IF by Rudyard Kipling (A Life Changing Poem)

Rudyard Kipling was a prolific poet, novelist and journalist and one of the most well-known Victorian writers of his time. In 1907, he was awarded the Nobel Prize for Literature for his great body of work which included 'The Jungle Book' and his enduring poetic masterpiece 'If'.
In perhaps one of the most inspirational poems ever written, Kipling outlines for his son the behaviours and attitudes it takes to become a man, advising his son about how to perceive the world and life's challenges so that he can both learn from his experiences and resolutely overcome barriers.
This poem is one of our favourites and we hope you find our rendition of it worthy of the words.
We worked with the following artists to produce this reading:
Exclusive voice-over by Shane Morris
Score by MusicBed
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[@rickjensen2833]

The two things I remember the most mom told me; nothing ever goes the way you planned it and give me the flowers now, not on my grave.

[@doloresparra4604]

Wise mother 🌹

[@lorifenton1284]

My mom used to say “Give flowers to the living.” Miss you Mom 😘

[@cynthiadebeau4230]

This was my mom’s favorite poem... I still have it, yellowed with age, in its old frame, and now loved by me too 🙏🏻❤️

[@doloresparra4604]

@@cynthiadebeau4230 oh, what a lovely memory and tribute to your mom. 🌠

[@CAP753]

Your statement is almost as powerful as this poem.

[@TheOllyj]

My grandads favourite poem, I read it for him at his funeral. Hardest but most rewarding thing I've ever done

[@gentleasa5728]

God bless you and Grandad! Love and light Evie

[@abhijithsubash6160]

Wow That's so hard to think. But you have done really really great job

[@kellyberry4173]

WELL DONE.

[@goldenpeanuts9]

💚

[@tapasmazumdar]

At least your grand father loved you

[@bfuller567]

My dad gave me this poem at 15, I’m now 31 and without it things could’ve been very different. He’s not here anymore but the lessons he taught live on. Every man needs to hear this

[@mindyblueeyes13]

I printed this out for my 15 year old and put it beside his desk in late 2020 as he was starting his second year of high school from home. Maybe he read it from time to time. Hope he knows how much I love him.

[@thieryleo314]

And woman ;)

[@karantikoo9302]

@@thieryleo314 every huMAN

[@sevareilly]

@@karantikoo9302 My dog could benefit from this poem too LOL

[@rozaparvin-1387]

@@sevareilly ... :/

[@s.a.adams-ford1216]

I recall my father quoting this when I was a child. A brilliant man quoting a brilliant man.

[@nishantintouch]

Success and disaster.. "If you can treat those two imposters just the same.." Brilliant.

[@sayvorie]

Because the are one and the same; only different extremes. You can’t have one without the other.

[@JustJake77]

You can't have light without the dark. Hope without despair. Good without evil... This is the way of nature.... Balance is the key

[@theman946]

@@sayvorie In Mandarin, the character for disaster is also opportunity. An irrational number, if you will. Both + and -.

[@snowflakeeel]

yep that's the part where i said "whoa" out loud while listening to this. sometimes we forget how powerful the art of writing can be

[@nickolasdiamond5619]

I disagree with this line

[@Stoic-Cat]

If you get recommended this video by KZbin, you have found a gem.

[@prachiagnihotri2650]

Indeed

[@vishaldeshbhratar4252]

Agree ✌️😇

[@codynaganuma]

The gem found me

[@priyankaghosh2948]

This was also in our English literature syllabus in school.

[@simonet9441]

Yes I agree a rare gem

[@sebdavies1610]

I read this poem at my father's funeral today, and this video really helped me practice and prepare for that moment. I've been reciting the words along with the reader whilst listening to this every morning the last couple of weeks, trying to get the right tempo and learn most of it off by heart. All went well when it was my time to stand up and do it myself, so thank you for this and your other videos which have helped me through difficult times.

[@Metal00m]

My Dad read this at my Grandad's funeral. I remember it. I've never seen my Father so close to tears. I know I cried

[@DeeDeex007o]

THE GREATEST POEM EVER WRITTEN!!!!!!! IF "If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being hated, don’t give way to hating, And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise: If you can dream-and not make dreams your master; If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools: If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’ If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And-which is more-you’ll be a Man, my son!"

[@ampersandtay]

I learned this 70 years ago, alas I've forgotten most. A most wonderful poem.

[@seronymus]

God bless you sir

[@kunaiflex491]

One of my favourites

[@ayazgaming180]

Are you still alive......

[@ampersandtay]

@@ayazgaming180 Yes, I've ignored Lockdown and never worn a face nappy after researching the size of the virus, and the size of the holes in masks. It's laughable. I've spent hours on medical websites which is why I feel safe as a fit 82 year old. Also an Active person on Telegram's White Rose. An organisation which, after five months had branches in the USA, the EU, the UK, and all over the world, including Australia, South Africa and other countries. Two Saturdays they had a million people marching 12 miles across London, nothing in the newspapers or TV news, and nobody cought the flu. I am very much alive aand having fun. People are either Lions or sheep.

