So... Jarvis Has to Move | Sad Boyz Podcast

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[@Kyarrix]

I really like seeing a couple of guys not afraid to be emotionally open with each other. This speaks so well for you both.

[@shanquelmondecesions4525]

Just the boys being emotionally vulnerable

[@user-ql7sb6mi7v]

totally

[@ghost-husband]

same, it makes me feel better about being an emotional guy

[@siouiouioui]

@@ghost-husband my bf is emotional and I love it, it makes me feel comfortable to show my emotions more with him. I've never had that with my dad or my exes, other than anger they didnt express much emotion. It's refreshing and honestly healing to be with someone who allows themselves to be vulnerable. I hope you learn to appreciate that about yourself ❤

[@charlespustejovsky7187]

Thank you both for talking about Tyler and expressing how much you cared about him and how much he impacted your life. Thank you for sharing your grief. Seeing examples like this has helped me better flesh out "people would miss me if I was gone" which has been a huge help for me in my battles with depression. I really hope it helps others.

[@deathsheadhawkmoths]

that’s so important xx

[@alynsak]

It’s hard when you lose someone so quickly. It’s real and raw to not know how to feel. It’s just jarring and it’s okay to give yourself the time you need to process. Don’t be hard in yourselves. It’s natural. You never know when people will just not be here anymore and my heart goes out to you and also everyone who loves Tyler.

[@Notcleverenough]

Went through it several times, and it never gets any easier.

[@gmcnabb174]

this show got me through 2020, i’m so happy that you guys are bringing it back. can’t wait to see more j&j content and conversations

[@jaqsre]

i’m so sorry to hear about the passing of Tyler. may he rest in peace 💖

[@lowtech42]

This is like in anime after the time skip when the characters have new drip

[@lowtech42]

Rest in Peace Tyler May! 😔🙏🏿🕊️

[@reginaevaslin8053]

Haven't even listened to a full minute and....so sorry about the loss of your friend 😔. I remember his podcast as well 😢. ("Mr Feels" with Tyler May) and also remember the depression episode. Still raw and real, I am sure. Also, so glad that your dog is doing ok - that sounds scary.

[@dancelover2396]

Wake up babe, new Sad Boyz

[@Unfortunateaccident]

I'm only 4 minutes in and I just want to say how much this podcast meant to me. I found it a year ago. And it got me through work. My last 6 months at work I came in everyday not caring if I got fired. I started putting on a headband putting in my headphones and just spent hours walking around the sales floor and fitting room binging the podcast. It's the only thing that got me through my shifts. I was closed off for a while to my new coworkers but the topics you discussed made me open up dialogue and bring it to my peers. I ended up getting to know some great people because of you guys so thanks. I was going to school and working a job I hated if it wasn't for you guys I probably would've gotten fired, y'all kept me calm when I was at my angriest and most frustrated. Glad to have you back and thanks again

[@sydneybell1912]

i agree w jarvis, i cant help but still mourn the years that were taken from me due to the pandemic. i feel like everyone is just moving on like it never happened! it was a really painful part of our lives, i missed so many things i had dreamed of happening my entire school life. now im going into third year of university, its a big change going from 17-20 in a world that was completely unimaginable

[@hiitsaria]

I was actually thinking about you guys the other day, good to see that I've telepathically brought this podcast back to life 😂

[@taylifts]

As someone who's lost their childhood friend of 12 years, I can't emphasize enough how *nothing* prepares you for the loss of a friend in your 20s or 30s. And the grief, as far as I can tell 4 years later, never goes away. So I hope you fellas do take your time and take an ep to talk about him. Bc doing things to honor/remember my friend now is really the only thing that helps. But this shit hurts so absolutely no worries if you decide not too lol

[@hannahg3119]

this podcast is truly what i needed right now. i’m just at the beginning still but my best friend and biggest supporter just moved across the world and i haven’t really figured out a way to regularly contact him and haven’t let me really feel what i’m feeling. anyway i just want to say thanks for giving me this space to let me feelings just exist and thank you for showing that it’s okay to be vulnerable

[@grayson3239]

i’m so happy you guys are back. you two were the reason i finally looked into an ADHD diagnosis and gained the confidence to actually go Get it. i’m now professionally diagnosed and on new meds all because u guys were so open abt ur symptoms / experiences

[@iimmannii]

Jarvis talking about RSD was the start of my journey. I couldn't get diagnosed in my old town but when I moved it was at the top of my list

[@gmcnabb174]

same here! id always suspected it but never pursued an evaluation but after hearing jarvis and jordan talk about their experiences with the diagnosis process it pushed me to seek an evaluation. got diagnosed last summer and have been on meds for about a year now and it’s unbelievable how much of an impact it’s had on my life

[@thedestroyasystem]

