I Confronted My Partner Who Was Cheating On Me And He Still Owes Me A LOT OF MONEY r/Relationships

[@blandoatmeal1273]

Every time their friends say he's a good guy for returning the money OP should ask them this, 'if someone mugged you and then went on to give some of the money they stole from you to a charity, would you say they're a good person because they did a normally good thing after doing a bad thing?'

[@photofreak56]

Yeah probably not. I understand that there are people who mug other people so that they can get money to feed themselves or out of desperation but still doesn't change the fact that what they're doing is really fucked up. Honestly I wish that I had that type of disappointment that Op has because I would have gone full on scorched Earth if I found out my partner cheated on me and then erased me so fucking quickly.

[@Davtwan]

@@photofreak56 - Yeah, at the same time, I hope I never have to chose between doing the right thing and surviving. I don’t think my heart could take it.

[@jgw5491]

People have VERY low expectations. She should ditch any "friends" who imply that crap. Time for a life reset. 💖

[@robbiprendergast7759]

Actually, every time anyone says he's a good guy, I would respond, apparently not, he's still committing fraud (e.g , using fraudulent t4's to get a new loan to pay op back). I would give a heads up to the loan company regarding the new fraudulent loan. Then my work would be done. Actual good guys don't cheat or commit financial crimes 🤔

[@Vickzq]

If they are called 'Robbin Hood'... then yes 😅

[@WolframKKM]

Those friends have a really funny definition of what makes someone a "good guy." You just find out this guy cheated and committed tax fraud and you're like "aw, but remember all the good times!" 😂

[@helenlewis2510]

And you know that they blame op

[@SakuraMoonflower]

OP needs to ditch those "friends". Not only are they the ones who recommended this Dutchbag to her, they think the cheater did nothing wrong. They clearly have poor judgement

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Wow..........Just coldly erased OP and quickly moved with his new girlfriend after she confronted him and kicked him out. OP handled the breakup like a champ, a VERY mature and classy champ. She is definitely lucky to be rid of that fool. Her ex and his new girlfriend deserve each other, and I wouldn't be surprised if one or the other picked up their cheating ways again. Good riddance. I hope OP finds someone who loves her for herself and is worthy of her. ❤️💕❤️

[@low-keydrama1260]

That relationship probably won’t last. His eyes will probably wander to another girl

[@SCP01986]

@@low-keydrama1260 Bingo. If he cheats for you, he'll cheat on you.

[@hothotheat3000]

He’s using the new one for money, too.

[@WabbitHunter68]

When a cheater moves in with their affair partner they create a vacancy.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

@@low-keydrama1260 I wouldn't be surprised if that relationship doesn't last long. If you just want to sleep around, then that's fine. But don't drag people who want a real relationship into your bachelor/bachelorette lifestyle.

[@dianasmith8248]

Story one: After she gets paid back, she needs to turn him and his old boss in for fraud.

[@ShowdogTiger]

F*ck that shit. Turn him in now. It is on her line of credit. He can claim she knew. This is a Federal crime. There is no time off for good behavior.

[@Kofi_Mensahs_BurnerAccount]

She’ll be complicit for taking part in a scam.

[@srideout91]

Thank you. I don’t have to waste listening to another doormat story. Or another fairytale. I’m so tired of these creative writing stories

[@kerribottriell-baxter7345]

@@srideout91 Not everyone has the energy and are free to not take that route, and not everything is a fairytale/creative writer's piece.

[@srideout91]

@@kerribottriell-baxter7345 👍🏿

[@swearimnotarobot3746]

Story 1: This guy sounds lie a gold digger. Also damn, the amount of people complacent in the affair

[@Snowshowslow]

Yes and in the mortgage fraud... He sure manages to make a lot of other people solve his problems for him.

[@mysterylovescompany2657]

Thanks to OP for reminding Reddit that not every arsehole is a narcissist, which is a highly specific clinical personality disorder & not simply a catch-all for selfish + toxic behaviours.

