I Gave Birth in Prison at 18 as a Drug Addict | Can Ask Meh?

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@cnaizhen
@cnaizhen 6 ай бұрын
Off topic here, but i'm impressed by how well this lady articulates considering that her education had been affected by the environment she is in when she's young.
@kennethgimpayan3418
@kennethgimpayan3418 3 ай бұрын
i know rightt???
@The-lf8db
@The-lf8db 6 ай бұрын
Such calm and well spoken mother and son..
@20pointer
@20pointer 6 ай бұрын
ya they gone through alot to be so calm now
@karebu2
@karebu2 6 ай бұрын
I wouldn't say well spoken tbh.
@cicileigh393
@cicileigh393 5 ай бұрын
It's their culture...
@jotk9440
@jotk9440 2 ай бұрын
You can see a highly intelligent person. Great interview.
@withaswayyo
@withaswayyo 6 ай бұрын
She’s a survivor. She didn’t label herself as a victim of circumstances. She moved on for her son and for herself. With this set in her mind, she managed to have a second life with her very adorable son. Congrats!
@ProjectElf
@ProjectElf 6 ай бұрын
its great that the son isnt ashamed that he is a prison baby. some ppl might think that its smtg they would rather others not know but he is so brave to admit it!
@sintiayuliani9123
@sintiayuliani9123 6 ай бұрын
THANK GOODNESS IT WAS OUT OF STOCK... thank you OGS for sharing her story.
@eddiensw
@eddiensw 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Hannah for sharing with us your struggles and how you journeyed thru. most of us would never understand the pain of bearing your baby in prison. You are a good mother...you just had to face many demons in your teenage years that led to wrong choices..you have paid your dues and moved on. Thank you for encouraging us that we can start again in life. Lewayne..you are a great son to a good mother and you will have a great future.
@victorvictor4235
@victorvictor4235 6 ай бұрын
She sounded so calm. It’s hard to know that she went through so much.
@zero_seven1237
@zero_seven1237 6 ай бұрын
they share such a healthy relationship! the mother is very open and well spoken about her experiences which really makes me admire her bravery, the fact that she was strict with herself and her son so that her son will lead a normal life is very responsible of her. i’m genuinely so glad to see that her son is able to be mature about the circumstance at a young age and open to share this cool fact during orientation (really showing how his environment is very nice too!), very nice relationship and communication between them and definitely a very healthy family!
@elou.bunbun
@elou.bunbun 6 ай бұрын
the emotional intelligence of this mother and son is incredible, and i love that they communicate openly and care for each other so much. they cherish each other immensely. while Hannah overcame these great challenges through love and willpower, we shouldn't congratulate ourselves by saying Singapore's system of handling drug addiction is flawless. this story shows us that singapore's prison system needs to orient itself toward rehabilitation and care especially for young offenders in precarious situations. that way, perhaps, it won't take a miracle to break out of the vicious cycle, but instead, breaking addicts out of the vicious cycle should be the goal for the institutions that handle them.
@elou.bunbun
@elou.bunbun 6 ай бұрын
side note: her makeup is flawless
@jgfishz1zz1
@jgfishz1zz1 6 ай бұрын
Hopefully she is not judged for her past, She seems well spoken and very mature.
@RonLarhz
@RonLarhz 6 ай бұрын
We also don't know how they r like IRL. We only see this video.
@schadenfreude6274
@schadenfreude6274 4 ай бұрын
Hahaha she's the same as my mother, go outside sleep with many men. Till today I dunno who is my real father. 😂😂😂
@yanyuet
@yanyuet 6 ай бұрын
Such a mature boy, speaks about her parenting
@msshopaholic21
@msshopaholic21 6 ай бұрын
She’s so brave to acknowledge her life experience and learning from it even overcoming her addiction. That’s the most amazing thing and so proud of her. Having a child is beautiful but being away is the toughest and it’s a god send turning point. So so proud of you
@qiaoxinteh163
@qiaoxinteh163 6 ай бұрын
Super mature son, shows alot about the mum. Random stranger but I’m proud of you mum!! It really isn’t easy, hope they can do a part 2 about her work with the halfway house women
@crablrone
@crablrone 6 ай бұрын
this is a great example where background doesnt define what you are but you are what you want. Despite being raised in a difficult situation, both mother and son could be also be a well spoken person. And thankfully the drug was out of stock and the mother did not undergo abortion but choose to have the baby. I mean there are people who had abortion and went back to their old life once they are out from prison. Thank you OGS for this episode!
