You Nasty Neighbors Vandalized My Car

[@susanstribe4914]

It's a good time to teach her son about vandalism and consequences. Even if he only wrote in dust, stay away from other people's belongings.

[@Doc1855]

If the child was raised properly, then he wouldn’t have touched another person’s property. And the mom said that she has no income, which is actually Welfare so she’s home. So why is she too damn lazy to watch her children? It all goes back on that unfit mother.

[@Laura-tp8wz]

Absolutely!

[@palopinto4065]

Are you kidding?

[@ruefullysage]

@@Doc1855 your mother is clearly unfit.

[@Doc1855]

@@ruefullysage Naa, my mother worked for a living and never took a handout

[@cierrashannon8554]

I wish some parents wouldn’t defend their kids destructive and wrong behaviors.

[@jacquelynclark3782]

Another sad thing is, it becomes a vicious cycle repeated with the next generation, unless one of the parents put a stop to it!!

[@mexicanspec]

Even if he wrote his name in the dirt on the hood, that also leaves scratches.

[@sudhakhristmukti1930]

It is this enabling instead of disciplining..that causes bigger problems in their youth!

[@jessicamcgaughey8551]

​@@mexicanspecthe fuck no it doesnt. Just whipping your finger on the car isnt gonna scratch it, especially a scratch visible so easily.

[@mexicanspec]

@@jessicamcgaughey8551 You don't understand how dirt works, do you?

[@blessedgalore979]

The defendant is setting her son up for failure. She knew he was lying! She's worried about Christmas gifts. SMH

[@Trich-nf2zf]

He wouldn't be getting anything for Christmas, that would be his Christmas gift😫🤦🏽‍♀️

[@augustmoon9973]

As parents we always want to believe our kids over others, and I remember when my son was 10 or 11 yrs old, my neighbor, directly behind us, politely told me that my son shot out their daughters window with a beebee gun. I asked my son multiple times and asked different ways to see if his story would waiver, he stuck to his story each and every time, and so I believed him because he really was a polite kid. My son's 25 yrs old now, and it wasn't until last month that we happen to be just talking about him being a kid, when that little shit confessed he did in fact shoot the window out. After so many yrs, I still felt embarrassed that I chose to believe a 11 yr old over a 30 yr old, especially knowing it was likely he had done it. So I went pulled a $100 bill out of the ATM, marched my little self over to the neighbors and handed it to them. They just laughed and wasn't going to take it, but I insisted they at least go out to eat or something, and by doing so it would make me feel a lot better. They did finally agree to take it, and I made my son pay me righ back! Lol!😊

[@LindaJaeNicole]

Good job! 👏🏽

[@gongzilla527]

OMG! I love this story. It felt so good reading this. Hugs and well wishes for you and your son; the little shit!! Too funny.😂😂

[@britanychere4593]

Love this! And that you are able to make contact & made a wrong right regardless of how much time passed

[@sudhakhristmukti1930]

Truly...proud of you for dealing with it even after so many years. I had neighbor bully-parents who egged their boys on to bully me when I was 20. Their loitering, lazy boys could not bear the fact I as a young woman worked hard and had bought a scooter out of my earnings to be able to run errands and save time. They hid behind their housewall, where I had to pass by as it was the only road in and out of the neighborhood, and both brothers who harassed and mocked and insulted etc. everyday, in a jealous rage rushed at me with their vicious dog. I nearly fell off my scooter, and had to get off. The bullies' parents watched with glee. I learnt that 30 years later one of them was and is a total drunk with never having ever worked a day in his life , living in that enabler parents' home !! The other one also lives in that very home with his wife and son on the top floor!! Their poor sister they used to bully and abuse escaped to another city.

[@inukoko2012]

Omg I love you for this. The neighbors probably couldn’t believe after all these years , you still showed you cared and are a honest person. They should appreciate you for being a great neighbor and person. 🥹😊

[@soloseraphimheartsong3710]

Broke is not a defense.

