Season of Simplicity | Decor, Aprons & Battles | Lady of the House Autumn Diary # 7

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[@lindahenderson1625]

A home needs cleaning because people , and animals, live there. Isn’t that a blessing? Stains, dirt, dust, tears in fabric, dirty floors and windows, etc. These are signs that life is thriving within the walls. That’s a gift from God. Our gift to Him is gratitude. Best wishes.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Beautifully said!

[@emmaronan6611]

Nikki,today is one of the hardest days of my life. I am heartbroken. But you reminded me that every day is to be celebrated. Even though the tears are running down my cheeks as I write this,you made me kinda smile.God bless you and your beautiful family x

[@juliecarns]

God bless you, Emma; I’m sorry for your pain and situation. Praying for you now. All the best, Julie 🌷

[@brifren2]

I am so sorry for what you are going through, Emma, and I am sending you warm and sweet wishes for your beautiful heart to heal soon. Please take very good care of yourself, and remember that life will offer better and brighter days, even when it seems impossible. x

[@purltwotogether8218]

God bless you, Emma. You are being prayed for by a random lady from England in the certainty that God will be very close to you in your heartbreak xxx

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Whatever you are going through, take it to God, He can comfort in ways nobody else can. You're in my prayers Emma, I'm so sorry you are hurting.

[@glendagai]

Yes Nikki! People before a spotless house! I loved your comments about your husband going to work-your children going to school? Isn’t it nice to show mercy to our family! We all need to show good manners to those who invite us to their homes🙂

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, always!

[@lindamiller3438]

What a great way to honor your husband by picking your battles. It great to look at the positive side of dirt,good example,a pile of dirty dishes. Thanking God for having food.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Exactly!

[@paulariggs9456]

Thank you so much for showing your home! I watch your videos while cooking and love the music in them, so relaxing! I appreciate you explaining at the end of the video about picking your battles and how people need to keep their home in a way that is best for their families. Our homes are our private spaces and showing them online is vulnerable and inspiring. Thank you!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

It definitely is and knowing it is appreciated helps me want to continue because I could just as easily not.

[@2aeng]

There's a lot of positive things to learn from you Nikki. You seem like a perfectionist when it comes to cleaning & organising but letting your family keep their habits that could annoy you, requires a kind heart. Picking your battles and keeping the sentiments of others in mind deserves appreciation. Thank you

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you, I like things a certain way for sure, but I know all of us do to some degree or another. It's all a matter of what.

[@kellytraylor6915]

Thank you sweetness for putting your husband's needs before your preferences it's so important to have healthy relationships and balance in love and intimate relationships

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, it's very important!

[@danaejavier]

LOVE what you talked about with your husband!! You are 100% right!! My husband is definitely my king! He gets what he wants and he comes first, and of course in return I am his queen. I learned that early on (married at 18 and going on 16 years of marriage) the better I treated him the better he treated me. We are each others #1! ❤️❤️

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Exactly! Congratulations on 16 years, that's wonderful!

[@homemakingwithdenise]

Hi Nikki, definitely have one in the front window and then one in the kitchen, none in the family room. Limiting decor in there. This was an enjoyable discussion. I’m listening as I picture my products. Love the subtle sweet heart. That will make a huge difference around the neckline. Good call. Love the Christmas apron. So true about the house and the shies. Your family has to feel comfortable at home. You set the boundaries.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's great Denise! Yes, that sweetheart is my favorite!

[@mamachenault1471]

I love your comment about the shoes in the house. I decided years ago that we have our home because of my husband, and he can wear his outside shoes in the house if he wants to. And the 5 kids don't get to choose. Their shoes come off at the door. When the older ones complain, I explain that when they chop wood, change their own tires and change their own oil, mow the acrage and till the garden, rake the leaves and snowplow the driveway, they can most certainly keep their outside shoes on. I think they'd rather take them off instead.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Love that!

[@DansonforJoy]

The beginning of this video was such a good LIFE reminder, to be intentional about enjoying each and every beautiful day. Thank you, Nikki.

[@audrey1755]

I loved today’s candid talk!! Thank you for ‘venting’ to us. You’ve always been so relatable, like spending time with a friend. ❤️

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so glad you enjoyed this Audrey!

