My Ex Is Dating Someone Else

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

I tried some new lighting today. Do you notice any difference?

[@MultiStar84]

Coach Craig Kenneth lookin good 💪🏼

[@mistymalibu9680]

Ween Fawn when does he not look good ?

[@carloscabrera5311]

Brighter..

[@meeraraj0]

There's a glow

[@KilluminatiPlusUltra]

Thats better actually

[@lemonoji288]

To my fellow brothers, if she cheats on you or leaves you for another guy, it's her loss. The only interesting thing about the new guy is that he's new, and they'll almost certainly fall apart.

[@erwinmagday5072]

do you think they will fall apart because it is a rebound relationship

[@aidanhendrix2295]

She’d been talking to him for a solid year behind my back. We were together for 3 years.

[@tonysayerz]

Thank you so much for this comment

[@charlesdc1233]

Hope you're right.. it hurts

[@frankdavf4599]

Thanks Lemonoji👍

[@Davephatbuds]

I just recently found out that my ex, the woman I've been in love with for 10 years is pregnant with someone else. I ran into her in public and didnt know about it until that very moment. It was gut wrenching. We've been broken up for quite some time, but I always had hope that we'd get back together. I guess it's now official that I have to move on. It's tough. I feel depression creeping up and recently went on a binge that almost destroyed me. I have to keep my head high and try living a healthier life.

[@meeraraj0]

Davephatbuds sorry. Exes are very stupid people With no personal integrity

[@thegreatone5381]

Damnn bro... I cant imagine if that happened. I hope you're doing ok

[@Redrum9899]

hey bro! That’s just terrible. Eventually things will change.

[@justindaniel5087]

I’m so sorry man ): my ex fiancé jumped with someone new and we are barley 2 months apart our wedding was suppose to be in December and I supposedly here shes pregnant and it’s killing me so much she still has our rings and I’m wondering if I need to ask for mine back that I got her I know your pain man and I hope everything will be ok just leave everything in Gods hands stay strong brother

[@225lilmoma]

Davephatbuds you do

[@joewandy8012]

Coach, I just want to tell you that you're THE BEST out there. You're genuine, you know your stuff, and your work help saves thousands of relationships by teaching people how they can manage their anxiety and be a healthy partner in a relationship. The things you teach are invaluable! Thank you so much.

[@LG-ly7pw]

He’s worth his weight in gold!

[@buchanan012]

my ex is a bombshell and intelligent, resilient, soft spoken... I was anxious and needy. I'm not sure she will ever look back, even if this new relationship fails. I hate myself for the way I behaved. I had no idea what I was doing. now I'm moving away. I'm never going to see or hear from her again. I wish i could go back in time.

[@fabio9554]

Happened the same way with me😢😢

[@Joshdifferent]

Update

[@buchanan012]

@@Joshdifferent Stayed stuck with hope and beating myself up for almost 2 years after. Eventually, over time, I began to accept that it was over and that I was never going to hear from her again. I never did. Sometimes you don't get what you want in life. Do the work. Focus on the person you want to become. People will come and go.

[@BigLadStudios]

I believe my ex is in a new relationship with this one guy, he was a friend during our relationship and is the complete opposite of me. We're nothing alike. I'm not sure whether it's a rebound, but the fact that I know this guy isn't as good as me makes me that much more confident. I know my own self worth and my friends have all agreed that it's such a downgrade.

[@ThatKidBryan]

Jake's Corner any updates. Whatever happens with you ex?

[@teasticles_kun6986]

Same as me , any update ?!

[@keeplearning7884]

my ex told me straight to my face that she's dating someone else after no contact ☹️

[@MrQuagmire26]

Very often, women, have someone else lined up before breaking up or it's a rebound. Rebound relationships tend to not work out very well. In many cases, women need a taste of their own medicine and see how life really is without her ex. The grass is always greener syndrome is a common occurrence among people.

[@meeraraj0]

MrQuagmire26 hello ..... I'm a woman and a man did that to me. I'm in shock.

[@Ssengel69]

I concur with your statement. They need to realize what it is like without you even if it means that they are in a rebound.

[@ModernWanderer]

"Very often, women, have someone else lined up before breaking up or it's a rebound", you said or its a rebound...what is it if its the first option? They lined someone up, see each other at the very end of our relationship and then proceed in getting together with the same person 3,4 months after she broke up with me but during this whole period they were talking to each other???

[@mathildakamara7143]

Against Modernity .... it's happened to me last month....I had a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years this year... I didn't know that he has other girl around that he has been dating her for the past 7 months without me knowing. I after I found out I back of and now he wants friends me because he didn't want to lose me

[@ModernWanderer]

Mathilda Kamara your situation is better then mine. My ex gf doesn't even want to talk to me, and we didnt talk since january even though we broke up in october...and all of her friends are also hiding this relationship and I am sure they know about it but are lying...

