Alexandria.Washington Ай бұрын
Why didn’t he marry her before having a baby. Another child born out of wedlock! Sickening.
@AmLetoure
@AmLetoure Ай бұрын
@@Alexandria.Washington You're ignorant and lack empathy.
@datkiddjophat4290
@datkiddjophat4290 3 ай бұрын
She’s gorgeous
@Lorensempiree
@Lorensempiree 5 ай бұрын
I Experienced 2 Ectopic Pregnancies And Man Those Were The Worst Feeling Ever …..But I Already Have Two Kids So I Am Still Greatful. And When You Have Ectopic Pregnancies It’s Not Your Fault And There Is Not Much Info On What Causes It.
@whitneybrown4067
@whitneybrown4067 7 ай бұрын
This is Gonna b so Insightful Bianca🔥🔥🔥👍n Happy Sunday😀….
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 7 ай бұрын
You already know 😜
@Bren-dl6sb
@Bren-dl6sb 4 ай бұрын
I cannot bring a baby in this world like that
@abriah.j6720
@abriah.j6720 3 ай бұрын
It’s selfish to bring an innocent person into this and risk their future.
@Judi_tousy
@Judi_tousy 3 ай бұрын
They protect the baby, c-section, plus she's undetectable
@zafirahhannibal8934
@zafirahhannibal8934 3 ай бұрын
​​@@abriah.j6720 so your a doctor and know about her baby? lmao do research its millions of babies born from woman with nondetectable moms. That don't have any health problems or HIV. Next time do your research cause you look very ignorant right now. And make sure you check the cdc too
@AllINeedIsMascara
@AllINeedIsMascara 3 ай бұрын
And guess what. She is not you so she can do what she wants, there are ways for women to still have kids while being hiv positive and their children never gets it. U telling her not to live her life as a normal person because u been brainwashed and programmed to think once a person gets this disease their life should be over. If she was able to have and carry a baby and the baby came out healthy it’s was God will.
@AllINeedIsMascara
@AllINeedIsMascara 3 ай бұрын
Go have some kids first stfu. N if you got kids go focus on yours bastards because I’m sure you not married and make sure they don’t end up with it neither 🌝🥳
@PandaHead602
@PandaHead602 3 ай бұрын
They care about the health of the baby the baby is the most important thing…
@123paramorefan
@123paramorefan 3 ай бұрын
These hospitals can be so cruel and evil, these nurses and doctors can be so heartless I’ve seen it myself. Not to dismiss the king caring nurses , but she. labor and delivery in a hospital is traumatizing
@anechoiccoffee1137
@anechoiccoffee1137 6 ай бұрын
Im an ultrasound tech sorry she told you that. We cannot see a gestational sac that soon but there are other things she could have looked for. She was either a student or new. 😢
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 6 ай бұрын
It felt so surreal ❤️‍🩹 I'm thankful there are people like you in the field. You are definitely needed! 🩷
@hallbatson9271
@hallbatson9271 7 ай бұрын
Great audio 😊
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 7 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@luckap79
@luckap79 7 ай бұрын
Good audio and video quality!!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! That actually means so much to me!
@luckap79
@luckap79 7 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ salute 🫡
@divineblue1277
@divineblue1277 17 күн бұрын
I took depo for a year and couldn’t get prego again for like 5 years but my baby boy was also meant to be born when he did ❤ my grams has hiv since 89 I secretly knew as a child I would always pray for her she confessed to me when I was 16 nobody knew I knew I was just very aware of everything and literally heard everything ppl said. She wasn’t supposed to live as long as she did according to the doctors. My grams still alive and undetected I’m extremely greatful to God 😊
@RYP916
@RYP916 Күн бұрын
You are amazing and strong. It's cool that you have a partner who loves you. It made me happy knowing you had the support of your mom and guidance. God bless your beautiful family!
@stepcollazo8134
@stepcollazo8134 3 ай бұрын
I know this has nothing to do wth yr hiv story but yr curls are popping..what do u use for yr hair!…
@mc1618
@mc1618 4 ай бұрын
You’re in nyc? What hospital is this?