[@carolynmaves503]

Thanks for the beautiful video. Sweet little doggie hiding in the pillows. ❤️

[@karenschmoutz6785]

As long as he wipes his feet of the worst of dirt & grime, why go crazy over wearing boots in the house? That’s what doormats & boot brushes outside an entry door are for! I’m enjoying your Autumn Diary series and hope you continue it for a full year of seasons.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Karen, that is my hope!

[@LemonsandLarkspur]

You are such a breath of fresh air. You live for what’s comfortable for you. And you do not beautifully. Putting your husbands workbooks in perspective was priceless. Our homes are for our families!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you, that's so true!

[@dori9024]

It’s been a losing battle with my husband taking off his shoes before coming in the house. For awhile due to COVID he took off his shoes., but now he has resumed the bad habit again. It does upset, but my husband has feet issues and putting on and off his shoes are a challenge for him and so I let it be. In a perfect world everyone takes off their shoes when they come in my house. But, I want my family and guests to be comfortable so I don’t make it a rule. My family think I am a neat freak, but if a clean, neat and organized home makes you a neat freak, then so be it that is me 😏. Over the years I have tailored my holiday/decor, I have found that less is best. But, you have inspired me to get a table top tree for my bedroom to place in front of the window. I love your style and home. Thank you for sharing 🍂🏡

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

It's definitely a sacrifice we make for the comfort of others, that's part of making a home I feel. I'm so happy this could inspire you!

[@brifren2]

Where some people saw dirty boots over a bed footboard, I only saw the beautiful illustration of happiness, coziness and well-being :)

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

A lovely picture indeed. I preach to myself in my videos you see, sometimes I need the reminder of what that beautiful illustration looks like. I saw that as I was setting up my camera to capture me putting away my clothes. He was laying back and before the words, "can you please move your feet? They're in my shot!" came out of my mouth, I thought, no, this is my life and it's a beautiful one, boots and all. It shifted my own thinking.

[@johnandkitty]

Love the mirror over the fireplace.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you, I couldn't believe my Mom found that, it's my favorite one yet!

[@shannonbardwell1125]

I just have to say you are so delightful and bring such light into my daily existence. Okay so you admitted you went off on a tangent and I would have to agree and just when I think I'm going to leave your channel for the duration of this video I find i can't. I've become adicted to the joy and humor and laughter and loveliness you bring into my day. I guess if you jkept going all day I would be here right with you smiling talking about whatever comes into your mind at the moment. You are precious so don't stop....

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

You are so funny, thank you for building me up!

[@gabrielarich2015]

I’m am so big about shoes in the house. I feel bad because over the years I’ve noticed people who are not comfortable coming over because they feel like I’m so strict. Even my children 5 and 6 know they can’t wear shoes in our house. Its weird to them when we go to other people homes and they wear shoes. We always take our shoes off in our home. I will respect your home and your hard work you put into cleaning your home.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's good that your family sticks to your rule. Something my husband talks about is how uncomfortable it can be for guests to take their shoes off and doesn't want them to feel that way. One time when we had some friends over, their son took off his shoes to get more comfortable and his feet smelled up the whole house. I think I'd rather sweep the dirt after company leaves because you never know.

[@lizabethaelizabeth9515]

Hi Nikki I didn't even notice. You know that is very cultural. It's a Caribbean and Latin thing. That is because we live bith inside and outside. Our weather allows that. I have the same situation. My son who has lived in Holland will always leave his shoes and slippers at the garage. Like you said though it's annoying, we realise that these things are microscopic in light of how blessed we are to have with us the beauty if being surrounded by our loved ones.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I have noticed this as well! Yes, that's the truth, we are so blessed!

[@Justheavenlyflowers]

Perhaps you need another seamstress to keep up with demand! Perhaps consider a whole line of maybe tea towels/tea cosy/peg bag /place mats/ cushions etc the list could be endless xx

[@kayburris8464]

Nikki, very well said!! You are a true lady in every scene. Very elegant and well spoken. Thank you for showing us all how a lady acts.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Kay, that means a lot!

