HOW TO DISAGREE | Joe Bonifacio

[@donnamayabella4492]

DIBAAAA, we can be divided, but still respectful.

[@lindsayashleydelapaz203]

"Essentials. Unity. Non-essentials. Liberty. In all things. Charity." we are blessed to watch this praise God! Truly, as Christians, there must be something different from us as we engage and handle arguments. 💓 After all, relationships matter as we are commanded loving our neighbors! This includes who disagree with (Debate, Decide, Divide) matters is in the DIE, JESUS IS THE LORD. 💓

[@jclovespipay28]

I am a Roman Catholic, and I can relate to this topic. It's true that Christians also disagree, especially in matters of Theology. We should choose to be respectful. Christians do not need to be always in the attack mode. Let us remember that Christian denominations have a unifying factor: our faith in Jesus Christ. Only that, our churches have varying ways of teaching and living the faith. Let us choose to understand and be more loving. And when we find our common ground, we will realize that we can do things together despite our differences, and thus, we can live together in love, just as Christ taught us all. And pahabol, your views also apply to discussion on politics. Thanks for this input. God bless you!

[@zmaeramirez7477]

Hello, Pastor. Can you talk about healthy and Godly bounderies sa friends and/or family po, more on bounderies on self care and not being burnt out.

[@marlobelizario3933]

I still remember Ptr. Joe, your illustration of the ping pong game in our L113 class- question, clarify, affirm, just to keep the conversation going. Your underlying message, ‘win not by winning arguments but win by preserving the relationship’ resonates strongly. Just to add, a common statement of disagreement is the argumentum ad populum. Thanks Ptr. Joe, these tips are really helpful

[@joebonifacio]

Yes! Thanks for that addition also. I miss your L113 class. You guys are a fun group. If you ever reunite I hope you invite me. Haha

[@mariefesarmiento9332]

wow, 'win not by winning the arguments but win by preserving the relarionship' 👌👍 i will remember this. and also 'In essentials unity, in non essentials liberty, in all things charity.' thanks Ptr. Joe for the very clear explanation.

[@richardlouiem]

This needs to be on Facebook.

[@alyssaiax]

Beautiful!!! Listen, listen, listen, then speak. “In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; in all things, charity.”

[@jraldyncantillero6230]

Indeed. 🤗😇 Jesus is alive in our hearts.

[@donnamynrealina8798]

I watch your vlogs on my days off. I used to come to VCF until 2008 then I moved to the US but I still listen to you and Rica. I binge watch/listen to you and your family. Thank you for your time and insights like always. May God richly bless you! You are a blessing to many of us

[@tierraramasguibone3195]

Hindi ko alam pero natuto ako sa ibang level.

[@jhonzie]

Yes, we all disagree on something but we should always stay kind to them and don't bother them, because there's a love in your heart and you knew it that what you know is diff. from what he knows. So just don't mind them. Just do what God is leading you.

[@alyssamaevillarmia7874]

i love how it is put together. ptr. joe, would recommend po na magkaroon kayo ng podcasts sa spotify. God bless you and your famm po!

[@ElderYouth]

In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; in all things, charity.

[@donabellamojares6028]

Full of substance..thanks Pstr. Joe!

[@jairatrinidad145]

i'm learning 🤍🤍🤍

[@fideljacquez9872]

Watching from Laguna,

[@tierraramasguibone3195]

Naiiyak ako sa wisdom. Sa napaka lawak na pang unawa. Na sana ako meron din at sana piliin kong umunawa sa araw araw

[@ma.rosellamarcelino1482]

For me who flares out anytime there is are disagreements, then it ends up to arguments. Is it safe to say it is all because of the trauma I have?. I am grateful for this content. It is really a big help for me.!

[@maripazsong4719]

16:46 💯

[@chrisrdgymnastics]

Hope to hear more like this Pastor 💪💪💪support from Oman

[@dhebzbolongaita]

Timely message Joe! 🙂 It’s good to hear this during this time when a lot of people even in the church are becoming more divided in many things and has forgotten to agree to disagree. It’s saddening that sometimes, people just shove to your throat their own truth rather than understanding and respecting your stand point. Greetings to you and your family! Haven’t seen you all in a very long time!

[@jii855]

LOVE THIS!! VERY TIMELY! Especially to the young generations who love to keep on throwing their own opinions and fighting against each other. This really helped me how to deal with those disagreements ✨

[@jopadpil8672]

So good. Hello from Melbourne.

[@mjhae1907]

I thank God for your life Pastor! May He use you more. 😇

[@Patrick-zh5oi]

Good day ptr. Joe, I hope you could read this and answer my question. Is politics essential or non essential? Thank you ptr.! God bless you

[@lisalin4859]

Very timely hence, prophetic. Thanks Pastor Joe. Praise God. Our country really needs this right now.

