How To Know If A Man Is Wasting Your Time Or Really Wants To Marry You.

[@kimberlyedouard6816]

When dating, you have to be ‘ruthless’, not waiting around and be willing to walk out.

[@danilaroche1156]

I agree.

[@notconnected3815]

In principle, I would agree, but there is one thing i might add: Many men need some time to "really" fall in love. So you shouldn't jump to the wrong conclusions too quickly. Men who are immediately hooked often let their libido guide them. I mean, my experience is, that after the first date she want's me to decide if i am serious. That's a bit to fast for me 😅

[@yasmind8707]

@@notconnected3815how about 2 months and 10ish great dates?

[@NEXTWEALTHPARTNERS]

I wish I had Margarita in my 20s. Did exactly what she said not to do - was raising someone else’s son from 21 until 32. I’m 40 now and have been single for years. Don’t even have the energy to date. Girls, don’t waste your time on the wrong man!

[@yasmind8707]

Do you mean raising that man or his kid? 😅 didn’t quite get that in the podcast..

[@NEXTWEALTHPARTNERS]

@@yasmind8707 it's a metaphor..my boyfriend was his mother's child and I was trying to raise him cause she did not do a job really well lol. Wasted 11 years of my life

[@TheDianka95]

1. Is he clear about the future? 2. Consistency? Actions are louder than words 3. Does he include u to his inner circle? Fam, friends? 4. Does he discuss commitment with u? 5. Willingness to compromise for u 6. Financial life and planning together, does he do dat? 7. Be mysterious and don’t be glued to him 8. Does he align with ur goals and u with his? 9. Trust? Do u trust each other? 10. Does he respect ur boundaries and needs?

[@BenjaminJones-re8re]

I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended few month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.

[@LIAMNOAH-m7q]

I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life.

[@BenjaminJones-re8re]

If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

[@LIAMNOAH-m7q]

His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.

[@BenjaminJones-re8re]

Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.

[@Nurse_Kathy]

There’s a REASON why the adage, “Actions speak louder than words” has been around for decades!

[@lou15176]

People don’t tell you who they are. They SHOW you x

[@SalomejaSaulyte]

From 1st "Hello" to the ring max 1.5 years. He needs to starts planning the proposal from the very beginning so that he is ready by the deadline. And he would if he sees you as his wife. If not, then no amount of time will change how he sees you. Mothers should instill this mindset into the daughters' mind before she starts school. No exceptions and no drama about it,just a simple truth to live with.

[@LaB567]

I wish Margarita had been around when I was in my 20’s. Knowing these things would’ve saved me soooo much time and heartache.

[@ddanielsmc]

Love it. Having a plan is great. This should also be in his mentality too. It makes sure he's serious enough initially. I think some guys are just nervous and once they're over it, it's a beautiful relaxing place to be. They will enjoy it too.

[@heididunlap1781]

This is true. Every man I’ve been friends with has said they know by the second or no later than the third date if they will marry the women..so waiting for years for him to make up his mind, is just wasting your time.

[@g.s.632]

I agree

[@SaraX2024]

Just be careful that talking about the future in the early stages is not just 'future faking' or trying to create a fantasy. I noticed that in particular in men who are dealing with mental health issues or who are stuck in other ways. Don't get swept away with it. Listen to their ideas, but stay grounded in reality.

[@ShopgirlNY182]

@@SaraX2024 exactly. my ex was love bombing me we were dating long distance, he told me he wanted me to move where he lived in the early stages but then later said he didn’t say that. He was definitely future faking and I unfortunately believed what he said but we broke up luckily before I actually moved there.

[@SaraX2024]

@@ShopgirlNY182 Narcissists and people with a dismissive avoidant attachment style are prone to doing that.

[@lynnbausch7639]

Yes! Literally came to say this

[@SilverGreenEyes18]

Learn how to choose the right guy and how to recognize the lying smooth- talkers from the let go

[@danilaroche1156]

​Same here. He's talking marriage. He loves me. Blah blah... all BS. He was going to say anything to get me to sleep with him.

[@Luxmundee]

I wish I could hire you to smack some sense into my sis who's been dating a man for 7 years and lives with him, taking care of him etc. She's shut down my warnings and even reduced our communication significantly. The phrase 'love blind' doesn't even begin to describe her ailment.

