r/AmiTheA**Hole For Terrorising My Roommates?

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[@crescentmoon5859]

I've seen a lot of pregnant moms rub their belly while shopping and never saw it as weird.

[@jenrabbit4444]

It's weird for her sisters and mother to find it weird. I see women do this all the time and thought it was just like patting the baby. I never knew it helped with the baby kicking. I have never felt it was weird and I've never known anyone who thinks anything at all about it.

[@williethomas6388]

I wonder how much the bride is contributing for her wedding?so far it appears that she’s spending evsrybodys but her own.

[@williethomas6388]

No NTA.

[@williethomas6388]

NYA

[@williethomas6388]

Call the cops.

[@ChinchillaQueen]

The belly rubbing...it really does work. Especially helped me when my son decided he wanted his toes in my ribs for two months on end.

[@Emeraldwitch30]

Both my kids did the same and I have an ultra sound of them doing it. The stinkers

[@carolroberts4614]

These 2 sisters and the mother are nasty as well as weird! I have older sisters but when you grow up,you're surely equal,not to be treated like an annoying baby sister!

[@WobblesandBean]

Aaaaaaaand there goes my tokophobia again. 😬 But for real, who tf gets that disproportionately angry over a pregnant woman rubbing her own belly? Seriously? I'm childfree, but not... THAT childfree.

[@starwoodaz9465]

It helps if you lightly smack your belly too, if the the rubbing doesn't work.

[@janemoore6753]

@@Emeraldwitch30 i

[@Mark33563]

rented a house for two years. went to hardware/lumber store (orange building) and spend about $1200 (US) on lumber and screws. Over a weekend I built/assembled a "floating" deck over the rear broken concrete patio because: 1) I wanted a level place to put some outdoor furniture and 2) to have a place for the dog and cats (had 2 at that time) to knock the mud & clay off their feet before entering the house. Approaching the time to move out (we bought a house) I asked the landlord if they wanted me to leave the deck for the sum of $750. He said, "no, it needs to be removed because it is devaluing the house". He was selling the house upon our moving out. I thought it strange but made one last offer. I indicated that I will be removing it in a couple days (weekend) and that once I start dismantling it (I used deck screws) that I would not stop. Never heard back, so after taking three deckboards off the landlord called upset saying that "the deck is attached to the property and I was not allowed to remove it". I replied that the 'deck' was not attached to anything and that the offer is off the table since I started removing it. The deck was dismantled, moved to some mountain property, reassembled and lives on as a deck in the woods. :) Screw you 'landlord'.

[@SherriLyle80s]

Why are these landlords so vacant? At least, when it benefits them? Wow. Good for you. My husband and I moved into a mess of a rental property. The blinds were sunrotted (Florida) and snapped the first month we were there by turning them to open. When it came time to move out, the landlady insisted we replace all of her blinds. We found clearance blinds at Kmart, done. When SO went to throw out the old blinds on the curb, she goes "oh you can give those to me." My husband looks at her making eye contact, and slowly snaps all of the old blinds and goes, "No I replaced them so these belong to me now." Turns foot and heads back inside. I also scrubbed a vinyl floor in a converted garage (hands and knees, 2 mos after giving birth) and she found fault saying the tiles are still dirty. Then she asks I use her "cleaner" for the floor. I accept and pick it up and show her it clearing says "varnish stripper" for floors. I point this out to her and say "Im not flipping her home for her" and unceremoniously shove she gallon jug of stripper back into her hands. Then she reluctantly accepts the floor is really clean. This lady also wrote and essay with bullet points as to why she thinks it would not be in "our best interest" to leave the property and move with lots of presumptuous reasons about our finances and new baby etc etc. It was an utter nightmare. Not including this lady lived right next door and "drove" over to the property to show us when we first toured it and moved in. We had asked her who lived next door and she said "another renter." It was her who lived there. The nightmare.

[@SherriLyle80s]

I should also add she would pick up thrifts for us as a ploy to come over unannounced and inspect or do things without notice on the property.

[@francinetitherington4060]

He screwed himself because the Assessors wiil lower the value a lot more than $750. Most buyers cannot lpay more than the house is worth as the loan underwriters use the property Professional Assessment as the base for the loan, so 10% or 20% down then they lend the rest. Broken concrete slab will cost hom a lot more in the end.

[@bun04y]

There is a story from the late 1700's or early 1800's about an Army post. Back then when a new higher ranking soldier moved to the post they got to choose which house they wanted kicking out the lower ranking soldier to move into the next available house or a tent if one wasn't available. One wife liked to decorate her home but got tired of all of her hard work going to the next higher ranking soldier's wife because her house was always chosen...so she decided to buy some light paneling and attach her wall paper to that. So when she was told to again move out of her house, she just took down the paneling to take it with her. The new wife was very upset that her home was no longer nicely wall papered.

