Queer Bullying Victims Sit Down with Former Bullies | them.

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@Hotspot87
@Hotspot87 6 жыл бұрын
I was under the impression that they were sitting down with THEIR bullies, not just random people who were also bullies.
@swabby429
@swabby429 5 жыл бұрын
Same here. This would have been an incredible video if that had been the case.
@MissLaurenRochon
@MissLaurenRochon 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@Marieparawho
@Marieparawho 5 жыл бұрын
Right ?! They did that on purpose for more views.
@mikajulius8148
@mikajulius8148 5 жыл бұрын
Same here & great pity it's not.
@witch-of-jotunhiem
@witch-of-jotunhiem 5 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@cookiekhoala
@cookiekhoala 6 жыл бұрын
i hate how similar these narratives are, in terms of the places they felt unsafe, suicidal thoughts, missing school or dropping out.
@ineffablemars
@ineffablemars 6 жыл бұрын
The guy in the turtleneck is absolutely gorgeous. They all are, but he has such beautiful eyes.
@ineffablemars
@ineffablemars 6 жыл бұрын
Also the person in the bandana and hoop earrings 😍
@jordanhines2417
@jordanhines2417 6 жыл бұрын
Astrid Wagner he was on americas next top model
@isabellamatt05
@isabellamatt05 6 жыл бұрын
Astrid Wagner you’re welcome I was the 100th like 😂😂
@aashi8316
@aashi8316 6 жыл бұрын
I agree but don't use masculine pronouns. They identify as queer.
@pshceluver2899
@pshceluver2899 6 жыл бұрын
My Art Page IKR OMG SO BEAUTIFUL
@Hello-rx5rj
@Hello-rx5rj 7 жыл бұрын
cory has the most beautiful eyes i’ve ever seen
@marina-lg4pg
@marina-lg4pg 6 жыл бұрын
mikayla he was on Americas next top model
@groweve
@groweve 6 жыл бұрын
Skeletons/In/My/Paper/Closet I knew it😂 I was like I've seen this dude before
@marina-lg4pg
@marina-lg4pg 6 жыл бұрын
Everlove ly yeah! He's super gorgeous, tho he shouldn't have went home :/
@AntonioTLCanelas
@AntonioTLCanelas 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, just yes
@godhatesme5555
@godhatesme5555 6 жыл бұрын
He’s such a gorgeous person tbh
@ladyshkspre
@ladyshkspre 6 жыл бұрын
The one who said he ended up "capitalizing" on the things that made him different meant that he became a model. The entire video I kept thinking, "Man, he is gorgeous!".
@colourized8494
@colourized8494 6 жыл бұрын
Because of makeup
@groweve
@groweve 6 жыл бұрын
I thought I'd seen him before
@stardoll1995
@stardoll1995 6 жыл бұрын
He's really beautiful with or without makeup tbh. 😍
@ladyshkspre
@ladyshkspre 6 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@aashi8316
@aashi8316 6 жыл бұрын
ladyshkspre who me
@ShadoWolf43
@ShadoWolf43 7 жыл бұрын
I love how the victims were so quick to reassure the bullies. They saw that they hated themselves far more then the victims ever could hate them. They had a right to hate them but them after all they done but they choose the opposite instantly.
@gaysunshineshit4662
@gaysunshineshit4662 6 жыл бұрын
overgrow00 ok then I'm very sure that's true based on this graph that is made up and doesn't exist nor does any evidence ever suggesting gays are more likely to be bullies in fact it's usually the opposite
@gaysunshineshit4662
@gaysunshineshit4662 6 жыл бұрын
overgrow00 ok an example please I need to be enlightened with your ground breaking genius evidence to support this opinion
@gaysunshineshit4662
@gaysunshineshit4662 6 жыл бұрын
overgrow00 u srsly gonna tell me all gay people are bullies and not have any evidence to support your reason for this opinion (religion cannot be counted as a reason as it is a belief therefore it is not fact until proven by science)
@jcgrande9007
@jcgrande9007 7 жыл бұрын
that person with the black bandana and hoops is just soooo beautiful I literally can't
@caitlinjopepe541
@caitlinjopepe541 7 жыл бұрын
J. C. Is it just me or is she giving Anna Kendrick vibes?
@Chilidog02
@Chilidog02 6 жыл бұрын
J. C. They’re so pretty!
@iguana7536
@iguana7536 6 жыл бұрын
SO PRETTY!
@vanjaustipak4223
@vanjaustipak4223 6 жыл бұрын
J. C. Are you blind?
@daniellewinn5774
@daniellewinn5774 6 жыл бұрын
Vegan Sabbath Are you?
