How Porn Impacts Your Love Life And Dating | Dr. Trish Leigh’s Advice

[@AVPVP]

Its not just the porn. Its also social media, self isolation, anxiety, depression, aphasia, etc

[@Corey-iw4ot]

Yes insagram and tiktok

[@bekabeka71]

And no friends! I get enough attention however it just seems like I am not bothered to go outside something is holding me back like demons

[@Corey-iw4ot]

@bekabeka71 our phones

[@KindOfSushant]

You switch to social media once you done with porn reason is your brain is seek dopamine peak again the ultimate aim of your brain is peak dopamine despite the source

[@therichbuddha3277]

@@bekabeka71 See a spiritualist and do a cleanse

[@glidden67]

Family court is what keeps me single. Just spend a day in there watch what happens to men you will be happily single forever.

[@Prince_Yonte]

I took 2 weeks off work to try to just recooperate. I was really depressed the first week, relapsed and then started reading and cleaning and slowly felt better near the end of the second week. Reading is for sure one of the best weapons against porn in our arsenal.

[@ΑντρέαςΣωτηρίου-π8γ]

Books

[@GigaChadBigW]

audio book help too?

[@Prince_Yonte]

@@GigaChadBigWI never tried audio books but I dont think theyre as helpful as physical books because your brain uses more effort to speak inside the mind when you read and you see the words. I think it buffs the mind more. As oppose to just listening with the audio book. But as long as you are not stagnant. I aint knockin it

[@KafkaStepOnMe]

@@Prince_Yontethank you so much

[@sirjiggywitit7541]

THIS CHANNEL SEEMS TO BE ABOUT BETA MALES APOLOGY TO A DOMINEERING WOMEN FOR BEING MEN...🤕

[@t.s..]

Thank you Doc for lifesaving information. Really really help me a lot. And you do this in open platform. You're the treasure for humanity

[@fadrian98]

Just hit 3 months no PMO last week. Never felt better.

[@raskarl]

good job!

[@sirslime1687]

What is pmo?

[@murlock812]

@@sirslime1687 shortcut for Porn Masturbation Orgasm

[@futballpack5597]

Pornography,masturbation and orgasm​@@sirslime1687

@@sirslime1687 PMO means “porn, masturbation, orgasm”. It's a series of events one goes through in order to orgasm from consuming any type of porn.

[@angloaust1575]

A question of compatibility Some find it early in life Others later and some never Oh well life goes on Human love unreliable Divine love eternal!

[@reticlerk3910]

A little while ago I was confused about my behavior and why I am unable to fit in social gathering, why I feel so low about myself. Now thanks this wonderful video I know why. Thanku❤

[@sirjiggywitit7541]

I TOUCH MYSELF....WITH NO APOLOGY.....I'M SO Old SCHOOL 🫠

[@suneetabhat1822]

I really love you for your valuable service.

[@portersmith1876]

I found you Dr. Leigh and just the act of clicking on the first video of your's it drove me to start working on my own porn issues and to do so I realized that I had to reach out to a local psychologist in my area. Which I did and although I'm only three sessions in with her I'm really starting to open up to her because I feel that she's providing me with a safe a nurturing therapeutic space and relationship.

[@timhiltz6323]

90 weeks 630 days without porn.

[@AlonewithAnkit]

@@timhiltz6323 How did you do it? Please help me sir.

[@valeryi3374]

@@AlonewithAnkit just stop watching porn, then you will understand that you don't need it

[@AlonewithAnkit]

@@valeryi3374 Thank you the reply, sir. I am trying the same. I am in withdrawal phase. Anxiety is running high. My heart beats fast. I am trying. I am trying sir!

[@raskarl]

excellent work! keep it up!

[@DantheJamaican]

Impressive. Is that also without sex too? Many addicts use porn due to frustration with no sex

[@cosmictreason2242]

So what I'm getting from this is paradoxically encouragement that I'm definitely not addicted

[@paulfitzpatrick6566]

Also, it’s not porn that keeps you single. As other guys have posted here, it’s the lack of decent women. If the Western woman of today dressed & conducted themselves as it was in the 40’s & 50’s, when by & large women were ladies that prioritised marriage, the climate for men & society would be a lot healthier. As it is not that way anymore, it isn’t. Personally, & I’ve got a 30yr old daughter who can be herself a handful, & she also has been single 9 years, she thinks the same as I do. I’ve given up on meeting a decent minded lady let alone any lady. Better off with my dog & my PS5.

