How two Software Engineers fell in love // Q&A with Scott (my husband)

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00:00 - Intro
1:01 - How we met
1:51 - What attracted us to each other
3:16 - How we decided to get married
5:57 - Maintaining a healthy relationship
8:09 - Awkward silences?
9:27 - Our favorite items
10:51 - His favorite/least favorite things about me
12:58 - What we do when we're mad
14:49 - Finding the time for each other
15:26 - On having children
15:36 - Supporting me through my career jump
17:36 - What IS Scott?
17:46 - On marrying a non-Japanese person
19:11 - Outtro
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Mayuko Inoue is a content creator and Software Engineer. After working in Silicon Valley tech companies like Intuit, Patreon, and Netflix for six years as an iOS Engineer, she became a full-time creator in 2020. Her work aims to help people find their way through the tech industry by sharing her own experiences navigating this world through technology, career advice, and lifestyle videos. She is passionate about discussions around mental health, cultural identity, and creating technology with empathy and compassion.
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[@hellomayuko]

If y'all liked the energy of this video, come hang out with us LIVE in Scott's Twitch stream TOMORROW (12/24) at 2PM PT where we'll be cooking and eating and hanging out ☺ www.twitch.tv/squatkong

[@tailsorange2872]

Sure thing!

[@shawntsou660]

Hahahaha WHATTTYY SCOT K is your husby. Omg his Keybs are absolutely fire mannnnn

[@zwwx2142]

Te felicito vengo de una entrevista que e hizo Jorge en su Canal...👍

[@chloeshih]

To us viewers, scott is the Uber driver turned husband and now the Minecraft streamer we never knew we needed.

[@shogunzkilla43]

It’s like Scott is a natural talking to a camera! He also has a very relaxed and fun personality

[@nickkujawski7635]

Scott with the fire intro, I'd watch that Minecraft tutorial for sure

[@vladinstein]

It's very inspiring to see such a great couple. Gives me hope.

[@antonellamar]

it's such a fun, lighthearted chat, and yet still so much wisdom in it. Scott is such a natural in front of the camera! I'm now waiting for that Minecraft tutorial

[@thugcow]

So nice that you and your Uber driver hit it off so well!

[@alancheng6206]

Totally agree with you guys that talking while you're emotional doesn't help at all. Space is really important to make sure you don't end up hurting each other more. Glad to hear you guys know how to navigate those rocky times together!

[@youngdrew7889]

Hi Mayuko! You’ve inspired me a lot on my long cs journey ‼️

[@LeonLokk]

Scott is hilarious! Loving the chemistry. Hoping to see more of these couple videos in the future 🙂

[@DenDev]

Y'all are awesome! 🙌 Happy holidays!

[@ashdall]

this was sweet to watch

[@RizzwareEngineer]

im crying, foaming at the mouth, rolling in my tears

[@arthjeff9011]

same

[@dabribster6013]

IT SHOULDVE BEEN ME

[@mohsenansary5145]

why

[@bertrandrussell3422]

this is so so so so sweet!! my heart is so warm after watching this, thank you Mayuko and Scottie!

[@cathychuanggg]

Would love to see more Scott in your videos :)

[@_briantravis]

Your videos' vibes are always the best. Happy holidays!

[@Pedroxboy100]

This video was great!!! I loved to know a little bit more about your two. Happy and long live to your two 🥰

[@suvigyabasnotra7378]

I like this new rolled out 'update' that Software Developers are getting hooked too!

[@fatinsabki]

we have a bit of feeling.

[@ClassicGameSessions]

Nice guys - happy holidays!

[@joshuajoseendozo2105]

Love the duo. Merry Christmas! 🎄

[@sophiegao6802]

Thanks for sharing Mayuko! Merry Christmas to you and your fam!

[@jaydenlopez8165]

Super fun video!

[@hellochii1675]

Ah! Happy holidays 🎉🎄🎉 it’s the best time of the year 😊 thanks Mayuko for sharing software engineers couple's stories ~

[@rohankrishnaullas6705]

Thankyou sooo much for this video!!

[@ethannorton3470]

i'm envious of your relationship. you guys seem like such a great couple!😃 ecstatic for you both.