[@Frostfern94]

Agreed. They like to call everyone they dislike a narcissist

[@jazzyg7202]

Story one: I feel so bad for op, but I have so much respect for the way op is handling the breakup. The ex boyfriend and his ap will have to deal with grownup problems now they are moving in with each other. It was easy for them to meet up at a hotel for a few hours,but now they will be around each other longer and will not have a house keeper to clean up after themselves.

[@VesnaVK]

OP is naive, not mature. She thinks this is some soul mate love story. She thinks he's a good person who fell in love. No. He's just a grifter who cheats woman out of money, devotion, and sex. The affair partner is just another victim.

[@ginathecookie]

This I'm so impressed also She stood her ground

[@eliopearlman1309]

Story 1: 'Why didn't he just break up with me?' I'll tell you why, because were the person funding his life and borrowing 25K against your line of credit and having him live rent-free in your house after barely knowing him, that's why.

[@TsukiKageTora]

Lorenda or whatever is going to regret even cheating with a man who is easy to cheat on his current partner and fraud her out of money and manipulate her into giving him 5 months rent free. She will regret even meeting him when he does this to her and we will all love it since karma does what karma knows best

[@VesnaVK]

He probably told the affair partner terrible things about OP.

[@TsukiKageTora]

@@VesnaVK and now she will unravel the truth of him

[@emilybarclay8831]

@@VesnaVK and if she’s stupid enough not to see through that, she’s gonna have it coming. If someone tells you they have a partner, they’re cheating unless you meet their partner face to face and get their approval. If someone constantly badmouths their partner or most recent ex, they’re the problem

[@oliviaiheke9886]

I don’t think that’s gonna be the case. Just found an update from the OP where Loreena had a one night stand on a trip to Portugal. Not only that, but she excitedly told the BF and he said it was cool as long as there were no emotional attachments. 🫤

[@VesnaVK]

@@oliviaiheke9886 how does OP know such things?

[@rinpaisys]

I believe the saying you were looking for there at the end is “a life well lived is the best revenge”.

[@Drewski217]

OP wrote this so poetically, I could never. I hope she has a good life from now on going forward.

[@melansonwoitowich1462]

"He's such a good guy"...people said that about Ted Bundy as well.

[@cl5470]

In reality, the vast majority of people who met Bundy found him creepy and thought there was something off about him. Ignoring your instincts to be nice is what gets you in trouble.

[@dias951]

I hope karma hits that guy and his affair partner like a truck full of bricks. This story really resonated with me cause my ex, even though he was the cheater, was the one who ghosted me and acted like a victim, I hope OP lives her best life and that one day she meets someone who gives her the happiness he could never give her

[@VesnaVK]

Affair partner is just another victim.

[@ZoeAlleyne]

@@VesnaVK and the AP willingly victimised someone else.

[@dias951]

@@VesnaVK yes, someone who knows they’re helping someone cheat is def a victim, that’s some great logic you got there, good job 🥰

[@ginathecookie]

Ty Mark for defending OP You are correct, good person does not do those things Also someone can appear, or act like, a good person for some aspects And behind closed doors; all it takes is one dumb decision. Or two for Spencer in this case.

[@bdhesse]

My mom used to work for CRA. They would care because a business is involved.

[@SLTheOneAndAwesome19]

18:39 - I've been subscribed to Mark and listening to his videos for about a year now, but I could never put my finger on exactly what makes him different from other reddit reading channels. This. This right here. The empathy. How angry he gets for OP because he feels for them, not only as a victim of cheating, but the complacency of the people around her. His genuine blessings for her to move on and do well in the future. Keep being you, Mark. Much love.

[@ginathecookie]

Agreed He also knows when to side with someone and when to be neutral He is honest when he doesn't know something And throughout all of it he is empathic He is a rare breed (old saying) and I am here for it It's (his channel is) a good relaxing way to listen to these stories and doesn't get me worked up like other narrators have (LG has after he was a bit weird about a Depression and Hygiene subject for example). It's so hard to find that special blend of Markness for stories like this I hope he never fully stops, we need every bit of goodness and empathy on the internet we can get.

