INSECURE about your NATURAL HAIR? WATCH THIS!!!

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[@IndigenousStrandz11]

I accidentally posted the video earlier without meaning to lol so here it is with a thumbnail and title lol

[@L3t1t8e]

Lol I was wondering like omg what'd I do wrong 😂. I was in the middle of listening to it and it went private.

[@sistahqueengoddess]

I was hoping it would be back. I couldn't even post my comment. LOL!!! Yet, I was still able to watch it in its entirety before you hid it. Awesome video Sis.

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

@@L3t1t8e I was sitting here and kept getting messages and then I looked and said OH NO! Lol I still needed my title and thumbnail lol

[@MyTwell]

Lol I was wondering what happened to the video 25... thanks for the self motivation especially during this time.

[@naturalrootsllc2375]

Great video! I agree with everything you said 🤗

[@shaygaddis3747]

My family and friends hated that I went natural... But just looked at them and said I did not CARE... Now both my daughter's are now natural.... I had to plant the seed for my kids and not worry about the rest...

[@jameciareed5494]

Yesssss! My natural hair is BEAUTIFUL to me! My dad is probably my worst critic to the point I rarely go around him I had my high puff looking good and moisturized and he yells “D*** your hair is BAD its NAPPY!” but if I do a slicked bun, flat iron, or wear a wig he is like that’s better we thought you were going through something. This is how my hair is in its most happiest natural state & to get ridiculed for that is disgusting especially when it’s your own ppl 😡 sorry rant over 🤣

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

😲😲😲 aww I'm Soo sorry that makes me very sad to hear that, fathers are Soo important to their daughters, please don't let that effect your spirit, I know it hurts sometimes, but I will make u stronger, ur doing a amazing job keep it up! I'm always here if u need to talk😘

[@indriadrayton1132]

Jameica Reed Tell dad you got your hair from him.

[@dinab.3440]

I can tell you its not healthy for you to be around him allot your going to have to distance yourself a bit cause it is unhealthy for you to be around someone who is saying those things

[@Crystal_D]

@@indriadrayton1132 💯

[@EbonyRosee]

I been growing my hair out for about 5 years. I had this Hispanic man approach me and ask me Is that all you? I am like what? He wanted to touch it. He was telling me it was beautiful. Sometimes having your natural hair is not all negative. They just be curious because I been wearing weave forever and now I am natural so yeah heads will turn. They got questions. Yes your right they need to mind their own business!

[@weirdmyst7963]

I love how he asked "is that all you" instead of "is that your real hair" I know it's basically the Sam's thing but the approach is just *amazing*

[@diannadickerson-curtis5211]

I really enjoyed this video. I am proud of you for being so aware of who you are,what you stand for, and what you want to accomplish. You have inspired me. I am finally on my natural journey at the age of 75.

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

Oh wow! I should be inspired by you!!! It's never too late, as long as God gives u breath u can accomplish anything 😘 I tell my mom that almost every day❤️

[@lovinglife9023]

That wrap though!

[@jacqueline2610]

Former co-worker Rita in the late 1970's kept her hair in a wrap. She wore her hair wrap with pride with her head held high.

[@lison973]

Black people are the only people that have to apologize for their existence. I’m so glad for YT. I woke up watching natural hair vids for years until I was pregnant with my daughter. I didn’t want her to hate herself.

[@sonaturallygwen]

When you mentioned you couldn’t keep pleasing others by wearing your hair how others want to see, that realllyyyyy hit home for me. In my case, I realized that it doesn’t matter how mainstream I try to make myself appear w my straight hair, I won’t be “accepted.” My mother has always straightened me & my sisters hair growing up, and when I started transitioning she wasn’t the biggest fan lol. But when I told my family that I feel more like myself, I rendered them speechless & I’m also grown AF so get over it 🤣

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

🤣🤣🤣 I was just telling my mom I'm grown Af do I still need to ask her permission for stuff... She said don't make me walk over to your house 🤣 but yes when it comes to self and the way you want or need to feel in order to get to the next level of self acceptance, DO YOU! people are always going to have the need to control, because they can't control anything in their lives..

