PTW # 87 - Orion Taraban

Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice.

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[@SuperBruins12]

Guys. It is really simple to explain the rage men have. They were lied to. They were told to just “be nice” to women and everything will be great When they see that “being nice” turns women off… they are pissed and confused…

[@BodyByBenSLC]

57:00 my mother divorced my father late 50s early 60s. My father was a roofer burial hard work in the elements, weekends early mornings hard hard work. In the winter he had a small upholstery business he did in garage, again working out in cold. My mother stayed with me and 2 brothers, now us 3 maniacs was no day at the beach but there was no risk of falling to off roof. Once we were old enough to dress ourselves, she mostly slept until 4pm, watch TV and smoked cigarettes. When that divorce came it was my father out on his ass and mom got the house. For all his sacrifice and pain he was left with nothing from the marriage. Thankfully my grandfather left him some land so he didn't have to start completely over. 35 years of work not even a thank you. Until the day my mother died she just sat in front of that same TV in a house she didn't make one payment on feeling sorry for herself. My dad was not the perfect husband but he never, cheated or lied he raised my half sister, bills were always paid, food in the kitchen, presents under Christmas tree. After watching that play out I don't think I could ever share my finances or life with a woman.

[@Jo-ym6id]

Orion is hands down the best in the redpill space.... he's not trying to divide the sexes with his language, nor is he trying to pander to women. Reasonable people like him can actually reduce suffering for both genders.

[@jinnantonix4570]

Sure and to be fair, Rich's approach is much the same. The content is not intended to be anti-women. Rich and Moff go to great lengths to explain that they just trying to help people to "see the code in the matrix", i.e. the fundamental nature of the sexual dynamics between men and women. Rich is not a qualified psychologist, but his content is firmly rooted in established scientific research into evolutionary psychology. I am now addicted to Rich and Moff's Ladies Night, where they get women on and just chat. It is so revealing!

[@deportedsouls3165]

This is the kind of guests you should focus on having! Great discussions! Soooo far from "General meetings" and boring sessions with Moff!

[@jarrodhayne560]

Hey Moff is all good

[@deportedsouls3165]

@@jarrodhayne560 Well I guess if you say so, all of us others, whom don't agree, are wrong?! Did you actually think your opinion would change mine?!!!

[@hoodoooperator.5197]

@@jarrodhayne560 Moff is a half wit 🤣🤣🤣

[@SuperDuperTrey]

@@jarrodhayne560i like Moff as well

[@fakedemocracy]

I like Moff and I really like Jared. Not a big fan of the guy with the accent, forget his name. Not his fault just hard to follow along when he’s on. The Irish guy pretty cool.

[@silversurfer406]

Great interview; I’m a trained therapist and could not agree more. Even the course was 90% female focused and delivered by female lecturers and came entirely from a female perspective. It is little wonder that men are reluctant to seek out therapy when it seems that the advice or responses completely fails to understand the male experience. You are both an invaluable source of information for any men seeking answers in an increasingly complex world

[@MOMO-m0m0]

Precisely, i recently graduated college this year and I had all but one male teacher the rest were woman. Furthermore the more I progressed through the major the less and Less men there were. The last class I took I was one of four guys out of 30 students.

[@Foshodatsy]

@richcooper Please bring back this guest again as this has to be your best show to date. Very well spoken and has great insights to your questions. I really learnt a lot from him and excited to check out his content. Can this be the reboot of Before The Trainwreck now we have a new doctor?😅

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Nope, I'm solo on TUA going forward. BTT is retired for good.

[@user-yf4hv8vr3q]

The market is oversaturated with podcasts that make better content so he retired.

[@marquezmercado1480]

From my experience, to get any business venture running, it is 3X as long and 3X as hard. My first business, the first year I lost money. The second, I broke even and the third, I made the same amount of money I lost my first year. Too many people over estimate what they can do in one year and underestimate what they can do in three years

[@raymohyde422]

Best, most honest, thoughtful conversation. Thank you Rich and Orion. Loved the H S sidebar. Im 69 and he is the OG King of all nedia.

