How do INTJs avoid existential nihilism? | CS Joseph Responds

[@andshesgone8685]

Congratulations. How did you type an infant? Serious question.

[@shurooqproduction]

😂😂😂😂

[@CSJoseph]

You compare them to other infants

[@piyush4left]

@@CSJoseph does your intj child display a death stare.. Does he scare you with his stare when you pet him ...

[@sherryzmezzo]

You're in a Beatles song!

[@robhughes2832]

I know, right? WTF?

[@Name-dw7nv]

INTP here. I have decided to embrace a level of asceticism or minimalism in other words. This is based on philosophy of Schopenhauer that real happiness comes from reducing pain rather than increasing happiness, which in turn increases sensibility to pain. As an INTP, this is the single hardest and most important decision I wil make in my entire life. I ask of all of you to wake up to reality; pain and futility are always at our doorstep - let them in.

[@shoeberrypie]

Schopenhauer's the GOAT I especially related to his pet peeve of drivers cracking whips on horses EVERY day as if it was a normal thing to do, all the while shattering his peace of mind For me it's TVs on in the background, lmao

[@TarzanHedgepeth]

Vanity, oh vanity… the VANITY

[@socialjunkster]

That's basically the enlightenment of Buddha. He realized that attachments are the root cause of all Dukha (pain) in life. Ascetism, in essence, means to give up attachments to things, people, social conformity for the sake of it etc. Give up trying to control or acquire everything - the more you give up on your claim to ownership over things and lessen your expectations from people the more you will find peace and balance in life. Ironically, people will be more drawn to you because of your authenticity and selfless nature.

[@thehugegnome]

@@socialjunkster Yes, but remember that Buddha was a prince before he became the Buddha. Which suggests that first you have to control or acquire everything, and only then do you give it up. Pretending like you don't want something is what the weak man does. What do you think?

[@judael5605]

​@@socialjunksterThe very reason he was allowed to be anything he wants, including "the Buddha" was because of people fighting for his existence at the frontline border where the world and human isn't so nice and all rainbows who you otherwise would think would succumb to your grandiose "peaceful" ideas and delusions. We live in hell, not in your minds silly perceived perfect world, tho I appreciate the genuity but please wake up from your dream world

[@melissawalker4093]

As an Intj I like to think that I leave my mark on the world in a positive way. I am a cake designer. I love making kids cakes. Seeing a kid smile and be grateful for their cake is amazing. I have a few customers that will come back and show me pictures of the party.

[@CSJoseph]

Sounds great!

[@gotnoname7051]

1)-door slam people who do you no good. 2)-establish you on sovereignty as a person to seek whatever you want. 3)- take responsibility to meet your own needs 4)-have personal standards. 5)- enforce personal boundaries. *You're the sun, everyone else orbits you. Not the other way around*

[@M3fg0]

how can u type ur 6-day-old-child?

[@Riiiiiingo]

behavior, he answered before

[@Riiiiiingo]

@@angelofmidnight. eh... people...

[@oussamajilaliarbaoui1981]

@@angelofmidnight. I think its much easier to identify the type of the child since the top two cognitive functions are really the most being used

[@xbarbikax]

I think that was a joke :D

[@D14MBK]

@@angelofmidnight. no, children present themselves with their subconscious, so if youre able to identify their subconscious then you can just easily know their type by knowing their ego

[@NotCJ95]

I know this is an old video so you might not answer but I was wondering why INTJs weren’t built for this society where they’re treated like cattle as you said-only because I know in Japan(INTJ) society, they’re working themselves to death. It seems a lot worse in the NTJ society than the SJ society over here. There are so many golden moments in this one! Super helpful!

[@godnot9676]

I am an Intj from india and let me tell you....being in the east doesnt stop me from being nihilistic!

[@piyush4left]

Chutiye INTJ

[@ankitkumarjha8766]

INTJ here. Shall we be friends?

[@ankitkumarjha8766]

@Chiraaksha Kalra okay, great

[@yashchhabria5259]

Hi 👋 intj here

[@FFakiha]

Me too, an INTJ chutiya

[@caocao8200]

I am 40 years old INTJ... grinding to accumulate wealth from my 20s.... no idea how I want to be remembered... but at the top of social hierarchy make me a lot happier....