[@chrischurch6187]

Hoeflation

[@hzskillz1721]

If there were no more men in the world women would suffer

[@paulfitzpatrick6566]

@@chrischurch6187 made me laugh 😆 but yes, excellent observation 👍

[@Cxtterz]

Great vid Doc

[@batman3217]

I'm Disabled and Broke, Porn Saved my life.

[@nosakhareanthony97]

Tf 😂

[@MadEye302]

​@@nosakhareanthony97w comment (w for wild) 😂

[@Bc999.]

Maybe then porn would protect you from a Karen that would make your life to hell and take half your money

[@radhinblitzahmed]

Then get your ass in the gym and be a guy who spends 24/7 in the gym.

[@DantheJamaican]

Is gym the solution to everything these days? It's good, but no fix all miracle cure. ​@radhinblitzahmed

[@hzskillz1721]

​@@radhinblitzahmed What for?

[@kingvegeta420]

This helped so much

[@jeremycheadle75]

How long does it take to get back to normal give or take?

[@dotsolution2357]

Im 26, 27 in 3 weeks. Im addicted for more than 15 years and I've been single for 7 years. Today is day 7 of no fap, going strong. I once made it to almost 500 days so i know i can do it, but also afraid that even after so much time, its still there: the desire for porn. I'll keep fighting, we can do this kings

[@WilliamWillis762]

500 days!? Were you levitating? Did you feel any benefits? Ive never went past 2 months

[@matthewstrauts5427]

You can do this. Do not let this destroy your life and it will.

[@dotsolution2357]

@@WilliamWillis762 i could fly and beat Thanos

[@dotsolution2357]

@@matthewstrauts5427 thanks 💪

[@samuelevander9823]

The neural pathways for porn were created a long time ago. It's there. It will always be there. Apparently those pathways cannot be unmade. Ever heard "Once an addict, always an addict?" So unfortunately, the desire for porn will always be there. What you can do about it, with neural plasticity - is to maintain as much distance you can from porn. Until the neural pathway gets weak enough and your urges get weaker. If you've been addicted for more than 15 years, your recovery will take longer than 500 days. It will take years. Actually, any semblance of full recovery of an addict will take a lifetime. Don't get discouraged, though. Since you can recover from the symptoms of porn addiction. You just have to avoid relapsing. Because consuming porn will only strengthen the neural pathways wired for porn. Starve it out & strengthen your connection with other people. Or even switch your addiction to some other form of pleasure to help you recover. In the end you'll never look back on porn because you have trained to find pleasure or purpose from other sources. P.S. Porn is evil stuff and should be banned!

[@marceloamaral1468]

Dera Dr Treach you are point out the most important in ones life the healthy relantionship and the science to leave all the darkness of dopamine dependence screem and be a happhy person again. We love you so mutch.God bless you wonferfull mission.

[@scottlondon8382]

Im not disagreeing but i think relationships are overrated anyway,shouldn't need another person to complete you

[@AnthonyWarren-o6x]

"Coffee with a potential partner" - You're living in a fantasy world Trish ! I've been "going out into the world" to find a partner for 50 years - and I've failed. Women have never taken the slightest interest in me - I've been rejected dozens of times. I've "established a healthy relationship" - with my iPad ! But that's not the reason I've never found a woman. If a woman meets a man for the first time, she has to like the look of him. There is something about me that women have never liked. For me women have come to symbolise failure - my own failure.

[@professoryecats1297]

Anthony the problem could be is, that you lack social skills. Now I am not going to say the same old thing you hear all the time and that is " there is someone out there for everybody. " However, it may appear that women don't want you, but is it possible that it is all in your head, and since you feel that way, it causes you to give off negative vibes to women? I really don't know my brother l am just asking. Maybe if you take a more positive approach, things could possibly change, who knows. Anyway take care. The Bowtie Professor!