@stephanieallangarman5598
@stephanieallangarman5598 6 ай бұрын
I appreciate her honesty and openness about her choices and how she overcame it all. The choices we make can make our lives so difficult but sometimes it’s when we get the end of ourselves than we finally take steps to improve our lives.. I’m happy she decided to change and now has a new life with her son. Praying 🙏🏽 that they both decide to stay strong together.
@rmn4
@rmn4 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for being willing to be so open and vulnerable with us. Definitely helped many of us to be more compassionate
@huiyingtanyayap
@huiyingtanyayap 6 ай бұрын
She is so brave .
@ivanteo1973
@ivanteo1973 6 ай бұрын
Hannah i so chill and cool. it's a sign of overcoming all odds and responsibility within her. She is a good mum.
@RebeccaEWebber
@RebeccaEWebber 6 ай бұрын
Seeing that Hannah made it out makes me so happy. My older sister had similar struggles and was pregnant at 18, but didn't get herself out for many years later. I was 9 at the time. Our dad and I raised her oldest son but she had several more kids after him. The rest were also adopted.
@MaverickEchoJuliet
@MaverickEchoJuliet 6 ай бұрын
She is a lovely woman and I pray that she finds happiness and contentment in her current and future life. The son appears to be a well brought up and decent chap too. All the best to both of 'em !🥰
@amememelia
@amememelia 6 ай бұрын
❤ couldn’t hold back my tears when he said he’s proud of his mom :)
@Ramy-ql3tr
@Ramy-ql3tr 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for telling us about the other severe health issues with drug abuse. You and your son have courage to talk about your past to the public.
@LadySymphora
@LadySymphora 6 ай бұрын
I do hope they treat the women in labour with care. It’s so hard for them to go through it alone….
@tareginda
@tareginda 6 ай бұрын
How can let pregnant woman go hungry...
@GT-rf7uf
@GT-rf7uf 6 ай бұрын
Beautiful testimony Hannah and son !! God is good to you and your family!
@pringlesine
@pringlesine 6 ай бұрын
Looking at the son’s personality, he definitely is a blessing to the mother. I wonder how a happy baby he must be
@syph365
@syph365 6 ай бұрын
This is why Singapore's zero tolerance towards drugs is so important. Drug abuse affects not just the addict but the people around them too, even generations beyond. Once the problem takes root in society it is very hard to eliminate it. Just look at the western countries.
@noname-kh3fz
@noname-kh3fz 6 ай бұрын
That's not totally true, not all drugs are equally harmful, and it also depends on whether people are able to use drugs responsibly. This woman has clearly abused drugs heavily in large amounts and even mixed different drugs at the same time. If other vices like alcohol abuse are socially accepted and not illegal, then I don't see why certain substances which are less harmful than alcohol are not allowed.
@libiskit
@libiskit 6 ай бұрын
alcohol to some extent is made expensive in Singapore and largely is not as addictive to the population. For drugs the problem its harder to quit. So maybe you have control but for most entry users they don't.
@noname-kh3fz
@noname-kh3fz 6 ай бұрын
@@libiskit What makes you think that alcohol is less addictive than other drugs, that is a misconception. The legality of a substance doesn't necessarily correlate with its potential harms.
@libiskit
@libiskit 6 ай бұрын
@noname-kh3fz I'm pretty sure it doesn't destroy ppl and families to the same extent that drugs do. Anyway you compare the stats between serious offences related to alcohol vs drugs I'm sure drugs will have a larger number. Anyway I got kids so I'm not apologetic on my position, you want drugs go to a country that has them. You want to argue theory on freedom go another country and live there. Most of these drug supporters just talk theory and cite one or two good examples to support the point, conveniently leaving out all the negative examples.
@libiskit
@libiskit 6 ай бұрын
@noname-kh3fz also you should go and understand country by country why they legalised drugs and if it worked, why so, usually its because it was already rampant like Portugal. But in our case, its not, so why legalise it , increase our user base, tax our health care system massively due to ODs and streets become unsafe like vancouver. So let's not be selfish for a few stupid ideals but look at other examples and weigh the cost benefits for ourselves carefully
@lydiat5819
@lydiat5819 6 ай бұрын
Thank you, Hannah, for sharing your story. You went through a lot from an innocent age and came out a wonderwoman ... BRAVO BRAVO BRAVO.
@slaverian87
@slaverian87 6 ай бұрын
such a good family! so proud of the mother and son! thanks for sharing your story!!! LIKES!!! 😇😇😇
@lydiat5819
@lydiat5819 6 ай бұрын
Girls, if you are pregnant at a young age, you may feel afraid but years later, you will realize that you are rewarded with a wonderful being called your daughter/son. It really is a blessing, though it is hard in the initial years. Look at them now, such a wonderful son-mother team taking care of each other.