[@wildhorse2084]

Feeling this to the core. Family wanted me to do one career, and I had to turn around 180 degrees to do the complete opposite. I'm still reeling from long-term effects of having to switch paths later in life, and it's hurt my chances to reach my goal, but I still made that choice and am on the right path for me.

[@bew5230]

I am 19 INTJ thankyou so much for this information I am stucking in life with depression overthinking and existencial crisis this help me alot along with your others video you are the realest! Sorry for my bad English.

[@chancesmith8141]

Perfect timing.

[@JB-qg3iw]

Same

[@freepass850]

Samee

[@spiritofadmetos9992]

Curious to know how you determine the type of a newborn?

[@SunscreenAndVitamins]

wondered the same thing. Resting Infant face?

[@louisejoel]

@@SunscreenAndVitamins Apparently I had resting proverbial face even when people went gaga .... doctors thought it was autism. The faces people pull at babies are traumatising though. I wanted to be alone from birth and the behavior around me has only reinforced that... INTP

[@BeyondSustainableLiving]

@@SunscreenAndVitamins LOL

[@oflameo8927]

I am glad someone asked asked this, because I was looking for the answer for this.

[@MRxXaeroXx]

Wow 2 INxJ sons is very interesting

[@DemiBernice]

Same thoughts 😅 I have a silent competition with an INFJ friend. Love her to the bones but also disgusted sometimes 🤣

[@fatimamarchini8622]

It would be interesting releasing a lecture about pro-Type geografic places around the world. I appreciated your hint about pro-INTJ japan

[@GetYossedLol]

yes that was cool to know. i hope he does it

[@firebirdwillgaming4193]

Hm... some very interesting points you say in this video. Funnilly enough my dad is an ESTP and I´ve always thought Japan would be the perfect place for me as an INTJ to live.

[@Entyipo]

On your website Chase it says Dalai Lama is an ENFJ but in the video you say he is an INTJ?

[@zahrazar9974]

The real question here is which Dalai Lama. I think he typed the last one.(the 14th)

[@CSJoseph]

He’s ENFJ, I used the wrong person

[@BeyondSustainableLiving]

@@CSJoseph Thanks for the correction. I was wondering about that. LOL

[@A.J.Breadman]

Whoa whut?! Railgun was pregnant?! Congradulations!

[@diyab1056]

how does he know the baby is INTJ 😯

[@A.J.Breadman]

@@diyab1056 He explained it in some member lectures. Basically, he compares how they act around other babies/adults

[@diyab1056]

@@A.J.Breadman is that accurate? So doesn't it change until the age of 7, where the personality stabilizes? plus babies are kinda hard to type but I like trying anyway, like I was just with 2 adorable babies and the one really liked me and every time he'd see me he'd come over and grab my clothes and pull me over to what he was doing, he had just learnt to walk, and the other one didn't like me and would just cry 😂

[@A.J.Breadman]

@@diyab1056 Yeah, babies are really hard but, Chase has a decade+ of experience Chase no longer subscribes to the Quadra Shift theory. His current thinking is that children are extremely subconscious focused until adolescence, when their parent function starts to develope

[@diyab1056]

@@A.J.Breadman yeah his method seems accurate if only because he knows me/INTJs so well yet has never met me personally, but can discern more about my personality than most childhood friends can about me 😅 So there has to be a lot of truth to his method right, maybe he can legit type an infant. Will probably only be sure when the child grows up.

[@ifonlyunu994]

This is a great question. I noticed INTJs are in the dumps because they always see the end. 21:57-22:35 well said. thank you.

[@LockyGaminglp]

Gosh I needed this. I Almost want to cry now.

[@MRxXaeroXx]

How the hell do you type a 6 day old baby lol??

[@Entyipo]

Day

[@ozziwar]

I came here to ask just that question lol

[@اللهمأعنيعلىذكركوشكركوحسنع-ك6غ]

I wish it’s 6 years but he said 6 days! I want to know too

[@Entyipo]

@@MarkyMark2177 Really? That can't be true.

[@Entyipo]

@@MarkyMark2177 What type was it?

[@underwaterpanther]

I was raised by Catholics in a private school etc. My intj dad was the first to leave the church in the family.

[@gheorghitaalsunculitei9146]

Did he typed his newborn?How?