[@WobblesandBean]

Isn't it funny how people always get angry when they can't steal the benefits of someone else's hard work and investment?

[@56beverley]

I love the story about the twins taken in by their sister. I don't have children and was amazed at how my sister behaved towards her children. She was patient and never shouted or yelled at them. When they were upset she would comfort them and they would all hug and kiss each other and you could feel the love in the home. Such a contrast to how we were raised in a house of no kindness, very little love, and continual arguments, upset, and tension. When we cried we cried alone. I was so impressed that my sister didn't emulate our own upbringing.

[@carolroberts4614]

This one keeps popping up for me, and the twins and their sister are so sweet(and the brothers too although they aren't really in the story! Those parents are a disgrace!

[@minagica]

I'm very glad there are people out there that are better parents than mine were. It took my mom 30+ years to consider having empathy for me (and let's not even get started on my absentee dad), she used to treat me assuming and dismissing my feelings because she couldn't begin to think of my feelings as not by default matching hers. She's put me through situations without ever asking me how I felt about them, expecting me to just accept everything, and when I started speaking up as I've been processing my depression over the years she had no idea what I was talking about when telling her I've been expected to swallow everything for years. She's been trying now that she understands, though, but I'm still so stunned it never occurred to her that hey, I am so clearly a separate person, why on earth would I necessarily feel about everything the way she did???? 🤦‍♀️ Anyhoo, again, she tries, it wasn't out of malice, she just had no idea (because of her own mom) that kids would need more than food, water, shelter, medical attention and being sent to school. We have generational stuff to work out in our family before I dare raise any kids myself

[@curtistic5724]

My sister once rented from a woman who believed that her renters property was hers. She would often go in when sis wasn't around and take food from the fridge and bin foodstuffs that she didn't like. My sister tried to plant some bulbs in the flowerbeds, but the landlady decided that they would look better in her garden, so she swooped in and took them. That was the last straw and she moved as soon as she could.

[@sarahnicolecampbell]

Wow!

[@Beeautymus]

I’d have called the cops. That’s theft plain and simple.

[@carolroberts4614]

Landlords aren't allowed in unless you say it's ok, in the UK anyway! It's called the law of 'Quiet enjoyment'! Had to look it up once when our 'll came in while we were out, and took some mail that had been sent there for him.

[@minagica]

Holy cow, that's horrible

[@Gregarious3]

@@carolroberts4614 USA, at least California anyway, 24 hour notice, no particular reason needed, just go in anytime if invited or if you can document an emergency. Like water running out the door of side of the house.

[@LoucheWoman]

"Stop being so sensitive" means "Your comfort matters less than mine and theirs."

[@ZombieSazza]

Markee saying “hey step-sister” forced me to stop the video for a couple of minutes to bust a guy laughing. Goddamn you!

[@thedevilsworkshop7720]

That first one was pure gold , he made a grown man cry with a fake rat 😂 That's 12 legend points 😉

[@susanc.2096]

I had my baby over 2 years ago. I rubbed my belly all the time while I was pregnant. No-one ever said anything negative about it, mostly just asked if baby was moving and things like that. My baby was super active 🤷 and most people were really happy with my pregnancy and very kind. Younger people asked questions and it was all nice and friendly. I think asking a pregnant woman not to rub the belly is wrong. It's important for bonding. Hope OP updates us soon.

[@hwiley8141]

The weird thing is, I usually hear woman complain ( and rightly so ) about strangers just reaching out and rubbing it. So its not like, oh some people do it, some dont.

[@asherael]

her husband has poisoned her mind. Racism is a powerful force, and like a con man, you will justify and barter with it if it sneaks its way past your walls through a loved one.

[@SH-qs7ee]

If i was this girls parents I would tell her while she is entitled to her opinions, however wrong you think they are, you are entitled to your own, which includes not sharing your family property with a racist.

[@kimsmith1746]

The belly rubbing is absurd! Her mother didn't notice when she did it herself. It is very common for pregnant women to rub their bellies!

[@kimsmith1746]

In fact, when people ask about telling the difference if someone is pregnant or overweight, experts say that s pregnant woman will typically rub her belly.

[@ravenfox926]

I not only rubbed my belly, but Had a pair of headphones, playing AC/DC, Motorhead and Megadeath playing, tokeepmy kid from kicking my ribs out of my torso. He's 13 now and very into martial arts (go figure)

[@MariMotherofGoblins]

The plant one makes me laugh. My grandmother was an avid gardener, and when she moved out of the house she raised her family in, she took her whole garden.