@jasoneaton3683
@jasoneaton3683 7 жыл бұрын
Please add captions to your videos, or allow for users to submit captions! These are such important videos; all should be able to access them!
@airealedossi1489
@airealedossi1489 6 жыл бұрын
Jason Eaton there are caption menus
@jasoneaton3683
@jasoneaton3683 6 жыл бұрын
there are only auto-captions, which are unreliable in their accuracy and leave out a lot of audio information beyond speech
@ag267
@ag267 6 жыл бұрын
Jason Eaton yess every video needs captions. I'm not deaf but I have trouble understanding what people are saying due to my illness my comprehension is really bad
@mollymarshmallow3072
@mollymarshmallow3072 6 жыл бұрын
Jason Eaton iiiii
@Jana-qm7og
@Jana-qm7og 6 жыл бұрын
_But it's the year 2018! We are all so accepting! No one is homophobic anymore! We all love gay people! Why are you afraid of coming out! It's not like anyone would care!_ Things like these are still happening. Homophobia isn't over over. I hope cishet people understand that. Stay strong tho! We'll get through that.
@daisydrawsstuff4227
@daisydrawsstuff4227 6 жыл бұрын
Quiet Ky I fell under this illusion when I moved cities. Ive always been v closeted so the backlash of being found out was something Id almost tricked myself into thinking wouldnt happen after high school until it did. I didnt expect for homophobic bullying to continue beyond my teenage years, like I knew it happened to people, but I didnt expect it to happen to me. I didnt expect to be laughed at, ridiculed, called dirty, sinful, ungodly, or have people question my identity or childhood experiences. But its also really heartwarming to see that the bullies often have their own reasons and often carry regrets for it. The fact a lot of bullies of lgbt+ people are also gay is something I also found touching and made sense
@ghostly_cicada3276
@ghostly_cicada3276 6 жыл бұрын
I could not down that argument with three letters: WBC, if u don’t know look it up
@daisydrawsstuff4227
@daisydrawsstuff4227 6 жыл бұрын
The first several pages of results on google all said 'white blood cell' for every result, im a little confused?
@natsuki4021
@natsuki4021 6 жыл бұрын
DaisyDrawsStuff probably meant WBBC
@yeetskeetgay6136
@yeetskeetgay6136 6 жыл бұрын
MY family is
@CheezyWorm222
@CheezyWorm222 7 жыл бұрын
why doesnt this have more views
@karimsoto4889
@karimsoto4889 7 жыл бұрын
Jay Marx I completely agree.
@koutaono9973
@koutaono9973 7 жыл бұрын
true tho. Its such a powerful message
@Simplyd1v1ne
@Simplyd1v1ne 7 жыл бұрын
Jay Marx right
@solargeknowles4354
@solargeknowles4354 6 жыл бұрын
Because the world is trash.
@wadupcat876
@wadupcat876 6 жыл бұрын
There are so many channels like this popping up recently if you aren't already aware.
@tiberiussugarplum9780
@tiberiussugarplum9780 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy that my school is super open about sexuality and gender. A lot of the students even seem too praise queers.. the teachers also couldn't be bothered.. it's just nice to see how my school is so excepting with race, gender, sexuality, religion and stuff like that
@punkievella8574
@punkievella8574 6 жыл бұрын
Bloody Crowley・King Of Hell ~Kiriko~ Mine too xx My school even have constant events for acceptance (such as purple day to accept the lgbtq+ community). It's greaaaaat
@araclaudia27
@araclaudia27 6 жыл бұрын
COMPLETE opposite here, wish i could go there and never come back
@b4h4mutaja
@b4h4mutaja 6 жыл бұрын
*accepting. sorry had to correct this, cuz the meaning got really way opposite with what you are trying to say. cheers
@tiberiussugarplum9780
@tiberiussugarplum9780 6 жыл бұрын
bima satria lol, you're right, thanks
@liza9415
@liza9415 6 жыл бұрын
Bloody Crowley・King Of Hell ~Kiriko~ lucky, I can’t go a day without hearing someone use gay as an insult
@owlislike
@owlislike 6 жыл бұрын
I find that a lot of people who have been bullied tend to be very kind because they have a very deep understanding of what it means to not be accepted and how painful that can be. I was bullied my entire school life but one of the things that came out of it for me personally is the ability to make friends with all types of people no matter what they look like.