[@eastalawest1633]

I love this guy, don't think I've ever grown so fond of a KZbinr so quickly. Keep it up Orion!

[@rapamune]

Orion is genuinely fascinating and refreshing

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

One point that stood out was 1:13:35 about how women get emotionally bored in long term stable relationships, and hence the need for the "manager" to keep providing his "employee" new opportunities to work on new and exciting projects. Great analogy. It is so difficult to make a long term relationships emotionally exciting and stimulating for women.

[@patricktjahjadi2396]

She shouldn't get bored of your behaviour towards her if you know what I mean!

[@eladbari]

​@@patricktjahjadi2396 I don't know what you mean. Explain..

[@Ladeliciadelinda]

That's interesting. Because I'm actually worried about boring out my current partner. My prior partners I think were fed up and bored. Fed up about my health issues and from what I was told, "I don't do anything worth talking about". I was in a 11 year relationship. I wanted him to be happy. So I allowed him to make the decision whether to leave or not. He left. My best guess is because he liked being active and with my health issues, I couldn't stimulate him mentally, emotionally or physically. Now I'm dreadfully afraid of repeating the same mistakes with my current partner. I really hope we make it long term. He's been my constant supporter so far so crossing my fingers. Any tips or advice to keep my current man happy?

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

@@Ladeliciadelinda Boring is a good thing. No guy wants drama, chaos and headaches. Marriage is actually very boring and monotonous which is why so many women file for divorce. Try not to moan and complain too much about your health issues. Try to lean on your friends, family and/or therapist for this. With talking, moaning and complaining, less is more. Give him space and let him ask you about your health when he is not mentally exhausted after a hard day of work. Also, don't boss him around, telling him to do X, Y, and Z because of your health. You are not his mum or boss. Let him take the lead and let him use his initiative / brain.

[@EmDaMo]

@@Ladeliciadelinda I’d say open communication and if there are things that are hard to convey, having couples therapy is a good option - even when your relationship is going well. And if you aren’t already, see a therapist by yourself and work on the traumas you obviously struggle with due to past experiences. Blaming yourself for what happened in the past is bad on your mental health and finding the right therapist will be able to offer insight and a different perspective. It seems to me the partners you’ve had are far from blameless themselves. But do yourself the favour of finding a good therapist, it’s an investment in your future. Really, everyone could use a healthy dose of introspection and gain some self awareness.

[@proper_noun436]

This was a good one. Orion is who I would lean toward sending my male friends to who scoff at any mention of male oriented intersexual dynamics. Seeing him on the 5 hour whatever podcast was a great showing of his character and personality in a fatigued and vulnerable state. That's also the value I see in hearing the whatever podcast while I go about my evening. You get to see the unsustainable facades some people put up and watch what it breaks down into, as well as to see the perseverance of genuineness. It's conditioning for encountering it in my own life. Entertainment comes in forms.

[@FloridaManConstruction]

Love this Dr! He is amazing.

[@joelacross6977]

Two of my favorite guys in one podcast! Cheers fellas!

[@TheFunkybert]

This is an episode worth watching multiple times and taking notes. Great work Rich and Orion 👍

[@natrone23]

I agree Orion and Ron did a great job, kudos to them both.

[@qlc4-]

Rich + Orion is just elevation of both channels to new levels😊

[@ashok.vardhan.g]

Orion is a very refreshing voice in the world of issues that surround men, their relationships with modern women; and society at large.

[@DragonNo1]

Thank you Rich for keeping your podcast straight in a "manoswamp" crowded with opportunistic shows, which aren't worthy my time and attention. We can't become a better version of ourselves by spending hours watching "red meat" content that doesn't provide any nourishment (and I'm not vegan) but instead promote living vicariously and without meaning.

[@mysterio1570]

I Have been following Dr. O for the past year. Love his content. Rich is very shrewd when it comes to Guests in the last year of so.