[@umayaswellcallmejesus1489]

I walk into a room shaking my head yes, as the eyes fall on my fro! Daring an ignorant statement... haven’t heard one yet! I’m too cute to deal with stupidity! Rock your hair ladies, you are all goddesses!

[@TansieStephens]

I love my natural hair so much. It is a divine extension of my self. Fluffy like beautiful galaxy clouds, like a nebula that holds a million stars. I remember first going natural, and people asking me when I was going to get my hair relaxed again. It's crazy how certain standards imposed by Society have brainwashed people into thinking that their hair is not good enough. All hair is good hair, ALL HAIR TEXTURES!!! ❤ I had faith that I could grow my hair out healthy and strong! And here I am, 16.5 inches in :) 3 years natural. Putting love into natural hair helps to rapidly grow healthy hair... when I fully loved every texture on my head ("Type 4s"), I saw progress.. and I learned a lot of that from you and your wisdom! ❤🙏🏼

[@user-dr4zd3yd7z]

“your vibe attracts your tribe” yes, and your vibe 100% pulled me in. Thanks!

[@user-dr4zd3yd7z]

Also, I have a question. I tried Henna on my hair as a protein treatment and it is complete protein overload. Nothing I do is moisturizing my hair. Olive oil and avocado oil helps a little, but castor oil and flaxseed gel are not helping. Any tips? This sucks.

[@melaninmisanthrope6522]

Victoria Washington you can try the maximum hydration method and steaming your hair with a moisturizing deep conditioner

[@L3t1t8e]

What a thrill it is to be the first!!! Lol EDIT: This may be off topic but I still feel that it is relevant to this conversation at hand. Some time ago on instagram there was a post that asked something like? "Why when black girls are fighting, they go for the hair first?" I mentioned that, "In the black community, our hair is our pride. The longer it is, the more "worth-thy" we feel or the more "worth-thy" we are perceived. And without it we aren't treated (and may not treat ourselves) the same." American society has stereotyped the black womans hair as not having much length at all. When that mindset is challenged, we react with negativity and dont take the time to look within ourselves as to confront these beliefs. Many shove their small minded opinions because, like you said, it reflects their heart towards others. I may edit later

[@missneroli2006]

I love how you pointed out that the begining of healthy journey means the ending of previous mindsets. I've personnally experienced how letting go of old habits and mindsets is crucial to making progress in my healthy hair journey. Regardless of others' comments about my hair, my own mindset had to evolve: the way I feel about my hair, my own view of what's beautiful, presentable, of "what my hair can or can not do", etc.

[@keritho5578]

"It is okay to feel uncomfortable sometimes" Wow. So true. We should embrace discomfort as it is an opportunity for growth. So much wisdom in this video. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@francescajones8722]

I totally agree with what you are saying. I am an older lady and from the UK. I cannot believe that wearing your natural hair can cause such a noise in our community. We have other things to worry about. Please ladies we are who we are and dark skinned, light skinned whatever is of NO consequence. We are ALL beautiful and we all have the right to please ourselves.

[@brioche8123]

My mom was so against my sister and I going natural but then she ended up asking us for haircare tips. Luckily, I live somewhere where soo many women are natural so I don’t deal ignorant comments like I used to. It’s ridiculous the way black women are nitpicked. We just have to keep embracing our natural hair unapologetically and it will become the new norm

[@TwistsandTurbans]

You are so right about having confidence in your natural beauty. Only we can embrace what we are naturally born with. I believe that our hair is sacred and thrives best when left alone. This is why I enjoy wearing my hair in headwraps. The options are endless! I am also limiting my hair products to only 4 vegetable-based products. The change is helping my hair thrive. You are such a inspiration!❤️🌺

[@ayojoy7358]

Twists and Turbans what are you using

[@TwistsandTurbans]

AYO JOY Shampoo bars or Castile soap, oils or a butter, henna and flaxseed gel.