@daphneteo9206
@daphneteo9206 6 ай бұрын
It's really amazing and wonderful how tight the bond is between mommy and her son. He is one of the main factors for her to change for a better future for both of them. She has made so many sacrifices and work really hard to be where she is today. She's an inspiration to many others including her precious boy. It's ok to fall but never ever give up. And getting sober for good is possible. Thank you for such wonderful sharing. 🙏🙏
@sebastiank9175
@sebastiank9175 6 ай бұрын
the past is history let it go, you are a beautiful woman of courage and faith, and you have such a understanding and good son, you definitely deserved a second chance and happiness.
@Lily-mf7zn
@Lily-mf7zn 6 ай бұрын
I personally think addiction is neither a disease or a moral issue. People either try drugs out of curiosity or seeking some form of solace.
@dodo-nz6xt
@dodo-nz6xt 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. You are very brave. As a mother with a son, I can’t imagine how u went through the pregnancy and after birth in prison. That just made me cried.
@bekindbehonest588
@bekindbehonest588 6 ай бұрын
This beautiful soul gave me hope that one day my first born daughter will fine her way in life again and leave her addiction, life behind and start over. I stumble upon this channel and I felt like it was for a reason. 😊❤
@pinewood4048
@pinewood4048 6 ай бұрын
Respect! Not all who went prison are bad people … it’s about what they do in the end … Now this mother become so beautiful! The som who accept this is also another good man !
@ohitsdarren
@ohitsdarren 6 ай бұрын
So proud of her, coming such a long way and raised her son so well! 🥹
@pristymo
@pristymo 6 ай бұрын
Such a courageous interview. Bravo to mum and son
@raosei6496
@raosei6496 6 ай бұрын
Eh, I would think that pregnant prisoners would be treated better even if just for the sake of the baby's health. The long intervals between meals honestly sound concerning since they should be eating more regularly for the baby to come out healthy...
@cnaizhen
@cnaizhen 6 ай бұрын
Depends on how you see it. From a humanitarian point of view, pregnant women should be treated better. But on the flip side of the coin, one can argue that it is not "fair" to other prisoners, or that being pregnant doesn't excuse one from receiving the due punishment. My guess is that the approach taken then was to give the bare minimum support to the pregnancy. And it does sound that the circumstances have improved based on what this lady implied in her word.
@joharold8977
@joharold8977 5 ай бұрын
Your past doesn't define you.. you've made a good comeback, and that is all that matters.
@viviankwan1101
@viviankwan1101 6 ай бұрын
A very tough journey… Thank you, Hannah for sharing your life story and I applaud your bravery for doing so 👏👏👏👏👏 This will definitely give hope to others in similar circumstances. My sincere best wishes to you and your family 🙏
@Hermit-Crab
@Hermit-Crab 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm very moved and encouraged by what you have been through and what you have become today. All the best to you and your son.
@noname-kh3fz
@noname-kh3fz 6 ай бұрын
Portugal has supported drug decriminalization for more than a decade. What they have discovered since they made this effort is that not only do addiction rates to the once illegal drugs go down, but so do the substance abuse rates. Because those that do have addiction or substance abuse issues are not jailed, but treated, the costs of treatment are typically lower and there are higher rates of recovery.
@noname-kh3fz
@noname-kh3fz 6 ай бұрын
The law is causing her more harm than from the drugs itself. The government needs to look into the psychology behind drug consumption and see what drives this behavior instead of criminalizing it so harshly.
@faithyap8003
@faithyap8003 4 ай бұрын
Agree!!
@freddyng1843
@freddyng1843 6 ай бұрын
Taking charge of your predicament and changing for the better is not something everyone is able to do, so well done Hannah!
@andrea9797mdd
@andrea9797mdd 6 ай бұрын
Such a moving sharing. Wishing you and your son nothing but the best!
@sharayutravels
@sharayutravels 6 ай бұрын
I think empathy matters. We forget everyone deals with things differently and nay or may not have support. Kudos to the lady and her son.
@brandon_den
@brandon_den 6 ай бұрын
Addiction is a disease, it is not a moral issue. The sooner the government of Singapore sees it as such, and considers ways to treat addiction, will the issue of addiction be better addressed instead of simply relying on the threat of imprisonment and death penalty, which does not effectively address the root causes of addiction.
