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Jealousy is a natural emotion and may be triggered by a variety of insecurities.
But when jealousy becomes morbid or pathological, nothing about that is normal.
Morbid or pathological jealousy can wreck hovoc on your life for many years.
It can be a very toxic bind in your life.
Pathological jealousy is the technical term in psychology to refer to an individual who is experiencing a jealousy that can result in inappropriate behaviors that could negatively impact your life.
In this live chat, I discuss the psychology of jealous parent-sibling coalitions.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 intro
1:40 siblings really don't get along? Parent's too?
3:32 the drama triangle
5:47 Interpersonal Jealousy System (with visual), episodic, & dispositional jealousy
15:42 Affective, cognitive, and personality state of the jealous parent
24:06 PARENT JEALOUSY CAN BE SEEN IN THESE WAYS
34:45 acceptance of having jealous siblings and parents
38:00 the cultural influence of jealousy (African culture)
39:55 can siblings "outgrow" jealousy?
43:04 should you call out a narc sibling or parent who is jealous?
50:09 WHAT JEALOUS SIBLINGS LOOK LIKE
57:14 WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Video (research & further information):
1. Differential parenting and sibling jealousy: Developmental correlates of young adults' romantic relationships
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti...
2. The relationship between parental role expectations and sibling jealousy: the mediating effect of first-born children’s role cognition
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti...
3. Parenting Characteristics and Callous-Unemotional Traits in Children Aged 0-6 Years: A Systematic Narrative Review
link.springer.com/article/10....
4. Heritable and non-heritable pathways to early callous-unemotional behaviors
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti...
5. Heritable and Nonheritable Pathways to Early
Callous-Unemotional Behaviors
ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/...
6. The Heritability of Callous and Unemotional Traits
www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
7. Mommy Dearest movie • Mommie Dearest
8. Lindsey Gibson Self-care book
Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self, and Live with Confidence a.co/d/6WYf9kZ
9. Aspects of morbid jealousy
www.cambridge.org/core/journa...
10. The relationship between parental role expectations and sibling jealousy: the mediating effect of first-born children’s role cognition
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti...
*MY VIDEOS ON SIBLING JEALOUSY:
1. • "HOW DO I LIVE WITH FA...
2. • "IS MY Sociopath SISTE...
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*Good definition of sibling jealousy:
"Jealousy is defined here as an organized complex of emotions, cognitions, and behaviors that result from a threat to or loss of a beloved relationship to a rival (Volling, McElwain, & Miller, 2002)."
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*Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases.
If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline suicidepreventionlifeline.org/.
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