[@fitnessfuncody]

After seeing all your videos watching Ross and Rachel go back and forth has a whole new level. 😂

[@Manu-od8du]

If they lost their feelings for you and started a new relationship it can't be a rebound. My ex is in love with her. It's just passed a year. Now she doesn't want him anymore I don't know why and he suddendly unblocked me everywhere but he still love her and want desperately come back with her. I rejected his weak attempt because I never want him back. She was an old friend of mine! He treated me so badly during the relationship and he instead treated her as a princess. What else?

[@smoothmentalitysmooth9226]

lol He lust her that's all

[@roomate00]

My ex started dating a new guy a week after she dumped me. I know its a rebound but I don't understand why rebounds are destined to fail. Like how do I even know that I wasn't a rebound? She was wrapped up in emotional trauma from her previous ex the entire time we dated. It's been a month and she's still with the new guy. Things have been hard

[@cheynomdingi9596]

A month isn't a long time, even for a rebound. Give it at LEAST 3 - 6 months.

[@chasewright2232]

Make a video on how to meet new people after a breakup! Some of us are having problems with that 😂

[@erickbong3685]

Yeah..agree..being dumped really make me having problem to meet new people

[@robertjamesgallardo]

It's my birthday yesterday, and he didn't greet me. He's been dating this new guy for 10 months now. I feel awful. He was the one who was head over heels for me.

[@dj331]

What happened?

[@ansanorossini7895]

It's been 2 months with no contact and I have been on 3 dates. Had great time but I'm still wanting my ex. I saw her at a movie with another guy. I feel like a stepping stone for the new guy.

[@sanlaw584]

He moved straight onto a work colleague I think he had lined up. This was after 20 yrs married, feel like he is sloppy seconds now.

[@jinxlee8556]

This information is great! I don't go a day without watching these videos. As a result I have brought my anxiety level way down. Working on myself daily. I am more confident and feeling much better after the 5 month break up. From a relationship that lasted 5 years. She is a stubborn ex. And I know she will return after her rebound relationship ends soon. At this rate I am not sure if I may want her back. Because my value has gone up drastically. I am going to get my cash together and probably get a skype session with you. This self improvement is going too well. Far above normal. Beyond expectation. Thanks Coach!

[@Knel89]

Jinx Lee me & you are exactly the same, been almost 4 months for my breakup, 4 year relationship, found out she has her rebound today. Stubborn, avoidant ex. I too have managed my anxiety extremely well after a rough start and I am also more confident and my value is going up every day. Keep pushing man we got this 💪🏻 the power will in our hands when they come back to us after their failed rebound and realize we are men that are capable of positive change and becoming stronger.

[@jinxlee8556]

@@Knel89 Hang in there champ. We got this! Her rebound has used her and is now engaged to his ex woman. The same one he cheated on while he was with her. He was a serial cheater. And she thought the grass was greener. Her life is miserable and she is too ashamed to reach out to me right now. After being played for a fool by him. After dumping a good man. Then getting dumped.

[@Knel89]

Jinx Lee wow man that’s a crazy situation. I don’t wish bad things like that on people but I feel like these things are necessary for certain people to learn powerful lessons. Both of our exes could be hurt by these people and they will realize they dumped good people and they should’ve never done that to begin with. The grass is greener where you water it. And the grass may look greener out front but you don’t know what the backyard looks like.

[@jinxlee8556]

@@Knel89 A very good point. My ex it too ashamed to reach out now. And afraid that I might turn her down and has fear of losing me forever. I read this in one or two of her on line posts. Her posts are so sad I don't know how she held onto her decision to break up for so long. But I will continue and stay in "No Contact". And buy a house in a nice neighborhood. Improving myself more every day.

[@Knel89]

Jinx Lee You’re doing great and everything right man keep pushing!! We don’t have the energy or mental capacity to keep focused on them anymore- they made the decision to not focus on us so we need to do the same. I’m right there with you 💪🏻

[@ThePolaris87]

You going on tangents is usually fine. As others have said, it's often just nice (even soothing) to hear you speaking. Even better that you are huge nerd about this and you aim to implement real qualified research into your content and advice. As well as adding in your personal experiences or connecting to other stories. Thanks ☺️

[@Jason_wears_stuff]

i really really really needed this video this morning Craig, thank you again!

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

You're welcome

[@caranreion]

My girl ended up getting assaulted, and says it changed her and she needed space for a while. During that time she ended up hanging out with another guy and fell in love, told me to move on a couple weeks ago. I believe they've been hanging out for at least 2.5 months and the assault was 3 months ago, and they just started a relationship. Could this still be a rebound? He's completely different than me and totally not her type from past experiences, except he's nerdy like we were. I sent her a message on facebook after I found out and she said that she just "couldn't love me in the way I deserved, and the reason she had issues committing during our year and a half was because she couldn't feel for me the way she feels now." She said she still loves me, just not in the way I deserve. I don't believe that to be true, we meshed way too well from the start and had so much fun together, and she would always tell me how much she loved me and was thankful for me and I always treated her well. I do know I'd been needy and a bit emotional and that may have driven her away as well, and caused her feelings to dwindle. Any help would be amazing. I hurt like crazy.

[@noneyabusiness9931]

Daniel Johnson you turned her off emotionally

[@ThatKidBryan]

Daniel Johnson any updates? Where are you at now with yourself and healing?