[@ayazgaming180]

@@ampersandtay glad to hear it

[@ednaopl]

IF you felt goosebumps while listening to this IF you understood each line IF you felt empowered - Then you are in a wonderful place.

[@awestorygatmelody9515]

I understand man or woman

[@ThinkForYourself1972]

Well said!

[@billbauer9795]

What IF I felt that what I was listening to was ridiculous and dumb?

[@billbauer9795]

@DB Cooper's MoneyBags Kipling has another poem that's my favorite. But I don't live in a free country, so I am afraid to name it.

[@redheadedgypsy1939]

@@billbauer9795 more the reason to go back & digest this poem...coyld possibly set you free!

[@whoisharo4689]

This is amazing. It basically says that if you can suck it up and do all these things which seemingly, endlessly bear no triumph or relief over and over, the world is yours and you can face anything.

[@mz6367]

As an Arab poetry is an important part of our culture and for a long period of time I thought it`s impossible to find a poem in foreign language especially English ,so this poem will be in my head whenever I think about a poem in English .

[@comedancing]

I totally agree. 👍

[@colinmerritt7645]

Oh, we have plenty of poetry. You've found one of the all-time greats though.

[@chronoris6249]

Isn't poetry haram?

[@Char444]

​@@chronoris6249No it isn't. Search about Arabic poetry

[@dorndy1]

Poetry often makes me feel cheated by language barriers, even when they're translated something is often lost.

[@mr2octavio]

I just wanted to say that this poem appeared on my feed the day I was planning the route of the coward, the loss of my own hope in myself, and now I can stop thinking about it on every second I live, I stopped drinking, stopped gaming, I said no more to my addictions. I'm studying, trying, fighting for my own place. And I won't give up I promise, but whoever runs this channel on KZbin; I just wanted to thank you. I'll for sure will never meet you and maybe this message you'll never read, but to me you're important now, and probably in years to come. You saved my life and my heart is at peace, because I am now facing my own defeat with my head up, and I'm not wearing a crown for doing so. To you, sir or madam, thank you. Edit - Jan 12: Hello everyone, I was surely not expecting my comment to gather so much attention, but I feel that I should share that I am doing way better than when I wrote this original post. I put effort into my studying, and I managed to get a scholarship, I placed effort in my body, and now I am training daily, I am not drinking at all and I wake up with energy to face off the marvel that it's a day. As Kipling will say "fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds of distance run". I may not be doing the whole sixty but it's way better than what I were two months ago, so to whoever reads this, please, I know you don't even know me, but don't give up, life has its own beauty but it for sure doesn't come in a silver plate. I hope you can at least give it another chance with a different perspective. And thank you everyone for your kind words. August-11: Just to keep you posted on how life under a new light can be blissful, what looked grim now looks grey and what looked grey now has light by itself. Be thankful for being here, despite all, you're alive, you're breathing and life can be enjoyed, YOU WILL FALL, TRIP, STUMBLE, that's a FACT, but the important thing is WHAT YOU DO after hitting the ground with your face. GET UP and keep moving, stop stagnation. I kept doing that, standing up, now I have a job, I live by myself, my own rules, I have shifted my life 180 degrees and 3 stories higher (my new apt is on the third floor, yes it's a rental but IT'S MY FLOOR), it's incredible what a daily routine and dedication to achieve your own goals can bring. Don't give up, I didn't, you can't, you're valuable. Stay safe, and be happy. Oct, 2023. This life is good, don't give up. I came across this video again because I felt I owed it a second hearing. And I stumbled upon my old comment. I'm on a way better place now.

[@sunnyone4]

Stay strong, my friend, also reach out to people who can help you 💕

[@MillaCanDoAnything]

Hope it all works out for you, best of luck 🤗

[@irenebent7351]

Keep studying and improving your life. Always try to see things from the other person 's point of view. Be always kind, honest and truthful not just to others but to yourself. There's a bright new world out there waiting for you to embrace it. YOU can and will make a difference ..Keep up the good work.

[@rovian9]

Anybody can fool the whole world, but himself. To be really honest with ourselves is a huge achievement. A man who can defeat his addictions, can defeat anything.

[@karenf9137]

Frenchie, my friend, I'm so glad you didn't give in. Don't EVER give in! I once was in a bad place myself, but I resisted that pain. Now, years later, I grow more determined with each passing day to get up again, and again, and again no matter what anyone throws my way. We get but one life, and if you live 90 years and only know a few moments of happiness, it's worth the wait. Life is good.

[@kashishadwani9731]

"And never breathe a word about your loss " Now this is something I'm going to take back with my soul for long ...

[@adriandurlej9266]

Probably the most difficult part of the poem to really live. Feels like it would take a lifetime to really achieve

[@ayush4143]

If you can heap all your winnings on a turn of pitch and toss and lose and never sigh a word about your loss!

[@LeviAckerman-bb6zz]

It clearly tells us to " not become prideful of what you have because it will all come to an end when you reach your death " . Rudyard used simple words to say a line this big . It's truly incredible.

