Radical Acceptance (it will change your life + set you free)

Exploring the topic of radical acceptance and how we can use this to release suffering from our lives. There's a fine line between having goals vs getting attached to expectations. You can still set goals but release your expectations for the outcome. Also note that radical acceptance doesn't mean you have to stay in bad circumstances or with bad people; it just means that you accept them as they are, without expecting them to change. From there, you can choose how you want to act: to set your own boundaries, leave the situation, etc.
Ultimately radical acceptance is learning to release expectations for everything outside of your control and learning to accept reality as it is. With practice, radical acceptance can change your life & set you free.
What do you think about this concept? How can you practice this more in your daily life?
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[@lavendaire]

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[@seemranhoro1572]

A secret to happiness is letting every situation be what it is, instead of what you think it should be.

[@DodongoManoof]

That nice 8]

[@intentionalliving7326]

Not the easiest practice but oh so powerful ☀️✨

[@IshaSharma11]

True

[@Sadude13]

THIS IS SOOOOO HARD THOUGH. I AM A COMPLETE CONTROL FREAK AND THIS IS THE HARDEST THING FOR ME!!

[@Selsmittenxo]

Yes, acknowledge it and keep going. If you put in the effort and have the right expectations you will be fine.

[@AhmetKaan]

*“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”* *―C. S. Lewis*

[@sophiamac687]

love it❤️

[@AhmetKaan]

@@sophiamac687 🙏🙏

[@boddapaduswathi2664]

But what to do when you don't know what to start and from where to start

[@sabrinasalimi3371]

@@boddapaduswathi2664 Baby steps. Start with self-acceptance and work your way from there, observe what you need to change in your life, like bad habits for example. Also, self-love is vital too.

[@thesereneworld]

“I expected the world to be better” This is so me!! I have to remind myself every so often that not everyone has the same heart that I do. And that there’re things that I just can’t change. I can only do my part and be the change I’d like to see in the world.

[@lavendaire]

Yuppp

[@sheilamogadime8681]

So true

[@labornurse]

It took me till age 40 to realize this. It's easy to be naive, especially if u were lucky enough raised in a healthy, moral environment. You expect everyone to operate under the general rules you were accustomed to. Big wakeup. There are some evil or misguided actors out there.

[@makizenin1840]

This is something that I get so frustrated thnking about especially since covid i get to know about so many racism/hate/discrimination stuffs on social media and as a person of color It's really decreasing my self-worth and killing my happiness. Im an INFJ and I cant stand injustice in this world and Im bein so sad all the time

[@black.moon_tea]

Yah exactly

[@irene2081]

I accept myself I accept others I accept reality I am free!!!

[@sepparo3977]

Simple but lovely summary

[@clau_sing_]

I always tell myself I want to go through life like a child, being amazed by everything and not expecting anything.. it's so hard to implement though

[@lavendaire]

Love that

[@isabellegheselle1323]

Omg I feel like that too... it’s really a challenge to experience things without judging them. But it’s always beautiful when we succeed! :) nature and animals always help me feel happy and carefree 💕

[@douaadouaa4258]

YES FACTS ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@CarlCampbell]

And have others feed, clothe and bathe you :P

[@estherestelle7920]

I am an idealist too and get disappointed when people don't do better but I also don't want to be judging people and imposing my expectations on others, I respect free will so much. It's such a struggle and sometimes acceptance feels like giving up.

[@whatisarthurdoing9490]

I feel that deeply! I try to give myself a reality check every now and then because I want to think truthly, no matter the outcome, more, than hold on to my idealism 🌿

[@MarielaMerino]

I feel like you are my therapist sometimes 😩😂 you give the best advice 🌸

[@lavendaire]

Hehe love u 💓

[@neonyoutobe5405]

@@lavendaire Love u 3000 Lol 😁😂

[@Nan7ae]

I get disappointed and the whole day goes me worrying about it... expecting too much is something i should let go of... i should accept what is and be grateful for what is there with me and eventually more greater things will happen! 💛

[@latapatil2659]

Hey army

[@Nan7ae]

@@latapatil2659 Hey Army!💜

[@hollynamjoon1083]

Hi ARMY It happens to me to too. I start not to expect too much. I also start to enjoy things just the way they are.

