How To Make A Guy Fall For You (Here’s EVERYTHING She Did) - Camille’s Update

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@livewithinthedream]

Some feedback for Geoffrey’s way. True story, just happened today so I can say this WORKS in all relationships not just romantic. Never been close to my mom until I started living change and really loving the process. Due to studying this stuff I dreamt about it. In the dream I did the right frameworks after getting them wrong two times first (this was with my wife and seemed very real), I used the correct forms of communication such as touch/listen/repeat/clarify along with the frames and I woke up and felt CONFIDENT in my process. Now listen to this, spoke to my mom and did the entire process perfectly. She spoke of how she felt about her disease, how I am her only confident, how nobody has truly asked how she felt and just assumed, how she finally felt heard and cried she was so happy. Now I felt joy and great shame BECAUSE until the last few weeks I was part of that other group but dang Geoffrey you have gold here. Never even going to have friendships unless they involve this level of depth

[@livewithinthedream]

the timing on this was fate. the discussion on the mind virus of the urgency illusion in this video and comparing scenarios of other success stories really lets me wake up to similar blind spots myself and most in these situations have. For what its worth, following Geoffrey has repaired my relationship with my daughter even if my wife's walls are at an all-time high. I realized all this a tad late! I can now see how she has to protect herself, so I am not in a rush anymore. Just wanted to say thank you. Truly

[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

This video is actually a good explanation of untethering and how and why it works. Another masterpiece

[@livewithinthedream]

Story time: Okay wife called me today…from her work computer to tell me her phone was broken. Somewhere in this conversation she went from pleasant to “I told you so many times not to feed her any sugars or preservatives”. Among other harsh words. We have been separated some time and I was completely stone walled. Now she at least talks to me again. I learned from Geoffrey here to treat that resistance as positive and agreed, at the same time pointing out we had talked about it more than the old me wouldve liked to admit but the me now truly values her thoughts and I would like to hear about her alternatives. Done? No. I realized it was resistance but failed to use the paraphrase clarify as I only realized after that I only saw the tree and behind it was the notion of “I don’t feel heard.“ “I feel ignored” “he doesn’t care about what I think anyway and it shows by how he does not listen”. I will tackle this tomorrow. I am confident in my controlled compassion. I will use this to TTH despite it having been so long and start building on the emotional trust. To the front lines gentleman.

[@seismicwhale5371]

Dude its absurd to tiptoe around people like this. Thays no way to live. Get a goddamn spine and love your life and trust your decisions. Shes not god, shes just another human with an asshole and feet. Caving is a choice. Make better choices.

[@jonjbivins]

Thanks Camille I appreciate this follow up interview. After a year I let go and I’m non attached to my partner coming back. I’m enjoying this person I’m becoming and letting things go. No one knows what the future will holds

[@ThonThon007]

“Look at the lawn bro!” 😂 love that analogy!!!

[@thomaszander4110]

Fantastic video! this video really highlights the perspective I needed to project a healthy relationship with an avoidant and harness my anxious urgencies. As well as just trust the process you iterate throughout. Been watching you for a long time but could never afford the program lol

[@peternotz4450]

Hey Geoffrey, you said this at 1:02:25 to me at our group call last time haha! I hope you are not refering to our conversation because I don't intend to drop the processes 😂 Wasn't my intention to throw a tantrum there. I just love how you are able to reinterpret VMs in such a thriving way. It definitely stick. Sometimes you are like Jesus. I throw you 3 units of VMs and you make 3 units of Wine. :) I need to become way more thriving to get on your level.

[@livewithinthedream]

Geoffrey mind linking your video on effort and surrender? Thanks

[@alecmcd8536]

04:35 -> yet another way you're still tethered 33:35 -> The importance of unteathering and shifting paradigms.

[@vncntbrn]

Heeey man! New vid! About to start watching this once I get home. I really like the follow up interviews, just like the one you did with John. The growth becomes so noticeable. Will always be thankful for the lessons that your video always have!

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Love to hear it! After you finish this video, let me know what lessons resonated with you the most :)

[@henriquemiranda4660]

Hey Geff, you usually talk about your techniques working on long term relationships, but what about one year long relationships?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

While most of my success stories are from clients involved in long-term relationships, let me ask you... Why wouldn't the principles & processes work for one-year relationships, or even short-term relationships? If you can build the 5 pillars better than ANYONE else can, wouldn't you become a CATCH anywhere you go? If you've haven't seen Camille's previous interview, then let her show you how the program's principles apply to ALL relationships (regardless of length): kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZfagYBtYrGbmpY

[@henriquemiranda4660]

@@GeoffreySetiawan you're right, I think I was just scared because long-term relationships tend to have problems with baggage while short term tend to have problems with feelings fadinh, Isn't the approach different?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

@@henriquemiranda4660 Worry not, my guy :) Check this video out for more depth on EXACTLY what you're asking about: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGmyYp6qjN6Gr7s

[@RoY2Kaldo]

Is this possible for people who has not gotten their basic needs under control?

[@gggjfj]

Whats the name of the podcast?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

We're still keeping that a surprise :) We'll let you know when it launches!

[@kalmandavid3669]

@@GeoffreySetiawan Can't wait! Keep it up the good work!

[@hassanniazi9409]

Im struggling to understand the complete difference between want and need . because I feel like even if you want someone a part of you will be sad or hurt if in the end what makes the other person happier is pursuing a future with someone else

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Good question! Think about this... If I say "I love you" to my partner out of NEED, and my partner doesn't say "I love you" back but I NEED her to say it, then I cannot help but retaliate. The retaliation can come in MANY forms, not just the obvious ones that come to mind. Often times, it can be VERY subtle with behaviors such as guilt-tripping, getting all mopey/depressed and putting ever-so-slight pressure on her, etc. If I WANT her to say that, but I don't NEED her to say it, then I won't feel the need to retaliate at all. Coming from a place of WANT is a very deep internal state bred from your intentions, it CANNOT be faked. The difference between NEED and WANT requires a lot of introspection and honesty. A little more specifics in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b5mmmZ18jdGNo6s

[@hassanniazi9409]

@@GeoffreySetiawan I guess you go from need to want when you know you will turn out just fine without it so you don’t retaliate . Meaning I should also focus on trying to make my life fulfilling outside of her too , right ?

[@aus-reviews8462]

bro after 2 years just move on especially if you dont have kids, she sounds ridiculous and her ex sounds like an idiot

[@Fredc-bj7cr]

Dawg, making this comment is crazy. 😂😂 I mean, she seems really happy, is living her best life and is putting her story out there to inspire others, meanwhile, you are troll/heckler hiding behind your keyboard.

[@aus-reviews8462]

@@Fredc-bj7cr not even trolling... 2 years is a long time I'm genuinely curious as to what she did in that time to improve herself... shes lucky the guy didnt find a new partner in that time

[@Fredc-bj7cr]

@@aus-reviews8462 Tell me you did not watch the video without telling me you didn't watch the video. "I'm genuinely curious as to what she did in that time to improve herself..." Are you GENUINELY curious? I mean, if you are, the video is right there and she literally talked about it the whole video. "shes lucky the guy didnt find a new partner in that time" Uh. He did. They both did. Dawg, WTF are you on about?

[@peternotz4450]

Have you asked yourself once the question how you could be wrong here?

[@seismicwhale5371]

​@aus-reviews8462 here come the bottoms aka white knights. Ur spot on. If you dont have kids, move the fk on. Go focus on life and worthwile pursuits instead of these time wasting childish antics. Losers that have nothing better to do with their time entertain these goofy games.