[@baliwarrior]

@@ayush4143 yours is the world and everything that's in it!

[@ayush4143]

@@baliwarrior and which is more , you 'll be a man! My son!

[@jeffcooper53]

This poem was given to me by my mother when I graduated 5th grade. I didnt understand it then, but as I got older and began to understand the words and the meaning of the poem, I've tried to live my life by the words of this poem. It has been the one constant source of inspiration all my life. I've passed this poem down to my 2 sons, with the hope that one day it will help them as much as it has helped me.

[@haviduck]

this has kept me alive. the unattainable demands of this beautiful beautiful wish for a son. thank you world for giving us mountains like kipling. he makes sense of a world i no longer recognize

[@kevingbergiste7372]

This narrator has one of the most captivating voices I’ve ever heard

[@robertmcgivern565]

He's not reading this poem, he's tearing to it bits all the while sounding like the original harbinger of doom, listen again for the emphasis. .

[@teatonaz]

His voice reminds me of Peter Coyote.

[@StephenJackson1958]

His voice is gorgeous, yes: like Orson Welles with an extra pouring of cream and brandy. I want to hear him do more poetry.

[@robertmcgivern565]

@@themusicbook8679 Arby had a lipsp

[@lifeloverlorijean]

I agree. Very powerful voice.

[@LoneWolf-cy6vd]

"If" concentrates on patience more than anything. It's the key to success and getting through hardships.

[@maryannmartinez5385]

But you

[@sophiasophia3261]

Thank you!

[@TheMelwin25]

Hope u luke this version too kzbin.info/www/bejne/rJXbeplrgcSkmMU

[@hybridgoth]

Patience is only really required till the aforementioned virtues are met. A greater focus on responsibility is required after.

[@jackrabbit5047]

A virtue that I lack. Something to work on...

[@eileenbowman2037]

I cant believe i lived a majority of my life thinking poetry wasnt for me only to realize that its only one that speaks to the soul... I guess better now than never

[@SaltAndGracepoetry]

Poetry can be very powerful!

[@MrCogito8]

This is the poem I keep coming back to time and again for past 30 years. Now, it's picking up two lines and keeping it on your desk for a week has become a ritual. Very inspiring indeed!

[@cafepoem189]

Kipling wrote the poem in 1910 as a father's wish for his 12 year old son. 5 years later his only son died during WWI.

[@Spiritryptamine]

I learned about this poem two years ago, and I told my father about it. He told me exactly this. I believe there is a lesson to be learned from it. Imagine being a father and writing such a powerful poem, scraping up what you've learned to give direction to your son... only for it to become so suddenly insignificant. It fucking breaks my heart.

[@SagarsAudioHub]

🙂❤️ Never lose hopes

[@forsak3th]

But in those last moments, if these words were not spoken, could he have met death so well? Death comes for us all. Some run a long race and some run a short race. It isn't about how long the race is but how you run it. I like to think that this helped his son face the life he was given. His words do not lose their meaning because his son's race was short.

[@felixobinna7048]

tragic but still inspirational

[@Spiritryptamine]

@@forsak3th I don't know man. Nothing can replace the love of a father, that's for sure. But the loss the father suffered from, it's indeed tragic and, dare I say, unecessary. It puts life into perspective in a terrible way.

[@RDayal-qr6ip]

This should be recited daily in schools so children learn to face challenges which grow with age.

[@Siyoseful]

Good point, but... Would children understand it?

[@ericwalker6546]

Over time they would understand it. If they saw it every day.

[@IDMYM8]

@@ericwalker6546 we used to have daily prayers throughout 10 years in my school but most of us don't even remember what the prayer was despite reciting it everyday, let alone having any understanding of mere 2 lines. They will only like to understand it if they try, someone discuss about it seriously, or if it becomes a point of interest (popular). TL;DR: Power, Strength, Understanding only comes to those who seek.

[@ericwalker6546]

@@IDMYM8 the lord did say he was going to remove the restraints and let them believe what tickles there ears. He has removed the restrictions of the family. Restraints of government and soon the restraints of the church. So that they will believe the lie...

[@IDMYM8]

@@ericwalker6546 wtf do you even mean by that :/

[@monicas2539]

I listened to this poem many, many times, and the poem helps me stand a little taller .. each time I listen...thanks to a very special friend that I will always cherish.

[@neonfiresquaw1789]

My favorite poem. I realize it's from father to son but when my grandfather passed I sent it to my Mom and it helped her immensely. For more than a year she did everything in her power to help him be as comfortable as possible. Her brothers were a disgrace and did nothing to help even though she was far less favored by her father. It took immense strength and I was so proud of her.

[@queenbee3647]

The ones that give the most are often the exploited ones. Parents do play favorites. My three brothers were and are a disgrace also. Sorry about your loss.

[@ginasilva1862]

"If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch..." 👌

[@voices4oppressed]

Haha I see it hit you tone too didn't it honey😊😁🤝🤝

[@ginasilva1862]

@@voices4oppressed... Hi... The phrase that I highlighted is, in my own opinion, the most profound in the whole "poem". Such as the best virtue... Humility/modesty.

