Is There A Trend Of Older Women Dating Younger Men?

[@cliffthecoolcat]

I use to date older women because it was easy. There wasn't all that pressure to impress them with finances. They treated me better than any other women too.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

younger females are even easier

[@cliffthecoolcat]

@@mitchellmartinsky2299 I didn't have a place. LoL I wanted a woman with nice house.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

@@cliffthecoolcat makes sense

[@EC-yl7xk]

@@mitchellmartinsky2299 younger women are looking for a rich husband.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

@@EC-yl7xk only for the moment

[@aloveaffairwithself]

Idk. I’m in my 30s, and I’m attracting significantly younger men. Im starting to date my first younger man. He and I make the same type of money. We both own what we do. So, money isn’t what it’s about at all. I also have no desire to control this man. In fact, I like that he takes charge. I sit in my feminine energy in ways I wasn’t able to with men I dated previously.

[@chriscantonr5114]

what are your ages?

[@kathryndorner9501]

I’m here for it too. I’d love to find my hero in my age bracket but I’ve been single for AGES. So I’m open to saying yes to someone younger

[@manyplanets]

Women look hotter now older… and they’re healthier. Dudes fawn all over women like this. They make better partners too.

[@JusticeBajaj]

No they don't dudes just like cougars

[@actownsend7288]

@@JusticeBajajI’ve slept with plenty and married one… I WIN!!!!

[@jhonsmith5710]

I think it’s because women still want to act like they’re in 20s even when they’re older. Just my opinion.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

they shouldn't be old and lame that's for sure

[@whygzty6108]

Well men too

[@mojok7070]

I preferred hanging out with older women than girls my age even in a era when we didn't have social media and smartphones the girls I dated at school still brough more drama than the older woman I was with. My wife is 11 years older and she's does her thing like go to work, look after the kids and she cooks for me we have lots of sex but that's her commitment to me even though I didn't ask her to do that but that's what she does to keep me happy and we have 4 kids which is quite hard since we both work different times. She's working as a management team so her job demands alot now which includes travelling overseas or out of the city and I work night shifts for 12 hours and it's hard to come home and she goes to work than watch the kids while wanting to sleep but staying awake just for them sometimes we get help from her sister or I just stay awake until my wife comes back or go to work and sleep. That's why people would say dating a older woman is great it is but it's a challenge as well because most older women are working big jobs and hardly get a chance to spend time. My wife makes way more than me and people think I'm bumming around letting her make us the money but I'm going to work and still contributing for our kids and home including shopping. I know guys who would rather relax with a older woman and baby them with money and got sex in the outcome. I respect older women even when most of the older women I was with were sexual I still didn't see them as sex objects even though they were attractive

[@shirley_valente]

I agree 100% with her, as a Personal Trainer I keep in great shape and have amazing energy, most men my age don’t look after themselves.

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

Honestly, as a biological woman, I have always preferred older men. Not only do I find many older men to be consistently more mature, loving, ethical faithful, compassionate, wise, gentle, and intelligent than younger guys, but I also found them more appealing. Younger guys don’t inspire the same in me. In fact, I see them as platonic younger brothers or cousins. One may argue that age is not a number but honestly, younger guys have and always remain a huge turn off for me. Indeed, I ended up meeting and marrying my husband, who is an older man (who is four years older than I) with the values, qualities, and ethics I sought for. We get on very well and I’m glad he is nothing like my Dad. :)

[@freakyfornash]

Well a four year age gap isn't such a big deal in a relationship. But if he was at least a decade or so older than you, well now THAT would be a problem though!

[@JusticeBajaj]

Im a young and i definitely won't even look at a woman like u lmao . I like thrilling women not weirdos

[@JosephS-dj9os]

Good for you go get your sugar daddy

[@marigoldbeam5475]

One of the most revolting experiences I have had of an older man trying to date me was a married man who went on and on about his apparent wealth, his position in society and how much he thought he could do for me. I couldn't decide which was more repugnant, his vile disloyalty to his wife or his swollen, distended belly. It would take an emotionally and financially deficient 20 something year old to even countenance him. As I can afford to buy him and his wife, and my parents could buy his entire family, his inflated sense of wealth had entirely no impact on me. All I could think about was how his trousers were straining at their seams, his blotched complexion, veiny hands and total lack of self awareness.

[@prodigym]

As a 26 year old guy I would never date a girl over 30. Idc how rich she is, why would I settle for a woman with a high mileage and kids from another man.

[@27efan]

Facts

[@prodigym]

@Connor XT not even that. I'll still only date girls in heir 20s even when I'm 40. Leo Dicaprio style.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

not every female over 30 has crib midgets

[@prodigym]

@Connor XT as long as they're 18/19 I see no problem with that.