[@Nan7ae]

@@hollynamjoon1083 Hi Army! Enjoying and accepting things just the way they are makes us more grateful and stress free! Keep going Army!💜

[@lobenellecomendador4357]

Law of attraction

[@studywithadhi]

The sunshine falling on her hand is looking soo divine 🥰🥰🥰

[@intentionalliving7326]

😍🤩

[@00Mercredi00]

This is exactly what I needed. Now that I am pregnant I’m trying to learn to love myself and accept that I cannot control everything.

[@intentionalliving7326]

Oh that is such a beautiful gift for your baby 🌸🤗☀️✨

[@sheilamogadime8681]

I can relate, I had my baby two months ago and a lot happened. But I am learning to let go of the suffering I experienced and love myself and my baby girl

[@00Mercredi00]

@@sheilamogadime8681 sending love and prayers for you ❤️❤️❤️

[@sheilamogadime8681]

@@00Mercredi00Thank you dear

[@sameehashaik9805]

Congratulations! Of course you cannot control everything but you can control how you raise your child You would be a great mum Sending love ❤

[@fromaudreykao]

oof i struggle a lot with having expectations of other people. i think it's because i tend to be more on the giving side and just expect everyone else to be the same way. something i heard recently was "stop expecting you from other people" and it really changed my perspective. thank you for sharing Aileen! this is such an important message 💖

[@AllDolledUpByCharisse]

I totally relate to this!!! I still have to learn because my emotions still get ahead of me

[@random_thing-]

And here I thought I was the only one like this, it is so nice to know that there are other people like me too. And that quote is great thanks fo sharing

[@ausrinemerkelyte]

This resonates with me so much, too!

[@melissagreen_]

Wow, I love that saying 'stop expecting you from other people', definitely going to keep that one! Thanks for posting.

[@majawillumsen519]

I have just stopped “giving” with the intention of getting something back. Instead I give, because it makes me feel good. And that is freeing ☺️ people will give back if they feel like it, and if they dont, thats fine too

[@aerethetic]

this made me realise that i should rather give my best in my studies rather than expecting myself to be perfect at it. tysm :)

[@intentionalliving7326]

🤩 go sistah ☀️

[@MagsNLily]

I found that when I did this I actually enjoyed the process and challenges of learning and it reflected into my highest grades, rather than getting frustrated and hated studying

[@sudhamohan6936]

Hi I am here's from India🇮🇳🇮🇳.... Pls all pray for us.. To get soon recover 🙏🙏🙏.

[@intentionalliving7326]

☀️✨✨✨

[@user-un4pb9mc3f]

May Allah bless all of you ..and our brothers and sisters in Palestine 🤲

[@KindnessHappinessClub]

So true all the prayers me too frm India

[@fembot521]

Radical acceptance is about accepting the life circumstances you find yourself in. You can’t change the current situation so you have to accept it. My husband just died and so dealing with this trauma has been so difficult especially with two kids. I kept thinking why me? Why him? What if? Once I accepted that I can’t bring him back and no matter what happened I cannot bring him back. Even if I had started CPR sooner or had clued into the fact that he was dying it won’t bring him back. He was perfectly healthy and then dead and nothing can change that. No amount of worry can change it. That is radical acceptance of the situation as it is. This will save your life and it is certainly saving mine.

[@ChloeCara]

Aileen has such a healing energy. I always find myself coming back to her videos bc her words are like medicine anytime I go through emotional turbulence 🥺

[@intentionalliving7326]

Amen sistah 🤗☀️

[@lavendaire]

🥺💓

[@ketakipatil2104]

✨"Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is!" ✨ Just love and accept yourself as you are...😊 And great video Aileen❤️...

[@SamElle]

I definitely was brought up to perform. My parents had expectations for me and I realized that my entire life I didnt know what I wanted for myself because my parents were always the ones making decisions for me. I had no sense of self and it has taken a LOT of self discovery and therapy to figure out what was best for me and truly discover who I was

[@fobsoss5798]

Ugghhh.. Parents(My dad only) is toxic

[@Selsmittenxo]

Ahah, I think we're watching the same creators/topics. Anyways, same

[@billybobandboshow]

I’m the exact same freaken way :( at least I’m in therapy, u are not alone, we are in this together ❤️

[@ud7089]

@@billybobandboshow yeah I was raised to show tangible things despite being a woman I was brought gender neutral Like they told me Think n act like a man

[@juliusl5211]

Same thing happened to me. I have no sense of who I am and self worth, because of how my parents treat me. I had to start from scratch in college.