[@hekatsees9449]

Wife emotionally cheating vs Husband cheating physically Story: For me, the most entertaining part of this story was “Markee” reading this story with said comments, i.e. “What am I doing with my life? Why am I reading this?” Writing the words do not have the same impact as listening to his responses as “Markee” reads. This was hysterically funny and actually pulled my attention. I usually listen to these stories as background, although, there are days I pay attention. I’ve lived a lot of life, dealt briefly with many thousands of people in person each year and I still do not understand extreme emotional behavior… Sometimes these ‘perspectives’ out of one’s life is informative… I especially enjoy satisfactory conclusions which involve happy or successful end results…

[@cynthiaappleton9480]

For hungry children and crops in the field. She kissed another and she was gone, it’s a song! It’s an old country song,It’s called Lucille by Kenny Rogers

[@carolroberts4614]

Four hundred children and a croc in the field?

[@richardweighill8556]

Kenny Rogers version was the first I ever heard and liked it but there’s a really great version on an album called “Trauma” by Coeur de Pirate. Check it out.

[@carirakai2588]

Great, now I'm singing "ya picked a fine time to leave me Lucille...."

[@cynthiaappleton9480]

@@carolroberts4614 I didn’t say I knew all the words

[@cynthiaappleton9480]

@@carirakai2588 You’re welcome

[@bbdrgn]

I love how emotional Markee gets when it comes to mums being attacked

[@keramorgan9339]

He could loan the cheater the money (with a written agreement so she cant get out of it) so she isnt punished the rest of the life but he doesnt lose the money long term

[@aikikaname6508]

Yeah, I was thinking that. The weirdest thing to me is that the cheating was bad enough to make him let her get disabled for life, but not bad enough to make him leave?

[@athenabaker9430]

4 hungry children and a crop in the field..."Fine time to leave me Lucille" its a song about a woman that leaves her farmer husband to cheat with the person singing the song (pretty sure kenny rogers, but not intirely sure)

[@missyjune9014]

Yes Kenny Rogers hit.

[@Metal_Mouth]

1st story: Absolutely hilarious- NTA If they're gonna live like rats then you might as well give them the crown and make them kings - edit - 2nd story has the same energy as the pic of the guy who took the refrigerator with him when he found out his girlfriend cheated on him, what a chaotic thing to do and I love it.

[@mindyschocolate]

FreaklessEvolution I love your king rat comment, lol!

[@camwyn256]

I don’t trust weddings. They tend to lead to marriage

[@pegacorn856]

The belly rubbing pregnant woman. Get the family together, make sure your husband is with you, and it's not at your house. Put your foot down., "Rubbing my belly is not weird or disgusting., I have explained over and over that it calms the baby down and stop her from kicking me, which hurts. It's very disrespectful for you to bully me on something that is for my and my baby's health. Get over it! Stop bringing it up. I will rub my belly whenever I see fit. No more bullying comments aimed at embarrassing me." If they argue, then say fine. You don't care about the welfare of my baby and myself, we don't have to be around each other any more. Then leave.

[@pegacorn856]

You need to stand up for the bully or they will never stop. And if they keep it up, don't speak to them or see them until they tell your husband they are ready to apologize.

[@WobblesandBean]

She clearly just straight up hates OP and is finding absurd ways to justify lashing out at her. What I can'[t understand is why her own mother refuses to take her side! Frankly, I can't wait until her sister reaches her third trimester and her fetus decides to play rugby with her internal organs. OP should catch her rubbing her own belly and record it, then post it online for all to see. Then again, I'm a petty b!qch like that 😂

[@laurenmentink7401]

Story 1 - NTA = Roommates totally deserved it. Story 2 - NTA = Landlords should not have promised a garden when it wasn't there before.

[@earlinejackson8151]

Roommate can go live with the friend that talked op into letting her live there, or, better yet, she can go live with her thieving, invasive, rude friend!

[@russhall1414]

The Ronald rat was perfect😂

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

I'm laughing my butt off!! That was brilliant!!

[@WobblesandBean]

Stubborn problems require creative solutions. Hats off to OP!

[@kimsmith1746]

Markee, "Four hungry children and a crop in the field,"is a line from the chorus of a Kenny Roger's song...Lucille.

[@michaelwest2141]

You picked a fine time To leave me, Lucille

[@BriarRose74]

OMG! Can’t wait till twin is so pregnant that she’s busting at the seams!! Every time she rubs, remind her! 😂

[@GaiasDotter]

Briar Rose Thats exactly what I was thinking! Just wait until your sister is bigger and remind her how disgusting and weird and abnormal she is. It’s absolutely absurd how they are behaving and I’m super weirded out by it all

[@WobblesandBean]

@@GaiasDotter I get the feeling she just straight up despises OP and so finds absurd ways to lash out at her in order to maintain plausible deniability. "Of course I don't hate her, but what she did was unforgivable and any decent human being would have spoken up about it! You're not like THAT, I hope, of course not, you actually have manners." RIP to the baby's father.

