NATURAL HAIR SETBACKS AND HOW TO GET OVER THEM! | PowerInYourCurl

[@MsFlamingFlamer]

Procrastinating wash day is the story of my life

[@DoZashand]

"Skipping deep conditioning is a sin" -PIYC THANK YOU for making this requested video! You are so kind to share your experiences; it helps newcomers and veterans in natural haircare in many ways! Oh yea, I picked up my bottle of Manetabolism Plus this week and already see an improvement in my nails. And lol @ ACTIN A DAMN FOOL because that's what all freshmen do! :)

[@PowerInYourCurl]

+Ash An Yay!! I'm happy it helped and ooo good luck with your hair vitamins... Yeah that freshman life is tew much 😂

[@goldenj1981]

My setbacks came from trying new products. I'm going back to Shea Moisture, my hair thrived with those products.

[@PowerInYourCurl]

+goldenj1981 That's good! The saying" if it ain't broke, don't fix it" is so true with haircare.

[@Hannah-zw9ow]

goldenj1981 agreed! Shea moisture has SAVED my hair, I'm scared to even try anything else 😂

[@magou_0128]

goldenj1981 I was thinking of trying shea moisture but I'm gonna wait til I go to USA to buy it cuz that thing cost 18 dollars(if you convert it) where I live😂

[@josephj4097]

That's my problem as well. Trying new products and not using them often to see if they worked or not. Also, my hair gets weighed down easily with products and I remember when I first went natural I used the original SM raw shea butter shampoo and conditioner and I that had my hair growing fast but I stop using it trying to see what works.

[@yolandagaglio1641]

I just bought some Shea Moisture today. Can't wait to try. Oh I purchased at Bed, Bath & Beyond. Because I purchased $30 or more, I was given $10 gift card for Bed, Bath & Beyond! So that was a nice surprise.

[@cassieDPh]

Each of the set backs you have mentioned are areas of aggravation I am currently dealing with, especially the crown and bra strap length hair. I JUST cut off two inches, which irritated me to no end! I've pretty much came to the same conclusion as you, so I appreciate your video. It encourages me to stay faithful with my care, because my goals are attainable.

[@ChadelMathurin]

Consistency is definitely key!

[@tatiguzman8459]

That Africa necklace is beautiful 😍

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Thank you!

[@Hannah-zw9ow]

Girl the crown problem is REAL 😫 the whole back of my head growing out from my crown is always frizzy and won't curl like the rest no matter how hard I try, I couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong! I'll definitely try focusing more moisture on that area!!

[@VyalaBloom]

Try to do more protein treatments on that part of your hair as well! that part of your hair actually tends to be a higher porosity than the rest of your hair.

[@kabbyhearts]

Deep conditioning once a week pretty much saved my life. And using Cantu damage repair leave in twice a week pretty much gave me my hair back.

[@PowerInYourCurl]

That is awesome! Glad to hear you were able to nurse your hair back to health.

[@tracibrown5872]

Your video was the first 1 I saw 6 or 7 years ago when I went natural. Today I just binged on all your videos wat hing them for the 3rd time to get my hair back on track. Your hair is my hair & my daughter's hair from my fairy knots, to the Cherry Lola treatment. I love your channel and thank you for saving my hair

[@autumnsbounty1]

Yes! Finally a natural hair video that is encouraging for those of us that have had set backs in growing our hair past a certain length. I’ve had the exact same issues you have had with your hair , with the exception of thinning edges. Keep up the the informative and positive videos!

