How to Speak So That People Want to Listen | Julian Treasure | TED

[@MrDuck313]

He didn't use any "uhm"s or "eh"s in his speech. Absolutely amazing.

[@chawbok]

At 5:10 but aside from that... Lol

[@rodrigosegura2400]

+chawbok He noticed... look at his throat 5:13

[@RonCorwin]

Amazing? That stuff is basic. Somebody didn't listen to the exaggeration portion of this talk. ;)

[@SilentMover95]

+Niek de Gier Must have taken some time to master his speech. I need to learn this too.

[@AntiComposite]

+SilentMover95 A good way to avoid filler words and increase effectiveness is to make eye contact with whomever you are talking to.

[@MysticsofIndia]

this is the shortest 9 minute that have passed. What a life-changing speech.

[@mingyuhuang8944]

Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement. Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢

[@WHITE-pz8sv]

Dead A** channel! Lol

[@VSlingshot-xzx]

Ikr! I thought it had been like a coupla mins n the video ended!

[@amenotejikara7589]

meh

[@arnavtete7793]

sadhguru!

[@meditationrelaxclub]

If everyone took an extra minute to think before speaking, the world would be such a better place.

[@theb166-er3]

I wish to remember this one ... But there would be damn looooong cues everywhere. Not to mention all the phone calls that start with one-minute silence :D

[@nomadequipment2177]

@@theb166-er3 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣good one❤

[@oldhounddog57]

As my father used to say... make sure the brain is engaged before operating the mouth.

[@eleventothesun1158]

And the most awkward place lol

[@sangto5385]

Eleven to the sun it will not be a problem as long as you’re not judging someone else.

[@prking2582]

It's 2025 but still people come here to learn that how to speak ! Great job !

[@vbvehiclesbehaviour2227]

wow i just remembered i had the same profile picture in my old account

[@swine13]

"Theres nothing wrong with silence, is there?" This man has obviously never been to dinner with my family.

[@Mina-qi1pc]

😂

[@musabrehman4587]

lol

[@mdrakibuddinrakib3579]

Lol

[@kokokorea6794]

"There's nothing wrong with a LITTLE BIT of silence, is there?" Well he said a little bit and you left it out completely.... it entirely changed the meaning...

[@fullofbullets58]

LMAO!!!

[@ondermetu]

4:06 " If you are wishing somebody's well, it is very hard to judge them at the same time. " impressive expression, so real.

[@ScorpioHR]

Judgment is good but only as a starting point, that should follow with "but I can help you...." Unfortunately, most judgments are about: now go and fix your own problems. Like, if I could do it alone don't you think I wouldn't do it already?!

[@Marmer]

Agreed. I need to remember this.

[@romanstryzhyk9156]

It was written in Holy Bible two thousands years ago, interesting fact. All new is forgotten old

[@ScorpioHR]

@@romanstryzhyk9156 New Testament was written by Greeks and they were "smart ones" and philosophers of the ancient times. Problem is, Romans highjacked it and changed the meaning and turned metaphorical story to literal ones, it became the story of materialistic magic. But then Revelation was added, like the fairy in the Sleeping Beauty altered the witches curse, so did they added "Apocalypse" part in it. But Apocalypse literally mean "unveiling", finding something that was hidden - the hidden meaning and the truth that if you take story of Jesus as metaphor and not literal story of a man who died and then zombified, you still can make it all fit and meaningful. Like plot twist gives you the key to re-read the book or re-watch the movie and go through the same path but now there's completely different meaning. And that key, actually, is what brings the "destruction of the world as we know it" because once you see you cannot unsee and nothing is the same any more.. New Earth, but just from the cultural perspective, we'll still have to stop the bullshit we're doing in polluting everything around us. Because once we destroy the Paradise on Earth, there'll be nothing to enjoy. As for the "gnashing of teeth" (anger) and "weeping" (sorrow) - that's reserved for the people who'll realize that everything they thought they knew - was a lie. Unfortunately, Kubler-Ross realized anger comes way before sorrow, so you'd be stoned before they get to the "sorry" part. Better leave it as it is then, in a century it won't matter anyway. Everyone's back to the pre-birth realm, the void.

[@isaacm4268]

@@ScorpioHR I found that description very interesting. ...Also, confusing, but maybe that's because I am sleep deprived.

[@Bitter_Biscuit]

Notes and summary for myself The seven deadly sins of Speaking 1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about someone who is not present. People will not trust you because a while later, you will gossip about them. 2. Judging: It is hard to listen to someone who consistently judge you during a conversation. 3. Negativity: Having a negative viewpoint on things. 4. Complaining: which is mere viral misery. Could be on anything, politics, sports, or the weather. 5. Excuses: Not taking responsibility for our actions and being a blame-thrower 6. Exaggeration: Drawing an imaginary image and inflating stuff excessively. It can get to the point of outright **lying**. 7. Dogmatism: stating your opinions as if they are facts without consideration of an evidence to support your claims. In other words, Bombarding people with biased opinions on a certain topic. - Foundation of powerful speech (HAIL) 1. Honesty: Being clear and straight. Not using deception and lies. But using brutal and unnecessary honesty could hurt people. "Honesty tempered with Love". 2. Authenticity: Being yourself and not imitating a non-genuine persona. "Standing in your own truth". 3. Integrity: Be your word. Do what you say. Be trustworthy, and take responsibility. 4. Love: Wishing people well. No judgement. - Toolbox of Speech (Voice) 1. Register: Talk from your chest, not the nose or throat. "We vote for the politicians with lower voices". People associate depth with power and authority. 2. Timbre: The way the voice feels. "Rich, Smooth, Warm, like hot chocolate." It is a skill that can be trained. 3. Prosody: Talking with enthusiasm, having a rhythmic voice, and not being monotonic like a robot. Avoid repetitive prosody as if every statement was a question. 4. Pace: Talk normally and slow right down to... *Emphasize*. Talking fast or slow at the right time is key in conveying your point. 5. Silence: A powerful tool to bring attention. Should not be filled with filler words such as UH's and UM's. 6. Pitch: To deliver an idea or ask a question and being understood. (The caps-lock of speech) 7. Volume: The quieter the better in bringing attention. But don't be too quiet all the time and don't be a broadcaster too. Pay attention to your loudness. - Warm up the toolbox of voice 1. Arms up, take a deep breath and sigh. 2. Lips: (BA BA BA) 3. Lips: Horse sound 4. Tongue: Exaggerated (LA LA LA) 5. Tongue: Roll an R (RRRRR) 6. The siren (WEEEE [High] yoooo [Low]) Speaking is one part of the puzzle because having a good conversation also depends on being a good listener. Edit: Reconstructed the phrasing of the point of dogmatism. Thank you for all the beautiful replies.Happy to make your day a bit easier :)

[@MyLegsAreKindaLong]

tbh thanks I was looking for a comment like your

[@tiemcan9679]

You are an angel

[@niyantasarkar]

May god bless you

[@Bitter_Biscuit]

Thank you all Happy to help

[@donalddeluxe6407]

THIS IS GOING TO HELP! Thank you!!!!

