Let Women Choose You

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[@imagoodlistener2730]

A great movie once had a line, "Never chase busses or women, you'll always get left behind."

[@unknowncommenter6698]

Kek, I actually remember couple times when it worked with busses. Especially in old times, no particular clue why, guess drivers were nicer?

[@DrLicuid]

@@unknowncommenter6698When they leave the station they focus on left rear window to enter the lane smoothly, they can no longer pay attention to the right one that shows the bus stop. Perhaps way back the traffic was easier or something so they could look back and see if there is someone to pick up at the last moment. Funnily, same can be said about busses.

[@unknowncommenter6698]

@@DrLicuid yeah, I suppose. Or people in the bus weren't occupied with phones and actually had no problem yelling at the driver to stop the bus.

[@DemetriT1]

Gucci Mane said "girls are like busses, wait 15, next one coming"

[@christophergriffith3420]

"The difference that makes the difference, is indifference." - Paul Elam

[@reesejohnson2788]

That’s a good one

[@lurchusa1299]

If my experiences on Bumble are anything to go by... women will NOT choose me!

[@elmateo77]

Are you short? Out of shape? Do you act like a sweaty virgin?

[@cosmictreason2242]

They don't choose you online. The nature of the system is completely against a positive relationship. It's an unnatural place to meet w. Good w aren't on there in the first place. The ones who are slightly good are damaged in their ability to act naturally online, so you can't benefit from their being there in the first place. Get off the computer

[@cosmictreason2242]

Also kzbin.info/www/bejne/rmTPqqOMo69jfq8si=cxhNuIqqQTMWormH

[@kevinleonard8770]

😂😂😂

[@Brandanmayhew]

Delete it stop being a simp by liking their profiles. It's people like you that keep these apps running

[@michaelvanhorn3271]

I had been monk over a decade, ran into an old friend that said she loved me, and she was nice to me... Sadly after 7 years... her career won... seen her recently and she has gained 250 pounds and looks miserable. Choices have consequences ladies.

[@luket3452]

They always “love you” after they gain 100 lbs and lose their other options

[@andrewpizzino2514]

I see strong independent woman didn’t work out so well for her

[@michah7214]

Lol, are you serious?? Loads of healthy single older women. Get over yourselves

[@luket3452]

@@michah7214 shut up simp

[@michaelvanhorn3271]

@@michah7214 they are all yours... enjoy

[@myvideosetc.8271]

The possibility of none choosing you is high, but right now is not the worse prospect.

[@humansvd3269]

​@MelvilleNorberg we ate biologically driven to want women in order to keep our species alive.

[@redridingcape]

​@@MelvilleNorberg Men can't help hoping they get the unicorn who is a good wife and a good mother who won't destroy the marriage.

[@Nlott2]

Women are not worth the hassle, bottom line. The sex is good but that gets old especially with the same girl. I truly believe men and women are incompatible.

[@williambarnes5023]

Let women choose you. And then tell them no.

[@kevinwilson3337]

In reality it’s always been this way. Women do the choosing

[@jack3493]

The thing is, what do men gain nowadays? How many women are really going to be ok with just being an f buddy and not want “commitment” which brings men no benefit? I’m all set

[@boejiden855]

There is no benefit. A big leech sucking you dry and not even from the good part of your body because we all know what they settle in they cut off all the sex. Exclusive access to her used to be the benefit but again, they always consider themselves single if chad is around..

[@FoB39]

they're complelty okay with being a f buddy. Thats what they are with chad and tyrone they dont have a problem with that ish. I know many single moms that i work with literally gossip about how they dont want relationships and enjoyhing having fwbs for like six months then switching him out when they get bored.

[@kevinwilliams2184]

Yup that's why u just have your fun enjoy your turn and keep it movin were playing death match this is not capture the flag no more

[@redtiger7268]

Cappy had a Freudian Slip "when you're 6'4 women will do the leg lifting....." Exactly when you're 6'4 they will put their feet behind their head without you even having to ask.