[@cypofwater8302]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE WHAT YOU HAVE SHARED! You have helped me as you described how you noticed you had to keep getting your ends trimmed to bra strap length after growth. I USED TO get tired of people saying my hair is long AND PRETTY BUT it isn't long to me bcz, I have been at bra strap for most of my life. I had to learn to love what I have and not take it for granted. I just wanted to get at least 5 inches. I also noticed that my ends start to break and split around 2 to 3 months. I too tried to go past 3 months and had to get more cut back to bra strap length. 😫 You just don't know how you have helped me realize that I need to trim every 2 to three months. I can't do what others do by not getting a trim for 6 to 12 months at a time. It doesn't work for me. I was SOOO relieved When you shared how YOU noticed at 3 months you needed a trim. Your timing of posting this video couldn't have come at a GREAT TIME! You have blessed me more than I can express!! WOW! I can see the light now. As soon as I see a knot, I recognize it IS time to trim. It is around 2 1/2 to 3 months... but as a dusting process,... I don't trim a lot at all. Just a tiny tiny teeny amount. GOD BLESS YOU!!!! 🤗

[@PSGirl23]

The crown area can also become excessively dry because we tend to stand under the showerhead exposing that area of the hair and scalp to the warm/hot water! Mine is the same way

[@sheereenbrown4551]

love your videos! we have identical curl patterns (including that tricky crown). you've inspired me to use less heat and follow your methods. thank you!

[@diomelita]

Love your channel 💖 you're so detailed and genuine 💖

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Thank you so much 💞

[@josephj4097]

Please give us more info on hair hurdles and tips. Thx.

[@teachable2838]

Thank you so much for making this video, it really helps; knowing it's not always a smooth transition. Love your sincerity, it shines through.

[@joshuareynard4251]

love you sis your doing a wonderful job!! I've been tuning in to every update lol

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Thank you Josh!!

[@breakingdawn_dawna]

I swear every time I watch one of your videos you answer a question I have. I have fine, low porosity hair and experience a lot of the same issues you talk about!! Keep sharing! 😊

[@lorinewberry9516]

Thank you for this video!! Ive been going through the same things you have been. You really confirmed my hair hurdles.. Yes please make more videos on this topic!!

[@PowerInYourCurl]

I am glad I could help!

[@lornabrooks4484]

Omg what you said about the sun exposure on the crown is so true I thank god I found this because I really couldn't figure it out thank you 😊

[@hanajoy17]

Thanks for talking about your struggles, its good to know that there will be bumps on the road to waistlength. As long as you learn from them and adjust we can make it like you 😁

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Even better, you can make it like YOU 💗 No one's path to success is a straight line, it's a zig zag mess with highs and lows ☺️

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

I just went to Sally's to buy a big tub of my old hair mask from One n' Only Argan Oil. I was bamboozled into buying the wrong product and am now going back to the products which helped my hair stay thick, moisturized, and growing.

[@creejames4616]

I loveeee this hair style and fresh face look! And all ya necklaces? Yassssss. Great video

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Haha! Thank you Cree!

[@ChadelMathurin]

I'm so with you! I'm the poster child for deep conditioning! It changes hair life! lol... Love this video- super relatable. I'm going to have to do a version!

[@Brownie8986]

Another great video!! I have my own hurdles to jump (mostly my urge to cut which is ironic because I hated scissor happy stylists which prompted me to start doing my hair at home) but now that I'm fully committed to letting it grow I will definitely be keeping your tips in mind.👍👍 And I forgot to thank you too for mentioning that hair journal app you downloaded. 💖I'm a bit ocd myself so I find that so helpful! Thanks again. You look beautiful as always. Until next time..take care! 😊

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Aww thank you so much! I am glad that you are enjoying the Hair Journal App and good luck on your hair hurdles!! You will conquer them! 😊❤️

[@IsiTheGooseGirl17]

Regarding the crown: In my case, my crown is the area with the highest porosity and is most prone to dryness and breakage. It is also the area where my hair is the most dense. Because of that, in the shower I often worried that when I washed my hair that I'd "miss a spot" at my crown and not get it clean enough. Going overboard with the shampoo was probably what led to my crown issues. At one point, I even got a Komaza hair analysis and they were the ones who warned me about shampooing that spot too much.

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Oh wow! That’s really interesting and it’s great that you have been able to pinpoint the problem and address the issue in your regimen. Thank you for sharing, you may have just helped someone else going through the same thing.