[@chesneectp]

I've been with my bf for 9 months and he asked if a ring would make me happy and I said yes, so we went to the store and picked out my ring..that's how we got engaged 😂🤣. I didn't want a big engagement. I kept sending him pics of rings on clearance (we're both on a budget and have kids from a previous relationship), and he said okay, fine lol. If he wanted to, he would. No excuses. He'll be 34 this year and I'm 28. I don't pay any major bills, I only pay my car payment, phone bill, and car insurance but I do have a job, I'm in school, and I take care of the home

[@danilaroche1156]

Did you know statically speaking that couples who lived together prior to marriage were more likely to divorce? It's true. Your going to have major issues unless you build the relationship on firm foundation. Jesus is alive & He loves you both.

[@gracemorby4291]

@@danilaroche1156I disagree with this, I understand what you’re saying but I know a lot of people who’ve jumped into marriage not living with each other before, and still have a hard time. It’s because they haven’t expierenced what it’s like living with the other person. I think living and moving in together before marriage is important (in my opinion) because to test the waters and see if you really enjoy living everyday with that human. Some people also don’t show their true “living colors” until you’ve lived with them awhile. Same things with friends as roomates

[@Ashleyvadnais88]

Dude shut up stop spreading fear with your religious beliefs​@@danilaroche1156

[@Jendelight]

How to know if a guy is wasting your time?. If you’re reading this aka if you’ve clicked on this video to find out then girl……he’s wasting your time. Your intuition will tell you all you need to know, nourish it and listen to it but not only that, act on what it’s giving you and walk away. You’re welcome 😊

[@af11911]

I’m married and enjoy watching these so no you’re wrong 🙂

[@Jendelight]

@@af11911ok :)

[@Redberylprincess]

I'm in my early 20's and single, I've been single all my life and I'm also watching this for fun and knowledge purposes. This person is not wrong though her statement can be true for other people and wrong for your case🤷. @@af11911

[@Thaticonicuser]

No you’re actually not right… i love watching her

[@rezwana2229]

I am enjoying the relationship I’m in so this isn’t true. Sometimes we just want the knowledge from a knowledgeable woman

[@JeevaRathna-kz9hg]

Beautiful video🧡!! I prefered to live by myself and with my girlies and family than with a situationship. Not wasting my time and the energy for players.being receptive for my potential one. Girls don't waste your time . Love u alot

[@danilaroche1156]

My sister has been living with her boyfriend 8 years & still he refusesto marry her. She's miserable & now her health is failing.

[@BetterLoveMovement]

She lost ALL of her leverage when she became a #freewife.😑

[@basicinfo2022]

He sounds narcissistic if she feels depleted and exploited.

[@lavieestundestin]

Sounds like my ex sister in law: 8 yrs of dating and no ring. After several years of cohabitation they bought a house this year and she is now pregnant to her ears. Still no wedding plans (from the guy's side). Actually, it got the point that she proposed him three years ago, with rings and everything. He said yes, but, since he doesn't actually want to get married, they've stayed the same for the past three years. I just wanna shake her and say honey you deserve more ❤

[@BetterLoveMovement]

@@lavieestundestin HOW SAD!!😭😭 She is unfortunately complicit in this. She needs to priortize the relationship she wants OVER the guy.🤦🏽‍♀🤦🏽‍♀

[@amycurtis535]

@@lavieestundestin you’d have to choke me before I proposed to a man. Like who does that?? No men deserve that treatment.

[@MrRatMommy]

6:29 he will introduce you when yiu are important. not just bump into someone by accident

[@mada7393]

I just love this woman!😂❤❤ 1:55 “you see the camera fell from the shock”🤣🤣🤣

[@danilaroche1156]

I do too.

[@Creating2413]

Or if he splits the rent and isn't looking for other options you have to ask yourself, is this how I want a future partner or husband to act? If he is splitting the rent now what else is he going to expect you to contribute to down the line and are you okay with that? Maybe he is asking you to split the rent because he doesn't know how to manage money. Is that the person you want in your life? Is that the kind of person who is going to align with your goals?

[@bluebutterfly5062]

Especially when they want to split bills, but not anything else

[@alinaiqbal6992]

Margarita ALWAYS has the best timings, I love this woman!! ❤

[@carolinamarin5385]

I’m 7 years in, 2 years ago he said we were getting engaged/married so I allowed him to move in. He never went through with it. Our lease ends April 2025 and I already made it clear that I’m not moving in with him again. Every time I bring it up he ignores me I’m so angry and resentful. He wasted my time and lied to me! I feel like I’m stuck cuz I can’t afford to ruin my credit or break the contract. 💔

[@ddanielsmc]

I'm so sorry for you. I don't get it. Is it fear from him? You deserve the commitment. He needs to step up and take it happens. I really hope things work out for you.