@tatianasantiago3296
@tatianasantiago3296 5 ай бұрын
I feel so much pain and sadness I had an abortion when I found out I had it and then I think of what of the pregnancy was already infected with the virus
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 5 ай бұрын
My heart breaks for you 💔...how are you feeling now?
@tatianasantiago3296
@tatianasantiago3296 5 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ still depressed they asked me if I knew I had it and I said no had it for a year without knowing
@lakeishagolf1371
@lakeishagolf1371 3 ай бұрын
I’m happy you where able to conceive but trying to breastfeed is a bit selfish the good always have its bad just do your research because a mom went to jail after breastfeeding her baby even while being undetectable and the baby got it. The blessing is the Baby that alone is something to be grateful for breastfeeding is a desire which I get it by why even risk it? I’m for HIV people having babies but on the nursing side plus mother side if I was ever positive I wouldn’t even think about breastfeeding the internet is only going to show the good outcomes but their has been cases where women have been undetectable and taking their meds through out their entire pregnancy and the child still comes out positive just because they aren’t broadcasting it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Everybody deserves to have kids but be understanding of your child ijs
@charitycobb4854
@charitycobb4854 3 ай бұрын
Right why even risk it ! YOU know your infected detectable or not that’s crazy to try to give your child any of your bodily fluids! And what happens if the guy breaks up with her so he goes an spread it to the next person?! Or does he just keep getting check ups to make sure he don’t catch it ?!sex is not that serious .I would only be committed to God at this point . A year later having unprotected sex is negligent . I’m sure the guy that infected her felt fine about having unprotected sex too after he was diagnosed . really have to just protect yourself out here 😢 people play with HIV like it’s a joke ! It’s sickening to me this tells the youth it’s ok to be reckless with the temple god gave you and continue the reckless behavior but it can actually cost your life an should be taking seriously and with caution . I understand she gives people who is infected hope but this message is so wrong
@mauveletteburchell606
@mauveletteburchell606 3 ай бұрын
She's selfish. It's all about her desire. That's why she's in this situation. I don't believe alot of what she says. Her attitude towards this disease is distasteful and she need to learn how to send a positive effect on the topic of HIV. She's doing a disservice to the health community.
@martychambers8927
@martychambers8927 2 ай бұрын
​@@charitycobb4854 he doesn't the disease she says
@dayah4105
@dayah4105 2 ай бұрын
It's 2024 y'all, get it together and so being ignorant. Educate yourself. They have medication partners can take to avoid getting HIV, on top of her medication. PREP being one of them
@BigC1290
@BigC1290 3 ай бұрын
🤢🤮😩 Kingface really had no chill
@huneee4750
@huneee4750 4 ай бұрын
Wow 😮😮
@123f89
@123f89 3 ай бұрын
What milk milk did you plan on giving instead of the Similac, please let me know
@bookiea3918
@bookiea3918 3 ай бұрын
yes, i'm curious too
@yabesthealth8889
@yabesthealth8889 3 ай бұрын
wow.. so did your baby contact HIV?
@mauveletteburchell606
@mauveletteburchell606 3 ай бұрын
It seems like it. To the way she's giving bits and pieces of her story, I think she's not telling the entire truth of what happened to that baby. She said if ever she has another baby she will breastfeed, it sounds like the baby got it and pass on🤔...she's nothing actually saying what became of that baby...
@Denzelswife-rb7qz
@Denzelswife-rb7qz 5 ай бұрын
God is a healer !!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 5 ай бұрын
Let me pls!
@AyoGemini
@AyoGemini 3 ай бұрын
I gotta watch another video before i comment
@Bren-dl6sb
@Bren-dl6sb 4 ай бұрын
But congratulations to you both
@hallbatson9271
@hallbatson9271 7 ай бұрын
I'm very happy 😊for you
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 7 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😃
@jamesdecius122
@jamesdecius122 5 ай бұрын
I’m love your story and the bravery you show by sharing with us. ❤ you are so lovely. However, I’m still trying to understand why you were so willing to breastfeed the baby even after the doctor/nurses suggested that there maybe a chance that the baby could get affected with the virus? I would think that you would be more appreciative to do so.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 5 ай бұрын
Yes because the chances of me giving my daughter HIV is if became detectable by stopping my meds and even then, the other layer of protection was the fact that they were pumping here with antiretrovirals the first 3 months of her life. The is always a possibility anyone can get hiv- it was be a 0% possibility it would have been from me though.