[@voices4oppressed]

@@ginasilva1862 oh yes obviously! It's natural in humans to admire and love the humble... to see a person of so much power but walk so humble, or to see a king helping a lowly peasant, or a lowly small person standing against a tyrant ruler or a famously skilled warrior sacrificing himself to save an innocent. These are what humans deemed most worthy in the heart... To do noble deeds beyond the courage of the ordinary man!

[@sheminjose5481]

Bruh this is way too underated 😫underrated church ambient kzbin.info/www/bejne/qKTae3efrt6dqpI

[@Steveirwin4477]

I don't get it

[@amanialsoquar5073]

Truthfully, there's nothing more soothing and desirable than a young man being called "My Son!" By a wise old man...

[@soslothful]

I've always thought it condescending.

[@jbdbean242]

@@soslothful What a shame, such a great wealth of experience you've missed! Your attitude is your own worst enemy.

[@soslothful]

@@jbdbean242 You misunderstand my comment. I'm not dismissing the content of the poem, only the use of, "my son" which is spoken with an air of superiority, even condescension. Rather like your final sentence appears to convey.

[@BeKindandNice]

@@soslothful it probably depends on the situation and who is using the term and what manner they are directing it towards you. If they mean it in a friendly fashion it is different than when they are being condescending 👍

[@soslothful]

@@BeKindandNice Perhaps. In my experience it is always spoken from with an air on superiority and belittlement. In my workplace a similar thing is said in a failed and fatuous effort to be funny or cute. Middle age adults greeting another middle aged adult as, "young man" "young lady" and "youngster." Can more stupidity be spoken? These greetings are given to by and to adults in their 50s! Were I to say something so inane, so utterly vacuous I'd pray for my tongue to rot out of my mouth!

[@sonney111]

I never knew I needed poetry until I needed poetry

[@riosanto-rm1qc]

This is the most amazing and humble poem I’ve ever heard., No room for bragging, blaming, impatience, lying, hating, self doubting, and learning how to start all over again if failed. Not affecting yourself during good or bad times. Treating all the person equally. Having the same virtue regardless of the underlying situation. So much to learn !!

[@bucksteingold4334]

I have carried this poem in my wallet for over ten years now. God bless.

[@user-tm8wy1hx7n]

Blessed will be the person who picks your pocket. 😃

[@JOSHUAloves1]

Outstanding brother.

[@extra2ab]

👌👌👌👌

[@walteer2560]

Wow 🤩

[@tejasbachhav3921]

brother...I am from 3 years ..doing the same. I am like the alter ego of this poem :)

[@Grey_fox12]

One of the greatest poems ever. I have a framed copy of it. Going to hang it in the first home I buy.

[@light-yi2me]

grey_fox what a great idea! I’m going to do just the same! 🙏🏻

[@chaosdweller]

Hell yeah

[@abhishekprajapat415]

I will to the same too. Thanks for the idea

[@zid2five268]

Me too, it’s on my wall.

[@jahanarafaizal2023]

Best wishes. Let all your dream come true.

[@MJfp6lx]

This poem lifted me from lowest points in these past 5 years so many times.

[@linoea1013]

This is a poem we should pass on to our future generations, this poem is a gem.

[@queenbee3647]

I think we may have waited too long. The under 40 people are too occupied with righteousness, shaming, cancelling, threatening, towards others and expecting the gentlest of behavior towards themselves. Call me cynical but theres nothing of quality in them. You couldnt pound the meaning of this beautiful poem into them. Their loss.

[@chevchelios6155]

Get your next covid jab

[@sayetka]

At 18 years old this poem inspired the whole rest of my life.

[@JohnVKaravitis]

That's all it took? Really?

[@sayetka]

@@JohnVKaravitis...for some reason that poem hit me like a ton of bricks during my idealistic youth. And 43 years later it still does. I gave it to both my sons when they graduated high school.

[@rajarshibarman334]

@@JohnVKaravitis c'mon mate don't patronize others' experiences.

[@damienengel9393]

Im 18 and i just saw this poem for the first time, instantly printed it and now im placing it on my wall by the desk

[@sayetka]

@@damienengel9393 Your'e off to a great start!! I wish you all the best in life!! :))

[@dallasdien]

“If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster, and treat those two imposters just the same”

[@malayamigo]

They're sus

[@kadijahamad9862]

i cried at that line

[@dallasdien]

@@gwendyfrary1807. Wow. 4 mos have passed. Better late than never. Thank you kindly for that lovely, lovely expression. It’s difficult to find a response. There could be many. Suffice it to say, in introspection I find continual lack. For which I am grateful. Thank you gwendy frary.

[@Sepplable]

They inscribed this line over the tunnel from the locker room at the center court in Wimbledon for a reason...

[@AgitpropPsyop]

A friend showed me this poem, he was an old army guy so I listened when he recommended poetry. It’s helped me through tough times in my life… words to live by.