[@Kimi_Khaos]

The "four hungry children and a crop in the field" is a reference to an old Kenny Rogers song called, "Lucille." Not particularly a huge fan of country music myself, but I grew up on Kenny Rogers.

[@C.L.Hinton]

You picked a bad time to leave me 🎶

[@Kimi_Khaos]

@@C.L.Hinton a fine time.. You picked a fine time to leave me, Lucille With four hungry children and a crop in the field I've had some bad times, lived through some sad times But this time you're hurting won't heal You picked a fine time to leave me, Lucille. That was one of the first Kenny Rogers songs I ever learned. My mom used to listen to it alot. Got to see him play it live several years later when I was about 12 or 13 years old at a local festival.

[@C.L.Hinton]

@@Kimi_Khaos Right you are! I must have been way too tired when I wrote that. That album is the first music I remember. My mother played it ALL THE TIME when I was young.

[@Kimi_Khaos]

@@C.L.Hinton No worries..lol I remember listening to The Gambler and a greatest hits album over and over when I was a kid on this absolutely huge record player that was built into the top of our giant TV cabinet thing. The song, "She believes in me" always gets me. Wow, haven't heard or even thought about those songs in ages. I've got a ton of old vinyl from my parents packed away somewhere. Might have to go dig them out and reminisce after all this. Lol

[@SH-qs7ee]

The guys who made the family group leave their private beach and lake; you said you're in the South, why didn't you just yell out towards the house "These trespassers ain't leaving! Get the gun!"

[@MissClockworkRabbit]

God, that post with the love argument between sibling is so wholesome. I completely adore it. I hope that when im older I'm in the position to do something similar for my baby sister.

[@bearb.7406]

Backyard: Landlords Accessories OP Bought: OP's Period

[@colleencook382]

As a mother of 6 I can tell you I absolutely did the same as the "belly rubbing Buddha" I would rub my belly, talk to baby, and sing to baby in utero. I would "ask" baby what he/she wanted to eat also. This is NOT weird. You would rub a baby's back and rock to soothe them this is no different. Tell them to freak off. Its not like you're rubbing their bellies! Jeez! The nerve of some ppl! Carry on OP! You are completely normal!

[@ahue8368]

That last one with the boyfriend and the box of exes, yeah that's serial killer behavior

[@mariapizzaa]

I can't believe the gf is the asshole when the bf is keeping creepy keepsakes for "private time" in his office. Why is it so necessary for him to lock her out and hide it from her. If he had them without hiding it would be different but as it is, it seems like weird serial killer mementos or something.

[@superrooster18]

She isn’t “the ah” she is one of the ah. She made a unnecessary argument and gave an ultimatum when they could have discussed it later.

[@richardweighill8556]

My father didn’t quit driving, even though his mind was slipping, until the day he forgot that he was the one driving and while looking out the window drove into the back of a truck. In town, low speed so no injuries except a bit of paint on the truck and the front end of my fathers car. My mothers driving was deteriorating and people were afraid to get into the car with her. Eventually she agreed and gave up her license before anything bad happened. She discovered that with a bit of planning it was much cheaper to take taxis as needed rather than fuel, insurance, and maintenance for the car.

[@deathnightfamily6574]

sorry but the post about the husband going into his office for 5-10 mins each night to look at his ex shit gave me the "silence of the lamb" type shit. i have an old ring that my ex once sent me when we was gonna get married but didn't (a wold of things not for this youtube) but once in a few weeks i stumble apon it in a junk draw i have and look at it and feel sad it ended so bad (idk why i keep it tbh but cant find it in my heart to throw it out tho i blocked him out of everything i own tho i do have strong feelings for him). but to go to it every day for 5 to 10 mins? is just creepy and pathetic when you have a wife. ik for sure if i found a wife i would have thrown it out long ago (i'm bisexual male btw)

[@minagica]

Regarding staying home once you have kids: in some households it's literally cheaper to raise your own kids than to keep working and paying for a nanny, so OP in the Martha story could just have said, that after taxes it wasn't worth it financially to not stay home with her kids herself. I feel Martha more than I feel OP, but unlike both of them I understand both sides

[@tiffiebundy6497]

The FSIL: 150,000 would pay off both my parents houses and possibly even my dads credit card (9ish k). Literally would make my two separate families debt free! And she’s p:ssed off that she isn’t getting this for her wedding?! That is just sickening IMO

[@WobblesandBean]

OP2: How on earth could anyone call you TA? They're deliberately trying to profit off of YOUR hard work, with no compensation. Your landlord is taking advantage of you, and he can rot for all I care. Who does he think he is, demanding you put YOUR stuff back, that you paid for with YOUR money, that YOU spent all that time and energy growing that beautiful garden from absolutely nothing, so he can enjoy tens of thousands more in property value? I almost want him to take you to court, so you can countersue and own his arse!

