Intentional Unemployment

[@Reejeudy321]

I have a masters degree and I’m struggling to find a good paying job and these people are intentionally leaving GOOD PAYING JOBS?! Wtf.

[@ashleydvs6257]

Chile, same!!

[@edwardabbey5840]

Well she left a opening so there u go😂

[@presleykim371]

It’s staged

[@teapuck2530]

@@presleykim371 based of real cases, so this actually happens too

[@DuneRiderLife]

Typical

[@dominicdaley5702]

This chick is straight up manipulating af. Finally a judge that is not biased to women. Equal across the board. I love this woman

[@jman4652]

i thought the same thing

[@damilolaosho3267]

She never saw it coming 😅😅😅

[@richardmolano5538]

She’s not a real judge.

[@destroythe180days]

@@richardmolano5538yes she is in every way. She was elected as a judge and a licensed attorney. She’s most definitely a judge

[@mcleanimfify]

@@damilolaosho3267 I mean it was in the script so she probably saw it coming a little bit

[@user-bx4ti6ig3i]

The way he described her as his 'wife' and how he still wearing his wedding ring shows how much he loved her.

[@WinterCactusRed]

Whoa he is wearing it. Nice catch.

[@dreaminlayers]

Yeah, that was so sad 😔

[@omegaofmankind693]

It's actually cringy

[@bill_cipher9861]

@@omegaofmankind693 How is loving someone cringy? It's literally a normal human emotion 🤦

[@johnhildenbrand2642]

He simped for her, she ran roughshod over him then, and she's still living rent free in his fantasies. He feels like he punched above his weight with her, and so is looking backwards rather than forward, he needs to go see a therapist and work on himself

[@markporter8196]

Imagine a man going into the courtroom saying that the stress of his marriage caused him to get a lower-paying job

[@jopan1363]

Please most men don't have a job with 5 babies mommas

[@mixedmamiiD]

It works the same in TN. My ex refuses to work

[@KristiContemplates]

My fmr husband intentionally remained unemployed to avoid giving me any money. That's apparently not illegal in Australia

[@E3fieldservices7144]

@@mixedmamiiD same here my ex wife gets 2k a month in child support on 1 child and refuses to work and lives on government assistance for some reason the courts don't see a problem with it

[@drl5002]

@@E3fieldservices7144 They should be forced to get a job if receiving support and child is school age. No sitting at home watching soaps. Doubly so if receiving alimony.

[@iltb23]

“Emotional distress, I need you to go see a doctor.” 🎉🎉🎉 killed me. I love this woman.

[@theegreatawakening1937]

So if your husband cheated and left you…then got together with that person married them and then stole your child custody…you’re telling me you’d be just fine? 😅🤣 Good job believing the narcisttic interrupting as*hats in this video.

[@skylineboy99]

​@theegreatawakening1937 ok first off i understand what you mean, but thats a completely different scenario to this particular video

[@brandonwells73]

@@theegreatawakening1937What are you even making up??? SHE LEFT HIM, HE’S STILL CALLING HER HIS WIFE. Tell me your sexiest without telling me. You so badly want the man who takes of his kids to be the wrong why??? He’s doing his job as a parent and a father. You sound pathetic, the man in the video called HER his WIFE, not the mother of child or dumb shit.

[@robertleamon1419]

Why don’t you love me??

[@maiawaive9566]

The fact that he’s still wearing & touching his wedding ring shows how much he took those vows seriously! This man is deeply hurt. I feel awful for him

[@melchormendoza]

Could have remarried. It seems like they were divorced a long time.

[@tedthesailor172]

They're done. He needs to get real and pawn it...

[@theegreatawakening1937]

How is no one putting together that he cheated on her and married someone else? That’s why the court gave the child to him instead of her. Because he had a 2 parent home. She didn’t.

[@tedthesailor172]

@@theegreatawakening1937Who did what to whom is not a determinant of this court. It's simply to apportion child support obligation, and the recipient is the parent with custody. Plenty of men have had to handle the shitty end of this particular stick...

[@brandonwells73]

@@theegreatawakening1937See I would believe you but I’m literally proof that’s not always true. My mom was single making 20,000 a year and still got custody of her 3 kids. If that mom truly wanted her kids should could get them no problem. Especially if HE NEEDS HER CHILD SUPPORT, but she’s not, and he’s the one caring for the child. He literally said “how could you do this to us?” Cause the man makes significantly less than her.She would have no problem getting custody if she actually wanted it.

[@tylersingleton9284]

She gives all the arguments that men give, saying "why cant he get a job". Man it feels good to see the shoe on the other foot.

[@charlesf6247]

It feels good that shoe is on the other foot since THE WOMAN has to pay child support NOT THE MAN

[@zoultronzoultron9723]

To bad its fake

[@trekgirl65]

@Tyler Singelton, you did not know that there are dead beat mother also. Women who would rather party than take care of their children do the same as the dead beat fathers. It goes both ways, been that way for many years.