[@siansroadtonirvana]

This was nice❤ thank you for sharing.

[@Live-hh6li]

Enjoyed the video 😊

[@placeholder_name321]

I had no idea you guys got married whaaaatttttt!?🥳🥳 congratulations!!! You two look so happy together! Power to you

[@jeremytheoneofdestiny8691]

Scott is awesome. He should start his own channel! You both have distinct but equally funny types of humor!

[@ninjaz31]

Really loved this video

[@Nerd101]

Loved this video! Great!

[@nordiin88]

Merry Christmas to you and yours fam!

[@hanky.9476]

Like your style. Thanks for sharing!

[@ankithajain5592]

please make a video about your(mayuko's) haircut and hair routine. i love it.

[@BlueTurtle23]

Wohoo! Great vid!

[@stevensong8784]

4:00 - 5:00 Fights are essential for healthy long marriage. It’s how the pair see eye to eye, tolerate, trade. Btw how did you shoot that scene when sling and wallet landed?

[@avrillovugne]

Scott is legit funny

[@beingbornwasamistake9770]

Legit Beta! Lol

[@zackwyvern2582]

@@beingbornwasamistake9770 Whoa there mr. inferiority complex :) calm down

[@greatcanadianmoose3965]

Bruhhhh Scott writing the subtitles at the end is awesome I like this guy lol

[@KindJujubes]

Hi Mayuko, thanks for sharing your story! Given that both you and Scott lead pretty busy career lives, how do the both of you manage the distribution of household chores (like preparing food/cleaning/etc etc) (or the communication of it) in you guys' lives? Was it easy for you guys? Did it cause any conflicts? Would be interested to hear you guys' take on that. Thanks. :)

[@d8J47QpR]

Based on her videos I don't think she has a full time job anymore, it's just this channel. This is a job in itself, but come on, you know it's not that bad

[@risatanaka1529]

Love this video ❤️

[@anasghazi6130]

loved this video ;-; God bless u two

[@logicawe]

Good content, thanks for sharing 👍

[@eluroalex5920]

Love this

[@Gmkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk]

I have finally found my favourite TECH COUPLE

[@kyurindiaryvlogs7714]

This is sooo sweeet 😍😍😍

[@Waruto]

Wholesome Scott 👍

[@emanuelpeter5772]

So happy 4 u

[@temiloluwaawoyele1125]

Scott talking about Mayuko's charm as the first thing that got him attracted.....You'll know he's a 100....love you guys

[@dannybones9484]

MVP for handwriting at the end

[@Vietnamkid1993]

Scott is hilarious

[@merkisruiz3120]

Rigorous Cycle? Yup, had to keep that one

[@jatinnandwani6678]

Thanks!

[@hopelesssouldisappointment5121]

He’s hell of a fun i like him

[@GloriaChenPHC]

wow your voice is so different when you speak Japanese! so cool! love you videos

[@KrintAsil]

Every video you upload i love it, Can i ask question how old you mayuko.

[@Yuunarichu]

The part where the Japanese question about you marrying a non-Japanese is what I love about different cultural mindsets/ideas(?), one is concerned about the differences between a Japanese and American and how two different Asians marrying each other, meanwhile, as an Asian American it's not very different as the Japanese comment seems to think it is. Asian Americans have very similar lifestyles growing up, so it's no biggie. I think for both the Japanese comment and for Mayuko & Scott, having two different cultures are the best of both worlds. My mom is a Vietnamese-born Chinese and my dad is half Laos and Thai, from an Asian American perspective it's two Asians marrying together, but for both my parents as they are still Asian so they make fun of each other's cultures. As an American teen, I have "four" different cultural backgrounds that comes naturally to me despite growing up in America. My question, can Scott speak Taiwanese then? If he could, hypothetically if you were to have kids they could be fluent in English, Taiwanese, and Japanese. That'd be an amazing flex!

[@stephenliu5404]

the link with the promotion ends on December 4th :( is there anyway that can be changed or are we too late? either way, loving the vibes! merry christmas and happy holidays!

[@arumugamcovai]

Just realized Scott is so fun than muyuko! 😃

[@shynnobi]

“I just wanna be near you” 😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@bitsopheap4388]

Your're so sweet both Software Engineers.