@mchowdhury3184
@mchowdhury3184 6 жыл бұрын
Ok but why teachers and head masters in America are so careless about these things
@elizadoolittle23
@elizadoolittle23 6 жыл бұрын
Vabenee vaabeene Exactly. That extreme level of bullying doesn’t occur in the rest of the west world
@adriannolan1462
@adriannolan1462 6 жыл бұрын
cause they homophobic too and their thought process is basically “well dont act so gay and they wont bother u”(legit something i was told in MIDDLE SCHOOL)
@lazolizs7683
@lazolizs7683 4 жыл бұрын
Malaysian teachers and headmasters too, in fact, they appear to be more homophobic than the bullies themselves
@tamekatheblob5857
@tamekatheblob5857 6 жыл бұрын
i dont know their name but the bullied person who was wearing the blue dress and makeup is?? gorgeous??
@jimmypopotin4579
@jimmypopotin4579 4 жыл бұрын
Teagan
@randomnerd9004
@randomnerd9004 5 жыл бұрын
They are all so freaking beautiful. I'm crying. And I want to hug them.
@ashelise3487
@ashelise3487 2 жыл бұрын
No you don’t want to hug them. Cause ur gonna be waiting a while, I’ll be there hugging them all first.
@toleratingtate1673
@toleratingtate1673 6 жыл бұрын
My defense mechanism has always been to make people scared to speak to me because I'm really afraid of being bullied like I was in middle School
@marcuspainter4885
@marcuspainter4885 6 жыл бұрын
Tolerating Tate the majority of my class mates thought I couldn’t speak until it became mandatory to do speech’s. My best friend now thought I was mean just because of the stares I would give people. Now I’m a loud, happy and me. It’s not because I came out to people it’s because I finally came out to myself, I decided that no matter what others did to me I was going to be me. The rest like a wise queen once said would be “ water off a ducks back,”(jinkx monsoon)
@junkmansobbligato
@junkmansobbligato 6 жыл бұрын
I think I do too, haven’t realised it till’ now tho..
@katrinalin2496
@katrinalin2496 6 жыл бұрын
I used to be like you. I dominated others because I feared being taken advantage of. I yelled at people. I was stubborn and loud. Even violent if need be. All to appear tough and to protect myself. It wasn't until a long time later until I realized the damage I had done to my relationships. I nearly lost some of my most loyal friends because we disagreed on something and I lost my temper with them. People thought I was unfriendly and intimidating. One guy i worked with was even suprised that I was cooperative during groupwork because he probably had this impression of me that I was scary and demanding, when I don't usually intend to come off that way. The worst part of all of this is that I nearly lost my ability to empathize with other people. Still trying my best to change for the better. I've been scared for too long. I need to start being kind to others again. The world might be cruel and unkind, but that doesn't mean that I have to be.
@dio_hoestar_4204
@dio_hoestar_4204 4 жыл бұрын
Same, I wore a permanent scowl, bcs people bullied me when i was a little kid. Whenever i started a new year they tried it again , but since I always acted so aggressively and had "reputation" built on being hostile and sometimes beating ppl who pissed me off, ppl were kinda scared to aproach me... not very good cause u end up alone. I've changed now, I'm not as aggressive and unpleasant as I used to be, after a lot of years in therapy.
@solargeknowles4354
@solargeknowles4354 6 жыл бұрын
I just want them. to know that you guys have the potential to be a powerful media force for this generations LGBTQ community.
@anjabender5955
@anjabender5955 6 жыл бұрын
Bullying sucks so much, its why i hated middle school so much. And being pan is also really hard. people called me really mean names in the hall when my girlfriend and i would hold hands last year and it was my first year in high school so that was really hard on me.
@elkstrooper4651
@elkstrooper4651 4 жыл бұрын
Anja i am so sorry
@ZacharyAlexanderGoh
@ZacharyAlexanderGoh 6 жыл бұрын
I used to be very homophobic. My dad's like a conservative pastor and being so obviously gay since young (I'm slightly bi but you get the point) , I denied my identity by hating it and as such, really got disgusted at the idea of homosexuality as a whole. Of course I was called gay and a bunch of other things and obviously, no one ever stood up, be it in school or church. My parents would never have helped me in the right way and would have probably tried to make me more masculine. That's why I learnt to stand up for myself. I'm honestly thankful God made me this way. I became so much more accepting and calmer as a result of my experiences in life. Even if I had a choice, I wouldn't change who I am. There are no ifs or buts in God's world and I'm learning everyday and I'm happy the way I am. Be yourself, God made you this way for a reason.
