How To Live Like A Bridgerton - My tips to create the perfect afternoon tea at home

The new season of Bridgerton has begun, and I don’t know about you, but I am so excited! I love this show for its sumptuous interiors and architecture, as well as the beautiful clothes and jewellery - it really is a pleasure to watch.
Today I thought I would do something fun and show you how you can live more like a Bridgerton! From the perfect afternoon tea, some advice about manners and etiquette, creating a beautiful flower arrangement, and even tips to improve your conversation skills so that you can work the room like a duke or duchess at your next party.
Whether you have seen the show or not, I think this is one we can all enjoy and learn from - So lets get started - its going to be fun!
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[@NicolasFairford]

Hello everyone! Thank you so much for your lovely comments about this episode ! If you would like to see more Bridgerton magic, check out my latest blog which looks at the interiors and sets on the show: bit.ly/36Jxyit

[@sebastiankyte7411]

An episode on etiquette would be nice Nicholas. Love your Friday night soirées by the way. Always look forward to them.

[@HISIAM888RUHIS888]

Nicolas!!.. I’ve Never heard of Bridgestone!! Can’t wait to see your blog!! God Bless & Happy Holidays!!💗 Loved this Video!!🙌🙌💗💗🥰👍👍

[@jenniferrice5877]

For those that don't know: In olden days you always took tea with the cream as you didn't want to etch the hosts china. Boiling water would etch the china. You could always tell a person class by the cream going in the cup first then the tea. The cream in the cup first would cool the hot water enough to not etch their china. Even if you did not normally take cream you did in this case anyway so as not to be rude. Your spoon was after use put on your saucer and your pinky goes out so as to be used as a stop for your cup so you don't bang you cup on your saucer which again is rude. Your cup sat on your pinky and only looked like it was on your saucer. Banging your cup was never allowed. Also, if you took a cookie it was layed on your saucer with the cup on it in one hand first, you wait a moment, then picked up the cookie from your saucer and took one small bite then put it back on your saucer. Tea etiquette showed real class and taste. You could hobnob with anyone if you knew proper tea etiquette. Loads of fun. Even children were taught this.

[@RebeckaSarkozy]

thank you for this x

[@harveygirl95]

I love that old fashioned etiquette and the patience it required 💕

[@bpe9578]

@Jennifer Rice: Thank you for the historical notes and for the practicality of the information you've shared.🌺🌺🌺

[@bpe9578]

@@aj32384 Thank you so much for your very astute observations about people's politeness in the past and the reason for their actions . I imagine that their finest teacups and teapots could be considered heirlooms, hence, a guest would be extra careful in handling them. I do believe that there are many people today who would do the same.🌺

[@thomasmaresh5264]

@@bpe9578 This is interesting, because when I first spent a fair amount of time in Germany, some years ago, I was astonished to see a napkin separating the cup from the saucer in many places, and this was new to me, and I do this in my own home now. I never see it in America.

[@snakefly3183]

When I was very young, in the single digits somewhere, I got sick and had to stay home from school. My mom made me breakfast, but not like she usually did. She had taken the toast, trimmed of crusts and cut them into perfect little squares. It was beautiful and it stuck with me. Growing up the crusts were never trimmed off of anything. That was my first little step into the world of teatime. I am not english but to me afternoon tea is precious and to be celebrated. Thanks so much for your beautiful videos.

[@NicolasFairford]

Perfect memories x

[@sk.n.9302]

A few weeks ago, I was let go from my job as the co. was downsizing due to debt. Shortly after, I discovered your chanel & I can't tell you how helpful it's been. It not only reminds me of the simple pleasures (that I can still enjoy) but your voice & the music in your videos is incredibly soothing. Thank you for helping me navigate this.

[@Singinbluebird]

I've been watching you when u started your channel Nicholas and love how confident you have become . you were so shy ! and now so confident and really glad to see the glow up ! 💯💕

[@agds91078]

Same here as well. I’ve been watching since he stared and I have truly enjoyed watching him truly blossom on his channel 💕

[@helen0mer]

Samee💓

[@NicolasFairford]

Thank you! I feel so supported by my viewers!