[@lucasj8948]

So true- I spent wayyy too much money on one of those get your ex back programs and I impulse bought it out of sheer desperation... hindsight is 20/20. what a waste. your free content is worth so much more than a paid program

[@ThatKidBryan]

Lucas J where are you at 7 months later with your healing and recovery??

[@vDriizg]

U make me feel so much better about my ex who couldn’t appreciate me even though she told me nothing but lies just to keep me for months

[@bluedemon218]

Going through this right now and what sucks its coming from an ex that said that she "isn't fully ready for a relationship" yet 2-4 weeks later shes in another relationship? WTF!? Is she just with someone to make me jealous? Or is she just with someone just to be w/ someone?

[@theotheo590]

well she wants to be si gle to meet potentially new guys not to be single to stay single, get it? :) its just always with all women who have low values in life and dont get relationship needs investment and dont have same flame as in begining so they panic

[@stewartwatling4221]

They say things which simply are not true...liars...move on

[@stugrimson7851]

Monkey branching

[@bluedemon218]

@@stewartwatling4221 I've learned many things since that comment so since that making that comment & watching numerous videos my walls are gonna be further up + play much careful than this one. Everything went well pretty well since I was a noob from my previous but I never witnessed a end like this. Oh well... I still miss her as a friend yet I don't want to see her due to the sucker punch she gave me.

[@koolhandlukemakemyday8812]

Mine dumped me after over a year. She’s had issues with her 10 yr old son because his dad has failed him and been in and out of jail and chooses drugs over his son. She tells me she can’t be in a relationship right now because she feels like she’s failing as a parent and to work on herself. I definitely supported this action. They both need therapy. She broke up a week before my birthday. I used the no contact rule since that time. Now I just found out on fb, she’s already in a relationship! WTH! She always told me I was this amazing man that she never thought she could be with. Her previous relationships had been horrible with alcoholics and such. I’m so taken back. I thought for sure she was going to try and rekindle it. Man! Was I wrong! This is so painful and a punch to the gut!

[@Skywoww]

I really needed this video today! Thank you Craig.

[@wendyoliva2779]

Thank you very much, Craig! I’m in this situation and I honestly needed the last bit of advice. You’re right, why would you need someone like this in your life. Thank you!

[@palmertyrese]

My ex broke up with me and started dating people a couple days later.

[@plambeats]

Thank you for this video. I really needed this confirmation. I know that they will not last long. But I still feel heartbroken when seeing their posts. Even imaging about them makes me feel like vomit. It’s only been two months since he left me for her. He blocked me everywhere and is posting about his new girl and traveling with her everywhere. I’m holding up day by day but every day feels like one year for me. I still cry often these days. But I know their relationship will end and all I can do now is to be patient.

[@tiffanypr.9448]

Hey, how are you holding up? Update?

[@TheWizard99705]

Any update tiff? Would be useful as I’m going through this. Did you continue to wait ?

[@Freudster21]

Hey any update?

[@Cjmaverick77]

My ex dumped me a month and a half ago because I confronted her about allowing random guys to follow her on Instagram, but not letting me follow her - she felt I was stalking and I only wanted to feel included. Had I been included, I wouldn't have cared if other guys followed her because she'd have my trust, but it made it seem as if she had something to hide. It's been tough. I can't help but look at her private instagram profile everyday.. she's doesn't socialize with a lot of people, so she doesn't follow many people or have a lot of followers, but when I see that follower count go up, I wonder who it may be; I wonder who else she's let in in this private space she never allowed me to see - if it may be someone new she's met. As tough as it is, I'm just continuing to fight the good fight to better myself. Broke up on March 2nd, 46 days of NC.

[@Cjmaverick77]

@SHOTBYJXDA almost two years later and I never heard from her again but I began to fully heal around the end of May 2019 (3-4 months after the breakup). I got out, I dated other girls and re-learned about the endless possibilities the world had the offer. I ended up dating a coworker in August of that same year and we’re still going strong :)

[@TheWizard99705]

@Jada Turner hey; sorry to but in but you look good

[@KilluminatiPlusUltra]

People dont ever be friends with an ex, ever.

[@jrea46]

Why i can get her bk little at time

[@kwf1]

Truer words were never spoken

[@jrea46]

She is she hot then cold trying but its killing my head and heart

[@jrea46]

Om trying to block her jud5 cant and walk away

[@kwf1]

@@jrea46 Is she asking to see you or no?

