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[@PokhrajRoy.]

Shaaba wants to be called out but she’s taking us with her. That’s what I love about this series. No one is left behind.

[@faenene]

What really matters was the call-outs we met along the way

[@PokhrajRoy.]

@@faenene Haha good one

[@adrienstarfaer]

"Ohana means family"

[@Imjustkendall]

@@adrienstarfaer”Family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten”

[@faenene]

“Who am I? Am I just an accumulation of labels?” Hold off on the existential crisis jeez… /j

[@Itsuki.art_]

5:15 as someone with a long list of disorders (low-functioning depression, generalized anxiety, somniphobia, agoraphobia, tourettes, adhd, autism etc)... ...you guys can do laundry? I can barely even get the motivation to stand up. You guys are like gods to me lmao

[@YourQueerGreatAuntie]

One of my main "disability benefits" is having other people do my laundry 🤣

[@turbgar]

A quote I kind of like is "You cannot be brave without also being afraid."

[@FlareHeart]

Very similar to one of my favorite quotes that says "Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear."

[@turbgar]

@@FlareHeart yess!! That might actually be the one I originally saw years ago and my mind simplified it for me to remember LOL It's such a powerful concept I think everyone should learn, cause it is so true.

[@pbkathleen]

the "let me think about that" line is something my family's therapist puts a lot of emphasis on for us, except some members of my family are very impatient and will push on anyway so the line we're supposed to use is "if i answer right now, the answer will be no. let me think about it and come back to you."

[@A_T216]

As an auDHDer, demand avoidance is very real lmao. The to-do list post made me laugh a lot.

[@faenene]

Same here lol

[@susanharris6959]

Always Love some more Shaaba time! My 28 y/o daughter asked if she was too old for glow in dark stars, my response was never! Whimsy is a joyful part of life that does not have to stop at adulthood!

[@cspratt]

My husband and I both have stuffed animals, most of them have names, and we both snuggle with them. Sometimes you just need a snuggle buddy!

[@user-wi3yx3gy2o]

You know you got trauma when your co workers are sharing funny stories from their youth and you work up the courage to share your special “funniest” “PG” (no nudity, sex, or violence) childhood memory and everyone looks at you like you just pissed on the water cooler….

[@fidgetyfox892]

10:04 ... Alright now. Slow your roll, internet. I didn't even get this experience in a group of friends. I had this event in therapy! I'm an intellectualizer, and deflect with humor. Therapy is thusly, slow going for me. Eventually we dug down to a story about how I wouldn't let my mother lick stamps as a kid, because I saw a segment on the news about a someone getting poisoned by doing it. I made my mother let me do it instead. Haha right? My therapist says, "Oh, so you were assuming the parental role very young then. That's a very big job for a little human. Why did you feel like you had to take that responsibility on instead of just warning her? " It was like that woman finally found a weak spot in the curtain wall and brought the trebuchet. I was five years old when that happened, and it took me 24 years to learn I had been taking responsibility for my mother instead of being a kid. It was the moment that re-framed how many adults called me an "old soul". 😅 I apologize if this was a trauma dump

[@ziganamonroe1812]

I love a good laughing fit when I'm overtired and in tears. My son is 4 and doesn't understand that I'm not sad.

[@roselover411]

It's not bravery if you aren't afraid. Being afraid and doing it anyway is what it means to be brave. Being afraid and doing it anyway is courage.

[@chronicallyfabulous88]

Courage IS doing something that scares you. Like, it doesn't require courage to do something that doesn't scare you, y'know? Courage means being afraid and anxious, and then steeling yourself against all that and summoning the strength from within you to do it anyway, while still carrying that fear and anxiety throughout. If you're scared and still do the thing, you are inherently courageous and absolutely deserve to feel good about that 💜

[@borealernadelwald]

I'm 35 and I bought myself glow in the dark stars a bit ago (never had any as kid). Haven't put them up yet, because I'm not entirely sure where.. so yeah. I placed ONE, just to test it out and the rest will surely follow at some point. Was going to put them up along the walls (maybe along the floor) of the hallway so I can see a bit while going to the bathroom at night, but my hallway is very dark and I don't want to turn the lights on just to charge up the stars in case I need to pee in the time before falling asleep.