[@michaelsix9684]

same with me, now 68, women today will reject 90% of all men, the sex drive is the second strongest drive we have, had to quit dating at 46 after 5 tries, there was no hope or payoff ahead, in college I saw few students dating this was 74-80, I know many fine men who are still single, most women today were raised to put careers ahead of marriage, men are an afterthought

[@professoryecats1297]

Michael, the tide has changed in the last two generations which are Y and Z. Just go to KZbin and put it in the phrase " women complaining that men won't date them " and you will see what l am talking about. So many women are now saying they regret " Feminism " and they complain that men just ignore them, and what is so interesting is that it is not just older women, it is the young women as well which really shocked me. Even the gym where I workout, the guys just ignore the women and will not help them re-rack their weight like they use to in the older days. As a 64 year old man I have seen a serious transformation in relationships, thanks or no thanks to the social media. Take care brother. The Bowtie Professor!

[@michaelsix9684]

@@professoryecats1297 late Kevin Samuels said men reject women today because they are a liability not an asset unlike in previous generations. I'm 68, never married, in college 50 yrs. ago I saw few students dating then, I knew something was wrong, I think it's sad and tragic for our culture -- last date I had was at 46, quit after 1 hr., dating has no payoff for men today, divorce can ruin men --saw that many times

[@DinosaurForTheWin]

Dude, they're always going to blame you.

[@nightfangs2910]

This is simply one dimensional, life for men is far more complicated than that, pornography should be avoided it not good for mind nor body but please discuss all the aspects of why men are alone, not simply the just quit porn and masterbation and all will be right as rain

[@sirjiggywitit7541]

THIS CHANNEL SEEMS TO BE ABOUT APOLOGIES FOR PLEASURE...WHICH SEEMS TO BE THE REAL ISSUE...

[@CharlesMartel829]

I stopped watching porn after I moved abroad where prostitution is legal, so instead I visit a brother a couple of times a week instead.

[@hzskillz1721]

Pause😂😂😂

[@danielnixon3294]

This does go way back i remember being a kid in the late 60s and looking at women in bras to get excited in shopping catalogues

[@davidrodda7427]

Every thing you say Dr Trish is absolutely correct, as this is what happened to me. Porn isolates you from having a relationship with another human being. Porn destroys your life, that is why it's important to give up porn. It's like any addictions, they are all consuming. I found that the Lord and Dr Trish has he me in getting a victory. I have to continue with the overcoming as it's can if I let it, it will return. I make a conservative effort to keep my mind off porn, by keeping busy with healthy things such as a hobby, and praying in the Holy Spirit with the evidence of Speaking in Tongues.

[@seeekeruv1606]

How do you get enough social skills to get a girlfriend if you are over 50 and not rich? Even if someone is interested I have a hard time because I am different than 99% of people. I can't even figure out how people think. The urges don't go away though so I try anyway. It is not so good for my esteem.

[@ahsanzaheer5636]

I love you for this piece of content❤

[@phunnypharm5883]

What do you do when you have a partner (wife) that doesn’t want to even try to work on intimacy?

[@paulfitzpatrick6566]

Show her the Red Card.

[@CitiesOfAsh]

Id start looking for a girlfriend..

[@paulfitzpatrick6566]

@@CitiesOfAsh no. If his old woman had withdrawn intimacy, she’s ceased to fulfil her part of the marriage contract. Women hate it when you get interested in other women, it’s a huge blow to their selfish ego. She would take him to court for adultery & clean him out. The best course of action is to do it himself. Immediately. End the marriage contract himself & then he can move on with his life. Free of the interference of the former wife. That’s what I did 34 years ago. And my further advice would be - be double sure not to remarry on the rebound or too soon. For me - I never remarried & now at age 61, never will. Women aren’t worth losing all that you’ve gained later in life.

[@michaelsix9684]

it's a big problem

[@piercetiralongo]

Does masturbation have these same negative effects without porn?

[@pieterb1382]

Yes

[@Dailyrider94]

@@tarangjain6 yes, she has videos on this lazy ass

[@alexisturntup03]

She nails it on the head everytime,everything she says

[@michaelserem3857]

No pun intended?

[@CGTraderX]

The #1 fear I’ve had with using porn sometimes is destroying any potential to finding a partner in real life. That’s the powerful enough reason to ditch it for me.