[@nalarose0506]

Acceptance is what helped me sooth my depression I don't add up unnecessary burn outs of don't doing things on top and that's good

[@F0reverblessed]

Accept things for what they are. Expectations is a way of being in control (wanting things to come out your way). We don’t have control of anything that happens outside of us. Relieve yourself from the pressure of expectations! From a self love content creator to another; this video is beautiful and so relatable! ❤️

[@jenniferthornburg7771]

You are wise beyond your years. ❤

[@sasgirl26]

That was beautifully said. Thank you && thank you Aileen!!!!

[@luciennesabuga-a7461]

I really need this right now. Acceptance. Forgiveness. Gratitude. "Increase appreciation, decrease expectation."

[@thepowerofshe5124]

I had to learn to accept people for who they are.. It brings me a sense of peace because I know what they do and how they are so I can’t be mad at them.

[@intentionalliving7326]

It is so powerful, not easy!! But oh so powerful ☀️

[@rajvipriya6572]

I completely agree that suffering and getting hurt is partly due to individuals in our families did something that we didn’t expect or didn’t want. But let’s not disregard these people did things that they are never suppose to e.g abuse of any form. As kids, we wouldn’t have a clue what to expect or want, apart from basic needs. As adults, we may be able to articulate the reasons and purposes for any of the events that had caused us pain but remember these things took place when we were kids and the trauma have already affected us. I believe that while radical acceptance helps tremendously in our wellbeing and mental health, we must also be mindful not to accept the responsibility and actions of those people who have hurt us. I often find people who have experienced abuse of any form to simply “be okay” and “it’s in the past” however their lives are in shambles because the past trauma.

[@srividhya4371]

Just when I was putting myself down and having a bad day, this video pops up on my feed!! Thank you soooo much for this :))

[@intentionalliving7326]

🤗☀️

[@lazifatunnoor4274]

I am going through a period of getting my life together bcz I have been holding extremely high expectations and didn't meet them and other events in life caused me to break down completely. Therefore all the recent videos have come very very handy to me. Thank you so much Aileen!!! You were always a big part of my success!!!!! LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCCHHH!!!!!!!!!!

[@strawberrydaurto3366]

I am going through this exactly! For school I held my expectations high and I did good for the first semester then I hit a small pebble on the road that was unexpected and that just became a tunnel of failure for me and it started to be rocks then big rocks that I would hit and I couldn’t get myself back up anymore. School is almost over so I’m just happy about that but this is had me but really hard on myself. It’s like I was at my best then I’m at my worst. Well lol, I like to believe there was a reason this video popped up on my KZbin so I will just start binge watching all these videos that she does!!!! She is so therapeutic, luv her already ❤️❤️ I hope wellness overall mentally and physically for you! Have a great day !!!

[@urbbylin]

@@strawberrydaurto3366 same (

[@thelittleetherealghost]

This helped SOOOO much… my anxiety gets so high about things that are out of my control and that go against my expectations. Listening to each acceptance concept was very releasing of that anxiety and helped me to feel a sense of peace. I will be revisiting this video many times, I am sure! Thank you so much for all you do!

[@karsnotes3555]

After graduating college I had so much expectations to people I'm close to and to myself to the point that I always disappointed, burnout of trying to be perfect that I wanted to be, tired of caring so much to others and in deep sadness for feeling left behind and can't accept for who I am. But I learned that I have to accept the people I'm close to for who they are and accept that I can't change them. And learned to myself that there is always a room for change and I don't have to be too hard in myself, that I need to help and find myself, accept my situation in my life and be okay of the low points in the process of achieving a goal or something. I'm glad I experienced it because that lead me to discover and learn self-development, to have focus on myself rather than to others and to feel happy and peaceful within myself.

[@timetravelingsoul4046]

Dude this is seriously helpful. I’m done setting expectations! I noticed myself doing it earlier with my boyfriend I expected him to react a certain way and he didn’t so I got upset lol. I had to ask myself why I expected him to be excited. And then I just accepted that he can feel however he wants. I like that I can control myself and just accept it. Accept, forgive, gratitude. Feel the pain then accept it & let go. ❤️ thank you this was very helpful to see it in this perspective.

[@hectsblood6200]

💕✨A little journaling to do after the video: 1. What are your expectations about yourself? Are they realistic? Where do they come from? 2. What are the expectations you have about others? Make examples. Were you hurt in the past because of your expectations? 3. What are your expectations about the world? Can you really change it or is it easier to accept?

