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@theresabriant64992 ай бұрын
I LOVE YOU 2! In a wonderful 40 year marriage but years ago when we were going through hard times felt God said if you think it is hard in your marriage you have no idea how hard it will be if you leave. I'm so thankful I stuck through the hard times.
@helenkamya62572 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so authentic about your journey! Encouraging and empowering podcasts 🙏🏾
@mammenaley2 ай бұрын
Why do I feel so refreshed everytime I listen to your podcast.....😊Respect
@purpletiger1112 ай бұрын
I want you both to know that I am ROCKIN' with you! I have been praying for you both ever since the news broke. I am so glad that OUR GOD is a healer and a restorer! Listening to your story and your honesty truly blesses me! I have been married for almost 31 years, and I can attest to the fact that marriage is not for the weak! 😂 But I can also testify to the fact that Our Daddy is faithful! I know He has chosen you both for such a time as this. Continuing to keep you lifted up and sending lots of LOVE! 💜🦋
@userone38022 ай бұрын
Laura, you’re like a breath of fresh air xxx
@amymacmillan56732 ай бұрын
I like that Carl humbly talks about the situation. It's good to see. Anyone can change!
@lindaparker34432 ай бұрын
I’ve enjoyed listening to the journey that you both have been on. May God continue to heal and bless you and your family.
@canelevatecafe13882 ай бұрын
These convos are soo healing. I love these. Such truth. I went through a divorce 16 years ago but never healed...
@melodyedwards68322 ай бұрын
This is THE BEST podcast! I've shared it and it was so impactful, I'm listening to it a second time. THANK YOU for this!
@legitguy31192 ай бұрын
This has been amazing thank you both for jumping out and living grace in real time
@justincaseIspeak2 ай бұрын
Man I really feel for you guys. The world was against you from the beginning. Bless you
@hoolialynn262 ай бұрын
I'm giggling so hard at the fact that Carl decided to keep the hat. Thanks for sharing this! This is such a powerful and needed ministry. God bless you both.
@SeanLawn712 ай бұрын
Me too! I have the b-side app but I came here to read the hat hater comments. 😂
@dnmccurry2 ай бұрын
This is so good! I’ve pulled out of “ministry “ just to sit and build my relationship with Jesus. I’m putting the Word into my mind.
@arleneselby62022 ай бұрын
So proud of both of you & your family! Love listening to your podcasts from South Africa. Keep up the good work.
@elizabethwollmann10992 ай бұрын
Love this ( margin ) so much wisdom ! 👏🇨🇦
@KarenH82 ай бұрын
I mean this in the most respectful way, he needs to let her finish speaking. She should def start her own pod. Much love to both of you.🩵
@helloooooo052 ай бұрын
I agreed! he is so used to speaking that sometimes its hard to filter through what comes out of habit and what is real vulnerability, not rehearsed. I love them both so much i continue to pray over them
@CortishaSkinner2 ай бұрын
I wish he would too.. I remember him saying that she usually doesn’t do a lot of talking but even when she does HE CUTS HER OFF EVERY TIME 🤦🏽♀️
@rosamariabelisario66012 ай бұрын
Jumping in here with the most respect as well. He has talked in the past about having ADHD. One of the traits people with ADHD have is to interrupt people while talking. I have ADHD and I try as hard as possible to not interrupt people, but my husband knows that when I do it doesn’t come from an unkind or lack of self awareness place. Im not saying that’s the reason why he does it, but it could be. I know that is something I particularly battle a lot with my ADHD.
@nrb19892 ай бұрын
@@rosamariabelisario6601omg I was just coming to say the same thing!!! It's usually me cutting my husband off because he's going on and on and on. They've been together for awhile so it's probably a combo of him speaking professionally all these years + having ADHD....and Laura's so used to it, so she doesn't really notice. I think that's the most important thing here. If she was fighting to be heard and it was painfully obvious, then I'd says yall are 1000000% right. I've seen some men intentionally try to dominate their wives like that in front of other people and it's super scary. This doesn't look like that...to me!
@bolaadeokun37902 ай бұрын
This is deep Keep healing guys Praying God will perfect all that concern you both in Jesus name name God is a specialist in SECOND CHANCE, HEALING AND GRACE
@joeytalksaboutlife2 ай бұрын
I love you guys ❤❤❤
@oneildonaldmusic2 ай бұрын
“…the social media community is so prevalent with people commenting…because they have so much time because they aren’t doing anything.” CARRRRRRRLLLL!!!! 🤯🤯🤯
@debbierogers22442 ай бұрын
I am very proud of the both of you!!
@tiffanyagyarko62952 ай бұрын
literally been thinking about the whole thing more is not always better!!
@aali98andall2 ай бұрын
Love this podcast ❤
@jennyc51002 ай бұрын
Great job!! ❤❤❤
@coffeewithchristian2 ай бұрын
Love you guys souch!
@buttercupinteriors2 ай бұрын
Less is more!!! So true! ❤
@onewilmore2 ай бұрын
Good to see this knowing the history.
@Ken-nk5dc2 ай бұрын
Doesn't` matter what anyone else thinks Carl & Laura.Jesus says cool, walk with him. That`s it. We all walking the journey. Churchianity followers might try shoot you down but true Jesus followers will be cheering you on.