[@comancheclub3449]

I dont think that was a Freudian slip. It's a well known fact that cappy acknowledges frequently that being tall is at least 75% of the attraction equation. If your decidedly average across the board BUT you're 6'4 you will have an infinitely easier time with girls.

[@oceanhedonist265]

Hahahahaha 😂

[@redtiger7268]

@@comancheclub3449 Dude you are sperging out. I was pointing out that he made an unintentional joke. Don't take everything literally and have to go autist on everything.

[@aadnyc01]

They’re hard to resist. 😂

[@cruiser6260]

​@@comancheclub3449no they might be more interested than if you were short, but you still need personality. If you have that, it doesn't matter if you're short anyway

[@doctordetroit4339]

Old timer here. Cappy is spot on. You don't chase. If you are good, decent, upwardly mobile (for YOUR own reasons, not to chase poon).....the women will follow. Not at first, but eventually. And by the ton. Chasing them repels most, for a host of reasons. Stand tall, firm and go about your business. Father Time is on your side and takes no prisoners. That being said....you won't want women (at least not most) around you, once you have dealt with them much. The older you get the more this truth applies. Your patience and tolerance dries up. You become an adult. You then have to choose to play like a child if so desired.

[@Hehedidntknow]

Definitely works in the early phase, not so useful if your relationship deteriorates later on.

[@oceanhedonist265]

Right, you don't have to chase, but you do have to "guide" a lot of women because they're ruled by emotions instead of reason and logic.

[@cruiser6260]

​@@oceanhedonist265you need to be in the relationship at some level to be trying to guide them. Chasing is trying to meet and talk to them to begin with

[@setha360]

Patience and Tolerance, told my wife this this goes south I would just sit on a beach in Philippines/Thailand again, was there before.

[@upstar21t]

Facts.

[@tiktokbtcsavagex]

There is something incredibly sexy to women when they can see why women want you & you don't care to approach them first. Approaching a woman first inherently proves that you need her to validate/qualify you when it should be the other way around. Good shape, good posture, athletic build & confident is instant waterfalls

[@totoken369]

sorry, coming from experience, It doesn’t work that way anymore. I’m fit enough and compete on stage.

[@SchemingGoldberg]

@@totoken369 Yeah, I think a lot of the dating advice used to be very solid and correct, but women have become so insanely brainwashed by social media that basically nothing works anymore. Modern women are just fundamentally broken.

[@user-wb5rj5jf5d]

@@totoken369 Short? Im 6'6 and have moobs and a gut... 9/10 girls THROW themselves at me almost daily. IDK what it is, height is just like some magical spell to them.

[@prussiansocietyofamerica]

The only problem with your statement, is that when a Man is desired by Women on the basis of him only being wanted or desired by Women, it's a provisional and conditional attraction, not an authentic one. Eventually it will wear off, and those are the worst types to attract. When the attraction is real and innate in a Woman towards a Man, she doesn't care about how wanted the Man is by other Women.

[@bli4n5427]

Chad only yes

[@monty5961]

Letting them give you signals before you approach is the best strategy ever. The amount of women that give you signals will directly correlate with your “value” in women’s eyes. Your completion percentage will be in the 90 percent range

[@logicwins3492]

🎯

[@prussiansocietyofamerica]

A Man still shouldn't approach though. The girls who give signs, will still be cheap with you in general. The real winners are the ones who totally go out of their way to make you "theirs". Believe me, it's a huge difference.

[@reesejohnson2788]

If you ever get any signals….

[@Brandanmayhew]

I get signals lots and I mean lots of stores etc. I have women obviously look at me, they will touch their hair at some point, they will linger near me and pretend to look at stock near where I'm standing. Some just stand there with this confused look like they're in a trance. Just subtle movements they do that makes them look they're re-aranging themselves/trying to look good. Lots turn their bums towards me too as I walk toward them. Lots will smile if we catch eye contact but more generally look away (submissively) some stare for longer though and those ones turn into smiles. I never approach these women because I don't know if it's just genuine curtesy them being nice or if they're actually eyeing me. Sometimes it feels like they want me... I'm just too scared to approach when it's just a shopping centre or in public though, it's not like a setting where you can stick around and talk to the person to get to know them or whatever. It makes it hard. Public interactions I feel like so many times could have lead to something else but I've never wanted to deal with the rejection. Plus lots of the places I have to keep re visiting so I don't want to "shit where I eat" if that makes sense haha

