Living with Loss, with Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche

Speaking from an intimate perspective about personal grief, and then from a universal view which touches upon the losses we all face in life, Mingyur Rinpoche shares advice on how to negotiate new and uncertain landscapes, and how to accept and evolve in a world of impermanence.
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[@TedKunchok]

Thank you Rinpoche for the precious teachings 🌿

[@ymrtmg7032]

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[@MjF809]

You are living a meaning life. I know the pain of losing a father. I had to leave my father due to violence to save my life and daughters. I send you a hug with silence.

[@garethmorgan3665]

I'm sorry you had to make that difficult decision. I hope you are well :-)

[@ugyen1955]

I just lost the person I loved the most in my life , my father a month and half ago. Dealing with such a grief was hard . I just let myself cry whenever I feel immense grief . Thank you for your kind words of encouragement and wisdom Rinpoche . Before my father's death for one and half month I have been meditating according to your instructions and I handled my father's death pretty well. I was proud of the way I didnt have a mental break down . I have got a taste of death and impermanence and feel grateful for these lessons . I want to live a meaningful life and praticse the dharma as much as possible with hopes of seeing and meeting my father again when I pass away too 💕

[@bhaktichaudhary1797]

I am sorry that you have lost your precious father. I hope your practice is helping you to come through the hard time. I hope the memory of your father will be a blessing in your life

[@ugyen1955]

@@bhaktichaudhary1797 thank you for your kind words. May blessings come your way 😊

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[@TergarMeditationCommunity]

Holding your hand in peace and love.

[@ommanipadmehum4975]

Its because it was « your » father that affects you that much. Way way way more far in the path, you will know the story of Buddha teaching on Death : 🌟 A woman lost her child, very deeply affected she cries without stop for many days and night. Buddha come to her, and they go together accross all the village. They go from house to house. Buddha asks to everyone : have you lose someone ? Was it painful ? « [with sad face and low voice] Yes i did, it was very painful » « Yes yes » « Yes yes » After that they go near the river, and Buddha struggled and cried because he was touched by people losses as they are part of universe and life not only people close to his dwelling. But at the same time woman find peace and calm understanding the teaching, and thank Buddha.. And life goes on in a lighter way ..

[@TraderSamsara]

I followed Rinpoche three years ago. It is amazing that Rinpoche looks as the same age as three years before. ❤

[@ymrtmg7032]

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[@ommanipadmehum4975]

@noor noor From the moment you dont meditate within your heart the deep and profound and personnal question of the reduction of suffering in everything and everybeing .. and because you have experienced true suffering and have been sensible by it, >> you will stay as you were So you can stop meditation, YES ! Then go in ordinary world, get suffering ! And come back maybe, later in this very one and or the next one [life]

[@williamwidjaja850]

Permance , not impermanance ? 😂

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@noor noor Im talking about how rinpoche look the same as 3 years ago as @samsara said. not aging = permanance

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[@izzybernstone881]

im a young person with a very distructive mind. my mother has always tried to teach me to meditate but i never understood it. lately, my life has been really difficult with struggling to find full time work, loosing friends and becoming distant, and quite recently the person i loved the most decided to move on in her life. these past couple nights i feel like there wasnt a single second of peace and clarity from the sadness i felt.. until i discovered this channel. after watching one video and following all of the steps, i felt a sense of hope and now i truely believe i can be open to this practice and control my mind. thank you Rinpochepath in

[@MjF809]

Mingur you are an amazing human being ,humanitarian, and teacher. You have taught me meditation , true living,. I adore the lessons you share about your father . Your father teaching you, taught me....therefore I teach my daughter. What a gift you both are to this world. With love and gratitude Kelly NY USA

[@i.a.-infiniteawareness4991]

God bless you Rinpoche Mingyur and may all people find their path to love and compassion 🙏 💚

[@nngsktdolma261]

Thank you for your kind teachings rinpoche ly🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@norbudolma1280]

KYABSUCHE kYABSUCHE Yongey Rinpoche chog, Thanku 🙏🙏🙏

[@RobTheDrake]

Attachment is the cause of suffering. I have faith that god is going to help us no matter what happens. If I step back and look at how good my life is, even with the negative things that have happened. I can't help but believe in god. Love never dies

[@bawatsering5185]

Living loss in sense, suffering and accepting with compassion.

[@monoazul05]

Thank you very much Mingyur Rinpoche, you are a great teacher...love you 🙂

[@truduong4619]

Sadhu sadhu 🙏🙏🙏

[@МарияСтефанова-ь6ы]

Meditation keeping us young and fresh mint awareness

[@kalpanagurung9009]

Precious guru 🙏🙏🙏

[@lotumeilotusmei2165]

❤🙏Thank you for your teaching.

[@aishabunch5352]

Thank you for the teaching. I have lost so many family members and lately my dog and I am so sad and heartbroken. it is hard to deal with the separation.

[@JazzyB11235]

Same here

[@mariajuliasilva1158]

Tashi Delek ! Rinpoche la 🌺✨🙏🙏🙏✨🌺, Long and Healthy life to You, May all Your Aspirations be fulfilled.

[@NgocHuongBui-go1bb]

I love this sharing, it helps me too much

[@МарияСтефанова-ь6ы]

You tube wisdom helps us a lot and Buddhism

[@eSKAone-]

The sweetest person on planet earth 💟☺️

[@활성에너지Activeenergy]

I really enjoyed the video

[@Pozrfb]

Pain also passes like the good in life, it changes, and sometimes we catch a phase in life when all the good is gone at once, and then we lose hope. But losing hope is also a impermanence. that is the great message.