[@raskarl]

Is regular masturbation (without porn) really a negative thing? I thought that was teaching you what you like in terms of pleasure...

[@JimihrSean]

Yes it is

[@Justanothercog24]

It can be bad. If it's done too often, you can cause self-injury, desensitization or even lose the ability to get & keep an erection. It doesn't really teach you anything in terms of pleasure because you're only experiencing one aspect of pleasure in the same spot. I've come across a few guys since reentering the dating world who turned out to be daily porn users & they've all been completely lost in the bedroom. One guy (38 yrs old) admitted he didn't understand foreplay because "you don't really see it in porn." I learned how to enjoy sex before smartphones existed & while I was much more inexperienced, sex was much more interesting. Now? Men seem lost & robotic. They seem to want to emulate what they've seen on screen which leaves no room for just enjoying the intimacy or experience together.

[@FREEZE11850]

Its a bit boggling how many sides of the whatever dimensional coin of porn addiction you manage to hit on the head with these videos, as a 24yo single 4 years now and starting to feel like my life is quickly accelerating out of my hands and control this topic feels particularly relevant. One thing i struggle with that im sure youve spoken about before that i just havent seen the video on is, how i can get a good 2 weeks off it pretty regularly but once i relapse and binge and realise again how utterly rotten it all is AGAIN as get further away from that starting date from having had the realisation i just start to rapidly forget over the course of a week about how poignant it all felt in the moment and start to think ahh its not thaaat bad, i have faith in the long term, especially with maybe once finding a life partner i could see the rewiring process being a bit easier as the alternative isnt literally nothing, but ah just venting, thanks for continuing to put this content out there, it helps so many 🙏🙌

[@cheateriscomment23]

I swear God keeps speaking to me through Dr. Trish. I was literally recently thinking about not being able to find love, and then this video pops up in my feed. I know I may still fall to temptations every now and then (I’m only human), but I can see God is trying to help me through people like Dr. Trish. Perhaps at some point, I’ll sign up for an appointment with her (once I can afford it, but I can feel when I do, it’d be worth it).

[@Prince_Yonte]

@@cheateriscomment23 same yea. I been kinda procrastinating on doing her program. Ive been meaning to do it for some time now. Im finally finna do it though.

[@PrimeChosenOne]

Same here!! He just trying to help me put to become a way better person

[@caballerotemplario6734]

What if I am always rejected by women?

[@soundcheck2k7]

Do you work out? Do you dress nice? Do you groom yourself?

[@caballerotemplario6734]

@@soundcheck2k7 yes. And I have a good job, career, own flat, traveled, read books, do activities , sports etc...

[@soundcheck2k7]

@@caballerotemplario6734 Could be your approach. Need to show confidence and humor, that ALWAYS gets their attention no matter how u look.

[@eta_carithebrightlord3396]

​​@@soundcheck2k7 Just say looks. I have confidence and humour and basically I get nothing but friendship.

[@soundcheck2k7]

@@eta_carithebrightlord3396 move on to the next one. Once you're friend zoned, scale back and find the next one

[@sheldoncooper8199]

I must thank You 10 Times maybe 100 Times Dr Leigh You were the first Step to really Keep me going on NoFap for longer then just 21 Days. I wish Doctors arround the world would Finally realize what a serious Issue this is THIS IS the Main Issue that Effects Worldwide Birthrates and Nobody gets it.

[@BritishRail60062]

I am single via choice and I have healthy clean hobbies. I do not and never have had pron. Pron or other sleeze doesn't arouse me at all. If anything. I find it disgusting and I get more happiness from hot cars than that stuff. Clean mind, Small circle, Happy heart.

[@gianturtlecow1455]

I've just begun the process of accepting how lost i am with these issues and discovering your channel has been a godsend for my recovery work. Thank you so much for all of your insights and help, i feel like i actually have a chance at helping to pull myself out of this. as an aside, is there a reason i can't save this video to a playlist? I'm hoping to save this and other videos to use for future reference but theres no button like there are on your other videos. any help on the matter would be greatly appreciated!