[@tavi_elli]

My grandmother cry while telling me about this poem. No barrier to knowledge from Jamaican

[@cooldude2106]

I am in worst phase of my life , i am just 20 and stuck in cycle of failures . I start my every day with this poem . It shows me the path i need to walk on. Edit - Finally a year after this comment and thank you for all your good wishes . I had a little win . I cleared one level of my exams after trying for 2 yrs and now i can start my articleship . Still love this poem very much.

[@Jeeettttttt]

You are not the only one, dear person. :)

[@shaishvi9365]

dont go with flow.. change that flow

[@thereoncewasalimerickwriter]

At 20, you have not failed. You may have made mistakes, but that is part of learning, part of life. And, sorry to say, at 20 this is probably not the worst phse of your life.

[@cooldude2106]

@@thereoncewasalimerickwriter yeah i know thats why now working hard

[@reshmithampy]

Same dude

[@bgmes5148]

I feel that King Mufasa is giving me advice this Christmas.

[@tahwsisiht]

If you listen to it with an open mind, you will be surprised of its wisdom. kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6qsqKafoc2Ula8

[@jbell9179]

😁

[@RANDOMLIFEMESSAGES]

@Liam Lucas G. Labiaga ❣️

[@coachhumanlife4084]

he is

[@coachhumanlife4084]

@@tahwsisiht yup

[@ricardoavilapaulette7060]

Never tire of listening to, or reading, this poem.

[@vidyeshwarprasad6895]

"If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same.. " SUPERB!! There cannot be a profounder philosophy of dealing with the highs n lows of life.. of maintaining equanimity in joys n sorrows. Thanks for the upload!

[@ericwalker6546]

So true reminds me of Micah and the lesson of balance in our lives.

[@Ethan-lb9hf]

such is the philosophy of Taoism my friend

[@infoeducardo6915]

Sukh dukhe same kritva labhalabho jayajayo Tato yudhhaya yujasva naivam papamavapsyasi Bhagwat Gita 2.38

[@vidyeshwarprasad6895]

@@infoeducardo6915 Brilliant! The core philosophy of maintaining equanimity in ups n downs is alike in all the belief systems.🙏

[@vidyeshwarprasad6895]

@@Ethan-lb9hf Absolutely right.🙏

[@graham3368]

My son turned 18 yesterday I sent him this poem . I have always loved this poem , now he likes it , I just wish my father done the same for me...

[@actuallyakash9259]

Was there KZbin or red frost motivation at your father's time? Just wondering

[@_yojanaregmi]

Your father raised you to be the person you are now. They have done enough whatever they can they did it. Never ever demand more from people who have already done for you. Repay them back and live a happy life. That is what we all deserve. 😊

[@karlk9316]

Forgive and rejoice. Most in this world live spiritually at lower levels of consciousness with increasingly few living at the next higher level. Perhaps roughly 20% of fathers would think to share such a poem with their son. Kipling's work is written at a high level of consciousness, probably beyond reason to love.

[@frednegus7017]

If you wish your father had sent this poem to you then you did not find the message in the poem.

[@IDMYM8]

@@_yojanaregmi I am waiting to repay my father who haven't came back from the store from decades... :/

[@tehallanaz]

Today was the first time i listened to this without crying. Center and breathe

[@joycedsouza2004]

The poem "IF" teaches me the path I have to walk daily !👍🙏👌

[@suryateja176]

I want my morning alarm saying just "wake up" in this voice and I'm sorted for the whole day.

[@nirmalapaul6150]

Ha haaa

[@T.R.U.T.H..]

That's doable :)

[@punarnavamalhotra6433]

You can download a mp3 version of this poem. Then use it as an alarm ringtone if you’re using an android, it’s easily sorted

[@punarnavamalhotra6433]

Not same as ‘wake up’ but you get to listen to this poetry. So it’s a good thing :)

[@robertwilson123]

This poem is a Titan in the ranks of poetry and a Colossus in all the advice you can ever give a person.... distilled in its purest perfect form.

[@marielamorassutti4729]

Really

[@bernardoheusi6146]

Damn man run or Kratos will kill you

[@jennyrose9454]

Titan is my fave, and Rossetti

[@dedoffful]

Described it perfectly!!

[@cassandra6199]

This was one of the first poems I had to learn in school. I can still quote it by heart and it is still inspirational.

[@rodgerspencerpurplishheart4411]

If ourselves have A life change storyline. Sentence of a poem. A storyteller. Purplish heart

[@cathymarshall366]

We had to memorize this poem in High School in 1970 by orders of our English teacher and I managed to learn it and then speak it out.I hated doing it and I dont know why really but I did and passed.Yrs and yrs later now that Im older and wiser it makes sense of old fashioned values that I can appreciate - even tho Im not a man. Thank you.

[@unconcernedbeast9190]

My life would have been good if I had heard this poem when I was a kid. My country hates Western poetry

[@elisabethragan2964]

i liked it since a small girl - there was music to it by Rodger Whittier my dad played, I thought you know ? that’s some good insight, even as a girl...