[@salmahassan6809]

love the video. Would love more hurdles that you faced. The issue about trimming really opened my eyes!

[@1allthingscurly]

One of the new subbies you mentioned! Hey! Thanks so much for this info. I really needed to hear about the crown issue. I've never even heard anyone else mention this! Thanks!

[@Stephaniealicianaturalhair]

Yes, there are some setbacks. I talk about them in some of my videos. I have been natural for almost 10 years and would not change it and I talked a little about this on my channel. Thanks for your perspective.

[@markitachatman5018]

I am currently having almost all the same setbacks with my hair!

[@PowerInYourCurl]

I am sorry to hear that!! You will get through them though, don't be discouraged 💕

[@jennifereffinger2873]

Thanks for the tips about the crown area!!! This is what made me want to subscribe to your channel. That part of the hair is so hard to take care of. I will be taking your advice and using that tip.♡♡♡

[@stephanieladyb7917]

I'm so glad I began following, thank you for sharing your struggles. I can so relate to the frizzy root topic. I plan to definitely try your tips on the crown side part.

[@PowerInYourCurl]

You are welcome and I hope they work!

[@mwebba1]

Hey boo! I love what you are doing! This is Maria - I was Tip's maid of honor. You are beautiful and so is your hair.

[@carolW54]

My crown was always the driest and my hair will mat up easily. That's why I don't do wash & go's ! You and I have a similar grade of hair. I have just learned to be more gentle, and not rush thru it. I dust my own ends when it gets harder to comb out. The main thing I have had issues with is finding the right products. But I finally found Mielle Organics !! Thank you !

[@amarige25]

Girl, my crown is my issue too. Thank u. You gave me some great tips.

[@abbykimz]

Is there a room tour video; I love your headboard. Do you mind telling me where u got it from?

[@PowerInYourCurl]

No, not yet. I may do an apartment tour though. I got my headboard from Wayfair.

[@ellisarhoades2988]

What products do you use for deep conditioning and moisturizing your hair!? Also, I'm an athlete and sweat a lot so I currently keep my hair in a weave to protect it as much as possible until I'm no longer active! Any tips as far as how to have a sew in but to protect your hair so that it can continue to grow in the process!?

[@PowerInYourCurl]

My video "9 Days of Moisture | A Week In My Hair" shows all of my favorite products for moisture and my favorite deep conditioner ☺️ Also, I have never had a sew-in but I would think moisturizing your hair underneath the weave is really important so that it does not get dry and brittle and cause breakage during the take-down process. You could use a spray leave in on your hair underneath (Mielle Organics White Peony Leave In OR Oyin Jucies & Berries Leave In) and then seal that moisture in with an oil applied from an applicator bottle. Just be sure to let your real hair fully dry after applying the moisturizing products so that it does not get mildewy underneath the extensions. I hope this helps!

[@princesspc]

In my boarding school, particularly the hostel I stay in, we have multiple people in the showers at the same time in separate cubicles but girls are always walking around naked. But it wasn't as bad as the time I went on a field trip at school when I was 15 where there were 7 girls in the shower at once to save time, as in in the same cubicle.

[@sameerasalah2006]

May be i have to moisturizing more on my crown area 🤔🤔🤔and i have to change the parting too🤔bcoz it gets so much dry...and am not even go out to the ☀️ bcoz am wearing hijab when i go out🤔thank you so much for the tips

[@PowerInYourCurl]

You are so welcome!

