How To Be Talkative And Confident

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

Watch this video if you're a software engineer and you often feel lonely: 👉 How to connect with people as an introvert in tech: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZ6YZnygm6mDjdU

[@mindflashhh]

You make absolute sense, glad to find you :) I think negative self-dialogue is the first thing to be killed to work in this area!

[@merkury4626]

I’m in 9th grade and haven’t really had friends since 2nd grade and I’m trying to be more talkative just so I can be more interesting or approachable.

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

Sorry to hear that!

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

Have you seen my video on how to be more interesting?

[@merkury4626]

@@SocialConfidenceMastery no but in highschool it’s taken from a different perspective. There will be most kids that will say the rudest stuff and say “don’t care”, “didn’t ask”. I may be exaggerating a little bit.

[@Itsgonnabeok4]

As an INFP I find this helpful thank you

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

I'm happy to hear that!

[@hilomdulom8689]

Iam not shy nor introvert, its just that i lack conversation skills. Having nothing to say and being quite makes me seem like a shy person.

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

I hear that for sure!

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

What are you doing to be more talkative?

[@hilomdulom8689]

@@SocialConfidenceMastery Tbh I spent most of the time alone but i have no problems engaging in social meetups, its just that i lack conversation skills. I just recently joined a gym, starting to go out more often with friends and meet other new people. I feel watching tips and tutorials on social aspects doesn't work until you do it often. I dont like memorising the tips on what to do or what to say, its very mentally burden for me. I like to go on flow with the conversation which i get sometimes but most of the time i dont. Any advice from you would be appreciated😊

[@helloworld2054]

Same here, I don't have any interesting stories to tell and most of the time I can only do small talk

[@darkdeath3104]

speak to friend like speak to your self and being around charismatic peoplee.

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

You're exactly right!

[@linnssadhorse96]

Once I tried saying the first thing that happened to come to mind to my best friend at school. Turns out the person next to me wasn't my best friend, on.y a random person who I never saw before. And I said something along the lines of " this PE lesson makes me feel like crusty bacon" oops- starts digging grave

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

How did the other person reacted?

[@qeysqeys8736]

To be honest I have been trying to learn English language for years and I couldn’t do that, my weakness is even my native language I’m unable to talk more, I mean I know my native language but I’m not talkative I don’t know how to tell stories, I don’t know to think quickly and change words . I think that is why I’m unable to improve languages other than my native language

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

So how are you going to fix this issue?

[@Franciscamusic]

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

Thanks for stopping by!

[@nobodysperfect06]

I would have much rather had been taught or learned this stuff instead of stupid meaningless algebra.

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

I totally get that!

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

What are you currently working on socially?