[@LauraB12k]

"four hungry children and a crop in the fields" is a line from a Kenny Rogers song, "You Picked A Fine Time to Leave Me, Lucille."

[@posey1982]

Thank you Market for this video. You commentary made it more awesome than other videos I have seen/ listened to.

[@aliciakokol3619]

I fully intend on charging my kids rent the day they turn 18, but the rent isn't going to be for them staying in the house or because they owe me or any of thats bs. I want to charge them rent and throw it into a savings account for when they decide to buy their own house. The money that they paid for "rent" at my house will be for the deposit on their house lol

[@bessevaraven859]

You are AWFUL. I hope your kids kick your arse out of their life. My parents charged me rent and I was forced to quit school to pay it. I was then kicked out for working too much and not participating in the family. My parents made too much money for me to get financial aid even though I was filing taxes on my own....by the time I hit the age I could get the grants I was so sick from the stress that I was in and out of the hospital for a few YEARS and couldn't go to school, work or anything. I've spent the last several years barely surviving and I hate not being able to be more productive and physically able to take care of myself. Teaching them " the value of a dollar" or this way of " helping them" will not help them

[@Ren-ri5sd]

Story about pregnancy announcement on fb: girl you should be mad at your HUSBAND not your in-laws! He told them, LIED to you about it, and odds are VERY good that he didn’t tell his parents that you wanted to keep it hush hush. So how were they supposed to know they were going against your wishes?

[@conrad4060]

Not telling you about an arranged marriage is strange enough, but waiting until they're 29? How did they expect that to work?

[@minagica]

Why is that dude doing a pilgrimage to his previous alleged relationships? That is so weird that I wouldn't dismiss the serial killer comment, could be a box of trophies 😬

[@afchicinfla]

The lady could always quit her job and then go and state assistance to make the state pay for it or disability

[@hwiley8141]

In the US, that wouldnt be a viable option. For disability, it may take years before she is approved, if at all. Having to walk with a cane doesnt automatically qualify you. Lets say she is able to get approved for disability in less than a year. Then they would take in account het work history and assests. Since she worked, she would probably get SSDI. Then she gets Medicare, not Medicaid, so she will have premiums and co pays. And it doesnt kick in until two years after you are approved for disability. Lets say the job didnt pay well enough, or she hasnt worked long enough. Then she gets SSI, and will be on Medicaid. So no premiums and no copays, no waiting, but not much coverage. They wont cover physical therapy if you tear your rotator cup until it has been an issue for over six months.

[@sofijastanding2305]

nah I'd be creeped out if my ex had a box containing my clothing that he stared at every night... disgusting. She was justified in being outraged. He is COMPLETELY disrespecting his ex's.

[@lindavalentine2717]

When Markee said he didn't get the reference. It came from the song "Lucille" by Kenny Rogers: … "You picked a fine time to leave me, Lucille With four hungry children and a crop in the field"

[@danielleburchette2599]

The garden tenant. If they didn't plant anything in the ground then it's theirs to take with them. If the landlords wanted it to stay, then they should have invested in redoing it in the first place. Everything the tenant did, was portable. Everything was in pots, and raised garden beds. That shows right from the start that they never intended it to be permanent. Sorry for the land lord, but posting pictures without verification that the tenant was leaving the space as is or taking it with them, that's their bad. Make sure. Period.

[@jillynnrekowski6176]

The Lemon Story - OPs DH to his Mom: Yes Mom, I absolutely love lemons and we have made lemonade (unborn baby). 🤣🤣🤣 Then lovingly begin referring to the new baby as lemonade - bc seriously, who doesn’t like lemonade?

[@jdd9993]

Belly rubbing woman's family is ridiculous & insensitive. I would avoid my sisters for the next 3 months. They should have more compassion. DEFINITELY NTA!

[@andreabergstrom983]

The reference about "4 hungry children and a crop in the field..." is a line from a Kenny Rogers song called, "it's a Fine Time to Leave Us Lucile." If you want to hear the song. I'm sure you can find it on KZbin.

[@Nick-kz6dg]

Arranged marriage story: “OP’s girlfriend is a gold digger” As opposed to X, who comes from a poor family and was secretly arranged to marry OP? Ok…

[@earlinejackson8151]

NTA for taking your garden with you! It all belonged to you, and was not attached permanently. The landlord can gripe all he wants, he doesn’t have a leg to stand on, nor a pot to p*ss in!

