How to Set Goals for the New Year (+ actually ACHIEVE them)

[@lavendaire]

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[@TimeFliesTimeManagement]

Don’t forget that you still have a whole month in 2019 to achieve great things 💙

[@DaviSouza-kq7xz]

That's what I'm doing.

[@Nan7ae]

Even tho 2019 is over...what you said was totally right...it really motivated me!

[@adaintydream8759]

I love this comment! I am a perfectionist, i make plans in the beginning of the year but when i get off track, i get demotivated and think the whole year is wasted, and tend to wait for the next year to start over! How can i get rid of this problem, it is easier said than done for me :/ I make plans every week and when i fall off of the plan i sit depressed and demotivated for the remaining days of the week!

[@minfires7572]

@@adaintydream8759 I can relate to this on a spiritual level OMG I always set a bunch of goals for myself each month too but get unmotivated half way through and then think I'm a failure and give up. ok what I found that really helped was resetting my daily routine, taking a step back and acknowledge what went wrong and keep going! Just remember to take it one step at a time and take a break from everything for just a day if it gets too overwhelming. Sending a virtual hug

[@ashashukri]

How to set and achieve your goals in 2020 1. Envision. Start with a clear vision of what you want. (Health, career, relationships, personal growth, spirituality, creativity and adventure) 2. Write down the specific goals in each area. Start with the feeling eg glowy, security Also focus on the why, it keeps you motivated. Try keep it in your sphere of control. 3. Prioritise the goals according to the impact of the goal. Make a plan on how you will achieve these goals. 4. Take action as soon as possible. Your power is in the now. ♦️Keep the promises you make to yourself. ♦️Work on your goals daily. Link with reward. ♦️Track your progress daily ♦️Accountability.

[@olirmsa]

thanks for improving my productivity

[@aranimethma6435]

Thank you a lot 🙂

[@alcaynchannelquran2359]

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[@rb2807]

People like you are the backbone of society

[@dhiadidia3519]

Thankyou 💗

[@pratibhagopalakrishna3436]

"When you don't keep the promises you made to yourself, you lose trust, and your self-esteem goes down and finally you stop believing in yourself." Ohmygod. This just blew my mind. Aileen, you explained the root of my problem. Thank you so much!

[@jazmine7798]

Another tip: don't start January. Start your goal next month instead. That way you can bypass the initial novelty "feeling" that wears off after a few days-weeks and focus on the goal itself. If something is important to you start now.

[@Br0wnEyedQueen]

^^^ Yes! A year is simply 365 days, you can really start at any point.

[@bigdollsboudoirTV]

Start today!

[@madelonmesman6578]

I always like to start in December as a tryout month were i can fail and try keeping motivation

[@chikuuu3370]

I really hope 2020 brings some joy to my life. 2019 has been the worst year out of all my 17 years in this world bcoz i lost my dad a few months back :( and i have suffered sooo much that even at one point i was ao close to choose suicide but luckily i got help and now i just wish to get better!!! I don't want to go into that dark space ever againnn. I really hope i'll get better and find happiness...

[@aliciahrvatin8583]

I really hope so too for you ull find more happiness in 2020, I believe you will ur so young and have a long future ahead of you. I can't imagine losing my dad now Im 19, my condolences to your father Chiku

[@vthesaxophonista7190]

Stay Strong 🙏 bro

[@F0reverblessed]

Christina Marie Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

[@brynne5078]

Sending love your way, my friend 🥰❤️ blessings & growth in the new year!

[@itsPujaMahapatra07]

2020 WILL BRING YOU JOY & HAPPINESS! DON'T WORRY .. TAKE CARE...

[@F0reverblessed]

Don’t trick yourself. Make your goals attainable. As Aileen mentioned, if it’s less in your control and more “out of your control” then you may want to reconsider. The WHY is crucial to sticking to your goals. Envisioning your highest self achieving a goal will definitely help. From a self love content creator, great video Aileen. Just in time for this new decade. 💜

[@jeanettemerstrand8851]

I love this tip of making sure that your goals are actually attainable and within your control 💕

[@veritaseru]

Wow! What a take!

[@F0reverblessed]

Embracing Average Thank you! Happy holidays!! 🤗🎊

[@F0reverblessed]

veritaseru Thank you! :) Happy holidays! Have a great weekend!! :))

[@shake_ikura_mentaiko.]