[@ayojoy7358]

Twists and Turbans thank you

[@TwistsandTurbans]

@@ayojoy7358 You're welcome 😊

[@darrenro2]

I like the long videos, it shows who you are and i like you're staying true to that. The first time i wore a braid out i went to work a white member of staff laughed and made jokes, i just ignored his ignorance but what actually bothered me was my black manager laughing! I went back to wearing wigs for a while then one day i just found my strength and wore a twist out. This time i put them in their place which shocked them and ever since then they know don't make no negative comments about my hair. Like you say it is a personal journey and no one can tell you when the right time is but we need to embrace what God has blessed us with. Xx When will you be posting your hair butter video?

[@weirdmyst7963]

That's really mean☹ How can people do that? Shouldn't your manager love her natural hair too, what did she gain from disliking yours?

[@ayojoy7358]

Yay I realised why my hair was breaking quickly I went cold turkey with all my products and my hair was reacting to the changes Girl pls give us your scalp oil and hair butter and oh pls have you put up your shelves 😒😂😂

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

😂😂😂😂😂 no😒... But I will!! Lol sometimes cold turkey is good lol that's how I did it... I have the scalp oil video up I just need to get to the butter😲 I will soon I promise ❤️

[@jaliane]

NEVER change the way that you do your youtube videos! I LOVE these types of videos. I am here for you, then the RAW footage. Your wisdom towards this is so spiritual and refreshing. Many people needed this!

[@weirdmyst7963]

I love how she never wears makeup. And she's so cute!!! The confidence is just immaculate

[@jaliane]

@@weirdmyst7963 I agree 100%!!!

[@sistahqueengoddess]

You are truly full of spiritual wisdom. The Only Opinion that truly matters is our own. Yet, even sometimes we have to take our own opinion with a grain of salt as well. You are perfectly different. Continue to live your truth Sis.

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

Yes ur are Soo right! Thanks my love I appreciate it❤️

[@sheraw5308]

Ppl are so cruel and mean just like they were to Gods son when he came down here to die for us and we are so undeserving. I appreciate your self-control and being the beautiful you.

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

Miss Lady G awwww I really appreciate that I really do and your soo correct, I just have to remember why I do what I do and know other people projects their own issues on other people

[@kimberlygreen-tate9485]

I can’t even believe people would make those comments to you but maybe I can. People can be so rude. With that said; you are my ultimate hair goal. Even when you have it tucked away under that wrap you are such a Queen. My hair has been the same length for years. I’m not even sure what to do about it anymore but I love watching you. Maybe as I keep watching; my hair will get inspired and start to grow. Lol! Anyway; I love watching you. I love the inspiration and insight you give. You are very inspiring. Thank you for sharing your gift.

[@khameela-N]

Natural hair youtubers like you made me love my hair x10.Except when my 'manager'😐said my hair looks like a mop😯...and his white.

[@pozitivereinforcement]

Well then mops are beautiful! They act Like they're saying something!

[@jacintanyambura6038]

I personally the starting point of my natural hair journey is too bad coz my boss tells me everyday I don't look presentable,I look unprofessional, I don't fit in every morning in my natural hair ...but I don't give a fuck what anybody thinks this is Africa and nobody knows about natural hair all our lives we've been wearing artificial hair and I don't like that it made me have thin edges and balding somehow,,,maybe I'll be the first one to teach them about natural hair

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

Exactly!!!! You go girl! Don't let anyone tell u anything about your natural true self❤️

[@YoyoM-ox3ez]

Did anyone mention jealousy?? Ijs..some of our own will make thee worst comments because you’re flourishing in who you are, what you want and you’re obviously confident as hell to rock your beautiful coils, and they’re not. Hontee..I’m great 👍🏽 being natural..I don’t have to run 🏃🏽‍♀️ for shelter when it rains..again, ijs