[@maryamyusuf660]

same here

[@sameerasalah2006]

Maryam Yusuf asalaam aleykuom warahmatullah Wa barakatuh ❤️❤️

[@NeliaBedilia]

Can you do a vid on your room setup? It's always so cute in your vids! 🤗

[@lakeiramoses98]

Clarifying regimen video . would love to see your regimen for that

[@msmishLA]

Where did you get the charm on your necklace? Been looking for it ever since I saw one on fro girl jenny. I love those ❤️

[@PowerInYourCurl]

I have my Africa necklace linked above in the description box! ☺️

[@sophiawishes3208]

Great video girl! I've been trying to figure out the trimming process I used to do it once a year and my stylist would trim off so much and then recently I was told to do it every 6 months to retain length but I think I'm going to try every 4 months just to see if it makes a difference because my hair grows but it breaks

[@PowerInYourCurl]

4 months sounds like a good amount of time! I really hope that works for your hair 😊

[@9672justemor]

Hello, I am straight natural. I know you mostly where your hair curly, but can you please give advice or do a video about a healthy regimen for straight natural hair, what products to use for moisture etc. Also how often to straighten each month

[@9672justemor]

Sorry I meant wear

[@demetrabetterson4886]

This helps me alot ! Thank you😄

[@queenali91]

I'm pretty much stuck at bra strap length like you were. For the life of me I can't pass it lol. I actually got a hair cut today, so I went back to right below shoulder length from bra strap. ugh. The stylist said my hair was weak and I'm behind on my trims. I'm not sure I needed so much cut, but I'm trying not too overthink it lol. I think I need to up my trims too. The stylist said every 8-10 weeks, so I'll try the every 3 months and see how that goes. I have fine hair so I can look at my hair wrong and it'll thin out lmao. Thanks for the tips!

[@fattysl26]

Alisya Edwards Make sure your moisturising during the week (as in applying leave in conditioner) and try using a protein conditioner. I was having similar issues and my hair is so much better.

[@queenali91]

I definitely will. I usually spritz with water then apply oil but I'll try the leave in instead! Is there a protein conditioner you'd recommend?

[@queenali91]

I was wondering, do you get your hair straightened every time to get it trimmed?

[@SincerelyLeshawn]

My setback was from me getting my hair straighten out but it's growing back out great! And I'm looking forward to seeing results with my new favorite protective hairstyle 💙💜 💛💚

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

Detangling video would good or how often you protein treat your hair would be good videos.

[@marina9192]

I'm suffering the same thing so I feel for you, by the way I have wavy hair but still hard to deal with.

[@lashandasurgeon7924]

Hello i just wanted u to know that I'm a new subscriber and I look forward to following you even tho you've achieved your goal length. Your hair is beautiful btw. But I have relaxed hair. Do u think I can achieve maximum hair growth with a relaxer? And also do you know any good relaxers and products I can use?

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Thank you so much! I do not know of any good relaxers but some great brands that have products you may like are Mielle Organics, Kera Care and Design Essentials. I haven't had a relaxer in a while so I am not sure about specific products. Also, your question about reaching your maximum growth is personal to you. For me personally, I feel that for my hair will not achieve its maximum health while being exposed to chemicals and if my hair isn't at its healthiest, it won't grow to its full potential.

[@MyeshaB]

Can you do a complete wash day routine video? I'd like to know what are your fav shampoos, co wash, and conditioners as well. Thank you🙋🏾

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Yes I can! I want to get a full wash day routine posted for you guys this month.

[@MyeshaB]

PowerInYourCurl thank you kindly !

[@9672justemor]

Do you have a hair journey video with pics

[@lastarrwicks3067]

OMG,,,my major setback was I dyed my own hair and ended up having to cut 3-6 inches off and completely shave the crown (wow) that was last year..Today the crown is about 6 inches while my other strands are about 8-10 inches..Nothing is even on this head..lol ( because I trimmed everything except my crown throughout the year) I will NEVER dye my hair again it was a lesson learned...and I can laugh about it today...I didnt even tell my husband about it for about 8 months I just wore buns or styles that covered the middle...lol..thanks for sharing because its also educating others

[@jduclervil]

Can you do more hair style videos, please .

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Sure! What would you like to see specifically?

[@jduclervil]

PowerInYourCurl up-dos please. Some styles that can hide your ends. I've been doing a bun and I'm just tired of it but can't think of other styles to do. Thank You!