@Real Ray I’m in the exact same boat, almost to the T. A lot of us trans folks are neurodivergent. My suspicion is that the way our outlook is affected by neurodivergence makes us more attentive to how we feel so that we can recognize our transness, and less likely to care about the status quo/social rules that would prevent transition. Anyways. I hope that you’re able to get assessed at some point, I know parents can be a big obstacle. Just know that every diagnosis starts with a suspicion of what you have, and whether you end up with those specific labels or not, the symptoms you’re recognizing and the experiences you’re having are super valid :)

[@yoongiverse.]

when do they talk about this? i also want to compare symptoms

[@ghost-husband]

@Real Ray i know that idk you but having both is a big possibility imo, if you have one you're more likely to have the other as well. I'm diagnosed with adhd but I suspect I have autism too. I'm also a trans guy so I feel you on that one, I only just got diagnosed with adhd at the beginning year and I'm 19, a lot of us really are neurodivergent huh? I hope you can get evaluated soon and get some help, if you want it that is.

[@mahbluebird]

I'm like 70% sure the "shoe rack" post-it is from a chicken girls watch-along when jordan was trying to take notes on the characters or something. glad you two are back podding the cast

[@crevetcuh688]

When I tell you I had a little cry after finishing listening to this episode, I mean it. This is definitely my most significant parasocial relationship. I started listening to you guys during the pandemic, thinking "honey, you've got a big storm coming" during the pre-apocalypse episodes and I remember thinking to myself that your podcast is one of the highest quality I've heard. You also helped me with my English listening practice, so thanks for that. Then I missed your content and moved to watching you here. Seeing how well your channels are doing, I started to miss your conversations. AND HERE YOU ARE AND I AM SO HAPPY.

[@Kat-pk9qh]

I really needed to hear y’all speak so openly about medication. I’ve been having a hard time seeking out psychiatrists and medicine, even though my therapist tells me that sometimes the brain chemicals gotta get fixed. Love u guys

[@shesthebethest]

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. What a better way to talk about that loss than to share your fond memories of him with eachother. Grief is a long process, but at least you have eachother

[@Nuancednudibranch]

Poor Dipper! 😭 He must’ve been so scared. I hope he doesn’t have any PTSD or anything from it.

[@Nuancednudibranch]

4:22 “We haven’t aged, not a lick, not a bit.” “Especially not my bones.” 😮‍💨 You can’t get that real on me without warning. I sound like a bunch of water bottles that spilled out of a delivery truck into the middle of rush hour traffic when I wake up in the morning.

[@VenusianLissette]

rip to your friend Tyler. I’m glad you were all able to help and enrich each other’s lives. It sounds like you all really loved each other…❤️(which in life feels like there’s not enough of.) thank you for sharing Tyler, and his life with us. great ep guys, glad I took the recommendation. take care.

[@thegreekfromchicago9812]

God the medication thing is ridiculous here. I am on my parents’ insurance and changed insurances- but new one only covered generic Nuvaring birth control. This sucked because not only was one ring now 178$ but I’ve been using the brand name for a few years and it’s been AMAZING (I use it for extreme depression and migraines) So I tried the generic for 4 months and I was just so not ok. Just crying at the drop of a hat, feeling like brushing my teeth takes out all my energy for the day, losing all interest in things I love to do, and my actual period being so intensely heavy. So I tried going back to brand name and it was just a change over just two months. Which was good to see BUT not when one ring costs 178$. Tried getting a prior authorization from my doctor to insurance because I had tried over 3 versions of birth control that did not work with my body. The insurance doesn’t even have Nuvaring on their list so that wasn’t even an option. It’s like okay awesome I’m just trying to function like a normal human being but that’s gonna cost me 178$ a month. We are extremely fortunate we’re in a place where we can budget that but it’s insane that this is something that happens! When people are just trying to function at a baseline level and that’s when someone HAS insurance! Ok rant over- love you guys thanks for normalizing talking about medication as well

[@Lee-wf4kr]

This is the most excited I've been for a podcast episode ever

[@kat5416]

you guys made me cry, i love this pod and hope the best for all of your ventures

[@anyrija.]

i was pretty emotional and kinda stressed before i started watching, and i legit feel like crying lmao just thinking about 2018 man, that was 4 years ago. i remember watching jarvis's videos back then, it feels so recent love to tyler tho, seems like a great dude

[@elizabethbrown2074]

I take the generic form of Lamotrigine 200mg and it's like $40 with Good RX Highly recommend using Good RX when you don't have insurance

[@pusheenqueen519]

The past three years have been such an unreal period. The September before the pandemic my sister took her life. Less than a year later my dad did as well. I've been grieving in the midst of a lot of external chaos and now things are slowly going back to "normal" and it's just really hitting me how this is my life now. For what it's worth, videos from you two make me feel okay. I'm always thinking about them but there's ways for me to still be okay. So thanks.