[@marigoldbeam5475]

That's exactly how I feel about older men, so I can appreciate your point.

[@marigoldbeam5475]

Things have indeed changed. Gone are the days where women simply went quietly into the grey traded in for a younger model by husbands chasing vicarious eternal youth through relationships with younger women. They have careers, their own money, and can do interesting things like take care of themselves, travel, date whomever they like, make new friendships; rather than simply garden until their backs give out, play bingo, occasionally be allowed to babysit grandchildren and hope to be invited for Christmas. More power to them. More power to us. Everyone should be delighted to get what they want rather than what I see in the comments, some men resenting women for joining the party late.

[@mission_new-earth]

Lol, yep!

[@Elizabeth-ef2mm]

Thank you, your comment was exactly what I needed to read right now. Blown away, you hit it on the nail ❤

[@tonymontez2358]

This is interesting older women dating 20 year olds is fine but everybody is upset when older men dating 20 year old women seems unfair

[@whygzty6108]

More like the other way around

[@TheFictionalRealmofJamal1017]

@barg box ???

[@xtrm2009]

@@whygzty6108 nah

[@rashadginn8768]

Bullshit, they just wanna be a dominant person in the relationship. Money is the ultimate power💰

[@EC-yl7xk]

My younger partners take control of the relationship. Older men are bitter and controlling.

[@Hardawayfits]

Um no😅

[@johnnylion5535]

My gf is 7 yrs older than me and she is very much in shape she is tight down there without having to cough

[@michellefarquharson3090]

Ive been in the gym for 26 years. I'm 47 now. I look great.... my boyfriend is 35... I've never dated younger before so this is my first. but men my age are. Not ready for someone like me...... I want to enjoy life, do new things, explore.... Right now I am attracting younger man... Even in their early twenties.... I'm enjoying my relationship. ❤

[@xtrm2009]

In my case though, there's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me , and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa wtf lady?" ..Matter of fact , one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, and saying at one point "ohh that body..."..What do you think what goes on in her mind or what were her possible intentions?..

[@CrextComic]

I read about this. Women who had close to no decent male relationships will settle for a guy they can dominate, but it usually does not last. Statistically the couples where the woman is more than 5 years older than the guy are the most likely to fall apart, meanwhile the relationship where the guy is more than 5 years older than the lady is the most likely to last. This research is old however, but if the header is statically correct, that more women date younger men, then that might just indicate that less women has had good relationships with any man growing up. I find this completely believable.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

that research is a lie

[@EC-yl7xk]

Younger men are better partners and have more stamina. Many take control and it's a myth that older women want to control younger men

[@jl696]

Lol. Most single older women are going to stay that way, alone with their cats. Rich, attractive older women getting boy-toys happens but it is still very rare.

[@27efan]

It’s a niche they’re talking about.

[@jameshumphries5059]

I agree. This is a stupid conversation! The idea that women are in shape and men aren’t is stupid. A 60 year old man can still look really good “naked” no 60 year old women looks good naked.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

@@jameshumphries5059 a 60 year old male can look ugly naked too don't get it twisted

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

same with rich attractive older dudes

[@jl696]

@@mitchellmartinsky2299 Nah. Rich, attractive, older guys always have some younger lady waiting for them.

[@minimatemasterworks]

Jebidiah as usual doesn't get it. It's about power and control. I can guarantee that's why she went for a younger guy.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

the guy can make his own choice

[@whygzty6108]

And when old men go for younger women it's about power and control

[@majesticcompany9447]

I love when you have these old hags to explain why they are always the exception to the rule.

[@Canadakonnect]

They also hate it if older guys date younger women. Double standard in full effect.

[@majesticcompany9447]

Yup.

[@Canadakonnect]

@@majesticcompany9447 My favorite line they all say is: How dare that creep date those young innocent women!? Reverse: Age is just a number. Love doesn't discriminate, the heart wants what the heart WANTS!!!

[@majesticcompany9447]

I thank God for men like Rollo and the rest of the pioneers. When a women lives out her Hoe phase, She is essentially saying “ during my prime, I will have my fun with the bad boys knowing that they are not relationship material because I CAN and I’m young and hot. If that doesn’t workout I have a PLAN B to trap the nice guy/ provider”

[@majesticcompany9447]

@@Canadakonnect lol seriously. It’s so silly. Haha

[@godogs89]

Most of the top guys who are over 40 are either married, have zero interest in serious relationships, or only date women in their 20s. These women can’t land any so they date younger men. Nothing wrong with that but don’t lie about the reason.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

there's no reason they shouldn't date a younger male even if they could get some dude their age or slightly older

[@EC-yl7xk]

Many top guys are controlling and want 20 year old housewives. Not career women and are bitter regardless of status.