[@colleencook382]

A belated waffle welcome to the Waffle gang! May peace and prosperity be yours.

[@horrorgirl688]

I agree completely..I listen to 3 different channels and Mark is my favorite..he has empathy and I love it..he seems like a wonderful person

[@Weirdandwonderfull19]

OP sounds mature and has handled this awful situation with grace. Sending them big hugs 🖤💜

[@melodymagickal6508]

The first one: "Why not end it" cause then he couldn't have his cake and eat to, screw you over, get financial gains on your dime all while banging his "soul mate" without ruining her financially, of course! Never ever ever give anything to an "SO" without a contract. Call a lawyer and *ruin* him if at all possible. (Edited cause I guess his side piece wasn't broke after all. 🙄😒 Now she'll get to see how it feels as he bangs her, drains her dry- and probably finds a new "true love soul mate" on the side.)

[@itsjustme7487]

Maybe she can get a lien on "his" house. See a lawyer OP.

[@ginathecookie]

Cake eaters are the worst of the worst Cheaters already mostly are (abusers take the top spot, tho) but like How not smart do you have to be to do that stuff in a semi to mostly (to fully) healthy relationship? Its insane

[@theforgotten1803]

And how is this mentality of this douche bag ex not considered Narcissism??? it does to me....

[@joeschmo622]

"Living your best life is the best form of revenge." No, *revenge* is the best form of revenge.

[@nancyjay790]

Trouble is, depending on the revenge someone takes, it can burn down their own life. Living well is you triumphing, which often feels particularly good when you've been denigrated and belittled by someone who you believed to be a partner.

[@joeschmo622]

@@nancyjay790 Nah. "To the last, I grapple with thee; From Hell's heart, I stab at thee; For Hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee."

[@gostavoadolfos2023]

Revenge is good for your health.

[@astronautviolet153]

Story:1 Op Well, find someone, but really needs to go to therapy and definitely Sue him to get the money back. At least she find out now then later on being married and with children .

[@itsjustme7487]

I.have to agree. OP needs to sue or write it off. If her scum bag is like my ex scumbag. He'll try to get back with you OP. Don't fall for his crap.

[@carolregister1503]

She’s a total badass and any so called friend still acting like he’s a good guy should be swept out just like the trash person she got rid of

[@garthrogers2269]

1st story. Yeah, the mortgage fraud was a massive red flag. Sadly for OP, her ex just saw her as an ATM with benefits. As for his financial set-backs, I'm guessing they started around the same time he hooked up with Lorena.

[@elalogar7340]

Agree. And it seems that he started to see his AP in the same light.

[@ginathecookie]

@@elalogar7340 I see bad things happening for that relationship A pattern is highly likely to develop The same one he had with Op

[@ohreally1997]

Story 1: It's crazy to me that she confronted him about the cheating before coming up with more of a plan than "I think I have a fairly credible case for small claims court" to get her 27k back. Then again, I'd definitely have required him to add me to the house note before loaning someone such a substantial amount of money for a hard asset. That is just unbelievable to me.

[@philwill0123]

Yep. Guaranteed she was so determined to get married she definitely didn't tell any friends and family about the 25k she lent otherwise they would have called her a bloody idiot.

[@aurora4218]

Sometimes you think someone is a good person because they're actually just a coward.

[@jgw5491]

Yes. They pull everything out to LOOK good but not BE good, and have relationships with the least effort and the least responsibility.

[@ZoeAlleyne]

My ex bestie was like this. A total fence sitter and a yes man. She would tell people what they wanted to hear and they would adore her for it. Until the truth comes out and people realise that she was a liar and a coward the whole time and slept with 3 best friends in a friend group who all thought they were exclusive. Oops.

[@Musiyca]

There's also many people, especially with social media being this prominent, that put up a front, sort of act for all the outsiders. And only people in the house with them know their true colours. "But he's so caring, he always helps around" yes, he helps everyone but his girl, he sacrifices planed time with her for someone randomly giving a call and wanting to hang out with no direction. That's the usual "good guy" for you. The one in the story is even worst, cause he basically used OP for her money.