[@Brandanmayhew]

And LOTS of girls touch their hair when I walk by them too and I've started to notice it more. It's like a subconscious thing they must do when they thunk a guys cute. Also they like.to.touch their back just above their ass too I've noticed if I'm standing behind them... idk if that's a signal or not but I'm starting to believe it is

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

Never been called an assh*le and not felt proud. Good advice to let the woman pick you. Yeah you may never get picked, but that's still better than chasing women. I'm 67, healthy. Retired at 45. Planning to sell my Phoenix house and move to SE Asia in 2025. Won't be chasing women there either. The advice is solid no matter where however I would say "let the woman pick you first" because you still need to vet her. Just watched some videos by "Pinay Trucker GIRL USA". Super cute Filipina married to an older very heavy guy and she's totally in love and driving flatbeds with him. She cooks for him in the truck. Never hear her complain about anything in videos. Super into family.

[@boejiden855]

The whole “let her choose you” and “oh she like me and wants to go out” has literally never happened to me. I dont even know what that looks like. Even asking out ugly fat women, they say no and give me the 🤢 i dont get it at all. I get it im ugly, and 5,8” but fk i make 6 figures and im athletic and not fat at all but even with money they dont care. Like im not even good enough for them to use me for money 😂 and no i DONT want that but its funny they dont even try right…?

[@tgreeny1400]

You need to develop a dgaf attitude about this stuff. Make the money and athletic stuff about your own health and well being. If they come along and are worth while? Cool. If they don't? That's fine too. The number of good women out there is abysmally small, so you can't make them a goal at all.

[@tizodd6]

Don't feel bad. It's life for 99% of men. It happened to me a few times in highschool, but never once I became an adult. Now I'm just a decent looking 5'10" dude. In shape, own my home, make good money etc. But the truth is, most women will only even consider approaching a top 1% guy. And even then, it's rare.

[@boejiden855]

@@tgreeny1400 already have that attitude, it changes nothing. I became that way about 12 years ago.

[@boejiden855]

@@tizodd6 approaching out of the question, we know women wont approach at all save the absolute 1% because they see the 🤑 and oh boy do they want that. The reality is for an average or even a bit above average is they wont even acknowledge your existence or even be polite to you. You are scum, trash, worthless to them.

[@tgreeny1400]

@@boejiden855 based on your comment you have it, but not interalized it. Forgive me if I am interpreting your comment wrong. But the way it reads is "I did all of X and it did nothing to help with the women" which doesn't show the dgaf attitude is internalized. Like I said I could be wrong, but that is the way I read it. But overall wish you well.

[@ditpook]

You still have to ask her. I was about 20lbs overweight most of my life and invisible to women. After a skiing accident and a leg rebuild, I was doing 1 handed pushups, running 5k every Sunday, working out 3 times a day. They still don't ask. I walked thru a mall and women were staring at me. One stared so long she almost ran into a wall. She got close and made an extreme face implying I should ask her out. I decided I was tired of this and I would only go out with women that asked me out. One asked me out but just for recreational sex. The next one asked me out and was at my house when the other one came over to ask for sex. She asked the first one into the parking lot to beat the shite out of her. That's the one I married.

[@chrisandsneaky2453]

LOL! Are you still married to the girl that beat up the other one?

[@ditpook]

@@chrisandsneaky245328 years together. You have to respect a woman who puts it on the line like that. How many men have a woman that would throw/take punches for him? They all want the 6 foot millionaire but what would they do to get him? Usually they don't want to spoil their makeup.

[@diogenes64]

If you've done the work means they're hanging out at the finish line looking for the winner. What about them doing the work.

[@FoB39]

Self improvement is for men only unfortunately

[@city_of_coompton6832]

Exactly F that. Pooniti first. Then I'll work hard. Not the other way around

[@andrewpizzino2514]

Moving out was a tough thing to do financially but life wise best thing I ever did. Been off to the races ever since.