[@christinecampbell1677]

In the UK the seller is asked what they are taking as far as the gardens are concerned and it's written into the contract.

[@LauraB12k]

Well, where were the oh-so-mature girlfriend's suggestions on how to solve it "maturely" when grown-ass trespassing adults flat out REFUSE to leave? Girlfriend is an AH.

[@minagica]

Omg, entitled bridezillas are AHs, holy cow. Whoever called OP a narcissist for not catering to the real narcissist is also an AH, easy to give away other people's money. OP's brother shouldn't marry bridezilla, holy cow

[@ZombieSazza]

The couple who’ve both had affairs and he wants to bring his love child along, just get a divorce already, none of this is healthy, Jesus Christ

[@rileystewart9927]

50:30 sooooo let me get this right, she wanted to be with someone else, so you opened up the relationship for her, but whenever YOU wanted to do the same thing she flipped out?? umm, what?? sounds like she just wanted to cheat, and make it look like she wasnt cheating cuz you opened up the relationship, i.e being ok with her seeing other people, but only she can see others, not you, cuz thats just wrong, logic 101

[@Nope148]

For that wedding fund, I could put half down on an amazing suburb 3bed house in my local area. Dafuq?

[@hwiley8141]

Imagine starting out with 150,000 on savings. Or even 70,000.

[@carolroberts4614]

I would rethink on the friend who thought she could pay to keep the peace too!

[@kristinewatson3702]

If the friend sides with the crappy roommate let HIM take her in.

[@amusing4me257]

For the roommate one, how just how did that idiot woman think this would work well for her? He is the one doing her a favor wait no her friend pulled some strings and made him agree. You were never in a strong position and should have been grateful but I take it since she is just this awful of a roommate, this is why no one wants to room with her.

[@rmhartman]

she calls you a lemon then had the gall to say you are rude?

[@Embry1542]

Tackled by an emu 😂😂😂😂

[@emasters8619]

All the comments wondering if X knew if OP was unaware of the agreement between the parents or not are meaningless. Her position on the whole discussion is moot. He simply doesn't want her and openly rejected his parents' machinations. End of story.

[@earlinejackson8151]

My father’s family split before the civil war because my ggg? grandfather seriously objected to slavery and refused to accept the part of his family that condoned it. He moved his family from Tennessee to Illinois to do what he could to help. He cut ties with his whole rebel family at a time when it just wasn’t done. I find it sad that it’s still necessary for a family to cut ties with a part of it over the same topic. But, if a family member feels and acts like that, they are like a cancer that has to be cut out to protect the rest of the family. NTA

[@badjer4328]

My Great Grandma ,may she rest in heaven, got her license rejected at the ripe age of 94 when her vision and reflexes startedto slip. She was livid, she had a fabulously well taken care of T-Bird. She lived to the ripe age of 104, blind in one eye, nearly deaf,, but had all her wits all the way to the end and could still walk with a walker, and take herself to the bathroom. Very big accomplishments for someone that age. I'll miss her, but she had a long and wonderful life.

[@ravenfox926]

Had something like this happen to me. My friends older sister (total bitch from day one) kept ragging on both me and her only having one kid apiece (me, due to medical; her by choice), then went on to give her shit for adopting a foster child instead of 'Just pushing another kid out' (note: both my friend and I are married, went to college and both have our own home businesses, while her sister is a high school drop out, has a mediocre job she can barely be bothered to do and leeches off her parents and the men in her life). Older sister had said this shit many to us times before before - going as far as to follow us from room to room, continuously berating her and my life choices, despite us telling her that she was being rude, mean and hurtful. When that didnt work, we graduated to 'mind your own business' and 'please butt' out (the last comment was mine). Well, eventually we got So sick of her shit, both me and my friend begin attacking back. We pointe'd out how she babytrapped hubby #1 into marriage at 17 (he was 18 and she threatened him with the cops. They divorced 18 months later when he caught her with his brother). That baby two came from her scumbag, MARRIED Boss, that baby threes dad is unknown because she screwed 5 different men in one week! And the only reason we knew baby four was hubby #2 was because he demanded a paternity test (he later left her and took the kid after she stole over $1,500 from his account to go on a girls trip to Vegas). We went on to say that until SHE got her own shit together, she had no right to give either of us grief. I must admit, it was very satisfying to tear her a new asshole. She ran to MOMMY (funny watching a 37 yr old do that), but mom sided with us, telling her to GROW UP and to STFU because he was more then tired of her bitching. She pretty much ignored us both after that.