[@lnzprazak2711]

Craig just gunnin' on dude is hilarious

[@meeraraj0]

I love you ! The side commentary is hilarious. What a fun show

[@todd8780]

She’s engaged to her rebound in less than 3 months, they live together and engaged. Honestly I’m a good man that just wasn’t aware. I was on cruise control and not mindful of the relationship I had for 7 years. Now this happened

[@klasykapolskiegohh8798]

Rebound relationship in most cases fail... Why? Bacause your ex has started dating first person who showed her a little bit of interest. After Few months and your ex girlfriend will realise that she went for someone who most likely doesn't do it for her. It was just to forget about you

[@ethelg.1182]

Craig, thank you for all the amazing work you are doing for us! It's been half a year since the breakup while I was listening to your videos every day, and I just found out my ex has someone... So can you imagine, I don't feel broken-hearted at all, even tho I still love this person! I persive all that is happening as a life flow and in my sadness I see a possibility for further development. I couldn't imagine that such news would not break but empower me! I'm so grateful for the information you give, the effect really is golden 😂

[@herambe_tank_meta5403]

Hey guys I could really use a little guidance. My ex girlfriend dumped me about two months ago and we were together for almost a year. We had had a rough last month had had fought a little too much which pushed her over the edge. But not 4 days after the break up she had planned a trip with another guy that we both know and has been in a relationship with him since the break up. I know it may all be over and she could be gone for good but I do still love her and would like to work things out and try for a future again someday with her. After the break up we still talked a little and she would tell me she missed me even though she is with the other guy but after she saw that I had become friends with another girl at work she blocked me on only snapchat (not any other social media) and has been talking badly about me to mutual friends saying that the break up was all my fault and that I did it to myself. I haven't said anything bad about her and in fact cant bring myself to be mad at her at all. Is there any hope left? Or has it all gone down the drain. She wont talk to people at work anymore and wont hang out with friends she seems sad and that really hurts. Anyways please send help quick thank you for reading.

[@toorakranger8406]

Found out yesterday (well a strong rumour in the workplace) my ex of 4 months is seeing someone at work. Gutted, furious. All of the above.... she’s not ever coming back. Time to face reality.

[@derrick1916-i7d]

Our BU was Jan 9th. I just found out a few days ago, she had been hanging out with one of her coworkers at least since mid February. But a lot during March and April. We had been in communication in February and the last I heard from her was Mar 2nd. I was ignored the next two times I had reached out and have been in NC since April 8th. At least you are able to see her and show that you are strong

[@toorakranger8406]

Derrick Childers I feel ya man. Sometimes I think that it’s harder. I generally get ignored when I see her, the other day we made eye contact and she smiled, I smiled back. God knows what it all means... maybe she had gas?? Lol. Stay strong man!

[@derrick1916-i7d]

Same with you. Just sucks I found out on my own after all this time. Really wish she could have just told me. Like i’ve Known this girl for 4 years and was her “favorite relationship” lol like okay. But good luck hopefully she will see his flaws in time, and that you are indifferent about it

[@hectorcastro347]

Derrick Childers c

[@callumwalker8183]

What if your ex has already moved on after I spent three months trying to patch things up? When we broke up officially, she was on tinder and talking to guys the same/next day? Why would no contact work on someone that doesn't want you?

[@xxmikansei]

watch another coach kenneth video "my ex left me for someone else" u will got the answer. i also asking about it previously

[@marthaaunderwoodd3282]

Just found your channel . I am going through tough break up of four years . I know I don't make him happy. I'm always looking for another person or why it didn't work out instead of admitting that I have a really unhealthy attachment style.I definitely have been the one trying to rebound. Half of me wants to make him jealous and the other half is I am desperately looking for someone to comfort me instead of trying to make a genuine connection.i think that's how my personal trauma manifests it self . I am trying to work on myself. I still want to be friends in time. Thank you for the video.

[@jessicadunn1806]

Craig, i watch your videos all the time and no matter when they were posted they are so helpful! Thank you!!

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

❤️

[@Nolaperu]

My ex got engaged two months after our breakup and now married within in a year. Wonder how long that's going to last? 🤔 Oh well, wish them luck.

[@battlefront987]

P C sounds like a friend of mine. Seems like the problems are starting to arise.

[@razelmalvar2862]

They will separate soon

[@ThatKidBryan]

P C did she reach out?

[@zanovazanova1842]

You are so lucky I hope my ex get married soon too with his new girlfriend.

[@cassandramitchell4830]

Mine actually married a new girl 8 weeks to the day of our break up....

[@rekhamagar9274]

I really loves my ex but he is dating with someone else I feels really hurts inside alots idk what to do😭😭

[@sunflowerlavista9081]

any updates?

[@TinaRios-up4hb]

I found out my ex was cheating on me before we broke up and is now with that person. Apparently that is her soulmate and they are talking marriage already. It hasn’t been but a few weeks since we split up. I am really going through it. Spiraling, depression and anger.

[@yasharodiya2085]

My ex is dating someone else and I already knew it ... But two months after her break up with me her new boyfriend texted me if it's okay that he is in relation with her.... I responded calmly that I'm okay and there's no problem.... But inside it hurts like hell.... I don't know what to do

[@cipryan96]

Wtf, shouldn't respond

[@kursengamer4699]

wow that's messed up

[@sanlaw584]

My Husband is going on holiday with his new girlfriend a year after we split. 😡 I have been watching your videos + trying no contact etc but realise now it wouldn’t of worked cos he had hooked up with someone else.

[@bigdog9120]

I drive a lot during the day, and i listen to you all the time...