@mikis9696Ай бұрын
Toby Lauras answer about finding one or two true friends- HOW do you find the right ones.
@SamuelWagner-hi6qh2 ай бұрын
Have a question: how did this journey affect your faith? Or change the way you view and live faith? I would like to hear more of how much effort you put in in your healing journey and how much of your journey was healed by GOD.
@YarilendTaboada2 ай бұрын
Uufff! Being a Christian for 12 years “more” seems to always be good. But is it heathy????? So good!
@arianeprice31762 ай бұрын
who are the two celebrity pastors you refer to? what about all the instagram ones- duck dynasty etc?
@debbierogers22442 ай бұрын
Who are those celebrity pastors?
@sandra15329 күн бұрын
Who are the TWO celebrity pastors?! 😂
@israelzapp60842 ай бұрын
These comments about his eyes being covered.. gross This pod is dope
@Sincerelydessy2 ай бұрын
Do you mind not chewing gum when you do the podcast? 😅
@therealcolorguy3 күн бұрын
He's lost touch with reality
@penskyfile52902 ай бұрын
“Its not my job to change people’s minds” and yet here you are.
@AnnaliseCisar2 ай бұрын
Oh me, oh my. He is not begging for anyone to believe anything he says and I am beyond thankful to see a pastor who has fallen to GET BACK UP to shine a light on things kept in the darkness for mass amounts of people going through the same things. Because he’s got a pod cast he’s trying to change peoples minds?! More like humility for his mistakes and ability to be real and raw in the face of adversity.
@penskyfile52902 ай бұрын
@@AnnaliseCisar I guess it’s a trust issue and yes, thats on me. I’ve watched a lot of his content since he started posting again and Im getting that Oprah interview vibe again. Its not my place to judge and demand anything from him but if he’s gonna come out, then he’s gotta stop sounding like how he used to from the pulpit.
@michellehoutchens85062 ай бұрын
I can't watch the last two videos because his eyes are covered. I need to see your eyes to see if you are genuine or if you are hiding.
@crisespinosa82192 ай бұрын
What? If you’re sitting there listening for hours just watching to see any sign of honesty in his eyes, stop wasting your time. Go and watch someone whose eyes are glued to the screen instead lol
@SeanLawn712 ай бұрын
You got a gift! You should join a circus. 😂
@artsofliving2 ай бұрын
Please stop chewing gum during your podcast presentation…..super distracting!
@SusiePerez-d7o2 ай бұрын
Hall Dorothy Jones John Martin Elizabeth
@marijevisser3952 ай бұрын
Carl\s gotta lose the gum... the smacking into the microphone omg.
@ValerieGarcia-y2c2 ай бұрын
He doesn't let her speak. He takes over completely. It's annoying and uncomfortable to watch.
@blackchickadee12 ай бұрын
He loves hearing himself talk he’s good at it but let Laura talk !
@Stacie_Sheree2 ай бұрын
You know what interrupted this? The fact his talking and his wife is scrolling and staring at her phone. It’s likely pod related but it’s so distracting as his talking and all I can see is the phone in her hand and eyes down.
@carov64042 ай бұрын
You need to heal before you try to heal others. You do t need to change anyone’s mind. You need to change yours. That’s the only one you can change is your own mindset. Trying to change other’s peoples mind is manipulation.
@krisb.53272 ай бұрын
You were being paid a huge amount. It doesn't seem like you were being used. You got a huge paycheck. You had volunteers that worked for free.
@AnnaliseCisar2 ай бұрын
Yikes. Volunteers didn’t work for him… he was never the boss and so many people in control of him down to the very things he could or couldn’t preach about. Just because someone is paid in a substantial amount does not mean they can’t be used and that can be applied to other careers aside from a pastor. Preaching 5 plus sermons in a day is utterly insane and is absolutely a form of taking advantage of someone including numerous other ways. This seems incredibly judgmental.
@raquelcolon57852 ай бұрын
I am not going to pretend I know anything about both of you. Yes, the internet is crazy with people talking shit. My observation has been, that you do all the talking. I wish that your wife had more of a voice.
@llllllt2 ай бұрын
it's very distracting that you don't see Carl's eyes. Hard to watch.
@reinventlife55362 ай бұрын
Can somebody tell Carl to STOP wearing his hat please!!!! Bro, I want to see your eyes. You don't need a hat to be cool man.
@roadcaster98012 ай бұрын
Been loving your conversations but kinda bugs me to see you talk to each other with phones in hand and on table. Sorry to be negative, but hopefully constructive.
@roadcaster98012 ай бұрын
Alright, commented too quick. Your questions are on the phone. I get it. I think there's a Proverb about speaking to quickly. I'll go read it.
@evelyntaylor2 ай бұрын
It's so hard to like you guys for being with Mike Todd. He's one of the worst pastors of our day who had a public platform n the way yall don't see that is just WILD
@ronniechacon39092 ай бұрын
I have no skin in the game here, if you don’t mind me asking, why is it that you think that about Mike Todd?
@RCGWho2 ай бұрын
@@ronniechacon3909Have you seen his controversial sermons?