[@ZoeAlleyne]

@@Musiyca sounds like my dad tbh, Superhero complex. Likes to "be there" for everyone but not his own family.

[@calmingvoice8646]

Anyone else think the ex saw her post and decided to pay to avoid trouble?

[@guywhowatchesvideos-z2e]

17:11 - That shame joke makes me think of the family guy cut-away where Peter starts singing

[@deathnote6612]

So im 61 seconds in and... 9 months to moving in is NOT a slow build to a relationship

[@rylashadow18]

I hope the OP's living their best life, is in counseling and has a bright out look for their future. Let the trash take itself out and you find yourself stank free of all their mess. The ex and his so called prize are meant to be. Wallowing in the filth of their pathetic existence.

[@Burglar-King]

Good for you Mark calling that “Good Guy” out as an AH

[@moodrider]

Poor OP. what an awful shock and heartbreak. Cant believe how well she handled it, shows the caliber of person she is. I really hope she has stopped thinking it had anything to do with any 'lack' on her part. You should never have to be other than yourself, yourself is enough by a long shot when you are truly loved. Its good he moved on, he didnt love her in the right way. She deserves better.

[@cheyannatillman3826]

He's already started repeating the same patterns with this new girl by borrowing thousands of dollars from her to pay off his ex and getting her to pay for everything towards their new apartment

[@AutumnLeafdust]

Ah, new video to pass the time during a downpour! With a teensy kitten sleeping on my lap, but I can't bring myself to move her so I can stand up and pick up my drawing papers 😅 Hope everyone's doing alright!

[@carolroberts4614]

We had a power cut for an hour after the 4pm storm! We're right on the South coast of England, and it was pretty wild here . It's not much better now!

[@AutumnLeafdust]

@@carolroberts4614 Ouch, hopefully your electronics are doing alright! Thankfully it isn't a storm where I live, just a bunch of rain with a bit of thunder earlier and that's about it ^^;

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Awww

[@carolroberts4614]

I didn't have any internet for a while, I do everything in my kindle , so I don't have data, so I read a book. The storm rolled overhead for nearly an hour, but I like storms.

[@judev3197]

I’m a little jealous. I have a cat, Harley Quinn is her name. She’s just 7 months old. She’s awesome & a bitch. Does not like cuddles lol.

[@judev3197]

So he just goes through life bludging money off women. He’s a real catch. Back off ladies, he’s taken.

[@Stella-nj8fx]

See an attorney about a demand letter, stating failure to pay will result in legal action. Give him the opportunity to consider if he would like his fraudulent activity to be exposed in a court of law.

[@notevenlistening6072]

Heading out tomorrow for a five hour car trip with the husband and kids. Going to my Province's capital for my son's heart surgery. Have to thank you, as your content and consistency are helping my anxiety management.

[@Kstanimal]

Omg 😭 I hope your son will be all right.

[@notevenlistening6072]

@@Kstanimal Me too. He's two and a half. I'm pretty tense, but staying low key for him and my 12 year old. Breathing is vital, lol.

[@Kstanimal]

@@notevenlistening6072 oh my god thats horrible I'm so sorry.. this internet stranger is praying for his safety. Stay calm for sure

[@kitarrah1422]

Wishing you all luck, and a speedy recovery for your son.

[@meirin5316]

@@notevenlistening6072 my brother had multiple heard surgerys since he is alive. he is 24 now. luckily this sector has advanced so much so i think your son will be fine! you guys can do it :) i believe in you, strangers!

[@nylanelson8660]

1st story: the woman Allowed herself to be used as her boyfriend lived rent free & paid for Nothing with her. On top of that she gave him $25K to pay off an debt to his employer which he could have gone to prison for committing Fraud. I suggest she get a lawyer & contact his former employer & file a case against him or she will Never see a dime

[@ginathecookie]

Except the part where she got ther money back

[@brendamuirhead483]

Moving in together after 9 months is not a slow build to a relationship…no wonder it fell apart.