[@InvestorsGuidebook]

10 years has passed... and this video still remains one of the best speeches of all time

[@hospitalcleaner]

"People prefer voices which are rich, smooth, warm like hot chocolate" Julian said, knowing his voice sounded rich, smooth and warm, like hot chocolate.

[@pyaesama]

This is so funny

[@hospitalcleaner]

thanks bro haha

[@patzchan1900]

Yah that "see what i did there?" 🤣

[@RuneKatashima]

That whole section is him proving it. He is literally implying he trained for that voice.

[@sangamharsolia5069]

Exception : Severus Snape

[@lusamafatman1517]

His speech is like his head. Clean and smooth

[@mateagalic1378]

😂😂😂😂

[@glebecalligraphy]

Underrated comment

[@shinekirti]

Bro went personal😂

[@blue1111-oh5xq]

how can a person do compliment and assault at the same time

[@mustafaabdirahman5012]

your comment has prosody as well.

[@gilsukim]

Four things I learned from watching this talk 1. "Seven deadly sins of speaking to avoid" 1) gossip -> I need to work on this sin 2) judging -> I need to work on this sin 3) negativity -> I need to work on this sin 4) complaining -> I need to work on this sin 5) excuses 6) lying (embroidery, exaggeration) 7) dogmatism (confusion between fact and opinion) 2. what I need to say: four powerful cornerstones of speech to make a change in the world c.f. "hail means to greet or acclaim enthusiastically" 1) H: honesty (be clear and straight) 2) A: authenticity (be myself) 3) I: integrity (be my word) 4) L: love (wish them well) 3. how I need to say: tools to play with to increase power of my speech 1) register: e.g. if wanting weight, lower pitch of voice 2) timbre: the way voice feels e.g. breathing, posture 3) prosody: rhythm (e.g. not monotone) 4) pace: e.g. slow to emphasize 5) pitch: e.g. make pitch high or low 6) volume: e.g. louder to emphasize 4. exercise the following before making a presentation 1) arms up to sigh out with ahh 2) lips with ba ba 3) lips with brrr 4) tongue with la 5) tongue rolling an r 6) siren from we to aww

[@neuralnetwork17]

Gil Su Kim You made a summary and shared it with everyone. You must have been the nicest kid in class when you were in school. (Or, now that I think of it, maybe you still are. I don´t know your age.) Thank you, I appreciate it.

[@gnouveli]

:( _when I speak by action, then people only able to listen by perception_

[@SearchBucket2]

+Gil Su Kim Do all of that Gil and you will have become a robot!

[@Gottenhimfella]

+Gil Su Kim I reckon he missed one: Defensiveness (and I did wonder if the list should include fake humility/the apology reflex, but I suppose that comes under Lying, with a hint of Excuses)

[@realniqqa101]

Thank you angel of God. Note taker

[@psgaming_443]

anyone here 2024😂 ?

[@ikraali172]

Yeah hbbi; nd commenting, he said its had to listen when they’re negative but for me its had to talk to them.

[@jovanventer1308]

Yeah man

[@rumitlepcha3601]

Yes

[@IshanLodh]

Yea bro

[@alishaansari1138]

Yes 😂

[@no_budie]

He such a good speaker. I like the way he spoke and his confidence. I love his speech

[@countmein5164]

Did he just influence such a large group of people within 10mins to make them stand and do some warmups like that? He proved his technique to be true. Amazing!

[@TheFogLakeshore]

Wow it's so amazing. People from all around want to hear and interact, they come and sit in silence with others to hear someone elevated on a stage with an electrically-amplified voice. Lo and Behold, they are listening to the person on an elevated stage with an amplified voice! IT MUST BE A MIRACLE!

[@abderahmanedrai2122]

Its easy to do that actually

[@mingyuhuang8944]

​@@TheFogLakeshore Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement. Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢😢😢😢

[@vaxerpl]

He's like adolf h

[@ChristinaDunlap100]

Not one time did my mind wander or drift away. This was pure excellence.

[@nanab3959]

Same here hope you're ok

[@rjun152]

mine did on the NEGAtivity

[@carolinaquirosduran3447]

​@@nanab3959 😢

[@deanmutusva2796]

🙈 Me reading this comment in the middle of watching the video

[@Jinna_00]

Yes...what you say is true

[@salmaimtiazsabri]

I don't know how many times I've watched this one in the course of 10 years. It's simply amazing!

[@ayaankhan5624]

Thank you for the great info, my takeaways: - Things to avoid: - Judging - Excuses - Gossip - Dogamatism - Complaining - Lying - Negativity - HAIL to greet or acclaim enthusiastically H - Honesty → Be clear and straight A - Authenticity → Standing in your own truth I - Integrity → be your word L - Love → Wish them well - Voice Register - Speak from the chest → Depth = Power and Authority Timbre - Way your voice feels → Rich-smooth-warm - Train your voice - Voice Coach - Breathing and posture Prosody - SIng song → Meta language - Monotonic tone is boring - Make it livilier with changing up the tones - Repeatative Prosody coming up Pace - Pace up - Slow down → Emphasize - Silence Pitch - High and low pitch signify different meaning Volume - Vary volume according to purpose - Warm Up Exercises Arms Up → Deep breath in and sigh out Aaaaahhhh Lips → Bupp Buppp Buppp → Brrrrrrr Brrrrr Brrr Tongue → La la la la → Thrrrrthhrr → Champagne for the tongue Pitch Weeeee - Oooooo

[@Arjunkc99]

5:58

[@jessicasherif4510]

Wow thank you. 😊

[@diane5140]

Thanks a lot!!!