@blesstansonyeondan
@blesstansonyeondan 4 жыл бұрын
Finally someone who doesn’t ignore their religion for their delusion
@blesstansonyeondan
@blesstansonyeondan 4 жыл бұрын
Bradley Caine Ya’ll honestly so toxic to religious people it shows
@viashaw9789
@viashaw9789 3 жыл бұрын
@@blesstansonyeondan wtf are you talking about. They just said they were bi and religious
@ashelise3487
@ashelise3487 2 жыл бұрын
I respect you with all my heart,
@user-rl1pd8ei1n
@user-rl1pd8ei1n 7 жыл бұрын
Cory is amazing
@roseelizabeth8911
@roseelizabeth8911 6 жыл бұрын
These poor people, as a young lesbian in highschool, I get bullied. However, these people have had it so much worse. I don't know how anyone could be so horrible.
@sarenairanzi2632
@sarenairanzi2632 8 ай бұрын
@roseelizabeth8911 how are you doing now?
@diefenbaker7853
@diefenbaker7853 6 жыл бұрын
This would have been better it the people got to speak with the actual people who bullied them.
@moonbeeps
@moonbeeps 7 жыл бұрын
"Im telling them "you're gonna be nice to gay people"" - You should tell them, "be nice to people, however they are."
@moonbeeps
@moonbeeps 7 жыл бұрын
No.
@leojoey6606
@leojoey6606 7 жыл бұрын
omfg piss off
@Michaela-yh9sm
@Michaela-yh9sm 7 жыл бұрын
???
@Lilnugget_96
@Lilnugget_96 6 жыл бұрын
I think what moonbeeps means is that we should be nice to everyone. People can be mean to 'normal people' too. Just because you are nice to gay people, doesn't mean you are a good person. That's like "I'm gonna be nice to you because you're different".
@H1gh1tter
@H1gh1tter 6 жыл бұрын
Leo Joey, why? They have a point. A really good one in fact.
@jamesrocha6099
@jamesrocha6099 5 жыл бұрын
I went through the same as a student and an adult. Life is hard, I'm still waiting for acceptance, i just embrace the people who love me for who I am. everyone is beautiful
@ashelise3487
@ashelise3487 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know you, but I accept you. I too am LGBTQ+ and not accepted.
@Specialist_7
@Specialist_7 6 жыл бұрын
They called me weirdo, ugly, worthless, skeleton, garbage, loser. They laughed at me. They threw stuff at me. They locked me in a locker. One time a guy choked me on my way home. I’m a heterosexual white woman. I just wasn’t pretty or normal enough. So I can’t even imagine the hell a gay/trans person goes through. I think they have it even worse. Bullying has an impact on my whole life even 15 years later.
@galzo9149
@galzo9149 6 жыл бұрын
Cory and reny would make a hot couple
@antisocialboy3756
@antisocialboy3756 6 жыл бұрын
The person in the winged eyeliner and black bandana 💕💕 so gorgeous
@blesstansonyeondan
@blesstansonyeondan 4 жыл бұрын
Just bc he’s like that smh
@breannajarvis9134
@breannajarvis9134 6 жыл бұрын
_Am I the only one that knows that Cory is from ANTM 2.0?_
@user-im1jq3lw2l
@user-im1jq3lw2l 6 жыл бұрын
* TheyyAdoreeBreBre * I thought I knew him from somewhere 😅😅
@Rita-kx3yr
@Rita-kx3yr 6 жыл бұрын
I knew instantly!!!!
@angellus09
@angellus09 6 жыл бұрын
I recognized him from the thumbnail.
@eaiza8285
@eaiza8285 5 жыл бұрын
You know what sucks the most about bullying? It's that everyone says it's just a phase, that if you endure it for a few years, everything will be okay. But it's not. People mess with your head, your emotions, even your identity. You feel so broken, you skip classes, your grades starts to get bad, and some kids just can't take it and drop out. If they don't end up killing themselves that is. Your whole life is ruined just because some problematic teenager can't control their anger. That's what really sucks.
@moonlightcabin9395
@moonlightcabin9395 6 жыл бұрын
Pain. So much pain in this video. What kind of world are we living in where people are tormented for being who they are?
@rodfranc1
@rodfranc1 4 жыл бұрын
I was bullied for almost my entire school life but in high school things change, It didn't get better I just got tired of being the victim, I started to fight back, I took self defense lessons and I stopped being afraid, when my bullies saw I wasn't willing to keep taking it they let me alone
@BryanFitzhugh
@BryanFitzhugh 7 жыл бұрын
this needs more views, i would love to be apart of these videos
@johnheng1040
@johnheng1040 7 жыл бұрын
This needs more views
@krustenpizza
@krustenpizza 5 жыл бұрын
I bullied a girl in elementary school together with a friend of mine and to this day I don't know why I even did it. I didn't even had a personal problem with her, I guess it just made me feel powerful. We were nice to her somtimes and during these times she tried to be our friend, because she didn't had anyone else. But then we started to be very mean again. I told her I'm sorry when I found her on Facebook about four years later and we talked a bit and she said it's okay. My friend regrets it also, but as far as I know I she never spoke with the girl again. So whatever, don't bully.