[@Tammohawk1]

1. Ladies, unless he has put a ring on your finger do not loan him any money! Ever.

[@kitarrah1422]

He may not be a narcissist, but he's also not "a good guy".

[@thedarkwench]

You are well out of it. Wish them well and walk away. Karma will come and we know how she is!

[@qnkendra1523]

Last story advice/ frustrated lecture I got may years ago after leaving a "nice guy". I was questioning why he treated me as he did and if it was something about me because one of the few things people would say about him was that he was a nice guy. My friend when I was being torn up about that after an interaction where the ex was a total jerk to me said "Look he's not nice to you and that's what counts". Getting you to participate in fraud, cheating on you, and bailing does not a good guy make. His own actions inform of his character and eventually others will see it but for those being willfully blind cut them along with him.

[@randalthor741]

Not sure about other provinces in Canada, but in BC small claims court has a maximum of $35,000 for damages, so $25K would definitely be within what small claims can award.

[@standinthegsp6858]

Good guys don’t commit adultery, Good guys don’t lie about taxes. Good guys don’t scam people. Good guys don’t commit mortgage fraud. Hell is full of “good” people.

[@homerunboi]

Oh, that quote! It's: "The best revenge is a life well-lived", if I recall correctly.

[@jennilynne1977]

I think the quote you were talking about is "The best revenge is a life well lived." Peace, hugs and love to you

[@HaaraAki]

The comment about walking behind him with a drum made me laugh so hard I scared my animals.

[@boundtogoboogie]

The expression is "the best revenge is living well."

[@TriXJester]

Story 1: Honestly, the best revenge that OP can do is just wait. A partner who cheats once, will cheat again, just give it time.

[@joycetaepke2533]

“Living well is the best revenge”.

[@mercedeseales]

I love your channel mark. I put you on when I need to clean because we all know cleaning is boring 😴 but with you it makes it more fun thanks again for a great story 😃 😊

[@oxford14]

Kills animals 🥺 and cheats on his girlfriend. What a catch.

[@Amna613]

I would like to applaud the OP in this story. No outbursts, no revenge shenanigans, nothing. Just cut him out and get the cash back. Thats ice cold and awesome. He was not a good guy by any standards. His relationship will burn to a crisp itself. 100% guaranteed.

[@jjr9792]

Canadian here! The maximum amount pursuable in small claims court varies wildly by province/territory. Examples: Alberta - $50,000 B.C. & Ontario - $35,000 Quebec - $15,000

[@Melissa-rv1fl]

I know that in the states that a mortgage can be considered fraud if they got the loan for a primary residence and knowingly using it for a income generation without letting the mortgage company know. And they need to pay taxes for the ‘business’ of rental.

[@SkyEcho751]

And again I'm reminded on the reason I now always try to make sure there is text based confirmation of a Loan, so that the person can't deny that they need to pay me back. I won't give out gifts of cash unless I feel like it.

[@KE-hr4sb]

The best revenge is a life well lived! I would have gone full scorched earth and reported him for the fake T4's. Especially considering he used them to get a loan, does that make your loan illegal/you in trouble?

[@philtex107]

Nothing like a Sunday drive and good riding content!

[@dm9078]

We moved in together after 9 months 🤦🏽‍♂️!

[@TheTweetybird1122]

I'd be concerned about his fraud and not reporting it could make you complict.....glad you're away from that trash

[@baskervillebee6097]

Sue for the $25,000. Hope you hear when he cheats on this one. Would have loved to see video of "Shame" boom "Shame" boom!

[@Silence-1170]

Hi waffles! Hope you are all doing well! Stay safe and stay positive waffles! Wishing you all a spectacular sunday!

