Re-Parenting - Part 14 - Protectors

[@mspinksarahbug]

I just told my husband I was pretty much convinced Tim has hidden cameras around my house or something! The fact that his Friday night talks almost perfectly mimic my own journey is not lost on me. In Christ, there are no coincidences.

[@sll110]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@milliewoo337]

Amen!

[@ginnymobley8246]

Thank you. My very Christian psychiatrist agreed. I was in good hands. He said oh, you're doing him great and then see you when I need to see you.😊😂❤❤❤❤❤

[@basimena5]

God bless you Tim Fletcher you’ve been like the father and mother I never had but desperately wanted and needed. Much love to you sir

[@saycog1084]

I feel I need to retire my worrier. No matter how many successes I have, worrier always jumps into the next problem to worry about and I never seem to celebrate the achievements. Great video, as always.

[@yumaychang]

Thank you for doing what you do, and for being inclusive by embracing people who believe in different faith and people that aren’t religious.

[@astronaut6542]

His videos are always comes perfect in time, it's miraculous

[@GodswarriorEsther]

THANK YOU FOR SHINING GODS LIGHT FOR US! We can and do heal! It’s a daily conscious choice we make!

[@tamstams3815]

Tim Fletcher’s series on Trauma is so painful to watch. Have to stop some videos mid way to cry. Omg

[@Charlieandcoconut]

Me too. I hope in a year since your comment you have made some progress

[@elsaalda2673]

Same, painful memories keep flooding back, I had to stop watching midway, can't get myself to finish those series.

[@annekary6190]

Thank you so much, Tim. I'm truly dedicated to my recovery. You did that for me. ❤❤forever indebted 🙏 🙏

[@janethomas78]

Tim explains what nobody else can!!

[@drsandhyathumsikumar4479]

Tim your videos and clear explanations are aways a treasure to find deeply grateful 🙏

[@oanavoiculescu3505]

Thank you very much

[@hhowlerin]

I'm 3 years in and this is exactly what I'm dealing with. I thought I was going nuts lately. I've been dysregulated for weeks. It's definitely this adaptive child.

[@jaimiejin7992]

Mr. Fletcher, you said that the abused usually adopts a version of the abuser, and that's so true of me. I adopted a version of my abuser, in that I am controlling, judgmental and emotionally unstable. As my relationship with my boyfriend progresses, he says that I am a violent person, that I can control it when I am awake, but I can't control it when I am asleep. He was joking, but he was also telling the truth. I know he is telling truth - I have to hurt others to hurt myself and those close to me. I am always living in a state of panic, stress and fear.

[@BeholdIamaNewCreation]

Hey Tim, hope you understand how many of us you are reparenting with your work. God Bless you!

[@stephanieg4950]

Tim educates himsepf w so many different methods to explain trauma, like exploring Internal Family Systems. So open- minded.

[@itsashyo5558]

I'm in a narcissistic relationship, and can relate with every single line you said before 13:00 all these things are happening with me. I was not like this before, even tho i Crave intimacy I can't open myself to her, afraid of getting hurt again.

[@debrakarr996]

If you know she is narcissistic I wouldn't be able to open up either she's not the one to be opening up to. She will destroy you if you don't get away from her. Your damaged and need to work on yourself before any relationship. Her she more then likely will not ever change. This girl was put in your path to wake you up to all of this. Your soul is telling you it's time to heal and if you are healing that girl will just hold you back. The longer your with her you are creating a soul tie that causes more pain then one wants it's different then most pain from a intimacy relationship. It's never to let to be truly Happy. Good luck to you and best wishes for your healing journey. Prayers

[@peterbunge6779]

Listening to Tim and participating in LIFT as well as having a coach is opening my eyes to aspects of my personality that I have not wanted to look at. I am feeling hopeful with the tools and the compassionate support to heal and be able to be more authentic and present in my relationships. Thank you, Tim, and all those who are part of his organization.

[@trishschaum9846]

All of these videos make sooooo much sense to me. I feel like my brain is being rewired as I watch them! Thank you for doing these-you are changing lives and making the world a better place!

[@erikaschaltenbrand7850]

God bless you and your family for the ways you blessed mine with this knowledge❤

[@emilia57100]

Excelente! Gracias

[@capngrace84]

It's so helpful and painful to hear about all these very normal responses to bad situations. It's creating a framework to understand what I missed out on and allowing me to give myself the support I didn't know I needed.

[@HappyHolyHealthyLife]

As always these videos are so good & helpful ❤️

[@Summer-tk8yk]

I become more and more self awareness after watching your videos. You are helping so many people. Thank you so much! 🙏❤️

[@ChrisOgunlowo]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@DC-xi6gd]

Thank you!

[@Thatsbannanas-d8c]

The video is so helpful. My take away; my brain needs my care. Don’t let your heart get hard.

[@Thatsbannanas-d8c]

Thank you. Fantastic.

[@naminaoberhausen2131]

I've appreciated these explanations

[@JT0007]

I’m the firefighter. Thanks for this wisdom.

[@Star-dj1kw]

❤ excellent

[@claireisva3873]

I am so alone. The aloneness is unbearable.

[@lisa.h6514]

Claire - my suggestion to you is to keep watching Tim's videos. For now - let the "aloneness" feeling be a trigger to watch another video. This is what has helped me

[@xxsorrow4tHEbRoKen]

Especially Holidays and it always leads to relapsing

[@Thatsbannanas-d8c]

Hi. I understand and I’m sorry.

[@rafeeqwarfield9690]

Tim is reparenting me

[@truthministry7462]

Powerful

[@SavolX]

13:55 - Internal Family Systems (IFS) approach intro Could anyone recommend good videos on IFS?

[@annamaria9899]

❤❤❤

[@bripea7721]

My inner child is soooo broken l

[@Chris-yf2zs]

26:37 bookmark

[@YobboCat]

I disagree that most of the damage is done before 5. Take a newly married couple, in the honeymoon phase, have a kid. The honeymoon phase probably lasts 5 years. So I say the most significant damage occurs often afterv5. Any damage before 5, and you're talking about sociopaths.

[@OliverUnderTheMoon]

My dude, is this comment is coming from a healthy headspace?

[@sll110]

I know your videos are all helpful, but I am so difficult to watch it, one reason is English is not my Native, another reason, I feel too much, made,me extremely Painful, dying Painful

[@produccionesdebajosrecurso7451]

Put subtitles , the translation at least in spanish is really good

[@rayrayrayrayray79]

The only time I'm going to look a person in the eye is when I'm telling them a lie. Me...

[@normadom3715]

Old p my

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

This is the video subject that begins to root healing concepts into my actual experience. This kind of integration with my self brings so much hope from understanding, and understanding means I can LET GO😩 of what no longer serves me! 🟠

[@hannahmondry4678]

Thank you!