[@angieloishome3583]

I love watching you as well Nicholas! I just introduced your channel to my daughter and guess what?! She watches you now more than I! She even bought a lamp that looked like what you have. Yes, you truly have become an influencer and in a good way.❤️

[@lylytorrence4890]

Glow up Indeed. So delightful. Has definite class

[@southerncomfort39]

Another way to set flowers in an arrangement is to use scotch tape instead of the wire. Criss cross the scotch tape over the mouth of the vase or flower pot. It should look like the top of a apple pie “checkered.” Then just place flowers in open areas to fit your design. I think you might like this technique.

[@jessbooth5495]

What a helpful suggestion. I have a vase in mind but wire might damage the interior

[@adventurenana]

Etiquette was intended to make guests comfortable. I love how you don’t stress over things. Your tea sandwiches were your best yet. 💕😋

[@NicolasFairford]

Thank you!

[@mmoore0325]

Thank you for NOT editing out your almost-blooper when you touched the hot tea pot. Watching you and other 'polished' youtube creators make mistakes and actually laugh at yourselves is very endearing. In fact, I think a video compilation of some of your bloopers would be a gem.

[@NicolasFairford]

I did remove it at first but then realised it was a genuine moment!

[@lylytorrence4890]

Agreed

[@lianeabeyta4515]

The best tip you gave was to not focus on rules. Guests should never feel inadequate or inappropriate at the event in someones home. Being together, sharing good conversation with friends, and making new acquaintances is what the day should be about. Loved all your tips. Here in California our scones are served with jam , cream and always lemon curd. My favorite !

[@NicolasFairford]

Sounds delicious

[@b.m.f2153]

I've NEVER tuned in to Bridgerton BUT I ALWAYS watch your channel. I feel Calm and ready to face anything after watching one of your videos.🌺🏵🌸💮🌼Thank you!!!!

[@CelestialSleuth]

Brilliant floral arrangement hack with the wire!❤

[@nancylorenz5082]

When I was in college, I built an entire presentation around tea, using Great Expectations, for my project. Everything happened around tea. I served sandwiches, English tea, and history. Everyone had to bring a cup and we’re served food on quality paper plates. My mom helped me in the “kitchen “ and we used her antique bone China for the Professor’s table. I even gave away tea that was gifted to me for answering questions. It did not go smoothly as planned. Although there were only 4 people on the project, and 3 worked their buns off, one ROYALLY, screwed it up. I’ve found this to be a fact of life.

[@nancylorenz5082]

By the way, I live in the USA. 😁❤️😘

[@andrearubin8096]

Thank you so much for your interesting, informative and lovely videos. I find such inspiration and calm from watching your episodes. I truly wish you had your own show on American cable. Can't wait to see what you do next!

[@ArcherOO78]

Watching your videos has given me peace and joy. You are a shining example of how to celebrate every day, and that people should cherish every special moment in life. I support and love all you do. 🌿🙏🏼☕💖

[@mavep2855]

Afternoon tea with Nicolas, how lovely! Perfect for an indoor kind of a day, our weather is a bit nasty today with snow flurries and lots of wind. Thanks very much for the pleasure of being your guest.🙏🏼❤️

[@NicolasFairford]

I hope the weather gets better soon!

[@raeray2235]

Your advice about interest in their cocktail and interest in how they know the host are very key points of advice! Love your spirit of hospitality!

[@NicolasFairford]

I'm glad you found this useful!

[@cyn2480]

Nicholas, your living room (that's how us southern USAers describe it) looks elegant and comfortable. I like how you used subdued colors to create a Vibrant setting.

[@christinedhotman4399]

I also keep the crusts,my recipe is to mix butter,mustard and shredded cheddar,mix with crusts in and put in the oven for 15 mins,DELICIEUX!😜😉

[@lyndabond1443]

I throughly enjoyed this video 😊. The art of good conversion seems to be disappearing as is a hand written letter. For me, I can always find something to compliment a person on while being honest about it. Your table looks so well in front of the large window. It actually draws your attention to the entire room. Have a lovely weekend Nicholas and thank you again for such a special and truly delightful day 💕. Hugs to Sophie 🤗

[@dennykoncz1994]

I totally agree with you again 🤭

[@ladydiaspora807]

Another lost beauty seems to be cursive writing,its romantic.