[@rosaliealonsagay7945]

This is just so timely especially with the coming elections. I knew of that 'agree to disagree' concept but I was having a hard time doing it 😅 Thank you, sa step by step process👌All I know then is, I just have to be polite whenever I have to disagree with someone's opinion. Pero I learned the Step 0.haha. So dapat pala dun pa lang nafilter ko na 💪 I love the framework too 😉 ang cool ng pablackboard! 😊 Very helpful po yung 4Ds. Unconciously, naaapply ko na pala yung iba pero andami ko pang natutunan like the essentials na to die for 👊 I was reminded of the things na relative lang sa akin, sa akin lang inimpress ng Lord pero ginawa kong absolute for others. I was wrong, kaya naging legalistic. But I'm glad, nalalaman ko na po to ngayon para maitama na. Tapos ang ending pa rin, in all things charity 🥺😭 Bumalik pa rin sa grace ng Lord. Honestly, lowkey life-coaching na po yung vlog mo 😊 Thank you, thank you for using this platform to further God's kingdom and I believe in one way or another, nagbebenefit din ang body of Christ dahil po sa mga content tulad nito. Glory to God po for your life! 💕

[@karenbrecio1649]

I will only agree to what the BIBLE says and teaches, and what the Holy Spirit impresses me. When I am confused, I pray and pray harder until I discover God's will and answer. What important is seeking Him earnestly and with all our hearts. ❤️

[@bossjer07]

Today I stuble upon this great content. Thank you so much for this Sir Joe.

[@tegzguzon]

Such a breath of fresh air. only recently started watching your channel. i feel so.."found"

[@maryjanegarcia2888]

The best part is when you close in prayer.. Thank you for this Ptr.Joe 👍

[@anggeco6384]

U & rica r gud examples of good speakers, u r very articulate, fluent & direct, dats y i followed both of u in all ur socmed platforms. God bless u & the whole family. Hope to see what u eat for a day.😀

[@lameneses-david4241]

Continue doing it. Great help to our family. Thank you. Stay blessed.

[@bezaleeldetorres3135]

watching ur video e'rytime becomes like a 'popup bible' complete with prayer :) thanks pastor.

[@kero8623]

This is so timely. Thank you, pastor joe! God, please enlighten the minds of the Filipinos especially the Christians 🙏🏼

[@luna0759]

👌🏽❤️

[@lipunan_talks]

It’s amazing how deep this idea can get. God truly imparts wisdom in different ways. Thank God for your life pastor! Will surely try and impart this in my teachings as well!

[@mptolentino7594]

So much wisdom here. Thanks for this.

[@jasminoliveros4304]

Thank you Pastor. God bless you & Jesus loves you. ♥️

[@vyn4147]

Thanks for this. Learned a lot. Intellectualy and godly presented. God Bless Joe and Rica!

[@Nico-kz6sg]

Thanks Joe for the inspirational videos. I thank the Lord for leading me to these. Good morning.

[@aironmarciban5172]

I remembered the most important lesson when I was studying how to write a thesis, which was not to misrepresent anyone. I hope to watch more of these contents, pastor.

[@joebonifacio]

Yeah, intentionally misrepresenting is weak and unkind

[@VanFronda]

Amen!

[@chrisrdgymnastics]

Thank you for. This Ptr

[@dartalks5975]

This is really matters. -Relationally

[@urs-leanafiscotusi1427]

Wooooooooooow! how I love listening to you Pastor, learned a lot. 😢😢 baka ulitin ko pa ng ilang beses until it really sinks in me. ❤️❤️

[@samolivera991]

I’m expecting a green board. 🤣 I learned a lot. Thanks Pastor! 🤍

[@Dianaxxz]

Love this, thank you Pastor Joe! I've experienced this a lot of times before and even now, and yet this is the first time that I've been presented with practical actions, God bless!

[@roannetumale5915]

Thank you Ptr. Joe… am blessed and encouraged. God bless🙏

[@rosaliomulawan1245]

Wooooow God bless ptr. Joe

[@graceenopia8938]

Can you vlog Ptr. About political views of Filipinos and who can be nominated for Pres.

[@happyheart7447]

I always look forward to your videos. I am amazed at how intellectual your discussions are. You are truly a blessing. I also love your wife's videos and opinions.

[@makeitgirl9471]

another man of Substance. Big thanks for sharing. learned a lot po.

[@rowenamagbual6568]

Nice content Ptr. God bless you and your family.

[@rucellegarciano4105]

Tama... Fully agree...

[@nicholerancesimperial7411]

Grabeeee! You got it all! ❤️❤️❤️

[@JoshEricoBorja]

Pastor can you do a vid preaching about Christians getting tattoos? There were too many opinions about that matter, nakakalito ano yung dapat paniwalaan

[@BrutsyFruitsy]

I love this. Very timely 🤎Thank you, Pastor!