@CourtneyHaylock-jy4ei
@CourtneyHaylock-jy4ei 2 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@adrianwillis66
@adrianwillis66 3 ай бұрын
Good luck to guys. Tey Dr. Sebi formulas. Maybe she can be cured.
@kimbermichelle3922
@kimbermichelle3922 3 ай бұрын
Looney!
@NandyGabor
@NandyGabor 4 ай бұрын
So do your husband have HIV as well ? A bit confused
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 4 ай бұрын
why do you feel confused?
@NandyGabor
@NandyGabor 4 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ because he’s wasn’t the one that gave it to you right ? And I’m guys had a baby . So does that mean he has it too ?
@NandyGabor
@NandyGabor 4 ай бұрын
You *
@SxyGrl44
@SxyGrl44 4 ай бұрын
Good question.... does he? Just asking.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 4 ай бұрын
@@NandyGabor he is HIV- I can have unprotected sex and not transmit the virus. This video answers those questions a bit better. kzbin.info/www/bejne/j3mQo3-cgducZpYsi=ah0vqGHtwA0H-yvU
@anniemae9519
@anniemae9519 3 ай бұрын
So she gone have more kids oh God
@user-bc8np8wl9r
@user-bc8np8wl9r 3 ай бұрын
Shut the fuck up yo momma should of swallowed yo dumb ass the nerve of you to pass judgement.
@corymatthews6778
@corymatthews6778 2 ай бұрын
@@user-bc8np8wl9rdamn! You went off 😂😂😂
@aniadzieniszewski8655
@aniadzieniszewski8655 2 ай бұрын
Idk I like your videos and I feel terrible about what has happened to you. However as a mother I cannot wrap my head around why you or any mother would even consider placing her child in danger just to say I breastfed my baby and I have HIV. 🤯 Come For Me!!!!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 2 ай бұрын
Because im not placing her in any danger
@aniadzieniszewski8655
@aniadzieniszewski8655 2 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ to each its own
@aniadzieniszewski8655
@aniadzieniszewski8655 2 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ it would have been too much risk for me to take. The more videos I watch of yours I see that you take risks not only with your life but also your daughter. If my body was sick and not 100% I would not try to “share” or “spread” the things it produces to my offspring no matter how tiny the risks were. Sometimes pushing the envelope unnecessarily doesn’t lead to anything good. Speak with your daughter when she’s an adult and see what her views on it will be. Unfortunately I’m with the hospital 100% I also don’t understand where is your fiancé in all of this being ok with risking his daughter’s life.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 2 ай бұрын
@@aniadzieniszewski8655 my body isnt sick and I am at a 100%- that's why misinformation is so dangerous. What about me having HIV makes me "sick"? Where is the risk in breastfeeding. Please, tell me.
@Brooksenvelope1234
@Brooksenvelope1234 2 ай бұрын
Pls let's call a thing what it is. HIV is a disease and a communicable one at that. What does this mean a disease is a deviation from the normal body's health which makes you sick. So a disease is a sickness. You can't say you are not sick when you have HIV. regardless of how 'healthy' you seem.
@alexandraking6963
@alexandraking6963 3 ай бұрын
U are very brave… Question is your fiancé positive or in a treatment? If not how can be avoid any transmission? I wounder because I know someone that is positive and thanks God made a family husband and 3 kids but of course no everybody is open to speak about this serious topic.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
He is negative. I am undetectable therefor unable to transmit the virus to him
@rainbowradian1
@rainbowradian1 3 ай бұрын
No one gets it as long as they on medication .
@mauveletteburchell606
@mauveletteburchell606 3 ай бұрын
​@@rainbowradian1really, please. Things can change in a split second and then what? This is the body we are talking about and medications are not 💯% will remain effective as one might think.