[@lgichimu]

There is a saying in my ethnic community 'gucokia rúi mùkaro' which loosely translates 'return the river back to its main stream.' I believe that's what we all must endeavour to do. We were on a path before we got waylaid with a self hate programming which has a made us to be on a self destructing path. Yet I feel a call from our ancestors to remember who we are, to go back to ourselves, to know that they are within us and are powerful more than anything that may be thrown at us, we just need to tune in a bit more and they will amplify whatever strength that we may need at whatever situation. We have that much power but only if we learn to be still and go within to draw from it. I am happy to have found your channel. Blessings and much love ❤️

[@phillis2001]

My daughter was walking in Beverly Hills and this white girl said loudly as she was walking by” I’m so over this natural thing” 🤬🤬

[@CherryColaBarbie]

I would have shook my head in pride and strutted a little harder in my melanated glory! 😋😍 #DearHatersIWillNotBeMoved

[@maryapatterson]

I would have laughed out and said "Mental illness". What a truly rude and ignorant statement. In reality people like that are insecure. She thinks she is being clever and that she will hurt you. You dont know her, her opinion of you or of your hair does not matter. Therefore you must just brush it off like a piece of fluff that the comment is.

[@ev6564]

It's like she's worried over what might happen the more we embrace our natural hair and take care of it and love our kinky hair textures.

[@brioche8123]

E. V. She probably the type to wear box braids. They talk shit then end up gentrifying our style

[@empress395]

Just what I needed to hear, what others think of me is not my business or my problem. Thanks for sharing! 🙏🏾

[@piricarmen]

I was totally feeling my long, banded hairstyle and this white lady at work said “I Iike your hair, you look like your 12.” and said that in front of my boss and co-workers. I have been on my natural hair journey since 1993. I never went back. I love my natural hair and everyone else can focus on themselves as far as I am concerned.

[@soybeans8139]

Great commentary! Incidentally, I always thought that Sideshow Bob had the best hair ever, because I’m all about the volume. Personally, I never liked the straight look. I had locs most of my life, but now I’m a loose natural. I love the feel of my hair, but I also really like braids and cornrows.

[@jenniferatlet6238]

May GOD bless you in every area of your life for the goodness of your beautiful heart 🙏🏿❤️ you have no idea what you have done for me and others 😩😢 I thank God for your life, you you are a blessing ❤️

[@carmeld45]

I never cared about what others thought about any aspect of myself. It starts at home. Self-worth and self-love begin at home. Parents need to plant this seed early and often. Let your children see you love yourself, all of yourself, and they will love themselves. Great message.

[@keairasbrown]

Preach! You are very much appreciated. So happy to be a part of the tribe.

[@meekmeekmcf9941]

I really love your vibe sis .... & I can’t wait for that day when my hair is to my thigh because of you and the way you care for your hair . That will be the day I start my first you tube video lol . But in the mean time while we do have this extra time to reflect . Can you really put more thought into that sister to sister support salon because i would love something like that . Not to knock the salon today but there just not for me .. I / we need an uplifting place of sisters loving on each other mentoring and just overall supporting each other so I totally support that idea I can’t wait till the door is open soon 🌞🌞🌞🌞

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

Awwww I really appreciate that! I hope some day sooner than later I can open up the doors❤️ and meet u and Soo many others. U definitely should start a channel now! I'm sure ur hair is beautiful just the way it is now😘

[@meekmeekmcf9941]

Indigenous Strandz I related with this video more than your other videos because the same thing you said about you started the natural hair and It evolved into your spiritual Journey and that’s what I’m on right now my spiritual journey and I’m treating my hair as if I know each strand by name💫... but right now I’m so shy lol to do a video ...

[@alixgiggles5329]

I love how my natural hair journey ended up being so much bigger than how I style my hair. It was literally a much needed overhaul of my mindset. Best decision.