[@Kamir530]

he didnt type them. he forces them to become certain mbti types otherwise orphanage

[@00Klingon]

My experience with Japan was incredibly SJ focused, more than most places. There's a saying there: "The nail that sticks out will be hammered down". There are some incredibly passive aggressive tendencies to get people to conform and it's such a problem that young male suicides are a real issue there. That's not to say there aren't lots to love there and you can certainly find sub-cultures that are very intuitive friendly there (as you can in most places). Keep in mind, if you are a foreigner, you will benefit from the bigotry of lowered expectations so you will be granted a larger leeway in your actions than if you look native, especially if you appear to be honestly trying to be respectful to their culture. Live there long enough though and those expectations may shift, and you could find yourself a nail that needs hammered down. -- good video BTW, I especially appreciated the documentary recommendations. Very interesting.

[@huda-ih9mz]

Is this true for INFJs too? I was able to get out of my first existential nihilism thanks to the attention/help of an ISFJ Si hero, and I'll always be grateful to him. On my second existential nihilism phase I was able to get out of it by myself, by finding my true Ni purpose, something that gives me that heroic happiness and engages both my Ni and Se (basically, from studying a degree that I wasn't passionate about, I fell into depression and hopelessness, but then because I didn't want to give up I tried to do something new and that new thing became my purpose and happiness 🥰) Don't give up, it gonna be painful but don't give up, move and move till you get where you want to, try the tortoise method even, but don't give up

[@ma6542]

Thank you . I am an INFJ and needed to hear this .

[@CSJoseph]

It half applies because they share exactly half the same cognitive functions in the same slots.

[@D14MBK]

Probably wouldn't apply as much since INFJs are affiliative and are more accepted as a result

[@haroldtan7806]

I... relate to this video a lot, and i don't think i need to doubt my INFJ-ness since again same hero functions

[@rachelslotemaker712]

Thank you for taking the time to do this!

[@salehlarsenal5253]

A couple of years later when Chase discovers his son is actually an ESFP: "Either he is stuck in his subconscious or somebody did cast a black magic spell on him."

[@CSJoseph]

uh oh must be time to call in the white magic users

[@CSJoseph]

The audience typed the bonsai tree, not me

[@KallutoZoldyck]

Japan as a pro INTJ society. Holy shit that hit me, I've recently been thinking about wanting to live there. This video is smacking down at the things I've been thinking, I appreciate it.

[@skillmeup53]

Anywhere else we can go? We need a shortlist.

[@infdox9051]

No, wrong. Most rule-based society ever.

[@hobbyspacebyaadya]

I have an ESFJ mom and an INFP dad. 😌 Really needed this. - INTJ here

[@BookofYAH777]

1:00 I'm INTJ and my mum is ISFP and dad is ESFJ. My brother is also INTJ and his mom is ISFJ

[@Oz_Asher]

Can other types besides INTJ and INFJ have performance anxiety? If the answer is yes than how is that exhibiting differently between the types?

[@Talmurid]

Where do you get the stock video scenes? Do you have to buy them? Also, congrats on your newborn.

[@VelesVoid]

Those other documentary recommendations pale in comparison to The Century of the Self. The World at War (1973) does a much more effective at capturing Hitler's rise and downfall and isn't written by a delusional person who thinks that we've been living under communism since 1945, though I wouldn't blame someone for not watching it due to its extensive runtime. Nonetheless, there are some pretty good gems in this video, specifically from 19:54 to 20:43. However, I don't believe some INTJs are convinced, especially existential ones, that legacy matters or affects them directly. INTJs often care about results and impact during their lives, which they could possibly occupy a mindset in order to achieve that. I would also suggest this individual to look into the philosophy of absurdism as an alternative to nihilism; though, I'm open to other suggestions!

[@CSJoseph]

The way of Diogenes is kept close

[@nmorg1616]

How does one type a 6 day old (not trying to be rude I’m just very confused and intrigued)

[@CSJoseph]

Use the type grid

[@nmorg1616]

@@CSJoseph alright I guess I had that coming lol but what is it you look for or identify in someone that young?

[@souljacem]

Congratulations to your newborn my friend. I hope and wish your child blessings and love for his life. May you give the things you‘ve wished to receive as a child, and more, now as a responsible father

[@اللهمأعنيعلىذكركوشكركوحسنع-ك6غ]

Omg how did you know that your son is an intj

[@lodestar_prime]

Wow....the guy who posted the question, thank you soo much & I would like to thank C.S Joseph for his advice. Let's leave a mark INTJ's 🔥☠️

[@sagaxion7455]

Absolutely!