@amyamarie9615
@amyamarie9615 17 күн бұрын
Give me your curly hair routine we have the same texture 🙂
@Sgrbrownin
@Sgrbrownin 2 ай бұрын
I think you need a lot of therapy your stories are very confusing and sounds like you trauma bond. Please get help it will make you a better person much less mom.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 2 ай бұрын
Okay 💕
@Alexandria.Washington
@Alexandria.Washington Ай бұрын
I know. Why would someone stay with a person who r8ped them, gave them hiv? Then get pregnant by them, while unmarried. Your mother should be teaching you some values and morals.
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ Ай бұрын
@@Alexandria.Washington you are confused, misled, and hurt. Yet I did nothing to you.
@gailainsley6939
@gailainsley6939 3 ай бұрын
I don’t get how women like this still manage to get a husband lol and then guys try to make it seem like if we aren’t ’wifed up’ something is wrong with us. Yet.. I don’t understand 😅
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
Those are 2 separate statements but if you want a husband, ask God to make you whole. Ask God to heal you and prepare you. 🩷
@rosauraruiz05
@rosauraruiz05 3 ай бұрын
Girl stop being a hater!!! 😂😂,and go get a husband,and please pray,you need God,what type of comment is this? 😒😒
@gailainsley6939
@gailainsley6939 3 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ That is exactly what it is. I am very wary of men because of stories like yours. But il try to look past it and ask for healing. Thanks for sharing your experience 🙏🏽
@Gisellej80
@Gisellej80 3 ай бұрын
😮
@vicvic2081
@vicvic2081 Ай бұрын
Can I hired you ? I have a test coming and can't go by myself. I'm scared. I'm in NYC
@kingjohn3480
@kingjohn3480 Ай бұрын
You got this
@Bren-dl6sb
@Bren-dl6sb 4 ай бұрын
Why would you wanna give her your Breast Milk that was kinda weird But anyway congrats 🎉🎉 flowers for you both..
@awitness7103
@awitness7103 4 ай бұрын
Why would you willingly risk another child for your own gratification? G-d is making an example of all our lives? already! fire sign? Trust in God or horoscopes it can't be both, God purifies us from rebellion and stubbornness. Have you suffered all this in Vain? He that has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin!1 Peter 4 :1-5 God is love and he also correct in Lovet. Mark 16: 16! He that believes and is baptized will be saved. He that does not believe will be dammed. EXODUS 15: 26
@Journeyofthehouse
@Journeyofthehouse 3 ай бұрын
PLEASE READ THE bible b cuz clearly you think that everything you do is giving glory to GOD,, and the ppl who agree with you don't know the Word of GOD either,, girl,,,, Stop playing with God,, they ain't going to say it,,,, bible clearly talks about messing around with mediums and divination, etc,,, like nothing you are doing is glorifying God,,, wow,,
@awitness7103
@awitness7103 3 ай бұрын
@@Journeyofthehouse Exodus 15:26
@awitness7103
@awitness7103 3 ай бұрын
2 Timothy 2:19
@awitness7103
@awitness7103 3 ай бұрын
Titus 1 :16
@awitness7103
@awitness7103 3 ай бұрын
Deuteronomy 32:39
@slender9221
@slender9221 5 ай бұрын
Imagine having HIV and trying to conceive. Quite selfish, as that could bring immense suffering for a child. I don’t care what anyone says, this is a selfish act. Undetectable or not
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 5 ай бұрын
No need to imagine ☺️ I did it once and I might just do it twice! 🥰🤸🏽‍♀️🤭
@slender9221
@slender9221 5 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_, Better you than me🙂. Take care
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 5 ай бұрын
@@slender9221 I wouldn't want to be you if someone gave me a million dollars and cured me from HIV. 😊
@slender9221
@slender9221 5 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_, Go take your meds sis, wouldn’t want to miss a dose🙃
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 5 ай бұрын
@@slender9221 🥱
@johnishadorsey2717
@johnishadorsey2717 28 күн бұрын
So you didn’t give the new guy hiv or how does that work I’m Kinda lost 😢
@crisssyyy_
@crisssyyy_ 22 күн бұрын
Things have advanced, and there is medication that you can take to not pass it on to your partner and the baby while pregnant.
@Boob_ular
@Boob_ular 19 күн бұрын
Women can't pass HIV. LOOK IT UP.
@TheDammurphy9
@TheDammurphy9 8 күн бұрын
@@Boob_ular I once heard someone say that. They said if a man got hiv it wasn’t from sex with a woman.