[@zoyasaqib8994]

wow the timing is perfect. im not even kidding, i was just crying and felt rly down and then i come here on youtube and see a video from u. i havent even started watching the vid yet but u always help me sm so thank you ily

[@sourgreendolly7685]

Hope your day turns around 💕

[@zoyasaqib8994]

@@sourgreendolly7685 thank you. hope ur doing well too

[@intentionalliving7326]

🤗☀️✨

[@bhavana.n.sbhavana.n.s4988]

Such a coincidence. I was going through situations regarding expecting people to be certain way. I felt universe is sending me answer through Aileen. All three categories of radical acceptance are helpful for my life. Thanks Aileen.

[@anjaliegowda4322]

this feels so freeing. thank you for sharing something so important and meaningful to me personally.

[@BamBabyBrenda]

I was expected to be this funny person, the comedian of my friends group. Always had to be happy, and willing to go out and do whatever it is everyone else was doing. Meanwhile I was extremely depressed the whole time. I was expected to succeed In school and be a genius.it really broke me, I had a huge meltdown, after that I just let it all go. I stopped being what they wanted, I allowed myself to be openly sad. Told them all, I wasn't what they wanted. I lost those friends, but gained friends years later that accept and love me. I believed everyday I would have the friends i have now. It was through your videos that I broke free from that shell that was ruining my life! You're amazing and I love you. I'm so much happier and I watch your videos every time you upload!

[@bluelotusmeditation]

Our mindset of what to expect often exceeds what will truly come to be. Too often we are the cause of our own suffering but the wonderful lesson here is that we are also the solution to ending our own suffering as well

[@lustypreach1988]

On whtsapp for guide

[@lustypreach1988]

+1(7(5(7(3(0(2(1(7(8(9

[@deepika2865]

Thank Aileen for this video. Radical acceptance is something people didn't know they needed 🙏 ❤

[@zecare]

Loved this, I recently truly started radical acceptance, stoicism it is indeed a fundamental aspect of inner peace.

[@rolakem]

I can’t thank you enough for your channel. Thank you so much for your kind words. ❤

[@michaelbui6618]

Aileen, everything you say makes so much sense and gives me and many hope. Just watching one of your videos instantly makes me feel better.

[@ashleymorgan5583]

Also, you’re so sweet hearted. I’m so happy you’re a part of the world I live in 🙏🏻

[@camillesucasas]

I cried what you told about your dad

[@dieuquynh2271]

Your video impressed me a lot. A process to feel happy with others: radical acceptance, forgiveness, and gratitude ✨

[@Asperia07]

I just love the lessons in this video AND the aesthetic! I honestly feel like Lavendaire's videos make life brighter not just because of the message and the lessons that I learn but also because of how beautiful her videos are.

[@ashleymorgan5583]

Just listening to this video gave me such a sense of peace that I have been needing. Thank you ❤️ acceptance is something I struggle with because I care SO much. I always feel like acceptance means that I don’t care but that’s not the case. Thank you for the reminder 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@VintageRoseTree]

wow I paused this video so many times to have a moment to rethink about the emotions and expectations I have on myself and other people - so interesting on how you can feel so differently after shifting your perspective!

[@aditisingh4147]

I have so much respect for who you were and what you’ve become ! You’re such a nice lady ! ❤️

[@victoriapeng6172]

thank you so much for sharing about this topic! I realize that I've always set a really high bar for myself and sometimes I just have to accept myself for who I am and not let the negative emotions like frustration and anger linger in my head

[@sumalathabalamurugan8068]

I cannot thank you enough for this video. Every day takes a rollercoaster ride in my life and it's getting harder. Im feeling sad resentment on my mother lover world god like why they're doing this to me. And this shows I've expected a lot and I'll try to accept the way it is .. thank you so much Aileen❤️

[@sreenidhiaravindan2081]

Aileen,I can't thank you enough for this video,radical acceptance really does set you "free"...I didn't realise how much I expect from my friendships,my family and myself!When i did that exercise you mentioned in the beginning, something shifted in me...I felt so peaceful! Can't explain it clearly...but thank uuu!