[@orchidlover5137]

Thank you! Imma write this in my notebook

[@dishabhuptani8544]

thank you so much

[@Efalstrup]

4:01 "Tempered with love, honesty is a great thing." What a powerful statement; so, so true.

[@wowkolkata2189]

Great one. From last 1+ month am struggling while writing my resume sweet and short. And see how he has completed such a big topic in just 9 min. Oh simply outstanding.

[@mathieublake1670]

The Dont's Habits to move away from -- Seven deadly sins of speaking: 1. Gossip 2. Judging 3. Negativity 4. Complaining 5. Blame-throwing (Excuses) 6. Embroidery, exaggeration --> lying 7. Dogmatism (my way or the highway; conflating fact and opinion) The Do's H.A.I.L -- Four (4) cornerstones of powerful, change-making speech H - Honesty: Being true - straight and clear. A - Authenticity: Be yourself. [Standing in your own truth.] I - Integrity: Be your word. [Doing what you say.] L - Love: Wish them well. Toolbox (the voice) - Some tools Register - (P.s. Depth is associated with power and authority.) Timbre - The way your voice feels -- rich, smooth, warm (can be trained!) Prosody - the sing-song, the meta-language, the root 1 of meaning in cnversation. Pace - including silence (don't have to be filled with ums and ahs) Pitch - to indicate arousal, etc. Volume - excitement (loud), attention-grabbing (quiet) Warm up your voice! 1. Arms up, deep breath in. Sigh out. Lips: 2. Ba-ba-ba-na 3: Brrrrrrr Tongue: 4. Exaggerated la-la-la-la 5. Roll an RRRRRR 6 The siren - Weeee (high)... awwww (low) [Repeat] The only one if able to do only one.

[@richardparker9091]

Mathieu Blake thank you very much!

[@AppleSmashers509]

Lmao that last bit

[@mathieublake1670]

@@richardparker9091 You got it.

[@drshaloamarafath8899]

👌👌👌 thank you so much

[@hairyputter5363]

Careful, he's a Hero

[@IKY94Zac]

Now this gentleman here cuts right through the chase, I usually dislike long introductions to the real subject. A lovely lecture indeed.

[@Chimpmanboom]

Iky Scars cuts right TO the chase

[@NabeelAhmed-ln3fw]

Iky Scars here cut??

[@bernardomoreira]

Iky Scars exactly my thought in the first 10 seconds

[@LukzaFactory]

SP95 ntR Intended ! Hahaha

[@159753smith]

Iky Scars hence his ted talk topic

[@aeronaut7346]

Imagine someone being late and walking in at 8:49

[@BTanya-rj4gv]

Omg😂😂😂❤👏

[@Ender11037]

*Goes to check sign* "Is this the "How to start a cult" talk?"

[@first_last-]

Imagine someone being late and walking in at 8:30

[@MohammadAli-eu8uf]

OMG

[@twentytwentyfiiveen]

Omg lol hahaha

[@adrineyanukhyan3121]

Julian explains how our words, tone, and delivery shape whether people truly listen to us, emphasizing honesty and vocal variety. It made me realize how often I speak without much thought, and I’m excited to start applying her tips to see how they change the way people respond to me.

[@MicahBuzanANIMATION]

If these types of interpersonal skills along with mindfulness meditation were taught in schools, we would live in a much more sane world. Intelligence isn't just about memorizing facts.

[@kazonikz]

That's true man

[@MatthieuAmherst]

+Micah Buzan Yup :) Therapists would be out of a job.. and the world would be so different. I wonder at the possibilities

[@trpessoa]

+MatthieuAmherst That would be a real problem for status quo...

[@wellesradio]

+MatthieuAmherst Actually mindfulness meditation seems to be what is being called the third wave of therapy and is becoming more popular every year among therapists. Some are even saying it could overtake CBT. I've found both CBT and mindfulness to be very useful. It's a great tool for therapists, so I don't think it will put them out of a job. Remember that they work to help people, so many of them would do well to spread the word.

[@Abulous1986]

+Micah Buzan Couldn't agree more

[@coffeewithkyle1911]

Vocal Exercises begin at 7:50 : 1. Raise arms above head, take a deep breath, sigh loudly. "AAaaaaaaahhhh." 2. Warm up lips."Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop." 3. Blow Raspberries. "Bbbbbrrlllthhhhh." 4. Exaggerate LA's. "LA. LA. LA. LA. LA." 5. Roll an R. Like champagne for the tongue. "RrrRrRrrRrRrrRrR." 6. The Siren. The WE's are always high and the oo's are always low. "WWWEEEEEeeeeeeeeeooooooowwWWWEEEEEeeeeooooooooowwwwwwwwwww." I enjoyed writing this.

[@Mor4dracoRules]

CoffeeWithKyle lol I am sure you did

[@yyeeye9]

CoffeeWithKyle I listen it every morning

[@priyadharshini3941]

CoffeeWithKyle h

[@bravitarey]

Glad you did it!!! 😂👌🎊🎊

[@leamaytcalingo]

😂😂😂

[@OHMyResistance]

I can just imagine a bunch of people applying for a job position, all gathered outside the boss' office going: "RRRRRRRRR" "BA! BA! BA! BA!" "WEEEEEYYOOOOOOOWEEE"

[@Itsab1234]

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[@yveltal7012]

that's hillarious=))))

[@hmmm4758]

dewie 🤣

[@sarilangakhusi1350]

😂

[@stephenlakin1828]

yes well that's why you would find a quiet place to practice I would hope lol

[@carlosj.sanchezfalquez]

Anyone here on September 2024🔥🔥👀

[@АйжанТалиббаева]

Yeaah😊

[@Klasik_Abuja]

Yes

[@ozukalumiracle4803]

Yeaaa😂

[@JagdeepSingh-ls1ch]

Yes

[@Vickey-x5b]

Yes i am.

[@dr.alan.niemies]

One of the best 10 minutes I spent in my life using KZbin.

[@zmaska]

+Alan Niemies REAL TALK respect

[@paulden3158]

Alan Niemies Suggest u watch more useful vids like this then! there certainly are plenty of them

[@_harsshh0780]

⭐ really helpful

[@santoshraja2000]

"If you wish people with love its really hard to judge them" , its absolutely true . I try to do this everyday . No matter what wish people well and you will find yourself free of all the negativity. And a smile from that stranger will make your day

[@neolam2362]

Very true! Heroic opportunities don't cross our path very often.

