This song has come full circle for me... I first listened to it while battling depression in 2016, last listened to it while standing on a chair ready to kick it, not knowing I was pregnant at the time. I came here to comment this because my daughter, whom I was pregnant with at that time, is quietly singing this in her room right now
@Ruby-ev9ym2 ай бұрын
I cried a happy tear for you. I loved reading this ❤
@amandahudson7240Ай бұрын
😢❤
@ryanevasco569319 күн бұрын
Extreme remorse listening to this song
@taylorpaul48792 жыл бұрын
My father died all alone in a tiny motel January 5th 2022. I've always loved modest mouse, but this song now has a new meaning to me.
@jacobshort6212 жыл бұрын
That's actually my son's birthday so maybe just maybe that can give some sort of condolence I'm sorry my friend..not that there is any sort of correlation but love you person it will all be ok I swear live for that love breathe it and exhale it let it flow through your veins and never give up.
@sarasparks1992 Жыл бұрын
I am sorry for your loss. I lost my dad and sister in 2022, I am sorry for us both :( May we both find peace and healing
@JamieKitchens611 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss.
@EclecticGАй бұрын
Keep coming back. This song is eerily healing. I am sorry for your loss. There are no words, really. It's a new year, another anniversary and I hope you are doing ok? ❣️ Music holds so many memories
@adamo.25714 күн бұрын
Unclear why you're sharing this here
@outofcloudsmusic2 жыл бұрын
We lost a treasure on the 31st of December, and I played this song with my nephew on the 1st of January and cried like a baby. So surreal that Jeremiah is gone. A giant who kept the rhythm to my life the last twenty years. Rest peacefully Jer. You will live forever through your music.
@B_kinda8 ай бұрын
December 31 is my birthday. Hate that we lost him and Betty White on that day. Hope they are having a party in Heaven each New Year’s Eve ❤
@maruez9994 ай бұрын
So quiet, yet so loud.
@JoeChavez5150_Ай бұрын
Guitar always get me 🥲
@EclecticGАй бұрын
I met him for the first time and Issac just before this. I wanted to hug him. He was so heavy. My partner and him played together in the past and crossed paths a few times. For me I kept it cool but an experience of a life time, for him another cloudy evening
@poolboy50815 жыл бұрын
I used to have an older brother.He was real sick a lot and I was never old enough to actually remember him,but my dad sometimes mentions him.Sometimes I think about what my life could have been like,what his life could have been like but I’ll never know the answer.This song just reminds me of him,and what could have been.I was cheated out of a brother,my parents were cheated out of their first son.And Ryan was cheated out of everything. Love You Bro
@willdabeast85095 жыл бұрын
Damn, that’s deep. I’m sure he was a great guy.
@phyrestorm9995 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry. I have a similar story, except she was my half-sister from my mom's first marriage and she died long before I was born. It's nice to think maybe Ryan and Lisa are hanging out together somewhere nice.
@frankcramo44145 жыл бұрын
Pyramid please don’t take this the wrong way as you and your parents weren’t cheated out of losing your brother and their son. You r path makes you who you are and we either embrace it or flee from it. Look it this way, what if wherever we go when we leave here is utopia? We are taught death is this end all and place blame on a creator for taking our loved ones from us when in reality we know nothing of our destiny. I know there is something greater then this planet and believe my soul will never die. Close your eyes and scream as loud as you can in your thoughts. The fact you can hear your voice without speaking speaks volumes. It allows us to comprehend our mind and soul are separate from our bodies, which can never be extinguished. It’s hard to explain what I mean, however, I’m sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort knowing your brother no longer is sick and feeling pain ....
@roberth70545 жыл бұрын
I too used to have an older brother - misunderstood illness (manic depression) and denial with his suicide. I was 10, he was 21 - we were soulmates, so i thought. I love him
@TheMitchmills4 жыл бұрын
regret produces death friend. we must be thankful to even have had a brother or little sister such as a one. we will see them again. JC
@abigailburgos6156 Жыл бұрын
Last year, this exact day, I lost my baby, this song, has heal me so many time. Thank you.
@kmmcdowe6 жыл бұрын
I used to sing this song to my son when he was very ill in the NICU as a baby because it was one I knew all the words to and he seemed to like it. Now I hear it and ugly cry remembering how scary and lonely, but also beautiful that time was. Thank god our story ended better than the one in the video.
@emiliobello24295 жыл бұрын
Is he ok now?
@f.justf.72304 жыл бұрын
is he still alive?
@alterbridgefan994 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@enablerx42073 жыл бұрын
I did something very similar. My son was in the NICU for over a year and this song just helped. Though I just saw the music video today so it's really weird that I found comfort in such a dark song
@djhero00718 жыл бұрын
There's songs that make you happy,songs that make you relaxed,songs that are just to get turnt,chill and have fun. Then there's beautiful songs like this that disarm you and break you. (Both with the lyrics and the music video). I'll forever treasure this song because of that.
@botmun8 жыл бұрын
Truth has been spoken brother. Could not agree any more.
