SUMMER DIARIES EP 5. (dealing with online comments, weight gain, days in my life, solo date & more)

[@nisanurdagl9929]

We dont see just your body we see your soul we see your progress your abilities you are way more than your look ,i have similar insecurities with you i gain in my face so it is hard for me to gain weight too even no one comment about it this feels bad but we are strong i believe us we can do it❤❤

[@danifernandez.g]

Love you so much thank you for this ❤️❤️

[@angiealvarado572]

dani your absolutely stunning in every possible way! those ppl are ignorant and can’t see straight! As I watch your videos I’ve gotten to see your strong personality! Keep your head strong 💗💗💗💗

[@danifernandez.g]

Thank you for this I love you ❤️

[@elyseirwin2587]

Dani I hated seeing you cry. I think you are beautiful and believe you are doing all you can do in recovery. I think all those other people just need to be quiet because they are probably just not comfortable in themselves. Some people have smaller arms and legs than others and more full faces…I am one of those people. It is all genetics and no one knows what you are doing or your genetics like you do. You are one of the most inspiring KZbinrs and are beautiful inside and out. Your story is so amazing and you’ve come so far from old sick Dani. I can tell you are in such a better place mentally and physically and will continue to support you. Love you lots

[@danifernandez.g]

I love you thank you for this ❤️

[@mar.2648]

Hi Dani! In my experience, my arms were REALLY skinny and I was only gaining weight on my stomach and legs, but as I kept gaining weight, I eventually gained on my arms as well and I look more proportined now, I actually like my arms for once!! So just keep pushing and keep gaining, it all gets better! Also taking a break from the gym helps a ton

[@laylaveil]

this happened with my recovery too!! it's so weird my arms and my chest were very skinny even a lil bit more skinny than when i was at my lowest, but my stomach and legs gained all the weight i thought i was the only one

[@danifernandez.g]

Thank you so much for sharing this!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@amandabenninghoff2643]

Keep staying in a surplus and eventually you'll gain weight in your arms too! You should be proud but have a long road ahead too! Keep going!

[@bells553]

Dani thank you for posting the real and raw moments. I can relate so much to gaining weight in my face but not on my arms and it makes me feel insecure because people make comments. You are a beautiful person, inside and out and I hope you remember this comment when you feel down. 💕

[@danifernandez.g]

Sending you all my love ❤️

[@oliwiapocaluj]

i'm polish so english isn't my first language and I loovee watching you not only for fun and inspo but also I get to practice my english and my listening skills bc you don't use difficult vocabulary and idc what everyone on instagram or tiktok say abt your accent or that you pronounce things in a wrong way bc I dont see that!! you are my comfort youtuber please never give up you are super strong

[@Begrateful5728]

Hii I am also polish 👋🏼

[@danifernandez.g]

Love you so much thank you for being here ❤️❤️❤️

[@lucta-uh3gn]

Dani you're so amazing I don't even know how to explain it you're just so wholesome, authentic and beautiful! Please be strong and don't care about these rude haters- they're propably just jealous.Your videos really help me with my recovery Love love love you from Poland ❤❤

[@danifernandez.g]

Love you so much ❤️

[@colorfulwind_]

Dani I'm so sorry for your pain... People think they are strong behind a screen, the only truth is that they are weak and childish! It'hard to face certains comment because you can feel them into your heart. We spend a life trying to build self-esteem and those little selfish voices come tu us and crash our castle! I hope you are feeling better and it was the right choice to share that moment in the video. Thank you for your authenticity... love u ❤

[@user-jp8wl1vs3d]

Hi Dani and all other girlies and women! Our bodies are such a sensitive topic for us women as we have been programmed to dislike, compare and criticize our bodies from a very young age. I am a 42 year old mom and probably one of your oldest viewers 🤣My weight has fluctuated so much in my life due to hormones and lifestyle, stress and burnout, pregnancy etc. Trust me when I say that I understand body insecurity fully as I think many women do. Last year I gained weight as I was comforting myself with more sugary foods to combat loneliness and stress and anxiety. I felt embarrassed about my weight gain and self conscious about going out dancing which I LOVE. What helps me in times like this are two things: - I want to love 💕 myself back to balance (not hate myself back to balance) (whatever balance is for you) - look at all the amazing things my body does for me. I can dance and read and walk and live and eat food and hug my daughter and laugh and cry the list goes on This takes the focus off of what my body looks like but focuses on what my body does as a vehicle to live life fully. Maybe this helps other girls and women. ❤ Lots of love from one woman to another ❤️

[@danifernandez.g]

Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️

[@the1shay]

It's awful people say those things. you're so beautiful, dani, never forget that ❤️

[@danifernandez.g]

Thank you for this ❤️

[@victoria21035]

We love you, Dani❤

[@danifernandez.g]

I love you guys ❤️

[@maggiecrowell2617]

Thank you for being so honest. I am so sorry it has been so hard for you. ❤

[@danifernandez.g]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@danielanunez6733]

21:33 summer book I recommend is summer ever after

[@danifernandez.g]

Thank you!!