[@lyndabond1443]

@@ladydiaspora807 I so agree 👍😊

[@NicolasFairford]

Thank you, Lynda! Have a lovely weekend x

[@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293]

I love your comment Lynda. I miss letter writing! And long phone conversations instead of this weirdo 'social anxiety' everyone has where they pray that nobody picks up and they can get away with leaving a voicemail, or just tapping out short messages/emails. So sad! I have difficulty writing short comments online too, which anybody familar with my user name would instantly know ;D. But the attention span of people these days...what has caused this erosion and deformation I wonder?! My addition to your comment would also be that vases are a massively underrated gift; people are always giving flowers of all sorts but never consider if the person has adequate display vessels for these fragrant gifts. I always recommend people give the gift of practical vases of all proportions. And candles as gifts, where do you stand, where does Nicholas stand on this? They're poo-pooed as being basic, unimaginative and slightly passe as gifts but if someone has expensive and very refined tastes then YES PLEASE! I can think of nothing more welcome than a Cire Trudon candle.

[@maramaparata7596]

First may I pay a compliment to you Nicolas on what you are wearing. Whether its clothing you have worn in past videos in this episode the colour stood out for me when I began watching your video. Perhaps it was the background wall colour that brought the whole composition together to reflect the mood of the season/spring in your country. Second - enjoyed this episode. Finally, congratulations on two years of sharing your light with us here on KZbin may there be many more videos/years to follow (NB: today here in NZ the date is 2Apr22) - :o)

[@indiam1472]

I adore your shows. I just love larger-scale flower arrangements.

[@NicolasFairford]

So glad!

[@leeauslander8305]

You look good in white🌻

[@drianbennett126]

Everyone should have a tiered cake stand at home 😁

[@NicolasFairford]

I agree )

[@cathygodin7196]

I really LOVED this episode! Infact, I'm still smiling and the video ended 15 mins ago! haha! All of your tips & tricks are easy to practice and your conversation starters should really be useful for anyone who struggles in that area. How kind you are for sharing like that! As always, you were charismatic and entertaining too - THANK YOU! I look forward to my next afternoon tea with a selection of tiny finger sandwiches and savories, freshly baked scones and jam plus a few delicious treats at the top of my 3 tiered tray :) Welcome to April - I'm delighted already!

[@NicolasFairford]

So happy to hear that the video made you smile!

[@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293]

Could there be a better way to spend a spring afternoon than accepting an invitation to YOUR home for afternoon tea in the garden? What a positively charming comment you left here!

[@Grannynan]

Great show! I , too, love Bridgerton! Regarding conversation at events, my mom always said don't discuss politics, religion or sex with a new acquaintance. Good advice! By the way, you look fabulous today!

[@NicolasFairford]

Thank you so much!

[@user-lw5gw2cp1u]

Thank You!💥 It was a pleasure to watch your video! It made my sunday morning and provided a good start for the whole day!☀️💐

[@v.llamas]

Lovely video, Nicholas! I love all of your tea and etiquette tips! Thank you for sharing your afternoon with us. 💕

[@v.llamas]

I really need more videos like this! I have to say, I’m a bit awkward and usually either cling to the person I know or end up leaving early out of nerves. Thank you!

[@tonismith5324]

Oh Nicolas, this was outstanding, particularly the conversation starters. I, too, would rather keep the conversation light and fun. That makes it a great time for all. Love Bridgeton as well. Your accessories and accompaniments does make me feel like we're having a tea party with those glorious characters. Thanks ever so much for sharing tips and tastes with me. Enjoyed the entire episode. Bravo. Regards, Toni Smith 🌷👍

[@NicolasFairford]

Thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed it! x

[@vintagegal541]

Hi Nicholas, Greetings from Washington State in the US. I'm so glad to see you this week! I always look forward to Friday's. Have a marvelous weekend!

[@VintageBethany]

Also from Washington! I feel the same :)

[@vintagegal541]

@@VintageBethany Hi Bethany, It's nice to see a fellow Washingtonian who watches Nicholas as well. I found his channel a couple of months ago. It's so nice to add some elegance to life. Have a wonderful weekend!