[@hanaj]

The son is more scared of the mom than the judge/truth. He was definitely lying.

[@benjie128]

He initially said "we were drawing then I told her we should stop"

[@kdmac7425]

She probably beats him

[@theburntoutlighter1084]

But was scared enough of the judge to admit touching and then saying it's a bad idea. He's old enough to know better than to lie to Judy. I think we all as humans rather lie to people we personally know better than authority figures because of what they expect and also could get away with. Bare minimum is what they would admit to. Or just straight up lie. 😂 Too much coffee

[@misseazar4250]

I will never get on national tv and say “I don’t have no income”🤦🏾‍♀️

[@londynche8521]

Man WHAT!!! LOL!!! Smh🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@leelasmoochie]

More parents need to teach their kids boundaries and consequences.

[@teee1304]

Stop with the pity party “I’m a single parent “🙄 it’s so old! Then you don’t have any money? Come on! The plaintiff was gracious enough to go through her insurance and she did not have to, and you still don’t want to hold your son accountable. That was a big scratch so yes him and the neighbors child did it together and they should split the cost

[@jacquelynclark3782]

I’m betting she has money to get her nails and weave done . I’m glad the plaintiff didn’t just let it go, she stood strong for what she believed in !!!

[@mexicanspec]

They were both dressed nice. I don't buy the broke scenario.

[@the4cqueen148]

Those kids are used to destroying people's property, i have triflin' relatives that are not welcomed in my home because they think it's okay for their kids to tear up any and everything in other people's houses; the defendant reminds me of my trifilin' relatives . No ma'am! Not in my house.

[@jeffreyhathaway2800]

The defendant: "I have no income." If that's her apartment in the background, then she's not exactly living in a hovel. And she's well-dressed and her hair looks professionally done.

[@cynthiaprice3528]

If the plaintiff hadn’t brought her to court she wasn’t going to pay. She should take some responsibility for letting her son go out and play without supervision. She should hold him accountable and teach him that you can be guilty by association and the fact that he could be identified because he wrote his name on the car. I think he and the little girl had rocks or real nails to scrape that car like that.

[@startpupsinc9758]

He's definitely lying 🤥

[@NubianP6]

*”It’s Christmas time”* Buying Christmas gifts is not a necessity. If you had money to put aside planning to buy Christmas gifts, then you had money to pay this woman for your son damaging her car. Maybe if he has to go without something that he wanted for Christmas, that would teach him a lesson about responsibility.

[@JSmith-ji7ms]

These parents should be liable just because they don't supervise their kids.

[@jessicanelson1975]

She said it was Christmas time, well honey looks like your kid should’ve been missing out on gifts because of the dumb decision he made.

[@neawatson1448]

Well honey🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@jessicanelson1975]

@@neawatson1448 No cause girl what !😂😂😂

[@mildredfierce999]

I don't have the money. I don't have a job. I'm broke and it's Xmas, isn't a defence, especially AFTER signing an agreement to pay. LMAO 😂

[@Channel-JJ]

He said finger nails, what? His little girlfriend must have wolverine finger nails, gets her nails done at Bob's Metal Works on 14th Street. I'm so tired of these people who agree to pay for something then ignore it. Just like the song says 🎵Teach your son not to do the crime if you can't pay the fine, don't do it 🎵

[@ButtonsCasey]

Vehicles scratch easily. If I am wearing artificial nails, I have to be real careful opening the truck door. It will scratch up.

[@Channel-JJ]

@@ButtonsCasey Oh snap I'm never going to mess with you and your adamantium nails. 😂

[@keyshiakeyshia40]

His little GF & Wolverine fingernails & Bobs metal works🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jacquelynclark3782]

🤣🤣, your answer was funny but all to true about how these parents seem to condone their kids behavior!!!

[@Trich-nf2zf]

😂😂😂😂 not bobs metal works on 14th street

[@swin3492]

Pay up lady!!!