@Coco_Loco95
@Coco_Loco95 5 жыл бұрын
fre439 this was a great comment. I had a similar experience. I was a bully & was bullied. It’s odd.
@AWlpsSHOW36
@AWlpsSHOW36 2 жыл бұрын
Good on you for taking accountability and fronting up to what you've done. I love that you reached out to the girl and apologised for everything. I have so much respect and admiration for you.
@tiano6862
@tiano6862 6 жыл бұрын
They all look so futuristic😳
@DP-jy2ge
@DP-jy2ge 6 жыл бұрын
Tia No dear god ... no.
@CatlynW97
@CatlynW97 6 жыл бұрын
Tia No Some really do look like they belong in some sort of sci-fi setting, don't they? In a good way of course-- they're all quite attractive
@Feliciatanktop
@Feliciatanktop 6 жыл бұрын
They do, it’s a bit intimidating. Because they’re so attractive yet so unique. I feel like their wardrobes would put mine to shame
@danicao5010
@danicao5010 6 жыл бұрын
I have worked at my job for almost 7 years now & in that time, we have had a lot of employees & managers who were gay, lesbian & a couple of transgenders and honestly they are some of the sweetest, genuine, most down to earth people I've ever met. I wish that this world didn't have so many hateful, narrowminded & judgemental people. Nobody deserves to be bullied.
@artisticsyko
@artisticsyko 6 жыл бұрын
Went through this same thing in Oklahoma!!! All the same people in OK came out, but I am not as big of a person to forgive them. Congrats to you all. Way to go.
@lesliea.5197
@lesliea.5197 6 жыл бұрын
The man with the higher voice is so gorgeous. Everything about him is on point. I wish everyone who is struggling with being themeselves all the best in life. Only God can judge you and HE loves ALL. You aren’t alone x
@daphnehenderson2983
@daphnehenderson2983 5 жыл бұрын
I want to give them all hugs and let them know it’s okay, I don’t even know them but I love them so much 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️
@rdkuless
@rdkuless 6 жыл бұрын
The worst part is that Teachers know and see what is going on and then do nothing. Then those same teachers demand respect. The answer is a ZeroTollerance policy on bullying. First offense requires a 3 day expulsion and to go back, the bully must write a 500 word essay that explains why bullies bully. It must demonstrate that they understand words like deflecting. Or they can't come back to bully other people. ZERO Tollerance policy is a must.
@djean90
@djean90 6 жыл бұрын
I hate bullies. This is so heart breaking.
@andiehernandez1995
@andiehernandez1995 6 жыл бұрын
This video literally made me cry. I loved it though. I can relate to some of the things they talked about and it's just so sad. I'm not out to my family yet, only most of my friends know. I'm not cis, nor straight, nor allo and I'm not monogamous either. I think that's a lot of explaining to my family and I don't know if they'd get it honestly. I love your channel
@miggiangeles600
@miggiangeles600 7 жыл бұрын
OMG IS THAT THE GUY FROM ANTM!?!?
@lindsaylynn1356
@lindsaylynn1356 7 жыл бұрын
Miggi Angeles Yes it is
@anonymous-rh7zo
@anonymous-rh7zo 6 жыл бұрын
Which one?
@kittnz0859
@kittnz0859 6 жыл бұрын
xoxo143 Turtleneck
@Itsclarkew7
@Itsclarkew7 6 жыл бұрын
I thought that!!
@NajiaLblackbullet2424
@NajiaLblackbullet2424 6 жыл бұрын
Cory was my favorite contestant on America's Next Top Model. He was and still is beyond gorgeous
@genedoll3054
@genedoll3054 5 жыл бұрын
As I watch this I have high school flashbacks and I’m holding back tears😢😓 it’s just so painful. I relate with the victims way too much.
@juicycheese8101
@juicycheese8101 6 жыл бұрын
the girl with the bandana is so gorgeous. jesus christ. 👀💥💕💌
@Dan-iz7qz
@Dan-iz7qz 6 жыл бұрын
i think drag queens still identify as men, I could be wrong though, he could be trans
@jcat5443
@jcat5443 6 жыл бұрын
Omg I thought the same @juicy cheese!!!! She's stunning! My lesbian heart cannot handle I'm so in love 💞💞💞 I hope she feels ethereal every single day of her life. 💞 :') Trans women are so powerful and wonderful and their existences are pure love 💞
@juicycheese8101
@juicycheese8101 6 жыл бұрын
they're still gorgeous
@yasminvillanueva3141
@yasminvillanueva3141 6 жыл бұрын
The gay guy in the beard is so cute
@elkstrooper4651
@elkstrooper4651 4 жыл бұрын
La Mexicana hey
@imfailingmydegree8070
@imfailingmydegree8070 6 жыл бұрын
Being bisexual I relate so much to these people. I faced suicidal thoughts, self harm and eating disorders but I’m finally becoming myself. And that’s pretty damn amazing
@amirulzamri7833
@amirulzamri7833 6 жыл бұрын
That one guy really looked like Jude Law whoah!