@seejay98 жыл бұрын
well said. lots of their songs hold a painful but important part of me i sometimes need to come back to, so that i can remember all i been thru, and not forget to not go back to....
@jessepinkman41917 жыл бұрын
Chris Buckley I feel you dude. Whenever I start feeling nostalgic for my old life, I throw on some Mouse. Its just the right level of meloncholy, where I can remember the good times I loved and the bad times I left behind.
@andyflip84157 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir
@peterdmitribachand39547 жыл бұрын
djhero0071 I agree and modest mouse has at least one song that fits into that each of those categories
@aston132 жыл бұрын
My little brother committed suicide a few years ago and I find myself coming back to this song and video often (thanks for a better version in 2022). When it happened and I read his note, moments he mentioned washed over me as stuff I barely recalled. it was the line "we treat mishaps like sinking ships" that spoke to me back then. Since that time I realise it was the video that was really speaking to me. It's my brain playing his life over and over again backwards in reverse, trying to discover the moment where I could have had some magical intervention that stopped its tragic conclusion. It never comes and I realise now it never could have, it was beyond my control. Love to anyone else going through the same. You helped them win that battle every single day of their life but one. Well done you.
@Plain_Bread2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such a beautiful sentiment. I hope you’re doing well today💙
@richardoliver81742 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You put into words how I felt/feel about the loss I’ve experienced in life. Keep being kind to yourself and others. You’re doing a great job so far.
@billiondollardan8 ай бұрын
this brought tears to my eyes, man
@Murdoc1213 жыл бұрын
She brought him to the motel so her last memory of her son wasn't in a hospital room but sleeping peacefully.
@dustieredhart2 жыл бұрын
I'm not kidding when I say I wrote a whole essay on this video in high school. This is just a work of pure genius
@PhillyRacer1219 жыл бұрын
Ive always scoffed at these sorts of comments but i feel i need to share. I was listening to this song tonight and my wife and i recently mis carried our first child. Its quite a heavy song already and when i heard this song my mind immediately went to the video. Its a tough thing to lose your child. This song certainly dredges up all those feel-like-shit emotions for sure.
@harhar61419 жыл бұрын
3rd planet
@kendallphillips50839 жыл бұрын
+Har Har reminding you we used to be three and not two
@harhar61419 жыл бұрын
+Kendall Phillips that's how the world began
@thesadistphilosopher97876 жыл бұрын
God bless you my friend. I hope you and your loved ones are in a good place. Much love from Memphis
@tarahitesman42026 жыл бұрын
Fieroman121 I watch this video every time Im sad and I think about my son cause he passed away 5 months afterwards. I absolutely love modest mouse and all of their music. This video is heart wrenching but it gives you a huge perception on life and what's worth meaning to you.
@in7erpol10 жыл бұрын
The last part when the smiling faces gets erased,,, Its just emotionally wrecking
@schloany4479 Жыл бұрын
It was the kid, being erased from her picture. Absolutely mind-numbingly sad lmfao
@kathrynmceachern95032 ай бұрын
I've been in tears the whole time this song plays. Every time I hear it.
@ginnmann2 жыл бұрын
this song has emotionally impacted me for years. its one of my favorites ever since i was a kid and its the only song that without fail can make me cry. i just started listening to their music again recently when the news of jeremiah's cancer dropped and now he's already gone. RIP jeremiah, i hope you like it your little motel.
@NeoGee5 жыл бұрын
12 years of repeated viewings this still kicks me in the chest. I hope it it always does that because I don't want to know what it's like to be dead inside.
@111yomomma43 жыл бұрын
come back its been 2 years time to re watch this video to make you bawl
@izzyjolt93122 жыл бұрын
No matter how times I play this some I can't stop bawling my eyes out.
@arnelson333 Жыл бұрын
Same 🩷
@tahneesalamun992110 жыл бұрын
This song reminds of the only "summer love," I've ever had. A British guy,working on a visa at a local hotel. We were instant friends. Hanging out every chance we had before he went back to England. The words "I love you" were tossed around by him and I kind of belived it. One night, we went night hiking and stargazing. We saw the same falling star, which happend to be the first one, I had ever seen. A few nights later, we were listening to this album and this song came up. He sat there quietly, I could tell he was listening to the lyrics. When song ended and he looks at me and said "This song is about us." In a way, it was. In the end, whatever we had fell apart and this song is the only reminder I have of him.
@LampreyKisses7 жыл бұрын
sucks to be british
@bloobloobleebloop11 жыл бұрын
i can't ever watch this video without crying
@keithjohnson452210 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@JustAnswers35910 жыл бұрын
I can't ever watch this video.
@rainydaycoate10 жыл бұрын
Every time
@heathengirl789 жыл бұрын
ABONESR YEap, this video ruined the song for me.I can't even hear the song. Doesn't help that the little boy looks like my son.
@colinhawco61539 жыл бұрын
Seriously, this is one of the saddest videos I have ever seen! I don't even know what else to say.