[@eph2vv89only1way]

4 hungry children and a crop in the field” is a line from Kenny Rogers’ song “Lucille” (1977)

[@kimhohlmayer7018]

The reference in the pregnant wife’s “lemon” story was from a Kenny Rogers song, “You Picked a Fine Time to Leave Me Lucile.” “With four hungry children and the crops in the field.” No idea why I can remember that.

[@rhynhar7273]

the story with the racist daughter... is it possible to have an abortion after 27 years?

[@CAFEAULAIT32]

4 Hungry children and a crop in the field…. It’s a Kenny Rogers song! You picked a fine time to leave me Lucille” “You picked a fine time to leave me Lucille, with 4 hungry children and a crop in the field.

[@MadLady223]

I would have put all of nasty rotting food on their beds. 💀

[@emurano6634]

The husband who cheated on his wife is TA for cheating, but that wasn't the question, he is NTA for wanting all his children at his swearing in ceremony, that is NOT saying he isn't TA overall, but he won't be TA for bringing all his kids.

[@MegaGinia]

Ok. So what in the everlasting heckity-heck is wrong with the sisters and mother who think it is “weird” and apparently an embarrassment for a pregnant woman to rub her belly? Probably jealous? Who knows. They are a trio of weirdos who are envious of the one who achieved the state of pregnancy first. Guess it was a race?

[@susanyoung1600]

Four hungry children and a crop in the field was a Kenny Rogers reference to You Picked Fine Time to Leave Me, Lucille

[@franciebelcher4594]

A "mother" LEFT her child with a total stranger?!!! Omg! Not your responsibility but wow! And kids' "mom" clearly does not care about her child.

[@micahfoley9572]

No, no, no, no god no....the girl who's new boyfriend has a box full of trophies that he plays with behind a locked door late at night while he has his brand new girlfriend one room over needs to get away for a few days and make sure those girls are still alive. Having momentos is normal. Looking at them once or twice a year when the mood strikes or an anniversary happens is also pretty normal. Playing with those momentos every night in a locked room while you've got a brand new girlfriend waiting for you next door is some serious serial killer shit. What he's doing is not only not normal, it's beyond normally obsessive, and she's absolutely at risk. That's not emotions. Psychopaths don't have those.

[@Old_Red]

If the parents could afford rent before they became adults then they could afford rent after they became adults.

[@naturalPaths]

Re: baby relaxing. It’s actually a ‘thing.’ It’s called effleurage, and I was taught to do it 40 years ago when I was pregnant.

[@rannvamacdonaldarnskov4794]

Arranged Marriage OP is absolutely NTA, but I don't really hold X's reaction against her either since she is now very alone and exposed in a country where she is treated like men's property. She was groomed (yes, groomed) since childhood to be married to OP, feeling safety in knowing who she was gonna be with and not get handed over to some stranger. If the adults told her not to tell Y and OP, that was a part of the grooming process just as much as a child molester telling a kid to keep their "games" secret from others. Now, the only basket she was even allowed to put eggs in has gotten smashed right in front of her. I'm glad OP found P, and I do hope OP, P and X have it in them to team together in getting X out as well, if she's receptable to it

[@toxictoxophilite]

"four hungry children and a crop in the field" is a reference to an old country song "Lucille" by Kenny Rogers. "You picked a fine time to leave me, Lucille With four hungry children and a crop in the field I've had some bad times, lived through some sad times But this time your hurting won't heal You picked a fine time to leave me, Lucille"

[@dmikewilcox]

'Four hungry children and crops in the field' - This is from Lucille as sung by Kenny Roger's and written by Bowling and Bynum. It is a really good country classic. "In a bar in Toledo across from the depot On a barstool she took off her ring I thought I'd get closer So I walked on over I sat down and asked her name When the drink finally hit her She said I'm no quitter But I finally quit living on dreams I'm hungry for laughter And here ever after I'm after whatever The other life brings In the mirror I saw him And I closely watch him I thought how he looked out of place He came to the woman Who sat their beside me He had a strange look on his face The big hands were calloused He looked like a mountain For a minute I thought I was dead But he started shakin' His big heart was breakin' He turned to the woman and said "You picked the fine time to leave me Lucille Four hungry children and a crop in the field I've had some bad times Lived thru' some sad times But this time your hurtin' won't heal You picked the fine time to leave me Lucille" After he left us, I ordered more whiskey I thought how she made him look small From the lights of the bar room to a rented hotel room We walked without talking at all She was a beauty, but when she came to me She must have thought I lost my mind I couldn't hold her, 'coz the words that he told her Kept coming back time after time You picked the fine time to leave me Lucille Four hungry children and a crop in the field I've had some bad times Lived thru' some sad times But this time your hurtin' won't heal You picked the fine time to leave me Lucille You picked the fine time to leave me Lucille Four hungry children and a crop in the field I've had some bad times Lived thru' some sad times But this time your hurtin' won't heal You picked the fine time to leave me Lucille."