[@AS-ur5gl]

Hi huni I just want to say your body is nobody's business . Keep doing what you are doing . Take care xxx

[@keralinknepper9008]

I have the same problem. My upper body is bony. By I'm doing which is making a difference that I'm lifting weights to help. It took about 3 months for them to look a little better. But the good news is that our arms look more divined. You can see lean muscle.

[@tamarkazovtikova6664]

You are beautiful baby girl. You’re beautiful just the way you are. You don’t need to prove anything to anyone. Your fire inside your soul was there since you have been born. Take care of your little flame. Don’t let anyone touch it. You are way too perfect and way too important for this world. I see your steps. Every single step you make. Day by day. I am so proud of you. Even we don’t know each other, I believe in you so much. Seeing your smile in your videos and your encouragement to be healthy makes me want to become healthy too. I know how it’s feels. I know that very well. But you are not alone, we are in this together and so many people on this planet too. We are much stronger than some stupid comments. People are mean, were mean, are mean and will be mean. But we don’t give a shit about their opinions on us. Do they know us? No. So fuck they shitty comments. Everyone can be strong and have big mouth behind the screen. Keep going baby girl.💋

[@danifernandez.g]

Thank you so much for this ❤️

[@nataliaortiz-]

Omg Dani you literally have my dream body like I have aspired to have a body like yours, I know that wanting other peoples bodies is not healthy but I just want you to know your beautiful and don’t be sad about others being mean to you, at the end of the day they might just be worried about you and your health. We just want to make sure your not relapsing because we are rooting for you ❤

[@lianakbarpourlianakbarpour1194]

Dani no matter what anyone says you are an amazing human being. you have helped so many people out there myself included and I am so grateful for people like you . It’s funny how people look past many things and many improvements but they always pick our insecurities and our mistakes.still you should not let them get to your head because as you said yourself they’re just a bunch of people sitting there doing these things,making mean comments about others for no good reason. So I wanted to say that what you’re doing means a lot to many and it takes courage to share these things on the internet . You are a kind, brave,genuine and beautiful human being and your videos literally make my day Keep going Dani 🎀💖✨ And btw I want to thank you again because you have helped me a lot in my recovery and you deserve to be happy 😉 P.s. that is the cutest mug I’ve ever seen you are so talented. ✨💖

[@CJclaudianovak]

I think wrong people are youtubers. Don’t get me wrong, but honestly putting yourself on internet, ppl will like you, hate you, etc. it’s normal, because ppl always have something to say about anything and anyone. Expecting they won’t, is absurd. What I meant about wrong ppl being youtubers, in the sense putting yourself on the internet you need to be mentally strong, and lately all I see is that 75% of youtubers mentally struggles, which is kinda funny. And if you build your platform about your ed, how your body changed etc, it’s silly to expect that ppl will commenting about your college or your painting skills etc. It’s like Kardashians/Jenners expecting ppl commenting about them about something else but looks. Consider if this is truly the job you want to do, if yes, then pivot your focus on platform or start working something else. Otherwise, wish you all the best.

[@samiesamie97]

@@CJclaudianovak exactly. If this “job” isnt helping her mental health now then it never will. She needs to find something she can do for a lifetime. And building an account off her ED then expecting people to follow her for her books and makeup videos is not really realistic. Just wish her the best but she needs to understand the cons that comes with the job she wants to create and have

[@HealthyCooking10]

I love ur videos they help me with my eating disorder 🫶🏼

[@Charlotte-ff9sg]

You are a big inspiration for me and you what I eat videos help me a lot❤ Thank you and keep going!

[@danifernandez.g]

I'm so glad! Thank you love ❤️

[@QuinnsCozyCorner]

Hi! First time I've seen your content and first comment too (obvi). So listen, I've been in recovery from anorexia for a long time. "It's a process" is the truest thing I was ever taught by my treatment providers. I am so sorry that ignorant comments caused you so much (understandable) pain. Here's the thing...those comments are not really about you or your body or your recovery....they are about them. I know that sounds cliche but I swear; long term recovery has taught me just how true that is. Those individuals are projecting their insecurities about their bodies, recovery and themselves onto you. Bodies come in all shapes, sizes and proportions. Bodies are also complicated, as is recovery and weight restoration. Though easier said than done, I know, keep your head up and just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Love yourself as best you can along the way. Recovery is about what is going on inside, not outside.

[@danifernandez.g]

@@QuinnsCozyCorner thank you so much for all of this ❤️

[@mirchen01]

You would love the book ,golden bay“ for summer feelings!

[@danifernandez.g]

I’ll give a try thank you!!

[@danielanunez6733]

I have never been this early omg

[@danifernandez.g]

Hi dani hahahaha

[@HollieKorreckt]

I think the book genre you were referring to is dystopian when you were talking about Divergent and Hunger Games. Maybe look into more popular books from that genre instead of fantasy. And you already know there is gonna be a romance in those books too.