[@Rebeka-ij1lk]

I heard a story once about a young lady complaining about her husbands habits, dirty laundry on the floor, shirts inside out, receipts in pockets for the washer (yay) and than he passed away and she wished she could pick up his laundry just one more time, I have to go the extra mile for my husband for his laundry oh how many shirts and loads are ink stained, but I love that I have him here with me and I would miss his messy self very very much! Same with the toddlers and the never ending mess that they leave behind. We have bigger problems in this life to fight for and try to fix.

[@Rebeka-ij1lk]

Oh I meant to add about the boots too, I always tell him one day I week I ask him to please leave the shoes at the door, that is after my weekly deep clean and sparkling floor, just one day! After day he’s fine ;)

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

This is something so important to think on. Any of us could be negative about our husbands and how different we are, it takes strength to have a positive mindset and to see the beauty behind what makes us the perfect compliment to one another.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's not too much to ask at all!

[@lindaleclair8938]

Great comment on the boots/shoes. My husband doesn't ever want to take his shoes off unless they are thoroughly muddy. Best to focus on the wonderful qualities and let go of these things like dirt being tracked in. Another lovely video.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I have to give him that, if it's ever that bad, he would remove them before entering. Yes, this is something I needed to hear from other women when I got married.

[@katpic9470]

Growing up my grandmother had 3 sheer fabric ruffled aprons in white red and green witha Christmas decal on pocket. They were 1/2 aprons for the holidays. I wish I thought to take them when she passed. We put lacel curtains instead of skirt. I have a Yorkie . Same issue.My window tree is a tree that has all crafts my kids made . and I the main tree is formal . Kathleen

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

They sound lovely!

[@Mmolesy]

Well said about your husbands boots. Some ladies spend their whole married life nit picking on things like that. Then their husbands pass away and they wish they never made a fuss. 😔

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

So true Megan!

[@rubybriscoe4143]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse yes I totally endorse your sentiment about picking your battles and working with the imperfections within you own home and family. None of us has perfect homes. And may I hasten to add, Nikki, yours is exquisite! Keep on doing what you’re doing, and allow your home to be a sanctuary for your dear husband, a place where he finds peace relaxation after coming home from the often times harsh world of providing for his dear family .

[@lvsv650]

Aww we love your house the way it is. It is always tidy. No one could keep that table clean with those cracks. Jorge is right about wearing boots in the house.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Hahaha! It's a good thing it's gone, come check out my glass top now!

[@lvsv650]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse waiting for qn invite!

[@mrsjudys]

Yes, I am simlifying! Amen! My grandma said, "tend to your own knittin'!"

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Oh that's the cutest saying!

[@lauren8407]

We are moving soon to a house that will wayyy better suit our needs with our fourth on the way! I’m lookIng forward to decorate and making the space one that is beautiful and that I enjoy! I’ve kept this one clean and organized but I’ve made tons of sacrifices in order to pay things off. So I’m looking forward to finally after 6 years, making a place I love!!!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's wonderful that you sacrificed, seeing the reward down the road. I wish you the best on this new chapter of your life!

[@lindarobertt6206]

Hi Nikki, The idea of setting up our everyday spaces to be beautiful and yet functional is so inspiring! Many of us stay home a bit more and we can all beautify our spaces. We all have some lovely items that perhaps we can use more. Thank you for inspiring us to just make the everyday more beautiful!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, that is so true! My pleasure!

[@0JReynolds]

The way I see the boots , those boots worked hard for your Family. We had a no shoes in my childhood home. My Parents had a business, 6 kids and a very large house. I had a no shoes in my home but my husband wore his Army boots in our house. Your videos are here to inspire us and I do get inspired. It’s hard sometimes because watching these videos makes people feel like we are part of you and when you are part of s family you then feel the urge to comment on something. Your home looks so lovely. My Christmas tree cannot go in front of our front window. I’d have to move the couch out. ~ Janet 😘. Oh yes, I love the apron 🥰

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

So true! I can understand that, thank you for your thoughts on this Janet!

[@juliecarns]

Hi Nikki, Enjoying your video while I wait for help with my daughter’s BMW. 😊 Your calming voice at the beginning of this chat is perfect. My husband freely walks through our house looking for a certain tool while working on vehicles; he paid for the carpet & vehicles so this 100% Dutch girl is working on letting it go. Team slim tree here, too; we don’t have floor space for a tree so it will go on an end table or open bulkhead dividing our kitchen and living room. All the best, Julie 😊

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Julie, I'm glad you enjoyed that. That's a great way to look at it!