[@kairai2]

Excellent video! You are helping me so much! Thank you 🌼🌼🌼

[@melmusic.official]

Haha great, laughed so much. On point Craig. Thank you for your great work. Its very helpful and a big gift to us💗✨️

[@rossclabburn4413]

My ex recently broke up with me because she was in a bad way had major depression and was in alot of debt so he had to brake up with me ever since the brake up she has been hot and cold very nasty and rubbing a text in telling me she has a new bf and is very happy with him and that we are never getting back together and then telling me she no longer loves me or feels anything for me anymore and now she has a new boyfriend who isn't attractive and she put pics on her Instagram of him and changed her profile pic on Facebook with him just days before she told me she feels bad that our relationship did not work out

[@rebeccazuniga6912]

In my case...I caught my ex in the act last June 23,2019..the door was open..he didn't know that am coming... when he saw me, he looked so pale and yelled at me and threatened me that I was trespassing and will call a Police..how is that?...we've been in a relationship for more than 9 years and never yelled at me...instead I will be the one to yell..he did not communicate anymore..after 3 months I emailed him, begging him to put back in normal and forget everything..you know what he answered?..let's just be best of friends...after that no more communication again..but I greeted him Happy New Year thru phone, he answered...but after that he blocked me..I again got hurt....he don't want me to go to his apartment, he was threatening me....my question: can I still win him back? or will he still come back to me?

[@Faxtron]

If your ex is dating another man that is a point of no return. Simple as that.

[@225lilmoma]

I'm not sure if I want him back. I broke up with him hastely because we'd had a lot of trauma. Both of us, he'd been in a horrible marriage his whole adult life. His kids went through a lifetime of abuse with their addict mom and I thought I could fix it. I did help them a lot but he's always indignantly denied the problems and fought me. He'd finally at the end started to really try in the last couple of months. I think I panicked. I'd been through a lot trying to get them to the point of normalcy.

[@lloydyarbrough3171]

My ex blocked me on everything,I know she’s dating or is with someone else and denies it and says she’s not seeing anyone. I know it’s none of my business. It hurts because we were together on and off for 4yrs plus and the fact she’s starting over with another person really feels horrible. She’s very cold and doesn’t even want to talk to me, she blames me saying she can’t date because of me when I know that’s not true. I’m so devastated.

[@lloydyarbrough3171]

That’s what I’m dealing with too. She’s said all the same things your ex told you,even when you know that they are. I acted irrationally and said and did things that were out of character for me. I would drive by her house trying to validate my thoughts about her seeing someone, I’ve never physically seen her with anyone but I have seen a couple vehicles in her driveway dropping someone off,I can only assume that it was her. I’ve know her for 20yrs and was with her on and off for 5yrs and knowing she rather start over instead of working out things with us really hurts. The breakup has put in in a bad place. She continually denies being with anyone and has blamed me for that. She’s avoidant and doesn’t communicate well,I loved her so much and she discarded me like I meant nothing. It’s been tough. We’ve been broken up for almost 5-6 months and I believe she’s been seeing this person for at least 3 months. Her and both her daughters have been sexually abused, has trust issues, now she won’t talk to me and has on everything and it’s killing me.

[@frankdavf4599]

I lost my ex. Life is cruel and brutaly crude.

[@frankdavf4599]

Lost because she is with other

[@blackTea8]

I think my ex is already dating, we just broke up on Jan. 10. We dated almost 2 years we have a daughter and one on the way that’s due in June. Upon dumping me she made up false allegations to get a restraining order against me. I didn’t do anything to her and she’s acting like she’s terrified of me. It was someone she works with, I think they must have been dating or talking already. I want my family back.

[@pascal6158]

Update?

[@sheilandris]

It's been five months since my ex broke it off. .We talk and text , intimate twice early on until i broke away. Now he's dating, but not ready for a relationship. He recently confessed how much he really did love me. I have apologized and promised to him to make a change and if he decides to come back I am here. I asked if he had thought of us getting back together he said yes.This new girl is getting her clutches into him fast-I am nervous about Valentine's day because he wanted to marry me after one and a half months but a situation with an ex wife interfered . Do I have a good chance to get my ex back,

[@ThatKidBryan]

sheilandris any updates?!

[@Pattie-o7f]

Red flag...1 1/2 months ...you dont even know him at all.

[@jeaneengant6771]

No contact won’t work with him.. he always said if he got caught cheating he would never try to reconcile.. AND he’s still dating his ex he cheated on me with

[@blankearth5840]

It looks like my ex is going back to her ex. They were together for a year before we started dating. We only dated for about 46 days. I’m currently in no contact. She reached out to me and agreed to going out when I asked. But when the day came she canceled at the last minute due to homework. This was over 2 weeks ago, and I haven’t heard from her since. I recently saw her with her ex boyfriend and they looked close to each other. Is my situation hopeless?

[@mrfuu900]

It look like you are the rebound. I'm sorry about this. Any update on the case ?