[@andykolte5613]

We see your heart and soul. Ignore mean and insecure, and hateful people who comment . You are awesome and wonderful person. Keep smiling. You are a kind soul. You inspire me so much. You have helped me to love , accept myself, my body and insecurities about my body. Youare the sweetest person ever. I am so blessed to have you and your channel. Sending love, positivty and hugs. Love you Dani.❤🫂❤️‍🩹🫶🫶💝💝💗💓🥺💌💟

[@mariafrf88]

Hi @nadine I know u mean Will but saying "nice" body comments can traduce in our minds that we should stop and stay the way we are and not change even if we still need to in recovery. Love❤

[@unknownperson1493]

I don't like, that people always try categorize people into "sick" and "not sick", by looking at their bodies. Like seriously: If Dani was struggling (more than usual) she'd be able to hide it anyways and it would work. If a person is truly sick , then she is mostly so clever and manipulative (to themselves and others), that you can't see it on the internet. So it is basically totally senselss to comment on her body, because you never know, what goes on behind the camera.

[@leramayrons525]

Dani, you are absolutely amazing. It hurts to see you cry, but it's good that you don't withdraw into yourself and don't give up. Move on, you are already the best person for yourself. ХоХо

[@danifernandez.g]

Thank you for taking the time to write this ❤️

[@marilenagawish9724]

FIRST ❤

[@danifernandez.g]

YEIIII

[@nisanurdagl9929]

I thought i was first and felt so happy but its you 😭

[@martagarzon6024]

Los libros de Elisabeth Benavent (en especial "Toda la verdad de mis mentiras") son suuuuper veraniegos y te vas a reír un montón. En España muchísimas chicas los leemos!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@danifernandez.g]

Gracias hermosa!!!!

[@user-bh3cj7yp8z]

Girrl, I don`t know if it helps, but I have the same body type as you ( my arms have been always thin). However I have never seen that as something ugly or unattraktiv. I really love my arms, it's always been my favourite part of my body tbh:) And I think you are beautiful too!

[@danifernandez.g]

You’re so sweet thank you for this ❤️

[@mirchen01]

I wanna hug you 😭🫂

[@danifernandez.g]

😭❤️

[@nisanurdagl9929]

Hey

[@danifernandez.g]

Hiii!!!

[@Nadine56924]

You Natural skinny and healthy pretty ❤❤❤

[@mariafrf88]

I know u mean Will but saying "nice" body comments can traduce in our minds that we should stop and stay the way we are and not change even if we still need to in recovery. Love❤

[@samiesamie97]

Your actually very down and always playing victim, u have the choice to manifest and turn ur life around… stop crying for everything and asking for sympathy

[@necrosis6486]

She shouldn’t suppress her feelings, she is so valid to feel like this and is not playing the victim AT ALL. If you think that you’d should just leave seriously, she doesn’t need anymore hateful comments. She is so brave to show her feelings to the world and shouldn’t be ashamed of it. I love her for her authenticity and her realness, for all of the work she does to understand herself and work on herself to get better. seriously Dani Im so proud of you and don’t let comments like this get to you, there will always be people to judge and criticise but you shouldn’t care because it’s YOUR life and YOU ARE DOING THIS FOR YOU. lots of love ❤️

[@panbriocheasmr]

The issue is that you are sharing your body and what you eat, you preach about intuitive eating but you are only 5'1, it doesn't make sense that you would still be this small after being in recovery for years now, perhaps too much exercise, but it feels a bit dishonest sometimes 😅

[@danifernandez.g]

@@panbriocheasmr “you preach intuitive eating but you are only 5’1” WHAT? 😭😭😭 what does one has to do with the other one? This is MY BODY yes I don’t know what you want me to do about it? The only exercise I do for now it’s physical therapy and yoga so no I don’t do too much exercise either… I am always honest in here so I don’t really know what you want me to do?

[@panbriocheasmr]

@@danifernandez.g i'm sorry if i didn't explain myself correctly what i mean is that you are having calorie dense meals which should make you get to a healthy weight, however, if your doctors are not concerned then it's fine as long as you take care of yourself. I'm the same height and put on 40lbs since january without even trying due to life stress, thermodynamics doesn't lie, if you are burning more energy that the one you are having you would be in a deficit. I don't want to hurt your feelings but please take care of yourself and don't forget to ask for help when needed. We of course don't know the behind the scenes but genuinely don't want you to relapse, mental health is no joke :T

[@panbriocheasmr]

@@danifernandez.g also,i don't think you are ugly and no one should bully you for your appearance, that is not what i'm going for here 🤍

[@chaimaeseyyar1079]

Hey i came from TikTok live yeahh we are here to watch you anytime , love you and thank you for helping us 💗🫶🏻✨

[@danifernandez.g]

@@chaimaeseyyar1079 love you thank you for being here ❤️

[@hannah-g1n]

Im from tt live💋 Dani thank u for being yourself💕 i also dont understsnd haters i guess we are just better than them😕 we need to do what we want to do and after some time they will just forget, we should also its not that easy but trying is also a win u are beautiful not only from the outside but on the inside which is way more important 💕🫶

[@danifernandez.g]

Love you so much thank you for always being here ❤️