[@1mrabalais]

Have you considered getting an irobot to clean your floors? We bought one last Black Friday on Amazon and it has helped us tremendously. We are a busy family of 5 & the robot runs at least once a day, sometimes twice! It has made my life SO much easier and I’m thrilled that my floors stay mostly clean. I still have to clean them, but it cuts down substantially on the work I need to do. We also do not allow any shoes on in our home. That helps a ton too!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, it has been a consideration but I think I'd rather get a cordless vacuum first. Maybe soon. I'm happy to know it works so well for you!

[@ilkaschulze644]

We don't have a christmastree in the window, yet, but I'm working on it. The tree in your masterbedrom looks awesome! That one would really fit well next to the fireplace, too. You know, my husband walks through the whole house in his boots from time to time and I don't say anything to him. I know that he isn't disrespectful. He has built up everything in our house and he works all day long to earn money for his family. And sometimes he just comes home very tired. And I have these days, too. Don't we all have these days? Thanks for the Video! I love your long Videos.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, I think that size would work much better there! I'm so glad you are understanding about that. I agree, we all have those days. I'm glad you enjoyed this, thank you Ilka!

[@marenlatham4349]

It was my favourite part in that last video when you were putting things away in the cupboard, and tucked in the corner of the frame was your husband's big work boots on the end of the bed. That part honestly touched my heart. There is a fine line to walk in putting your heart and soul into your homemaking, and your home becoming an idol. When you put a completely "picture perfect" home ahead of your husband and children or anyone who lives under your roof, you are missing the point. The home is for the family. The home serves the family...not the other way around. It seemed to me that the boots were probably accidental and we, the viewers, could have easily missed them, so it's not like you were trying to make that point, but it's just genuinely what you strive to do in your home. That's why I loved that part so much. And I also strive for the same thing. I put my all into my home, but I never want people to feel like they can't relax....or literally can't put their feet up!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Such a beautiful comment Maren and that was perfectly said. For too many, the home is the idol. When I initially set up the camera, it wasn't because his feet were up but I decided not to crop them out because that's our life and sometimes I'm putting laundry away after he is home and relaxing and that is beautiful.

[@ivanaplivelic936]

Nikki thank you for doing this video. This is so peacefull and beautifull!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

My pleasure!

[@trudyw7831]

Thank you for decorating early, I was thinking last year I should start sooner to enjoy the Christmas things I have longer they seem to be up for such a short period of time. Your videos are so warm and relaxing it feels so much like home.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm happy to know you appreciate it!

[@jessicasmoker7389]

Those Sand and Fog candles are the best!! I saw so many pretty ones today, and many were Winter Pine! So pretty and good smelling. ;-)

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, I'm ready to go back to get more!

[@WonderlandofWOW]

Hi Nikki! Mom and I are having an afternoon beverage while we watch you! We look forward to and anticipate your inspirations!! Your personality and style makes us happy. It's so great for me to be able to stop whatever I'm doing and take in all your lovliness!!! We also need to do Christmas Deco declutter! Scaling back is essential. Your ideas truly motivate to make surroundings special! And YES, ALWAYS a tree in the window. We always have ours there as well!! Much love to you, and Many Blessings to you and yours 😍😍😍😍😍😍 btw, that holly berry apron is GORGEOUS! You look great in it!! 💖 oh and congrats on your BBB (Before Breakfast Baseboards)!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's so special, I love that you two watch. I'm so happy you put yours in the window too! Thank you so much for your kind words!

[@brigidkeogh416]

Nikki your house looks beautiful, I didnt notice the shoes on the bed end with all the beautiful decor around.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you!

[@june102]

Baseboards before breakfast!!!! 😃 Nevermind it's just Niki in her dressing gown scrubbing away!!! ☺️

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Haha!

[@heatherthompson8837]

The tree in your bedroom is so pretty - it looks so nice in front of the window. Kudos for tackling baseboards first thing in the morning - you're a better woman than me! Lol. I agree with you about picking your battles with your family about shoes in the house, etc. As much as we'd all like our homes to look perfect all the time, it's not worth damaging our relationships with our families over it.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Heather! Better? No, crazy maybe, haha! That's the truth!