[@demisam1441]

You were a rebound bro move on

[@cedrickquirino6152]

Thank you coach Craig

[@djwynny]

i really need help. my ex ended it with me about 2 months ago after a 6 year relationship. she refused to speak to me i failed no contact for the first 1 and a half months. then the last 2 weeks i went no contact.... i then recieved a text from my ex saying "i wish i could say what i want to say to you,but too much has happened now, and there is stuff i have to live with. i wish i could turn back time but i cant. all i can tell you now is goodbye." i didnt text anything back the next day i had another text saying hello. i then text her the next day asking if she meant too much had happened means she has a new guy ?? she said yes but shes not sure if its what she want. now i havnt heard from her for another 6 days now my anxiety is through the roof i am more hurt than ever and confused. what was the reason for the text if she was moving on why did she need to inform me ! did she want me to hurt...chase her... or did she have a moment of weakness and use me

[@labratl3061]

My ex broke up with me a couple months ago but I found out she got back with her ex before me sorta a sad day here! :(

[@MovieMakersRUs4U]

labrat l how long were you with her?

[@robertjamesgallardo]

It's important to know their relationship history don't we?

[@ThatKidBryan]

Al B. Did she come back?

[@AliSaeed23]

To everyone watching this video, I will share my story and hopefully it can help you out. I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago due to her drinking problems. About a week ago I found out she was dating someone else and my heart was absolutely broken. All the thoughts of me not being good enough and that this new guy was better than me flooded my mind and I was extremely depressed. I decided to text her saying that I missed her and that I still have feelings for her and she replied extremely cold. Once again I was extremely devastated and all my insecurities came back up. Well, yesterday night as I'm getting ready for bed my ex texts asking if I had one of her hoodies.... I knew right away this was just an excuse to talk to me. Long story short I went over and had sex with her and she told me she never loved this new guy and is still deeply in love with me. This was the closure I needed and it unvalidated all the insecurities I had in my head. When someone moves quickly it has nothing to do with you all, and all to do with them.

[@CR-vc2wt]

hmy ex(of 1.5 year long relation) ghosted me 9.5 months back when i asked him about his gift for my bday. (which he claimed he bought. but i happened to find out he dint spend on it). the last conversation we had was about that. where i asked him if he could send me the bill of the item so that i can get the warranty(as it was maulfunctioning). to which he never responded. i never went behind him nor asked him about it or told him that i found out he betrayed me with the gift. he never tried to contact me either. he left me and the relationship with that. 6 months later, one morning at 530 am, i got a call from his number. i dint pick it up as i was almost sure it was a drunk dial and i believed that am worth more than that. now its been 9.5 months. and no news from him. i still feel horrible, not being able to move on. last day i saw his pictures partying over a staycation at a different city with a common woman friend of ours. you think he has fully moved on? or you think he still thinks of me or might come back?

[@mariahameliadalhia1686]

Same .I'm hurt.when I see myldr x bf has new relationship and posted in fb there relationship after 3 weeks break up .but then now I'm starting to realize how shallow he is and his not the guy who has high quality .he's desperate and insecure can't be alone ...I'm laughing so hard good luck boy

[@Leroy0203]

My ex girlfriend broke up with me last month and start dating her friend that she knew for 10years+. Is this consider a rebound? I know I should focus on the cause right now, I have been doing no contact for 3weeks now. What else can I do to win her back?

[@dedoodle1643]

Was it one?

[@thehannan121]

Any update?

[@craggyexplores3070]

U don't u give her the gift of your silence 4 ever

[@katiebennett6086]

I got my parents still but my stepfather had passed away 7 months ago wonderful videos for every one hav good day tomorrow

[@pauladirks899]

Do not and do not compare yourself to the new girl!

[@jennyfenty1210]

how are you doing

[@pauladirks899]

@@jennyfenty1210 beter than 5 days ago I feel better everyday and my ex hates it but it makes him get his feelings back for me I can see that and his new girl is nice but sees that there is something between me and her man

[@jennyfenty1210]

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[@jennyfenty1210]

@@pauladirks899 write him on Whatapp he can help you bring him back

[@jennyfenty1210]

@@pauladirks899 hello

[@froggy1285]

I dated my ex for a year, she broke up with me 2 months ago and has just started dating someone new. We attend the same school so I have to see them being happy and moving forward. It's like I don't exist anymore and I don't think it's a rebound

[@thehannan121]

Any update?

[@froggy1285]

@@thehannan121 they've been on and off for the last 4 months. Happy again now but in my face about it. Just trying to move on because I don't think she's ever coming back

[@unKnown-zc8fe]

Topic always sounds good, yet the emails you read never pertain to my situation lol

[@lawrencechatman2920]

You don't know who King & Country is??? I don't either!! LOL!

[@LonelyRider87]

Polyamorous breakups take this to a whole different level lol. That's OK I just want him to be happy with or without me. God bless him. God bless you too, Coach Craig 🙏 🙌 ❤️

[@wnt2kiss]

Your responses while reading this letter were the best! He's a complete pos!