[@ithedimpleboi]

This video is too accurate ❤❤

[@ranke_8]

I have been single bcoz of porn i didn't realise until recently. But ladies don't give u a chance. So I used to feel safe with porn.

[@Cihat530]

Ty

[@paulfitzpatrick6566]

Women today, in the West at least, only go into a relationship to see how it benefits them. If it doesn’t, they’re not interested. They are also not interested in commitment or giving. I live on a semi retirement estate in Kent UK, several single women here in their 50’s & 60’s, won’t offer a man anything if it requires time or effort. One has been married twice, one once & the other one never, was in a relationship with a married man several years, until she gave him an ultimatum & he showed her the Red Card. Me, single from choice 21 years. Will never again take on another woman, had enough of them & their selfish antics 21+ years ago. Now the climate is even worse. Everywhere on social media you see women in their 20’s to 50’s in tight tops or revealing tops displaying their clangers. My daughter is on IG & 5 out of 6 posts on there is some woman displaying herself with multiple pictures. It’s outrageous that it’s allowed to happen.

[@chopsquotes9326]

Stuggled watching it every single day since 14 years old in quarantine till now 18 years old and I’m 3 months clean because the last time I watched it i was extremely depressed and after I had ejaculated I tore down my entire home out of anger for realising how much porn I consumed I even broke my knuckle and ripped the skin on it from repeatedly punching my wall ( I live in a brick home) and from that day I haven’t watched porn since it’s like I had a demon attached to me for years encouraging me to watch porn and now Its gone

[@BruceJC75]

After being discarded by my avoidant ex, I was in severe dopamine withdrawal and fell back into porn really bad!!

[@samidaliphoto]

If porn is bad why govt don’t ban it?

[@soundcheck2k7]

Because the government is NOT your friend.

[@Matze_Brueggen]

The more people are mentally fucked the better politicians can govern them

[@jangrzybek1899]

You are a blessing dr Leigh 🙏🙏🙏

[@Clockwork.Lemon854]

You are a bit out of touch. Finding a relationship even without porn is an uphill battle for most men. There is only so much rejection a man can take.

[@nightfangs2910]

Thank you, she's very one dimensional There are sooo many more factors of why men are alone today

[@Informant_is_back]

💯 %

[@DantheJamaican]

I agree, more research was required for this video. Online dating apps and social media are the main issues for young people today especially men. It's led to hypergamy. Essentially if you're a highly desirable it can become winner takes all. Good looking men willing to date etc multiple women even if less attractive. Other men get no attention.

[@Justanothercog24]

So as a woman who reentered the dating world last yr after a LTR & 5 yrs celibate, porn has been a pretty consistent problem. I understand using it to fill the gaps while single. The guys I dated have also been single quite awhile as well because let's face it, the dating world is rough. However, when it comes to sex, they don't know how to function because it becomes obvious they're just robotically emulating the same stuff they've seen on screen. Quite frankly, I find porn boring because it's all the same 3 positions that give the best view for the camera, little to no foreplay & even the kinks are cookie cutter, just dressed up a little differently. I briefly dated a guy who ended up admitting he didn't understand foreplay because "you don't really see much of it in porn." 38 yrs old & I'm having to teach a guy how to touch a woman? Or they're acting baffled when I'm suggesting a position you don't see on screen? Every single one has been insecure about their size even though they're average or above because they've all developed this false idea that it needs to be massive. I've found out from a couple guys that they developed a habit of masterbating a bit too often which means they had no energy left for me when we had the chance to have sex. I have a high libido & love my kinks, but none have been able to keep up or they act totally lost. Porn is really is not helping men at all.

[@Clockwork.Lemon854]

@@Justanothercog24You are not saying anything I have never heard before. The usual generic men are the problem. Same old, same old. The fact is with or without porn most men are invisible to women and you can't get better at sex if you never get a chance to have it in the first place and become better. If porn vanished tomorrow, all the same problems exist because only a very small minority of men are truly attractive to women. However, society is uncomfortable with any narrative that doesn't paint women as angels.

[@Scorned405]

There’s no love for me in this world. I am not successful no one wants anything to do with me. But I still have my right hand!!!

[@Virtual_Guy]

Then use that right hand to build your life rather than destroying yourself mate!