[@katiegeorgeripia]

Story 1: Nothing but a self coward. I hope you find a better and were worthy person op

[@Famous_Athlete_Hashimoto]

Karma will come for both the guy and his affair partner. No relationship that starts with cheating ever ends well, and the fact that they are borrowing so much money and moving into a new place when she was living with her parents beforehand is just asking for more financial hardship to come. He'll eventually do the same to her as he did to you, and she'll deserve every bit of hardship that comes her way after that

[@leelourose2503]

Last story, she (gf) will get sick and tired of being "her" when he finds a new "her" because she just is not "enough" for him. Bf is a user, glad she got her money.

[@Mewse1203]

Even in the US small claims amounts vary wildly by state. It is the same in Canada with (from my limited googling ability) Ontario being $35,000 but BC being $5,000

[@Voodoomaria]

Story #1 FYI Maximum claim in Small Claims Court in Canada is $35,000.00 CDN. As for the CRA, they disapprove of any kind of tax fraud, but as they received taxes for MORE than they were entitled to, I doubt they will descend quickly upon the fraudsters to force money back into their wallets.

[@louellacharlton4425]

Tyvm Mark stay safe please, peace.

[@marquelbagley4173]

"The best revenge is a life well lived."

[@DemonGodRizer]

Definitely subscribing now, you give of the good vibes mark.

[@MEGalomaniac6829]

Ouch. I feel that whole "good guy" thing. I felt that when my ex cheated on me with the woman he would eventually leave me for. I wasn't a girly girl like her, he was everyone's best friend/brother. She was everything I wasn't. And it wasn't the first time he cheated on me, nor the last time he would cheat. Still hurts like hell because most of our "friends" stayed with him because I was depressed/depressing to be around and always had our children. He could go out to bars are the drop of a hat or play Xbox live all nigjt because I had our children. No one wanted to hang with the depressed single mom. I barely made it through that time and I thank the friends and family that did stay. He went on to cheat on the next two women he was with, but he's still seen as the fun guy. But I found myself a good one after I pulled myself back together. I hope OP does as well.

[@hugoumero9723]

Well i guess your ex friends are all cheaters and ended up cheating in people

[@virtualatheist]

I wouldn't rise above it. I'd take him straight to court for my money and then drop both Ex and his employer completely in it with the tax office.

[@mariannecormier3021]

yes, canada has a $3500 small claims limit (in new brunswick) may differ by province...mind you the dollar is only worth 65 to 70 cents

[@SakuraMoonflower]

*sigh* Affairs that begin this way- out of the excitement of cheating, relying on the wronged partner financially - often end as quickly as they began. I would caution OP to block her ex on everything once she gets her money back from him. When he gets dumped after being cheated on by "Loreena" he will surely have the audacity to return to OP. Don't give him the opportunity.

[@9999plato]

Sue him and place a lien on the home that he purchased. You will be paid eventually.

[@JayeEllis]

In the end, 25K is a cheap lesson learned. This could have gone on for years, and you would have lost much, much more that is unrecoverable. Get a lawyer NOW!

[@MasterBuilderDragon]

Story 1: OP, your ex’s new relationship was found on infidelity. It’ll last as long as a pizza in a dorm room.

[@lauralfreeberg2179]

Love that phrasing.

[@browniewin4121]

Cheating is so disgusting, if someone doesn't want to be in a relationship, break up, then move on. So sad for OP that this happened to her, that she was deceived by someone who really wasn't such a great guy. She handled this with grace in the face of a disgusting person who enjoyed lying. I hope next time OP has the sense to not get together with someone crooked. Wow, so many trashy people who are complicit is all this. After updates: OP should report the fraud to all applicable entities. After update: Glad OP got her money back. WTH, he's not a good guy, good guys do not lie and cheat, do not commit fraud. Now he is using his next partner and her family. Yup, :Living well is the best revenge." ~ George Herbert

[@Alissandre_Iskander]

... I'm sorry "cheater" and "good guy/gal" cannot describe the same person.

[@josephbons1]

So now she knows that she benefited from his fraud, she can't lay a claim anymore. So now he's just going to do this to somebody else and the cycle continues because she was too weak to stand up. Now when he eventually gets caught she could be liable as well. She is not being intelligent, she's setting herself up for a bigger fall later. Can't believe nobody else saw this.