[@danilaroche1156]

Men can be lazy & will take advantage. She needs to take responsibility for allowing this. For being naive. She's not mad at him. She's mad at herself.

[@carolinamarin5385]

@@ddanielsmc I think is other women…I already caught him talking to a co worker giving her his number and to this day he won’t acknowledge our relationship on Instagram 😢 I don’t want to marry him anymore I just wish I could leave that house without my rental credit suffering.

[@carolinamarin5385]

@@danilaroche1156 Iam mad at myself! I was naive and believed lies even tho I had years of knowing who he was. Lesson learned, i hate his guts now.

[@lou15176]

@@carolinamarin5385take the hate and the lesson and create new energy with a new life for yourself. I know it’s a financial struggle and you have the credit thing as well (I hear you - I’m skint! ) but this is ruining your peace. It doesn’t matter how old you are. Your happiness and quality of life will ramp right up once he is gone ❤ x

[@kenealcloete8657]

Ugh, once again what would we be without you Margarita honey. Yes. Keep it real for us always❤

[@JeevaRathna-kz9hg]

Beautiful video ❤️!! Am not wasting my time and the energy for those players😂, just enjoying my life w my friends and family, being receptive for my potential partner. Ladies don't waste ur time. Love u guys🙏

[@candyledgerr]

Margarita, you are the girl of the girls. You are my discovery! 🌟Definitely will buy your book and cannot wait to read it 🙏🏻

[@amiianectar]

My partner says he wants to marry me and build a future, but he struggles with keeping promises, isn’t financially stable, and lacks emotional depth in serious conversations. We live together, but it feels more like a roommate situation, and we’re just going day by day without clear direction. He talks about wanting to change, but after 3 years, I don’t see the progress I need. I’m 27, he’s 32, and he won’t be financially stable for another six years. I’ve told him he needs to move out so we can figure out what’s important individually, but I still feel torn.

[@bluebutterfly5062]

I was in the same situation a few years ago. I eventually had to leave because he did not have his stuff together. It hurt me too, but I realized that there was nothing I could do to change his mind. Nowadays I'm wiser and would not let anyone waste my time. Remember, if they are really invested in you, you will see it

[@miakamei1751]

This is why I hate when men suggest living together before marriage. Because women gets easily emotionally attached!!!

[@danilaroche1156]

You should move out. It won't be easy because you had sex. Now you have a soul tie and you will be tormented. You need to pray to the Lord for help. This man is NOT serious to marry. He is broken.

[@BrendaGutierrezG-y4m]

I am going through something very similar :(

[@amiianectar]

@@miakamei1751 we do! Because we’re spending day in and day out with just that person. It begins to feel like a pseudo marriage. But it’s not real. What is real though , is time continues to pass by and the man continues to benefit by having a helpmate in his life.

[@vbarberful]

Just found out that a friend listens to your content as well, so cool!

[@delaneym3662]

Unbox The New Rules today in Canada! So happy to see my book arrived after 1 month's wait after work. A warming feeling pop up from the pink book cover to light up my fall❤

[@valentinarex94952]

I’m so happy the algo suggested you. You are spot on!! And You have a great sense of humor.

[@Ritxxxh]

Even if you would get married in a timely manner, choose him wisely❤

[@Liurika]

What if I don't want kids or am not too interested in marriage (but I do want a long term committed relationship)? Then I can dilly dally like men do? :D

[@nathalian.7209]

Then you look for channels like minded with you and watch those. You won’t find your answers in this one here. There’s millions of people like you. Go talk to them.

[@mermaidkassy]

Same

[@ddanielsmc]

One thing that's crossed my mind is how other cultures do things and there's room for alternative forms of commitment. In Turkish culture there's 3 rings: a commitment ring, engagement ring and finally a wedding ring. Could we just stop at a commitment ring? It doesn't require legal backing but rather, anoints your relationship status. You could have a ceremony if you like. I appreciate the ceremony could be too close to marriage for some. For those that live together, where I'm from, you could have a 'cohabitation agreement' this could serve as the basis for all the financial stuff.