[@freepass850]

I'M MOVING TO JAPAN!

[@AgustinaNaldiSenk]

Why did he mention Japan?

[@FIREBREATH1001]

And Im coming with you

[@freepass850]

@@AgustinaNaldiSenk Bc it's an "intj like" society

[@freepass850]

@@FIREBREATH1001 😊😊😊

[@freepass850]

@@big-gloom it's hella abstract. And I think a country does not work like a human being so it can have multiple personalities with the istj included but I think that the intj it's predominant

[@missphilosophie]

My Councilor recommended I drop my family and friends for a year last month. It has literally saved my life.

[@personalitytypology4373]

First of all, congrats on the new member of the family. Having more NTs in the world helps a lot. Secondly, as en ENTJ female that suffered most of the problems mentionned (in family/country/culture) I thank you for your input because it applies to me as well. It would be a great discussion to have in close circle as well. As a HR prof, I would love to spend a weekend/week on every single sentence you stated here. I would also like to hear your opinion on the difference of INTJ/ENTJ Fe expression/understanding/reception. And last but not least, I follow you for years now and even if sometimes you become the pill that is hard to swallow, I sincerely thank you for your effort.

[@almogkorenmusic]

FROM ALL THE KZbin CHANNELS, I THINK THAT THIS IS THE ONE I LIKE THE MOST.

[@deepavedartham8547]

Congrats Chase and Railgun on becoming parents!! Great and informative video as usual!! Although u mentioned Dalai Lama as INTJ, on your website its stated Dalai Lama as ENFJ. I remember you typing him as ENFJ as well.

[@CSJoseph]

I meant Siddartha, sorry

[@Hybe123]

Yes, and he was pretty hasty about it too.

[@alexsantana3588]

You typed your 6 days old baby? ... BTW, congratulations!

[@sophie8466]

Thanks for this video a lot!

[@webkelpie]

Being tagged was not your choice, but following the cow in front…

[@CSJoseph]

Well said

[@infdox9051]

Good point about the random gene therapy they manipulated us into calling a vagzine. -INTJ

[@infdox9051]

We INTJs are paranoid for a reason!

[@jeromeblacq7528]

Hi @C.S. Joseph, how do guard against the dangers of categorical thinking, when profiling people daily

[@CSJoseph]

We are all at risk of making assumptions or prejudgments

[@ozzk1996]

Who is your favourite INTJ?

[@robhughes2832]

Plus, like, what's with waving the knife around all the time. That's not friendly! That's surely an aggressive subconscious statement.

[@TheEarthlyAlien]

this video dropped precisely when I needed it in my life.

[@amiracamille9223]

Hello , how can an Estj father and an Isfj mother help an INFJ daughter to grow correctly and can they really increase her Si demon ?

[@CSJoseph]

I did a lecture on how to parent ESTJs in the members area that goes into detail.

[@amiracamille9223]

@@CSJoseph thank you i really respect ✊ your job !

[@Quraishy]

How can you know that a new born is an intj 🤔

[@CSJoseph]

I am that good.

[@Quraishy]

@@CSJoseph how do we classify a child.

[@ladmed1740]

I did your test and I legit get different answer every time. It makes no sense.

[@CSJoseph]

Usually that means the person is trying to go in order. The test only requires 3-4 answers to get your type. skip and only answer questions you are 100% certain of. If you don't have 3-4 of those, ask people who know you best for feedback.

[@fatimashahid7649]

I am INTJ my fiancé is also an INTJ. Having depression and existential nihilism is so accurate. I am also clinically depressed

[@Thilosophocl3s]

Wow. Well done, well said.

[@GearsDemon]

This is scarily accurate to my situation as well, minus the religious aspects. Very helpful and empowering even. Thank you very much.

[@intj1782]

I needed this!

[@slittingsoviets33]

6:00 LETS GO I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL EVEN MORE NOW

[@joni-nv3el]

can you do more video on intp you just dont talk on this personly a lot man it frustrating

[@cmb9493]

Crazy how ESTP's birth INTJ's and visa versa. With me as an INTJ though, my dad is an ESFP and my mom is surprisingly an INFP.

[@francgo]

comedy is a good tool for intjs--people don't like our negativity but they are more receptive when we infuse some kind of humor into it.

[@yd2847]

Do you have more documentaries to recommend like the 3 you mentioned? Especially ones like 'the century of the self' and 'the greatest story never told'?