Not really. It's wrong when a Girl Do IT it's bad when a Guy Do IT.

[@trekgirl65]

@ it is also bad when a woman, the non-custodial parent does it, as well as men, the non-custodial parents does it. The woman is not a girl but a grown woman, the guy is a man. Get it right, man.

[@shylee9719]

“I’m his ex wife.” “Okay. Congratulations. Continue” 🤣🤣

[@JudgeVondaB]

😂😂😂

[@thatlightskinpanda]

I was reading this and she literally just said it I love her comebacks

[@gamergodofjustice]

X'D even better is if she turned to the man and said that shit.

[@CyborgNS6NL]

This had me weak…

[@johnnatandc]

yeah.. masters degree does not mean shit nowadays... companies want to play a fraction of what you are worth... it is a struggle to find a good job with a good environment and with a decent salary... it seems that we are asking for a miracle lol... The market is a piece of shit... a traditional career sucks.. unless you are lucky enough to land a job at a gov agency or gov run company (public) ... otherwsie you are screwed on the private sector... except if you are lucky to land a job in those humungulous corporations...

[@ronyagpd]

This woman is a real piece of work. This is not about her husband but about the poor child's needs!!!

[@kalijasin]

She was running a scam on him.

[@leonkennedy1643]

I love this judge she calls out BS from people not just favor a gender

[@petergriffiinbirdistheword]

Which is how all judges (and people in general) should be, but unfortunately too few are.

[@melodyjane630]

This is the problem, you men think it’s about favoring the gender/ women. Most of the time the woman has custody’s, so of course the man has to pay. Hence the reason men always complain about paying child support. Don’t want to pay? Fight for custody, which most men won’t 🙃

[@zelohendricks51]

@@melodyjane630 you're ignorant asf. The court system favors women. That is a FACT. Thats why most mothers get custody

[@amadou2011]

@@melodyjane630 that was dumb af, the court system was initially made for women, hence the saying "the court system favours women"

[@redmine5568]

It’s easy to do when this is just a show and not real

[@ocfmbeauty]

I’m dead “emotional distress imma need You to go see a doctor” 🤣

[@jjamesreyy]

bro that SENT me

[@promisedove]

I feel like it would be valid for some, not necessarily for her. I have generalized anxiety disorder and I don't think I'd make it at a corporate job...but if you are going to claim something like that, I feel that you should see a doctor, as the judge said, and get a doctors note that states that the job is deteramental to your health...IF that is, in fact, true.

[@gamergodofjustice]

Where was the emotional distress the 8 years she wasn't paying the child support?

[@horizonaralkum5488]

Some people are shameless

[@creativewriter3887]

@@promisedove yeah.. if she really had that, corporations have some sort of Employee Assistance Program. She could have gone on some type of short term family medical leave and/or asked to be in a modified position until that time was up. For her to INTENTIONALLY leave sounds like she really is a piece of work. No doubt once she discovered she had to pay child support she put the wheels to quit or get fired. Bitch didn't even try to make it better for herself. She just wanted to screw her ex AND her kid over. One wonders if the child has some underlying medical condition.

[@cherylsgadgetgalaxy]

This seriously needs to be on TV. If it wasn't for just coming across one of these videos on youtube, I would never have known this show exists and it's now my all time favorite to watch!

[@jalenking810]

That man didn’t miss a good opportunity to shut up 😂 just let the judge do her work

[@JudgeVondaB]

😂😂😂

[@manwithstds7503]

It's annoying but he has the right considering she probably never meets him so yea he's taking his rage out.

[@BooHefner]

@@manwithstds7503 what?

[@manwithstds7503]

@@BooHefner well, the woman had his child, he could not see her often but still haf to pay for her child support. If a parent is not worthy to support a child then it should automatically go to the opposite parent.

[@007Fusiion]

Forgot he was there, but his face says it all

[@chrisbalsamo968]

I wish this judge was present at my child support hearing. She’s on point.

[@Zx14rrrrrrrrrrr]

It's fake tho right?

[@CT-zi8em]

@@Zx14rrrrrrrrrrr supposedly based on a real case but yeah

[@Zx14rrrrrrrrrrr]

@@CT-zi8em no one making that much. With any type of college education is going in there saying they purposely quit to lower the child support.

[@chrisbalsamo968]

I’m guessing that it is. It looks scripted.

[@Zx14rrrrrrrrrrr]

@@chrisbalsamo968 if you watch to the end the "judge" keeps saying it's a scenario.

[@jejohn3676]

That “congratulations” hit her in the soul 😂🤦🏻‍♂️😂😭😭

[@Logan18398]

That lady is full of it, she only got the low paying job in hopes to find her self in a court room discussing reduced child support payments, just to turn around and go get a high paying job again

[@jegr3398]

The crazy thing is she still would have made a lot more money with the 70k job and the full child support payment than she would have with the 30k job even if she had no child support payment. So she just screwed herself.