[@Nlott2]

You go girl!

[@virtuousvoice]

tldr; be the hot guy in the foam cannon party in cancun.

[@Devo13]

Yes. Just be the coolest,most remote mystery man in the room and they will be intrigued. Walk your own path like Caine in Kung Fu...Also,go Asian. They want to be actually be cute for guys...

[@RaptureHead1993]

If anything it’s more stressful if women choose you. There is always an internal motive and never good for you.

[@underdoge8338]

There's not a lot of women who have pursued me. Most were overweight, or too old. Only one i liked back which was my ex is now with some other dude. You can hear the crickets on the apps. I was recently dating a girl i really liked for a month till she said shes not into it anymore. Back to square one.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

Get back on the chase excellence hamster wheel, you know all the women out here are doing the same……

[@city_of_coompton6832]

@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Ugh.. I'm gonna... IMPROOOOOV!!! then maybe some washed up 35yo overweight single mom might settle for me. Totally worth it

[@vladsaveluc2659]

Guys, read the butt-plugged alpha by Rich Cooper

[@chugjugs6081]

I laughed

[@manager4409]

You'll always lose money chasing women, you'll never lose women chasing money

[@hjackson.92]

Simps who chase money still manage to lose women. 😀🤡

[@hosoiarchives4858]

Women won’t choose many guys

[@shosho4real]

What if you become the best version of yourself and still you get ignored by the females🥴

[@radeknosil2950]

work, work work and wait till you are thirty at least. what a nice world

[@monkeywithcattle]

future relationship would eventually be the situationship without sincere conversation but physically.

[@ewwtv7553]

“Walk through the open doors” David Deida. I heard this from Dr Robert Glover, author of No more mr nice guy. In my opinion the best manosphere book out there.

[@Savvynomad225]

Dr Robert Glover is a passport bro. That book is a good one, teaches about many blind spots men have, blind spots that are culturally imbedded by societal norms.

[@abramlittle7102]

Your posture and how you carry yourself is more important than muscles. Concentrate on exercises that improve overall balance, stability, and posture

[@FrumpyLumps]

This is stupid advice. Women don't know what they want. Just get money and a passport.

[@TT09B5]

Hell, they can't even tell me a what woman is any more.

[@5n4k3d0rk]

Women know what they want. The problem is that "what they want" changes minute to minute

[@poorman2457]

I know. Aaron lost a lot of points with me when he ran away from the Philippines. (Loves calling other people pussies but he got ran off from PH in 3 days.) .And now this dumb advice. The best women I've ever gotten was from chasing them at first and letting them chase after we had been intimate. No woman beautiful enough for other men to want her is going to chase you unless you're famous.

[@lamentate07]

@@poorman2457 Yes, and if those women do chase you, it's because they are crazy in my experience.

[@saberbo89]

They want Chad only chad.

[@1TightMinute]

It’s funny that this wisdom has existed for ever….

[@lamentate07]

It's easier, but the problem is that you often end up with lower value women or crazy ones. Almost every woman that has pursued me had a psychological problem.

[@e.l.s.3048]

"What I like, I go after. I don't like it coming after me." I'm paraphrasing, but I heard it from the movie All About Eve.

[@1983jcheat]

All the girls I've dated asked me out. If you're some what attractive, women will chase you.

[@lamentate07]

This is the passive approach. Unfortunately for many of us, it has resulted in ending up with controlling or emotionally disturbed women.

[@majdo007]

Yeah...about that 😅

[@Gloryisthep]

Gems 💎

[@loveincorporated9658]

This is the way, choosing signals.

[@jordanluenz9263]

The Sixes are the most dangerous, because they've been given just enough attention & affirmation to whet their desires, but not quite enough to be satisfied, & they get envious of the Sevens & up. So the Sixes become the most manipulative.

[@IC_LIVIUS]

I'll never get chosen and thats okay, I'll still be happy.