[@YourQueerGreatAuntie]

I'm nearly 47 and need more glow-in-the-dark stars! The first pack I got when I was 16 were on three sides of a nook where the head of my bed was. It felt like lying in a tunnel into space. They are the best!

[@ilmatarkarvajalka3404]

I am turning 27 next month and recently got myself some glow in the dark stars too^^ I have a few night/dream themed art posters and cards around my bed, so I did put them up right above my head when I am lying down and honestly it really is magical to see them glitter above me right before I close my eyes every night! Definitely need more though >< putting them up in the hallway sounds absolutely magical, you should totally go for it! Actually my area of the bed doesn't get too much light either, so originally I was a bit worried about them charging up and it did take a few days/weeks for them to properly shine brightly, but it went over better than I expected^^

[@YourQueerGreatAuntie]

@@ilmatarkarvajalka3404 That sounds gorgeous!

[@elaineb7065]

I'm 50 with a load of glow in the dark stars & a fantasy/ night sky/space themed bedroom, & a sea themed bathroom, with a heap of plushies to my name, not to mention other toys from childhood xxx Sharky snuggles xxx

[@YourQueerGreatAuntie]

@@elaineb7065 You have just expressed my goals for my house, except now I only have three years to achieve it! 😧

[@TehTeh911]

Take the laughter manifestation back I don't have adhd meds rn and I've had issues with laughing until I'm on a verge of a panic attack from the inability to breathe or stop the laughter.

[@madalice5134]

One of my friends bought themselves a Litbrite during the holidays a couple of years ago because she'd never had one when she was a kid. You're never too old to have whimsy or to play. It can feel really good to be able to get yourself something your family couldn't afford to get you when you were a kid. Nothing wrong with adults having plushies, glow in the dark stars, or really anything that makes your day a little brighter.

[@faenene]

I relate to the google maps river one! I like exploring where they go, one time a river did split and led into the ocean on both ways so I could circle back around :)

[@YourQueerGreatAuntie]

I've done this plenty of times! I live by a river, and have explored the whole water course on Satelite View. I also occasionally lose an evening exploring country back roads on Street View.

[@ShinTriAce]

Ah, call out time....

[@jennifers5560]

Love that fan emoji!!

[@LifeisFoo]

I was literally just talking to my husband about this the other day. Whether it's you yourself telling a story, or someone else telling you a story. And as the events are described out loud, you realize that this is the type of beginning events that would end up on dateline? Everything works out, and nothing bad actually happens, realizing that you or whoever is telling the story and made the type of decisions that would cause you to yell at your screen because the character is making bad decisions?

[@cspratt]

Being an accumulation of labels makes you who you are! And you are great, Shaaba!❤ Flour, eggs, sugar, and butter, could make a number of things, bread, cake, cookies, etc, but you get to choose how to combine them and make something special and delicious!

[@winterpagel216]

I love Therapy Thursday! Perfect timing to watch with brunch 🥰

[@Dragons-cove]

Shaaba is so relatable 😂 I love her.

[@mistylove3041]

I just saw you at the Milwaukee show! I loved it 🥰

[@ryzrood]

It was so lovely to see Jamie and Shaaba at the Content Bookstore in Minnesota!! Anyone left on the tour is in for a treat 😁

[@makakachaput]

Oh dang, they were in Minnesota?? I didn't realize, I mightve been able to see then 😔

[@nathryl03]

Happy Pride Everyone ❤🧡💛💚💙💜This is your regular reminder that you're all awesome, beautiful and valid little beans, just the way you are ❤🧡💛💚💙💜Love you all ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@Pareltje333]

I am 50 and have a lot of cuddly stuffed animals, one of them is The Emotional Support Demon via makeship, from the Click. And after pridemonth There will be 2 more ESD's and a Mango landshark in my cuddly collection. So yes, never to old for cuddly plushies😊🤗💖

[@elaineb7065]

Also 50 with a heap of plushies & wanting a Mango for the sharky collection xxx

[@pixiepear7816]

Omg the “putting little trinkets in a row” while I was happily organizing my ear gauge tunnels all in rows in a box… 😹😹😹

[@idkpoop111]

This notification made my day oh my god thank you so much. Honestly having the worst couple days and needed this so baddd, love these videos and you sm ❤❤

[@rainbowtropolis]

My favorite "treat" for myself is taking a nap with my cat ☺ On google maps on satellite, I love exploring the other places out there!