[@florastewart7920]

Guys and Girls like that often charm other women into giving them room and board and do chores inconsistently so that they only work part-time and not pay child support. If a guy or girl comes up to you and tells you a sob story about how evil their ex is and how “understanding and much nicer” you are- shut the door, change the locks, say what you need to ghost them because you are caught between baby momma or daddy drama. If the bum won’t pay for their kid because he lies and says that the ex is spending the lousy $200 a month on herself, you are being set up. Consider what they are contributing now, not what they say they’ll do, because you will hear similar excuses.

[@ManchinItUp2010]

I know this is a year old comment, but it wouldn't matter if she went to find a higher paying job after, if the father found out he can take her BACK to court and get an increase in child support based off her new income. Gotta love the court system finding silly loopholes like that.

[@catwoman2582]

The head bobble and attitude tells me all I need to know about this person.

[@victoriapitetta3831]

I mean, if that's the case is really dumb thing to do. Dad can ask for a increase as soon as she gets the high paying job again. So to risk your livelihood just to pay some less will hurt you more than it will hurt your ex/your child. But on the other hand, my uncle worked informal jobs most of his life to avoid paying for his older child and focus on the ones he had with my aunt.. so it's possible some people are so selfish the become real bad at math/decission making in general.

[@lasharenae1]

Masters degree working as a cashier.. Pay up mom playing these silly ass games because your mad at your exhusband. Go get a real job!

[@josesugapapirivera1632]

April Jones, obviously you are not in the job market. People with masters degree, including me, can't get a job. If you think with a masters you can get a job, then show me proof that a masters degree guarantees well paid jobs. We, veterans struggle to gain employment even with masters degree. Some people with masters mop floors as a way of living. Now, in this situation, I blame her because she should seek mental health assistance to evaluate her mental conditions. Sometimes you must quit a job that is doing more harm than good.

[@shuanlen6804]

So store clerk ain't a job?

[@josesugapapirivera1632]

@@mortymortal7 That is correct but also a divorce may affect job performance and may need a new job. Masters Degree is not a pass to high salary or secure positions. Like I said, lots of people with masters work in gig jobs making $25,000 so why the judge can guarantee secure high paying jobs?

[@TheMsnita]

@@josesugapapirivera1632 maybe come in with job denials lol

[@josesugapapirivera1632]

@@TheMsnita jijijiji I feel you. My point here is that imputing money you don't make is filthy and judges should do time in prison..... like 20 years or more for such crime. At least the judge didn't cared about gender, but men in general are the ones who suffer for being good husbands (In general). They're criminalizing the system. In this situation, the dirty husband is chillin and doing nothing so she is rewarding him????. If I can speak three languages and get an education, why he cant do it? Nahhh... if both parents can take custody... Then zero child support!!!

[@Im_Just_Saying_87]

For sure I can guarantee she experiences way more stress as a retail grocery cashier than she ever did at her corporate job. I ve had office jobs and retail jobs. I can definitely say that I know for a fact office jobs are way more laid back and cause you much less stress daily and you even get to be away from the general public with customers. I loved my office job and hope to get back to that sort of gig one day. M tired of retail. I literally told myself at the start of my college days that once I graduate my degree will guarantee that I’ll never have to work a low level or low paying or even a retail or grocer job ever again. Then the pandemic happened and I had to take what I could get bc my bills had started to pile up. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@DailydevotionswithMJ]

Not necessarily

[@dannysimion]

I will say yes to that. I worked at retail and I worked in an office as retail support. It is much stressful working at the front of house than it is at the back of house. She probably got that emotional distress from a customer who probably yelled at her for pricing a can of soup for a dollar more.

[@danimoran7292]

“I’m not about to play witchu” 😂 this was went it down hill for her 😭

[@dametreuspppp8734]

Equality at its best

[@SA-xt1gd]

I swear to God i died laughing at that 😂😂😂

[@DaFifaKid]

its ALMOST as if this is a dramatic re-enactment of a real case and these are ALL actors and "judge vonda b" isnt real, ALMOST!

[@bayareabruh]

"This was when it went downhill for her"*

[@casacasablancass1298]

That was kinda bullshit?

[@ayannawright2301]

So she don't work at $70k job to make $30k with a master degree. She knew what she's doing

[@DUECE12412]

She’s a lazy Bum

[@Eowynd]

@@DUECE12412 she is a bad parent, that thinks she is hurting the dad, instead of the kid

[@kingkanga6034]

@@DUECE12412 lazy? She still works 40hours a week. I bet more than you do. Who is anyone to tell her she needs to make more money. $625 a month($7,500yearly) should be more than enough for child support. Which is how much you would pay making 30k.

[@winzeo7]

@@kingkanga6034 because if it roles were reversed she will DEMAND that money

[@TheSobieskiukas]

@@kingkanga6034 lazy because she quit her high paying job with master degree to go be a supermarket clerk and make 40 thousand dollars les. No job is equal , she wanted to swindle her way out of paying the child support but it doesn't work like that.

[@diaXluzXdeX1Xamor]

Wow I can’t believe she didn’t want to pay child support for her only child! Like seriously, what a horrible mother! I’m glad she lost the case.