[@heididunlap1781]

@@ddanielsmcI’ve heard of people doing this, I believe they call it a life partner. Neither wanted to get married but they both want to be committed long term and they have rings and stuff but idk like taxes and investments are separate. And no children are involved. At least when I’ve seen it work…

[@chipwanderlust113]

Not really. Because you still want a serious good guy long term. So you have to make sure you're investing your time, youth and beauty on the right guy. You don't wanna entertain a jobless guy from 29-35 years for example.

[@_essabeauty_]

"camera fell down from the shock" 😂😂😂

[@alishadennis7769]

I really enjoyed listening with Karla . Great 👍 🎉❤❤show

[@Chaos_Chameleon]

You have changed my life!

[@teannasouthward4741]

I literally moved to Nebraska from Washington 9 years ago!

[@notabotbrittany]

1:51 THE ABSOLUTE SHOCK

[@summerchanelart]

We have no time to waste! Utter shock! 😂

[@monikaleszko5343]

What do you think of living together before marriage ?

[@chaneirashiny5113]

Thanks You give me courage and strength ❤

[@summerchanelart]

I could use a video a day from you! You get me all the way together every time! Love you lots and thanks for creating! 🥰

[@prestondinkle6052]

Excellent advice!

[@kojolo_21]

Margarita can u please talk about girl issues about dealing with gossip , being alone , anxiety & self confidence. Something outside the men . I really like your views so I really want to see you talk about some other stuffs . Kinda going through life , would mean a lot.

[@ddanielsmc]

If you look through her past videos i think she covers other things around living life.

[@elianalauren]

I’m curious how people feel about the use of pet names like “baby” early on before even officially dating. I find it coming on too strong and unserious, but maybe I’m thinking too deeply about it…?

[@Lifeisacourse]

Powerful ❤ So grateful that you exist . Lots of love from India 🌈💕🦋❤️😇

[@Ilovemylife4444]

You have helped me so much, thank you

[@lec9077]

Gold advice. ❤❤❤

[@RA-lb3lx]

“shooketh” 🤭

[@Sunny_ichrak]

in u question yourself, he is wasting your time

[@Bellaaaa98]

Your eyes are so pretty 🤍

[@samiacharlesia1735]

I wish I watched this video years ago. It would avoid me to wast my precious time 😢

[@AyaPoi-zm2ym]

Hello! I like your videos. But I kindly want to Ask: What kind of education you have/what sources you have for the teachings you spread. Is there any scientific evidence for these teachings or are they based on your personal experiences and beliefs?

[@midlifegoddess]

She has wisdom and experience

[@alejandra6418]

11:21 you're hilarious😭😭😭

[@tristenw9225]

PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO OF HOW TO PUT EFFORT INTO A MAN WHILE BEING IN YOUR FEMININE PLEASE

[@anggggggayyyy]

LMFAOOO these ridiculous cars..You crack me up

[@samtula5946]

What if you barely have a career in your 30s.. I’m 34.. and I’m worried about financial independence so then dating is tiring? Bc you want to make sure you’re secure and you don’t know if you still want to go back to school for 2 years ish? Also, how long should you date and give time as the most before he’s ready for marraige or discusses long term?

[@MsMeemii]

I’m lost. He does all of these things but wants to wait till we “fix” some problems. It’s 4 years now and idk if I can wait any longer

[@ss-0925re]

love this

[@oambitiousone7100]

What if I’m too old for kids but still want to be married for security?

[@lou15176]

This is me too 😊 age 48 and 3/4 x

[@BetterLoveMovement]

The advice is the SAME. Never let a man waste your precious time!🤨

[@evangeliav1064]

I have been in a relationship for 2 years now (we're both in our 30s), and he told me that he wants to get married in his 40s… 💔 How to leave him?

[@Lissitchka]

Just leave. You can find another man.

[@Greenmoon413]

That’s f’d up. Leave him

[@973shero9]

He is looking for a younger woman. He practices ageism. Run away. Just tell hil that we are not on the same page. I prefer to be available for the one who will be ready for me

[@chesneectp]

Leave. He knows what he wants by now, he's just buying time

[@femmebenie]

@evangeliav1064 Tell him "listen, I don't agree with you on waiting to get married in our 40's, and it's very clear that you don't truly value me, and that's fine because I cannot force you to value something. From now on, you are single, and you better not attempt to contact me in any way. " After telling him that... walk away and block his number and his social media if you have it.