[@raeighnisha428]

A blatantly spurious assertion.

[@pavnisingh-ep6vl]

Just like ur comment made me smile😊

[@footangnanglaaggg2827]

he sound so professional. i did the warm up a minute in lobby before job interview. i passed but requiring psychological test.

[@ArsenalsJack1992]

footangnang laaggg hahaha. xD

[@Insighttutors]

Now this is some powerful lesson and 41 million viewers made a choice to listen wow even most of us did what he asked even behind the screen this is power of word 👏👏

[@cherrysatin730]

I felt like the video went for 2 to 3 minutes. Came to the realization that it was 9:59 minutes long.... This man wasn't lying.

[@mu9608]

He speaks so clearly, even I can understand almost whole words

[@hersheymalacomaid2331]

Yes it's likE mE

[@LKonstantina915]

i feel like youtube recommendations are personally attacking me

[@CalixLuv]

😂 same

[@emperorqin114]

lol

[@stephaniecogonon8214]

Same😂

[@JustViolet626]

This time around they're just trying to help because it cares about you.

[@selenachannel2782]

Hahahaha in fact it's attacking all human beings!

[@madry380]

Forced to watch this video in order to improve my English skills, but now I'm grateful for my low-English-skills.

[@javianjohnson8746]

This is a really good demonstration on how you can be more impactful when talking to people. I sincerely feel like I just learned a whole lot

[@cherylzaccone9685]

It's useless when you are surrounded by people for a lack of a better word "idiots"

[@listenupmusicpeeps]

I had saved this to ‘Watch Later’ for quite sometime now, but this morning, while still in bed, I had the sudden urge to watch it, and I am so glad I did. I now know why I have problem with getting people’s attention when I speak to them. Most of this applies to me, I put my hands up. I am grateful for this video. It has done me an immeasurable amount of good.

[@ichundmeinjayjay]

"How to speak so that people want to listen" - Guy at 1:25 "sleeps"

[@Anu-YT394]

Damn you're attentive af

[@rehithkrishna543]

😂

[@ДубанАсаттилдеУулу-у4м]

Strange) I don't wanna listen to him too)

[@nathangreen6286]

j j noticed that too🤣🤣

[@se6586]

I’m fuckin crying my guy was slump

[@RoselyneNiyo]

This is really helpful. I have once used some of the tactics but without knowing the full set. I think that I must repeat this video before each speech I need to deliver. May God bless you!

[@klashenkoff633]

I like his head it is shining

[@axeaclick]

Shining so bright i couldnt focus on the talk

[@mahakala]

lubed fucking head

[@vksherlockholmes]

His head is brighter than my future

[@JodBronson]

" Head Polish " - They sell " Bee Bald! 😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️

[@ragingbonercontrolcentre]

Cut it off and take it home- it's what I do

[@nitahudson343]

He is an incredible professional speaker. I thoroughly enjoyed this talk!

[@bawlstars7857]

same here! I also really love Andrew Solomon's talk about depression. Both him and Julian are professional and impactful speakers. :)

[@chaoswitch1974]

How am I the only one who finds his voice grating?

[@kingzeus36]

Conversation and speaking is truly an intricate art. The mastery of it takes discipline composure and consistency, among many other things. I now take every single interaction I have, whether it be a physical interaction or via any digital format text messaging, etc. I take it as a test for myself every time. I then rate my conversion based on how well I applied this great information to work on all my weaknesses each time I strive to do better than my last interaction. How to correctly apply this information is key. Thank you for sharing this information with us all. To anyone reading this comment, I really do wish you all the best. The more we practice, the better we all become so start now and take action immediately speak light and positivity all day every day. Children of the light stay close to all those who speak and live life positively.

[@temenow]

AWESOME 👌

[@amberfaille394]

I’d love to live in a world that sounds more beautiful. Adorable video. Thank you.

[@ysa7823]

I assumed this would be your basic talk on vocal coaching, how to carry and conduct oneself in public speaking. But he went to a deeper level and emphasized how we should speak about goodness, light, and positivity ❤ A concise message that hit the mark precisely ❤

[@SweetSagan]

He absolutely demonstrated all of his techniques. Amazing.

[@royalhighness8383]

I'm learning more on the internet than I'm learning in school

[@oliviagreg5298]

"if you don't find a way to make money while you sleep you will have to work hard until you old".

[@tnhat88]

same lol

[@bencyber8595]

36 million

[@bencyber8595]

how come

[@فاطمةمحمد-ل7ت]

same

[@P4nzerk93]

Julian Treasure sounds like an adult entertainer name. This is the best Ted video I have seen, and the only one I wanted to see twice.

[@OjashShrestha95]

For your first acclaim, I accord too.

[@teacher_mindset]

Here in 2025 with 3 speeches coming up. Grateful to have found this talk✨😇

[@ChristinaCxo]

"Understanding would be the norm" I love this and I live for this! It's so important to be present and always go into a conversation with the goal to understand as much as you can and if you can't -> accept.

[@tommykiki5840]

That was the fastest 10 min of my life. This guy is amazing.

[@jaredkoehn1626]

+Tomas Petkovski That's what she said!

[@dannysunwantedopinions]

I’m very pleased to see almost 30 million views for this video. I feel like healthy communication is a dying art form.

[@saifalizaky4112]

Treasure identifies several common issues that prevent people from feeling listened to when they speak, including: 1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about those who are not present. 2. Judgment: Forming judgments about others while they are speaking, which hinders true listening. 3. Negativity: A pessimistic attitude that obstructs constructive communication. 4. Complaining: Habitually complaining without offering solutions. 5. Blame: Failing to take responsibility for one’s actions. 6. Exaggeration: Using overly dramatic or inaccurate language. 7. Dogmatism: Mixing facts with opinions irresponsibly. Solutions Offered Treasure presents four pillars for effective speaking: 1. Honesty: Speaking truthfully and clearly. 2. Authenticity: Being oneself and speaking with integrity. 3. Integrity: Saying what you mean and meaning what you say. 4. Love: Wishing the best for others, which creates a positive atmosphere in communication. Vocal Techniques Treasure also shares several vocal techniques to enhance speaking ability, including: - Adjusting pitch from high to low to add strength to the voice. - Using intonation and rhythm to capture the audience's attention. - Employing silence strategically for greater impact. Conclusion Treasure emphasizes that if we want our voices to be heard, we must pay attention to how we speak and the environment around us. By applying these principles, we can create a world where effective communication and mutual understanding are commonplace. NPM: 24083010004 Name: Saif Ali Zaky Ashiblie

[@eyecamd]

I have never taken notes throughout an entire, first watch of a piece. I kept pausing and rewinding every couple moments to do so, it was honestly a fantastic speech.