[@adrienstarfaer]

7:09 See, for me, when I say my life is a joke, I don't mean it in a self-depricating way, I mean that if my life was a realistic fiction, it would specifically be a comedy. Two of my friendships are a straight up telenovela situation, except we're all on good terms. The first real guy (as opposed to fictional characters) I've had a crush on since elementary school (I'm over the crush now) is engaged to my one and only ex who I'm still really good friends with. My dad insists that my mom and I could be a comedy duo because of how alike we are, and our arguments are almost all silly and minor, making them comedic to witness, apparently

[@durabelle]

The part about to do -lists made me pause the video and book a follow up appointment for my dog. It was the only time sensitive thing on my list today (well, apart from actual work), and getting it done definitely helps! (For context, I HATE making phone calls! I wish everything could be done via text or in the internet. Would make more sense anyways since I always have to spell my name and repeat multiple things on the phone, it's just a stupid format for anything that's not an actual emergency 😂)

[@mandyb2245]

My niece is Gen Alpha. She was born in 2010, so she's an elder Gen Alpha. I was born in 1982, so I'm an elder Millenial. My late boyfriend collected plush Magic Dragons. This delighted me and I helped add to his (our) collection.

[@christinakyleloves]

Love you Shaaba!!🩷🩷🍑🍑 Hope your tour in the USA is going well with Jamie!!😊😊

[@katrinadaly1755]

I’m 27 and I LOVE everything glow in the dark, I make a lot of glow stuff and had glow stars on my wall from when I first started decorating my own room (8yrs old till I moved out at 19). The only reason I don’t have them now is that rentals are REALLY against bluetac on walls/ceiling because it can stain - so it’s specifically written in all the leases where I’m from that you can’t put it or other types of tape/adhesive on the walls/ceilings if you’re renting 😢 Instead I have a glow in the dark grey fluffy throw with stars which I love. I make dog gear and most of the popular products are glow in the dark ones because people who want patches or vests for their dogs who need space or are reactive to things, generally walk their dogs at less busy times especially at night where a glow in the dark patch with ‘keep back’ or ‘give me space’ will be able to be seen from further away and stand out at night. My own pup (assistance dog) has glow in the dark shoes because when we were at night markets or events at night or in a cinema for example where it’s dark, people wouldn’t see her because she’s a dark colour and would trip or step on her paws if they didn’t see her. So now her feet glow and people can’t miss her now. Honestly glow in the dark stuff is just so cool and it’s really accessible - I have a few clients who are vision impaired that I make gear for, because the illumination can help them see where their dog is at night or when it’s dark.

[@valbrown3352]

Most rivers have names and I imagine when they split they would get two separate names. It would be labeled on the map and you would be able to follow it by the name.

[@lachlanhenry486]

Rivers indeed never do split. They always come together as they flow downhill. I love that such a question can be so beautiful.

[@LizardWings]

Definitely followed Mississippi river on satellite view of google maps to see how it gets to Lake Itasca which is where the headwaters are.

[@optimistic_blue7606]

The idea of doing something scared is similar to a quote I really like from a film that says "Feel the fear and do it anyway." I try to implement that in my life as much as possible, because, for me, if something is scaring me, then it's the right thing to do. There's also the quote from Theodore Roosevelt that says “Nothing worth having comes easy.”

[@faenene]

I was just about to make lunch, perfect timing lol! We love therapy thursday ^^

[@silverghostcat1924]

I'm 68 and I love glow in the dark everything 💖 especially if it's some other color than green. Purple is my favorite 💜

[@Asongbook]

When i finish my Wednesday Tasks I get to listen to Piano Puzzler and something nice to eat! And For Reals, i spent a month timing tasks and counting on my Inner Scientist to tell me the data says the actual time span of tasks in the future. It mostly works

[@Soilfood365]

The Okavango is absolutely the most rewarding river to follow from source to mouth. There is not going to be any frustration or disappointment there.

[@anitaholmes8201]

Yay, Shaaba! Teddy Bear Picnic Day is July 10th. I have it on good authority that other stuffies -- as well as respectful pets -- can attend. It never hurts to plan ahead, but most soft toys / stuffed toys are cool with spontaneity, too.