[@arushijain2051]

Although we all know 'man' refers to all human beings here.. I feel Poets should've written it in that sense only; gender neutral words that don't make us adjust something each time in our brains. Wonderful poem tho.

[@cathymarshall366]

@@arushijain2051 In most cases I do think the term "Man" means Mankind but in this poem I dont feel that.But its Ok.

[@julie5978]

@@unconcernedbeast9190 what country is that?

[@itslikethesamebutdifferent8020]

However my life goes from this point on, however short or long it may be, here’s three minutes that were well worth my time.

[@Ludifant]

If you make that true for every consecutive three minutes, regardless of the outcome...

[@googs1354]

Same

[@vozamaraktv-art5595]

Beautifully said

[@weirdo8506]

We listened to this in class today and I feel in love with it I’m not a poem person but this is art, this is beauty. Truly. Now all I do is listen to it when I feel a certain way I cannot explain but so express inside myself. This is truly a great poem along with his history of lovely poems.

[@michaelsaunders-vt4zf]

Life lessons; stoicism, values , direction , patience, family , friends, rewards and failure . Wonderful

[@michaelgeary4978]

I received a copy of this poem when I graduated from the police academy and went forth to serve. I still cherish it to this very day.

[@da4dim]

Stoic Policeman, in my experience, as is"police intelligence", what we would describe as a Contradiction of terms.Then again, there's always one!

[@lauradiphlipo9332]

Thank you for your service!🙏🇺🇸

[@lalaniathielen8917]

Thank you for your service. Be safe and be true.

[@karinam4488]

@@gwendyfrary1807 my older brother died from overdose in 2009. I used to look down on him because of his habit... Now I WISH Narcan was available then, and I wish I treated him differently.... I used to be young, selfish, and at the time it seemed like it would be so easy to quit for him. “He just needs to use his will power” I thought. But in many cases, as well as in my dear brother’s case, it stems deeper than just a habit. With his passing and my aging I realized that none of his flaws matter to me anymore, just like they shouldn’t have mattered then. I wish I could still see his sweet face, hug him, talk to him, ask him if he’s ok......I let my stupid pride and selfishness get in the way. I just hope he forgives me and all of us for not caring enough. If we did, maybe he would still be alive right now, even if he was still an addict, he would give my family and me a chance at loving him better, UNCONDITIONALLY to be exact. Bottom line: we shouldn’t think that we r better than the others, even addicts. If we give a good look around we will see that most of us r addicted to something: coffee, chocolate, sex, alcohol, love, food, TV, even sports. Don’t judge and you won’t be judged. Instead be kind. Always be kind......

[@bahaar2825]

Wish all fathers said this to their sons and daughters!

[@karynwith-a-y6686]

This is why there are poets!

[@donitademao9872]

I once recited this on Philosophy back in 2018. Now in 2022, this hits so different when all your life you only have your IFs and you just realized.

[@funnyboy9101]

the last stanza it shows the feeling of a father i have no words of this poet it is really life changing poem

[@essenceoflife2070]

Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind. - Rudyard Kipling

[@luvslogistics1725]

Every word is so deep and worth contemplating. I’ve lived this poem, as a military officer, and it resonates with me.

[@mango11119]

Thank u for ur service

[@MissCap93]

Thank you for your service!!🇺🇸

[@jewelzbyjen1]

So Beautifully said....

[@jewelzbyjen1]

Truly...wisdom...Soul Stirring ..Blessing

[@luvslogistics1725]

@@jewelzbyjen1 thank you

[@Jon_476]

poem is deeper than most can realize.

[@Jehhjjdjdjd928]

Some times words travel through time...that's the magic. How words so simple but put together so eloquently, can create a passage for those seeking answers to this crazy world. These words hit so deep and during unprecedented times, just ups the power of his words. ❤

[@egverlander]

I wish I could have shared this with my son before he left this world at the tender age of 33 years.

[@applesandgrapesfordinner4626]

Passing my condolences to you, sir. You did your best to raise him

[@1973jamie1]

May God give you comfort with such a terrible loss

[@SamTonikian]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@guidedmeditationrelieflred9833]

*My Dad, May God Rest His Soul, RIP, Literally lived his life by this poem. He would recite the poem verbatim It and encourage his grandchildren to learn it and live by it. The poem, IF, was read at his funeral service by his grandson.*

[@coinoclast2910]

is his grandson olly hodges, by chance?

[@guidedmeditationrelieflred9833]

@@coinoclast2910 NO my Dad in San Francisco, Bay Area and group in Lousiana.

[@nusratzaman3900]

I taught this to grade 7! They are all in love with this poem! Such stimulating and powerful words!!!

[@philomelodia]

God, I love this poem! I will never forget the day that I first read it. I was a teenager. It hit me like a thunder clap. I am now in my 40s and every time I read it, I take something new from it. I gain some new insight into it. Kipling was a brilliant man, an absolutely brilliant brilliant man. He actually did write this for his son. He never imagined it would catch on as much as it did. Tragically, his son John was killed in World War I. His lament for him is absolutely heartbreaking. This was a very well done reading.