[@spokeinlilac]

Legit the 3 years of the pandemic feel like a blur but here I am at 24 regardless :') I know this doesn't mean much coming from a stranger online but I'm sorry for your loss and I wish yall the best

[@yarr0]

Dipper noooo 😭 I hope he has a speedy recovery omg how awful! Give him 56 extra treats for me please

[@megalyssa]

Thank you for talking about Tyler, he was an incredible person and friend to me and so many others. He was a big supporter of the foundation To Write Love On Her Arms, if anyone would like to donate in his honor

[@peterpansdawg]

So so so happy for this new episode. Welcome back Boyz. Love you both!

[@cloverfieldsandbuttercups]

I'm so sorry for your loss fellas💛 Sending lots of love

[@jenniferwaidelich642]

awww, what a genuine friendship.

[@user-ql7sb6mi7v]

Super refreshing to see these 2 dudes just open up. Total respect.

[@amandaclbn8324]

Holy holes I missed you guys

[@alynsak]

So glad to see you together again on this channel. Always appreciative of the content y’all make and how real you are. Hope you’re doing well. You both deserve it.

[@glugonmyslug8514]

Crying 8 minutes in bc you care about each other. Brings a new meaning to #friendshipgoals

[@anyrija.]

love my one episode a year podcast

[@flaviac6556]

3 DAYS AGO?! WHY IS THIS JUST RECOMMEND TO ME?! 😭

[@thefollowingisatest4579]

I'm always sad about how long it is between pods but I forget that sadness when one comes out cause every ep is a gift. Also that Tate is hair raising.

[@hell0nicci]

Love this, life sucks so much sometimes and it’s ok ebbs and flows or whatever that saying is and it’s refreshing to hear two grown men with podcast express their feelings so candidly. Thank you for not cutting that out, it seems silly but I don’t think either of you understand how validating seeing the ppl on the internet that you admire express the emotions we all feel (and usually make ourselves feel bad ABOUT feeling). Nothing about the last few years feels real, I know I speak for a lot of us when I say that and this interaction was incredibly humanizing and sort of grounding in a sense. Thank you for always sharing your lives with us, thank you for feeling like a friend to so many of us during a time where everyone in the world felt alone, you guys are incredibly important to so many of us. I’m so sorry about Tyler, and as a fan I have so much love for you both. Jordan specifically, I cannot wait til you are back with your friends and in a place that feels like home to you! Look forward to the content we’ll see then (better be more chicken girls btw not to pressure you but kind of) and your fans support you thru all the feels (except the barista girly) I hope You continue to take care of yourself first and not worry about content bc your existence and happiness is way more important to us all. Ok corny cliche comment over, idk if you guys will see this but to anyone else reading til the end- you’re an angel, ily you matter sm and we are friends 💛

[@jemmashaw5402]

This is my first time listening/ watching to this podcast, but a fan of you both. This is beautiful and wholly needed. Talking about grief is so necessary and gives you the space (esp when talking with people who share memories with that person) Thank you for your vulnerability and for being so candid. 💗 I smiled and laughed and had a little cry watching.

[@kuromi8384]

Oh no poor Dipper! I would love to take my dog to the dog park, but I don't have enough trust in my training or other people's training. I'm too scared my dog will get hurt or another dog will get hurt.

[@N33k5]

Only recently started listening and was kinda worried the pod died and I am glad to see it's not.

[@GothBunny6669]

I’ve switched jobs three times since y’all last had an episode haha. Glad everything is going to fall into place

[@lovewithoutthelover]

I had almost finished every single available episode when this one came out. I had been dragging my feet, not listening as often as I wanted, because I wasn’t looking forward to having no more to listen to. So happy to see you back and talking about the challenging things we all experience. This episode brought tears to my eyes - thank you for sharing the good memories of your dear friend with us. You guys are my faves. ❤️

[@atttwaa7849]

Welcome back, my favorite boiz ♥️🥺

[@ashtea96]

Im so glad you guys are back. Always feels emotionally cleansing for me

[@itsethanbradberry]

We back baby! Let's goooooooooo!

[@Yessica13]

I'm so happy the podcast is back. My condolences on the loss of your friend, Tyler. I will add that I relate to the "losing my train of thought while talking" for sure @jarvis

[@AngieeShipps]

Favorite guys on KZbin back at it again!!Thank you both for being amazing, intelligent, articulate, and transparent!! Kings!! ✨

[@emillieolivia8006]

I’m so sorry about y’all’s loss. Love to Tyler’s family. Been there losing a friend at such a young age it’s too much to wrap your head around. Take care of yourselves boyz we love you! ❤️

[@viktuuri]

im so happy to see a new episode of my fav podcast

[@weedlechu]

SO EXCITED!! I’ve missed the pod so much

[@adizity]

When the world needed them most, they returned

[@alexis1993]

Literally so happy you guys are starting up the podcast cast again!!!