Just realized that the reason why my self esteem is super low is because I don't believe myself. I gotta take action and try to build trust with myself. Thank you for reminding me that :)

[@F0reverblessed]

Maya Sakuramoto Wishing you all the best! Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

[@lavendaire]

Sending love for your journey 💞

[@NenaLavonne]

✨2020✨ This new year has such positive energy attached to it already. A fresh new page, a fresh new decade to design our best life and fulfill our dreams. ♥️ Happy Thanksgiving to all who celebrate it! 😊

[@tay6410]

This is the kind of stuff that should be taught in school! Life changing! No one has ever explained goals like this to me, and I feel like setting things up like this makes it much more achievable and feels less daunting and impossible. Thank you!!!

[@lavendaire]

Indonesian, Spanish, Thai, and Vietnamese subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕

[@tfnvv5469]

I’ve already fallen off my goals for 2020 in the 2nd week of January, but starting Feb I made new goals or reframed them differently in my mind, so I hope to keep those up throughout the month. Annual goals are a little intimidating, so I like setting 30-49 day goals (if your goals are habits, 49 days is the length that best solidifies habits as routine).

[@christinamariemoney]

Goal setting is so important to make sure that we keep improving and working towards the life that we want 👏❤️ I am so ready to achieve my goals in 2020! Let’s do this everyone!

[@F0reverblessed]

Christina Marie Wishing you all the best! Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

[@rsophieramlal8625]

Goodluck

[@jeanettemerstrand8851]

Progress is more important than perfection♥️ I'm working on building trust in myself by keeping the promises I make to myself while still having grace and patience with myself💕

[@j.l408]

I’ve started my goals in September am so excited to continue this 2020 to make it the best year and take my goals to a new “chapter”. Hope everyone finds this 2020 a happy year. 💕🙂

[@Thefitty]

*my goal next year is to get a job as a yoga teacher at a studio!*

[@nimrabatool8543]

May u succeed

[@Thefitty]

@@nimrabatool8543 thank you so much; what about you?

[@Thefitty]

@Cloe Byeol thanks! And you?

[@megneil3766]

omg that's my goal too! it's a daunting process but i'm sooo excited for it to become a reality. good luck love!

[@Thefitty]

@@megneil3766 are you certified ?:)

[@kahofuruta1845]

I’ve been a big fan of you for 4 years (since I was 18 that was the most depressed time) and I finally got a workbook in 2020✨✨ I am so excited how my life is going on!!! Love you so much from Japan🇯🇵 🌸💕 You are sunshine ☀️

[@lavendaire]

Wow thank you!! ✨🙏🏼

[@SaraMakesArt]

"The moment of now is the only moment you can control." That's so important to remember.

[@marianzambe2518]

That's so true!

[@ErikaK]

2020 is going to be your year!!! everything is working out in your favour and now is the perfect time to start making plans and setting intentions and goals !!! when you do what you love, when you have a purpose, there is no doubt that you will achieve what you want !!! you just need to believe in yourself, motivate yourself and don't give up !!!

[@F0reverblessed]

Erika K Absolutely 👏💕

[@ErikaK]

@@F0reverblessed have a beautiful day !!!!

[@F0reverblessed]

Erika K Same to you doll. Happy holiday!💕

[@TheMakeupxKat]

SO ready to make POSITIVE changes in my life, remain consistent and FINALLY see some progress in my life. Thank you, Aileen ❤️

[@F0reverblessed]

Kat Hernandez Wishing you all the best! Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

[@TheMakeupxKat]

D.E.Y.A thank you so much ❤️

[@annawaiq6360]

This strengthens a lot of the things i already paracticed this year and it worked way better then simply setting goals and then forgeting about them

[@juenisclla]

Your video is amazing, right now I want to try following your method, my plan for the next year is graduate from fashion school, finish my collection, and I hope my youtube channel will grow as well. I personally have so many goals but I want to focus on the most important and things that I love to do.

[@ziweixu4226]

I like the opinion that you start with the feelings of how it feels if you want to achieve your goal.

[@Julia-ie6pd]

I wanna create new habits and be more productive.. I’m a real procrastinator and it’s so annoying since I’m in my final year in high school. In my next 30 days I wanna get more fit and healthy, in 60 I wanna break my bad habits about studying and in 90 day I wanna be the best version of myself! I don’t need all 2020 year to accomplish that! I start today to make better tomorrow ✨💗 Ps thank you for your tips is so inspiring and motivating 💜

[@Br0ken_tv677]

Who is excited for 2020!! BTW love you Aileen,you always inspired me.