[@mikaylamoss1725]

You can tell he is heartbroken about the divorce...

[@nelsonrogers6723]

Naw he heartbroken because he thought those high payments were gonna stop 😁😁

[@gamergodofjustice]

He literally sat there spinning his wedding ring it broke my heart.

[@Adam-tx6bq]

I might be guessing but I feel like she cheated

[@marketwizard8012]

He’s a simp lol

[@heyjoji1954]

@@gamergodofjustice seems new to the world of “love” I just hope he doesn’t think it’s over and know that he can still go out there. It feels he put her on a pedestal while she saw him as any other guy

[@carolynabshire4761]

Came here from tik tok .. how did I not know about this judge ?? Sassy beautiful judge !!

[@JudgeVondaB]

Thank you!!

[@AlikaDee]

me too

[@KS-rf7sr]

Glad I’m not the only one I feel bad it took me this long to come across judge vonda

[@SpaceLikeAwareness]

To bad the show is fake

[@austinabanidoni5835]

Is this real ?

[@Hundura]

“Why can’t he get a corporate job?” The children live with him and he’s supporting them, but they are still your children too ma’am.😂

[@emilyhayes6609]

I mean if she sign her rights over they are actually his kids

[@nkaujntse5196]

That is what I was saying too. It’s his child too.

[@michaelplunkett8059]

He is paying his share as the custodial parent. The support is not based on maybe future jobs, or lottery winnings, or pixie dust. During the marriage, what did the parties make? Thus her willful attempt to cheat the child by either working 1 day a week or quitting and getting a starter job is a fraud the court sees through.

[@fingerlickinggoodwithchefl7387]

She said “head clerk” with the confidence cause she thought it sounded better🤣🤣🤣

[@JudgeVondaB]

😂😂😂😭

[@nelsonrogers6723]

It does...kinda 😁😁😁

[@gamergodofjustice]

Missed opertunity to say "Well head your butt to the bank to get this man his 800 dollars little Miss Masters degree."

[@gringa978]

It made it seem like her degree helped her become a shift leader 🤣🤣

[@sportgamer3255]

Ain't no way she making 30k either at a convince store 😂😂

[@geraldinen.4918]

“Emotional distress i need you to go see a doctor”😂😂😂😂 im snorting from laughing to hard

[@JudgeVondaB]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mariahdominique888]

I screamed 🤣😂😂🤣🤣

[@panama2468]

Damn, she didn't even let her try. 🤣

[@valeriedanette3612]

💀💀💀

[@ericrivera8410]

She plays no games don't waste her time

[@picklepoppers8223]

An excellent judge. Fair, unbiased and intelligent. 👏👏👏

[@kristianmontano4864]

Emotional distress “you need to go see a doctor”. I am binging on your videos. You’re so cool!! That clap back!

[@destroyerofsimps6574]

This video was entertaining like Kevin Samuels destroying feminists and entitled women.

[@purplecubeman01]

This was so great, I had to watch it twice. Usually a court like this HEAVILY sides with the mother. This is a great breath of fresh air.

[@jesseostone386]

Yeah, makes you wonder why the dad was given custody in the original divorce. 🤔

[@makeupmommy7868]

“I’m not about to play with you” gets me every time 😂😂😂💯💅🏽

[@MikeS-7]

What she is learning is how the "family" court treats men. The court does not care about your struggles, your standard of living, or your quality of life. All it cares about is that you pay what the court commits you to pay. Judge Vonda has a lot of men sitting on the other side of the aisle with women owing support. This is EXTREMELY unusual since women are typically awarded custody 90-95% of the time. Texas is likely a 50/50 custody state. One of the few.

[@potatopeeler2919]

Exactly. This show kinda seems a little sketchy…

[@winning3329]

So you are trying to say that child support order is fair and doesn't care about gender? Imagine my surprise

[@MikeS-7]

@@winning3329 Exactly the opposite. In 45 of 50 states, they follow the failed tender years doctrine that is gender bias and no judge I am aware of has such much as peeped about the gender bias of the "family" court laws. This ensures that women are given custody of the children and men are required to pay child support that includes a wealth transfer based on gross pay and grows as men make more money. As a bonus for men being discriminated against they get to see their children one weekend a month and every other Wednesday night typically. It should be mandatory 50/50 custody out of the gate with ZERO or very limited support where the lower-income spouse gets X amount of time to get to work and start producing as men are expected to do. That would be EQUALITY! Also, the few women who pay child support and fail to pay go to jail at such low percentages that it is laughable - more gender bias by the courts.

[@dametreuspppp8734]

She thought she was gonna finnese the system

[@dsimon33871]

Damn... Im glad Im not the only one who saw this shit and said what the fuck? No court of law has any legal right to compel me to work at any particular job. Ridiculous.

[@nonoli6319]

Wait didn't she say she had a saved enough money from the $70,000 salary?