[@MichaelRoyBroughton]

Thank you very much. ⛲🙏🙏🙏⛲

[@shielamartinez8991]

When I listen to you it feels like your just talking to me especially this time having just lost my brother. I also love the way you add humour to your talks. Thank you Sheila Chester UK

[@solarpoweredafricanvegansp178]

Thank you very much Yongey! I recently lost my father on my birthday and I’ve been dealing with deep depression. Your video helped me put it into Perspective.

[@MjF809]

Im so sorry you lost father. I lost my father to violence...I had to walk away to save me and my daughter. I send you a hug with silence.

[@marilyno8616]

Deep compassion for the physical loss of your Father, Mingyur Rinpoche ! THANK YOU for utilizing that to further teach us !

[@OM-PeaceE]

Thank you Rinpoche 🌼

[@mrretired2715]

Amazing master riponche. Very deep his teachings will free you.

[@bhawanaarya6785]

Thank you ♥️♥️♥️

[@storkonstage]

🙏 Thank you.🙏✨

[@annekedam6846]

My cat died today....almost 19 years old. I miss him already! I cried alot today, even more intense then with my parents. My cat was my companion for almost 20y...i see him still setting on the window sill or asking a peace of my food. It is stil and empty now. Knowing he is never coming back....😢 although i thought i was prepared, i am greaving and feel more lonelier then ever. He was part of my life in everything. It is so sad😢😢

[@Aerothorn]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss.

[@bloomfullyever]

I’m sorry for your loss. Your beloved cat led a good life with you. You gave your cat food, shelter, and love. That’s more than what most animals can hope for during their short lives. From the moment a being is born, death is inevitable. What most of us hope for is a good quality of life (in between birth and death). You gave your cat a great life…for a cat. So please rejoice in your good deed. The pain of loss will slowly subside. In its place will be beautiful memories and a big heart that can love other sentient beings (and give them joy through your love) 💕

[@annekedam6846]

@@bloomfullyever thank you for your kind words

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@@Aerothorn thank you for your kind words

[@krisgriffaw1427]

I love how you make the comparison of your father's teaching being your father continually being with you in life even after his passing, my father also passed, he was a very complicated man who never got away from his own suffering, but he was also an extremely inspiring and intelligent man in other ways, through his teachings he still lives through me as well. Thank you for sharing☸❤❤

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Hug to u❤ big energy gift, very from hearth

[@dorisbergmaier1455]

thanks you for this support, thank you, it s not just the words, it feels like they are aliive

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[@이종운-u5i]

Thank you Rinpoche

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Thank you very much Rinpoche 🙏💕🌹

[@Jimthememusiclisten11]

Thankyou rimpoche

[@johntarzen2228]

Ur books r source of my inspiration n helpful at my wrk place n as a father.. a tibetan with regards frm swiss..

[@davidmontemayor4383]

Very helpful. Thank you!

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Thank you

[@Beatrice.Ndungu]

Your talks are refreshing ✔️

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[@ahilan5346]

Hello Sir,thank you for your help.I’ve started meditation three months ago on my own.Suddenly last one month,I’m getting severe headaches and feeling energy stuck all over my face and body.Feeling vibrations continuesly and seriously worried.I will be really grateful if you could do a video about it and help me.Thank you

[@Deepak94]

Very much true guru ji 👍🙏🏾

[@Anonim7242]

THE LESSON Loss is a deeply ingrained belief. How can we minimize its impact? Try engaging your rationality and asking questions. What can I learn from it? How can I grow from it? How can I transform it into something meaningful? Try to ask questions that lead to constructive thoughts rather than intensify grief. Example: I lost my job in May because the project I was working on was closed. I had prepared myself for this situation and looked for opportunities within it. This is how I found the freedom to take a sabbatical year, start building my character, meet new people, volunteer, and travel.

[@SanjayKumar-zm3hz]

Tq Sir 🙏💜😇..

[@LL4love]

Loss helps me to learn about impermanence. It is better to get used to loss while alive, as we all will loose everything when being died!

[@jasontang9192]

I just lost my job and have no money now, I very hard to find this kind of job to accept me already as I have been 33 and not too much experience as senior yet. I am too hard to go to senior as all people are selfish nowadays and didn't give you chance including customer as I am in hair industry, but I just feel it's hard to let go the industry I once loved to work but have changed a lot because of internet and MCO.

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Schwere schmerz in❤verlorengehen on the Leben, one Liebe 😢

[@carmenpickett4625]

I have become home less, because of renovations required to my old rental, my car needs fixing, and I'm in debt. I had a breakdown yesterday. I'm exhausted, I'm going to walk away from work, to examine the next part of my life. I had a full time job, ECT. 😧. I'm living in a friend's house, working on my next move. 🙏

[@_star_platinum_]

I wish you all the best! I hope soon everything will be alright

[@ymrtmg7032]

Thank you for everything my dear Guru ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤I was your student as a monk but I don't mean I'm not now I'm still but I just left monk life❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤but will never leave your side 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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[@rifolas]

I love how his grandmother was like "it's okay little guy, you'll die too some day small child, your experience will end just like your sand castle crumbled into dust, so too will your mark on the world fade like a long forgotten scar" kinda paraphrasing, she seems like she was a vibe though

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[@pardeshisah1316]

Sir I have a question?? Does it is possible to awareness of two things at a time while meditating?? When I focus on my breath then sound of breath and feeling of breath come exact same time then I puzzle on which thing I should focus sound or feeling... Sir please answer the question I will be awaiting.. lots of love to you sir...

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[@mariebarker4499]

Good Morning! God bless you! 🙏♥️. God bless everyone who reads this and love you all: make sure you know Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour everyone! He is coming soon! Accept and believe in Jesus Christ! John 3:16, Revelation 20:15, 1 Corrinthians 15 1-4 and Romans 10 9 and 10

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