[@aprildawnsunshine4326]

Classic Shaaba, indeed! 😂❤ Actually had therapy just before watching this and this has definitely been more helpful 😅 Probably doesn't help that my therapy appointments are only really 30min every 2weeks so we can barely even catch up on what's happening, let alone discuss anything helpful. Tbh I have just ended up feeling guilty for not being able to meet her expectations, and how fucked up is that!?! 😂

[@omni-one376]

11:38 like half of the cartoons I watched growing up tought me: being brave is not being fearless, its doing stuff ur afraid of regardless of being scared

[@Ellpep]

5:04 I think this worked, I just got a phone call today from my sister telling me something embarrassing she did this morning that she hasn’t been able to stop thinking about all day and it was so funny I cried and it was amazing 😂

[@iloveblåhaj123]

The google maps one called me out so hard.

[@user-fr2tg7pz8r]

Shaaba, I agree with you 💯% about the moon!

[@DanceIsPassion411]

My spouse it literally that person who gets caught up looking up rivers! I asked him for you and he said that he does indeed use the satellite view unless he gets lost. xD

[@gmrkitty]

Shaaba: "My good person, I did not come here to be called out like this; I just wanted to have a good time!" LOLZ Me too sis, me too LOLZ

[@theoboekid0726]

OMG NEW SHAABA VID JUST DROPPED 🎉🎉🎉

[@dragonles]

Last night, I went to an astronomy gathering my teacher was hosting, and they brought an 6 inch diameter telescope. The view of the moon was amazing. I could have spent all night looking at it.

[@LTeppler]

GenX out here still making hearts with text.

[@RoboticComplexity]

I have a hanging net of stuffies, as well as a shelf full of them in the back room. Also, my partner is so obsessed with glow in the dark stars his wedding band has a meteorite and glow in the dark inlay 😂

[@HermioneDisapprovesOfJKR]

I really love taking time to color or play a video game as a reward for doing chores 💜

[@Guro-Blue-kun]

8:21 Shaaba!! I _actually_ have an answer!!!! (For once xD) I've been using Google Map to control my anxiety/entertain myself for more than a decade(maybe even 2!?? When was Google Map out!?)! I usually use 'Street View' ^^ Personally, I am AWFUL in geography and directions, so I've become fascinated in this useful tool over the years, starting my 'hobby' with places near me. But now? I 'travel' all over the World using this method! Not just for water bodies of course, but anything really! Places are full of life and interesting & new stuff, it's wonderful! Sometimes I also just look at what the cars and people/animals are doing, other times I challenge myself by looking up stuff relatively known, and then guess where exactly on the map it starts and ends! A bit like the user said in your video ^^ Overall, it's just such a fun 'learning' tool! I guess I was 'geoguessing' before it was a thing...and also because I would never find anything in that 'game' xD Anyway, hope it helped! 💙

[@elaineb7065]

Me with my plushies, my glow in the dark stars all over the bedroom, the fantasy & space posters in the bedroom, & having just received the final touch of my sea-themed bathroom, at 50yo: you are NEVER too old for fun & whimsy; just do it responsibly & within budget & you're golden. PS: if you need a body pillow to sleep anyway, what's stopping you getting a whale, shark, otter, or other delightful cute plushie of the right size???

[@RoBrydon]

OMG, the comment about trinkets in a row... Looking at my desk, I have Funko POPs lining both sides of my desk then all along the underside of my monitor but behind 2 rows of crystals and other stones... There are also 3 mini Squishmallows to the right of my work laptop (for context, I work in the logistics office of a tech retail distribution centre).

[@Guro-Blue-kun]

17:53 I've never felt called out THIS MUCH in my whole life 🤭🖤 P.S.: HAPPY PRIDE Y'ALL!! Again, and again, and again, and a....

[@jennifers5560]

Happy Pride!

[@jamielaird5064]

Not me having written a sentence and treating myself to Shaaba's video feeling called out when she says "I wrote a sentence and now I get to watch a movie" 😅😅😭

[@hannahhansen3005]

I need a treat because I am alive. 1980 to 1994 is millennials. It was 96, 98 for a while, in recent years it became 94 until someone changes it again. Was that 1984 or Brave New World that changed and deleted whatever they wished?