[@nevose9046]

Those "assets" should have been split property during the divorce. The ex-wife just exposed that she performed fraud and withheld "marital assets" because she thought she had saved enough for herself. Good catch!

[@TonyTarantinoo]

Mam you do not play!!!! I really respect the way you treat everyone equally and admire how well you stay composed when people get to divert the conversation to anything outside of what’s needing to be addressed

[@Halo003qd]

Just noticed the other Intentionally underemployed couple in the seats behind the current case. Wonder if seeing this case play out the way it did gave hope to the elderly lady raising her kid

[@quanamills2596]

I think this is all scripted cause I noticed all of them there as well.

[@jordanlopez5363]

@@quanamills2596 it is a comedy sketch they are actors but the situations are real for educational purposes

[@ruth752031982]

@@quanamills2596 it is scripted. She's an attorney that is using mock cases to educate us the people

[@GodotOfficial]

We need more fair judges/lawyers like this to combat the rampant misandry that has corrupted the family/divorce courts

[@dreaminlayers]

I fought so hard alongside my ex while we were together, because his first ex wife w as absolutely insane. But now that I'm his second ex wife and I see the narcissist gaslighting our own daughter, I'm not sure what was real and what wasn't. But I still fight for fathers everywhere.

[@thebinarygeekfx3117]

​@@dreaminlayers I don't know you but thank you.

[@beholdtheworld8900]

She's usually on point, but this time, she's wrong.

[@TannerisSmol97]

Most are judges, not the ones you see on KZbin or an actress playing one like here, give people chances and breaks all the time. You need stop forming dumb opinions on KZbin and shit you read on Google

[@DaraxXxDevious]

She really sat there and admitted she took a job beneath her simply because she didn't want to have to contribute more to her child's wellbeing. I'm glad these videos exist because the children of these people need to see them when they're older, so they understand how little they mean to some of their parents.

[@marcdoe8352]

"You got all this money in your account, let's talk about it" good shit lol these women just feel entitled and this judge isn't having it!!!!!!

[@jraykotheanomaly2365]

Imagine a man in court saying he has a master's degree and a good paying job at 70k a year but quit because the divorce caused him emotional distress....lmao..... can't make this shit up

[@chucknorris277]

When my ex wife was setting me up she took a lesser job for 6 months before she filed for divorce. I been paying her like she makes 14 bucks an hour, when she makes 80k now lol. Time to go to court

[@jordan0892]

Doesent that mean that he is just stressed out and cant work so if he cant work then he cant earn money so he has feelings

[@sallyjane8274]

Idk. My ex made 70k and quit because they were requiring all staff to give fingerprints and put his picture on the wall.

[@daniellemr3903]

Damn 70k isn’t even that much

[@hughmongus9969]

@@daniellemr3903 in some parts of Texas, it’s plenty

[@davidnwabueze5650]

“You came to this court to waste my time.” Is the best line 😂😂

[@fuhk]

Even with no kids I can tell you that getting the courts involved usually make things exponentially worse.

[@beholdtheworld8900]

Some ppl do nothing

[@vudu_doodoo]

I like these episodes. Judge always seems to have the kids in mind and not the parents. She’s got her priorities straight

[@jasonbryant1552]

Just found these clips yesterday. Some of these people blow me away. And judge Vonda has way more patience than me. Gotta give it up to her

[@JudgeVondaB]

❤️❤️❤️

[@taniaeff8834]

“You made that up”🤣🤣🤣🤣 I LOVE HER!!!!!!!

[@airdre1]

This judge was so fair and unbiased it actually was a turn on.

[@meatballsandwich5329]

Bro cmon wtf 💀💀💀

[@MaxSoutter]

😂 Dude... Seriously though😂🤣🤣

[@serpentinewolf7085]

Agreed. I loved the no nonsense attitude.

[@kwameopoku3576]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Rasmos]

Bro what

[@jimdaily5808]

This lady is amazing! I love how she is fair to the situation and doesn't take sides based on gender

[@mickydee6550]

Really like the educational portion of your show after the court ruling. You are making a solid, worthwhile contribution to this community.

[@modelwynter2334]

😂 “I intentionally left” girl you can’t say that! 😂

[@Atogatog-j9v]

This makes me happy to see a judge that doesn't blatantly screw over the man like so many other courts do.

[@marilynraines2301]

That’s why you should be careful of who you lay with.😕

[@debbiethomas4472]

Emotional distress??? I need you to see a Dr. 😂.

[@sofianemessaoudi6070]

The best judge in the world I swear ! God bless you

[@chelaparker8119]

I love this judge so much! You honestly make me feel comfortable with how I am. Everyone calls it attitude but fair is fair. ❤️✊🏾

[@illahboii225]

@chelaParker r you a judge

[@Misnyc]

I absolutely agree with you sis!

[@garycungu]

"You're ability to pay has no relation to your obligation to pay" Joe rogan and Bill Maher.

[@jimmyspakes8149]

Thank Judge Vonda. This scenario was very similar to my best friend. He eventually won out but the deliberate act to hurt the kids is unforgivable.