[@MsSparklesNGlitter]

This is why nipping in the butt bad behavior when they are young is so important. Small petty things can evolve to much bigger and more serious crimes when they reach teenage years and younger adult age if they aren't made to face consequences young.

[@bmac6841]

Nipping it in the ‘bud.’ Although, in some cases the butt might need a little nip.

[@Kre410]

‘Nipping in the bud’ is the actual saying….

[@rymilli]

I don’t believe the defendant’s son, he looked down every time he answered seemed like he had a script when he started talking. The defendant was dead wrong. Kids do dumb shit, and we as parents should be held accountable. I’m worried her son is gonna follow in her footsteps when it comes to taking responsibility seems like he already is 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@JamieM470]

Yeah, he already is. She's lying for him & coaching him to lie. He changed his story and said his friend scratched the car with her fingernails instead of with a rock, when the scratches were clearly from a rock. He also said he only "fingerpainted" his name in the dust, but it took a buffer to remove it. His behavior & lying is going to get worse, and his mom will say he's an innocent victim no matter what. Sad.

[@7676purple]

The mom wasn’t even there. He has to learn the consequences of his actions. The plaintiff would have probably taken $10 a week.

[@olderandwiser5916]

You're absolutely right. He sounded coached, a 7,8-year-old child does not use the sort of vocabulary that he used. Also him looking down and in various directions was to gain time for his mother to come up with more BS for his innocent "I was just writing my name in the dust" and blame the other kid. The girl's parents faced up to it right away. But this boy and his mother????? Thank the dear Lord and count your blessings for not living next to them. 8 years from now this kid is gonna break in to neighbor's vehicles and, if not, he'll steal their rides. This woman is raising the prison occupation of 2030. 😵‍💫😵🥴

[@sharifsalem]

He said he was scratching it. Listen again 7:29

[@JeremiahLOsborne]

It's Christmas time? That's even better. Let junior not get any presents this year, and then maybe he'll understand that you can't destroy other people's property. No one forces anyone to buy anyone gifts. Christmas is not an excuse to not pay your debts.

[@mexicanspec]

Come on he needed more games for his Play Station 4

[@JeremiahLOsborne]

@@mexicanspec at least the PlayStation 4 would be a better babysitter than the parents.

[@ashleyquam]

Better yet make him donate his gifts to charity to teach him humility and the value of property

[@adrianprince7266]

I knew this defendant was done for early on after I heard the details of this case. But she entered into an agreement to pay the plantiff for the damages to her vehicle so it's binding. Case closed

[@ginger7344]

She was much nicer about it than I would be. She is just a good person.

[@asiaanderson5556]

LMMFAO The plaintiff face while the defendant is lying😂😂😂😂

[@darkesthours1305]

then they be confused to why they grown sons don’t know how to take accountability. This one of the factors. this why they expect women to be like their mothers & treat them like they enabling mommas did.

[@kevans0210]

So my assumption is the defendant has never owned a car to understand that $200 is a steal for that. Supervise your kids more.

[@jcymngo]

The defendant has a car. It was discussed during the case.

[@lescobrandon9693]

200 was just because the deductible is 500. That’s easily 2k to fix.

[@kevans0210]

@@lescobrandon9693 my point exactly. Be lucky that's all she's asking for because she didn't have to file a claim.

[@everett-tnredsfan]

I'm sorry but when your kid does something(and this lady was very flexible trying to work with her) you have to step up. I think this woman would have taken payments so long as the mom was making an effort. Be an example for your child admit the mistake accept the penalty and move on.

[@David-cc8xe]

Top notch parenting right there!

[@lovelymemarie]

He did it, she needs to get a job keep an eye on ur kids

[@mashondaknight9132]

Why when these women come to court they always to mention they're single mothers, stop trying to get sympathy control your child they are your responsibility.

[@akairiyahiko2602]

Awwww, he’s so cute! But still, the mom better handle her business before it’s too late

[@ahelms1990]

Defendants kids seems adorable, the mother is a horrible person for lying and not helping the plaintiff eat costs. Entitled.

