How Not To Lose Yourself In A Marriage | Tips For Marriage Success | Marriage Advice

#hownottoloseyourselfinmarriage #tipsformarriagesuccess #marriageadvice
Hey, it's Charli! Welcome to Chat with Charli. I seek to share my life experience to help black millennials go from frustrated to flourishing!
Today I share my personal tips on how to grow and flourish as an individual while you're married.
It's so easy to loose yourself in marriage or in a relationship. If you're not careful having children, being a stay at home mom or dad and other life events can take hold and before you know it you've lost yourself, and you don't know what to do.
Allow me to share 5 ways that you can stay true to you, and not loose yourself in marriage:
#1 Maintain your confidence
#2 Have a self-care routine
#3 Maintain your hobbies/gifts
#4 Build relationships with people outside of your marriage
#5 Embrace changes in your spouse and yourself
If you do these 5 things I believe that you will be well on your way from frustrated in marriage to flourishing. Marriage is not easy, and you can quickly just go with the flow and not be experiencing joy in marriage. But, there is hope.
I hope you enjoy this time of sharing.
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Xo,
Charli
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[@BeOneWithHigherSelf]

You nailed it! I did not realize until now how much I needed to hear this… Your words and wisdom are so healing and needed, thank you Goddess 🙏🏽

[@chatwithcharli4293]

It’s my pleasure, thanks for the feedback

[@ijadaarp]

Idk why this made me sad , the way I was raised really shaped the way I react in relationships and lately I don’t feel like myself and I feel alone, not even my husband can help . But this video did help with some pointer

[@chatwithcharli4293]

Thank you for sharing that feedback. Loneliness is a real thing. Counseling every week has helped me a lot. Praying you find your peace soon!

[@chatwithcharli4293]

What's poppin! I'm excited to share some tips on how I have managed to get my mind right after a brief season of feeling lost in my marriage. Becoming a parent and trying to maintain a marriage can have a big impact on a person. In this video I share my person experience, and 5 tips on how I went from frustration to functioning. You don't have to say "bye" to yourself just because you're married. It's possible for you to grow as an individual even while being married. Don't forget to drop me a comment with any questions, and subscribe!! Appreciate you! X, c!

[@beautifullyhealedroses]

Thank you.

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Thank you for your support ❤️

[@robynsturgess7495]

This deserves more views. Thank you.

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Thank you so much, please feel free to share this with others!

[@tanyanicholas5221]

Thank you Sooo much for this video. It is really so on point on where I am right now in my 25th year of Marriage. I grew up in an abusive home, then foster care, then into multiple relationships, and a nursing career, … All giving of myself, and people pleasing coping skills, that I’ve never felt comfortable in my own skin or really knowing ME. Now I’m at a crossroads, feeling a strong desire to be more of me, whatever that looks like, while staying true to my marriage. I’m not sure what parts of me to pull back to myself and what any new parts would look/feel like. Thank you. This is Great help. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

[@chatwithcharli4293]

Wow, that is so relatable, and I can see how you can feel like that. I really hope that you find clarity, and many blessings to you!! I plan on posting more soon...

[@sonjawaferbressner4749]

This was exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you love

[@chatwithcharli4293]

Thanks for tuning in, more to come

[@dirtyghettokid130]

With change and accepting it how do you not think negatively and thinking that the person is growing without you?

[@chatwithcharli4293]

Great question. The hard honest truth is, you’ve got to focus more on your growth and not theirs. It will give you a glow that will attract more positivity your way, and may even be a spark in your relationship. ❤️

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This is awesome ❤️❤️❤️

[@chatwithcharli4293]

Thanks love, I appreciate the feedback. Don’t forget to subscribe, a lot more to come 😘

[@mandymiller5677]

This was really good! And very honest. Im in my 2nd year of marriage and certainly felt a shift in what gives me joy.

[@chatwithcharli4293]

It's a very real experience. Thank you for your support!

[@candidmomentswithjenn3926]

I needed to hear this! Great content

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Thank you ❤️

[@claudinesjourney1]

Great 👍 advice 🤩

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Thank you Queen!!

[@halmlady]

1. Maintain your confidence 2. Self-care 3. Build upon your talents 4. Outside relationships 5. Embrace change