[@EC-yl7xk]

@@mitchellmartinsky2299 thank you.

[@EC-yl7xk]

Older men want a pure young girl with no baggage and women also want that, but in a younger men. We also deserve happiness.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

@@EC-yl7xk it's no big deal

[@robertdepesci3418]

Ive seen lots of very muscular ripped athletic guys who get the girl but the girl always cheats on them. In the end.... money wins

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

if she will cheat with the old geezer then she will cheat on the old geezer

[@avidfather1864]

That's not how the real world usually works, my friend. In most cases when this happens, a woman will marry an older man for stability while having sex behind his back with younger, handsome, athletic guys.

[@Br1dK0Sp3c]

lol you been watching too much porn not saying that dosent happen it does but no were near what you think im a young buff dude attractive ive tried with married or taken milfs who had ugly men not even sucessful men they seemed flattered by me wanting them but none of them ever gave me sex

[@JusticeBajaj]

And I've seen the get rich guy get cheated on too .

[@robertdepesci3418]

@@JusticeBajaj and he can easily replace her cuz he's rich.

[@wanderingknight10]

Yes there is a trend in mental instability in the US leading to older women dating younger men.

[@SilVia-hs2kb]

No, it's called women don't need men financially but they still want to have sex. Why have sex with an old guy that needs viagra when a younger guy can do it naturally? Was it " mental instability" for centuries when older men married younger women because they held all the power in society?

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

good for the younger dudes

[@marigoldbeam5475]

😂😂😂😂 long live that mental illness. It means older women are having fun rather than vegetating in front of the TV.

[@dgkallday9]

Kim did not leave Kanye because he let himself go and sat on the couch Jedediah…… She left &got with Pete because she valued leading her own life and career as a forever 22 year old over making sacrifices for her family like most women of past generations did.

[@imenehaddad2860]

Kanye is insane

[@Hardawayfits]

Im 29 and young guys are always trying to take me on a date or get in a relationship with me😅 I might have to see what that be like😂

[@nono114499]

You won't regret it trust me. Just make sure he is mature and doesn't look for a mother

[@designhub360customapparel]

Trend? Man that means I was 18 years ahead of my time. I left my ex-husband 18 years ago and haven't dated a man over 34; most were not over 26 but my current one os now 34 and he was 26 when I met him. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@princeofjudaea]

You sound like a merri-go-round 😂😂😂

[@lunaticfringe4349]

Idk , I see more older women letting Themselves go and being bitter and complaining about everything

[@sierrawilliams9145]

I'm 40 with a 32 year old

[@kameronwright1276]

My redhead gf is 40 I’m 30

[@kbb92]

How’d it turn out for you?? I just started dating a similar age gap

[@xtrm2009]

In my case, there's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me , and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa wtf lady?" ..Matter of fact , one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, and saying at on/e point "ohh that body..."..What do you think what goes on in her mind or what were her possible intentions?..

[@LavishPatchKid]

Depends on how loose you use the term 'dating'. In my life I've known only 2 younger guys who took a chick '10+ years older' seriously. It was for the same reason the rest settled down with ugly or mean chicks; because they had their heart broken by one they really liked. I'd put my money on the latter forever dominating the percentages of dudes who go that route.

[@mojok7070]

It's funny you say that. My wife is 11 years older than me and she's 45. We've been together since 2015 and we also have 4 kids during that time but I've been with a few older women before my wife and most of them were sexual relationships and I would say 4 of them were more serious and weren't afraid of commitment unlike the other women I was with they just wanted to have fun and it was most times they ended the relationship with me because having with fling with a younger guy was hard to keep behind close doors. The first older woman I was with who I lost my virginity to who was 20 years older than me she's the reason I started liking older women more than just having crushes on celebs as a teen. She made me from a shy boy to a more confident man at a young age that it's weird that I felt more confident to talk to a older woman than women my age. My wife is probably the only older woman that liked me before I liked her but I find her attractive but she had this nasty side before we got together and it was turn off for me

[@LavishPatchKid]

@@mojok7070 Just curious, what was your relationship with your mother like? You've traveled an interesting path; would like to understand the motivations involved.