@Pvet91
@Pvet91 6 ай бұрын
Singapore treats drug addicts very differently from drug traffickers. Drug addicts have lighter sentence(in comparison to traffickers), rehabilitation choices for addicts BEFORE they get caught with drugs, Singapore prison also gives millions to non profit organizations who help drug addicts quit. Drug traffickers are the ones who faces death.
@lindc1070
@lindc1070 6 ай бұрын
There is plenty of support for those who wanted to get treated .But we cant afford to tolerate those who dont want to change. They are a danger to society as they commit crimes to feed their addiction.
@beanoyip06
@beanoyip06 6 ай бұрын
You mean like having safe injection rooms in Australia? Was the addiction to drugs in Australia solved? No, because the justice system isn’t tough on them.
@FelonMusk2021
@FelonMusk2021 6 ай бұрын
Easy, don't try it in the first place then there is no addiction. Full support for zero drug tolerance.
@leavmealonee_
@leavmealonee_ 6 ай бұрын
i first encountered her story in an article by salt&light. honestly praise the lord for his intervention in hannah's life. may god continue to bless her and her family :)
@annabelletan7323
@annabelletan7323 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your life experience and also for the things you do to help people who are coping with their lives.
@dannyjow8283
@dannyjow8283 4 ай бұрын
I respect you, Hannah! You are truly blessed to have a thoughtful and a sensible son because you are now a blessing to many 👏
@EGWL93
@EGWL93 6 ай бұрын
The no nonsense of drug laws in Singapore does help a lot to prevent druggies walking on streets, but often seasoned drug addicts will always falls back to old habits. Luckily for Hannah, her son change her way and now she's becoming a better person. With the understanding of drug issues today, we are moving forward to help individuals; to understand why they took drugs and how we can help them once they're out of the DRC. How I wish that was introduced way back so Hannah would not be living with fear or hopelessness. Continue to do good and be the role model of many individuals whom are going through the hardship, and also towards your son, all the best Hannah!
@thorsten13999
@thorsten13999 6 ай бұрын
but alcoholic and tobacca nonsense is tolerated...
@elinzme
@elinzme 6 ай бұрын
Warms my heart to no end and brings tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing this empowering story ❤
@shawnphee9921
@shawnphee9921 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story with us Hannah
@nt6253
@nt6253 6 ай бұрын
She seems to be a better mother than some "normal" parents. I have a friend who make her own mum take care of her daughter while she spent her week days nights going to gym and socializing with her friend.
@lequinntessential
@lequinntessential 6 ай бұрын
Thank you OGS for such a revealing feature and Hannah for sharing!
@nanayue5388
@nanayue5388 6 ай бұрын
❤ goes out to you Hannah. You did well in overcoming life hurdles. Stay positive.
@gigibeach8905
@gigibeach8905 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your inspirational story of strength and courage. I really enjoyed hearing your story. Thank you
@bossfan83fan83
@bossfan83fan83 6 ай бұрын
What a terrific story! Best wishes to both mom and the young man. 😊
@youcanthandlethetruth1
@youcanthandlethetruth1 6 ай бұрын
this was really beautiful to watch
@joshau2346
@joshau2346 6 ай бұрын
i grew up with divorced parents too. Always felt alone and envious of my friends who had parents to send them home. Stopped celebrating my birthday with my family since i was 7. Somehow i made it to JC by a stroke of luck, and seeing how my peers could afford tuition and do well i always felt at an disadvantage and a reminder of my loneliness. Still SG is a better place to other countries, but its still a sad reminder of what i didnt havent studying in JC
@letsgoletsgoletsgoletsgoletsgo
@letsgoletsgoletsgoletsgoletsgo 6 ай бұрын
breaks my heart really , as a parent i could empathized missing all that things , being stuck in prison. her past "mistakes" have become valuable lessons and wisdom for her son
@xxy5757
@xxy5757 6 ай бұрын
He is such a grateful son
@tracehhhh
@tracehhhh 6 ай бұрын
Thank you to OGS and of course Ms Hannah for sharing her very inspiring story. She is truly very brave!
@Lala_lalacllll
@Lala_lalacllll 6 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful family ❤
@90taetaeya
@90taetaeya 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. You are brave and your son is so well-raised ❤
@kennethgimpayan3418
@kennethgimpayan3418 3 ай бұрын
this is so eye opening. incredible courage in sharing your story!
@carlsmayyy
@carlsmayyy 6 ай бұрын
She is not a bad person, at all. It was a coping mechanism at a very young age where she is not able to differentiate what’s right and wrong. Hence with the second chance, like the existence of her son, it gave her the opportunity to live right again and not lead both of them back to square 1. Extremely proud of where they’ve come
@yjyjyjthumbtacks
@yjyjyjthumbtacks 5 ай бұрын
Thanks Hannah and Lewayne for sharing. 😊 Addiction is tough and not easy to get over it.