[@pchelloo]

Pay Up! Maybe get your son a sketch pad or something he can draw on and draw with that won't get him into trouble. He could become a great artist.🤷

[@the4cqueen148]

Or some sidewalk chalk.

[@arlenecoggins-john3795]

These children is too old to do foolishness like this. But when you have a parent who defends the wrong their child or children do, then they will continue down a path of destruction. She sure does not look like she has no income. 😔😔😔

[@stevo9421]

I think "shut up" are the most aggressive words I have ever heard judge John say 🤣🤣🤣

[@rowielee245]

Why are two 7 yr olds outdoors playing UNSUPERVISED ?! This mom stated quite clearly that she doesn't work so what is their excuse ?! She should of given the Xmas present $$$ to the car owner !! That would of taught him a lesson!!

[@kia4334]

The mom looks high😮

[@Enemyatg334]

The only reason the defendant agreed to pay anything was because she didn't want to get put out. Hopefully the landlord sees this

[@naynayjones9166]

The landlord was lenient in her cause your kids destroying property in a complex they can kick you out. She should stop letting her kid outside by himself and she will know what he did or didn't do

[@nannynewsviews542]

What is she smiling about....watch you son better next time. Also she should be very happy only $200 is being asked for

[@darylrichardson8567]

I signed a contract, but I have 0 income. This not family court & your son is causing damage. Caretakers of children… YOU are LIABLE for YOUR CHILD’S bad behavior! Pay your DEBT & make him suffer for Christmas. I thought bad kids didn’t get anything?

[@VirgoCali89]

I never let my daughter out of my sight, she is 9 now and I still watch her like a hawk especially in public. The defendant should have just paid cause she knew her son did it, kids will be kids and sometimes parents have to pay for their neglect. The kids shouldn't have been outside with parental supervision, the other neighbor with the little girl need to learn a lesson too

[@CleveNative]

If the defendant has no income, that means that maybe she doesn't work and that's all the more reason why she should have her butt outside supervising her son

[@lilo4399]

8:14 - I ❤️ that man's smile! And after JM says - Think of every woman as your mom.....He loves his mom! And treats JM with that respect. I ❤️ Douglas!!!!!

[@layahYasharahla]

If your kids are outside . You need to be outside . My kids have never been out alone . Not really worried about them doing damage but I’m more concerned these days with predators

[@thatsassyrepublican]

Damn, that title hella personal lmfao

[@stevo9421]

That sweet young man will suffer his mothers poor parenting for the rest of his life. His predisposition to lie at that age will be the same when he continues to lie to judges for the rest of his life

[@neawatson1448]

Well said!!

[@wb3381]

He needs some old school discipline from James Evans GoodTimes "oops upside the head"

[@AspiireK]

You "don't have income" but worried about Christmas gifts?? Your priorities are wack lady!

[@Mocharocks9966]

Oh man he’s so cute . I really hope that the mom will watch her son while he plays outside and the other mom should too . Everyone needs to talk to their children about the value of things and how he can go to jail for that when he gets older .

[@professionalgrade5999]

Ms. Parker gave her more than enough time to pay its a shame she had to bring her to court.

[@k0chana6]

This is exactly why kids shouldn't be having children... 🙄🤦‍♀️

[@NolaMarieSings01]

Ms brown look like she on the verge of tears

[@jo-annbastings]

Who cares?!🤷‍♀️

[@Vanessa_Martinez]

Wow judge Milan is right they very destructive for that age I can see a bad 9/10 year old doing that. At 7 someone need counseling. I bet they didn’t get a spanking smh. Notice they didn’t thought their momma’s cards. Christmas came and pass then tax season and girl you still didn’t pay.

[@marvinl.midkiff4660]

That mother is irresponsible.

[@palopinto4065]

Defendant "dont have no income". Who's paying her rent and feeding her? Maybe she'll be force to go out and get a job like the rest of us.

