how to never feel shy again

[@parkachu00]

the bob ross of self help dropped another banger 🔥

[@MayaTalhouni]

Spot-on comparison!

[@poojalohumi1598]

Mad accurate

[@chrike01]

Killer description

[@lonestarr1490]

That's so typical! Guy changes his look slightly by growing two centimeters of hair on his head and people immediately start mocking him. /j

[@MayaTalhouni]

@@lonestarr1490 i didn’t really understand it like that, i believe what was meant is his presentation and explanation style is easy to follow and comforting, like Bob Ross 😅

[@ophelia5547]

I’ve been thinking lately that maybe I’m not actually shy, but because everyone around me has been saying that my entire life I just started acting like one

[@benwherlock9869]

Yeah if people tell me I'm quiet I tend to get even quieter.

[@ophelia5547]

@ literally! Especially if they mean my voice like if you can’t hear me I’m just gonna shut up

[@francisco646]

You can overcome it. Who you want to be shouldn’t be held back by your fear of what people expect out of you. Hopefully people tell that to you in a loving way.

[@ophelia5547]

@@francisco646 that's true, but considering where I live I think it's better for me to keep acting like that around people here

[@universeslap]

Well, I'm also naturally quieter and more sensitive to loud sounds and people are calling me shy. I like to think about myself as more deliberate, but it still annoys me, that many people are considering me to be weak, because of it. I value sensitivity and observance more than power and realization probably.

[@theskeptic2367]

literally, the best thing that could happen to youtube. please never stop making content

[@thech8zen1]

One day I was at work and just had an awakening. I looked at all of the customers in line and was like "all these people look nervous and awkward. " It was the first time I realized that it wasn't just me and it's a normal feeling.

[@lonestarr1490]

That's called sonder. Sonder describes the (moment of) realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own. I get this every now and then while on the train. I look around at all the other people and suddenly everyone appears to be trying hard to stay in a role they haven't got the script for.

[@recklessnotion1899]

​@@lonestarr1490​​ Sonder is also a great song by a band named Northlane ;)

[@MikZran]

I was once at an event where several people were rich and powerful in some industry I know absolutely nothing about. Since I had no idea who these people were, I ended up having really nice conversations with people that everyone else was afraid to talk to, haha. So you're right about how not putting people on a pedestal does work.

[@Freeman1000000]

Being shy isn't such a big deal, but being a coward-that's the real issue. I know this from experience, because I've spent my whole life as a coward, especially when it comes to interacting with others, particularly women. I could list countless moments when I knew exactly what I should say or do, but as a coward, I couldn't bring myself to act-even when I knew for a fact that the girl I was interested in was into me.

[@dpistons149]

Damn bro dont be so hard on yourself.

[@abraxas_x]

That's shyness indeed...

[@HoboGardenerBen]

Ah yes, my life, lol. Also gotten past it sometimes and gotten the girl. All the sweeter for the main awkward failures. That said, I am not smooth, more awkward failures still to come but I'm more ok with it :)

[@lorenbeverly4007]

Good belly laugh from the jumping off a cliff sequence. Very relatable. The lack of dialogue between the two was spot on!

[@GeorgeDimovelis]

My main problem was that social interactions were incredibly draining really fast. The way i fixed it is literally to become as chill as possible, tell myself that even if this interaction goes awkward it doesnt really change anything when i go home again. With this mindset i was able to feel myself genuienly laughing, having fun, and i could be with others for hours without getting tired. I know this may sound like a magical fix, but its really ALL IN YOUR MIND

[@kevinsaysyuh]

All good things come to an end, but do know that with this channel you are doing miracles. There are people in this world with issues of self-esteem and past traumas, and information such as this one is behind a paywall like therapy and you are here giving this out for free. I'm glad to have come across your channel throughout my lifetime.

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

Kevin, I'm glad to have you here brother. Thank you for your words. LET'S CONTINUE FORTH TOGETHER.

[@Zelta.]

wake up babe new newel of knowledge video dropped

[@gringoperry]

i like the occasional bits of humour you place into your videos. it makes me feel more connected to you and thus makes me more open to new ideas. thank you for existing man, you have helped me out so much. thank you.