[@cesarjarillo7736]

I’m 2 yrs late , but I died when she said “emotional distress, go see a doctor” 😂

[@kizi180]

I think is for the referrals.

[@Chu6um]

This was a "refreshing" case, as when men got tagged for support, either lost their job or were economically impacted beyond their control, they were still responsible for the court ordered amount. The only time that would change would be if he made more, then the mother would take them back to court to get even more due to his increased income.

[@RaffineDebauche]

Been there man. Lost my income and the judge told me to keep paying.

[@Sarablueunicorn]

@@RaffineDebauche What about keeping the full custody of the child? Or shared custody (no one is obliged to pay child support to the other?). I'm from Europe, maybe laws are different, but men never want to keep the custody of the child or even shared, they would rather pay child support (which they delay to pay many times and mother just struggles by herself, while she can only notify the court and with all the bureaucracy..well still no money). Because men wanna keep their jobs and don't worry about waking up early to get kid ready for school, then get the kid from school, feed the kid, wash, deal with tantrums, teachers reports, have to skip work to take the child to doctor and even stay at home taking care of a sick child. No way, also they wanna move on with their dating lives and a kid is a burden. Court has no problems with shared custody at all, but men don't want it. LoL if woman says "i want the full custody" men be like "you got it girl".

[@lancelotal]

Better to be the weekend father .Do all the relaxed fun stuff with fishing, hikes ,amusement parks. Rather than stressed running late early mornings with kids screaming ,faking illness ,rushing to get dinner ready.

[@Blinkin777]

IF this is real... dude still wearing his ring... either he moved on and married someone else, or he is still in love... which would be heartbreaking...

[@blueshoes5145]

These are real cases i guess. Edit : it was based on a real event but they are actors apparently.

[@rainnmoon114]

Yeah I was abouta say this jawn looks really fake.

[@DawnKellyMedia]

His ring is on his right hand though.

[@Blinkin777]

@@DawnKellyMedia good spot! I think I saw someone previously say these are paid actors.

[@DawnKellyMedia]

@@Blinkin777 whaaattttt actors???

[@nodripsebenix8083]

she hurt herself by getting a lower paying job, on top of that she still has to pay the child support. she just ruined her own life

[@71gas]

This judge's professionalism is beyond on point !!!!!!!!!

[@ZMondoHype]

I like how this judge doesn’t take any BS. She must’ve seen it all in these courts

[@MayameeJ]

All I know once you say “It’s obvious you came here to waste my time” you made your ruling 😂😂😂😂

[@belladiammond5831]

Yessssss Ms Vonda B... You shut that down respectful.... Yesssss ma'am we need more jude like you not bias.... Keep up the wonderful job love.....

[@pkphantom]

3:35 "I'm not about to play with you," I swear this woman is a SAVAGE she be cutting through ALL the bs 🤣

[@DarkFiddle121]

My ex is the residential parent and she took a $10/hr job just before we split. She has a vocational degree in the dental field but won't use it and never has. I even offered her my GI bill while we were married since you can give it to a dependent. She could go to school online and even stay home with the kids and have college paid for and graduate with a degree to get her a good job. She didn't want anything to do with it. I now pay out the ass in support each month because I obviously have a little more pride in myself and have more gainful employment than $10/hr. I also cover insurance and most of the childcare. She gets Medicaid and other public assistance. There comes a point when child support payments get to be so high for large income disparities between parents, that eventually any incentive of the receiving parent to find better employment gets destroyed. Underemployment is harder to prove than you think in most gynocentric court rooms

[@lizbeth2792]

How did you marry without getting a pre nup. I always tell people pls get a pre nup. No spousal support in case of divorce only child support and that too limited and equal. If you're not paralysed, dead or mentally challenged then you can work just like a man and healthy woman can. Nobody should be spoon fed.

[@beatrizmorgan5985]

Lol 😆 🤣 that chick's face when the judge said "congratulations" but I just abut died when she said "go see a doctor "!!!! Luv this judge

[@normanwilliams2737]

I absolutely love this woman. She needs to be protected 😂

[@detriotman]

This is just to entertain and learn.

[@imalwaysright.]

Based on Real Cases all that did happen though that’s what makes it so much more sweet

[@onaevolution]

@@imalwaysright. so this isnt real ?

[@xuemem]

@@onaevolution no it's not

[@I__Love_Lamp]

@@onaevolution ,nope! Based off of similar cases heard in the courts!

[@frieza2235]

@@I__Love_Lamp if this isn't real then is judge Judy not real too?

[@robertwhelan9132]

Awesome that Judge Vonda saw through this woman's tactics right away. Good on you, Judge 😊

[@ohitsmimi096]

As a female, i get so mad at so called mothers like this...she doesn’t care about that kid she’s selfish 😤😤

[@jeanthree]

Stress can cause early death she not selfish

[@ohitsmimi096]

jeanthree the only thing she talked about was herself. You don’t get to be selfish when you’re a mother.. you brought that child into the world so Both parents may have to make sacrifices but she intentionally did what she did and that’s wrong

[@lol.3460]

As a human I hate bums too

[@cloudlounger6903]

@@jeanthree you missed the bus. Put your helmet back on and eat your paste.