@punimlord2 жыл бұрын
So often when people write about sick kids, it’s manipulation. This isn’t that. This is a love story to every parent who has experienced the worst pain imaginable: losing a child. Thank you Modest Mouse, there is no other song like this, no other video. It is perfect. This pain is incomprehensible, and you didn’t shy away from it - you showed the most beautiful part of life, being a parent, and the unimaginable suffering of losing that light. Having a reason to live, understanding love for the first time - and then losing it all too quickly to ever comprehend. Nothing can prepare you for it. This is the best art that there is, art that has genuine empathy and directness to pointless tragedy. I will always be grateful that you made this. Greatest music video, short film, and song. Thank you for reminding me what an honor it is to love, and to have any time with the ones you love - no matter how fleeting. My cousin would be a young woman today. In her seven years, she lived through more than most people ever do, and loved more beautifully than anyone I’ve ever known. Thank you for honouring her, and every other little soldier who could never imagine how many lives they saved and hearts they made in their short time here. This is a masterpiece.
@uh5494 Жыл бұрын
Makes me cry when it hits that part everytime. So much conveyed through the sound, remembering a dream you cant hold forever.
@hiikarinnn4 жыл бұрын
I got a tattoo of the lyric "Before then we had made a wish, that we would be missed" this is my favorite MM song, its just so emotional and masterfully produced. The baseline is also under appreciated
@bigtub11012 жыл бұрын
that line in particular has always stood out to me
@victoriagray65429 жыл бұрын
2:40 my heart fills with the melodies of this beautiful guitar solo.
@VioletSky9089 жыл бұрын
Victoria Gray I love that part...it's so beautiful and relaxing
@justindloski91299 жыл бұрын
+Victoria Gray Yes
@royerraul9 жыл бұрын
+VioletSky908 sure
@MrNewdaysamelife6 жыл бұрын
The same couple notes that had been played throughout the song. It amazed me how simple it was. Repetition surely can evoke deep emotion and this song perfectly pull that off.
@burtgaming58575 жыл бұрын
Victoria Gray That Guitar solo hits you like a Brick. It’s dark as Fuck
@lord_sanguine_rose4 жыл бұрын
Even after 13 years of seeing this music video, it still gets me. It's that powerful. Thank you Modest Mouse for the soundtrack to my childhood. :')
@TheTokayTamer6 жыл бұрын
This music video is the saddest thing I’ve ever watched. If you’ve ever dealt with having someone close to you dying [also figuratively, i.e. a dying relationship that has no hope of recovery] then this song and music video hits home. Thanks for creating life changing music Isaac.
@LaidbackLukey179 жыл бұрын
This song makes you reminisce, how time flies.
@snail_smoothie23144 жыл бұрын
And now its been 5 years
@chillchan36314 жыл бұрын
"The years go fast and the days go so slow."
@dogmonster273 жыл бұрын
i like the profile pic :)
@Crustycats2 жыл бұрын
6 years ago
@MissAyce8 ай бұрын
It really does. I can’t believe how 17 years passed by. I loved it than and I love it now ❤
@L.iamCarroll Жыл бұрын
Has this piece of cinema won an Oscar yet? Phenomenal film clip that elicits more emotion than I really want to tackle to be honest, but am so glad Modest Mouse let me do so.
@jvadams729 жыл бұрын
Each time I watch I'm like "ok, i'm getting through it with dry eyes"...then that damn smiley faced pancake shows up!!! Edit: I made this comment 7 years ago when I had a 2 year old boy…he is now 9 and his sister is 6. Crazy how time flies yet the video STILL kills me after all these years.
@Evangelionlovr9 жыл бұрын
The pancake scene is the single saddest thing I have ever seen in my life.
@goblincity_svg9 жыл бұрын
Never eating pancakes again RIP
@zenjon78929 жыл бұрын
+jvadams72 It's the elephant on the playground for me
@jhonarmin41118 жыл бұрын
+jvadams72 when i see the pancakes and the look on her face my heart sinks, gets me every time
@obrebel08 жыл бұрын
I cry every time I see those gas prices, holy moly.
@Why_Am_I_Sticky5 жыл бұрын
For those of you wondering like I have: Lucky Motel, Reno NV, Room 16.
@grungeprinc3ss8063 жыл бұрын
What’s it called now ?
@user-sl1mi8cb4g3 жыл бұрын
@@grungeprinc3ss806 I could be wrong but I think it's the Ho Hum motel in Reno
@scurvy31133 жыл бұрын
Is shit still like this
@TheHungoverMoth2 жыл бұрын
It's been three years, have you figured out why you're sticky?
@Why_Am_I_Sticky2 жыл бұрын
@@TheHungoverMoth That's a mystery for the whole world to wonder.
@ambivalentmerkaba10 ай бұрын
As a 35 year old guy that suppresses his emotions and has trouble opening up, I come to this song occasionally and the tears just flow. Thank you Modest Mouse
@frankradkermani68893 жыл бұрын
This hits way harder when you actually have a kid that means the world to you 😢
@ReZerO10010 жыл бұрын
i have a 6 y/o son... i can't watch this video without tearing up... and i'm a 33 y/o man. when you have a kid this video is almost unwatchable. love the song though.