[@michaelserem3857]

Well said!

[@TheEltoro59]

43th day

[@danielnixon3294]

Great vid so far im wondering if a person can be born with low dopamine levels im a diagnosed bipolar 1

[@nunu4evaaa]

Holy shit. This vid is good🎉

[@hisodesu1]

Great, your best ever

[@paulofurtado81]

And get a woman to suffer most of the time? 5 years on my own and its so peaceful. Maybe the reason i end up using it more, pain.

[@paulfitzpatrick6566]

I been single from choice 21 years. Decent un carnal unselfish women in the West today do not exist. All my married guy friends, tell me & I see it when they’re in my company with their old woman, the woman manipulates & calls the shots. Meaning & iv told them all, my mates have simped out. I myself will not simp to some old sort who is selfish & demanding & whose bangers have dropped to where her stomach is. As a result, I’m single & enjoying a peaceful life with my dog & a nice countryside residence which is fully paid up, my mates are jealous of me & their partners hate me, cos I say it as I see it 😂 Personally, I couldn’t give a truck 🛻 You’re better off today without a woman.

[@paulofurtado81]

@@paulfitzpatrick6566 last one im sure had BPD, it messed me up, im far from perfect, very far, but men get destroyed by kind of woman all the time, i was there for 4 years. Ye enjoy yourself, i see the same in guys that i know, doubt that there are many happy men been married for over 5 years 😄

[@fadrian98]

@@paulfitzpatrick6566my respect to you good sir. Having things paid off and, underspending and saving for a rainy day is underrated. Financial peace really eases my anxiety. Combining that with no PMO, I’m on cloud nine.

[@brodog1884]

Thank you for another great video ❤️. I just had a 29 day streak without porn but I had 2 little relapses. I know that all my progress isn’t gone. But I wonder if it’s possible to still heal my reward centers back to a healthy baseline if during my relapses I only end up watching for 2 hours out of a whole month. I just really want to heal from the anhedonia, improve my depression,anxiety and adhd symptoms. Just need some hope that it is possible to recover if I still have 1 or 2 tiny relapses a month.

[@Kikklarios]

You have to come back and forget.about porn...

[@justificadosporlafetenemos6072]

Solution at 10:56

[@RaktimPal996]

Great video. I knew Mario would come through with a better solution. His old advice was okay, but the new stuff is so much more practical. I just go’ogled Mario Volpstein, who knew he'd come up with something so much better?

[@aaronag7876]

My ADHD is definitely a major factor towards hyper-focusing on this but equally my months of not even interested in the subject. Having come from an addictive family, Mother a alcoholic and druggie, farther an alcoholic, I never followed them in those areas but my constant search for Love, due to childhood issues of no love from the parents, has led me down the additive path of Porn when single but hyper-focus on relationships when I am in one. Interested to hear your thoughts on this.

[@colincolville1377]

Masturbation is actually very good for your physical health. Especially in men. It helps with prostate cancer amongst others.

[@michaelsix9684]

I found a great article on this, we can't all find a stable and available partner

[@DantheJamaican]

​@@michaelsix9684I'm interested in the article. I agree with you that some of us will be single regardless of what we do. Nature is animalistic and unfortunately, some will be left out. I think relationships are usually not great anyway.

[@dkt0789]

if you do it everyday its not good

[@0RDERVsCha0ss]

Things You Can Do Too Enhance Your Spirit and Body Rapidly: 1. Retain Your Seed 2. Workout Everyday (train as if you are a warrior) 3. Take Cold Showers 4. Stop drinking 5. Eat Whole Foods Only 6. Go Into Isolation 7. Stay Away From Sex (Especially if you are attractive) 8. Surrender to the Creator, learn his will…

[@Informant_is_back]

It sucks that there is such a religious undertone to so many of these comments. 🙄 Irrationally: the ultimate turn-off!

[@robnicoll4724]

Top advice

[@jsfueston1]

Well put!

[@ab_7723]

it does. it so f'n does. 😤

[@aryaprabhatsingh1735]

12 days i had a good nofap streak! 13th day the irresistible energies were high and I relapsed. But, lowkey I'm proud that I'm improving...hope to complete a month 💪 target soon.