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

I am trying to be more discerning in who I invite on. I'll admit I could have made some better choices in the past, but hindsight is always 20/20

[@silatbrothers379]

@@EntrepreneursInCars just say thank you Rich , great free info, eat the meat spit out the bones, cheers from Holland

[@thaik56]

@psyhacks is definitely deserving the traction he is getting. Such an underrated channel. Such a gem for intellectuals.

[@1brenmaster]

The two best people in mens space in the same place. Appreciated. Both you guys are the only people on KZbin I would recommend to my 4 sons

[@rayhudson447]

Rich so happy you got Orion. Been following both of you for a while

[@the_shadow_realm5110]

3:13 Damn, Rich did the ol’ laugh at the punchline even though the joke wasn’t funny and you want to avoid social embarrassment, just to realise the joke wasn’t finished yet!!!

[@kathleenschaefer9023]

I am a huge fan of Orión Taraban. It was nice to hear more of his insights into relationships.

[@yolandadaniels6834]

Hi, I have been listening to your program for roughly 6 plus months on and off. The statement that this guess has just made about men like their space but like to have a women around is so true. We have been married 30 plus years, I am in my mid sixties and my spouse is in his late fifties, we could be doing something totally different while in the same space. We have totally different habits and hobbies. We respect each others spaces. Its been working that way for decades. Just wanted to share my 2 cents. Love your content.

[@KarinaHensher]

Yes! Woman listen to this. Fascinating. PS things are just as harsh for girls as it is for guys. The truth shall set you free.. but it will sting a bit at first.

[@williambaldwin9346]

The gift of your absence. Yes, it is VERY important from time to time to go away, see who cares, who reaches out still, see who calls and asks if you are doing okay, and who doesn't. With women, you need to make them miss you, remember why you are there.

[@mahoganymillworks7156]

Orion is the man. I’ve watched all his videos. I like how he breaks things down.

[@DavidVelasquez9]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

[@DavidVelasquez9]

@@EmilioYepez7 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@DavidVelasquez9]

@@EmilioYepez7 her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@DavidVelasquez9]

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@tonkabeanpumpkin-fh4fz]

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[@xvjustvxfps3716]

Orion and Rich are the two most level headed red pill type channels I have found so seeing them work together is top quality for me. Good work gents.

[@hakeeem-hw3mr]

you two constantly give me such insight into becoming the man I want and the one women want. I am 19 heading into the armed forces and with the advice you two have given has been so helpful to me. Seriously grateful for you guys

[@noapologiesX]

Taraban is the best I’ve seen! Guy is legit.

[@SKwoodsman]

Excellent episode, excellent guest. Hope to see Orion Taraban on your show again.

[@imeqsmd]

Great discussion with an excellent guest. wishing I’d caught this one earlier A1 👍👍👍👍👍

[@raysimpson6075]

Best podcast on men's health I have heard in a while

[@masterninja4010]

Awesome guest, Rich. Y’all held my attention for the entire podcast. Please invite him back for more good insightful dialogue. Thanks

[@michaelmcqueen4514]

excellent guest

[@mikewiner3559]

Two podcast legends !!

[@miguelbrown65]

I started with Rich ,and my most recent is the good Dr. Gentlemen Thank You

[@mr.t993]

Awesome Talk. Thank You.

[@joedirnfeld]

Orion is a galaxy of insight

[@okaySam]

Very good high IQ conversation! Hope he comes back soon.

[@___._.__._._._._..__.._]

Been subscribed to both for a long time. A fantastic collab, please do more. Thanks.

[@westcoaster2805]

I believe everyone has to find their own path to enlightenment or personal liberation because everyone’s particular situation or circumstances are unique to that individual and that they have a personal responsibility to advocate for themselves, if at all possible. Buddha said something similar. I recommend getting as much information concerning this topic from a variety of channels, and then make your own path to salvation. Each channels is different, but generally pick some talking points from each that resonates with you and work from there. KZbin channels such as The SCG show (some of his videos about walking away, letting go is especially good imo, because a lot of men can’t let go and might shut themself off to the world, not going to work or gaining weight or at the other extreme may find themself getting arrested and in legal trouble), and a video titled ‘13 signs she’s stringing you along’ by skill of attraction can be be particularly helpful if you find yourself in this situation (because time is limited, and pain of being in this situation is real, hence, walking away videos such as from the scg show so you dont waste time or regret). Insightful videos such as Rich’s and Orion’s and to some extent channels like Darius M can also greatly help you in finding your own path and inspire you to reach that good place in your future that you envisioned and want to be at. Insightful videos can give you a better view of the challenges men face in terms of interpersonal relationships between the genders

[@clttiger704]

This was a great podcast. I enjoy all the content you’re providing but this might have been my favorite. Thank you!