[@johnysalinas2390]

I don’t know why the breakup that happened a month ago didn’t hurt so much but finding out she has another man hurts like a b*tch

[@seenzonetv8533]

This hurt like hell. This is me recently

[@TheWizard99705]

@@seenzonetv8533 shit who you telling been broken up for 4 months and she’s been trying to reach out since February. Found out about the other dude last week. After she asked to come see me and was with me. I was doing good but hearing it from my friends was gut wrenching

[@axlVino]

Worse is if you know 4 sure she is with someone else and hè is a common friend who i'v talked to i,Ve learned yesterday yesterday.im dying in grieve

[@yokoesthershandy]

My ex is dating someone for 3 months and they never had a fight or anything before. They meet at least once a week. Does that mean they are going last forever and get married?

[@carloscabrera5311]

yokoesthershandy Ng doubt it..

[@yokoesthershandy]

Things changed a lot over the last 3 weeks. He texted me saying that he can't decide whether or not he should stop contacting me. He told me that he doesn't want his girlfriend to be insecure, therefore thought of just "abandon" me for real..

[@NL-of9mb]

yokoesthershandy Ng sorry you have to go through this shit. My ex boyfriend broke up with me. 20days later, he posted a photo with a new girl eating ice cream on the beach where we went to everyday before. He almost killed me with this photo.

[@yokoesthershandy]

I'm sorry to hear that. I know how you feel. As for me, he's been very stable with his current girlfriend. They even took photos together and post it on facebook. Which he had never done with me before. At this point in time, I do hope miracle exist and bring us back together. Otherwise, I have to get ready myself to receive their wedding invitation within the next 1-2 years. (We still do talk and meet like friends do.)

[@NL-of9mb]

yokoesthershandy Ng if you really want to get him back, you shouldn't stay at the friend zone. I didn't talk ,see or text my ex more than one month. He constantly checks my Instagram. It seems like he is curious about my life. I only focus on myself right now and post great photos on social media. If he reaches out to me, I will be very happy. If not, I will move on.

[@FQ1998]

My ex is going out with her really close friend just after a long-distance breakup, Is it a rebound, she seems happy. please some feedback coach? I need you

[@jinglebells3659]

Craig you are such a nice guy, I wish I could find someone like you haha. I am used to being treated like the woman you described in this video, so this really made me realize I deserve better. It’s just hard to let go even though we’ve been broken up for 9 months now. I recently found out he’s dating someone else and I feel like he doesn’t want me to know, because he’s also been bread crumbing me this whole time

[@sanlaw584]

Is it a rebound if it was a work colleague he had known for a while?

[@jonathanmartins5673]

I’m going through my third breakup (always been the dumpee) they always start dating right away and, rebound or not, it always ends up being the love of their life. Pregnancy, wedding, all the stuff. So f*ck the rebound theory.

[@giorgospapadopoulos7709]

Maybe you do something that triggers this reaction. In any case, I don't bite the rebound theory either.

[@Nolaperu]

It's a band called King and Country, they're a christian band from Australia.

[@desmondjackson7383]

Hey I have questions I cheated on my ex she broke up with me and started dating someone else we didn’t talk for a couple of weeks now she is FaceTiming me and calling me now. We live in to different states and I have asked to come see her but she has no because she doesn’t think it’s a good idea because she doesn’t want to disrespect him. What should I do

[@yeahtbh.161]

you're an absolute idiot for cheating on her, leave her alone and stop being a cheat.

[@kerryla1974]

I’m new to this and I’m learning a lot from your videos. Me and my old lady has a kid together and I can’t see how we can do no contact.... I’ve been working on myself and is having a real hard time keeping my emotions from going crazy..... I am definitely got lots of anxiety while she is talking to someone else..... we are kinda still living together half of the time due to I can spend time with the kid..... I don’t believe she has slept with anyone else but I’m pretty sure she talking to someone else....... I know theirs nothing I can do about it after she dump me 2 months ago..... I’ve been trying to not pressure her in anyway due to the fact I don’t want to push her away.... I haven’t seen any of your videos on how to stay away with no contact with a couple that has a kid together. My question is if you could make a video on this subject that would be nice...... the only video I have seen that might even was close was the two lesbian couple with a adopted kid... For some background she has a lot of childhood trauma and after looking at my own childhood I can see neglect was part of mine. I’m not sure how and if I can deal with this.... I’m going to get your book and do the work...... I hope you can make a video so I can hopefully learn something from it and save my soul from this anxiety..... I’m going nuts.....

[@ladyd9346]

Your videos are amazing!!!

[@joeexinia7528]

I don’t think it’a going to help me!!! Because I can’t move on!!! I’ve tried

[@elijahgawatna7647]

Hi....having issues about your love life?..I'm giving you chance now to clear out those issue and get whosoever you want

[@elijahgawatna7647]

I recom mend you to (Dr. Abuya) he can make your ex come to you begg ing you for second cha nce, ever since he helped me, I have b een enjo ying a perfect relatio nship with more commi tment with my ex, I will adv ice you to seek his help..thanks 🙏🙏

[@elijahgawatna7647]

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[@buek14]

Craig, if this rebound has been going on for 2 months but you've been together with them for only 3 months, then why would this thing apply?