[@dinasf3718]

I had to memorize this poem when I misbehaved in class as a kid in elementary school. I was sent out of class for timeout and I was told I can't come back in till I had it memorized and can recite it in front of the class. Never forgot it since and I have had it hung up in my office for every job I have held for the past 20+yrs. It is an all time favorite.

[@jhavajoe3792]

When my whole world collapsed, I sought out this poem. Every little bit helps to heal. It is one of the greatest poems I've ever read.

[@nasserasiri1871]

I can bear to hear this poem forever I can recite it for my son who still unborn I can hear him speak with my grandkids How he became a man because of its revealing.

[@laviniakendall3882]

The most wonderful, touching, tone-induced, heartfelt reading. WOW. IF!!!

[@limitededition3712]

This is how I fell in love with poetry, 40 years ago. And I still read it at least once a week. And I have it framed 👌

[@themuslimview]

Great idea about framing it. I'll do that for me and kids to read it everyday

[@gentleasa5728]

I believe he is showing how important balance is in ones life. Love and light Evie

[@annamoore1620]

The last time I experienced this poem was in high school. Now, hearing it at 46, I can feel the depth of the words so much more. There is an astute understanding now that just didn't register back then. This realization furthers my belief that anyone who doesn't relish getting older is a fool.

[@queenbee3647]

You have to live it to know it. When youre young, you dont know what you dont know.

[@CR-bc1zt]

The amount of times I come here to listen to this .

[@ericwalker6546]

What is most important that our sons see us doing these things.

[@rishicoco]

And daughters :D

[@kellyberry4173]

@@rishicoco So very true.

[@ericwalker6546]

@victoria rook love the one who raised you, just acknowledge the one who bore you.

[@rishicoco]

@@ericwalker6546 even though this was for someone else, it hit :D

[@XFry333X]

Agreed. Instruction without standards are just words.

[@Valen-xu2wy]

Theres a whole lot of self responsibility in there. Lacking in our current 2020.

[@jahanarafaizal2023]

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[@snowdevil002]

Your comment proves you learned nothing from this poem

[@Valen-xu2wy]

@@snowdevil002 or did I?

[@Mq6vL9Bu]

Totally. Accountability, integrity, ownership, these virtues have been under attack by our decaying culture for decades.

[@ashleydillon1557]

I think it is kind of daring us to live up to our potential....

[@stephenguest3839]

If you stayed strong through these past few years and not fallen to your knees in support. of those who tried to force you with agendas and fears. But didn't expect you to resort, to you inner-strength, your sense of reason to do what you believed was right and true. To each of you heroes, those capable of self-thought A salute is given from me to you

[@AshleyLynnmusik]

I have just stumbled on this inspirational writer last night. Even so, we can all learn from this one poetic wisdom he wrote

[@annabasug3920]

My English Teacher made me read this poem in class when i was just 14 years old and i didn't understand the meaning. I didn't even thought it's this deep. Now, I got to understand it my own.

[@SagarsAudioHub]

Life teaches us and makes us able to understand ...

[@ayush4143]

Same with me dear! With every passing experience some line of this poem strikes in head and explains itself!

[@jacksongerald882]

Hello Ana how are you doing?

[@Arjun-eb1yc]

I learned it as a kid too, I agree that it goes over our heads as kids.

[@soslothful]

The poem addresses little, if anything, meaningful to a 14 year old.

[@kellyberry4173]

Gentleman.....To be a good man is hard, but, not impossible. It is worth the work. And worth the effort it takes. There are men who jump out of my memories. And I so loved and respected them. They are gone now, and I am old. But they are NEVER FORGOTTEN.

[@nelsonwayne6997]

Hello Kelly 👋👋 How are you doing and how's the weather condition over there ....?

[@nelsonwayne6997]

Hello Kelly 👋👋 How are you doing and how's the weather condition over there ....?

[@sharellewarren9323]

Hopefully the day I find my husband he will be the essences of this poem

[@germaxicus6670]

Every boy need learn this poem. Every man need do his best practice it.

[@lizgarner2320]

Women to my friend

[@squidsword0]

The fact that this poem lives on one hundred years after its conception serves as a testament to how powerful it is.

[@rodmalone48]

My favorite poem, I read this in the 8th grade. Been with me ever since”If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs”. This comes to me in situations in life, keeps me level along with the confidence of having the Lord Jesus Christ with me, making the journey much easier.

[@sjoerd7227]

I rather lead a difficult life than have to believe in fairy tales to make it easier.

[@inesperroud9058]

It's the best poem by far I've ever read. It shows us how to live. It become my anthem.

[@rationaloutlook5772]

@@sjoerd7227 💯

[@dfu1685]

You are a wise man already. The Lord is with you and if anyone or everyone can’t get deep enough to comfort your soul, He will be right there. That is how I was able to undoubtedly know his Incalculable love for Us all.

[@CallmeOzymandias]

"And blaming it on you" has always been something I get hung up on. I've always had the tendency to believe people when they say there's something wrong with me, but I'm getting better about that.