[@BernasR.Ekinci]

You‘re not the only one 🤓

[@amirshahzadshahzad3418]

Cam,Would you like to be my friend?

[@jeehyesa5160]

Before mentioning his highly fluent speech I could feel how confident he is about himself. What an amazing speech I have ever seen! Love it!

[@jenjenwithyumi99]

His head is brighter than my future.

[@_HsHProd_]

+Jen Tan (Jaye) lol this comment made me die of laughter

[@anayamehta2000]

+Jen Tan (Jaye) Great example of ... if you wanna gossip, be funny ;-)

[@HiddenWen]

+Jen Tan (Jaye) I might quote this in the future xD.

[@5uper5ubscriber4]

+Jen Tan (Jaye) You made my day XD

[@zukodude487987]

+Home Sweet Home Productions Lol this comment made me lie of daughter

[@BarbaraFinley-e9v]

This is one of the most helpful tutorials I’ve watched!

[@Brumfield85]

This was 10 minutes of my life well spent.

[@organicgrow4440]

9:58*

[@kasperimanninen]

Not the best 10 minutes i wasted of mine

[@Itsab1234]

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[@surajgupta8930]

ted talks never disappoint ...

[@djshockafrica4330]

Yes, I am a better person for it

[@レオナルドディカプリオ-s3c]

人を惹き付ける話し方 このタイトルに惹き付けられてきました。

[@dianaagiselle]

I’m a teacher and these are essential in being an engaging and effective teacher. Great talk.

[@NurillahTomo]

I, ma teacher and these are essential in being an angaging and effective teacher. Great talk

[@MakeDreamComeTrue]

Very Informative 🙏 Thank you so much 🌹🌹

[@darrelldavis9841]

You don’t know how much I love and appreciate this video because I definitely wish the world was more lively so that way depression will decrease

[@Buthyful]

I had 4 cats sitting around me, I tried to do the Wee waaa and they all ran hehehe :) Very beautiful talk.. Thank you

[@rosacutejenniely8339]

+Buthy ful What's the Wee waaa? oo.....00

[@rosacutejenniely8339]

+Buthy ful Oh I get it now.... haahahaahahah!!! You're hilarious! xP

[@Buthyful]

+rosacute jenniely heheheheheh it also made me laugh loudly when they freaked out :-D hehehe

[@gmoschwarz]

+Buthy ful eruditefeline.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/crazy-cat-lady-color.jpg

[@Buthyful]

+gmoschwarz Hahahahhahahhahahahahahaha

[@jenkinomusic]

0:13 Intro 0:33 7 deadly sins of speaking 2:45 4 positive/powerful elements in speech 4:22 The toolbox 7:44 Vocal warmup 9:05 Conclusion

[@GalioKOH]

Gracias !!

[@Jinna_00]

Yes

[@muaazmohammed7205]

Not all heroes wear capes

[@e.r.4447]

Some of us are born leaders!

[@chatgpt4135]

🎉

[@VigneshPillaiOfficial]

My girl sent me this video ❤❤❤am so so grateful to her !

[@ednafrench6269]

I was a professional pilot back in the days when carbon mikes were the only choice. As a female, I learned to lower my voice’s pitch in order to activate the carbon crystals. Discovered that I also got a lot more respect and was heard better when I used the deeper richer timbre. Also stopped ending all sentences like a question. That really eliminated a lot of confusion with air traffic control.

[@dakotaridgek9]

I know nothing of “carbon mikes”. Or activating carbon crystals. Do tell!

[@Kalilah555]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I worked with school age children, and was led by The All Knowing one to learn about these styles and forms of communicating. Really does make a difference!! Especially when shaping and cultivating a young humans learning experience. SHALOM

[@channel-so2st]

The technical term for ending sentences like a question is "upspeak".

[@skippy6462]

When I was learning to fly (PPL) was told that I sounded like a mouse by my second instructor. I'd already done 13 hours with my first instructor. Lost my confidence to fly as easily as that. (1st instructor left as got a job with an airline). He was all the qualities needed to be an top class instructor because I flew my first solo under his guidance. My 2nd instructor wasn't and I gave up flying sadly. How to speak made all the difference to me. Will always appreciate the first instructor for an amazing life experience. Second instructor can't take that away.

[@EinSofQuester]

@@channel-so2st You mean "Upspeak?"?

[@christineparma166]

I love that quote: "Complaining is viral misery." Yes! It infects and debilitates the host (speaker) and the receiver alike. Absolutely amazing talk!

[@Oleg_Ivanov.]

But sometimes you need to complain a little😄.

[@Altamisal]

@@Oleg_Ivanov. I don't know. I haven't been able to stop it completely, but I feel that focusing on what we don't like just makes it bigger in our experience.

[@zain4019]

oof this hits close to home now with a real virus on our tails

[@zehansun1751]

1:25 *How to speak so that people want to listen* the man with grey hair: sleeps...

[@keerthidammu7700]

Hahah...wat a observing skills...😂😂

[@Taurusandzagros3]

lolz

[@Flo-sw4hz]

maybe he was already dead and the staff forgot to carry him away :D And an old tale said that the man in grey is still lying in the hall until now

[@KA-iv1ol]

He was writing down notes

[@potusumanbibingka]

indead. 😂

[@ParadoxBassCube]

1:24 that guy. So perfect

[@Felixkeeg]

It costs like 6000$ to attend, lol That nap better be worth it

[@Felixkeeg]

Aeonian Sybaritic Yes, it does www.ted.com/attend/conferences

[@Felixkeeg]

Aeonian Sybaritic please elaborate

[@michaelbryansumner]

The old man with glasses at the right sleeping

[@michaelbryansumner]

Maybe he's the kind who internalises his listening?

[@AnthonyMonaghan]

Nice definition of Love....wishing someone well. I like that.

[@samwallaceart288]

Yeah; that's what love is. I can't believe you millenials; what with sleeping couples in bed that are weirded out with saying "I love you" like it's perverted; damn kids need to get off the lawn that is the English language and metaphysical concepts of altruism.