@wrnchhead7610 жыл бұрын
Same. i'm kind of pretending to watch it, but not. Can't invest myself in it. The guitar is about all I can handle.
@jonanjello10 жыл бұрын
My youngest of three children is eight and this video gets me, too.
@wowt10 жыл бұрын
brofist
@chao13chao10 жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@gnartastickid7 жыл бұрын
Yeah having 2 myself id say i have to agree. Ive cried at this video when i was younger but with children it almost hurts
@defender2403 жыл бұрын
Man, this song really helps me cope with losing my brother and dad in the same year 3 months apart. I do still miss them each day but this song really helps with coping. I know how it feels to lose everything n that moments, feeling nothing but loneliness, and emptiness. But I know it gets better each and every day you are alive. I still have the memories of my brother gone too soon and a dad on his last breath.
@Jkstolz8 жыл бұрын
The real true gift is to be able to put songs out so beautifully that that have different meaning to each individual and that's their true gift to the world. Thanks Modest Mouse. Beautiful and chilling at the same time.
@masterm2k2 жыл бұрын
This song really hits home for me , lost my father 01/2021 , just want to say one thing please cherish the time with your love ones , we really never truly get to say what we want until it’s to late .
@hridyaashokan5 жыл бұрын
This has to be the saddest video i have seen. I cant stop crying.
@rowffy91324 жыл бұрын
Mumford and sons- beloved
@anotherkilleramongst4 жыл бұрын
sounds like you need an ice cream party to cheer you up.
@Krinbo4 жыл бұрын
I know this is an old song, but this is still one of the best music videos out there. It tells a story by untelling it, and it's so powerful.
@teresan34868 жыл бұрын
I'm totally not curled up on the floor bawling my eyes out like a banshee
@ryderhubley19138 жыл бұрын
Here_Come_Dat_Boi_Leafy _ same
@shmeeproductions83827 жыл бұрын
SilentInTheTr33s _ Same
@jamesdupray3062 жыл бұрын
This song hits hard. I had a mom with a severe mental illness and seeing the love and care, beyond the limit of our lives makes me feel better in an odd way
@hammerheartt2 жыл бұрын
this song hurts in a way i can't even put in words. 10 years has passed since i first discovered this song and it still makes me wanna cry every single time.
@doomcarrot30415 жыл бұрын
The lyrics in this song are beyond incredible. He puts so much meaning in a single line that it is hard to even grasp. He is telling two stories at once, the story of a broken, tragic relationship, and the story of every relationship he sees coming in the future. It is as if the loss of someone he loved opened his eyes to what will happen everytime... Love is, by it’s nature, a tragedy. Because love is never permanent. And yet, despite the fact that we know this, deep down.... It’s what we’re waiting for, aren’t we?
@cloaked.mirror4 ай бұрын
Watching this video 16 years ago, I was 16 years old. There are some songs, and certain feelings, that you never outgrow.
@myfinaladvice1338 жыл бұрын
I noticed a lot of you thought she ripped out the heart monitor while the boy was still alive, and that she had brought him to the motel to die; as it turns out, if you look at the heart monitor going by in reverse, he has already died. She took him on a seemingly pointless odyssey to "detach" herself from what has happened, thinking if she normalized the situation by getting gas, stopping for pancakes, tucking him into bed...that maybe this NEW reality would cancel out the former one (the one where he is DEAD). This was a very sad, and desperate response to her denial and grief; she is trying to trick herself into believing everything is back to normal. Why didn't she just take her son back home? We don't know the back story, this is where creative license comes in. Maybe he had an ongoing sickness, and the house was full of reminders of his sick days? Maybe she knew the medical staff would see the body having been stolen, and have the police dispatched to her residence; and she knew this was a place she could get away, and be with him "undisturbed" one final time. Once they take his body away, she could not hold him and climb into bed with her baby again. So, there are a LOT of themes and reasons to consider. This might be the saddest (if not, one of) videos I have ever seen. The scene director had quite a vision!
@taraupdike37477 жыл бұрын
With that heart rythum he wouldn't have made it to the hotel. He was already dead
@mrs.potatohead12727 жыл бұрын
I’m crying my eyes out, I don’t normally cry at videos (like try not to cry videos or just anything in that matter) but this really hit me hard knowing that he was so young and his mother just wanted to spend more time with him while it was his last.
@philthyco17 жыл бұрын
She just wanted to do some of the things they liked doing together... one last time before she let go.
@TisFenton6 жыл бұрын
Maybe she took him to the motel because she sold the house to pay the medical bills
@vee52946 жыл бұрын
Maybe he was already brain dead & the plan was to take him off life support & she wanted to do it herself & not have the medical staff do it or didn't want him to be on life support brain dead forever but rather end his suffering on her terms, just them alone.
@cosment0010 жыл бұрын
This video gets me every time. Its hard to put into words what it means to love someone so much that when they are gone, your mind won't let your heart accept the fact, because it would be utterly destroyed.