[@gerardaaronsantos]

This is powerful! 👊🏼 thanks P. Joe!

[@kerlooow]

Pastor, please do podcasts too. Or im not sure if may existing na. God bless, po!

[@joebonifacio]

Hi! My wife and I do one called Anything Goes with The Bonis. It's available on Spotify and wherever you can find podcasts, I think.

[@kerlooow]

@@joebonifacio Thank you, Pastor! Stay Annointed! ☝🏻

[@reflectseantinio]

nice...

[@neristrunk]

Your message indeed a blessing to my heart. Thank you 😊

[@jellianrosesusaya3245]

❤❤❤

[@md.zahidulislam2281]

I am very glad for video.

[@melanierosecarino2568]

Thank you for this Pastor!

[@_mrvix]

Hi Ptr. i hope you can put english subtitles especially on the tagalog parts. ty!

[@joiebactad1]

Ang galing nung pa blackboard..haha….💪🏻…thanks po , timely content..✌🏻✌🏽✌🏿

[@antihero8603]

Nice.

[@s1imple1cs2]

This is so awesome and relevant Pastor!!! yih!!!

[@dzm1968]

Such refreshing insights as always😊

[@gracemorales6231]

May podcasts po ba kkayo Sir?

[@stephenyvanong6653]

di ko inexpect yung 15:27 hahaha Pero great content Ptr. Joe!!!

[@joebonifacio]

Hahaha thanks, that video cracks me up

[@egaisantos]

Does victory speak in tongues or move in the gifts of the spirit?

[@TheAmandaProudfoot]

Thank you for sharing this, Pastor. Learned loads as always. A lot more Tagalog than normal 😂 Would it be too much to ask for some English subtitles in those moments? That would be really appreciated 🙏🏼 Thank you

[@joebonifacio]

Sure… sorry about that. I texted the person who works on captioning already. Is it alright if I ask where you’re from?

[@TheAmandaProudfoot]

@@joebonifacio aww thanks so much Pastor. I’m from Sri Lanka 😊

[@mrmrshomebody]

I second this! Would love to understand the full message. From Australia. Thank you P. Joe.

[@gabmaulit]

Actually po KZbin was created as a dating site. Kaya considered padin syang social media site 😁

[@Godblessforeveryone]

Parang yung nabasa ko. If someone disagree with you, does he or she become your enemy?

[@cristhinemae]

❣️

[@findtherightbeat]

I think the issue stems from people confusing things that are binary and non-negotiable with those that have acceptable grey areas.. I just Googled and came across the concept of Relativist Fallacy -- I think this fallacy is in play when people try to bend the truth or rationalize the wrong that they're doing.

[@jeralyncabangis8811]

🙌🙌💖💖

[@wint2792]

How do you disagree peacefully with those who grew up in the Catholic church on gender identities (their argument is that since God is love and we are made in His image He/we shouldn't disagree with Gay marriage ,p.s they aren't Christian)I already mentioned how it is based on God's divine nature and we are made in His image etc and how we are made as male & female and that's how God intended it from the beginning, but she took my words and reframed it by using how we are made in His image and that God is loving (is this making sense?)

[@MrPaulmark19]

I'll answer in behalf of Kuya Joe: Malinaw na in that issue that you raised, you know where to draw the line. In a relativistic society like ours, especially if we being influenced by the west, the Biblical Truth should be the absolute standard pagdating sa Issue ng Gay Marriage, Gender Issues etc.

[@MrPaulmark19]

Since nireframed pala niya yung sinabi mo, halatang gusto ay tumakas sa Katotohanan parang namimili Siya na pwede magsuit sa kanyang relativistic view. Ganun yun. Kaya dapat you should draw the line, Magalit Siya sa iyo but you presented it with Compassion and with Grace even if you say it firmly.

[@wint2792]

@@MrPaulmark19 sorry I am not Filipino so I don't understand what you just wrote

[@wint2792]

@@MrPaulmark19 in other words I should just leave it to the Holy Spirit to convict them?

[@MrPaulmark19]

@@wint2792 Let me simplify my translation: Since that person reframe or redefined on what you just said, it only implies that this person is trying to escape from the Truth. This person is interested to revise the Truth that sooths his/her definition.

[@jeuelbarroso5350]

Pastor, I've always respected your God-guided thoughts and vlogs. They've been a blessing. But I draw the line at someone pulling a hard no to LeBron being the GOAT. I will die on this. jk 😅 God bless you and your fam!

[@joebonifacio]

I saw a video that made a very convincing argument to me. I’m close to granting Lebron GOAT status. Or 😆

[@enaiemow]

I disagree... ...kidding aside, thanks Joe!

[@joebonifacio]

Hahaha

[@RenPolumbarit]

Man, flat earthers are interesting haha

[@joebonifacio]

Imagine arguing over the best response to climate change for hours only to find out the person is a flat earther. 😆