[@sav9207]

genuinely my favorite podcast im so glad to see you guys are back

[@Nuancednudibranch]

Not lamotrigine. 😂 Add on Sertraline and Quetiapine and you have my “Please let me function” cocktail. Lol

[@lulucool45]

i'm too fragile for this rn i'll watch it later

[@nicolem9930]

hope you're feeling better once you come back

[@lulucool45]

i did, this is a great ep

[@pearandachair]

YUPYYYYYYY I'm so happy to have a new Sad Boyz podcast! I love your podcast!

[@Rylee_G]

Rest in peace Tyler ❤

[@karayanna8119]

... so is Jarvis secretly an impressions master. Like I've never heard anyone so good at impressions. Just like the new York accent and then the Andrew tater impression.

[@genevaborland4242]

This got me all weepy. I ❤️ you two!

[@AbbieMarie]

I’ve missed Sad Boyz so much. Thanks for this you guys 💜

[@sleepdeprivedjuicebox]

this helps with my depresso feels. thanks for being open about things. it helps me feel like i can be too

[@k.b.9343]

Sending y'all love and wishing you comfort.

[@TheAmityElf]

Good job, Jordan; when I first got Invisalign, it took me a bit to master speaking without a lisp.

[@sinistersilence489]

I need to have one of your podcasts playing to be able to fall asleep these days, it’s like listening to your friends talking at a sleepover whilst you go to bed lol

[@JordanaCTO]

Welcome back! 🎉 I missed the pod.

[@janey4319]

I only recently got into this podcast, so I only really waited like 1 month for this new episode lol. I love hearing about mental health both candidly, but not quite so deviatingly. It's very inspiring that even when going through hard times, you can still do great things

[@Daisy-dp2ez]

So happy i just found out you guys are recording again. Always find you at really rough times of my life. ❤❤

[@kkimsey5866]

Listened on Spotify but came over here to say how excited I am that you posted a new episode!!

[@emilywells9664]

Lemme tell you I worked as a pharmacy tech and the high med prices were incredibly depressing and disheartening

[@ssouplady]

Love this podcast so happy to have it back

[@hurricanecatrina9548]

Love you both ❤️❤️❤️ What a sweet episode.

[@user-ql7sb6mi7v]

Love this one very relatable!Keep on keeping on dudes :D

[@sazonada]

I forgot how vulnerable they get on this. It's so endearing.

[@hippoqueen961]

Im gonna run for this entire podcast episode tomorrow

[@mishelshah170]

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE! TURN IT UP

[@alteregoapollo]

I'm so glad y'all are back!! Great day for minecraft & podcasts

[@dhrwhoo]

I just watching previous sad boyz podcast. And i subscribed just in case the come back... and they did 😘😘😘

[@etprincipalis]

I'm so glad you guys are back 😭😭😭🤲🤲🤲🤲

[@bombasticnoa]

IVE MISSED THIS PODCAST SO MUCH

[@LargoFan2000]

The sad Boyz podcast.... I haven't heard that name in years. WELCOME BACK

[@Claire-gz4tr]

Rest in peace, Tyler

[@christinarice4833]

so glad to see you guys are back!! good luck on the move, Jarvis!!

[@yayak99]

I really appreciate you guys being vulnerble and real with us. It means a lot from someone who looks up to you❤️

[@brynna8619]

Jordan- can you use goodrx for your meds?

[@porgegorbo6406]

will u ever release the vods of the podcast from the past few years ? maybe on an unlisted playlist or smth. great epsode!!

[@nintando]

the boyz are back!!

[@sarathellen]

Love you both ❤️

[@ezekielpierson2865]

I’m so UNsad the boyz are back!

[@amberd8493]

Thank you for letting us into your grieving process. It’s so hard.

[@tranemone]

oh fuck yeah!!! missed this

[@infinitesora]

OMG Yesssss new Sad Boyz! I've been fiending since i binged the other ep's, thank you gentleman! Emotional Pervert reporting for duty! Now to get more Arcs.

[@youtube.handle69]

Swiss army man is a FANTASTIC movie, I am constantly telling people to watch it but also tell them not to look up anythinggggg about it because it'll ruin the experience

[@possumpaints6852]

let's GOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@weekendreligion5753]

This was my first episode - was recommended after seeing Jordan on Ethan's channel. Absolutely adore this podcast!

[@thilypad557]

Thanks for this guys.

[@edendennis2764]

It’s funny that Jarvis and Jordan are talking about some of their viewers being out of high-school as I started my first year of high-school.