[@Candy-cc1bc]

He started out saying that it was probably a mistake to write their names. He wrote his name in the dust on the woman’s car. They’re in an apartment complex. The car wasn’t parked on a dirt parking lot.

[@rymilli]

I’m way early. Been sitting here all day waiting on uploads 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@td7802]

Same 🤣🤣

[@Chrissytv]

Lol me too

[@thatsassyrepublican]

Ditto

[@susanstribe4914]

😹😹😹😹

[@mrshappilymarried1]

Same

[@nikkibarnzable]

When those family dollar black and white dollar pics are your best back round… she ain’t got it 😂😂

[@gongzilla527]

Even from the thumbnail I could tell the defendant was having a rough life. Her entire face screams STRESS. I started feeling sorry for her after hearing her say she doesn't have an income. She seems like a sweet lady! I wish her and her son well. Bless up lady if you're reading this!!

[@moniqueme1600]

That defendant mother is a horrible example and she’s ok with her son lying.

[@MrBling67]

That boy was lying and the mom owes

[@zeeprince9879]

Today it's destroying a paint job, tomorrow it'll be knocking over a liquor store ⏳️

[@catherinesisk4369]

If she has no income, why doesn't she get a job?

[@nicoleh.6352]

The plaintiff is the "village" that's needed today. The defendant is exactly what's wrong with children, she knew he was just as guilty but tried to shift blame, minimize his part...

[@msfranklin2650]

THE NERVE OF THE DEFENDANT W/ THAT CHEAP ILL FITTED WIG ON MAKING EXCUSES FOR THE DAMAGES HER KID DID TO SOMEONE PROPERTY PERHAPS MANAGEMENT SHOULD HAVE HER ASSSSS MOVE HMMMM NO INCOME SO YOU DON'T WK WHY WASN'T SHE WATCHING THAT BABY OUTSIDE BEING THAT YOUNG HAPPY THAT THE PLAINTIFF IS BEING MADE WHOLE GOOD CALL & LECTURE TO THE DEFENDANT JUDGE

[@popsnorthcutt1741]

Keep sticking up for him mom, all the way to jail

[@ammo83981]

If your forced to sign something maybe think about why you're signing it

[@elvickRULES]

That damage is crazy! I wasn’t expecting that.

[@Just_us-2]

How about attending to 7 & 8 year old kids instead of sending them outside without adult supervision.

[@crystalshaw8744]

I like the advice the judge gave the young boy...."Treat everyone like ur mom".

[@luciapelosi4678]

My son( who is coming up on 42) went to the grocery store with 3 neighbor kid(Tom was 5) They stole gum. Tom came home and I asked him were he got the gum. He told me! I marched his behind back to the grocery store got the manager. The three other kids( who were problems in the development) I told if he saw my child in that store with those three kids he should call the authorities on my son. Tom to this day still remembers what I did. He never ever went to that store again( except with his parents). I was blessed that he grew up to be a honest man. I wonder about the three kids..Faith Gabriel and Adam...

[@rp1067]

Douglas is the best bailiff. Lol

[@shamaoliver7989]

If she knew she didn't have any income then why would she sign it for that amount? She has income she just don't want to pay it and I believe the defendant's son and the little girl both had a rock scratching the car.

[@ThatOneMule]

I remember being a child and being terrible. I was not evil or bad, just a stupid child that did not realize my actions had consequences. I never take what my kid says at face value 😂

[@ashleyquam]

I remember one time when I was probably 7 we were at the mall and I was waiting for my parents in the lot and wrote wash me in the dirt on the car next to us. My mom lit me up for touching someone else’s property. She explained to me the importance of people’s belongings and that I had no right to touch them or do anything to them . Why can’t we just teach our children to respect people’s belongings? Parents don’t teach children respect but have a list of excuses when they do something wrong. This lady worked hard for her vehicle and people who say oh they just wrote their names. It doesn’t matter what they wrote it’s disrespectful

[@Astrothenightmoon]

With a mother like her, that boy has a criminal record ahead of him. I hate to say it. She’s not teaching him any morals, integrity, nothing. That’s a recipe for disaster.