[@mojok7070]

@@LavishPatchKid My relationship with my mother was great than mine dad who I never got along with but she and I don't speak anymore because when she found out about the older women she disowned and I was still a teen at the time. They kicked me out because of that. But I don't think it's got to do with my mother is why I'm this way. It's because I lost my virginity to a older woman who was in 20 years older than me and it was great when it happened and from there I just wanted to be with older women because she made me feel more confident but I never thought I ever marry a older woman especially when my wife was 37/38 when we got together and got married. Honestly the sex is great with older women but I also enjoyed some of their personalities even though it was sexual relationships with most of the older women I still treated them with respect and like a real relationship even though they might just wanted to just have fun.

[@marigoldbeam5475]

@@LavishPatchKid The inference, by the converse, being that younger women who date and marry older men have daddy issues. Just like younger women with daddy issues end up on the pole and walking the streets. What quality women you older guys are bagging. Your children are definitely going to turn out emotionally healthy and well balanced human beings raised by such good looking, but emotionally deficient human beings.😉

[@Maggiebenjee]

You sound threatened and bitter.

[@2H2521]

This is nothing new! JLo started it over a decade ago with that Casper Smart guy, she was in her early 40’s & him in his early 20’s. They were hot as fuck together & she was in her prime then too.

[@AUFalcon64]

You couldn’t pay me to date Madonna

[@Hardawayfits]

😅 what about beyonce?

[@AUFalcon64]

hahahahaaha@@Hardawayfits

[@prettyhollypolly7553]

I'm not a Madonna fan but I think she's wayyyyy out of your league hahaha.

[@AUFalcon64]

@@prettyhollypolly7553 If I’m in my 20s & she is 65 she is used goods.

[@xtrm2009]

@@Hardawayfits yuck

[@kennymichaelalanya7134]

She's talking about young guys who want to let a woman run things. I'm sure they're out there . Careful though those young guys aren't exactly loyal

[@BearForceOne379]

Agreed. They usually are mama’s boys who are self-serving. So when it is you don’t benefit them anymore, they will bounce.

[@marigoldbeam5475]

Neither are the old ones....exactly loyal.😉

[@Shapeshifter2023]

I’m healthier .. hotter…everybody wants me ..😂😂😂😂

[@orangefavcolorbih]

Is it so bad, comment section, to imagine that we're all getting closer to having to accept (some) of the same rules?🤷

[@marigoldbeam5475]

Precisely. The hypocrisy and double standards are astounding...

[@Bornfree1010]

I hv never had any procedures, wear no make up, don't color my hair... truly all natural , basic low key 60 yo who seriously has 30yo seeking me out, like earnestly. I am a professioanl, but just an ordinary female working to make a living. whats up with this?

[@princeofjudaea]

It's simple, you're a GILF. Just a notch on their belt to talk about with friends. Don't let it go to your head 😂😂😂

[@brandonhallam51]

'Dating'

[@L91-r5b]

I am 32 year old middle eastern woman living in Iraq and had 24 year old guy proposing to me last month 😂Also at 31 a 19 year old guy asked me for marriage. Edit: I am engaged to an American Christian guy whom I have to keep as a secret for the time being until i move to the usa if i don't want to be beheaded in Iraq as muslims women can't marry Christian men.

[@2H2521]

That’s hot! 😂

[@blackronin5578]

Pulled to 2 cougars a few days ago, so much better n more fun

[@TeamLevi666]

I don’t understand the need for ear phones???

[@xtrm2009]

lol

[@SilVia-hs2kb]

Women in their 40's and men in their 20's are the most sexually compatible .

[@SilVia-hs2kb]

@Connor XT Not trying anything. It's facts. Maybe they don't suit you but facts don't care about your feelings.

[@XanderMarshall]

No, they're not. Younger girls are more sexually experimental, and they're more limber if you know what I mean.

[@avidfather1864]

@Connor XT It's true. Men in their 20s are at their sexual peak because of a high testosterone level and women in their 40s are at their sexual peak because of pre-menopausal hormones giving her the urge to have more sex to push another baby out before it's too late. She usually will want to do this with younger men because of the higher virility and fertility which younger men possess which gives her a much greater chance to conceive healthy offspring.

[@issa2666]

Yea but we don't want a serious relationship , just sex

[@XanderMarshall]

@@issa2666 Yes, because you've likely been with numerous men in the past. You're not capable of having a relationship anymore.

[@Juniz533]

But know one is talking about if these younger guys will stick around.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

if they don't they're replaceable just like younger females

[@issa2666]

😂😂 hell no

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

@@issa2666 sure they can

[@marigoldbeam5475]

Well so what? Statistically the older ones don't stick around either or if they do it's just so that they can have someone to look after them, rinse out their dentures, shine bald spot etc.