@merncat75
@merncat75 6 жыл бұрын
Why don't they show these types of videos in schools?!? There should be an entire curriculum dedicated to this topic. Preferably by no later than 5th grade but before middle school
@AramasG
@AramasG 6 жыл бұрын
Y'all beautiful, we all are in our own ways. I never used to understand why or how people could be so cruel to each other but then as you grow up you realise a lot of the time people are just distracting themselves or others from how they are feeling about themselves or because of their own suffering. not that it excuses it at all. Even if we are hurting it's not okay to make others feel that way. We are all responsible for our own actions. I'm fat and people have ridiculed me since high school - it used to hurt me back then but now I use it as my shield.. yes I am fat if you have a problem with it that's your issue to deal with. When you love and accept yourself you start to pity those that can't see past their own prejudices.
@baassik8419
@baassik8419 Жыл бұрын
Narrative4 and them:I appreciate everyone who shared their ,(heartbreaking and unfortunately, familiar), but I did expect seeing the former bullies of the guests. (I think that a few of the viewers expected this.) The title of the video,(briefly), throws off the expectation and impact. But thank you for creating and posting this.
@ninab.7018
@ninab.7018 6 жыл бұрын
They are wonderful people and it hurts to watch this and hear about the pain they experienced. It’s important to stand up against bullies!
@sweetjewel011
@sweetjewel011 6 жыл бұрын
I can feel you guys, same as me bullies never get away from this.
@jrdn48
@jrdn48 4 жыл бұрын
I hate the word "bully". It makes something so serious sound child like... it should be labelled abuse because that's what it is
@elliottlewis65
@elliottlewis65 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@lunatuna9083
@lunatuna9083 4 жыл бұрын
Each one of these beautiful, incredible and brave people - I love and admire you so much! Your courage and heart in the midst of such evil is beyond words. Keep speaking out - this world needs you! 💙💜💙💙💜😂
@bleh8227
@bleh8227 6 жыл бұрын
It annoys me when people are put down because they're gay, bi, trans, asexual, or anything else. I am a girl, and I have a beautiful girlfriend who goes through constant ridicule because she is bi, and is open about it. Her little brother who is in like fourth grade calls her the f-slur, and I can't be there for her all the time, and it hurts. I can't come out to my parents without worrying that I will be vocally, abused, and put down by them, or physically by my brother. It sucks, but I know things will get better for us. A few more years until we can move out, and be whoever we want
@kuromistan645
@kuromistan645 Жыл бұрын
How r u doing now
@industrialalliance9905
@industrialalliance9905 6 жыл бұрын
I would never do this. If I saw one of my bullies again and they said sorry I would punch them right in the face. I don't forgive and I don't forget.
@witchby9362
@witchby9362 5 жыл бұрын
This isn't them and their bullies, it's them and people who used to bully people at school.
@blaqrose6911
@blaqrose6911 6 жыл бұрын
I was so moved by this video.
@livwaits1743
@livwaits1743 6 жыл бұрын
Love the video, and love this channel! The title is a tad bit misleading, though, just gotta say. It's less "queer people confront their bullies" and more "queer people who were bullied confront other queer people who have had trouble with internalized homophobia/transphobia".
@livwaits1743
@livwaits1743 6 жыл бұрын
But I get that that's a whole other set of issues to unpack and maybe doesn't lend itself to a great KZbin video title. Also, I think I'm just arguing with myself in public at this point. #messy
@fruitbatfox
@fruitbatfox 6 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I would ever forgive a bully. These people are much better individuals than I could be.
@lisawalker91
@lisawalker91 4 жыл бұрын
The person in the gray sweater is absolutely beautiful, stunning rather.
@jetzelmarr8579
@jetzelmarr8579 5 жыл бұрын
If you're being bullied I highly recommend watching CARRIE (1976) ROMY and MICHELE'S high school reunion (1997) those 2 movies changed my life!
@lukeyas78rtw
@lukeyas78rtw 5 жыл бұрын
This like totally made me cry, I'm balling my eyes out...I can relate to this as a victim of bullying.