[@amandaswindell8732]

Man, it'd be a shame for anyone in the Canadian tax office to get ahold of this. Took me less than 10 minutes to identify the cheating ex and the AP. Didn't even try that hard; basic Google searches.

[@lindtplease1693]

WtF. $25000 fuck that. NO way would I be loaning ANYONE that amount of money. Major 🚩🚩🚩. I hope the op gets the money back, but I highly doubt they will ever see a red cent.

[@addybishop308]

The best revenge is living well

[@AndyyWithAY]

Story 1 you cannot financially support a man. It seems to always end badly.

[@amyyaku5022]

So he went from being in debt to OP to being in debt to his new gf, his mom, and hopefully a loan shark 😊 Also I disagree with her ex not being a narcissist. It's not always true but a lot of narcissists are seen as the "good guys" cause they're great actors.

[@ladykay5891]

There is small claims court up to $5000 and then there is a way to sue for larger amounts. She can put a lean on his house

[@MsTemptation]

I hope that op learned a valuable lesson regarding using her head instead of listening to her heart. Learn your worth and love yourself.

[@x1tekja]

It is a complete mystery to me how people who cheat and more on with their ap don't see that neither of them are making good moral decisions. It follows that someone who will cheat with you has no qualms cheating on you. Good riddance to the would be "nice guy" I sincerely hope op sees that this was a blessing and props to the MVP her friend who had her back before she was unceremoniously dumped for no reason and without explanation, perhaps without her money.

[@Ifrit86]

Think small claims here in Ontario is $5k, but not sure if it's the same everywhere in canada

[@Nemenvagyokna]

she should tell Loreena's parents.

[@Sir_Gerald_Nosehairs.]

He didn't even have the decency to admit it fully when caught, snapping that it was "one time" when it was multiple occasions, as if the OP was doing *him* an injustice. If the OP needs a bit of consolation, his new woman can never trust him, and deep down she knows she cannot, being well aware of how he can behave. It'll breed suspicion on her side and resentment on his. Not the ingredients for a happy relationship.

[@torukurebayashi1960]

good guy, yeaaah sure.. I had a friend that I let stay with me for a short while. She moved out as if she was fleeing when all I did was confront her about her paying super little towards rent and nothing else and barely doing any chores. Made me take a hard, good look at myself with the help of a therapist and the conclusion was that I am not an abuser, she is probably not a narcissist but is at the very least a Victim and to young to see what she has done. I gave her multiple chances to open communications with me back up and have yet to hear anything, but once I got the utility bill for the time she spend in my apartment and have billed her for her portion, I will block her. Sometimes, the fault lies with a "normal" person even when the situation makes us feel like the bad person. Sometimes it really is just their stupidity and thoughtlessness.

[@gazman2626]

No uk law u can sue in small claims unlimited amount I've been through it. Problem is the cost of taking someone to court goes up the more ur asking for.

[@helianabanes4875]

He is a criminal cheater. Maybe he has the potential to be a good guy, but as it stands, he is NOT a good guy.

[@z0mb1egutzz]

Is it just me or i thought this was going to be a halloween special and she was gonna kill him lol. With how it's written it reminds me of those stories that sounds like it's an AITA post then gets super dark. Mark should really do that for halloween tbh

[@happygolucky9004]

Story 1: She gave him 25 thousand dollars!? What was she thinking? At least make him sign a contract.

[@SherioCheers]

Story 1: She should just turn him in for fraud. Sounds like my old ex, in fact he was a trained chef who couldnt keep it in his pants either LOL

[@xlr8436]

“He’s a good guy” “… to you”

[@dianabialaskahansen2972]

Honestly, I think OP should report his mortgage fraud.

[@artificialintelligence7214]

I hate how common it seems to be for a guy to just go "I'll always love you.. but also i dont think i ever rly loved you lol"

[@dianemartel5205]

I’m disappointed that the woman in the last story didn’t sic the CRA on the business and her bf. CRA isn’t as bad as the IRS, but they are tenacious.