[@lulublueeyes5244]

I too, am sorting my Christmas decor as I put it up . I didn’t want to feel so cluttered this year. I love how your trees look ! Also I love the new apron ! Also I just wanted to say , I have a small dog ..sometimes she has accidents. We wear shoes because of this. I think if you are ok with shoes in your house, that is all that matters. After all it’s just that your house , so we don’t get a say in what is ok there. We are just quests, welcome to a glimpse into your life. And sometimes as homemakers I think we tend to forget that is home, is also home to others who have different ideas of comfort to them . It’s a balance in give and take, if it wasn’t our lives would be so dull. It’s the times In the we’re learning to work out that balance that makes life , such a gift. Thank you for sharing this with us ! You inspire us as always !

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's a great way of going about simplifying! Yes, our little dog does the same and it's just needed. Loved your comment, very well put, thank you!

[@lulublueeyes5244]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse thank you ! Have a beautiful rest for your day ! 🌹

[@rhondamorgan801]

My husband love driving around and looking at Christmas decor and I have a tall slender Christmas tree in my dining room because it faces the street and I only wanted clear lights, a tree topper and a beautiful tree skirt and in the evening with the lights on its so pretty

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That sounds so beautiful!

[@Mmolesy]

For those ladies that keep missing out on aprons, would it be advisable for them to message you informing you as such (nicely, of course) and what sort of aprons (adult or child)/how many they wanted, so they get priority next time around? The same patterns may not be available but at least it would be an apron. I think that its because the aprons always look so feminine that they sell out quickly. Its hard to find feminine looking aprons where i live. Blessings to you Nikki🥰😊

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Absolutely, when I get a message I let them know I will inform them before I announce it. Thank you!

[@beverlyvallance5311]

Thank you for another wonderful video! Puttering is one of my favorite things to do and this type of video reminds me of a lovely day spent puttering and chatting with my sisters,

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Beverly, I'm really happy you could enjoy this!

[@rosemarycarracino4240]

I can’t wait to order the Christmas apron!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I hope you do!

[@donnawiseman9311]

Yes, I declutter my decorations as I decorate. I have given away a lot of mine and plan to decorate less this year. Your trees are beautiful!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's a good thing to do and then it's not as big of a chore upon take down.

[@gigisfairytale1596]

Everything is so beautiful

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Grisel!

[@karenlong4364]

Nikki. You are so open and honest in your videos. I know that when we are open that some may be critical. You’re dealing well with it all. I am inspired by all that you do to make your home/life beautiful and organized. What time do you usually try to get to bed and then wake up in the morning?

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you for saying that Karen. I'm thankful that recent comments haven't been very critical and I can understand what concerns people but it's always important to remember, those living within the home have already had their private conversations about all the topics anybody looking in want to nit pick which in turn can annoy after a while, especially if it's something that a person is struggling with already (like myself). It's like sitting with a friend and she's going on and on about all the things that drive her crazy about her husband and then before you know it you go home and harp on your own because the same thing bothers you or worse yet, start a gripe session about him to her. Believe me, I can be just as negative but at some point, we have to step back and remember how blessed we truly are. I get pretty tired around 8pm so I like to run my bath around then, some nights it can be 7:30 and then I'll roughly plan my next day, journal, read and go to sleep between 9-10pm.

[@octoberfirefly]

Perfectly & beautifully said! :) 💖 👍🏼💕 Also, I de~cluttered & got rid of several items within the last couple of years as well. I find that if I’m trying to talk myself into keeping something, then it’s time to let it go. 💛

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Cindy! That's a good way of going about it!

[@kimmackley]

My husband doesn’t like shoes inside the house, to him wearing shoes inside the house is not relaxing and my family, girls and grandkids automatically takes there’s off as soon as there inside and they will tell anyone to do the same lol, the little ones love there bunny slippers

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's great that you make sure your husband is comfortable, every wife should keep that in mind, especially when going to someone else's house, it's not just what the wife wants, but the man of the house as well.

[@noelstephens1522]

Amen and amen Nikki !

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Can I get an amen over here!? Ha! Thank you!