[@malindyajayasekara6204]

Dear Aileen, thank you so much for this volunteer community service & I am sure there are many people that are mentored by you! I have noticed that your weekly new video is a coincidence of my life... Everyday you brought a better solution for my problems. Thank you so much ❤️

[@gabrysiakrzciuk]

You're such an inspiration, I'm really grateful that I started watching your videos. You're changing people's lives, thank u ❤️😭

[@courtney_honeylacecraft]

This popped up in divine timing. Thank you for sharing, the reminder was so refreshing 🙏

[@allanisrellik]

As a person who likes everything to be scheduled and within my control, this is a really refreshing video. I'm on the journey of improving myself this 2022 and your videos have been really helpful. I'm trying not to cram or get too stressed anymore ☺️

[@thenu_li5352]

I reallyyyyy needed this 😭😭😭 thank you Aileen as always ❤

[@me-zs7tr]

I remember learning about this concept in the Happiness Podcast and have been trying to get better at radical acceptance ever since.

[@earth3190]

Please do not stop doing this channel ❤ Every videos in this channel means a lot to me :) whenever I feel stress or down, it helps me pass through everything😊

[@ojaswitaramteke3775]

True... And acceptance is the first step towards finding a solution and healing

[@honk8683]

this is something that i took a lot of time to learn, we just need to accept where we are now & the moment ❤

[@improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219]

Totally relate to a lot of these comments here. My parents always had high expectations from me and wanted me to live the life that they wanted. It took some serious self reflection and a long journey to figure out I wasn't really living the life I wanted. Glad to say I'm getting better at discovering more about myself instead of trying to constantly please others especially my parents. Very beautiful video. :)

[@yaoyaoxiao6637]

This is such a necessary video, I wish that more people knew this. Just having you as a content creator to start spreading the message is a step in the right direction. Here's to breaking our self-limiting beliefs and working towards radical acceptance to the amazing, flawed, unique human beings we all are!

[@myo4402]

I literally can say that I'm in love with this video.Everything is just perfect.

[@mayssa3526]

I love you so much ,everytime i'm having a bad day i watch one of your videos , it comforts me and makes me feel good and positive thank you for being that sweet person who makes my day better❤❤

[@kimberlybaldwin507]

I just want to say that I have watched this video over 20 times, I come back to it whenever I find myself needing to remind myself to ground in the present moment & accept everything as is, thank you for uploading! It truly has changed my life and the way I think & the way I view things! Much love from Illinois 🦋

[@hellopmv9217]

I'm so happy that I discovered you when my vacation started. I made my time productive and motivated. You helped me a lot to make myself better. And now, I'm bothered and having a trouble mentally, thank you again for this.

[@jennyfromthebottle]

I had a deep talk with my friend last night about exactly those things we were frustrated about and we just didn't know how to find a solution - your video are all the answers to those things, your video is the solution. Thank you so much for this Aileen, just wanted to let you know, that this video has a huge impact on us. Sending you love & gratitude

[@AlThurayya7]

Thank you this is exactly what I needed to hear! ❤

[@daniels1061]

Thanks so much for sharing this! 🙂 lately I've been so depressed with myself and expected high expectations. The reality is not everyone is going to be nice, with each other after all.

[@coachshine5285]

Oh my God after watching this video I realised I left expecting from any body including my own self since many days and that’s true it set you free I hardly feel the pressure now thank you 🙏

[@ansilgeorge1704]

You have clearly verbalized what many of us go through in life. The very fact that we are disappointed with someone is usually because we have put them on a high pedestal which...they don't actually deserve.

[@mariesdiary4766]

Thank you is not enough how grateful I am to discovered your channel, you really the one who guided me through life, to be the best version of myself lots of love.

[@boomboom1258]

It makes sense with what I've been practising lately. Acceptance of what can't be controlled and then do what you can to give yourself peace we all yearn for. I saw the connection between acceptance and peace, and it probably would dissolve a lot of my guilt and resentments that weighs so much on my heart. Always loved your content, been watching you grow as well as I grow in my young adulthood. ♥️☺️

[@me-zs7tr]

I love learning from your experiences, Aileen. The way you're so honest and transparent with sharing the things you personally went through over all these years is appreciable. Honestly, you are one of the few KZbinrs who make my life better each time they upload.

[@blessinghome503]

This is what I have been struggling with! You said it so well and healed my pain. Thank you so much for your time and effort making this video!

[@shivikasharma4615]

Aileen I love u soo much! Your an inspiration. Positivity has become a life goal since I found Lavendaire. Thankyou for addressing vulnerability of human life so much on this channel. Thankyou sooo much Aileen . Sending lots of love, affection and blessings your way!