[@ACHVACTAB1]

Making up a story as you go: always a bad idea

[@j.nic0le513]

Why the defendant look like she got that crying filter on 😂

[@reneerojas6046]

...The fact that '''it was Christmas'''' presented the perfect opportunity to teach that little boy the perfect lesson. She should have only gotten him one small toy for Christmas and explained to him that the rest had to go toward having Mrs. Parker's car repaired.

[@pamelahaze3211]

No.. not Christmas How about no more McDonald's..and other junk foods No more soda... I'm not assuming that she does indulge as such. Just speculation

[@meika79]

The plaintiff was right. He does need to pick his friends better. If he's in his teens and twenties and a friend does something he could be considered an accessory.

[@ammo83981]

The kid is definitely afraid of the mom and lying for her. Kids don't just sit and watch other kids doing something bad

[@LeolaGlamour]

Kids do exactly that…

[@janedougherty3327]

Defendant shouldn't be laughing. Grow up and act like an adult. You are setting your son up for failure and that's not fair. Give him a chance in life. He's not a bad kid. Please help him to stay on the right path.

[@ohsuellen]

I remember when my Grandson Dominic scratched his brothers name into his moms car. It was only obvious who did it.. Lucas couldn't write his name yet.. 🙂❤️

[@WarGrowlmon18]

🤣🤣🤣

[@aerotaken5357]

The son said it all when he said, after we did it I told her it was a bad idea. He did it, and Mom knows he did it.

[@barbaraness4507]

The defendant isn’t really making eye contact while she’s defending her son.

[@Jsmall910]

The plaintiff said the boy was outside but the defendant said she had taken the kids to school.

[@sharonjohnson8512]

Who lets 7 year olds to run around outside without supervision? But when they get hurt or abducted, oh boy the whining begins. Take care of your freaking kids!

[@AC081361]

My son & his lil partner in crime were upset that we (the other mother & I) wouldn’t take them to the store & get candy so they looked around for a twig small enough that would fit into the car door lock so they could get inside and drive themselves, they were 5. What they succeeded in doing was jamming the lock. Littles cook up some crazy stuff 🤣🤣🤣

[@Jsmall910]

Parents leaving the kids outside don't care what small kids are up to outside beside them getting in trouble they are in danger too,makes me so mad.

[@lilo4399]

2:36 they way she smiles when her kid's name was mentioned....smh

[@kay22100]

The little boy could’ve been telling the truth. We really don’t know. She doesn’t have $200 to give. That’s why she didn’t pay. If I was the lady and could spare $200 I would’ve made him come do things for me to “pay off the debt” like wash my car to teach him a lesson.

[@DH-dl3ll]

The gavel is so unsatisfying sometimes... I need it to SLAP the bench! 😆👩‍⚖️

[@cdnhawk65]

I hope that kid can grow up to be a good citizen despite his mother.

[@redgurl60]

A way to teach him a lesson would havw been to take $250 from whatever his Christmas budget was, and repay her neighbor. He's old enough to know better, and understand consequence.

[@arielprivott844]

Boy moms are just different 🙄 they will try their BEST to escape accountability in the name of their sons. No matter the situation.

[@nikkibarnzable]

Ur first sentence correct after that false I raised my sons to be accountable for their actions!!

[@matthewchace6362]

“I got no income”. Simple solution for you, GET A JOB!

[@branz2002]

did she really say her sons name was no longer there so she doesn’t have to pay?😂so in other words, your sons name was on it😂 unbelievable

[@elizabethprouddolllover641]

This is why I really don't like working with kids. Everyone wants to believe a kid is not capable of anything but adorableness and can't think for themselves 🥺🤣.

[@Shadowgirl740]

"It's Christmas time" I love kids, but...he wouldn't get Christmas from me. Celebrate with the spirit of it.