[@blessednbeautiful1]

Can you do some hairstyle that are away from the face but without a lot of tension on the hairline. I love ponytails and my hair off my face most of the time. I do wear curly bangs.. thanks.

[@Kenken77733]

How do you trim your ends? Do you go get your hair press every 3 months or you trim your hair yourself ?

[@PowerInYourCurl]

I trim my hair in twists every 3 months and just try my best to keep it even. I will have a video on this up on my channel soon.

[@rachelsakyi5436]

I have the Same problem with My crown. It's the shortest and I feel is Always brittle/ dry.

[@mel...s]

Please do a detailed trim video

[@PowerInYourCurl]

I will be doing one soon.

[@ShadowStarlight]

My only set back was heat damage.

[@PowerInYourCurl]

That is awesome that you only had to deal with one 😊

[@Lafilledlapluie]

Deep conditioning only once a month ruined my hair SMH and blow drying and iron deficiency anemia. Wasn't just the crown that broke off but so did my front. I'm on a new hair journey

[@fattysl26]

Wazakauye Zulu We live and learn! It took me 4 years to realise that spritzing my hair mid week wasn't cutting it. Hair was breaking all over the place smh 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@Angrymobs62]

I'm still in the hair hurdles stage but it's bra strap length

[@vickykimball6385]

Serious dry scalp issues no matter how much oil I put in my hair which is cut really low to the scalp. I don't want long hair just healthy hair. If I scratch my head the blizzard is blinding. Any suggestions? I have tried argon oil, coconut oil and vitamin e oil to no avail. I suck it up and it goes dry less than a half a day. Help!! 🙏🙏😢😢

[@Estiexo]

Do you cowash your hair with conditioner? or use a lot of product?

[@fattysl26]

Vicky Kimball Sounds like oil is the problem. I saw a trichologist and they said you shouldn't put oil on your scalp. Product build up can make it itchy with the oil. Make sure you cowash/shampoo your hair on a regular basis, at least once a week. I used to have itchy scalp with oils and since I stopped using them my scalp has been fine.

[@jennywiththefur]

make sure you wash & massage your scalp with a lathering shampoo and go in deep with your fingertips (I suggest switching between a sulfate one and a a sulfate free one every other week) + use the sulfur 8 balm on every wash day. sprits/moisturise your scalp/hair daily with water and massage with olive oil afterwards. you could use the sulfur 8 daily too instead of the oil

[@fannydiallo6189]

Vicky Kimball I have the same issues. I've tried a lot of oils to get rid of my itchy scalp but it didn't work. So now I start using hair grease, BlueMagic and I feel better

[@vikikimball52vk1]

Estie P not at all

[@TriniGirlNatural]

Nice video

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Thank you!

[@wandakattmckinney9609]

hello PIYC i am new to your channel and i like what i see, sorry about your Deva curl experience i will stay tuned

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Hi!! Thank you for sticking around. If there is anything you would like to see in particular, just let me know 💕

[@CallMeLala224]

Can you do a Video on Detangling your hair

[@PowerInYourCurl]

I just filmed on last night 😊 It should be up soon.

[@lornabrooks4484]

I know your not relax but I would love to know your thoughts on them ! ?

[@9672justemor]

Sorry I meant wear

[@AkidaMann]

I asked Ben to help me upload a video to KZbin. Imagine how that went. Lol "I just blurted out I miss Kenya. She would help me!"

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Hahaha! I miss you too! Did you end up getting the video uploaded?

[@niahm3339]

Yay

[@Melodious0615]

You named so many things I do ....😶😑🤭lol 😬 and then I wanna have waist length hair ..... shame on me

[@princessminatonamikaze1965]

Your are so beautiful

[@PowerInYourCurl]

Thank you

[@mel...s]

pictures would elevate this video

[@PowerInYourCurl]

I know! I wish I had more but I just didn't take pictures of some of the things I spoke about in this video.