@teresahowe286 ай бұрын
This album came out when my son was a year and a half. That was 16 years ago. I was a young mom and this song always brings me back to those days growing up together.
@Goobiwann4 жыл бұрын
i was about to comment why this song is special to me, but I see so many people already sharing their personal stories and there is honestly nothing that makes mine more valid than anyone else's. it's just crazy the amount of emotions that one band's music can bring out in people. take care remember i love you even if i dont know you i love you truly and wish you the best
@scc59205 ай бұрын
Feel free to share your story. We would like to hear it
@RyanVictorArdis8 жыл бұрын
that pancake broke me down, that hospital scene even worse! saddest music video ever
@roberth70542 жыл бұрын
my friend, someone I once loved as a kid recently died of cancer. We weren't close these past few years as I moved away and we both started our own adult lives but I was certain she was well and one day we'd run into each other again. I became a Modest Mouse fan and discovered she was also a fan and this song came to mind immediately, it is so lovely but shatters my heart and I'm not even listening to it right now. Your wish is coming true, you are so terribly missed.
@umdesch42 жыл бұрын
RIP Jeremiah, you will be sorely missed.
@allisonbailey43077 жыл бұрын
I’m balling my eyes out because I had a brother at the age of 5 who died of stage 3 brain cancer and I miss him to this day! I love you Ethan! I hope it’s ok there in heaven 😭
@megantaylor98614 жыл бұрын
💛
@McY3rm4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for for your loss. Hope you are doing well.
@XxXShevampXxX Жыл бұрын
I've loved this song for years but ngl, after I had my son back in 2020, this video makes me cry every time I see it. Him being in the NICU after he was born was so hard....getting released after my C-section and not being able to being him home with me was nothing short of devastating. It was the middle of COVID, july 2020, and Ronald McDonald house was closed to most people because of it byt luckily, they had a little room they'd let people stay in right by the NICU that opened up 4 days after I was released so I was able to stay there with him but it was still so hard since I was all alone. No one else was allowed in due to covid restrictions. We made it through it together though, him and I. The day I got to bring him home finally was one of the best of my life.
@releasethebinky8 жыл бұрын
For all the whooping and hollering and chaos that is this band Modest Mouse, this song is the cement that caused me to love this band. This song is in my top 5 ever. I'm breaking up as I'm posting.
@jeremywoods7705 жыл бұрын
Lol i can just imagine you watching this video on your phone while typing that comment as you slightly tilt your head to her, eyes still focused on your screen "naw, we done, bitch" [types "as im posting"]
@tuesdaymartez4 жыл бұрын
@@jeremywoods770 what?
@jeremywoods7704 жыл бұрын
I dont know. I was probably high
@tuesdaymartez4 жыл бұрын
@@jeremywoods770 hahaha
@shanecorcoran2542 Жыл бұрын
Genuinely don’t know how people can say We Were Dead was when they stopped trying when songs like this exist. Might be their most emotional song ever and that’s saying something after some songs on M&A and Good News.
@barkanic7 жыл бұрын
This video really hits home. Listening to this song always brings me back to living and driving around Reno alone at night, and seeing that this video was shot there makes the connection even stronger.
@brightdaniel11 жыл бұрын
For a modest mouse to make a great album like this again...... That's what I'm waiting for.
@puremonky12310 жыл бұрын
if this was meant as a dig on "recent" modest mouse which by the wording seems true. I would like to inform you this is one of their newest just behind no ones first and you're next. if you were just saying they should make more music than I apologise a fully agree.
@linkVIII10 жыл бұрын
puremonky123 We all need a little more modest mouse
@treyk.88027 жыл бұрын
They did, after this one.
@polarbeargloves7 жыл бұрын
I don't think Isaac went about that last album in a very sane way. He chewed his way through producers and was a little too critical because of the amount of time he had to be critical. It is what it is.
@infamousjoker76514 жыл бұрын
For that we would need real heroin to mainstream itself again and be gone with fetonyl....modest mouse were who they were because of their ongoing battle of heroin addiction. To get the pure magic of Modest Mouse one must be broken down, heart, soul, but intellectual. Because that's what they were, and where they came from. ..they managed to perfect such pains from heartfelt experience like no one ever has or will. They can't be recreated, ever. And that realness that they had.....sure as shit can't be faked . .will always be my number 1 band of all time tho...but I admit....that I dream of a comeback album later in life ..but it has to be at the right time.... because every other album has for me ....no other band was ever there for me the way this band was.....to myself I imagined that it would come out for my 40s....and would just be a greatest hits type of jam only songs would be changed and mixed together and changed like they to were looking back at their lives from a midlife chaos type viewpoint.....
@telallproductions13 жыл бұрын
My husband watched our son battle a fatal disease for over 2 months and each day we were told would be his last… During this time we so wished for the days when he played, and laughed and cuddled, and to see a shell of his former self was quite disturbing to say the least. I totally get this Mother, taking him to his favorite restaurant, and tucking him into bed… just SOME normalcy in a life that is off its axis because of grief. Loved the song and cry EVERY time I see/hear it!