[@boskonikolic8961]

Hey C.S. Joseph, I was wondering what your thoughts were on Bruce Lee and what type he was ( I remember you said he was a fellow ntp). Also, I'm rather curious about your thoughts on Musashi and his type. Many say that he's an istp, cause of his physical prowess, but he always talked about what you should do, and duty and honor, so he doesn't really seem like an Se user.

[@CSJoseph]

ENTP, and I have yet to read the book of 5 rings

[@boskonikolic8961]

@@CSJoseph Very well. I suggest you read it, as it is very short, and very insightful. Thanks for all the useful info, keep it up

[@zile8869]

Hey Chase, When is season 18 episode 13 gonna be emailed out? I'm pretty sure you've already done the live stream cause I saw the 'join us live' email for members over 15 days ago, but still haven't got the link for the 'public' email yet... Just curious to know what's going on...

[@aishaadam7473]

When i was an infant i used to cry a lot as i was told and i am intp that silent most of the time so how do you type an infant?

[@CSJoseph]

Put them next to other infants and compare.

[@violet6507]

Insightful, much appreciated

[@BeyondSustainableLiving]

Wait, I thought you said your wife is an ENFJ (in another video), not ESTP. Is this a different wife or was she just mistyped? For the record, I'm an INTJ with an INFJ Mother and ENTJ father. My brother is ISTP.

[@CSJoseph]

Wife is an ESTP, ENFJ ex gf

[@BeyondSustainableLiving]

@@CSJoseph Ahhhh, yep I must have been watching older videos. Thanks!

[@alexsantana3588]

I've seen the greatest story never told ... thought provoking.

[@skillmeup53]

Could you add the watch/read list to your description?

[@jacobwiren8142]

All life is in competition with other life. Even the trees and grass are trying to kill each other. You can either view this as a glorious competition, where each of us puts everything on the line to prove ourselves, or you can be miserable for your entire life.

[@louisejoel]

I've done some companion planting as a gardener in my past. It was a very amazing garden and not much work. Wish I wore a wider brimmed hat and wore gloves with the nettle and hops.

[@stacyelaine5799]

Amen! Excellent presentation! Thank you for your time, I need that!

[@gotnoname7051]

If he's born just six days ago, how do you know he's gonna be an intj? Or he's actually an intj?

[@CSJoseph]

Yup INTJ confirmed.

[@nataliewantscookies]

So, INTJs don't often get much attention and if they do, it's not the right kind of attention. How can an INTJ stop feeling anger, resentment, projecting, lashing out, being opportunistic, manipulative etc. in response to that? I'm currently looking into Taoism, which I know will help and relieving stress by taking a mini vaca. It's still hard though! I don't like being immature because I feel deprived.

[@CSJoseph]

That answer is longer and more nuanced than a comment can cover. They are legitimate though, and I think you'd find value in a coaching session.

[@nataliewantscookies]

@@CSJoseph ​Thanks for your answer. Yeah, I've been thinking about that lately. Lol I'm mad I missed the December discount! Maybe Jay will be a good alternative. I'll give it some thought. Thanks for all you do!

[@giuseppelorisnuzzo2840]

how can infps do this aswell?

[@CSJoseph]

A good start would be hang out with Fe users that will hear you out and share your burdens.

[@sherryzmezzo]

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

[@BeyondSustainableLiving]

You typed your newborn?

[@CSJoseph]

Yes

[@infdox9051]

@@CSJoseph Brains are born with dispositions already

[@mango38628]

Yes, these are facts here. First hand experience, unfortunately. @8:00

[@argent-wolfman90]

Great video Chase 👍

[@tiffsocial1111]

Thanks. I took notes.

[@ChrispyNut]

Congrats on the latest evolution of the CSJ genes, Bro. How cool if he "remains" INTp (INTJ) Gonna be fun lives for you both in particular

[@aishaadam7473]

Do you change the personality type of your wife, i have watched your videos you mentioned ones that your is INTJ this time ESTP amd another time you mentioned another type

[@CSJoseph]

that is an ex-girlfriend and ex-wife respectively.

[@cchristiansen1985]

I totally think we’d be great friends 😂. I was dying laughing when you were ranting about your irritation with the INTJ and about your parents. Love the videos. Keep chugging along! -INTJ

[@utchihaayoub8968]

I find the first two documentary and I find the third I need link pls

[@melissawalker4093]

Congratulations!