[@coldbastard6859]

I'm 5'7. Hell will freeze over before modern female starts chasing me.

[@jeffhuntley2921]

Dated a girl whose dad didn’t have guns, so he enlisted his gun friend to try to intimidate me. I knew 10x more about guns and had 20x as many guns. Still friends with him and see him at the range 👍

[@francoiseeduard303]

5’6.5”😔 This product has so many manufacturing defects it should have never been put out to market.

[@bussybusterblade8799]

You will be rewarded in the next life friend

[@SandFlyFood]

The height thing is so baseless lmao. They think it will carry genetically, which it isn't, I'm 7 inches taller than my mom and 8 taller than my dad (yes, my real genetic father) So that's not even a guarantee. And on top of that they look at tall guys like they are physically superior or something, when in reality we are just physically different. There are just as many activities only a short person would be good at, as a tall person would be good at. I can reach the top shelf. You can crawl through a tight space. All heights are useful.

[@user-jw1bl4hq9j]

You will be in for a HUGE SURPRISE…….WOMEN DO NOT CHASE MEN .

[@SandFlyFood]

They have chased me plenty. Problem is all the ones to chase me are whores so who cares. *QUALITY women, do not chase men. Which like everything else in modern society, is backwards. The ONLY girl who WOULD be accepted by giga-chad, won't chase giga-chad. And no man is chasing in the MeToo era so that scenario is a dead end. Soon enough society will just be the handful of good girls, and all the men just staying home, while the shitty girls rage on TikTok.

[@lonew2657]

Practice , practice, practice, and improve your social skills. Learn to dance, and improve your interactive skill with others.

[@luket3452]

6:36 imagine thinking that’s unreasonable. Guess what broads, just because YOU apparently like being treated like trash by Chad doesn’t mean guys like the same treatment

[@avlifesavers]

Women waiting at the finish line...

[@setha360]

Choose the puppy that chose you.

[@hjackson.92]

Let the women choose me? No, I don't want to become a high value target. 🤡 Better to get into social circles in other countries and let the chips fall where they may. No need to chase when someone inevitably will play matchmaker. . .

[@clydemarshall8095]

There’s a line between standing up for yourself and being a disrespectful ass. I think you may be on the wrong side of that line at times.

[@ArthLud]

Great. It is a great tip but I think Rian Stone would disagree with you. You have to polish your game. Work on it as much as you work on your body, health, finance etc. And ask girls out and be out there that's how you get your game up. And do field reports. It is a waste of time only if you do it incorrectly. You don't have to be the at very top but the fact you are already climbing is good enough for most girls. Of course if you're early 20s if you're 40 and just started climbing up the ladder ah it's not so easy. Anyways that's my opinion. Love your work, Aaron!

[@poorman2457]

Why would you listen to Rian Stone? Look at his girl. If you're teaching how to handle women and muh-game you got to be with a woman that makes other men jealous. Rians girl is average. He's a pseudo intellectual that's insecure because he knows he's never done anything meaningful with his above average intelligence. Clarey is the real deal even if he isn't perfect. But he's the best we got right now in teaching how to navigate the modern world. Forget Rian Stone.

[@poorman2457]

Why would you listen to Rian Stone? Look at his girl. If you're teaching how to handle women and muh-game you got to be with a woman that makes other men jealous. Rians girl is average. He's a pseudo intellectual that's insecure because he knows he's never done anything meaningful with his above average intelligence. Clarey is the real deal even if he isn't perfect. But he's the best we got right now in teaching how to navigate the modern world. Forget Rian Stone.

[@poorman2457]

Why would you listen to Rian Stone? Look at his girl. If you're teaching how to handle women and muh-game you got to be with a woman that makes other men jealous. Rians girl is average. He's a pseudo intellectual that's insecure because he knows he's never done anything meaningful with his above average intelligence. Clarey is the real deal even if he isn't perfect. But he's the best we got right now in teaching how to navigate the modern world. Forget Rian Stone.

[@fallskjermjeger.]

Anyone threatening my sons with that bullshit will get a bad time.