@Azahria01
@Azahria01 Күн бұрын
Stop spreading misinformation please.
@noriwilliams4637
@noriwilliams4637 3 ай бұрын
You look like Sanaa Lathan here
@LilBoSkeetE85
@LilBoSkeetE85 21 күн бұрын
Sanaa Satan 😮
@mauveletteburchell606
@mauveletteburchell606 3 ай бұрын
Is this for real🤔🤔🤔... I don't understand why you're smiling and talking so proud still having unprotected s..with your positive status 🤔. How can someone be undected in 1-2 wks🤔🤔. This stories are questionable 🤔 to me...She's so non-traulant. She doesn't care if this child is infected. The doctors know best. Please don't get God involved in this act.
@its_eboni
@its_eboni 3 ай бұрын
The word you're trying to use is "nonchalant". Also, stop being so judgmental.
@martychambers8927
@martychambers8927 2 ай бұрын
Im pretty she do care and she says the hiv us surpressed i get your point tho
@dayah4105
@dayah4105 2 ай бұрын
It's 2024, stop being so ignorant
@tatum635
@tatum635 2 ай бұрын
yall are IGNORANT. with todays medicine as long as you take your medicine you get UNDECETBEBLE. which means you cant transmit it sexually the virus is suppressed in the body. the baby wont get it and she will live a normal lifespan. magic johnson has multiple children and hes damn near 70. come on now
@roserasaa4149
@roserasaa4149 2 ай бұрын
I rarely comment in KZbin land, but for you I'll make a special exception. Listening to you speak, makes it sound as if people with HIV should just be shipped off to some deserted island, be sad and miserable, cry, never smile again and just die! Never to be seen or heard from again... No! Why should they?! Because news flash... she's not dead! She is a beautiful young woman who has made mistakes in the past, but she's 'chosen' to move on and 'live' her life and be 'happyyyyy'. That smile you're complaining about? It means ... she's happyyyyy. She found someone else who appreciates and loves her for who she is and 'not' the condition that she has. As the person above mentioned, you are extremely ignorant and hateful to this young lady. Why are you even here... don't have anything better to do? This woman stated that she did her own 'research' on being HIV positive and wanting to breast feed; because unlike you she's actually intelligent. According to The World Health Organization (WHO).... it IS possible, as long as the mother continues to take her medications appropriately, which this woman is doing! Why are you trying to make it sound as if she's out her trying to harm/kill her own baby?! Just from watching her videos and actually 'listerning' to her (try that some day.... the listening I mean) she is all about going to the doctor, listening to her body, and seeking treatment when she's not feeling well. She's responsible like that, she would never hurt her own child. The fact that you are here on her channel insinuating that is appalling! Get educated people, don't just spew hate. www.who.int/news-room/questions-and-answers/item/hiv-aids-infant-feeding-and-nutrition
@Lorensempiree
@Lorensempiree 5 ай бұрын
Yeah it depends… I got induced with my daughter and I was 1-2 centimeters for 2 days and I was in labor for 5 days. With my son I was 1 centimeters for 1 month lol no pain no nun , I got the steroids shot ..when my water broke at home I went in and they induced me and in 9hrs time he was born almost had a emergency c-section
@naomigetachew7214
@naomigetachew7214 5 ай бұрын
You h to make all research when you make a choice to have a child
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 5 ай бұрын
Exactly- yet some things you only learn from first hand experience, which is why i am sharing my story
@Bren-dl6sb
@Bren-dl6sb 4 ай бұрын
ITS NOT FUNNY WHY YOU LOL
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 4 ай бұрын
Are you okay?
@Bren-dl6sb
@Bren-dl6sb 4 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ IM JUST FINE GIRL AND YOU...
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 4 ай бұрын
@@Bren-dl6sb Im LOLOLOL 😛
@zafirahhannibal8934
@zafirahhannibal8934 3 ай бұрын
It's scary that people are so dumb to research and learning about things they know nothing about😂 it's sad and they have google on their phones . lmao I cant
@shalom744
@shalom744 3 ай бұрын
Please do not deceive people she was praying and confessing and all and now she's back to her former ife that she regretted she had. Why do u people like hiding behind religion/ faith?
