Healthy Tools - Part 1/11 - Pleasure

Learning to experience true happiness, not just pleasure.
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[@starbright1400]

i wasted decades of therapy on the receiving end of psychologists who were just as in the dark as I was. This one video cuts through all that i knew what was wrong subconsciously but needed someone to light the path. Thank you so much for your wisdom

[@marim7784]

I can relate to that

[@sayusayme7729]

Years of therapy and it still goes back to Mazlow . Awesomely articulated for today. Thank you 🦋 So many amazing tools out here. I am grateful for the blessings of free therapy o KZbin.

[@davidcrawford9026]

There's always money to be made in prolonging the problem

[@LynnRank]

Well thank God for Tim!!! Cant watch Tv cause of ads...

[@FoodTrucksForDummies]

Same ❤

[@rubberbiscuit99]

Tim Fletcher has more wisdom in his baby toe than almost anyone when it comes to trauma and recovery. Thank you for your work and for these videos, Mr. Fletcher. They have been and continue to be extremely helpful.

[@lizafield9002]

Amen to that!

[@kevinbissinger]

You think you're complimenting him, but you're actually belittling everyone else. Part of your trauma coping is comparing people and thinking someone has to be "the best" to be good enough. He's good enough as he is, he doesn't need to be better than everyone else, and belittling the intelligence and awareness of every other trauma therapist is just hurtful. You likely have this internally for yourself. You know you don't have to be better than everyone at something to be worthy of praise and attention and you're good enough to help people as tou are

[@canadianeavestrough]

@@kevinbissinger so according to you, everyone is equal in talent and experience. We compare all the time it's what humans do. Have you ever watched hockey? Did you ever say one player is better than another. Are you one of those people who thinks everyone should get a reward even though they didn't put the work in to receive it. I don't normally comment, but you seem to be fine psycho analyzing others, I really am interested in your take on me. Since you can figure someone out from one comment. Really who am I and what's my diagnosis doctor?

[@phoenixaz8431]

@@canadianeavestrough My only hope in this life, I've placed on something that is outside of me (not God). So there is not much hope for me, but this guy, TIm, knows his stuff. At times, it's like hearing someone reading my biography out loud! Yeah, his diagnosis is spot on, but I don't put faith in the cure, if the cure is up to me or up to God.

[@hayleyneal6558]

This is the best talk on CPTSD I've ever heard

[@davidnorman4396]

Thanks for this, in 45 years, I have never heard anyone explain who I am, what I feel and think like this. Now in recovery im tryingbto learn healthy behaviors rather than falling back into the old obsolete childhood survival behaviors

[@reinaequina6588]

And don’t expect setting boundaries with others to go perfectly at first, the first time I set a boundary with an ex and stood up for myself I panicked and went backwards cause I felt mean 🤦‍♀ It gets easier as you get use to setting them and finding balance ❤

[@lavenderkisses9461]

Such a good point! I would do the opposite and get too intense about it🙄 It really is like learning how to ride a bike-we have to fall off a few times before getting it right.

[@marykennedysherin3330]

Fletcher is a gifted genius teacher! 🙏🏻❤️! Thank you for your wisdom, lifesaving!

[@theforeigner6988]

Oh God. Thank you for leading me to this gentleman. This is so helpful.

[@michellestory1686]

This guy is wonderful at mapping it all out. God bless you, mr. Tim. Your insight is divinely humbling while enlightening. Thank you💗

[@mindfulnessforconsciousliving]

All I can say is wow. Beautiful talk.

[@lizafield9002]

His voice & accent sound like Bob Thurman the Buddhism professor. Both are such congenial humble hilarious & spontaneous teachers. So great to have these wisdom resources so available in our time.

[@HelenLange-up1pz]

Thank you for explaining all that complex trauma can murder. I appreciate your understanding also of how nuanced, pervasive & chronic certain conditions can become, and how dedicated followers of God can triumph. Thank you for the clarity and permission to let go and let God, with no guilt for being human. Bless you.

[@benstevens1575]

Christianity is the source of my trauma, and that of so many others. Listening to this was very difficult for me, triggering even, but I stayed to hear the valuable information about ptsd. Hope this information can be relayed differently in the future

[@katja6332]

Thanks for your comment! (I stopped to believe in God at six years old for many reasons). I find those parts in the video hard to listen, too... Started to listen to it three times now but dose off every time the Bible parts are coming 😅

[@DeborahJoshua24]

Scriptures were used in lots of my abuse. Yet… my abusers are not at all like God. I thought they were just like Him… but I have been learning that they are not at all like Him!!! I gave Father God a chance to prove Himself, and He does that. I tried everything else, and it was like eating sawdust. I have found that true healing comes as I get more and more into relationship with my true Father God!