@G_FRE Жыл бұрын
I hope you are well. Thank you for sharing your very brave son's story.
@Ph4tT0ny7 жыл бұрын
I've owned this album for years, listened to it cover to cover hundreds, perhaps thousands of times. Song was stuck in my head one day after work, popped it on youtube real quick cuz it was the closest thing to me. Never seen this video. It was like listening for the first time, changed the whole song for me. As a father of two, I cannot even listen to this song anymore without crying. Its a good and a bad thing, because I love this song so much.
@billkimbro59658 жыл бұрын
The video and song really get to me ... think about my kids, my brother who passed. Glad I found this again.
@julietjackson29185 жыл бұрын
Universe, bring someone into my life that appreciates this music as much as I do. I would love to connect with others who get it. It gets lonely down here sometimes.
@foxyden73534 жыл бұрын
I get it
@anthonycruz23334 жыл бұрын
@@foxyden7353 same
@matthewboren91954 жыл бұрын
Let me play music for you when I'm ready I'm in a wheelchair from the midwest.. you're not alone friend.?
@ThisiswhyWecanthavenicethings3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@tasteslikeacid78043 жыл бұрын
These guys are tapped into something pretty incredible. Looking through the comments on their other videos it is like a big family. Everyone telling their stories of how these songs remind them of powerful life experiences. Music is a very unique and far more powerful form of communication than spoken word alone,
@cullenhallbelmont Жыл бұрын
Wow 16 years ago. I remember stealing my brothers modest mouse cds and listening to them walking through the woods with a portable cd player w headphones. Time flies
@EcraftshowsM3 жыл бұрын
I used to giggle at these types of comment but I thought I’d share because why not. I first listened to this song when I was thirteen in middle school, I don’t know how I found it because nobody in middle school or even know really talks about modest mouse. But I remember crying the first time I heard it, I never listened to it since but I remembered the title and band since my memory of listening to the song was so vivid. Now, four years later, I just listened to it for the first time since then and it still makes me bawl (“: This song just brings back all the same emotions from four years ago. One of the most moving songs I ever heard.
@joeldurhamjr68079 жыл бұрын
This is a brilliant video for one of MM's best songs. Thank you.
@TiffaniVVela16 күн бұрын
I used to listen to this song when the boys were little , they’re bigger now and I still feel the same when I hear this song, their father will never know how great they are
@antosen Жыл бұрын
Who made this video?? As a father of a 7 yo this is the most heart wrenching thing I've ever seen. My throat is still hurting from crying. I've heard this song many times but I never listened to it as a final lullaby. Thank you for this piece of horrible and beautiful art.
@eganjackson10 жыл бұрын
God. I remember Playing world of warcraft to this song. I'd join these groups of players to fight the enemy side of players, even though we were together we weren't really 'together', and it killed me. My ex got me into the game and we split for reasons I won't tell. I still played the game. I still played it and listened to all the modest mouse songs that were released. It was a sort of therapy. There was this snowy battlefield arena where you had to defend bunkers and I would huddle up in one of the bunkers, play this song, and pretend I was defending the one that got away. ya know? Just to feel like I mattered, I wanted to pretend like I had something to care for and I did. I would train and equip my character to be the best for his level, and he could take on 3 enemies at once. I only did it because one day I'd imagine that she'd log on again and we'd talk things out. God that sounds dumb as fuck, but that's love. right?
@oneidawolf77610 жыл бұрын
Keep your chin up, I spent many nights in ab thinking about her too. She will come back with a new face and new songs, new feelings. head up brother.
@oneidawolf77610 жыл бұрын
Oneida Wolf AV*
@XxHizzyxX10 жыл бұрын
that's just sad.
@pliable.diamond10 жыл бұрын
Hang in there Egan. Doors are always there to go through. Life can suck for a long time, but rarely forever.
@shelbinelson9110 жыл бұрын
That was not me someone using my phone
@quinnwilson69156 ай бұрын
So I had seen this in my recommended for some time now, but it hadn't quite caught my attention. Didn't really know it was a music video, and granted, Little Motel wasn't one of my favorite Modest Mouse songs (This doesn't mean I don't like it, I do. You get the point). On my way home tonight I saw it again and said, "Fuck it, I'm a good driver", and watched it out of the corner of my eye. I was not expecting this what so fucking ever. Modest Mouse is my favorite band, period, love all of their music, all of their Ugly Casanova stuff, and all of their early demos that I've found. When I was watching this, I was totally thinking, "Oh, this is a fun-ish cute music video, in reverse. Weird." Then the ending hit and I struggled to gain control of myself. This hit me hard. This music video came out when I was 2! I know this particular, not very interesting story probably doesn't or won't matter to anyone but me, but holy hell I will NEVER hear Little Motel the same again. Ever. Holy shit.
@redeemedpoetYTwatcher2 ай бұрын
Yeah it's a level of genius most art never can reach.
@jyoung782 жыл бұрын
Rest in peace, Jeremiah Green.