@rosemimi973
@rosemimi973 4 жыл бұрын
Former bullies...there is no such thing. Bullies will remain bullies. It has to be in someone‘s nature. You see what you are doing to the person and you are fine doing it. I hope their „targets“ are all still alive and haven’t harmed themselves.
@snowd760
@snowd760 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you all for sharing your stories. Beautiful.
@ambermacgill8503
@ambermacgill8503 6 жыл бұрын
Ummmm holdup... can we just talk about how beautiful Cory is??
@Quizoid
@Quizoid 6 жыл бұрын
I work with gay teens and often tell them that the more someone makes fun of their queerness, the higher the chances are of that bully being queer. The same principle applies to anti-gay politicians.
@cutiepie6115
@cutiepie6115 6 жыл бұрын
The women with wearing a headband is so wonderful! I feel like she’s so sweet and definitely beautiful
@Shaniawillams1
@Shaniawillams1 3 жыл бұрын
Umm i give it to the bullies that they had courage to come out and be honest but hoenstly idk I cant stand people who using being hateful as a defense mechanism but its ok they live and learn and try to be better which is ok
@draco-jf9kc
@draco-jf9kc 6 жыл бұрын
I’m glad those people stoped bullying
@maohuerta
@maohuerta 6 жыл бұрын
My dad and some of my teachers were my biggest bullies ! Learn to forget, learn to forgive !
@jacobbonlender1378
@jacobbonlender1378 6 жыл бұрын
all of these people and their stories are so beautiful. i had goosebumps the whole time watching this.
@sataniclemonz
@sataniclemonz 6 жыл бұрын
it makes me sad that homophobia is still around. someone shouldn't get bullied for their sexual orientation in any way, shape, or form. This video has opened my eyes in many different ways. I want to be that person that stands up for someone who is getting bullied. 💛
@Simplyd1v1ne
@Simplyd1v1ne 7 жыл бұрын
THIS NEED A PART 2
@fabiangomez7853
@fabiangomez7853 4 жыл бұрын
Fight! Fight! Fight! Wait, these aren't THEIR bullies? Just random bullies? Still Fight! Still Fight! Still Fight!
@NoName-li9rx
@NoName-li9rx 5 жыл бұрын
I really hope their bullies see this and feel like crap for a long time. More than that, I want them to make amends with these people. Also, John Paul Brammer is a national treasure (they all are) but I follow JP on twitter and I cannot wait to read the book he’s writing.
@garyhaines8296
@garyhaines8296 6 жыл бұрын
Most of the incidents here happened to me and what bullies fail to realise until later is that they are ruining someone’s life be their victim gay or straight. I was bullied for twenty plus years and let me tell you I am but a shell of a man because of it. I have no self confidence or self esteem and I’m now painfully shy even at 47. What did I do? I wrote a book that, if published, will help people if they find themselves in the same situation. This video is a brilliant exercise and I only wish I could have done this.
@DP-jy2ge
@DP-jy2ge 6 жыл бұрын
Gary Haines 20 years? That is highly unusual, and indicates that it followed you around. Did you seek treatment or help for whatever it was about you which attracted bullies? Sometimes it IS us, and we won't get better unless we acknowledge that possibility.
@codyt.6053
@codyt.6053 6 жыл бұрын
teagan is so gorgeous. obviously theres a whole lot else of meaningful things to take away this video but still. theyre so strikingly pretty
@00zebooze68
@00zebooze68 6 жыл бұрын
I wish I was with them in that period of time so i could embrace them and comfort them
@amynicole_3331
@amynicole_3331 6 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful
@raymondkymsuttle
@raymondkymsuttle 5 жыл бұрын
What I don’t understand is why teachers don’t do anything in these situations? If I ever caught a bully doing anything like this I’d drag them out of the school & insist their parents were held accountable for their children’s abusive behaviour.
@momcompickmeupimscared8635
@momcompickmeupimscared8635 4 жыл бұрын
Because most of the teachers blame the bullied kids
@MicahRion
@MicahRion 4 жыл бұрын
Restorative justice conversations 👏 YES
@Blue_Azure101
@Blue_Azure101 6 жыл бұрын
And then they were roommaathes...
@KaiInMotion
@KaiInMotion 6 жыл бұрын
shocklett oh my god they were roommates
@brandonreynoso5239
@brandonreynoso5239 6 жыл бұрын
I get it
@exilr-qr2nl
@exilr-qr2nl 6 жыл бұрын
omg they were roomaathes
@Bruh-qz1rc
@Bruh-qz1rc 7 жыл бұрын
YOU CAN TELL THE CHICK IN THE YELLOW HAS ALBINISM JUST LIKE ME :DD
@rilee5275
@rilee5275 6 жыл бұрын
M I X E D N U T S That's so great! I'm blind. So, it's cool to see some representation of a person with a visual impairment.