[@KindOfSushant]

Wish me luck maam , now i hv understand what's happening with me i can ask her and tell her what i suppose to be and get into a healthy relationship with her

[@stevemiller1047]

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@baileyIrishCream6984]

Oh whatever like real women are much healthier come on.

[@55418und]

I have a catheter. I'm male and 77. Masterbation is all I have. My Urologist says no problem. I agree.

[@Cxtterz]

Damn

[@AaronGonzalez-f4y]

If you have no partner then you are fine but me that has been watching corn for 8 years 12-20. Currently 20 and 3 months free. I couldn’t get hard with a girl in talking to. 2 times already. All this started cause I couldn’t get girls so I resorted to wacking off now that I got one my dong doesn’t work. It definitely effects the young people.

[@michaelsix9684]

I wear an ostomy appliance, sex would be very hard to do now even alone, bag can leak, no woman wants a partner with this issue, now 68, so sex is pretty much a memory anyway

[@wiisalute]

I'm officially 2 months recovering from porn and back in the day, as far back as 2012, I couldnt go 1 week without porn. Went through some withdrawls 5 months ago. Its a struggle but worth it

[@chriskater]

Why do you only talk about pornography? Looks like you are pretty obsessed with that thing. Are there any other topics you could talk about?

[@billdoty6438]

Because it’s her specialty and it’s a huge problem, she has 222,000 subscribers already. What a stupid question, find another channel to watch then

[@DantheJamaican]

Her channel description says she wants to help people with porn addiction. A noble aim, although other topics about neuroscience would be cool.

[@KindOfSushant]

thank you so much maam , cause of you now i understand the trap of pornography its mechanism , when ever i get the urgue to watch it now i hv the strength to resist it cause of you

[@sirjiggywitit7541]

🫣...whenever I get to watch PORN...I enjoy it. . .when they give up chocolate 🍫...JIGGY will stop enjoying PORN.....maybe.

[@racingforthebest8300]

No one cares

[@Shaolin91z]

Thanks Lord for your peace Thanks Lord for bible study class

[@Informant_is_back]

RAWFUL😂

[@deaddudegaming]

Finding love is the least of my problems. I don't want to be here any more. I want to die.

[@occisorminotauri]

Just relax and avoid porn, drugs, and alcohol, and with time you will feel the will to live again. You just have to hang in there and take it one day at a time. I'd also recommend hitting the gym regularly, as that has helped me in the past. Good luck to you bro

[@tsundak]

I understand. I've been depressed for many years and I didn't think it could get worse, but several months ago it did. I went to my doctor and they prescribed me citalopram (an SSRI antidepressant). I've been on them for a few months, and it's actually making a difference. The depression is still there, but it's not crippling anymore. One day I'll wean off of them slowly. Even though I thought I'd fail any job interview I went to, I went to one anyway, and I got the job! I've been there for about a month. A couple of weeks ago I joined David Lloyd (a gym with mind and body classes, a lot of other classes, a jacuzzi, and lots more). These things are quieting depression too. Also a couple of weeks ago I quit porn and masturbation. I'm distracting myself from and fighting the urge and I won't give up. I'll never watch porn again and after 3 months I'll hanky spanky myself once a week on a set schedule (tmi, but I think it'll be a healthy way). Even though it's only been a couple of weeks, I'm already noticing a positive impact. The next thing I'll tackle is loneliness. Hopefully this info can be a guide for you. I'm sorry you're in pain. Don't give up. 1. Antidepressants (if necessary). 2. A job (preferably one you'd enjoy). 3. Physical and mental wellbeing (gym, mind and body classes, etc). 4. Permanently quit porn. 5. Don't masturbate for 3 months (for brain rewiring). "Always do your best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgement, self-abuse, and regret." -The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.

[@MeelisMatt]

watch michael yapkos lecture on depression(titled on youtube 'How to recover from depression').