@CreepSHatter Жыл бұрын
I didn't know he passed. Now I'm upset
@doomcarrot30416 жыл бұрын
This song is about how we all desire love, even though we know how much pain is associated with it. The song describes a brutally painful relationship, as it comes to an end. But between all the pain, he says "that's what I'm waiting for." Implying that he just wants that kind of love even though he foresees the pain associated with it. In the last chorus he says it is what we are all waiting for... Which is so true. I don't think I relate to song anymore than this one. And of course, the beautiful symbolism and metaphors make this song just vague enough that it can mean what you want in a way. Anyone in any painful relationship can relate. This song could be about lovers, or about a mother and her son (like the video). Amazing song, heart-crushing song, and always one of my top 10 songs of all time. Hell, I'm gonna hit replay now.
@ahahamunge5 жыл бұрын
I'm a 38 yr old father of two girls, ages 5&7, and I'm balling uncontrollably. I haven't cried in almost a decade, unless you count eyes watering at the end of Toy Story 3, but nobody can resist that one, right? This song has always been a favorite of mine in their catalogue, but it wasn't emotional for me. I had never seen the video and was unprepared for it. It hit me out of nowhere and very hard. Hopefully I can listen to the song going forward without being wrecked every time, but what an amazing experience that I rarely get to have. Curse you, video director, and also thank you and congratulations. You did something very difficult. You made this cold stone completely lose it. Wow!
@bobwasherefool2 жыл бұрын
I used to sing this to my daughter, it hit home way too hard. She was disabled, and epileptic, suffering anywhere from 100-500 seizures a day. We knew the grim future fate had wrote for us, but never in a million years, with all the info given, all the preparations would I have been strong enough to give my daughter CPR unsuccessfully. I live with that on my chest every day, along with flashbacks that punch me right in the gut and tear me apart instantly. She passed in 2018, at 6 years old, our world was forever changed. I randomly had this song pop in my head this morning, before work and mistakenly played it. Cherish every moment, every little thing. It will be gone one day, no matter what it is, because really, thats what we're waiting for. =(
@dibbi3237 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss, thanks for sharing your story.
@J.D.Hardesty Жыл бұрын
I couldn't even begin to pretend to be able to relate to this story, it's incredibly sad, I think a lot of us fans gravitate towards this song when we're having emotional difficulties, so you're not alone in that regard. I know all too well that time does not in fact heal all wounds, sometimes it doesn't even feel like a day has passed, but I hope you're doing alright in life right now. This song will always be here for you to come back to.
@scotthoward2021 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry
@rmc8148 Жыл бұрын
love and respect to you and your family x
@Thebes3429 жыл бұрын
Well, I just wanted to watch the music video to this song for the first time, since it just wouldn't leave my head. As a result, the dam burst and I'm in tears for the first time in over a year. Wasn't really expecting that...
@raelespinoza61039 жыл бұрын
that's the beauty of modest mouse
@x46andtwo8 жыл бұрын
It is an amazing song like that. You're not the only one.
@Lincolnv86 ай бұрын
4:00 is where i loose it everytime, i relate to this song like many of you..but the emotion there just reaches put and grips my heart.
@brunatanti1164 жыл бұрын
I walked down the aisle to this song. Best choice we made. 2 years married and 13 together!
@Y-two-K6 жыл бұрын
I can't even begin to describe the emotions that overwhelm my being when the rhythm guitar kicks in during the intro.
@Ataxamazing10 ай бұрын
This is literally the saddiest video in existence. I have never not watched it and cried and now as a mom to a 3 year old it feels like someone rips my heart out and stomps on it when i watch it.
@ilovecheeseeeeeee11 жыл бұрын
its 2014 and i still love this song.
@recordechoes10 жыл бұрын
Good for you considering there's no reason not to still like it. It's not like music has an expiration date...
@danagoolesby82642 жыл бұрын
2022
@kevenfitzpatrick209110 жыл бұрын
3:29 made pulled on my heartstrings more than anything has in recent memory. what a beautiful video.
@arseniccCatnip Жыл бұрын
since i'm still a teenager, i never thought i'd ever "relate" to this song, but one of my family's cats, her name was Tequila, was diagnosed with diabetes recently. she was in a horrible state, drinking probably too much water and was just very low energy in general. my parents decided to put her down yesterday. i know she could've gotten better, since we got the supplies for it from the vet and everything, but it's too late now. and the vets apparently said they didn't know if she'd make it. rest in piece Tequila. you were a great cat.
@jamieadams9663 жыл бұрын
Mother was diagnosed with end stage liver disease. Sadly, things aren't looking up. She's in the depth of the end. This song continues to make me think about her. Though she is here, she is not.. reality is sad. This makes me think of her with every listen. Every lyric becomes more relevant. Her time ending is what I'm waiting for.. that's what we're waiting for aren't we..
@TenSuns1914 Жыл бұрын
R.I.P. Jeremiah Green
@SkinnyEatWorld95 Жыл бұрын
This is and always will be my favorite band ❤ Modest Mouse stirs the depths of my soul ❤
@carlosgonzalez39886 жыл бұрын
Everytime I watch this video I always seem to cry, just seems soreal because I actually live in Reno Nevada where this video was shot, its truly insane seeing building I've been seeing since I was a child
@dannyboy16310 жыл бұрын
everytime I listen to this I have to randomly call up my mom and tell her I love her.