@ionapeters2010
@ionapeters2010 6 жыл бұрын
Rilee how are you reading that and writing that if you're blind I'm so confused
@giuliam9645
@giuliam9645 6 жыл бұрын
Iona Peters sarcasm
@Bruh-qz1rc
@Bruh-qz1rc 6 жыл бұрын
Iona Peters y a l l need to realise that being blindd doesnt mean you cant see anything
@tpcx8086
@tpcx8086 6 жыл бұрын
M I X E D N U T S and also there are a lot of text to speech devices blind people can use to help them write and read online.
@peachfuzz7991
@peachfuzz7991 4 жыл бұрын
These things happen AT SCHOOL and it's so AWFUL, because it's the adults' responsibility to be a person that the child is comforable with talking to and to prevent these happenings and intervene if they do happen
@kateehrhardt
@kateehrhardt 6 жыл бұрын
I want to hug all these people because I have been bullied really badly
@therobloxians8251
@therobloxians8251 6 жыл бұрын
So many people deserve much better
@ninaazule
@ninaazule 5 жыл бұрын
I just want to hug them and tell them they are loved.😪
@jordanhines2417
@jordanhines2417 6 жыл бұрын
i was looking at the thumbnail and i was like: “omg who would every bully them they’re so prett- WAIT IS THAT COREY?!”
@bornwithoutconsentobviously
@bornwithoutconsentobviously 6 жыл бұрын
spicy peach so ugly people deserve to get bullied?
@Clownpuppetz
@Clownpuppetz 6 жыл бұрын
Someone In The Comments Shut up. :)
@bornwithoutconsentobviously
@bornwithoutconsentobviously 6 жыл бұрын
lone raindrop no :)
@maxsloan5828
@maxsloan5828 6 жыл бұрын
remy is so adorable
@DCHighlander11
@DCHighlander11 6 жыл бұрын
Girl he's so annoying on twitter
@lucas.pereir.a
@lucas.pereir.a 6 жыл бұрын
Alex S what's his twitter?
@sosoh.6213
@sosoh.6213 4 жыл бұрын
How are all of these humans so beautiful?
@nyanuar123
@nyanuar123 3 жыл бұрын
Their not
@MJmannn
@MJmannn 6 жыл бұрын
I was in a similar boat in private middle school. It got better towards the end, but i was hard. I was so despite to fit in and be a perfect girl that I was just a fake person. I was in make up, I was in pink, dresses, ext. It was very hard and eventually told one girl that I thought I was gay, and she told the volleyball team, and them they told everyone else. People wouldn't even look at me the same way after it got out. People told me I was going to hell, the called me gross, disgusting, and a few girls even called me, "A little girl molester." I was told by the girls to go sit with the boys at lunch because they didn't want me to have a crush on them. The boys didn't want me to sit with them either. Eventually I told my parents that I'm a lesbian, and they denied it to my face. They said that I was "too young" to know, and that they thought I had crushes on buys before. So I know where you guys are coming from, but definitely not to the extent of the bullying you went through. It's just nice to know that we're not alone.
@thelambdafootprintofficial
@thelambdafootprintofficial Жыл бұрын
Is it just me or I was actually both, both LGBT and a bully.
@DaveHumphrey2514
@DaveHumphrey2514 6 жыл бұрын
I HAVE BEEN BULLIED... LIKE, ALOT. there are kids say 4yrs old at home and i always ask them when i am back from home like, who bullied them or bully the other. THEY SAY, IT BEGINS WITH YOU.... 1 child at a time in my own way #standagainstbullying
@remhenshaw4313
@remhenshaw4313 6 жыл бұрын
I saw a similar video from buzzfeed i think earlier this year i love these!! God they make me cry so damn hard. JP BRAMMER if you are reading this i follow you on Instagram and LOVE your articles!!!😍😍😍
@MayaLarsen-y3r
@MayaLarsen-y3r Ай бұрын
Its just nice to these types of conversations, sitting down and talking like adults.
@livieegee
@livieegee 6 жыл бұрын
feel bad for these people. I feel like it depends on where you live that the severe bullying happens. A lot of times at my school if a football player or the football player group saw someone being mean to anyone they would kind of step in and tell them to stop.
@noemi8324
@noemi8324 6 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know Corey's instagram?
@ebonee9899
@ebonee9899 6 жыл бұрын
Wtf is with the American school system
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