[@nancydelarosa5459]

I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the Bridgertons. Nicolas this was a great video with great tips. I have been watching you since your beginning and you are such a beautiful person inside and out. I truly wish you much joy and success. Love to you

[@hayley_joannaperkins5421]

I live in Newport Gwent south wales UK and I look forward to watching you every week

[@christineryman579]

I forgot to say, I just loved your outfit, those colours suit you and blend so well with the colours of your apartment xx and your flower arrangement is spectacular xx

[@emmanuelleengrand3976]

Dear Nicolas thank you soo much for the moment !!! C'est magnifique et tellement délicieux 😉

[@maryjanegrosclaude1913]

Hi Nicolas, The first thing I noticed was your outfit and it was so nice, then your moving of the table there and the light coming in the front were soooo pretty which set the mood. Even tho you’ve arranged flowers before it was slightly different and not redundant. Same goes for tea sandwiches, I’ve never seen you do cucumbers like that. I love the tips for good conversation. I could go on but then it would seem too much. I loved everything…Keep up the good work. luv your American fan Mj

[@martiseelye6443]

your centerpiece is gorgeous, Nicholas. The table setting is beautifully elegant and who wouldn't want to sit down to tea with you?! Thank you for sharing your tips on conversation starters as well, great advice! Have a lovely week ahead and I look forward to seeing you again next Friday.

[@NicolasFairford]

What a lovely comment - Thank you!

[@franz3810]

my refuge from vulgarity...thanks so much Nick

[@socalgirl1680]

Hi Nic, lovely video . I just finished watching the last series of Bridgerton- Season 2. I do miss Rege-Jean Page😔. Let’s hope he returns for a future season ! Happy Spring !💐💐

[@shannonrobertson7212]

PS your scones look perfect!!! I am hosting a High Tea baby shower garden party for my baby coming July so I'm all into researching what I can make ahead right now. I love going to afternoon tea all around Colorado there are so many different places! Most British style, but I've been to a Persian style and going to Dim Sum afternoon tea in May! Thanks for your tips!

[@conversecone9687]

Your floral design adds so much to the tea party! You are wise to use a contrasting color. This is something I recently learned. I tend to be monochromatic. Thank you for your tips on how to make good conversation at a party. Very helpful!

[@nenayrlas431]

Sooooo happy to have found your channel this past week. I have been catching up on past videos and all so lovely. You are so inspiring and have given me so much to think about for my own home. My taste is so similar to you. ❤️ I love your part of the world and pray I can visit one day! I hope you do a decor book one day because I will be first in line to purchase. I hope your candles come to the US for sale. Keep up the lovely videos. 🥰😌💕

[@tomaskenny9959]

That was really lovely Nicholas. The sandwiches looked amazing, as did the pastries. Love the way the spring sun shines into your living room. By the way, I think you should be the production advisor for Bridgerton! You’d be amazing!

[@NicolasFairford]

Haha thank you! I would love that job!

[@lourdesreina4777]

Loved it!!! Thank you for showing us how you prépare the tea sandwiches!!, scones, pastries and tea!!! Wowwww and the flower arrangement looks just beautiful!!! I always enjoy your videos!!! Thank you so much Nic!

[@NicolasFairford]

My pleasure!

[@angelfire2085]

Nick, another wonderful video, I love your little tips about etiquettes and about starting a conversation at a party, though, like you, I avoid politics or anything regarding politics... but its best to keep up to date with some currant affairs I guess, anyway, I hope you're ticking along fine, lovely to watch your video once again, thanks so much! have a great week... take care :)

[@NicolasFairford]

So kind x

[@nonny6990]

I love your beautiful flower display & elegant tea service. 😍🌸🏵️🌼🌹🌺

[@mycraftyhomegarden]

I love your flower arrangement tip with using the chicken wires! Such a great idea

[@luisaleonardi666]

Very useful tips to help you find a good conversation starter and to make a gentle way for tea time. Thanks Nicholas for reminding us how we can pursue the everyday concept of beauty

[@debbiefaust3798]

This was so beautiful, Nicolas - I loved it! I haven't watched Bridgerton, but now I will have to. I always love your beautiful flower arrangements. Watching your videos is the best part of my Fridays! Thank you so much, and I hope you have a wonderful weekend.

[@NicolasFairford]

So happy to hear this! Thank you so much x

[@munchkinlk83]

I love Bridgerton too! I wish I had the clothes and poise as the characters.