[@rachelortiz9153]

I have to say, seeing all of the KZbin Christmas preparation videos has been encouraging! This has been a strange year and I feel November slipping through my fingers. It is a good thing to be prepared early!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm happy to hear that, I know it can be overwhelming for some. Yes, it does feel good!

[@christinagomez1641]

Thankyou,so beautiful and inspiring. Learning how

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Christina!

[@lisar7281]

I make my own I like the 1800s and early 1900s style as well as the 50s style

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's lovely!

[@BarbyDailey-Rurallife40]

I love "our" little talks Nikki 😉 My husband has always worked outside In construction type jobs and now he's a retired hobby rancher so yes, I've had to pick my battles. Living in the country he realizes how hard it is to keep the house clean so he does try to check his shoes or take them off before he comes in but it's a losing battle here. I've learned to embrace the dirt and dust, paw prints etc. 🤷 Yes I love a Christmas tree by a window. My tree will be in the dining room in front of a window. However we live on a hill above the road so no one will see it, but the reflection will be beautiful. Your streamlined home is so pretty and comfortable. I love both of your trees. I should declutter my christmas decorations but probably won't. Have a great weekend.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so glad you enjoy these Barby! That's wonderful that you have learned to embrace this part of life. Even if nobody else gets to enjoy it, at least you will each time you return home. It gives me such a warm feeling. Thank you kindly!

[@mihaelaclaudiap..2]

Everything around you is beautiful indeed! Love your home, your style, your voice! I already decorated my house for Christmas as well, I am a sucker for the Christmas spirit! Here's to Christmas movies 🥂

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you! How exciting, yes I really look forward to those movies each year! What is your favorite one?

[@traceyoneill1341]

Hi, hoping your family is doing well? Thank you for always doing lovely inspired youtubes. I am from South Africa (Port Elizabeth) a mom of one daughter Mia, 13 , a husband ,dog and a cat. And I know just what you mean about the boots and work clothes my husband is just the same as yours.thank you again for your time and your inspiration on keeping the home 😊🤗. From Tracey O'Neill

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Tracey!

[@staroliva6502]

Hello beautiful Nikki, great video like always. Lately this is my time to watch your videos. My life is a bit complicated lately trying to adjust my daily schedule since my Elderly Mom lives with us now. I am so happy, I just bought your Christmas apron 🎄 for my daughter that loves to bake. Thank you for making my evening a lovely one. Your Christmas home decoration is beautiful and very inviting.🎄

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

You're a good daughter for taking care of her, if nobody else told you, thank you! Thank you also for your purchase, I look forward to wrapping it up today and sending it your way! Thank you for your kindness!

[@leannosborne9238]

Amen!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you!

[@rose.g.belfort71]

All the decoration has been great! It is adorable. The mason jars are beautiful, I have two of that. I adore they. I send you blessings and much love for you and yours. Happy hollidays for everyone!!! 🎄🎁💖🌹

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Rose!

[@eirinoulapapa5741]

Sending you my love as always my sister!!!! I'm going to enjoy watching another inspiring video of you that is going to to make my life better! THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you so much Eirinoula, you're so sweet!

[@emilyallen8436]

I've been saying for years I'm going to go through my Christmas decorations. Collected for decades! Iveyet to. Lol. I was going to buy new filler balls but decided to upcycle the ones I already have! Paint them and embellish them. Because I don't already have enough to do. Hahahaha!!!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Each year I let some things go and I've yet to look back with regret. Maybe this will be your year! That's a great idea, to make new what you already have!

[@susanoutler1724]

✨⛄️❄️… Love you sharing your “winter” decorations with us!… I also love how you choose your battles! 💖✨… it’s the secret of a very happy marriage! …Thanks for sharing💖✨

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, that is a great secret!

[@annetterobinson5308]

I was wondering if you might use that garland wound around your tree to fill up the empty spaces.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Great idea although it's already gone!

[@emilyallen8436]

No need to throw the cords away! It's VERY simple to splice the wires. Not doubt your husband can. Lol. But it's very simple. I just made a new charging cord out of two different cords. I had every cord but the one I needed, naturally. So I cut and spliced two together and voila! Lol. Electrical work is way easier than it looks.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Oh there is no saving those little strands of Christmas lights. That rat went to town. It's already on the way to the dump too. He also caused a lot of damage to my car earlier this year, it wouldn't even start!