[@gaillovell4824]

Hi lady, omg I ❤all the truth you just spoke on. It's refreshing. There is so much negativity when it comes to our natural hair that I just don't understand. God made us this way. And as much as we try to change our hair we simply can not. You are just unique and we all have different gifts, talents, & hair😉Can't wait to see your video on ur butter & when your new office comes together. Thanks for sharing.❤Nice to see ur mini me.

[@PHDinMeTV]

You dropped some gems 💎 in this one that don’t just apply to hair but to life! Thanks for sharing 💁🏿‍♀️

[@a.j.3088]

This was a great video. I love my natural hair and I’ve started to feel a spiritual connection to my hair, but I’m always nervous and uncomfortable about being judged and locked out of opportunities because of my hair. So of course I try the wigs/weaves and I hate them so much it ends up being a waste of money. I have 3 wigs sitting in my room, unworn because I don’t like wigs at all. I’ve started to embrace head wraps. I need to find a place to buy some beautiful head wraps like yours. I used to put extensions, boxed braids, kinky twists, etc, but I don’t have the patience for the process anymore.

[@ANGEl-hp1ci]

As of April 2021 I’m starting my natural hair journey all over , the last past years I feel like my hair stop growing so girl I been watching your videos for two days and decided to go get the aloe juice, castor oil and flax! I’m taking ur steps, cause I definitely want a change so I will be following you for 6 months! Thank you for your posts!

[@IloveLunches]

You’re so inspiring and so motivating to us!! Thank you

[@joanneberridge2266]

Thank you 😊 definitely needed to hear this right now

[@queenali91]

you are so awesome. I love all of the wisdom you share with us

[@Oddsawesome]

This video came right on time. Thank you. ❤️👍

[@lovethoselocs]

Really enjoyed listening to your words in this video.

[@missp1218]

Just found your channel and had to subscribe. My sister your beautiful and positive vibes are so refreshing. Thank you 🙏

[@Kaninja11]

I love that your different, so many natural hair channels say and do the same thing but yours is different. I feel like I always learn something new and I really appreciate the your beautiful spirit.

[@MultiMelly92]

I absolutely love your videos, thank you for your content! 💗 & yes the key is to remember those people who have something negative to say maybe have something wrong with themselves... self love is key in every way. Opinions are opinions not facts

[@ZM-vz6wf]

I love your long videos. They are very informative and I watch them while remoisturizing or prepooing. Thank you for your videos ❤️❤️❤️😊 ee

[@amaraLoveLife]

Love this video! Love your channel ♥️ I wanna get to this point of loving myself where I don’t care what others think about me

[@nancyashraf8759]

i love you! thank god my destiny threw me past your channel, i already feel energized and more self loving. Thank you❤️

[@nicoles5686]

True wisdom even beyond the realm of hair acceptance which I've definitely struggled with. Thank you for sharing this video.

[@oublioubli1392]

Love youuuu so so much, what u say it is sooooooo true and sometime i just need to re-listen it, tkank u ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mahoganyjenkins9645]

I love this!!

[@paulacunningham7956]

Awwww you two ( so Adorable ) awww she has to go so cute.

[@TsAinaHomestead]

I feel so insecure about wearing my natural hair bc the back is so short bc it breaks off bc of health issues, but the rest of the rest grows. I'm waiting for salons to open so I can cut it in a short style & start again. I wish I felt comfortable wearing it out.

[@pozitivereinforcement]

Are you protecting the back of your hair? I learned that since my hair has different porosity levels and patterns I have to treat it different in each area.

[@TsAinaHomestead]

I've been trying & the back is def a different texture, but my scalp has had so much damage back there from relaxers decades ago. I took out my braids & I am just going to cut it in a tapper style & leave it out. I have no clue what to do back there. I'm trying to concentrate on my scalp since I think that's where the problem lies.

[@pozitivereinforcement]

@@TsAinaHomestead have you heard of scab hair? I cut my hair 3 times trying to figure out why some of it look and felt like tumbleweed. No curl pattern, wiry and dry. I found out that the chemical damage continues in your system for a while. I eventually stayed persistent and found a regimen. Now my hair thrives. You should look into it. Power in your curls gives some good advice about the subject too.