@lekeciaentrot8117 Жыл бұрын
Ive listened to so much music over the years, and I have to say this is hands down the saddest song Ive ever heard. The song along with the video just tears my heart in two everytime I hear it but its one of my absolute favorite songs.
@daxtro54925 жыл бұрын
i was homeless for i dont care to remember how long (few months at least) and it's been a while since i was in that pit. i wish i had known about this song then because this song brings back the exact sugar coated hopelessness feeling i had back then.
@rowffy91324 жыл бұрын
how are you today?
@daxtro54923 жыл бұрын
@@rowffy9132 in a different pit, but not homeless at least, thanks for your consideration
@deathislife199310 жыл бұрын
Easily in my top ten Modest Mouse songs. Easily.
@drewlehe37639 жыл бұрын
+deathislife Good taste but it's so hard for me to make a top ten for this band. Something new comes on I haven't heard in a while and I freak out like "OOOOHH YEAH THAT ONE WAS THE SHIT"
@DemonLewisxb9 жыл бұрын
+deathislife Top 5
@josephdavis78247 жыл бұрын
#1 most underrated without a doubt
@epiclolgamer82474 жыл бұрын
If you lost ten random modest mouse songs you’d more than likely end up with a song that’s someone’s favorite
@squeakeththewheel3 жыл бұрын
Top 2.
@froodishsixofthreeАй бұрын
just hearing the opening notes is enough to start the tears welling and by the end of the song, every time, I'm sobbing. such a beautiful love letter to a lost child. may all who find solace in this song find peace in their hearts.
@kellyshea924 жыл бұрын
For anybody wondering, most of the little motels in Reno were torn down recently to make apartments.
@4LeafForge Жыл бұрын
being with her is so draining, there’s problems every goddamn day, but i’m saving a life and i love her so much
@thousandyardgavri278510 ай бұрын
But what about you
@jtheprospector.14589 ай бұрын
I'm from Reno. I've lost so much in that town. This song definitely has always made me feel a sense of sadness but in a way that makes complete sense. The last night I got to spend with my best friend we walked right down that street past that motel. We both loved modest mouse and this tune. The next morning he was dead from accidentally ingesting fentanyl and I couldn't get him help quick enough. Rest in paradise Kyle. Love you brother. I'm sorry man.
@TerranceVasquez000110 жыл бұрын
This has gotta be the most saddest music video I've ever encountered... Just perfect for my play, Mellon Collie.
@kenshin41138 жыл бұрын
I live in the town that this video was filmed in, strange to watch it and see places I recognize.
@dust83318 жыл бұрын
Omg I live across the bridge from there! I'm in that town all the time! what a small world
@disclose_beauty8 жыл бұрын
Wht's the town?
@Darth_K_K8 жыл бұрын
Jeza Bel Reno
@funnycomedymaster5 жыл бұрын
If they ever make a music video in Fernley I will cry tears of joy.
@cosmicremix3113 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I've sat down and watched the music video. Wow. I wasn't prepared for that
@nathanmcdaniel25576 жыл бұрын
Ive watched this video twice and cried both times. Then I cried when I was telling my wife about the video.
@timi65027 жыл бұрын
The sad side of youtube
@KA-op3of7 жыл бұрын
The Acker Blood the best side
@violetjohnston10506 жыл бұрын
@violetjohnston10506 жыл бұрын
me too... MEGAHUGS ALL AROUND
@Daniel-pz3cg6 жыл бұрын
Where I've been living for years nowhere
@MissWinkle5555 жыл бұрын
It's sad and beautiful at the same time.
@junedreamer6 жыл бұрын
all of their songs always ignite something inside me, like an unspoken loneliness and it kind of hurts but they’re one of the few artists that gives out warm hugs with each song. idk ive been a big fan for the past two years and somehow i missed this song and it just feels like this is the right time to have heard it as cheesy as it sounds.
@alessandroferradini1885 жыл бұрын
A decade later, still gives you the same emotions
@AlexjLopez4395 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@SniKenna9 жыл бұрын
That video just destroyed me holy hell.
@marcelogarciagonzalez99844 жыл бұрын
Same... modest mouse knows how to destroy you... and the save you. Its unique.
@gthegrimreaper49402 жыл бұрын
One of the most serious music videos I have seen. This is why modest mouse is simply the best. Deep and amazing.
@jasonmrazscuzin10 жыл бұрын
Goddammit. The pancakes get me every time. Fucking pancakes.
@AltairAuditore4 жыл бұрын
I found this song extremely emotional years and years ago. I now have a 4 year old daughter, this song breaks me...
@taylorpaul48793 жыл бұрын
My father just died. He loved modest mouse. He died alone, living alone in a shitty motel. Such an Appropriate song....
@ImEverythingYouCrave12 жыл бұрын
This song is like a song you can play to make you cry a little easier to let out any pain.