[@Br0ken_tv677]

@Shikha Chaurasia well, it's been a roller coaster lol.

[@brandcoachangel]

These are great tips. Especially the part about tracking your actions throughout the year to actually achieve the goal. I also encourage everyone to think about the goals they are setting. Do the goals bring you joy? I've set so many goals based on the stuff I should be doing as opposed to the things that actually felt good to me. I appreciate you discussing "understanding your why".

[@lavendaire]

Yes!! The why is so important otherwise you’re just chasing a goal blindly

[@loveistwicebelongonce4992]

It's good to have you in this 2020

[@allysiasamuels]

Wow I love your perspective about trusting yourself on your own promises! I’m so excited to start building that trust with myself.

[@anushashrestha5255]

I know it probably defeats the purpose but sometimes I just listen to you speak instead of focusing. It's calming. Thank you ❤

[@piroozrahimi7967]

You have beautiful ideas, beautiful way of speaking and doing a beautiful job. Thank you and good luck.

[@matilara4040]

Yes! That's a video that I was waiting for! I'm super excited about new year and I really hope 2020 is gonna be a good year. I'm also waiting for your artist of life workbook to plan out my goals in details ❤️ and also to all people who read this: don't overwhelm yourselves and take everything slowly step by step - you're gonna get where you want, just stay patient

[@filzaarif4339]

Goal setting is no doubt so crucial.we should be sure about ourselves and take control of our lives .Thanx for this new year motivation.love ya Aileen♥

[@anthonyszeto4481]

Timeless advice! I'm using this expertise for beginning of October 2022. 💪🙂👍

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[@Toronto2011NiA]

I agree with you.

[@dr.ukkhan92]

I don't have instagram.... but Really want that lovely diary

[@josealejandrovelasquez1667]

Cheers for this, been searching for "goal setting examples" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Conoah Goalify Gotchie - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my work buddy got amazing success with it.

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[@LeoJahn182]

What an amazing video. I watched once just surfing, than saved it to watch later and watched it at least two or more times with all the going back I had to do because of the density of amazing information. Gratitude and love!

[@phatchariyapansing1415]

What is my 90 days goals? I would love to build my own channel that envision both myself and the audience to keep up the mindset of self nourishing through the English learning community. Also, I am going to take an IELTS exam as I postpone the test for years by reading and practicing English every night. Lastly, I am going to eat more healthier and work out with my friends at least twice a week. Love you so much Aileen, your video always sparks my joy of improving myself. I really appreciate what you have created. My English skills is gradually better. Always support you, from Thailand.

[@christinechapman2074]

Excited for 2020! My 2019 Artist of Life workbook was super helpful for achieving my goals this year. I didn't quite reach every goal but I made a lot of progress.

[@alinabelousova]

Great tips, some of which I haven't read/heard anywhere before. Thank you!

[@itsmekarishma_____128]

Loved this!!❤🎉thank you lavendaire for creating this wonderful video for all of us, i gotta plan my calendar like you said, gonna achieve so much ,yayyy!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@PurposeFilledYou]

This is totally my jam since my entire channel is focused on goal setting and personal development! Thanks for the great content as always!

[@lequynhanh6394]

Hi Aileen, I'm from Vietnam and I watch your video every single day to learn English ❤️ I just want to say thank you so much for everythings . Hope you will have great 2020 ❤️

[@inretrospect7513]

The most needed video EVERRR 💫 THANK YOU LAVENDAIRE 🌟😍

[@Ivonnep24]

2020 will be when i work on me. I was broken up with after an almost 3 year relationship that shattered me. I am slowly mentally preparing myself for the new year.

[@simpkitty1769]

almost done with writing down my goals and feelings... i already feel so much more motivated and happy from those imaginations of my even more happier and satisfied version

[@conradorondera3054]

Hello Aileen..you are very sincere in every words you say..

[@trisnguyen3681]

I really enjoy whenever I watch your video. It's not just about your tips, I also improve my English by watching your video as well, your accent is really nice and makes me feel comfortable

[@nsikamarietaylor314]

To be more organized with my top 3 areas of 1. Spiritually 2. Career 3. Health & Fitness. By following your method💗

[@mariadaziellagange6752]

You are truly inspiring. i know u can help me change my life for the better

[@FabiolaSuarez]

So excited to start working on my Artist Of Life Workbook!