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
What are you talking about? Can you please explain?
@Ms.ChristaVictoria
@Ms.ChristaVictoria 3 ай бұрын
God was by your side when intentionally trying to conceive while not being married? You are telling people that God was supporting your decision. This is not what the original poster is referring to but I will let them explain that although I know exactly what they are saying!
@shalom744
@shalom744 3 ай бұрын
@MyUndetectableLife you Saif you are now a true Christian, and then you sleep with a guy before marriage and conceive. What kind of religion allows you to do that. When did God say that it's ok to have sex or have kids out of wedlock?
@shalom744
@shalom744 3 ай бұрын
@@Ms.ChristaVictoria right. That's what I am saying. Her words and actions contradict.
@mauveletteburchell606
@mauveletteburchell606 3 ай бұрын
Totally agree. They always try to put God in their sinful mess and think it's funny. I hope these men that are watching look out for deceiving women like her.
@PandaHead602
@PandaHead602 3 ай бұрын
Depo provera?? That’s birth control
@vonda9117
@vonda9117 3 ай бұрын
You asking as being funny or you really don’t know that depo shots is birth control? It lasts about 3 months and makes you gain weight.
@jstartech2812
@jstartech2812 3 ай бұрын
You put the baby in danger just for your ego. Foolish wicket woman.
@silentnight3235
@silentnight3235 3 ай бұрын
Wicket you know. Beyond wicked.
@damselola7719
@damselola7719 3 ай бұрын
What! This is so mean
@I_Am_Enlighten
@I_Am_Enlighten 3 ай бұрын
It’s sad that pretty beautiful women would have something like this. No weapon form against us shall prosper. Jesus is a healer he will protect us from disease of demons 🙏🏾
@user-gennevive
@user-gennevive 3 ай бұрын
😡
@I_Am_Enlighten
@I_Am_Enlighten 3 ай бұрын
@@user-gennevive?
@user-gennevive
@user-gennevive 3 ай бұрын
@@I_Am_Enlighten it nt wat she wish but since it as happened she can't kill herself it can happen to anyone
@I_Am_Enlighten
@I_Am_Enlighten 3 ай бұрын
@@user-gennevive true she just doesn’t deserve it
@user-gennevive
@user-gennevive 3 ай бұрын
@@I_Am_Enlighten no one deserves it but when it happens you just have to live ur normal life and besides it does not make u different from those that are negative u can still live a normal life and even get married to a negative partner with out infecting them the only problem is that there is so much stigma when it cums to HIV which really need to stop
@LilBoSkeetE85
@LilBoSkeetE85 21 күн бұрын
Thanks for making me celibate again. Fellas stay say out here. Don't get killed sweetie trusting them meds. Everyone ain't tryna hear that undectable shit.
@chantelleallen6146
@chantelleallen6146 20 күн бұрын
Learn how to spell
@claudiaalvarado2802
@claudiaalvarado2802 20 күн бұрын
First of all the person who infected her with the virus was a fella ! Y’all dudes be not using protection when having sex & say “naw I don’t got none” and get defensive when asked if you got tested because y’all don’t want to look “weak” .. don’t judge her because of what happened to her the dude knew he was positive and she didn’t !
@LilBoSkeetE85
@LilBoSkeetE85 20 күн бұрын
@@claudiaalvarado2802 they both wrong. However, her mental is clearly thrown off. This ain't about men v women sweetheart. It's about doing the right thing. You don't think her behavior Is questionable? The dude king face is pure evil too. He's with is father 👿 🔥 now
@goddessb582
@goddessb582 11 сағат бұрын
​@@LilBoSkeetE85agreed.