@Abbylo8731
@Abbylo8731 6 ай бұрын
A story of strength and courage. Bless.
@dk-hv1nz
@dk-hv1nz 6 ай бұрын
Hannah is really a fighter. Given the circumstances, many will still be stuck in the vicious drug cycle.
@champagne77
@champagne77 4 ай бұрын
Truly appreciate this video. Brave mom and loving son
@randergal
@randergal 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Hannah! You should be proud of how far you’ve come.
@getfitwithnicol
@getfitwithnicol 4 ай бұрын
Wow I’m so impressed with them both xo sending lots of love and continue to be an inspiration to us all!
@thangboichongloi681
@thangboichongloi681 6 ай бұрын
Proud to see her strong feelings and overcome such dangerous habits. Your struggle and the passion you had is now being proven by your son that you are a real mother❤ You are one amongst million women that i respect. May almighty God bless u and your family with full of joy and happiness. lol from Nagaland India…..❤
@rabbit5000
@rabbit5000 6 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing your story Hannah, and your son is really mature and it speaks volumes to the kind of mum you are 🥰
@Coz131
@Coz131 3 ай бұрын
There is no need to cuff someone while they are giving birth. That's fucked up.
@mariachristineasuncion6081
@mariachristineasuncion6081 6 ай бұрын
Such an inspiring story. Thank you for sharing
@veo16
@veo16 6 ай бұрын
Addicts need to be rehabilitated and supported, not criminalized. In a century or so, our descendants will laugh at how outdated our laws were.
@user-yr6wk6us5t
@user-yr6wk6us5t 6 ай бұрын
This was beautiful and both have such deep self awareness and knowledge. ❤❤
@maeganong3630
@maeganong3630 6 ай бұрын
Hannah, stay strong! :) learn from your past and live in the present!
@quetidelapuente9524
@quetidelapuente9524 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, brave young lady 👍👏!! Thanks for sharing, from PERU
@gabrielclarence5390
@gabrielclarence5390 2 ай бұрын
You are an amazing women and I'm so proud of you to share
@wilsontan8606
@wilsontan8606 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, it is very meaningful.
@xxy5757
@xxy5757 6 ай бұрын
So empathetic and so mature sia!!!
@ShahlizaKShah
@ShahlizaKShah 4 ай бұрын
You did well mama ❤
@skyla2258
@skyla2258 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing :) *hugs*
@madanarathimadangopal5890
@madanarathimadangopal5890 4 ай бұрын
Way to go 🎉 stay purposeful & thank you for sharing ❤
@88ETan
@88ETan 6 ай бұрын
Off topic, but she looks so young for her age tho. Hanna you come a long way, wishing you a happy life
@xxy5757
@xxy5757 6 ай бұрын
How empathetic he is like crazy so mature sia!!!
@c3vids_shorts
@c3vids_shorts 3 ай бұрын
Such a powerful interview 👍
@SelvyBushby
@SelvyBushby 6 ай бұрын
Praise God for such a happy ending. Drug addicts usually pass on the vicious cycle to the next generation. Glad to know grandma is also around.
@Elio_Ng
@Elio_Ng 3 ай бұрын
She is a good mum and he is an understandable son. ❤
@meimei-jb4sk
@meimei-jb4sk 4 ай бұрын
All the best to you both!
@pinkymay20
@pinkymay20 6 ай бұрын
All the best wishes for this lovely family❤
@noname-kh3fz
@noname-kh3fz 6 ай бұрын
When there is a drug problem that must be treated, treatment programs for drug use can encourage people to remain a productive member of society. When drug use is penalized with criminal statutes, it becomes more difficult for individuals who take drugs to find meaningful employment. It is much easier to find a job when there isn’t a felony on your record due to your possession of a drug that was deemed to be illegal.
@ellyzabeth8008
@ellyzabeth8008 3 ай бұрын
She is a beautiful mom.
@Pistolero190
@Pistolero190 Ай бұрын
The mom is stunning
@joykitten89
@joykitten89 6 ай бұрын
Only the best wishes fer you, Hannah. You are amazing 💜
@doggiebaby5646
@doggiebaby5646 6 ай бұрын
Proud of her. She is strong 💪 woman
@pllin240
@pllin240 6 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing🙏 all the best always ❤️
@athirahaniza6550
@athirahaniza6550 6 ай бұрын
Definitely a great sharing❤ a cute family also. 😊
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