[@brianking5208]

I’ve very rarely seen it myself

[@rosemarie4121]

Maybe IF OLDER MEN EXCEPT THEMSELVES AND LOVE THEMSELVES THEY COULD APPRECIATE AN OLDER WOMAN AFTERALL YOURE AN OLDER MAN. ITS NOT ABOUT MONEY ITS ABOUT TIME STAMINA AND LIVING LIFE!! AMBITIOUS ❤️&LOVING VERY ATTRACTIVE AND VERY MUCH GIVEN YOUNGER MAN 😂I GUESS ILL ENTERTAIN THE THOUGHT LOL THANK YOU

[@zachtindell7751]

older women are just practice. any 30+ woman single missed the relationship train.

[@holyempressw8531]

@@zachtindell7751 say that to meghan markle and many older women ,french president etc. Yall mad because women are more successful. Plus didn't charles left younger Dianna for older Camilla? Lol

[@lunaticfringe4349]

It’s all about attraction , if your a man now days in America it’s better to have a ripped body than money honestly . Even old hags can MARRY in shape guys . My advice to guys is work on your money for you cuz that shit don’t work anymore .

[@xtrm2009]

In my case, there's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me , and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa wtf lady?" ..Matter of fact , one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, and saying at one point "ohh that body..."..What do you think what goes on in her mind or what were her possible intentions?..

[@markmilitant]

That’s not true all these women mentioned had surgery men aren’t going to get surgery wtf 🤦🏻‍♂️ Jedediah

[@Skankhunt420.]

I only go for older woman sometimes because they put out and are willing to do things in the bedroom that young girls wont. They are the leftovers and theres always some shit they have going on that has affected them emotionally

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

leftovers are good

[@XanderMarshall]

like what? younger girls in their 20's are more sexually experimental on average.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

@@XanderMarshall Some are too timid

[@XanderMarshall]

@@mitchellmartinsky2299 Yes, some are. Most aren't. I'm speaking in general terms. Older women can't compete with younger women in the sex department.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

@@XanderMarshall You could say the same thing in reverse

[@PatriarchalCompass]

Women in their late 40's and up shouldn't be dating younger dudes they should be helping raising their grandchildren 😂 #redpilledfacts

[@SilVia-hs2kb]

Grandchildren at 40? Is it 1785 where you are presently? 😂

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

you could say the same about old geezers who date younger females otherwise let the sugar babies have their fun

[@michelleah939]

I totally agree 40's is young to be a grandparent.

[@PatriarchalCompass]

@@SilVia-hs2kb yes women should be marrying and having kids in their early twenties and 40's isn't for dating that's pathetic they should marry the first old man that's willing to provide for them not going out on dates and all that

[@holyempressw8531]

@@PatriarchalCompass Too bad this is not 1800 anymore. 40 is young. Women need sex . Thank u

[@jd218]

I'm 58 at 26 I dated a 38 year old Lady for almost 2 years.Best sex of my life bar none.

[@GtiMuchFast]

There's a trend of men missing their mammas

[@marigoldbeam5475]

Well that's lovely. They join the trend of women missing their pappies. Ying and yang, balanced achieved.

[@JusticeBajaj]

Nah we just don't want to lose our money, so we dare rich women . So that we don't pay alimony.

[@joeam4977]

The young men are NEVER the breadwinners in these “older women” relationships. Men with money and options don’t date older women…period. Jedediah is married to a younger, soft beta. Listening to her talk for 2 minutes tells you that she is an aggressive feminist type.

[@prettyllady]

older women with money don't care about a man's money. it's the same thing with older guys and younger women. lol 😂 The older women want the hottest young guy, with stamina and no baggage. Whose full of energy & positivity! They know these men might want them for their money but they don't care 🤷‍♀️ Just like how younger women get with older men for their money & the men don't care either. It's all the same. Relationships are transactional and everyone benefits in one way or another 👍

[@holyempressw8531]

Yet ben affleck married Jennifer lopez and prince harry Megan markle and prince Will Kate and prince charles left diana who was 11 years younger for Camilla who is 3 year older. The French president married a woman 25 years his senior, Amazon owner married a older one. Speak for yourself

[@joeam4977]

@@holyempressw8531 Affleck simply got tired of the young tang and needed J-Lo’s money to retire in style. The rest of the guys you named are bums who married down.

[@EC-yl7xk]

Men hate to see women happy.

[@EC-yl7xk]

@@prettyllady And? What's to you?

[@scottsimon769]

Last 🤬 💩

[@WillSmith-vw8qc]

I couldn’t stand five minutes with this lady 😫

[@spiderwebbmarketing]

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