[@diegomatos2796]

The best intro

[@tstar5944]

Awww...2:48 "tell me more"

[@bkpaf21]

Found Mayuko because I was interested in software engineering! How am i learning things that will help my own marriage!!!!!

[@ArifDiamanta]

Wow.. you have handsome and funny husband. You guys are so sweet, hope you guys happy ever after.

[@TheKevinShen]

Yes! Moar Scott! :D

[@TheMortalBard]

Love it. FYI 6:56 scared me a bit.

[@nueah]

Soulmates 💕💕💕

[@eobard1328]

Alright we stan scott

[@sarfrasnasim9112]

Intersting topic

[@ss-ur9zr]

スコットさんが3単語以上喋るのはじめて見ました😁

[@sambitsahoo2700]

Very cool

[@Karuska22ps]

This is the type of relationship I want😔

[@senalweerasekara]

Yes I wanna see more of you two. make more vids together. gaming channel??

[@bird5119]

which engineering club? I am doing triton robotics rn but i am curious about your experience in UCSD (im currently a freshman)

[@maxsterling9908]

Mayuko, not sure if you're gonna see this or not. But I look at Scott and he seems so familiar but I don't even live in US. I was wondering all this time and then it it me. There was a character on HBO Silicon Valley named Seth Lee. There's an uncanny resemblance b/w Scott and the guy who played Seth. I don't even know which episode that was on but there is a clip on KZbin you can check out. The title of the clip is "Silicon Valley - Pied Piper hacked EndFrame". I dunno ... maybe it is me but you need to check it out. :)

[@accietheking]

one day imma have it one day😣

[@aniketphatak951]

Damn you guys are so lucky

[@createavity]

You guys look similar!!!

[@dharmateja6137]

I think most of your viewers/ followers are from India !! btw great video.

[@joaovmlsilva3509]

Oh boy did I related with mayuko in this And it wasn't just a bit

[@user-ug1zy7fx4c]

旦那さんめっちゃイケメンだし面白いｗｗ美男美女で空気感も素敵でとてもお似合いなカップル！

[@techjey]

[@CrashOverride332]

I like this content. Not liking that it's taking so long for me to meet someone.

[@kcassiere817]

YO SCOTT

[@lollmylifex3]

i wonder what your MBTI types are. imma take a wild guess at ENFJ (scott) and ISFP/INFP (mayuko)

[@edronda]

Excellent video, come both to Tijuana for tacos

[@paulphoenix1973]

Your husband?! I think I saw him a while back in one of your videos and I thought he was your brother! You two look too similar.

[@speedywiz]

no~ way~ I always thought Scott is Japanese also, hehe anywayz, 台日友好 🇯🇵🇹🇼🤝

[@samuelodan2376]

He looks Chinese so that was my first guess.

[@kartaLaLa]

I can only have relationship with my SQL database

[@ajith3436]

Lucky guy

[@gerardosorto9373]

I didn't know Scoot is SWE too.

[@SaurabhGangamwar]

if else & switch case 😅😂 I also do that

[@newlife9580]

good day to everyone, thank you so much to those who sent a little help, we buy some rice and salt for our meal this Christmas, then some bread, god bless you,

[@junhanl811]

Lucky man

[@ZY-cr7yg]

3:09 wait, shouldn’t it be vicious circle?

[@joshuaballentine9482]

This is the way I want to communicate and live with my wife.

[@simplerway489]

There were moments where I thought a normal and healthy relationship was possible, but people who are damaged good couldn't expect too much. It's been a long and bumpy life and love only appears in glimpses. Maybe in the next lifetime, something simple and lovely will happen.

[@ashdall]

remember to love yourself. you’ll find love 💕

[@lotuswolf1518]

Self love is the best love I am 25 n forever single

[@krn-in2tv]

🥺💕💕💕

[@meekylol1636]

you didnt talk about your least/favourite things about scott!

[@jj1bdx]

About your "international" marriage: you two are Americans. Period. Right? :) OTOH in our case even we're from the same country Japan the difference between Kanto and Kansai cultures have made our marriage with a lot of "international" flavors, although we share the 80% of our languages together (note well: NOT 100%) :) Glad to see you two are getting along very well anyway so far as I've seen in this video!