[@gardeninggrandma5247]

Well done! It's so relaxing to watch you create a tea party and understand the proper protocols. I especially like that you have fresh cut flowers frequently in your home. For those who cannot afford flowers (or have allergies), I'm wondering if you include how to incorporate plants into your decor. I noticed a potted ranunculus on your bookshelf behind you. It adds a wonderful pop of color and lasts longer than cut flowers. There are many other plants that are easy to care for that help warm up a room as well. Placing them properly in the room to give it balance and flow is also important. Just an idea!! 🌸🌸🌿🌿

[@NicolasFairford]

Potted plants are a really good idea - I especially love the ranunculus. Although the flowers in my house are from the supermarket, so don't really cost very much at all x

[@SBooher1]

I’m a huge fan of Bridgerton!! I binge watched the entire second season and now must wait for the next one. What a great show and I can totally see why you like it!

[@newenglandfineliving]

I'm looking forward to catching up to Bridgerton. I also loved seeing the interiors, the clothing, etc. Coming from a 5th great grand daughter of one of the men who threw tea overboard during the Boston Tea Party, thank you for sharing some of your tea knowledge! I visit tea rooms when possible and it is such a treat!

[@elidamaggi7098]

Greetings from Santa Fe, ARGENTINA. 🇦🇷 How interesting! You belong to a Family that started the American Revolution 🇺🇸 The Boston Tea Party.

[@newenglandfineliving]

@@elidamaggi7098 Hi Elida! Yes, Elisha Story is in several history books. He is my 5th great grandfather. He also worked for George Washington, before he became a US president.

[@melhotpink9394]

The mushroom colour behind you is so on point love this thank you

[@nikkien7259]

Delightful as always! I love that you emphasized fun for the tea party. It helps to make everybody more relaxed.

[@3653cdw]

I just came across your lovely channel. This one has my favorite things-flowers, scones, and tea. And so relaxing to enjoy this evening. Thank you.

[@michelebaron5708]

I love the idea of an afternoon tea. Your table decor is simply fantastic.

[@teresahalliday3680]

You are such a sweet and mature person with such a nice outlook, Thank you for this video!

[@marilynbunte5376]

Would you believe I can smell the flowers as you are arranging! Thank you, a beautiful time with you.

[@marguerittetwinkle3624]

I love you and your tea time videos. The end tips just made me know even more that you are genuine and kind at heart.

[@sjordan7085]

Or, you could use a glass or porcelain 'frog' to hold flowers or taper candles. I am so excited there is a new Downton Abbey movie. Had to bring my antiques across,'The Pond' with me, to make the house look like a little bit of England. Your home looks beautiful.

[@ginas.6656]

What a great video, loved the flower arranging, tea party set up and advice on party conversations! Bless you Nicolas!

[@norahdenovan8658]

Aw Nicolas you always calm me down& make me happy, especially in a very horrible world at the moment, never stop& thank you 🙏❤️🌺

[@janettehunt6831]

Your comment on making good conversation and showing interest in that person is so right as too many people start talking about themselves. It’s really annoying when you have shown a real interest in them. Love the advice and love Bridgestone especially Viscount Bridgestone 😜😘

[@davidandniko3428]

I binged watched Bridgerton. It is a great show. Love the flower arrangement. Came out beautifully.

[@NicolasFairford]

Thank you so much x

[@VictoriaGush.]

Wow, you’re gorgeous!💋 Thank you for such a great atmosphere, I really like it!

[@angelikahagner2227]

Thanks for this Art of live, flowers ,tea and living art....amazing

[@sylviekins]

Another brilliant episode! The floral arrangement looks amazing!

[@shannonrobertson7212]

Finally! Something about how to use the pot! I just hosted a high tea and I didn't use my main pot we just steeped loose leaf in filters in the cups (tacky I know)! But I didn't want the water to cool off in the pot and not everyone wanted the same tea to just put the loose leaf in the pot. So I kept it on the table as a decoration :p

[@crankiemanx8423]

Another beautiful video,there is always something for me to learn,& you never disappoint.Thank you so much.🙏💗🌿🌷

[@juliemiller2523]

i just watched brigerton,, that simone..omg , he is gorgeous.. loved that show, watched all episodes

[@gretje1974]

Your videos are so calming, classy, aesthetically pleasing and polite. Thank you for another helpful video.