[@allesneu7178]

I recently went through a breakup and I was engaged and already have a daughter with him. Don't want another kid but I want a committed relationship. Possible? 😢

[@Claudine535]

Possible …. I will say focus on being by yourself first and becoming eh best version of you. Having a kid is a blessing from God, but remember don’t let that be your only identity. Pursue your dreams and goals. Don’t sit down feeling bad for yourself , use your pain and past to push you to become better. Men can smell women that are desperate and you might get used like that …. So focus on you relationship with God …. And the right man will come at right time

[@Faith-sr8zw]

This came at the right time. I just got off the phone with someone (who I truly almost love) who just said that he’s been deterred by marriage because of the fear of getting “robbed” in divorce. Yet he has baby fever. I lived with my ex without marriage, but now without marriage i might not move in with a man and DEFINITELY not birthing kids without marriage.. I have to think…

[@femmebenie]

My girl ... where I was raised, men are not even allowed to think of touching you before marriage. Run. Run the hell away from that dude, and don't even think about it. He wants kids outside of marriage? That's literally robbing you of your rights as a woman. You need stability, peace, safety, and a stable income. With children, you're going to need a COMMITTED protector and provider. Woman, i don't know you, and I dont usually comment on this platform, but I commented on this video right now as a reply to someone, and im replying to you too. RUN. Have kids with someone after he marries you and proves to you that he's serious.

[@femmebenie]

I'm not sure where my other comment has gone, but I'll rewrite it. Also, on top of everything, you must remember that it doesn't matter whether you love the guy or not. You can love him all you want, and he's still going to ruin your life, and rob you of your rights as a woman and if you have a job chances are that later in life he's going to take advantage of that and ask for money (when he isn't even in desperate need of financial help, and im not talking about him paying off his debts or his gambling addiction debts) if he doesn't love and cherish you. He MUST love you and take you seriously. Otherwise, what are you doing? Woman, I know that I'm a stranger on the internet, but trust my word ... find the nearest exit and run. This man isn't the one. Don't even think about it ... just run the hell away from him. Trust my word as a woman who has seen the ugliness of those kinds of men.

[@femmebenie]

This is really the last response I'll be giving here... you made a mistake when you lived with your ex outside of marriage. Don't repeat your past mistakes. If a man wants to live with you, then he should marry you. Why would anybody marry a woman if she's willing to give him all wifey things (living with him, intimacy, services like cooking, etc) outside of marriage? It's pointless to a man to marry a woman if she's giving him everything without a commitment from him. Woman, protect yourself, and treasure yourself. What happened has happened. Start over and I am sure that you'll find a man who is willing to marry you!

[@PetitHibou72]

Good huddle my sisters…

[@ddanielsmc]

As mentioned, you need the legal protection of marriage. Where I'm from there is a 'cohabitation agreement' that could be used however, I'm not sure if this is in quite the same league as marriage. You're taking a risk having kids. There's a small risk to your life from doing so. Make that clear you're willing to make that sacrifice and all you ask is that you are married. A good man will certainly come to his senses. Look at the stats on child birth and mortality. You are worth it I'm a man and my wife was worth it. I would give my life for her.

[@lykaapurillo7116]

I need to add this to my morning mantra haha

[@KaliPuppies]

No.2,3 a big miss for me.

[@EricLakota-e3p]

Haha my name is eric lakota just listening but I love to meet a lady who actually is Independent and I'm Independent we could make one hell of a teem

[@romaanaaamir686]

Geniune question - what to do when the guy says you never initiate plans or plan any hangout. Why do I always have to be the one asking (although, we aren't dating) but 💀

[@bluebutterfly5062]

Tell him the same. "You also don't initiate. If you want to hang out, let me know the plan." See what he says

[@Spiritscorner]

This is the motherload.

[@nyx4323]

12:50 is so funny to me for some reason

[@Diana-ph4ff]

Hello

[@roniversus6377]

Depends on what you want from the relationship. If you had a nice time and memorable moments, it's not a waste of time. Also it's not necessary to be married to someone in order to have children together. Targeting men and trying to use them as personal supply for good life is so ex - USSR modus operandi. It belongs to societies where the number of males is not sufficient. Hence, there's constant battle for them.

[@nathalian.7209]

Imagine wanting kids outside of wedlock and thinking it’s a great idea …. Geez!

[@roniversus6377]

Imagine, for example, there are Scandinavian countries where women don't think they are helpless and clingy, desperately playing the field for the ring. Nah..stay free, choose from the heart. Otherwise, you will be divorced and unhappy in your late 40s.

[@nathalian.7209]

@@roniversus6377 yeah not everywhere is a Scandinavian country or trying to be one. Be wise. Know what you’re dealing with .