[@libby359]

LOVE this. 10 minutes of my life well spent.

[@Sassy_classii]

What a terrific speaker ! And such an important topic .

[@VikramTV_FitnessFreaks]

Clear , Crisp and Concise ..... Kudos Julian

[@-skyandrainbows]

I just wanna share something that happened to my voice, to see if others experienced this too. I used to have a higher pitched voice. But through the years where I have done a lot of self education, I saw that my voice was changing. It was going deeper. The more I found myself and felt better in this world, the lower my voice got. I literally have found my own voice now haha. Now when I speak I feel more calm, and people listen to me way more! 😊

[@KoalaHtet]

Good for you.

[@ZenAndPsychedelicHealingCenter]

You're either hitting puberty, or your inauthentic way of forced speaking is starting to damage your vocal cords.

[@hihelloitsmo]

omg same!!! i notice it most when i laugh, it comes from my chest like he mentions in the video.

[@dravenvise5833]

I haven't found my voice yet sadly but this comment gives me hope

[@saifayesh3385]

*Walks into the boss's office to ask for a raise* Boss: "Yes, How can I help you?" Me: "PRRRRRRRRRRRR WEEEEEEYOOOOOOOO WEEEE"

[@amit-mishra]

😂

[@elikembright6954]

😂😂😂

[@bheemareddy5699]

*boss impressed* *gives promotion too*

[@Daniel08353]

He said *”before”*

[@FromPeloToYourHeart]

😂😂😂😂

[@floralabie3410]

Not me preparing for a speaking competition with this. Loved it

[@DanielMelogpi]

This is one of my favorite talks of all time. The presentation itself is a testament of these techniques

[@LetsLearnwithvigneshnow]

I really loved the way, the idea for this talk, begin with a problem, suggest a solution, offer Hands-on experience for the audience. Beautiful sir, thoroughly enjoyed every frame of this video. The activity towards the end, I believe many of us will be a different speaker after that. Thank you for this.

[@leticiachiok8057]

This is an awesome talk...direct to the point, of being a conscious speaker. So love the tips and techniques. He's a great communicator, he got me glued.

[@juandeleon5798]

I remember this was the first video I saw when I was learning English, now I can understand pretty must of it , almost everything what a huge difference, I'm pretty happy now

[@mRrsx3]

How did u learn it stronger? Do u have any tips to improve or extend my english skills. In my opinion i need to learn more vocabulary to understand the most phrases exactly. The most time I understand the sense, but i would like to get everything

[@abdulkadirozek600]

How long have you been learning for English?

[@minatohirano]

Instead of must it’s much

[@RAYFANDURIANJAM]

Here's a detailed scenario incorporating the points you provided, focusing on a workshop setting: **Scenario: The Power of Voice Workshop** **Setting:** A bright, airy community center room. Chairs are arranged in a semi-circle facing a central space where the workshop leader, Anya, stands. A whiteboard displays the words "HAIL" and "Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking." A small table holds a pitcher of water and glasses. **Participants:** A diverse group of 10-12 adults, ranging in age and background. They represent various professions and levels of public speaking experience - some are confident, others visibly nervous. **Workshop Leader:** Anya, a charismatic and experienced communication coach, exudes warmth and authority. **Workshop Flow:** **(1) Introduction (15 minutes):** Anya begins by engaging the participants with a thought-provoking question: "Have you ever felt unheard or dismissed? How did that make you feel?" She facilitates a brief, respectful sharing of experiences, highlighting the universal desire to be heard and understood. She then introduces the concept of the human voice as a powerful tool for change, giving examples of both positive and negative uses of voice (inspiring speeches vs. hateful rhetoric). **(2) The Seven Deadly Sins (10 minutes):** Anya presents the "Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking" (gossip, judging, negativity, complaining, excuses, exaggeration, dogmatism), explaining each sin with relatable examples and encouraging participants to identify their own weaknesses. She emphasizes the importance of mindful communication and the impact of these sins on relationships and personal effectiveness. **(3) The Four Cornerstones of Powerful Speaking (15 minutes):** Anya introduces the "HAIL" framework (Honesty, Authenticity, Integrity, Love). She elaborates on each cornerstone with practical examples, emphasizing the importance of balancing honesty with kindness and empathy. Participants are encouraged to reflect on how they can integrate these principles into their daily communication. **(4) The Vocal Toolbox (20 minutes):** Anya introduces the vocal techniques (register, timbre, prosody, pace, pitch, volume), explaining each concept clearly and demonstrating how they can be used to enhance the impact of speech. She incorporates interactive exercises: * **Register:** Participants experiment with speaking in different registers (high, low, mid-range), noting the different effects. * **Timbre:** Anya guides participants through simple vocal exercises to improve their timbre, focusing on breath control and resonance. * **Prosody:** Participants practice reading a short passage with different prosodic variations, emphasizing the impact of rhythm and intonation. * **Pace & Silence:** Anya demonstrates the power of pauses and varying pace to create emphasis and build suspense. * **Pitch & Volume:** Participants practice modulating their pitch and volume to express different emotions (joy, sadness, anger). **(5) Vocal Warm-ups (10 minutes):** Anya leads the group through a series of gentle vocal warm-up exercises (humming, lip trills, tongue rolls), emphasizing the importance of preparing the voice before speaking. **(6) Q&A and Conclusion (10 minutes):** Anya opens the floor for questions and provides personalized feedback to participants. She concludes by reiterating the importance of mindful and powerful communication, emphasizing the potential for positive change when people speak consciously and listen attentively. She leaves participants with a handout summarizing the key concepts and exercises covered in the workshop. This scenario provides a structured and engaging learning experience, incorporating both theoretical knowledge and practical application of the concepts. The interactive elements ensure active participation and promote a deeper understanding of the material.

[@erwars8195]

I think my neighbour saw me doing the warm up. Time to move

[@abhishekjiwtode2322]

Er Wars 😂

[@ankitadas6358]

Happened to me too😂

[@jasminpurani3479]

Hahaha...