[@melodylienert3963]

thabk you mama shaaba ❤

[@catherinepattersonmcelroy8336]

I'm someone who likes to follow rivers on satellite view. I'll go to Google Earth (or Maps, but preferably Earth). I close my eyes and spin the globe and zoom in as far as I can without looking. Then I open my eyes and try to find a river and follow it downstream all the way out to the ocean 😅 To answer your question about splitting, most river don't split down stream unless they're going around an island. If they look like they split then you've probably accidentally gone upstream (towards the source). Also I'm a geomorphologist so I also not only do this for boredom and fun, but also for work sometimes lol

[@dabi332]

The people pleaser/parent pleaser one really called me out😅

[@elaineb7065]

Parent-pleaser, teacher-pleaser, etc... Been there, done that, trying so hard to get out of it xxx

[@sarah_grace3037]

I have glow in the dark stars 🌟

[@jaxtaposemakes]

Yes yes yes to the Superstore love!!! 🖤🖤🖤

[@AynneMorison]

I did the laundry - that means I pick the music for the next Hour...

[@twinning1944]

Hard relate to many of these. Now I need to call my therapist

[@ClaireCaoimheRaeMoonshadow]

I was totally following the path of the Panama Canal on Google maps the other night. Feels like a dream that I met you last night! But I have the pics to prove it. 🥰

[@danielsykes7558]

Love you shaaba! & I saw yesterday you're real!!

[@nebulan]

I'm not sure who decides the lines, but i think alphas won't remember the world before covid. My niece was 4 in 2020 and is now 8. They grow up fast

[@starfishgurl1984]

I definitely felt called out by the people pleasing one 1,000% 😂😂😂. Oldest child syndrome combined with anxiety and an easygoing nature all rolled into one 🤦…

[@_shannons]

k but the moon is legit the best. it's different every time you look at it but it always gives moon

[@tiger_katten7043]

As someome who weirdly has followed a river on Google maps from source to end, yes you use satellitte view. And when it splits its confusing if you should follow both or choose one. I followed both. I dont know why i followed a river, i think i just got distracted when i was looking at a landskapet, and couldnt stop😂

[@bonesbeans6053]

time to go share these memes with my therapist hehe

[@HellsAttic]

im about to go into a call to play a game with my fiance so i can guarantee a laughing fit soon

[@ConnorAdventure]

I LOVE SUPERSTORE!

[@mrjr03]

This was so nice 🥹

[@Guro-Blue-kun]

My favourite Mama Therapist 💙🌈 Also, thanks for the show suggestion!! Will definitely check 'Superstore' out ^-^// P.S.: WE'RE NOT OLD SHAABA, WE'RE NOT, IT'S OKAY, WE'RE YOUNGGGGGG WE AREEEEEE 😭👍🏻 I'm not seeking any romantic relationship, but...if my partner was seriously urging me to divorce my plushies? In the trash, babe! Bye byeeeee

[@YourQueerGreatAuntie]

Superstore is great. It has some of the best cutaway scenes of random shoppers doing random sh*t in the store. And the most wondrous group of characters! Enjoy! Edit: You guys can't be old, because you're a generation below me! You will always be younglings in my book

[@Guro-Blue-kun]

@@YourQueerGreatAuntie TYSM!! Shaaba already totally sold it to me, but now I have to watch ASAP! Much love ^^~ And have a great day! 🌈 (And you're not old either!!!! We're all so hard on ourselves 😭We still have so much time left to do great things✨ Wishing you the best!🤗)

[@_shannons]

Let me think about getting that tattooed on my hand

[@Shamazya]

Great video!

[@kaltespopcorn4087]

12:00 sadly that’s totally me

[@lachlanhenry486]

MOON!

[@unapologeticallylizzy]

MOON.

[@TjjazzMadrid]

Great, now you made me go to Amazin to look up Glow in the dark stars🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jennifers5560]

I just bought a 200 pack of Googly eyes…

[@spaceorc1397]

I'm a moon boylie

[@lachlanhenry486]

Feeding soil means pooing alot, though...

[@shanw.2948]

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[@missnaomi613]

*I am 52 years old. Unfortunately, I'm unable to put glow-in-the-dark stars on my ceiling in my current living situation. But one day, I will have that freedom once again. And any partner I have then will be happy about it, if they're the right person for me! ✨ *Well, I thoroughly enjoyed being called out continuously for 22 minutes! But really, yes. *Happy Pride Month! 🙏❤🏳‍🌈🏳‍⚧🟦

[@shanw.2948]

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[@MsMinnieification]

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