[@TsAinaHomestead]

Thank you 😊! I'll look into it I've never heard of it!

[@bettinahenriette5227]

I liked your video though it,s been months ago. You,re being so yourself, politely and assertive. Wow how u can be blessed. ThNk u for boosting my confidence, i,m not so young, going to my 40,s nxt year. But it s really amazing and comforting knowing that you can battle your true idenyity even if u,re not still very young.😘

[@sp1722]

I just binge watch all your videos. I have 4C hair also and couldn't find the right products forever. Recently, I realized my hair like castor oil and shea butter (took 6 yrs). I just purchased aloe vera juice. Can't wait to see how everthing work out. Thank you for sharing.

[@kimstrivinganderson7659]

❤ you are my 2nd favorite KZbin natural hair girl and above what makes you different is your positive expressive thoughts . You ate very positive and vibrant. God bless you

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

Awwww that means Soo much! That means sooooo much!!!!! I appreciate that , God bless you as well❤️

[@kimstrivinganderson7659]

@@IndigenousStrandz11 you're very welcome 🤗

[@harvestmagazine7067]

This was very helpful. Thank you!💋

[@rubypanterra.]

My hair doesn't look like his, Side show Bob looks like me! ❤️ Love your vids

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

Hahahah! Right!!

[@tyrahjerideau8582]

Great video!!! 👍👏👏👏👏

[@nickierasberry6376]

I agree sis👏👏👏👍❤

🌈You're definitely my favourite natural hair KZbinr 💖

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

Awww thank you my love ❤️ greatly appreciated 😒

[@bethanywood2721]

I love her braids so cute mamas

[@TheMspoodle2]

Many people either envy different or not yet comfortable with different. My natural hair hate chemicals😇😇

[@kuukuakarikari9420]

Amazing video 👏👏👏♥️♥️

[@rosah8275]

Awesomeness❤😁😃💖💙💛

[@pozitivereinforcement]

Sideshow Bob is fly. Now what! Lol

[@dlilwon]

Since my hair started flourishing the naysayers have since shut up 💁🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️

[@user-wb1vm9ex4k]

I like natural 4c, I just don’t like mine! Because I feel it hardly grows and I struggle to take care of it. Now, if my hair was like yours, I would love it!

[@cloudnine8757]

The same energy you put out is the same energy you'll receive. They way you think about you hair is how it will respond it is attached to your head, scalp and mind after all. I felt the exact same way once but you won't see any results if you don't care for it, or show it love our hair is alive and picks up on energy. When growing a plant it don't happen over night. Tell yourself everyday even if it hurts or even if you don't see it yet that one day your hair is going to be whatever your goal is.

[@demi5378]

Very Good! We also, have to stop our own negative talk & thoughts. When you do that your confidence soars & it doesn't matter what other people think b/c you like it & at the end of the day......that is all that matters. ? = I have been wrapping my hair during this pandemic especially, do you wear anything under your wrap that helps keep the moisture in your strands? Thank you & blessings to you & yours.🙏🌷

[@IndigenousStrandz11]

You are Soo right!!! Self sabotage is real lol yes I wear a satin scarf underneath 😁

[@demi5378]

@@IndigenousStrandz11 Thank you! Looking forward to you getting your shelves up & learning more about everything....for me there is always a take away that enhances my natural hair/scalp/self personal journey. Thank you for responding. .wanted to ensure I am doing right by my scalp/hair.

[@West_Indian_Aiyah]

I'm second! lol

[@IloveLunches]

Hello my friend just started watching✨💖

[@tenferrell1613]

Everything is back ground noise. Live by. Thanks ingeniouStrandz🌈

[@jacqueline2610]

Remember Mr. JAMES BROWN 😂 (Say it loud, I'm black and I'm proud)

[@koniquelovee936]

Hi tribe leader😍! I bought all the products you suggested...my question is how many times a week should I be spraying aloe vera juice and retwisting my hair?