[@gregorynelson9682]

My two favorite KZbinrs! You both have helped me so much. Thank you!

[@rickoutdoors]

Great interview Rich! You two went back and forth like old friends, letting each other say his piece and actually listening followed by building on the thought.

[@maslav4241]

Great to see you two guys collab

[@petercermak4804]

Thanks for this episode, I was very happy to see you two get together, as I follow both. This is exactly the kind of conversation and ideas that benefit men the most on their way to understanding relationship struggles. Keep on working on your books, looking forward!

[@PussInBoot414]

Great interview, really appreciate Dr. Taraban's work. that conversation from 1:05:51 really hits close to home. the kind of things i had to put up with from my ex, just wow. I'm 98% sure she had NPD and is a narcissist. they will drive you insane with mood swings, insane jealousy, gaslighting, rum our spreading, cheating, suicidal thoughts, no empathy or compassion others than for themselves, increasingly unfair demands, lack of respect...i could go on. It’s scary because it starts off so perfect but then the poison slowly starts creeping in. It's always refreshing hearing a professional explain everything i went through. If you ever get flags that point towards NPD or narcissism run for the hills and don't look back. No matter how beautiful she is or how good the sex was or how you "think" she gets you.

[@TGP109]

So, you chased good sex and then realized that there's more to a relationship when she turned out to be mentally ill.

[@okaySam]

@@TGP109 It's not just sex, mate. Cluster B chicks will lovebomb you and wear a tight mask that fades away over time. There might be red flags early on, but if you're inexperienced or carry trauma you might not act accordingly and carry on until you're locked into a relationship.

[@DD-xw6uw]

@@okaySam men nowadays are not really trained by family to know how to find those red flags and vet a girl. By contrast when my grandfather was dating my future grandmother, his dad was so tough in examining grandmother and she found him a burden in those early days. The thing is, if he wasn’t a burden in examining her, great grandfather may have allowed grandfather to find a bad wife or do stupid stuff he’d regret later

[@okaySam]

@@DD-xw6uw yup. It's the dissolution of family & values that's hurting all of us long term...

[@beauvrt]

Holy worlds collide, this one's gonna be good. Man, I'm really glad you put this on here. This is actually the best content because of the think tank and viewpoints. And I watch both of these creators and I take the good things from both of them. And it's really cool to see. Definitely more of this and less of the you just repeated explaining of the philosophy.

[@big_red_machine3547]

Best interview to date Rich. Thanks! You’re becoming more refined in your approach

[@oliverraman]

Great interview. Thank you to you both

[@andrewhughes6448]

This was incredibly useful Rich. This is a measured man you just had on. I like his analytical approach. Please, more of these with him! This reminds me of BFTT with Dr. Smith.

[@vzlano34]

Excellent meeting guys. Thank you for helping men!

[@Denmosocial]

31:30 "A 20 year old man is basically useless" holy that hit

[@honeybadger006]

This is perhaps the best episode you've ever put out 👍, more like this!

[@jrtama5]

Awesome awesome episode, thanks boys!

[@Gundice_the_cryomancer]

I have much respect for Dr. Orion.

[@hugoh7302]

Love this duo show. A great conversation.

[@elijahnielsen6352]

Great episode Rich! It’s very true, Women are and Men become …

[@maverickacademia]

Thanks for the great interview Rich! Your red pill experience has given you a lot of depth in knowing the right and interesting questions to ask. I see the manoswamp as the frontlines in the red pill arena. It is almost useless and senseless, although serves its purpose in empathizing with the red pill ragers. Orion's credability and approach in psychology helps with getting the important talking points of the red pill across. Great guest!