[@jaimeecampbell5148]

Margarita you’re so funny with your camera falling lmao and you’re always right 🩷 ty

[@TaraWu-kw4xv]

Only the thick and thin

[@claritaainsley3744]

Wow wow wee wow

[@Kategiullieta]

I found the one god ❤️

[@richardmatthews7489]

@13:19 GUYS watching this - Notice how she self-grooms her hair at the thought of a guy avoiding - women love the chase! ;-)

[@Naomi11477]

Yess wish I watched this 4 years ago 😂

[@lali549]

They can dilly dally 😂they are Snow White 😂 ❤

[@EricLakota-e3p]

I'm 42 Love to meet some wemen clear

[@dihiaidrici5098]

You are so funny XD

[@crypto2276]

❤

[@Im____ltm]

I just don't know how to gather the strength and courage to leave him 😞 This hurts so much. He's going through so many hardships already in life and ending it now would just crush him.

[@etswift6162]

You have to live your own life sometimes you need to be selfish

[@gorgeous1fangirl]

You don’t want to be with a man that you pity, especially if he has not been treating you well and you are considering leaving. He is capable of figuring it out, trust me. You being out of the picture might actually inspire him to figure it out! Whatever it may be. You are also capable of figuring it out when you leave him!

[@kathrinbv.2137]

I don’t agree with a man spending his money to cover a uni debt , it might look like a nice gesture but I really don’t think he is responsible to cover your financials . Sometimes I think Americans are very materialistic . I am European and my boyfriend is African . He helps me a lot is always there for me , I love him very much but I don’t believe in a partner helping me financially except there is an emergency situation - where I would by the way also help him if it was the other way around . I‘ve dated men that gave me all types of surprises , paid for my nails, hair etc. none of them were serious - they just wanted sex . It’s not a good indicator to see if a man wants to be with you or not . don’t get fooled girls - just listen to your feeling .

[@FreakAngel666]

🙋🏻💫

[@sadiestone3639]

ughhhhh

[@ddanielsmc]

Why 'ughhhh'?

[@selfishbiaich]

tochure him to get married and torchure him to stay married. to me it is simply rudeness and who's parents didn't teach you to behave. Women are time wasters if you look at it the other way around.

[@LưuHoàngNhư]

the book that changed everything for me was Magnetic Aura from Borlest

[@શૈલેષનાયક-ટ8ડ]

sadad

[@govindaup60yt80]

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[@kairivint]

😂zorro mask

[@mechellemcoleman1693]

I’m pretty old. I have kids & grandchildren

[@lou15176]

You are pretty blessed ❤ x

[@RajuKumar-c2o6p]

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[@bvikaskumar9111]

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[@rakeshmandal2128]

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[@andrew4809]

None of the above he's actually gay

[@soundmind69]

One of my fears. The 2 men I've been with i felt were using me as a beard because I'm a masculine woman unintentionally.

[@Tarotblackcat]

Nobody want to invest in me😢😂

[@soundmind69]

Same. I attract only crazy emotionally unavailable people. I carry all emotional/ mental load + chores + child care + masseuse + chef I'm exhausted all I want is to feel safe and loved.

[@ddanielsmc]

​@@soundmind69ah... please stay positive. I sincerely hope you find a loving partner who will cherish you.

[@ddanielsmc]

You are worthy of love. I'm willing this for you. Put yourself out there and keep those thoughts of yours positive. Shine bright!

[@soundmind69]

@@ddanielsmc bless you You're very kind I have a bf rn but he's like a brick wall. If only I knew the magic words to soften his heart.

[@PrinceGupta-eg3to]

dqw

[@MartinMalmy]

If you are above 30, don't ask for marriage. Expired products cannot be restored 😭

[@PetitHibou72]

Plenty of reasons to be married over 30.

[@soundmind69]

You are at the peak of your life at about 30. All down hill from there for both. If you're young still you won't understand till you're older. If you are 30 or older .. stop hating yourself

[@bernadetten.8751]

​​​@@soundmind69 not true. People are green in their 20s. You are ripe and juicy in your 40s. That is why some women are going on their third marriage on their 50s. They are still able to attract a man

[@Julia-jq2sy]

🫶🏻🫶🏻yesss yesyesss

[@bryannajones176]

Why am I I just now finding YOU !! everything you said makes complete sense. I’m terrified to look at my past mistakes. Gee 🫢