[@emilyallen8436]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse hahaha!! Oh no!!!! That stinks I'm sorry!

[@crterwil]

Honey your home is your man’s castle. He should be able to walk or tromp through that home amy way he wants. What a great blessing your husband is to you and your family.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

So true!

[@pennywheeler2598]

My comment is going to be short and simple.❄🌺 You, your family and your home, are a beautiful treasure🌺❄ Blessings to you and your family❄🌺

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you so much Penny!

[@espegoodbread3554]

Men always forget to take off those shoes. After 33 years of marriage, you just roll with certain things. I’ve been reminding people about shoes in the house. ☺️😀😜😍 Everyone is different. Be happy, your home is your private place. Home sweet home.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

My Dad and brother have a no shoe rule, but my husband doesn't want that rule. It's definitely preference.

[@creativekeys1]

Hi Nikki , I love that tree. Are you able to give the info on exactly which one it is? I am interested in ordering it from their website but I can’t tell exactly which one it is. Thank you!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I tried to look it up today but I didn't see it. It was $159 I think.

[@creativekeys1]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse Thank you!

[@rebecasparaco7127]

I’m out hunting with my husband. Wishing I can wear a dress hunting. My husband said he didn’t recognize me without a dress on. I took that as a compliment. #leadinglady

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

What a good wife! That's too funny!

[@CammyHell]

Oh no I’m so embarrassed!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️ that was MEEEEEE about your hubby’s shoes 🤣 That makes SO much sense!!! Yea it IS his home so yea if he wants to wear his shoes on the bed I guess that’s his prerogative. I didn’t mean it like to be rude. I just meant it like “you’re the cleanest lady I know, I’m just surprised you allowed that.” 😂 please don’t ever take comments like that so serious. I feel bad it bothered you enough to take that much time on it. I learned a lot from your answer tho! It makes sense to not say things you wouldn’t say in person at someone’s house as a guest. Sometimes I blurt out whatever I’m thinking as I watch. And at that time in my head I was like “wow I’m surprised she didn’t make Jorge take his shoes off. But you’re right it’s his house. I didn’t mean to offend you sorry 😘 Also I am working really hard (not that you can tell 😂) on not grumbling as you have mentioned it says I the Bible. You keep doing what you’re doing and I love it and I love you and I literally binge watch you for hours in a day. Especially at bedtime with your soothing voice. If you see a Negative comment, just know that a lot of people might be like me and just blurt what they’re thinking. I wasn’t be judgmental, so to speak 😞

[@kerstenelizabeth9093]

This was a lovely confessional. 🧡

[@CammyHell]

@@kerstenelizabeth9093 thank you. I hope Nikki ends up seeing it.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you for your comment and also for reflecting, not many are willing to do that. While a few people commented on his shoes being on the bed, my mom had actually made a comment that made me realize some people thought his shoes were on the actual bedding which they weren't so I clarified. To get deep into the conversation came from years of people commenting within my videos about why it's important to not wear shoes in the house. I don't feel anybody left a rude comment in that video (you included). I'm just bringing light to a feeling as a creator and hopefully it will cause those viewers to consider this that care and who don't want to leave a bad feeling to their name. There will always be those that say what they want without regard to the creator's feelings but that's not my true audience so I'm not speaking to them. When we consider ourselves as a guest, we may think about our visit a little differently, especially when heading to the comments. Something I learned early on in my marriage, I can't make my husband do anything. No matter how I feel, he has to want to. I'm so glad you're enjoying my videos!

[@CammyHell]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse I am enjoying them so much; I even just became a Patreon. Yes I did think his shoes were on the bedding but that convo is over now. Thank you for taking time to reply. That’s why I love you. It’s rare that KZbinrs take time for their listeners. Anyway your videos are beautiful and I will never stop watching them. 💕

[@rachelruiz8399]

HI 👋 NIKKI HOW ARE YOU GUYS? SOO NICE TOO SEE YOU. I LIKE 👍 YOUR DISPENSERS. IN THE MORNINGS, I LOVE ❤️ TOO WAKE UP AND ALWAYS PUT MY SELF AND MY FAMILY IN THE HANDS 🙌 OF GOD. AND READ. PSALM 91:1

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Hello, all is well, thank you!