[@LindseyRaelle]

This was the most clear and beautiful 2020 planning video I’ve seen. It helped the missing pieces become clearer for my own planning. 😌💕💕

[@hnurtanic]

Finally I found the reason I love this channel;because I love her voice and speaking style that's also why it makes me take action

[@marplebay3904]

This video comes to my home when I really need that. Thank you so much for your help! In this fifth semester, I realize that I lost my track to achive my goals, and having no interest to doing anything. But I will try to keep my promise to work on my tasks everyday and give myself reward. Keep going, Aileen!

[@melon_ayo]

In my bullet journal I always write five goals for the year, the first step to each of those goals, and how I know I've achieved them.

[@anjalijha5014]

I want to make my next year amazing. For that I have to start journaling Today.🌺🌺

[@abdulrasheedcholayil932]

Hi aileen,i am rena and im studying in 10th grade...the goal for the next 90 days of mine is to achieve atleast 98% mark in the annual examination and i really wish i could...i hope your artist of life workbook could help me if its in my hands but in reality i don't have it...😔i live in india and its really hard for me to get it...hope i will get it one day and its going to be one of my dreams...❤love you aileen...😍😘

[@Clouds_are_fluffy]

I desperately NEEDED this..Thanks Aileen💕

[@mariahwyant]

Im so happy sadie aldis talked about you in her last video! I love hearing different ideas on how to set your goals and achieve them. Right now im currently in between jobs and trying to look for one. Im a welder so its hard to find a welding job. But my potential goals are to get healthy and be more active. I started yoga the other day and it helped me a lot. I also want to find a job where I don't have to worry about living paycheck to paycheck. Right now I only have like 5 or 6 bills I have to pay and I have to pay off medical bills and im trying to build my credit. I have a lot of goals I want to achieve. And I even talked to my bf that from now on we are not going to spend our money on stuff we don't really need. He likes to collect different things and I like to buy random stuff that in the long run I probably don't need or will use in the future. So I really want to get my finances in order and build my savings account.

[@bhmdfatima5054]

marked every tip i really need them for 2020

[@selfmademara3339]

Thank youuu! This really helped clear my vision for the new year!

[@imenebenyamina5388]

Thank you Aileen i just discovered your channel and i can't express how much i love the content, it helps me with the plans i have to build up a new me , GREAT LOVE from Algeria

[@ornelais5219]

Hi. I wanted to thank you for this video, and all your content, but this one hit me differently. It's the first time i actually took notes from a video, and now I'm actually taking the steps to achieve my goals. Since i had a quick encounter with death recently i really want to appreciate the time we have and use it to do something meaningful...

[@premabatin1001]

been a lavielove for 2yrs...A MEDICAL STUDENT FROM INDIA..I HOPE 2020 will be d YEAR for me!! 2019 hs been d worst..Got out of 7yrs relationship...poor health! n careerwise...LOOKING FORWARD TO ARTIST OF LIFE WORKBOOK 2020💪🏻

[@KatrinaAglipay]

I love goal setting. Helps me achieve my goals more efficiently. Btw your skin is glowing.

[@toetovocaloid]

💫 2020 💫 is almost here and I've realized that 2019 has changed me so much. I love this video because it'll help someone as chaotic as me with my goals. Lovely video Aileen! Thank you always 💖

[@samyukthayogendra2088]

Watching this for 2021 now! Thank you for this amazing video 😊

[@prettylittleinvestor]

Focusing on what is within my control has been a reason that I have not reached certain goals 💡💡 I’d love to lose 15lbs but I understand I should focus on eating healthy each day and getting exercise in several days a week. Weight loss would be/could be a by product but the goal to eat healthy and work out is more in my control 💡

[@serene1486]

IMMIDIATELY CLICKED FIRST BC IM SO HYPED FOR THIS CONTENT SKDJSJSK

[@lavendaire]

🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@agnesjames4026]

Wow thanks, can now set my goals for the year.

[@artbyangelique5892]

Everyone on this planet should watch this video! Thank you for sharing your wisdome with us, Aileen. ❤️

[@BratBustersParenting]

Good video. My takeaway is to do small steps to build trust within yourself to do what you’ve planned to do. I’m great at planning. It’s the follow thru I struggle with.

[@lavendaire]

Yess 👏🏻👏🏻 id say most ppl struggle with the follow through too. It’s a practice

[@sophiamyambala1405]

You channel makes me happy. Feels like coming back home

[@OkkyAyuPermata]

I just bought the workbook! It's amazing and I'm not regretting it

[@CasuallyMatthew]

Lavendaire, thank you for your content! I am absolutely in love with every piece of content you upload. I also need to point out a fun tip, it's important not to talk about your goal with others constantly, because it kind of sets off this chemical in your brain and tricks you into thinking you've worked on your goal already!!!!