[@gradiotown]

LOL 😂😂

[@victherocker]

*inserts Mr. Bean's face as he is discovered doing sth weird by other people and tries to turn away

[@dannymacoi2287]

The trick is, whenever you're talking to people have confidence in yourself don't look shy, look into people's eye, don't bow your head down a minute unless you checking the shoes or down-wear. But first hit your throat, Mnmn Mnmm... •••Men speak with a little base in it, avoid speaking to fast. •••Ladies speak calmly men automatically like that. Avoid, Eh, ehm, etc in the middle of your speech. Just pause and continue with the next word,then everyone in the audience will automatically see you as an intelligent person subconsciously. It's a human trick.

[@euphoria156]

True. Also, How about just saying the TRUTH? Which DOES include Gossiping, Judging etc. How abt emphasizing that ppl who ONLY tak positive are Pretentious Liars and are NOT Truthful. Like this man- Julian Treasure could be one of them. I am sick of those "Wanna be a Good Human Hypocrites" !! Just be Truthful

[@dannymacoi2287]

@@euphoria156 You're right, it's in the confidence bracket...Who ever speak the truth is confident and does not care about what anyone thinks. As long as it's the truth, it's done. *Some people also lie boldly tho

[@anuoluwapoobipehin4894]

'Men automatically like that'🤣🤣🤣 i don't really care🤣🤣🤣

[@dannymacoi2287]

@@anuoluwapoobipehin4894 Same with some men being attracted to other men. Things don't seems all that okay with all humanity ,people got preference.

[@ksxjjxdx5890]

So Elon Musk is not intelligent because he stutters while talking?

[@vinayseth1114]

1:24 The guy sleeping lol!

[@thesoccerpr03]

lol guess he wasn't listening

[@vinayseth1114]

thesoccerpr03 haha TED talk fail :P

[@FlameableMusic]

Perhaps! Or he's writing down stuff, which some of the people do there

[@MashrufKabir]

lolll

[@abineshzor]

Yea he he ha a

[@Stay.positive.or.f_off]

The only best thing insta do is recommending us these typa videos.

[@darja25]

I wish this was actually true. But in my humble experience to many people I come off as a boring individual simply because I refuse to gossip yet love to talk about things that matter. Most people like trivial talks, they can only connect to one another by bad mouthing someone. I have a sister who isn't a bad person,but man does she love to gossip and talk about stupid, irrelevant things. And yep: she has tons of friends and acquaintances.Which is not something that I can say for me. But I don't expect the whole world to like me..i'm just surprised how undervalued some values are nowadays.

[@cohavideos]

Darja, it sounds like your sister may have what you call many "acquaintances", but not many friends. People who live off of the negative energy of gossiping about others are parasites and are likely very unhappy internally that they do these things to save face. Please do not think yourself inadequate because you may have less outwardly appearing " friends". Your conscience knows that you are doing the right thing, and that is what truly matters. Your conscience is the greatest friend, and though it is hard to understand at first, befriending that conscience will bring you much more joy and happiness than trying to attain happiness through many fake and superficial friends. I speak of this because of my own personal experience, and in mine, I am 100% confident that I am more satisfied and happy as an individual by knowing in my being that by ignoring the petty and immature urge to gossip, I know that what I am doing is right. This surely brings more happiness than fitting in to the cult of the world which is so wrong and in high numbers, but also very convincing.

[@darja25]

cohavideos Thank you very much for your opinion, even though I share it and live by it, it is sometimes so hard to be 'alone' in these values/opinions.. But I agree, one should never ever have to change oneself just to be like others and to please them. In the bottom of my heart I'm happy that I'm not like others whose only goal is to talk trash, but I wish there were more people that think like we do. Wow now I sound so vain. :) Happy Christmas!

[@cohavideos]

darja25 it definitely is hard to stand firm in your convictions when everyone around you is telling and shouting at you that you are wrong. That is why it is so important to a) make spiritual or loving friends who accept you the way you are, and b) to constantly check in with your 'self' and to interiorize with meditation and introspection, also making sure to tell yourself that you are "the captain of your ship and the master of your fate". Enough people around us may have their sails so lost in the winds of delusion that they can only make themselves feel better by talking trash and bringing others down. If almost everyone around you is doing this, it is important to have at least you making sure to tell yourself that you are loved and what you are doing is right. It may sound vain, but the truth is that this world is very confused, and though vain it may sound, it is much better to do good for yourself and others knowing within that you are right, instead of becoming frustrated and wishing the world was better. Be the change, said Gandhi. Meditate on that. And then be fearless about being that change. It is scary to be alone sometimes but it is the path of all successful people who have forged ahead in all worthy pursuits of life. If you are interested in getting help on that path, look up SRF (Self-realization fellowship). The founder, Yogananda, brought many ancient scientific techniques of Yoga from India for help on the path of right action and meditation, which it sounds like you are doing very well on so far. I wish you the best darja. Merry Christmas, and hope you have great holidays coming up.

[@darja25]

cohavideos Thank you on the advices, but the only sailor of my ship and master of my fate is JESUS who is the only path and way. Congratulating me Christmas and at the same time promoting fake religion such as Yoga is something where I draw the line on this conversation, because I don't believe in your philosophies, even though they may be well intentioned. They are simply based on something fake that is called self realization or new age philosophies which is a false doctrine. No man can save himself without Jesus. "Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." John 14:6 I hope someday you realize this. Blessings!

[@avedic]

darja25 lol....welcome to reality. Bertrand Russell once said, *"The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt."* On top of that, those in the status-quo mentally-dim majority are actually *_turned off_* by intelligent conversation. Sadly, this is the norm. Luckily, there's a solution: Only associate with highly intelligent interesting creative ethical people. : )

[@enigma3297]

Me to my crush: hey I wanna talk to you about something *Starts excercising my voice in front of her* Her: leaves in silence Me:*still excercising* wEeEEeOOoO

[@AlexAnder-rv1gu]

LOL!!! You were supposed to do that BEFORE she came over

[@jasontighe3927]

I think the point is to do the exercises in private. That is, make it a morning ritual. Just as you would exercise your body.

[@RuzoOwzy]

@@AlexAnder-rv1gu They normally come uninformed. Suddenly she is there.

[@leegyamfi8211]

Crazy.......

[@jeffrynaguirre5153]

LOL

[@JeonDaisy-zk4fw]

Yeah,I have finished active listening,I will take an IELTS exam soon,guys,wish me luck 🍀

[@james.atkins88]

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[@edward.abraham]

Amidst stock market fluctuations, precision in analysis remains crucial. Renowned financial outlets such as Bloomberg document instances where individuals have earned significant gains exceeding $250k within brief timeframes. Despite prevailing market uncertainty, those who navigate adeptly and identify favorable opportunities can still capitalize on potential wealth accumulation.