@kevinwhyte5788
@kevinwhyte5788 3 ай бұрын
There is hope in getting heal from that virus I’m introducing you to a man of God. And God will restore your health through him in the name of Jesus, I wasn’t sure about this I wouldn’t be wasting my time writing this, His name is Pastor Alph Lukau
@adewoleomololaanthonea6889
@adewoleomololaanthonea6889 3 ай бұрын
Fake
@rosierb852
@rosierb852 3 ай бұрын
I’m not judging but there are people with HIV getting engaged and married and I’m healthy, beautiful, and no kids, never been promiscuous nor a party girl who want to get married and I keep running into abusive narcissist. Maybe men like playing with danger of maybe I have to be a narcissistic, jezelbel party, club hopping girl to get married
@candygirl9923
@candygirl9923 3 ай бұрын
No you just need to wait on God and it’ll happen
@Love-Fashion-Makeup
@Love-Fashion-Makeup 3 ай бұрын
It may be because you’re a judgmental weirdo. Why do you clearly believe those people don’t deserve those things but you do? Just because you’re HIV negative? You’re probably insufferable and annoying that could be why.
@joliesroom9472
@joliesroom9472 3 ай бұрын
You reek of desperation. That’s why.
@gailainsley6939
@gailainsley6939 3 ай бұрын
This was exactly what I said. Almost all these hiv girlies have partners then men want to act like those that are single have the issue? 🤔 I don’t think so. 😂 I think they just take whoever they can at this point and if you don’t have too high of a standard, you are good to go 😅
@Ntuthu28_M
@Ntuthu28_M 3 ай бұрын
God knows your heart...
@SarcasmWelcome
@SarcasmWelcome 3 ай бұрын
Marriage or you will continue to spread it
@rainbowradian1
@rainbowradian1 3 ай бұрын
She is on medication she cannot spread it to anyone
@anniemae9519
@anniemae9519 3 ай бұрын
We don’t know that that med don’t always work
@supwhatsupdudes
@supwhatsupdudes 3 ай бұрын
I wouldn't trust someone wreckless enough to catch the virus to maintain a medication protocol without any missed days. Playing with fire here.@@rainbowradian1
@aniadzieniszewski8655
@aniadzieniszewski8655 2 ай бұрын
NARCISSIST!!!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 2 ай бұрын
Why are you so mad?
@aniadzieniszewski8655
@aniadzieniszewski8655 2 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_ see 👇
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 2 ай бұрын
@@aniadzieniszewski8655 see what?
@Alexandria.Washington
@Alexandria.Washington Ай бұрын
I agree. Desperate.
@ceebee8899
@ceebee8899 Ай бұрын
I knew, i knew, i knew it was going to be a BM.... I knew it!😂😂😂😂😂
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ Ай бұрын
Bitter bitter bitter 😂
@DontayLong
@DontayLong 3 ай бұрын
Congratulations
@KennethPriceRainfordIII
@KennethPriceRainfordIII 2 ай бұрын
Divaprolex Depakote it keeps clean but it hard to control.
@callingyou6944
@callingyou6944 3 ай бұрын
So sad!🥺😩😭a baby that will suffer!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
So ignorant, because of comments like these I do what I do
@zafirahhannibal8934
@zafirahhannibal8934 3 ай бұрын
It's said that people commit with out knowing anything. 😂😂😂 Its sad that alot of babys arent breast feed because of the old world thinking. And the have issues from that fake milk. Please do your research you can get HIV and not Know it. So be careful what you say God is watching😊
@katrinabryant9873
@katrinabryant9873 3 ай бұрын
​@@Bianca.Ordonez_ This comment shows how ignorant and immature you are.
@callingyou6944
@callingyou6944 3 ай бұрын
Do you plan on having more children? Please don't just think about your desires but look at the quality of life they may have. They may live a life of pure suffering! So please think of the suffering they will encounter!
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
The quality of my daughter's is better than most, praise God. If God wills it, I'll have more
@conversationswithcory3730
@conversationswithcory3730 3 ай бұрын
It's rare for a mother to pass his to her baby
@Bianca.Ordonez_
@Bianca.Ordonez_ 3 ай бұрын
@@conversationswithcory3730 bingo! 💯🎀
@user-zj7xo8gt6t
@user-zj7xo8gt6t 3 ай бұрын
@@Bianca.Ordonez_stcmadstnoaddppl
@user-wv5rv2xb6n
@user-wv5rv2xb6n 3 ай бұрын
Nasty Bit***......your daughter gonna grow up ....same shit gonna happen to her ....she gonna get AIDS ..like mother like daughter 🍎 don't fall far from the 🌲.😂😂😂😂😂😂
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