[@VishalaReddy]

This came at the right time. Much needed one❤️

[@F0reverblessed]

Vishala Reddy Wishing you all the best! Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

[@bvc-io4qh]

Dear aileen, I really appreciate you for being yourself and sharing you positive thoughts to everyone in this World. KZbin is a huge platform where there is many people also has their own channel with this positive contents. But for me you are so special. I feel so excited to watch your videos. Hope one day we'll meet in person. 🥰 ~ lots of love Mariyam Ashraf❤

[@leonarda2325]

I'm here from the begging love you lavi! I'm obsessed with your videos!!❤❤❤❤

[@lavendaire]

Thank you!!

[@itsmehappy9495]

Thanks Aileen, everytime I watch your video I get myself motivated..

[@jessicaladd85]

I loved your thoughts about setting realistic goals. Something I've set for myself is to send one newsletter a week. Instead of setting up to reach 1000 email subscribers.

[@lavendaire]

exactly! bring the power back to yourself

[@so-nali]

This ! Is gonna be my year !! 2020 you're welcome

[@minhphuongle7265]

It s very clear and helpful, thank you for your sharing

[@Linda-co7hs]

How cool would it be, if the ARTIST OF LIFE WORKBOOK would be available in different languages or the cover is customizable 😻

[@ddbd123]

Probably one of my favorite videos of yours! Thank you for sharing your tips, strategies, and words of advice💘 goal setting is always so easy - but it’s the follow through and daily action that really makes a difference.

[@GathaKv]

You are awosome. You motiveted me so much. You are inprational.

[@MrPeterpan31]

Your break down of the steps are elaborative and concise. Great message

[@chieve5516]

Love love loveee the new thumbnail style!

[@jacquelinemurray7124]

I've never set goals, dont know were to start. I just feel stuck,blank when I try to think of what I want my goal to be even small ones. Just seem to go day to day just getting through them. This video has made me think more about it.

[@muslimahtraveller4735]

I love all your videos 💓 Love from Indonesia 🇮🇩

[@irhonda31]

This is very thoughtful, not superficial. I came from the recommendation in Veg News magazine for your channel, and subscribed. TFS!

[@sarahf2022]

I think my main goal for 2020 has to be finding a new job. Ideally I want a permanent job in Admin with room to grow within the company, but tbh having been out paid work for over a year now i'd even take a temporary position, even if it's not ideal. I suffer from low self esteem and anxiety & being unemployed has made these issues so much worse, it's so hard to stay motivated and positive. But this is another goal I want to aim towards in 2020, challenging all my negative thinking habits so I can develop and replace them with more positive ones.

[@sadiemaxfield7566]

Thats a fantastic goal! Good luck! I wish you more happiness this year than last

[@rsophieramlal8625]

She is the best!

[@claraportillo4626]

You make the most inspirational videos ever, your amazing and your my role model, stay the same Aileen 💖

[@readysteadyrock2844]

Watching this today while planning for next year

[@khadijamuazu2858]

same but first peace out 2020

[@priscillajimenez27]

I have to start building trust within myself again and follow through

[@hyacinthgrows]

My goal Since I have GCSEs this year I am determined to get at least a 7(A) in every subject including maths. Goal to do today: Get out of bed and revise for my mock exams!

[@jhassee]

Your graphics are always so pretty

[@DecxmberDxrnell.]

I've been setting my goal of learning to drive for about 4/5 years now, but there's always something that gets in the way. This year, it's a new job that's a bit further to travel to. I keep telling myself I need to start an emergency savings fund before driving, then I think about focusing on my health and personal appearance... Thoughts? 💭

[@Melike-vb3ky]

I really love your t- shirt and thank you for being sunshine to our lives :)

[@internetprincess8998]

This is a very helpful video, aileen! thank you so much. I really wish that I could plan my 2020 better than 2019. I have tried to plan my 2019 but it didn't come out great because I keep breaking promises with myself. Please wish me luck for 2020, guys 💓 I also hope fellow Lavi Loves will have a great 2020 too 🤗💖

[@Manillya]

You have so much energy in this video, I feel empowered just by watching :)

[@akshitasrivastava9385]

Loved this one! Hoping to see more of planning videos Love from India