[@lomotil3370]

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:42 *🛠️ Red pill journey involves facing realities like family court struggles, single parenthood, and asset distribution post-divorce.* 03:00 *🌱 Taking the red pill is akin to a spiritual journey requiring significant personal transformation and sacrifice.* 04:47 *🚫 Some individuals get stuck in "red pill rage," failing to fully digest its insights and integrate them into a balanced worldview.* 05:01 *💡 Four key sources for understanding relationships and intersexual dynamics: observing human behavior, the "red pill," evolutionary psychology, and traditional psychology.* 06:13 *🔄 Keep an open mind to new information, but test and integrate it into your life before fully adopting it.* 07:35 *🎉 Orion Taraban's motivation to start his KZbin channel stemmed from his desire to reach and help a broader audience beyond his private practice.* 09:25 *🤝 Traditional therapy models may not resonate with men's problem-solving approach, leading to underutilization of mental health services by men.* 13:51 *🚹 Orion aims to create content close to truth about relationships without alienating either gender, fostering understanding and cooperation.* 16:51 *📈 While initially attracting a female audience, Orion's channel now primarily engages male viewers due to its content on intersexual dynamics.* 17:48 *🎥 KZbin was a natural platform choice for Orion due to his long-standing use and appreciation of the platform's potential for education and outreach.* 19:10 *📅 Committing to a three-year strategy for content creation on KZbin can lead to breakthroughs, even during challenging periods.* 21:44 *💡 Before investing in expensive equipment for content creation, focus on producing valuable content and learning through the process.* 24:57 *📚 Orion Taraban is working on a book that expands on the topics covered in his KZbin channel, aiming to provide a deeper understanding for his audience.* 28:55 *🚫 While some red pill content offers truths, the aggressive tone can alienate audiences and hinder meaningful dialogue.* 32:02 *🔴 The discussion of hypergamy can be framed in a way that fosters understanding rather than resentment or anger towards women.* 34:21 *😡 There's a subset of viewers in the red pill community who express anger and hopelessness, highlighting the challenges of navigating such discussions.* 37:18 *💡 Providing solutions to relationship difficulties can sometimes be met with resistance or anger, even if they aim to improve one's life.* 38:14 *💡 Hope is a complex roller coaster, especially for those facing terminal illnesses, where accepting reality becomes part of the process towards peace.* 39:36 *💡 While some may experience extended periods of aimlessness, there's always time for personal growth and change, especially for those in their 20s or 30s.* 40:47 *💡 Hopelessness can be comforting but can hinder progress; a fulfilling life can serve as a remedy, offering connection, achievement, and self-efficacy.* 42:34 *💡 Resistance to solutions for hopelessness can stem from not wanting change or lacking self-efficacy; necessity often becomes the catalyst for positive change.* 43:30 *💡 Offering solutions to someone who lacks the desire for improvement may be met with resistance; individuals must be willing to change for solutions to be effective.* 46:03 *💡 Participating in podcasts with controversial content, while uncomfortable, may provide insights into societal dynamics and extreme behaviors.* 49:04 *💡 Podcasts like "Whatever" may appeal to male fantasies of challenging or "putting in place" traditionally attractive women, contributing to their popularity.* 53:04 *💡 Extreme examples seen in podcasts may reveal underlying principles applicable to a broader demographic, offering insights into human behavior and dynamics.* 56:47 *🔍 Marriage caution: With personal experience of divorce, caution is advised due to the potential risks and legal complexities involved.* 57:52 *🚫 Questioning marriage benefits: Uncertainty about the benefits of marriage in the modern era, considering legal contracts and alternatives for long-term committed relationships.* 58:36 *💡 Modern perspectives on marriage: Marriage deconstruction allows for tailored relationships, considering changes in women's financial independence and relational needs.* 59:45 *💬 Men's desire for companionship: Patrice O'Neal's perspective on men's preference for companionship while maintaining independence in relationships.* 01:00:53 *🧬 Alternative relationship models: Highlighting non-cohabitating long-term relationships as viable options, offering flexibility and personal space.* 01:01:49 *🌱 Parenthood considerations: Deliberations on parenthood include the impact on lifestyle, career, and the need for a compatible partner.* 01:03:14 *⚠️ Importance of recognizing red flags: Learning from past experiences and identifying warning signs, particularly in relationships, to avoid future pitfalls.* 01:05:32 *🚩 Dealing with personality disordered individuals: Awareness of the challenges posed by individuals with personality disorders in relationships, emphasizing the need for understanding and coping strategies.* 01:08:15 *💔 Impact of contempt in relationships: Contempt signifies an unhealthy power dynamic, emphasizing the importance of acceptance and mutual respect for relationship longevity.* 01:15:37 *💥 Relationship dynamics and growth: Total security can hinder growth and development in relationships, advocating for healthy levels of uncertainty and challenges.* 01:16:46 *💑 Secure companionate love can hinder libido and healthy desire, requiring space and mystery.* 01:17:14 *🤝 Sex facilitates emotional bonding through oxytocin release, fostering trust and connection, especially in the early stages of a relationship.* 01:18:25 *👫 Everyone is unique yet replaceable, essential for cultural and societal progression.* 01:19:06 *💪 Visible competence in men is attractive to women and reinforces commitment in relationships.* 01:20:01 *📸 Instagram validation provides women with a sense of optionality and power in relationships.* 01:20:58 *🔥 Andrew Tate's aggressive tone attracts controversy, yet his message emphasizes excellence over chasing happiness.* 01:24:28 *📚 Book recommendations include "The Tactical Guide to Women" for responsible dating and philosophical readings for personal development.* 01:26:17 *🧠 Overcoming imposter syndrome involves recognizing the paradox within, building authentic confidence through experience, and acknowledging personal growth.* Made with HARPA AI