[@sibongilemtungwa1077]

Hi sisi, thanks for this video, I remember back in 2017 when I started my teaching job, I had a human weave installed on my head, funny thing I was not comfortable with that hair on my head, It felt like that hair was in a mission to get inside my skin, i asked myself whose hair is this on my head, is the owner still alive or dead right then I decided to take it down and never again to put someone's hair on my head.

[@amaraLoveLife]

Omg the Halloween comment just blew me

[@kcorn04]

Im 5th!!

[@ayojoy7358]

Pls do you have run that fab group chat I have some question I would like to ask

[@Jerusalem23]

Nooooooooo I wanted to be 1st 😒 Well I came in 3rd place lol Hey Yall👋👋

[@gabriellaagyarko4154]

Hi, Where do you get your scarfs?

[@tmc1373]

I'm trying to get to where you are, but I don't know why my crown section is breaking off so bad? The texture is super rough, too.

[@mattwey9735]

T Mc maybe rough detangling

[@Anywayyihao]

Your crown probably has a higher porosity than the rest of your hair. However you moisturize your hair, moisturize your crown x2 or you need a heavier product to help seal in the moisture in that area. Maybe a heavier leave in conditioner and a butter to seal.

[@Tnpd54]

What’s you alls opinion on what your spouse may think of your natural hair choices? Do they too fall into the category of other people’s opinion does not matter? Or do they get a vote or a say so in how you choose to wear your natural hair? I would love to get your different viewpoints to help me in my current situation that I’m dealing with.

[@LF_RN]

Tiffany when I went natural and did the big chop, my husband said he did not marry “that” hair and told me that it probably will not grow back.... Well almost four years later it’s thicker, healthier and longer than it ever was- I shut him up and all the other naysayers.... just keep doing you❤️🌞🌸

[@pozitivereinforcement]

That's a good question. My husband actually told me to just listen to your hair. Keep it simple. He said you struggle when you do too much. That was right before my big chop years ago.

[@jenniferatlet6238]

My fiancé is white and because of him I went natural!!🙏🏿❤️ He asked me years ago when I was relaxed why I would ever think "flat" hair is nicer than a big glorious afro mane? He asked why would I want to look like everybody else when black women look like Queens! He told me that he wants me on our wedding day to have my natural hair as it grows from my head! I told him the only way that could happen would be to stop relaxing my hair and big chop/transition😳 and he said DO IT!! and after some time of begging me to go natural i did it and he loves my hair sooo much I thank God for his life.🙏🏿❤️ Also, as of about 3 weeks ago I have stopped wearing wigs for the moment. I've been wearing them while growing out my hair and he said to me recently again 🤣 "why are you growing out your hair just to hide it away?!" he has helped and pushed me to embrace who I am so I accept all opinions from him. With that being said, he doesn't like it when I have my hair in space buns because he says I look too young and it makes him feel awkward 🤣 he also prefers when I do a lower bun and not a top one and I accept his comments because he is the one that looks at me everyday and I want him to always feel super attracted to me because it makes me feel sexy 😊 I also tell him that I prefer his beard and he keeps it most of the time for me as I find him more attractive with facial hair 🙈 you don't have to do what your spouse says with your hair but you should listen. (except for if they don't accept your natural hair!! That's a no no! )

[@LF_RN]

jennifer atlet I love this reply 💯 %. Best wishes on your natural hair journey and upcoming wedding❤️

[@jenniferatlet6238]

@@LF_RN thank you so much my love! God bless! 🙏🏿❤️

[@tracymung5667]

Do u ever trim your hair?

[@IloveLunches]

I started this journey when I had my daughter. I had no time to get my hair done anymore

[@indriadrayton1132]

My insecure hair journey now is not natural, but going grey....

[@sistahqueengoddess]

guess I'm third LOL