[@hypatch8014]

Bruh the way this guy lays out everything makes me feel incredibly incompetent in my abilities, I've been working on my social anxiety for a couple of years, and I feel like such an idiot that I've not overcome it yet

[@Lin1Lin2Lin3Lin4]

It makes sense that you feel that way because you're so close to your problems. They can be all you see. The fact that you're willing to share your experience speaks to your openess, though. That's admirable

[@xavalintm]

Keep working on it man, you'll get there. There's a lot of people who are not even able to recognize it.

[@stanijev]

Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood (thank me later)

[@90Gunni]

This is honestly the most practical, precise and clear video on this subject I have ever seen!

[@kokoado]

Trust me, I've talked to other people, and they've showed how much they didn't want to be bothered/talked to by me

[@kevinsaysyuh]

There is the exception and they do exist, they are just fucked up and sadly there are bad apples in life. Sometimes its just the circle you have around, it is hard to go out of that circle into a new one, but you know what? If you never leave the old circle, you will never meet the new. And you will regret never trying! A bit of courage and an open mind is all it takes. -Said by a guy who does not know how he would act in that situation. Best regards. Note: Self-improve, we are materialistic as a species and it is OK, look and be approachable!

[@snoozyq9576]

Me too. It's not the exception. It's really common

[@CloneUnit-sq2vs]

U just couldnt get them to match ur vibe dw there will be other opportunities

[@jamad-y7m]

So what are you gonna let them bother you? Are you going to stop being happy because other people aren’t happy?

[@homsthoughts]

This man is a blessing

[@bethanypratt2658]

This is very timely! I've got a Christmas party coming up that I had been feeling nervous about.

[@amurense]

🖤 after 3 years in therapy for agoraphobia, social anxiety & mutism (unable to speak) i got diagnosed with AvPD; this is literally how I feel in groups ! i hope someday i can apply myself & make friends haha

[@Miminaysmn]

Love your videos, like always :) I used to be very shy but now I love socializing, I always end up overthinking and regretting it, so it's really nice to know that I've probably helped someone feel better about their embarrassment haha

[@JennWatson]

Much love to the best teacher in the whole world !!! Thank you for all you do! ❤

[@rjleatherworks]

Not just you. One of us!

[@slushyized]

I love the simple classical way you always deliver your videos!

[@_ycovers_]

I discovered this channel today, and it's certainly the best thing that happened to me in a week✨

[@drestotv4444]

I'm so glad I found you mate. When the pupil is ready the teacher will appear

[@akshitsingh3838]

I'm so glad I subscribed to your channel Lewis. It's exactly what I needed since a long time from a self help youtube channel

[@lorenbeverly4007]

Alan watts quote for the win!!! Major ups

[@amensoul1242]

4:42 u saved my day man :3

[@hlebus228]

thank you SO MUCH for your videos! they have been a great help! also thank you for being a cool and inspiring human being

[@GogosUTube]

Thanks! I appreciate all of your content

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

@GogosUTube thank you :) that’s very kind of you. I appreciate you 🫶🏻

[@yazandar6952]

Love to see lews hair grows in the thumbnails

[@poltergeistbingo9144]

You're always so sensible and helpful :)

[@TroyMarch-up8yp]

Eyy, first viewer! Appreciate the content as always mate

[@nnamdiuzoigwe9512]

Bro your videos are so helpful to me…Thanks for all you do…watching from Nigeria

[@niloofarojani]

Helpful as always✨

[@mbh8621]

This is a great channel. Thanks

[@saintarcturus]

The information you’re sharing is excellent-I really enjoy your content! However, I feel like the visuals could be improved. I particularly liked the video you did on How to Discipline Yourself. The setting in that video was more engaging and visually appealing compared to your current setup with the whiteboard. If you want to use the whiteboard, maybe try incorporating a more dynamic or visually interesting background like the one from that video. It would make the learning experience more enjoyable and immersive. Keep up the great work!

[@Sharlice87]

Fantastic video. Thank you!

[@barryanders]

A lot of content, I hear but it doesn't ultimately make a difference. I wanted you to know that your content has actually made a huge difference in my life.

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

Thank you :)

[@Luisa12718]

How is the timing of your videos always perfect😂

[@fugu404]

I needed to hear this. Thank you Lewis.