[@CSJoseph]

Thank you!

[@DamnImG00d]

I wonder what potential career choices would suit an INTJ that would maximise their cognitive stack to achieve mastery and reach their fullest career potential to leave a lasting legacy? The constant coding/IT recommendations seems so out of place.

[@CSJoseph]

The legacy isn't necessarily IT, et al. That's just a way well suited to them to acquire the means to be able to get their legacy with.

[@CSJoseph]

Check out data science

[@DamnImG00d]

@@CSJoseph Yeaaa... I quit analytics and data science 6 months ago as I just did not enjoy the detailed mathematical coding side of it. Been travelling during Covid since then. I've been thinking life is too short to be staring at a computer screen all day working on a random-forest model.

[@infdox9051]

@@DamnImG00d Lenin was an intj

[@AgustinaNaldiSenk]

Very interesting. -INTP

[@Joey-rs7uq]

Thought I was an infp but this whole video spoke deeply to me.

[@Beyondflix]

Hey Chase, congrats on your baby boy! Happy for you. You speak about him being an INTJ. After six days I'd find it rather difficult to pin it down. I know babies communicate and you can probably assume their preferences. How are you so sure about his type? Could you maybe talk about your process there? I'd be very curious, as I can see definite preferences in toddlers but not in babies. Best, Adrian

[@Riiiiiingo]

just watch his other videos, he talked about it like 100 times already

[@maria_s3731]

Which type is most likely to not genuinely wanting to drive a car but still getting license bcuz i ain’t wanna seem inferior to my peers so i get a license i don’t plan to actively use

[@theoutlander5776]

For approximately the first 10 years of my life I could have sworn my parents thought I was gay because I never outwardly shown any interest in women..... they would never say it but you could always feel they were thinking it..... in the last six months I found out I was an intj which makes sense because our third function is f i and we don't outwardly show attraction that way (nothing like a little parental scarring). Ultimately you gotta live your own life regardless of what your peers believe of you. As far as wanting to drive, it offers immense amounts of freedom to go to more wild areas especially since there is no public transportation to truly interesting areas.

[@LockyGaminglp]

Congratulations! Must be interesting to have a golden pair child.

[@CSJoseph]

It is!

[@donells.6458]

Where can I find the greatest story never told doc?

[@MainAccount432]

Bitchute or internet archive

[@dexdalador]

Wow, I can't be thankful enough for your work sir, I've learnt so much from you, and I started gaining a lot of clarity about myself.. Thank you!

[@aishaadam7473]

One more thing your parents loves you, their way of communication may not serve you but they always wants the best for you

[@CSJoseph]

That would be ideal.

[@ayoungprince6771]

Chase man I'm not sure if this is really you replying...

[@CSJoseph]

Oh?

[@bobbyjean1581]

Congratulations and i'nteresting video. I'm ISFP and share the same functions but I don't really care about legacy (except to make sure loved ones are ok) - is this typical? I want to enjoy the now

[@CSJoseph]

Wayfarers generally want to make an impression on the world that outlasts them.

[@FIREBREATH1001]

This video is on a whole another level of motivation damnnn

[@Idyll_Insomniac]

This one dug deep

[@Hybe123]

There is a lot of truth to Greatest story never told but it's also a propaganda piece so, to anyone watching it, take it with many grains of salt. Century of the self is good. At least the first two parts, the rest is kinda meh. Aquarius - The Age of Evil, I'll put that to my watchlist.

[@DemiBernice]

Ooooo thats why I did. I left then guilted myself for being a horrible daughter because I left them, then rebuilt the relationship full force. Think it was 5-7 months. Off comms. My mom door slammed me. Lol! Discovered my best self. Never lived with them ever again. Brother question sender, fellow INTJ, do this thang. I kid you not, best decision ever made. 😎 *insert cyberpunk music*

[@ma456choz6]

Congratulations to both you and Railgun!! Thank you for answering this question, the timing is perfect. I was just realizing how necessary it is for me to put myself in a position to receive feedback, otherwise my Se-aspiration gutters out. Also, would Railgun be interested in coming onto the podcast to talk about new motherhood? You mentioned once that ESXPs worry that children will result in loss of freedom. I would love to hear Railgun's thoughts on how she came to a decision and what her experience has been like so far.