[@pamelajohnson6425]

22:11...it's a reference to lyrics from an old Kenny Rogers (country singer) song. "Ya picked a fine time to leave me, Lucille, With four hungry children and a crop in the field. I've had some bad times, Lived through some sad times, but this time the hurtin won't heal. Ya picked a fine time to leave me, Lucille" 😢😂

[@shamararoberts7192]

The dad who installed the keyboard tracker, did it right. He had the option to be in his son's business, and learned to watch and trust his baby. All parents that trust their kids enough to allow internet access, need to teach and develop a healthy use of these things. Long story short, the dad showed proper care and handling of his child.

[@RockLikeAStone]

How dare you kiss your partner on your property while I’m trying to trespass For anyone saying they could have handled it better, they tried. In multiple ways.

[@katieb.1184]

"sworn in" is something I hear in the military

[@cajunthang3539]

Calling them Kevin is prime a*hole. Love it!!!

[@staylor3483]

"4 hungry children and crops in the field" is from an old American country song: Lucille by Kenny Rogers.

[@normajeanmarchegiani9829]

NTA. I had 3 kids and rubbed my belly for all three. It’s NOT weird. I sang to my babies too. It totally calms the baby. You go mom.

[@minagica]

The arranged marriage situation: they met before the little girl was 6. Normally people don't develop romantic feelings for people they've met in childhood before the age of 6, so OP's parents are morons for thinking they could marry them to each other later on. The people ruining the family are the people that arranged the marriage without even bothering to tell OP let alone asking him first, WTF??? Also: X shouldn't want to marry someone from the village, potential inbreeding and stuff. Healthy practice throughout humanity's history is to find someone from a different village

[@venetabritt2771]

Buddha belly, my doctor when I was pregnant for the first time, 40 years ago, told me that rubbing my belly could help with an active or overactive baby. So mom and sisters be damned, rub that belly if it helps.

[@krystalfloods6197]

She screwed her own life up. They’re not even married and she screwed around and cheated on him. Why on earth would she think he would still wanna pay for her surgery? Actions have consequences. Although I believe he should’ve just ended the relationship and not bothered staying with her. She cheated, she had no respect for him whatsoever and he can do better. * he’s not the one making her disabled. She’s an adult responsible for herself. If she ends up disabled it’s because of her actions, she knew about this for a long time she could’ve saved up her own money or figured it out. I don’t think he’s the asshole at all for not paying for her surgery.

[@andrear7550]

Exactly, being disabled doesn't make you a saint who is worth giving money to. She's an asshole and an adult, she made her choice to sleep around and it's OP's choice to not pay for her. I was shocked by all the yta honestly.

[@kennethd.christy6326]

Sounds like X needs help. Her lot in life could be terrible. But OP is NtAH.

[@debramccurley6312]

Story #4: “ 4 hungry children and a crop in the fields” is from a country music song by Kenny Rogers ‘Lucille’.

[@amandalogsdon2975]

I'm literally rubbing my huge 7 months pregnant belly listening to this. OPs family is rude, weird and AHs. That's nuts.

[@susanlosey9511]

OP was correct in checking upon him. She didn’t know if he was in a accident or something happened to him. NTA. He had done this freq. so she was worried. Husband lied. I’m glad the two of you are in counselling. You both need to work on your problems.

[@starwoodaz9465]

I rented a house with a beautiful back yard and even said something about it. It have pavers and bushes and flowers. When I moved in, it was just dirt, gee thanks. At least I wasn't buying it. My husband would go out and not come back forever. This was before cell phones. I fixed it by going out myself and didn't come back when I said I would. I was forever, and he didn't know where I was. I got home and told him, how do you like it? He didn't do it again. I always told my kids, if you are under 18 and live in my house, you have no privacy. They understood and were fine with it. They are now 44, 42 and 40. I knew I had no columbine kids!

[@ravenfox926]

The reference is from the song, 'You picked a fine time to leave me Lucille', to which she left him with '4 hungry children and a crop in the field'.

[@staylor3483]

What an intitled bride!! My wedding cost under $400. We had family and friends do the cake and catering, wildflowers for the tables and bouquet, and my handy hubby and I made the tent for our front yard out of sewn together tarps and sapling supports. $150,000 for a wedding?! Unbelievable!!

[@chloecook4511]

Tell that freewill argument to the family of the one she kills with her car. My mother had to take her sister's keys from her because she had alsheimers and kept getting lost. That was less serious than repeated accidents tho. My aunt was really angry but it had to be done. And this guy was right in taking his mom's keys.