[@keimoclayton2844]

She can't help your situation. Epic response from the judge.

[@brie1162]

Not the judge we deserve, but the judge we need

[@jacobennis7216]

I love how you told her congrats twice I think she deserved it after the horrible years she has had supposedly suffered through I just don't understand wanting a less paying job she really just screwed herself all around for damn sure when she said she did it on purpose be different if she lost it but she just thought it would lower her payment and you made a great decision in my mind.

[@KristiContemplates]

When women leave the corporate, or any higher paying position, for a more menial job, it's not about making less money. It's about doing something a lot less of a cognitive load, so you have brain capacity to work through your issues via self dialogue in your mind. Women leaving their kids with the dad, are trying hard to avoid the dad, who's most likely manipulated them into having a baby, thinking it will mean she's obligated to remain in dad's life.

[@1mol831]

@@KristiContemplates unfortunately there is gender equality. And if a man does the same, he needs to pay the same amount of child support, therefore it’s only fair if a woman has to pay the child support too.

[@iroxursoxwithjello]

Love the new educational format at the end! Super accessible great content

[@JudgeVondaB]

Conrad Gmitter Thank you so much!

[@bkchutney59]

I love watching Vonda "shut em down" Bailey!!! You go girl!!!😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 I feel a bit of Mablean Ephraim each time you speak!!!

[@I__Love_Lamp]

She told on herself! If she was smart she could have stated she was having a hard time dealing with the divorce and started seeing a therapist and then just saying her job was overwhelming so she needed to do something simple for awhile. At this point she could have brought in her therapist to confirm her diagnosis and presto Doctor confirms she's having a nervous breakdown due to divorce and stress of the job so now she's a cashier clerk. Judge would more than likely grant decreasing child support! 😁

[@thehungrysage]

Yeah but she was being realistic. It’s hard to fake that stuff in front of doctors or psychiatrists.

[@picklepoppers8223]

It would not have mattered. The judge saw through her bs

[@SuzanneU]

The husband could do the same. You know who's getting shafted by these dishonest shenanigans? The child. Are you really okay with that?

[@kittycatkyla2344]

Leaving because of 'a hard time dealing with the divorce' is still intentionally leaving your job. Unintentionally leaving would be getting fired or demoted. So, even if she did go for the sob story, that wouldn't have changed she left her job intentionally. And as the judge said when the ex tried to make this same exact plea of emotional distress, "Get a doctor."

[@Papinnatt]

I love how you can see the couple that had literally the exact same kind of case in the back😭😭

[@santyatehortua7363]

I'm really enjoying this judge. Just saw another support video from her where the mom admitted she didn't work because she didn't want to. Told her to get a job lol

[@nicopaduamusic]

There’s probably a really really good reason the man got custody and not the woman. Courts almost always give it to the woman so there’s gotta be something BIG that we don’t know about.

[@akumaquik]

Just to have the woman as the payee of CS when the child is a pre teen means she messed up alot.

[@ronnieking3848]

I've seen this happen when mother has a substance abuse problem.

[@commonman4413]

As soon as the judge congratulated her on a divorce I figured this is going downhill. I once worked 6 months as a food stocker at Walmart with a Masters degree because no one would hire me. Why does this seem implausible to the judge. Also a judge told my brother that his letter of completion from high school was the same as a diploma ( it is in fact not) and had to pay more child support than his job was paying him. Maybe someone should have told his employer.

[@snuffywuffykiss1522]

The woman admitted to intentionally leaving a higher paying job... A GED or Letter of Completion IS the same as a diploma despite your loser brothers complaints, and his child support is based on what he could make if he weren't a lazy drug using bastard... Don't even try to pretend, We have all heard your story before a hundred times... Stop supporting your loser brother is the real point.

[@AntiTheBird]

@@snuffywuffykiss1522 So if I have a kid and I hate my job I'm never allowed to quit? I'm usually on the guy's side but imo this is bullshit no one should be forced to work a job they don't want. If I have a degree in accounting and work it for a few years only to realize that I fucking hate it and it makes me want to kill myself everyday and then I find out being a carpenter is my dream job I have to keep being an accountant forever?

[@stephanreiken9912]

She made a grave mistake. She specifically said she intentionally left the job, not that she was forced out of the job. The facts surrounding her are completely different and she could have gotten her child support reduced had she come with a different story

[@Kherron201]

@@AntiTheBird if you only support yourself, then yes, quit the job, go for the dream. But if you have children that you need to care for, or provide monetary support for, then no, unless you can make enough to provide for your self and your commitments to your children then you stick with that job, and if you hate it so much, then you use that motivation to get qualified to the point you can earn enough to take that first option. And if you hate that job enough that you are considering ending your life over it? Then at that point you need professional help. And at that point while getting that professional help maybe something can be worked out differently for the childcare. TL; DR, you have a child, you have a commitment that overrides your desire for a fun job. You take what you can get and work out the rest in the background until the child comes of age. And if you decide to let your child suffer because you decide to go for the fun option regardless? Shame on you. No wonder you would be the one paying the support.

