How to Truly Understand Your Partner - Re-Parenting - Part 37 - Relationships - Part 3

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An important ingredient of a healthy relationship is that each person invest time and energy to "get" the other person - to understand them at a deep level. Most people from Complex Trauma have never experienced this while they were growing up. This talk is full of practical tools and lots of questions that you can ask someone to help you get to know them better.
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[@Oaktreealley]

All week i look forward to hearing: “well welcome to another Friday night.” Wish i could visit in person. Cheers, from below the border.

[@astronaut6542]

It's so beautiful what tim says at the end about real spirituality and facing the shadow. It resonates so so much in me, I always thought that i was a looser because I am not enlightened enough and have to deal with all this crap, but deep down I know that this is not true.

[@Thatsbannanas-d8c]

That’s so beautiful. Excellent awareness.

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Yes. 🙏🏻

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

We must face our shadow.❤

[@alexxx4434]

This questionnaire... I bet most people with CPTSD don't know themselves as well.

[@ChrisOgunlowo]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@Thatsbannanas-d8c]

It’s Friday Night.❤️Tim❤️Kim❤️hi.

[@RockingRebelYell]

I want to get my partner so badly asking questions has been beaten out of me. Its so hard because I can to a degree but the risk of it sounding like a soulless interview ruins the mood to getting to know someone that playfulness feels locked up in me till the dynamic is I fucked up and I'm trying to fix things it hurts.

[@millypiecuch7109]

My X answered my questions with few words and then didn’t want to talk about it. He never was interested in asking me questions like these. When I offered information about me he later used it against me.

[@queenprotein]

Same

[@stefaniakonstantinidou981]

​@queenprotein then they r probably narcissists

[@yassinezouari9338]

Iam really get shocked that my self cant answer those questions xD

[@JMSsssssss]

THAT. IS. ME.

[@robertdeskoski9783]

She couldn't make up her mind with many of these questions. This would cause her high anxiety.

[@theoracle5265]

You know what really blows my mind is that your daughter says she has CPTDS, I doubt you and your wife said she was stupid on a regular basis and hit her with the heal of shoes, hangers, belts, electric cords. And would say she'll never amount to anything, now I know your not perfect nobody is but how often does she look in the mirror and examine her role in what she calls drama.

[@Thatsbannanas-d8c]

Probably often. That’s why we are here. To check the relationship with ourselves, Is the work. You don’t have to beat a kid, a stare or your absence of the parent although silent it damages a kid.

[@savitaanchan1120]

Best thing not to marry or try to understand any one n stay single 😅

[@BenzFarm-o9o]

Ladies, if you gave it up to your dude after one or two dates or even months he'll NEVER make any effort to get to know you. You gave him the one thing he was after and now he thinks he's done enough and won't change! Get out of the hookup culture and start getting to know your partner before having sex. Everything this guy is saying won't work if you've already done it. His fake church theology won't help either...