[@codreanudana9056]

Thank you for sharing this concept. I agree with the fact that expectations are the root of our disappointment. And indeed, it's hard work to let go of expectations, but it's necessary if we want to live in peace.

[@maezeu3358]

I'm just halfway through the video and can relate it word by word. It's almost a year since I've been following you and I'm so glad I found you. The person that I am today is much stronger and the credit goes to you🥺🥺🥺 Had this video come up 2 years ago, it would not have let me go through such tough times but as you know..the Universe has it's own timing and lessons to teach you. You're doing a wonderful job Aileen, mending lives of many like mine. Here to support you always❤️❤️

[@rosanafeliciodossantos9906]

Thank you so much for this video. I've heard of this concept of radical acceptance for the first time recently and am trying to understand it, and you presented the essentials in a such a simple, direct, and clear way that helped me to understand more. Thanks!

[@marif2993]

“why can’t the world just be imperfect?” i cried at this

[@anelebhengu7371]

Your videos have changed my life for the better. Thank you Aileen.

[@kittyicha]

Thank you for sharing this Aileen. Especially accepting your family for who they are but not allowing them to change you. I am gradually learning to embrace uncertainty, vulnerability, and self acceptance. Thanks for sharing your honesty and wisdom! 💕

[@snowflakes5961]

Thank you so much for this video. It's just been days but I really felt calmer and more accepting after watching and reflecting on this video. I hope I can it consistently, but like you said "accept everything you are." 💖

[@SamiraIsmayilovaaa]

thank you! you helped a lot. Sending so much love

[@thethnin8820]

I just want to say i love you girl, i got the good vibes from you everytime i listen to you

[@arfaouihanine6237]

I feel grateful to you. Your advices work always. Thanks a lot.

[@rifatmfarid]

Thank you for videos. I've been watching for 3 years or more and it helped recover from stress. ☆

[@anujipapu86]

you don't know how much you have helped in this video. thank you 100 times over.

[@haniemoaz7651]

One of your best videos... I couldn't help myself crying... 💕

[@habibaaa9715]

I watched when i was very down and it helped me sm thank you!!! :) It really did remind me of things I KNEW but forgot to APPLY.

[@ttaliabarak]

I’m literally crying thank you. ❤️

[@UVGOETZ]

Thank you for sharing acceptance with many. Please continue to do so.

[@seline_artist]

This was such an interesting topic to hear today! Especially the last part about accepting the world for what it is. I'm glad that I'm already doing that and shouldn't feel bad about it! Thank you so much for your words Aileen! X

[@martycosplay]

Yes, I need this! Thank you!!

[@sandymaya9197]

This is so useful. Especially coming from you, sounds so peaceful. I've been trying to figure out how to let go of certain things recently and this definitely helped. Thank you ❤️

[@Hazelangel70]

You are my life savior, I was going through a lot , you always make me feel better , I studying things I had already learnt in school classes , and then I remembered all the bad things happened to me , I was so frustrated , but after watching this video ,I'm feeling calmness again .

[@thefirstofnovember8521]

Thank you for this video! Today the Universe is talking to me through you lips… I really needed to hear something like that right now ❤❤❤

[@maunicpe]

You saved me. I felt like a failure , useless and no direction after failing my board exam last week. And i’ve found your videos and i’ve been listening to you. Im so depressed but listening to you made me feel better and that what im feeling is normal. Im slowly healing myself and embracng and accepting that failure is ok. You are right, acceptance is really important.

[@fivyart4532]

I really like this concept, I always try to implement it in different areas of my life. This video puts it so clearly, thanks for all this amazing content!

[@Shakthawatpoorvi]

Thank you Aileen for helping me figure out things in my hard times. Keep doing what you doing. Power to you ⚡️🌸🌻

[@rajshreepardeshi_]

Oh my god , Thank you so much for this lovely video babe !! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THISS !! I needed this today !! I LOVE YOU SO MICH MY ANGEL !! Sending you LOADS OF LOVE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY AND HUGS !! ❤️❤️❤️🦋

[@rhea6666]

No way!! I been going through in a situation which made me frustrated and overwhelmed. This is what I needed.. really I love you Aileen 💛 Sending you loads of love ❤❤❤

[@jonathanortiz3253]

This is one of your most powerful videos! Thank you.