[@lilpat5754]

What do I do if it’s been only three weeks since the break up and she already changed her last name too his ? What do I do should I confront her ? Or just leave it alone please I need answers soon

[@kwf1]

Leave it alone, your going to make it worse for yourself. Let it fizzle out.

[@fishstyx9705]

I can't date a girl that blinks....ROFL I had to clean coffee off my tablet.

[@khan49337]

hi coach plz guide me i have been in relation with one girl we have very good relation but today she text me she has found some very special friend then i reply best of luck with you new friend then she said what about your feeling? i replied my feeling is positive then she asked my why? then i repleid emoji of laughing so i am very sad now please guide me what should i do to get her back i don't ack like needy she always try to initiate contact with me

[@granny377]

My husband left me after thirty years dropping me off at our daughtsrs hos new broad wrote me a pack of lies l ike she has the right to speak to me. He womt speak to !e i have no money no place to live im old and alone and no idea how to get those things

[@maybugz]

I hope you are feeling abit better now, what a tough situation you have been put in. Focus on looking after yourself and the basics in life, healthy eating, washing, dress tidily, get exercise, all these little things help. Your are lucky you have a daughter, you are not alone. I don't have children, maybe one day I will.

[@sethinaesther1970]

hi Craig. .have been in a relationship for 7 years..i cheated on my ex boyfriend and due to mistrust he ended the relationship..it's been 7 months now and he has been acting hot and cold with me.he had sex with me and told me he loved me but found out he was in a new relationship some hours after making love with him..he posts pics of her and they seem in love...is there a chance of us ever getting back..i still love him

[@darkman149]

I'm in this situation right now and she wanna be friends with me but after i told her..what you want me to fill the free time he can't communicate with you she said ok aslong you dont chat me you aint gonna hear from me and i said ok cool but on the otherside i'm afraid to lose her...what must i do

[@craggyexplores3070]

Block her

[@joeloconnor9070]

I feel like I got did over by the coaching I followed suggesting being friends and I also bought txt your ex back fortunately as soon as I read it I thought this seems very manipulative in total I spent about £300 on systems that seemed fake and manipulative. I'm going to sign up for an email coaching ASAP.

[@fruithat2756]

How was it did it help at all is he really good

[@chitownbob9714]

I enjoy listening to your videos, since you have a different perspective . The things I agree with is that the guy is garbage. He sounds like a player. That "we need to lose weight" means "you need to lose weight". That the associates degree was important, because its not for most men. Most men dont care how much women make unless they are narcissists and intend to leach off their SO. That a lot of the other relationship coaches are players, but that also makes them experts on women from a "field" perspective. They are useful to listen to also...but take with a grain of salt. Depending on their content, they may be referring strictly to low quality women, or to relationships on a superficial level. Regarding the breakup... I also bet that the new GF is the one talking engagement.....not him. Note that he was hinting about her losing weight, which was important to him (and most men) and she did not do it...so he found someone else, probably when visiting her (or new GF found him). Agree she made tactical errors. How did she know he "was engaged"? Why is she following him? Once he broke up she should have gone "no contact". "No contact" is an effective strategy. If you remain some fixture in their lives they do not get an opportunity to miss the things you bring to the table, and resent your presence. If there is an accidental contact or contact initiated by the SO, you are supposed to sound loose and easy and friendly...but terminate the contact fairly quickly...because you have somewhere you have to go. This is also important, since this shows you are not pining away, and have developed a potentially interesting activity. Overall, I think you have some great content . Keep up the good work!

[@cassandramitchell4830]

It’s also possible she was pregnant and had an early miscarriage. 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage and especially if she was under extreme duress

[@brepatterson7762]

Boyfriend ex he cheating dating someone else block you😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😭

[@dorky887]

I wrote my ex a letter, not hand written but in Word. Why is the letter a bad idea??

[@gravytrain416]

I'd love to see some content regarding long-term separations. 5 years or more. I can't afford your counseling; way above my pay grade. I certainly got into the wrong business, lol! I have a story you'd probably pay ME $324 for, lmao! Learned a few things from you, but wish I'd learned them sooner. Thanks....

[@DonaldMeyers-v8c]

Shit talking Craig is something that I didn't know I needed today! Lol. Thanks Craig! :)

[@siitiafiapai6452]

How long is the relationship will last for my ex after break up with me?

[@Mom2boys91]

There was a miscommunication about our Kids's schedule it was my fault. I said I was sorry that I messed up on my to part. There was multiple times he could of stop the conversation. At the end of the conversation he tells me he and our kids will be hanging out with a girl that he had perceivable told me was just a " friend." I told him I would pick up the kids if he plans it was not a big deal. Yes it hurts that he is seeing someone else it hurts more knowing he went out of his way to tell me he is doing it when I gave him the option to drop off the kids to my mom. He won't know how bad it hurt I'll act like nothing is wrong tomorrow when I see him.

[@purpmtns]

Is it considered a rebound if my ex bf started dating his female friend? It happened within about 2 wks and she had also just gotten out of a 7 year relationship. Could they possibly just be each other’s rebound??

[@zeinabalasady]

Update?