[@andrew.alonzo]

If you're not well-versed in market intricacies, seeking advice from a consultant or investment coach is the optimal route. Personally, consulting a professional has enabled me to navigate the market successfully, resulting in a portfolio growth of approximately 65% since January. While it might seem straightforward, I truly believe this remains the most potent strategy to enter the field effectively.

[@Believer292]

I have been thinking about how to grow my reserve by at least 40% or more within months. I will be grateful if you can give tips or anything on how to make good market picks and how I can get my portfolio diversified and balanced in order to meet up my target.

[@andrew.alonzo]

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[@rebecca_burns14]

@@andrew.alonzo I appreciate this advice, and I'd like to mention that "Camille Alicia Garcia" comes across as exceptionally well-informed. Upon discovering her online profile, I carefully reviewed her resume, educational history, and credentials, and I must admit, they left a strong impression. I took the initiative to get in touch with her, and I've successfully scheduled a session.

[@LearnWithHaJarhgs]

You are a great public speaker. You did something great that emphasises the fact that you are a great public speaker: letting the audience participate.

[@dtcarthy]

Watching this video is one of the main reasons I nailed my dream job interview, thank you Julian!

[@EnchantéTrinity-z1p]

Really helped me in IELTS speaking

[@JeffreyRufino]

I love this!❤😊❤ I love seeing people be able to speak confidently, and to use their voice in a way which is both powerful, but also compassionate and empathetic.❤😊❤ I love Julian's point about how when we're speaking, we can really use our voice to create an environment of warmth and connection - by changing our delivery and tone. I love how that is able to help people feel so much more understood ❤😊❤

[@Onepieceditzyt]

😅

[@ChuPhuongQuynh-s7r]

Hấp dẫn! 💪📢

[@leftyfourguns]

What's amazing to me about this is that the exercises he has the audience do at the end are the exact things my 1 year old nephew does all the time. He's literally teaching himself how to talk!

[@robbedewolf294]

This was truly a great speech, clearly the speaker knows and uses his theory very well. Everyone in the aucience was interested, everyone watching the video probably as well. I really wonder what would happen if more people learned and used this theory, not only for big speeches but also for normal conversations. As the speaker said, the human voice is very powerful, and I think the world would be a better place if more people knew how to use it correctly.

[@و0....2225]

قُلۡ هُوَ ٱللَّهُ أَحَدٌ (1) ٱللَّهُ ٱلصَّمَدُ (2) لَمۡ يَلِدۡ وَلَمۡ يُولَدۡ (3) وَلَمۡ يَكُن لَّهُۥ كُفُوًا أَحَدُۢ (4)

[@lifelessons1594]

Communication is about human connection. Being able to communicate effectively is one of the best life habits. Good listening is among the most important principles of great communication. It is common for most people to listen not with the intent of understanding, but with the intent of replying. Listening with the intent to understand is to fully understand that person intellectually and emotionally. You ensure that you understand by repeating back to them what they said and mirroring their emotions. By doing so, you help them structure their own thoughts and feelings. This type of listening can lead to truly open and trusting communication.

[@ultrasettings480p4]

in an interview: Interviewer: Why should we hire you? Me: wwweeeEEEEEOOOoooohhhhh

[@kirubakaran6194]

Introverts are not shy, they wanted avoid negative peoples and the people's they don't want to meet and talk❤.

[@MsJanetWood]

I'll listen to this later.

[@rainaesthetics1523]

Janet Wood ironic 😂😂😂

[@jacobcloak529]

Thanks for the update

[@ayoubhamimid829]

underrated comment !

[@CombraStudios]

It was in my 'watch later' for two years

[@edwardkent]

i wouldn;t if i were you janet

[@arthurkyriazis9497]

I was a speech & debate champion in HS & college (Harvard) and then a debate and speech coach at the HS and college levels for more than 30 years, as well as a founder of urban speech and debate. Everything Julian Treasure says here is exactly what high school speech teachers try to convey to their students each and every day; policy debaters try to persuade by facts and logic, whereas events like oratory involve rhetorical methods (some of which are mentioned in the talk) for persuasion. These essentially are known to us as LOGOS and ETHOS; the best speakers can not only control register, timbre, prosody, pace, silence, pitch and volume, but also can start a speech with a hook, an introduction, a topic sentence, 2-3 arguments, surrounded by rhetorical flourishes (three words starting with the same consonant is a famous one) a conclusion and a closing hook. I'm lucky enough to have been teaching the last few years standardized tests, and getting across how to write, or how to speak, is a delight with young kids. They should all watch this You Tube!

[@kimilivingston2521]

My daughter is a freshman in HS and is taking honors classes. We just watched this today for her homework project to study Pathos, Ethos and Logos. It was a pleasure working side by side with her. I am a little concerned because she is so focused on performance and the end goal of attending Brown University that I sometimes feel she is missing the value of effective communication and how empowering that can be in infinite circumstances. Do you have any words of wisdom that will honor her enthusiasm and allow for her to get her hand on the heart beat of the moment. I am only now going to college at age 54, so I'm a bit of a late bloomer and she is sure to pass me up academically.

[@KoalaHtet]

​@@kimilivingston2521I'm just 29 and not a communication coach. But I do agree with your view on how a good communication is more powerful and important than a single instance of getting into a good university. Great speakers may or may not have finished their college but they can get many great things done by simply communicating. Wars can be stopped, business deals can be brokered, true friends can be gained, experiences can be learned. To have such skills under your belt means you can walk through the world without the riches or the certificates but do not suffer a single day. I'm sure you're an amazing parent for seeing this point for your daughter. You don't need other people, just use your own words to teach her.

[@hectorn.6137]

My experience is that most say they want honesty, but you then realize that it's only true if it aligns with their opinions.

[@Real_MisterSir]

People want honesty, but they don't wanna have to respond to that honesty if it doesn't fit their interests.

[@najmasultana3736]

Yup.. so true

[@VladislavDerbenev]

@@Real_MisterSir people don't want anything if it doesn't fit their interests by definition of sanity

[@joetuipulotu440]

Love this talk. My friend and I actually did the exercises (lol) and I must say, they will come in handy in the future. (We will do it again)