[@michah7214]

I won't chase a man. Because if i did, any guy id get would be lukewarm about the relationship. No thanks

[@Brandanmayhew]

Well men arnet gonna be chasing u much longer, and the ones that do anyway only want Ur pootang

[@MikeS-7]

So what you're saying is, once you have enough resources women will find you attractive. Once you get to that point I suggest you take a look at the end of the women's court system. She's looking at you planning the end from the beginning. It's simply not worth it.

[@NSW15355]

Grow your arms to the point where nobody can disagree with you. Look up a picture of Chef Rush. Are you going to disagree with him?

[@mateivacariu1171]

35 year old CHOOOOOOOOOOSER!

[@nathanbutcher7720]

You can let women choose you but you have to put yourself out there. The key is to be direct and to the point about what you'd like to do in the bedroom with her and avoid small talk. Do not waste any time or money on this. Go to where the women congregate like at party and approach every woman with something direct. Even if you get rejected a few times, word will travel fast and women in these environments will see what you're doing. One who really needs what you are offering will then choose you. If you want a relationship, women have to decide on this - not you - and they only way to get there is through the bedroom.

[@cousinzeke4888]

What a disgusting, backwards way to view relationships and sex.

[@nathanbutcher7720]

@@cousinzeke4888 I don't care what women say they want. I only care about what they actually respond to.

[@cousinzeke4888]

​@@nathanbutcher7720President and CEO of Missed Your Point Industries.

[@nathanbutcher7720]

@@cousinzeke4888 Yeah just going up to women and asking for consent is just crazy according to most men. According to them, I’m supposed to be wasting money on dates I don’t want to go on, dodging the issue of sex, hiding my masculinity out of fear of rejection, wasting time on jealousy, trying to trap her in a relationship she doesn’t want, and waiting for the right time to jump her when she least expects it, right? And then men wonder why women give up on them…

[@city_of_coompton6832]

@@nathanbutcher7720 Uh no you should get to know each other for a while first, talk about your values and what you think a relationship should look like, THEN go to the bedroom. If women don't respond to that approach or have a history of going to the bedroom first then sorting out the details later with previous guys, they're probably not LTR material.

[@fastbackgt4821]

Cappy and Richard are correct- Don't chase women! But that doesn't mean you can't peak their interest toward you. I run NLP on the ones that seem not to be interested at fist and it works like a charm. You run NLP with dread, therefore the messaging goes in unexpected bc they think you are not chasing them. A lot of times they are on the fence and they are looking for 1 or 2 more things to seal the deal. - this is where your languaging/body behavior comes in.

[@ajax6967]

What is NLP?

[@JJ-vp3bd]

What's nlp

[@cosmictreason2242]

Unskippable lesbian soft core "love lies bleeding" right before this video.

[@redpilldh]

Focus On Yourself, Buy Real Estate that produces monthly income, & Travel. Thank me later. 💯

[@Dollsteak69]

Im 5'5 mid 50's. I love the mgtow movement but its distressing to read some of these comments. Ive never had a problem with women. The title of this episode is who ive lived my live. Take care of yourselves FIRST. Care less about these wentches. Live your life to the fullest along the way. Turn the screen off and get OUT THERE. They will find you. Im mid 50's and they still show up.

[@boejiden855]

Got a point^^ Also your generation and the latest are lightyears apart. Their mentality, lack of morality, and the introduction of social media and the swiping game have changed them forever. They’re just not the same people.

[@SchemingGoldberg]

You're one of the lucky ones. Most men have zero success with women, that's just how it is.

[@chugjugs6081]

​@@steelearmstrong9616Water is wet and women are the way they are. 🤷‍♂️ Gotta like them for what they are not hate them for what you want them to be

[@killjoyredux8361]

Generation gap is huge.. In two decades the world went crazy

[@oldscratch3535]

Sir, you are from a different generation and you're competing for women of a different generation. If you were Millenial-Gen Z, you'd be absolutely F'ed. Please try to understand that things are WAY different from when you were a young adult.

[@SuckF-uo2io]

No not how this works the subservient gets chosen by the provider not the other way around