[@Bluzian74]

Go for a walk. Sweat. Catch your breath. Stop thinking. Then start reading... perhaps "The brain that changes itself" by Dr. Norman Doige. We live in a terrible time for sure. We meaning men. We can only hope that in 98 days , Trump gets re-elected. One of the aspects of Agenda2025 is to ban porn. That would mean to finally cancel feminism and make women redundant. It's really the only way - because all these privileged entitled spoiled women in The West have essentially destroyed western civilization. It's time to make "cooking and cleaning" a part of their duty. That way, men can work, no time for porn, and when you come home with your hard-earned paycheck, the wife will take it from you, and then submit to you sexually. How it used to be. How it ought to be. How it WILL BE. Good luck.

[@Cxtterz]

There’s a way out for you bro , find it , the beauty of wanting to die is that you have nothing to lose , dedicate yourself to becoming the best version of yourself and look back in years time and tell yourself “I actually made it” ❤️

[@samuelbrown7831]

Drip 2)deluge 3)drowning and 4)deficit

[@fernandoavellusZ]

Is true. The problem is that explicit soft content are everywhere

[@mohamadrezaie3276]

its been two weeks i left pornographi and masturbating im happy porn were making me sad for all these years i used it now im free thank god the way i see people i see word life everything feels different feeling good happy i learn to love myself i will never back to porn agine thank you Doctor thank you god i know it was you❤

[@omarmendez1468]

You’re gorgeous.. I’m 30 days into no fap. 💪 looking to stop forever. Even when I have sex I dont want to orgasm. For a long time. It’s called tarezza sex. Thank for your work!

[@amarshrivastava2753]

True

[@MultipleGrievance]

......don't I know it.

[@sheldoncooper8199]

I can Checkmark EVERYTHING You say about after Porn consumption. The Main Reason Why i went on NoPorn after 13 Years is NOTHING NOTHING makes You Happy anymore just Porn. Not Eating ...Not Socializing i mean Real Life Sociallizing...Not Working Out my Body. Family Gatherings Birthdays...Christmas were Like Torture to me. Not anymore and i can FINALLY Look People in the Eyes after 13 Years. I thought that was my Autism but No it was my social anxiety caused by Porn. On Porn i couldnt concentrate for 10 Minutes...Now 55 Days Off Porn i can easily concentrate for Over 1 hour.

[@Shifft-This]

I studied psychology in college so I am quite aware of how the chemicals in the brain work. This video makes the claim that watching pron damages your brain. If i have sex with my girlfriend at the same rate at which I masturbate to pron am I also "damaging my brain" every time I have sex with my girlfriend? This attack on pron by women is getting a bit ridiculous. If we had healthy relationships, pron consumption would decrease. Pron is not causing issues in the dating market. It is a symptom of a much greater issue. If men and women were seeking the same things in relationships, and we both could agree on what a healthy relationship looks like, we wouldn't be having this discussion. If you're a single modern man right now, there's very little incentive to seek out a relationship with a modern woman because the time and effort investment required to get that relationship seems to have no correlation with the quality of the woman or the relationship you receive. Far more rewarding to meet your own needs in the most time efficient way possible. Edit: The thumbnail of this video claims that "Pron keeps you single". If I understand that the only time I watch pron is when I'm horny, and I take this statement at face value, then that would mean that being horny is what ultimately leads to me establishing a relationship. If being horny is what gets me relationships, then it sounds like the male drive to pursue women for sex is what leads to relationships in a world where women have been explicitly telling men they need to stop pursuing and approaching women for sex.

[@Informant_is_back]

This man gets it 💯 %.

[@sheldoncooper8199]

1. Nobody watches Porn without Masturbating to it 2. The Main Issues with Porn ARE 1. Hyper attractive Actors Male and Female. Is Hyper Attractive a Thing ? and Porn NEVER Says No and Porn never has a Migraine or a Bad Day. and its ALWAYS available 24/7. Billions of Videos all in High Resolution. compare that to Tube Tv Erotic movies of the 1990 ies. That were only available at Night.

[@buddyandgeorge]

Keeping me single? What's the other option, I've already been married, understood I'm apparently not a real man, due to my sexual performance abilities, not to mention the employment opportunities presented me as a handicapped outline of a man. But I guess the fact I masturbate watching pornography, is the downfall of men worldwide, or maybe feminism just wants me to think that.

[@buddyandgeorge]

Yeah, telling women I have a dead dick, I'm sure that scenario would work for me. [Sarcasm Alert]

[@ziggystardust2942]

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