[@taylorkeller3661]

Absolute fire as always!! 💯💯💯

[@green3487]

Thank you man with soothing voice and cool moustache. This was very informative ☺

[@eiversonperez8915]

Always fully watching these🤩

[@Bluevioletsoul]

Fantastic 👏 great work

[@corrosive844]

4:32 dont worry mate youre not alone

[@valenondar]

I love you, thank you for so much and sorry for so little

[@nayaleezy]

I'm not shy, just disinterested with the smallchat and not keen on digging through social minutia to find their depth of authenticity & compatibility.

[@HighestWavelength]

I was always shy growing up it was horrible!!! Once you let go and realize we’re all interconnected there’s no reason to be shy! 🩶

[@mongoharry7765]

Great insight 😎

[@ajay6002]

My latest character development just dropped

[@sierravan]

This video helped me so much

[@DaGleese]

Uncanny timing, I've got a presentation tomorrow

[@Unknown-bg5hv]

Thanks Daddy Knowledge 🙂

[@Lin1Lin2Lin3Lin4]

"Babe! Get over here! Newel of knowledge dropped another video!"

[@infirite72]

The goat😊

[@concertautist4474]

Jolly good, aye.

[@foratabdulsalamfaris4796]

Nice explanation 👏

[@blan514]

Merci.

[@E_takt]

1:30 Forget about my family! MY CHEESE!!!

[@ddreaug526]

0:56 plag? Plagiarism? Freud? Freudian slip?

[@Bjorn_Algiz]

Interesting analysis 🤔

[@artismyprofession]

Gotta ask. Does your knowledge come from first hand life experience through observation, reading and research on human behavior or a combination of all of the above?

[@GogosUTube]

Life experiences and self taught through books, textbooks, podcasts, etc. He explains in his Q&A video

[@melancholiusmonkey-mann5749]

Your next video should be how to put Humpty Dumpty back together again once youve annihilated his character, and poisoned any chance of having an authentic relationship in his "community". This would be hard to do I know. So consider instructing Humpty (who is already aware that everything is his fault) how he might approach a potential asymmetrical (or bullshit) friendship should he manage to glue together his face(the one he shows to the world) Should his new world face be a Janasian-like multiface capable of acting a multitude of performances? And what if being inauthentic, a chameleon, somehow becomes this truest most honest form of authenticity? Go on... Tell me how I should tell him to seek help. Because the truth is, we are only good at destruction, we vile humans. We only pretend we know how to rebuild when in reality, we must evoke the psyche ward to clean up our mess.

[@poojalohumi1598]

great advice 👍 fun fact: I always watch your videos w a copy and a pen 🤓

[@sween187]

13.35 , careful now. 😂

[@raunaqsingh3629]

❤❤❤

[@barbiedoll7778]

I feel shy when I watch you because you are handsome asf❤❤❤❤

[@bookwormbon482]

2:48 what about autism? Then it is a difference. How to overcome that?

[@itb7439]

Im autistic, people ARE different from me.... 😂

[@schoolneverteach]

Who else is enjoying Lewis' hair no longer feeling shy lately? 🙋🏻‍♂️

[@isaacddestroy3674]

Or, is his scalp been feeling shy lately?

[@schoolneverteach]

@ that could well be the case, u r so right!? 😉

[@canchero724]

I preferred the shy hair tbh.

[@schoolneverteach]

@@canchero724 I know what u mean! Have u submitted request for shy hair reversion?

[@gabypapeles]

ILU

[@MixarzZ]

Spill milk all over myself! Got it!

[@deann6256]

Excellent message! I really felt this and needed to hear it 🫶🏼

[@LatteLobster]

My default topic is politics :)

[@christopherkingston9601]

That driver is a shallow man who projects falsehood in words that suit his incorrect constructs. He labels you a grass to try to degrade you and says love to the police officer to ingratiate himself to them. He is like soo many people nowadays - a fraud.

[@bigol9223]

Jesse tf are you talking about

[@violetaleenders9125]

You are precious😅 really likeable and funny, remaining fully professional and content oriented at all times. And you genuinely enjoy getting your point across, which works like magic 🪄 it’s refreshing and inspiring. I usually refrain from writing comments, either because I am shy or I think I am special 😂 Not this time: so thank you and keep up the good work!👏 👏 👏