[@Dream.big.dreams]

This is just what I needed to hear! I lost my mother in a car accident recently. I was born on her birthday, an American holiday. I deeply miss her. I take care of my father, who suffers from Alzheimer’s. My wife has been in the hospital for over a month with a severe brain illness. She is unable to talk. I’m not even sure if she understands anything. Just yesterday, my uncle died. I have to fly across the United States to pack up his belongings and bring him back to our family burial plot. Today, I found out I have Covid and I’m very sick. I needed strength to keep moving forward through it all. This poem is just what I needed to hear!

[@elizabethmachaka2829]

I love writing poems but i never came across with such an excellent poem .truly it touched my heart

[@Kysushanz]

I learnt this poem at the start of secondary school - I was fascinated by it. The depth of meaning it it almost goes beyond comprehension; as I get older, wiser, I discover more. I have read this poem to my three sons. Kipling's works are amazing! The other poem that impressed me as a child was Ozymandias. Why don't school teach these classics any more?

[@queenbee3647]

Too busy with pronouns and genders.

[@Jenny-lq9iy]

This poem is more like a lion roaring Both the sound and meaning.

[@SagarsAudioHub]

❤️❤️❤️

[@kudohlol9379]

A warriors ballad.

[@jajjaj7921]

This poem needs to roar in every junior high and high school in America. Manhood is not something to repress, but something to shape for the good of society.

[@SpiesAssassinationsImpos-uv4sd]

Kipling was a brilliant writer and poet. His words echo through the ages. They are as true today as the day he wrote them. Maybe more so now.

[@patrikwright2658]

Im 67 and ive just heard this poem.always knew IF small word great meaning.thanks for showing

[@jasonb.4501]

My grandfather shared this poem with my father, and my father shared this to me and my siblings. This has become part of his legacy and I will share this one day with my kids. I’ve been trying to live my life this way for the past 20 years and I’m a better man because of it. If you’re searching for meaning or in a dark place, live your life one day at a time by these worlds and you’ll create a better future for your family and loved ones

[@ruthrudnik1622]

I first read this poem as a 12 year old. It seemed to me to be the most perfect description of a way of life with the best reward and I have tried to live it. That was sixty years ago. By the way, I'm female.

[@thomasmitchell4128]

Was it difficult to read when you were 12 ? I imagine candle light is not easy to read to. I'm getting ahead of myself here, I don't believe they actually had fire yet back then.

[@finleygal2490]

@@thomasmitchell4128 It doesn't cost you anything to be nice.

[@thomasmitchell4128]

@@finleygal2490 it doesn't cost anything to be mean either. And luckily for me when I wrote out that comment you responded to it didn't cost me anything to make stupid jokes. Come on now.

[@fillername236]

@@thomasmitchell4128 You’re being facetious to a 70 year old. Your reply says way more about you than about the living conditions in the 1960s.

[@LuckyLucky-pc3tz]

Gender doesn't matter...its about the way you live your life...☺

[@vincewillard4916]

This is a beautiful physiolophy that helps you learn self-control and how to be a better person

[@shwetaa270]

i had this poem in our textbook back then in school.......kind of nostalgia.....

[@napoleonbonaparte4410]

A copy of this poem is hanged on my reception area more than 30 thirty years after I stumbled upon this gem of a message!

[@syedhasnainofficial449]

This poem ruled on my heart for 5 year. " IF you can wait and not tiered by waiting"

[@pranavanil5420]

I'm hearing this poem from 5 months. I still get goosebumps while listening to it.

[@clovemao329]

How come erstwhile generations are so thoughtful on conveying message? Every slice of this poem sounds like a conclusion of one's life worth learning to.

[@dethkon]

“Did you know that IF is the middle word in LIFE, man?”

[@mightaswelby]

What was that, Dennis Hopper in uneasy rider? Oh wait... Apocalypse Now! I think

[@dethkon]

chauncey gardener You got it, apocalypse now! edit: I love your handle btw. Being There is a masterpiece, and Peter Sellers is a genius.

[@mightaswelby]

@@dethkon Thank you, sir. You are the first to recognize it

[@egverlander]

@@dethkon Peter Sellers said that of all the characters he had and could play, Chauncey Gardener what actually him!

[@dethkon]

E. G. Verlander Makes Sense. Peter Sellers was an incredibly... complicated man (I wish there was a better term), from what I’ve heard. And also a genius. Obviously, he often claimed that he didn’t actually exist- no sense of self at all- much like Chance, he could only experience “himself” through Television media.

[@Diana-gt1rv]

I totally agree with this absolutely beautiful time. Hold on, be patient, humble and always greatful for what you have and everything will be fine.

[@vxziz6294]

His voice is sooo deep it matches the poem sooo much

[@bobhearn3742]

My Nan read this at my pops funeral. He died on my 21st birthday. I miss him. I love this poem, it’s so tough and strong. It helps me. 🙏🏼

[@farragirl3671]

Almost in tears, this poem reminds me of a very special high school teacher of mine. Mr Petty recited it so eloquently, it was put in our year book, beside his picture, and t was read at his funeral as well 🥰🥰