[@lisaa8437]

Always love watching, it’s so relaxing listening to you. Beautiful table! 🌺🌸🌼

[@jelenamatic3617]

Perfect! Thank you, Nicolas!🦋🌞❤

[@YouAdii]

Ok, this is going to be a whole mood.

[@candacesherman3182]

such a lovely calming video! Thank you for this nice break from work!

[@rebeccaduke1280]

Just came across this video by chance, so now need to watch every video you've ever posted as this is just my cup of tea!

[@MtHa-yu2sf]

So lovely! I love the flowers! Thank you and have a nice weekend

[@helenoreillylong9497]

Just lovely! Everything looks perfect.

[@mallorytaylor6203]

This video was magnificent from beginning to end Nicolas! I adore how aesthetically pleasing and relaxing your videos are and they’re the perfect way to wind down after a hectic day. Your afternoon tea and tips were a delight and incredibly easy to follow. I also very much appreciate the proper etiquette in regards to conversation starters. I’ve been meaning to watch Bridgerton as I hear it’s an absolutely divine series to get lost in. You finally sold me so thank you!! Enjoy your weekend and I hope it’s a relaxing one!

[@interlene]

I love your tip about making someone feel they are the most fascinating person in the room and the realisation that everyone is in their own way, that's great insight indeed, thank you.

[@NicolasFairford]

My pleasure!

[@pjlewisful]

Watching one of these quality content videos is a relaxing way to start my day in the morning.

[@Jonathan_Price]

Nicholas, I gotta tell you.. you nailed it with this botanical tea! Me and my friend are having your Rose Petal Black Tea and I made strawberry scones to go with it-the tea is superb quality. The depth of the black tea marries well with the rose.

[@50hellkat2]

I have Brit/Scot background and my great grandmother always put butter on table and cheese.

[@lgrigg5439]

Nicholas you always make things so easy you have so much class about you.

[@KJ-gc8oq]

I find people like to talk about themselves so i ask casual questions. The trick is to always be interested and respond to what they say. I learnt this on cruises.

[@debbieparenti3998]

I have just spent a nerve wracking day running several errands and dealing with insane traffic. Now I am sitting down with a cup of tea, watching your wonderful video and I feel totally relaxed. Thank you, thank you for sharing enjoyable, informative videos.

[@StephanieHallBurns]

Everything is beautiful! I have a tiered stand but usually only use it at Christmas to display cookies. Next time I serve tea, I will use it and think of your lovely space!

[@NicolasFairford]

Great idea!

[@patrickdonkers7400]

Love the flower arrangement!!!

[@marynagorbenko3548]

Beautiful Nicolas! You are a delight to observe, and a true inspiration. Thank you 💖

[@baruchya]

I want a hall like yours! 😃😃😃😃

[@laurespitzner6321]

Love, love, love Bridgeton for exactly all the reasons you mention yourself. Oh! the clothes! 🥰

[@liudmilatsvetkova4333]

Thank you for your afternoon teatime. I like your elegant presentation. The buket

[@christineryman579]

You are just amazing Nicolas, everything you say and do and demonstrate is so soothing and just what we need to hear and watch in these trying times, I never tire of your videos, thankyou so much, I love them all xx

[@tanya8940]

Looking fab Nicholas! Have a great Sunday everyone 😊

[@M15Guys]

Nicolas - highly enjoyable vlog this week ☺ Thank you x

[@richardgreiner9264]

So happy to see you again . A fantastic episode !

[@mwaters5134]

Great conversation starter suggestions, Nicholas! Well done.

[@amandarickets5448]

Beautiful wall color, Nicholas. Gorgeous!

[@galebecker3487]

Hi Nicholas, thank you for having us to tea. Everything looked beautiful. Loved your flower arrangement. Looking forward to your next video. Take care Gale x

[@NicolasFairford]

Thank you so much x x

[@susanbrown2909]

Always so calm Nicolas..and the table was set beautifully ..thankyou.

[@janicebrowningaquino792]

Beautiful flower centerpiece Nicholas! I think all of us can benefit from guidance of this nature as either initial information or as a refresher. Your room is elegant and inviting!! 🌷