[@AntiTheBird]

@@Kherron201 I guess I just have a different philosophy on this, but I suppose I would also want custody of the child but for another hypothetical just to clarify, if I’m a kid and my parents both have high paying jobs that they hate, and decide to quit their jobs and both work as cashiers, as long as they are providing food, shelter, clothing and an education I wouldn’t begrudge them that decision at all, as their child I don’t feel entitled to any certain type of lifestyle besides the legal necessities. Do you agree with this second hypothetical or do you believe parents should have to prioritize their children over their own mental health. Also professional help isn’t a magical bullet I know plenty of people who ended their lives after years of professional help.

[@michaelbeardenjr5159]

I love how she sees past the foolishness of people

[@charlenesarahbeambong]

"Emotional distress? I need you to go see a doctor" 😂

[@mimmel19]

I love the fierce sassiness of Judge Vonda

[@joesiefodra1778]

i love you your Honor. wish you are the judge of my husband when he was still fighting for child support. God bless you!

[@JAZZnMOTION]

As soon as she says “I’m not about to play wit’chu” it’s about to go get real

[@iamnilsa]

The defendant kept calling her child “the kid” 😩

[@commonsenseisnotsocommon]

I love this Judge! Subscribed! This was better than the Superbowl!

[@davisdesigns1153]

Im gonna guess that her plan was to work as a cashier for a bit to get the payments down and go back to her corporate job afterwards 😂

[@beckyjogilbert2148]

I wish missouri had a support court show like this ! I need info on missouri law for intentionally underemployed

[@EvanMurphyCapstone]

I am very glad this judge saw through this. FYI? I did take a lesser job after our daughter beat cancer - but with my former spouse blessing because I wanted to work in service of child welfare/ charity as I felt moved to help like we had been . He respected that and HE got a better job to increase his support ! ( I had made the larger income for 12 yrs in corp - he has hadthe larger income for 15 - and I have the better insurance now so they are on that ) but it was done with respect and discussion . I cannot imagine just upsetting your childs life balance/ expectations out of selfishness and pettiness! I am so glad HE has the child!!!! ( We share - we are blessed with a good divorce, great friendship and pretty happy family)

[@nedhat]

Emotional distress…I need you to go see a doctor 😂💀

[@JudgeVondaB]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Jy-xq2ew]

Imagine their child growing up in a loveless home.. wonder how he ended up with custody...

[@lisamariemcnicholas5960]

OMG, I just found your channel and I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU!!! 👏👏👏

[@miguelwilthsire21]

I love this judge. Makes me feel safe again

[@valzeppelin5153]

I love that she wasn't allowed to get over on her ex. She was just hurting the child in the end. I mean come on, with that little bit of money, she would only be paying the cost of daycare anyway, because daddy not only cares for the child, but he also has a job as well.

[@christhankyou6452]

I have not seen any new episodes of yours. I’ve only started watching you within the last four or five months. And I think that I have seen them all. I hope that there are more to come. I have enjoyed watching you go out all that what needs to be dealt with

[@morganboonstra]

i specifically like how this judge doesn’t get upset about being called ma’am, i get it might not be the most ‘appropriate’ but it’s still respectful and i like that she doesn’t get offended by it

[@kittycatkyla2344]

??? Is Judge Vonda trans? The term sir and ma'am get used with Judge's all the time. 'Your Honor' is the usual, yes, but there are plenty of judge shows showing male judges getting called 'sir'. Sir and Ma'am are the most appropriate terms to use in a courtroom besides 'Your Honor'.

[@Vern1300]

The Judge don’t play 💪🏾

[@Acen1991]

I always get excited when I find a video I haven't watched. I have all of my employees watching these now. lol

[@MrCRAIGSHILL]

He got lucky, my judge said as long as she works 1 hour then she is doing enough!

[@angeljosephs30]

MrCRAIGSHILL right that’s not fair she’s. Working period she prolly wants to spend more time with her son she culdnt focus Nd prolly saw no point working at that job he’s a lil bxxxx depending on her check b a man and go get more for u Nd ur son

[@blackroyalbrand1287]

@@angeljosephs30 see with women it’s “Be a man” but the law don’t care about your gender or feelings 😂🤷🏾‍♂️

[@hugoescalona26]

Was your judge a girl or boy

[@MrCRAIGSHILL]

@@hugoescalona26 male

[@MrCRAIGSHILL]

@@angeljosephs30 listen to your ignorance! I am 100% disabled, I do not work nor can I. My income is fixed. And you can believe anything you want but unless one parent is a danger, time should be split evenly and cost should be shared. She has the ability to make a lot more money then I do

[@soundguy1031]

It is called imputed income. A double edged sword. Too easy to abuse IMO.