On Creating An Attachment-Friendly Environment In Your Relationships | How To Improve Relationships

The emotional atmosphere in relationships of all kinds, friend groups and families can be very different. It be of a kind that contributes to people feeling worried, anxious and / or depressed, or it can be supportive and encouraging. In this video, you'll learn where this difference comes from and how you can influence it into a positive direction!
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00:00 Introduction
00:35 What "Attachment-Friendly" Means
01:22 Attachment-Unfriendly Environments
01:59 Why This Matters & Affects Us
04:12 What We Fear & How We Cope Dysfunctionally
05:32 Start Working On This
06:04 Examples For Attachment Needs Behind Behavior
06:49 Learn To Hear Attachment Needs Between The Lines
08:02 Attachment-Friendly Language
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[@yumildarodriguez1175]

Excellent!

[@M-xlz3]

Hi Dr. Maika, I’m a fairly new subscriber of yours. I’m a mid-30s male. For as long as I can remember I’ve been interested in reading about human behavior more so as a hobby, and so recently I discovered attachment styles and emotional regulation, both of which have been incredibly life changing for me. These topics are absolutely fascinating topic to me! Thank you so much for putting this content out there and educating everyone! It’s-what you’re doing with this channel of yours-needed and appreciated! Please keep up the phenomenal work!

[@DrMaikaSteinborn]

Welcome to the channel! 🙋‍♀️☀️ I’m glad you’re finding value in my content ☺️🙏🏻

[@PaigeSquared]

Read Terry Real's work if you haven't yet! It is so interesting how he discusses the current social environment and the changing norms men find themselves navigating. Women are changing their roles, yes, but men are too!!

[@M-xlz3]

@@PaigeSquared Thank you for the suggestion, Paige! I’ll check it out. It sounds very interesting-the kind of book I would read. I always love and appreciate a good book recommendation!

[@axellemaire6101]

@@DrMaikaSteinborn Hi Dr Maika. Could you make a video on stopping your Savior Complex? Not much information available online - would be really helpful. Thank you!

[@a.d.b535]

Great video. Thanks!

[@axellemaire6101]

Hi Dr Maika. Could you make a video on stopping your Savior Complex? Not much information available online - would be really helpful. Thank you!

[@DrMaikaSteinborn]

Hi! I've noted it down 🙋

[@annisaaa657]

thank you, I really needed this video ❤

[@PaigeSquared]

This is so important. Can you make a shorter version for those who are more avoidantly attached? I dont know what could possibly be taken out, but perhaps this one could be clipped? I don't think someone who pretends to not care about their attachments would be willing to click on a video on a subject like this, that is any longer than five minutes. Five minutes, i can ask someone to humor me for five minutes.

[@DrMaikaSteinborn]

I'm glad this video resonated with you and that you're thinking of people you'd like to share it with that might get something from it... Perhaps they can watch it in a faster speed, if they're not willing to watch the whole of it in regular speed? (You can speed it up in the settings on KZbin in the right hand corner of the video.) Clipping and reuploading is a lot of work which I unfortunately don't have the time for these days... Also, it could be I end up cutting the parts you liked best 🙈

[@jonsayler3317]

Dr. Maika, Do you have a website or schedule one on one appointments sessions via the web? Thanks

[@DrMaikaSteinborn]

Yes, I do - www.maikasteinborn.com or write to info[at]maikasteinborn.com 🙋‍♀️

[@yumildarodriguez1175]

Do you do single therapy?