[@mightyzane5400]

Amazing guest insight

[@DocFischer]

Great Episode!

[@James-10002]

A beautiful conversation. Keep it up men

[@NilsMacQ]

What a great interview, love this, no wonder I like Orion, such a solid guy.

[@moonandastar]

that was great and informative, thank you both

[@schoolofthoughtedu]

My first step solution to hopelessness is you need make a list of what you're thankful for and it better be really long list.(Tough love)

[@schoolofthoughtedu]

Don't allow people to waddle in self hate and loathing. They are our of control with a spirit of darkness, rebellion etc.

[@zensvlognotapro]

Glad to see you two I wanna request that to Dr. O to have a Collab to you but idk why it becomes possible before I requested it 😊 I'm sure you become friends now 😊🖖 Men and women don't need to hate each other.

[@mdhazeldine]

Great podcast. Been subscribed to Orion's channel for a few months now and he always has some great insights and points, even if I don't 100% agree with everything he says.

[@alexanderneal6379]

One of your best podcasts

[@toddjames3372]

Solid session Rich. Great chat guys amd enjoyed all of it.

[@TheWayoftheWolf]

Man... I've been waiting for this interview and didn't even realize it until now.

[@d2svpcfp]

Great talk!

[@mrmmorrow7193]

Love the long form content

[@user-dj4fd5vc6c]

Date a personality disordered woman and you will never be the same ever again. Doing so was one of the worst experiences of my life, but having survived it relatively unscathed, without a doubt one of the best things that ever happened to me. A priceless education like no other. The capacity for cruelty of these people cannot be overstated. Beware, gentlemen.

[@PhantomDetailingMaui]

So true. I barely survived being to married to one. Stay away from borderlines. You can’t fix em and they are cruel af.

[@michaelcox8820]

Great guest, thank you I found this discussion so insightful. Yeah in terms of therapy, men don’t enjoy having to emotionally become vulnerable in front of a therapist, we do find it unpleasant; it’s like asking us to take all of our clothes off and sit naked in front of a stranger. Women find comfort in their vulnerability, which is an alien concept to men

[@windfactor]

Amazing content amazing guest!