[@zakariaelhimer1325]

Islam for me

[@emilyortiz6292]

This is helpful, I am a Christian trying to heal from CT. Answered prayer 🙏

[@arthurnorton284]

You're material is really good and helping. I just do it small increments , because this kind of work is so incredibly sad . Thank you

[@TheEvilGrandmother]

Greeting from Croatia, your videos gave me hope!

[@rxgub]

I’m so thankful for your wisdom and content, Tim! Bless your Soul 🙏🏽

[@yourenough3]

Thanks for all these great videos. Appreciated to the fullest.

[@davidnorman2134]

I'm 48 years old, and this guy describes me to a T, especially my first 13 years of life in this world. It's hard to desire a relationship with a higher power when you've felt abandoned and ignored by God ever sense you was a small child, when you've felt God deserted you as a small child it's difficult to desire anything to do with a higher power why because the higher power wants nothing to do with you

[@karensunden5401]

Thank you so much for these videos .I have been so shut off for so long .

[@jameskirk2161]

Thanks for this Tim :)

[@Paeoniarosa]

This is an amazing series. Thank you.

[@marykennedysherin3330]

Phenomenal teaching!🙏🏻❤️😀

[@mrshmanckles1463]

Happiness right now is Tim F. Take me to the promised land oh Lord.

[@Denise-hg7md]

❤❤❤❤100% identification. So helpful. Thank you Tim

[@CareerDropout.]

I really like this channel

[@drshabnamnazir1573]

Omg this man blew my mind

[@mrdylanjoseph]

Thanks for these videos!

[@Zubie2000]

Thank you for these videos.

[@fisher4yashua52]

ellel ministries , elijah house ministries, RTF, restoring the foundations , cleansing streams , all are helpful

[@suap309]

Also Sozo Ministries, Hampshire, UK. (Not to be confused with Sozo Bethel Ministries, California, USA). They focus on deliverance and total healing including the mind and the body.

[@reg8297]

Wish with all my soul he had been my dad

[@reg8297]

I've never had feelings of happiness pleasure ever i don't think only smashed emotions and a broken heart

[@ocpdvirgo]

How do I find a therapist that understands what you teach?

[@TimFletcher]

If you take our LIFT program, you will work with several excellent therapists. Go to our website www.timfletcher.ca

[@SO-km6zd]

These videos are amazing! I wish the audio quality was better. So tough to hear even at full volume.

[@talithakoum1965]

Great. But easier to say than to practice especially if you are dealing with a bunch of weirdos of hell, narcissists. Narcs are the worsts beasts of hell on earth. Even S. Vaknin says : "Go away. Harden you heart. You cannot win at this game."

[@reg8297]

Jesus above so true im still dying from all ive suffered i suffer overwhelming pain in my head from the frigging lies my parents told me i can feel the pain in my brain

[@C.Hawkshaw]

Most of my life I’ve avoided healthy partners because I don’t want to mess them up. When l meet someone who is in my ballpark of dysfunction, I think “Well maybe we can get well together.” Rarely happens to the extent I was looking for but at least my dysfunction wasn’t exposed to a much healthier group of people.

[@reg8297]

Wish he was my therapist

[@reg8297]

49 years ive known nothing but deep pain and high arousal from. So much evil

[@Hug-a-bug]

What does “finding freedom” mean?

[@emanuelabarani6570]

If Moses needed God personally to convince him to complete a task I'm at ease with all my failures so far.

[@sarahalderman3126]

Trust other’s? Yeah that is exactly what results in complex trauma.

[@katja6332]

1:20 is the point and this is where normal therapy leave you alone..

[@helenmcinerney1058]

I so admire Mr Fletcher as a therapist and thinker. As a historian not so much

[@fisher4yashua52]

this is very good, but it is also Vital to cast out demons and set free from curses AS the Bible says. it is a vital PART of Full healing

[@AljaMr]

I hate it when therapy goes to religion and stories from Bible :-/ there is (in my opinion!) no space in psychotherapy for god and imaginative stories from Bible…

[@lindsaypeek63]

God is still there in everything even if not acknowledged. Stories are a great way to get perspective in the human experience and learn.

[@susandeputter688]

I look forward to it. It brings the Bible alive. The people in the Bible were real people with similar problems.

[@politereminder6284]

I do understand how the way that many people use the bible can be off-putting. It took me a while to agree to listen to the Biblical parts of these teachings. 1. You don't have to listen to that part If you don't want to . 2. If you did listen to that part of it, you would realize that Tim teaches these stories very well and in a non triggering, and realistic way. 3. A CRITICAL PART of CPTSD healing process is storytelling. That is listening to stories and learning to tell your own. Regardless of what you think of the text, the storytelling aspect has real learning value.

[@OGpostaldude]

I disagree. Carl Jung and early modern psychology thoroughly explored the concept of the psychospiritual. Spirituality is not the antithesis of psychology. It compliments it beautifully.