[@njjj3338]

Around 1:08:00 is describing my ex-wife... very powerful and deep words. It's a very painful experience when it all comes crumbling down though. One of my girlfriends definitely has a personality disorder and I can see this now... I have to admit they make the most exciting lovers, when you are made to feel like a god!

[@TGP109]

Guys are attracted to BPD women because of the sex ''mania'' phase.

[@darlamckinnon4546]

What do you mean by 'one' of your girlfriends?

[@njjj3338]

@darlamckinnon4546 I have TWO girlfriends of which ONE might be BPD. I hope that is clearer!

[@mcjsrn]

Great guest.

[@eliotttownsend3828]

This is just gold!

[@ptrobo2]

Awesome interview

[@drmatthewhorkey]

Super intelligent conversation! The first time I saw Rich's face accept counterpoints from a guest.

[@charlesdavis7940]

Thanks!

[@wolfgangkranek376]

Excellent talk.

[@Ladeliciadelinda]

Lol "just shut up and listen". Yes, I admit we love a good long talk. But honestly sometimes it can be draining! I really didn't know that about Freud and how he came up with talk therapy but it makes total sense! Thanks for teaching me something new. I really like Dr Taraban's communication style and I really wish there were more videos aimed at women.

[@JohannesNielsen]

He had my attention right up to the point where he said "Make Women feel....." I myself am unable to make anyone feel an emotion. I spent three years in a Gestalt Psychotherapy training group in weekend intensives he would not last 5 minutes with my Gestalt mentor. My most used interventions is "At the end of the day it is whatever you make of it " and the full intervention is "From the role and position that I am in, in this moment and to the extent that I am aware, it can only ever be what you make of it " and that is a mix of Process Oriented Psychology (Dr Arnold Mindell) and Fritz Pearl's the founder of Gestalt Psychotherapy

[@TBlock1347]

You do realize not everyone went through that training. It's just a choice of words. The fact of the matter is you need to make women feel something from you whether you like it or not. I think you have an extreme point of view. Women are going to feel something from you regardless. It's your choice what the is manly from your behavior. Sure you are not in control of another person. But you can sure as he'll influence that.

[@brad6742]

The problem with ChatGPT for your therapy is that it will whitewash important answers as woke, especially regarding gender dynamics. Therefore, therapy in gender space cannot be outsourced to aligned AI unless you want ineffective/impotent advice.

[@peterpalashevky7423]

Very, very good talk

[@stevec3526]

Women love to talk to express and release emotions and to never resolve their issues. Men prefer talking to actually solve their problems.

[@chipsteve]

I think in a lot of cases - therapy for women is primarily a vehicle to seek and find validation and justification for her awful behavior & choices. IOW- Therapy is their "toxic behavior enabler".

[@marriagepartnersministry5942]

Not sure about that... If the man is the woman's perceived problem then she doesn't want to talk about it she wants your ass to change. If your her perceived problem then she will never be satisfied by talking to you about her problem with you.

[@Diego-fb5fq]

Excellent interaction! Good introduction to O.T. Nice mention of Tom L. who was the start of the journey for many of us. Not a mention of plate-spinning or R.T. "the Godfather" but you guys did not slip up a-once. EvoPsych should be taught early on, and not wait until our 50s. Mental point of origin, but also empathy for our fellow humans who happen to be female as their youthful options slip away. Be careful when trying to rescue a drowning swimmer!

[@Guildofarcanelore]

Dr. Taraban is always a great guest.

[@Akcd11r2002]

Rich and Orion need to deep dive on the root cause of ALL the issues men have with women today... ABUSIVE MOTHERS when they were young in their formative years.

[@siddalingeshargowda6993]

Nice guest Great podcast

[@XSAoRAD]

New subscriber, great guest!

[@jayxavier6930]

1:24:00 In terms of book recommendations... the specter of Nietzsche hangs over almost ever male-oriented content I find online. Best to start there.

[@dwdwone]

Dr. Tariban seems like a nice guy.

[@Emin.V.Aliyev1]

This was a great guest